Things My Ex Did And I Stayed - Story Time

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  • @mjspyt7777
    @mjspyt777727 күн бұрын

    Sometimes I feel bad about being single for so long and not being in love, but these videos tell me I've dodged hella bullets.

  • @dantayhylton9938

    @dantayhylton9938

    27 күн бұрын

    Girrll 😂that was me too, 😅 my coworkers didn't like me because I couldn't relate to there relationship problems. 🙃 they made fun of me not having a man and now I'm happy I don't have one.

  • @kellysnyclife663

    @kellysnyclife663

    27 күн бұрын

    Exactly!! I didn't date much!! And recently started dating and realized these dudes are horrible and feminine......I ain't miss out on ish

  • @juliet4521

    @juliet4521

    27 күн бұрын

    Good chance all you’ve missed out on is trauma 😂 I was only in one relationship and that was enough for me to run for the hills, I’ve been celibate and single since 😂😂

  • @thandondlovu5392

    @thandondlovu5392

    27 күн бұрын

    Same whenever I think I should be dating video's like this Pop Up and I'm like Nah... I'm Good.

  • @WhooRaee

    @WhooRaee

    26 күн бұрын

    Girl I swear I be feeling like that😢😅

  • @feliciajenkins5041
    @feliciajenkins504127 күн бұрын

    This is why I no longer feel bad for lonely old men with lots of family. These stories are why they're abandoned. They spend their prime treating those people that love them like shit then wonder why there's no one in their last days.

  • @unicorn73212

    @unicorn73212

    27 күн бұрын

    Agreed I wish that weren't like this either these are the same ones that call themselves nice guys if they were a good guy and they genuinely wanted love they would not wait til there 65 to look for a wife let that sink in that's another reason the 4b movement started women are tired of settling for low effort bare minimum men if that is our only choices just because we had faze in our early 20s and we were more popular then them then we choose ourselves instead because that not fair when you look at it he can have a preference and standards but women can't? And if we don't set standards we still lose? They really need to get there egos in check there value is not actually that high because the only men I've noticed that are picky like that are not someone you'd picture building

  • @unicorn73212

    @unicorn73212

    27 күн бұрын

    I don't either they waste there good years judging women for having sex and being overly judgemental of our appearances but here they are years later still hitting the pole at 40 living in there moms basement and they think there like 20 at 40 that's the laughable part about it they don't actually age that well they age worse then women in a lot of cases because the bitterness and jealousy they have inside them causes them to develop more wrinkles than us and that's why they need rogaine they think they dont have a wall but they really need to stop covering up there mirrors and take a bath while there at it. I believe having confidence in yourself is important but not if you're going to keep lying to yourself and making poor choices for yourself.

  • @lizziethelemon

    @lizziethelemon

    11 күн бұрын

    Exactly, rotten in their youth.

  • @TheSomethingnew1
    @TheSomethingnew126 күн бұрын

    The last one is an enabler because dating a 13 year old is where it should’ve ended. You willingly dated a predator.

  • @recklessmermaid

    @recklessmermaid

    25 күн бұрын

    People are missing that she mentions her own prom… this was her high school boyfriend

  • @dantayhylton9938
    @dantayhylton993827 күн бұрын

    When my ex said his ex was crazy and i stayed. I learned that he was very disrespectful and he never take accountability for nothing.

  • @marzemarcel9529

    @marzemarcel9529

    27 күн бұрын

    Second that. When they don't want to share how their past relationships failed and what part they played in the failure, they're going to do it to you too and add you to the roster of "crazy exes"

  • @ln957
    @ln95726 күн бұрын

    Some of these men should be in JAIL.

  • @dantayhylton9938
    @dantayhylton993827 күн бұрын

    Im not 30 but i want all the woman to know 😂 dont feel bad if a man didn't choose you. Its like being a young women expose you to these crazy men. They are very immature even a 45 year old man.

  • @nat4436
    @nat443627 күн бұрын

    GOD the last girl had a radioactive waste of an ex 😭💀

  • @rn2787
    @rn278727 күн бұрын

    People wonder why I would rather cut my leg off than ever be in a relationship again.

