One-sided people are the worst. It isn't good when they feign caring about your dreams, and then disappear. It's annoying when they reappear once you are successful. If I don't see reciprocity, I quietly walk away.

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

@@taurahelms3068 thats a fact. They most definitely will pop up on you asking you to support them and give them a shout out when they see you're successful in what they're doing. Its the most fake and randomness about them that irritates me

@Kari_Michele

14 күн бұрын

This 💯💯💯

I'm always glad when people show their true colors. The sooner the better. Thank you 🙏

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

@@Anita-rq9ev same here!

Yeeees! Thank you for allowing God to use you to expose these demonic spirits. You are a true prophet of God . 🙏🏾

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

I'm going to always expose the devil and his tricks

Sis, I have so called relatives who expect me to support what they are doing but will not support me.. I am done with pouring into people who do not pour back. That is not a well balanced relationship. Keep bringing your amazing content!

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Hey sis! I love your attitude about the matter. Reclaim your time! You will get drained supporting many people but they won't even care anything about what you have going on

@Cindi644

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh Thank you. You are absolutely right!

@Kari_Michele

14 күн бұрын

Yes, I’m tired of one-sided relationships too ✌🏾

@Cindi644

14 күн бұрын

@@Kari_Michele Me too!

Social media can be bad