  • @solangesewavi722

    @solangesewavi722

    27 күн бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @marissa._
    @marissa._27 күн бұрын

    This reminds me of how low-lives at school used to call me "jealous" because I was single. I was bullied in school so why would I be attracted to anybody? 🤔 Even now, as an adult, I don't find people attractive. I mean, sure I'd get the occasional celebrity "crush" but even that didn't last long. The point is, I was falsely accused of being "jealous" when I NEVER was and I was basically kind of shamed for being single. People have a way of making single individuals (*especially women*) feel bad for being single and childfree. Singleness and childfreedom is a wholeness and a bliss and a peacefullness that you'll never understand unless you're single and/or childfree. I'm not sure how these ladies stayed and ignored what they consider to be red flags when it comes to males. (*red flags are very subjective and individualized.*) but I couldn't do it. I gotta go at the FIRST red flag that comes up!

  • @juliet4521
    @juliet452127 күн бұрын

    Ok the last girl got zero self respect 🤦‍♀️ thats too much sis I would’ve taken all that to my grave

  • @staciquinton2794
    @staciquinton279426 күн бұрын

    I hope these young ladies take these experiences as learning lessons and never tolerate disrespect ever again. 5-6-2024(Mon)

  • @RescueAlwaysOfficial
    @RescueAlwaysOfficial12 күн бұрын

    When the man goes on and on about the woman cheating, it is likely because HE'S cheating! He just doesn't want you to be doing it too! 🤣

  • @ksis86
    @ksis8626 күн бұрын

    HAHA i could write a whole list from my 3 year college relationship 😂 -on the first date i saw his ID and saw he lied about his age and was 10 years older than me -he told me he loved me after our first kiss on the second date -3 months in he was acting really manic and almost got my phone number tattooed on him -he got mad about the tattoo thing and punched his car window while i was in the passenger seat -4 months in he attempted to off himself bc he wasnt taking his schizophrenia meds (also never told me he had schizophrenia) -blamed me for the attempt afterwards and threatened to try again if i left him -would accuse me of cheating and make jokes about it, i hate cheaters so it wasnt funny to me -removed my photo from his wallpaper and put a celebrity instead because he knew it bothered me -3 years in he still wasn’t working even though i was in college with 2 jobs should have left after the first red flag but i was only 18 when i met him and really thought i could fix him 😂

  • @tea31220

    @tea31220

    26 күн бұрын

    ⚒️🔨 🪛🔩🗜️we really be out here trying to love people to the next level 😩😩😩and when they get on they leave our a$$ for literally any other girl😂😂😂😂😂

  • @DestinyUteh

    @DestinyUteh

    26 күн бұрын

    Wow thank you for sharing sis 🫶🫶🫶🫶

  • @RescueAlwaysOfficial

    @RescueAlwaysOfficial

    12 күн бұрын

    And what were you getting out of this relationship?! What a nightmare!

  • @staciquinton2794
    @staciquinton279426 күн бұрын

    She said, her ex cheated on her with a 13 year old? His behind needed to be in jail. He got a 16 year old pregnant? How old was he? It seems to me that he likes minors. That's an issue. She needs to count her blessings that they are not together anymore. 5-6-2024(Mon)

  • @DestinyUteh

    @DestinyUteh

    26 күн бұрын

    I agree with you 💯

  • @recklessmermaid
    @recklessmermaid25 күн бұрын

    Just a PSA for the non- Americans…. The last woman was talking about her HIGH SCHOOL boyfriend; she mentions her own prom which is a highschool dance. Not that it’s ok for him to cheat but he might have been like 15 or whatever when he cheated with the 13 year old

  • @zackmichaels8749
    @zackmichaels874927 күн бұрын

    I wonder how old these women be and I also wonder why they consider these situations they’re in to be a “relationship”. Genuinely curious as to what women today consider to be a relationship

  • @irianaav.6120
    @irianaav.612022 күн бұрын

    Chile…..mine put a gun to my head, rammed my head to car…it’s alot and I still stayed 😂😂😂

  • @nailahdawkins

    @nailahdawkins

    19 күн бұрын

    Yooo htf is that funny 🤔🧐🫠...!

  • @katttttttpaige
    @katttttttpaige10 күн бұрын

    Dude I win. My ex husband set our family home on fire in a hope I’d let him move into my new apartment I got to leave him. I did.

  • @tp6299

    @tp6299

    9 күн бұрын

    You do win. I thought I won every time I watch these, my stories are the worst... No. You win 🏆

  • @SmileyAdventures
    @SmileyAdventures27 күн бұрын

    Wait why would a woman be her partner’s friends type???? That’s crazy lol! Being called racist because you demand respect? CRAZY! A lot of the women are very young in the video so I’ll chuck it up to that but wow. It’s very sad to see so many young women go through this.

  • @RescueAlwaysOfficial

    @RescueAlwaysOfficial

    12 күн бұрын

    I love that you are traveling the world! How amazing!

  • @RescueAlwaysOfficial

    @RescueAlwaysOfficial

    12 күн бұрын

    Yes, young and very beautiful too. It is sad to see young women manipulated!

  • @CRISSGRULLON
    @CRISSGRULLON27 күн бұрын

    Destiny, love your videos girl! Oof we ladies are telling on ourselves with this one...1. My ex stayed the night at my place. Next day refused to drive me to my job less than 15min away by driving but on the bus I had to transfer 2x so it was 30mins, I couldn't drive at that point. Instead, he walked me to the bus stop. He said it was too long so he drove straight home and he lived 45min away from me. 2. He refused to take a picture with me on a date at a concert event, the excuse he gave was that he wasn't photogenic 😂💀.Mind you he organized this date to get back into my good graces. Then sent me a picture the next day of him hanging out with his boys. Yes I stayed and learned that lesson the hard way. And I'm better for it now.

  • @kellysnyclife663

    @kellysnyclife663

    27 күн бұрын

    Oh fck nah!!! 😮

  • @DestinyUteh

    @DestinyUteh

    26 күн бұрын

    Thank you sis. 🤗 I appreciate you sharing your story ❤️ 🫶🫶🫶🫶

  • @BubzBScorpio
    @BubzBScorpio27 күн бұрын

    My ex was the worst. I had 1st met them at 14 & and they were 18. I moved around and eventually we ran back into each other. Then awhile later we separated again. But we stayed in contact though. It was red flags b4 we started dating but I ignored them. Like she would b in and out the house b4 and during our relationship. So it was a moment where I'm like this mfa on games. I had been going through issues with my fam so I decided to move in with them. This is right b4 we got together. She told me she had hooked up with some bum we both knew b4 she moved in her place. Around that time she'd b all in my face cuddling a laid up on me and we hooked up once. Then almost a year later we move into our new place & they still are outside. And we weren't together still until a month later. I'm a homebody so I kinda didn't sweat her out. I was trying to practice trust. "even though I have major trust issues" I would see like "trick" in her phone, she called me the wrong name during sex and she'd come back at almost 12 in the morning. but I still stayed. They would start arguments & make me leave. Then called me hours later telling me to come home. It was more than 5x 2X with police. I even went to hotel and she ended up there with me. SMDH!!!! I finally left them alone when they locked me out and I ended up in a homeless shelter. I got my own, now for 3 years. Sad thing is they past about a year and a half later.😦 Sorry about the long comment. I could right a book on my life stories . Much love I'm tuning in.🤭😘

  • @DestinyUteh

    @DestinyUteh

    26 күн бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ 🙏 🫶🫶🫶

  • @BeautifulStranger
    @BeautifulStranger26 күн бұрын

    They're so hilarious!!! 😂😂😂😂 10:03 I laughed so hard!!!

  • @juanita_rocksteady2761
    @juanita_rocksteady276123 күн бұрын

    The girl in the bathroom with the bonnet, why was he wearing HER clothes and shoes?

  • @irianaav.6120

    @irianaav.6120

    22 күн бұрын

    Like how big are these dudes 😂😂😂 why they fit I need answers

  • @RescueAlwaysOfficial

    @RescueAlwaysOfficial

    12 күн бұрын

    Cause men of nowadays! 🤣

  • @tamia2125
    @tamia212526 күн бұрын

    make a part 2 plss

  • @Kinksgalore
    @Kinksgalore27 күн бұрын

    7:23 was he gay/trans?

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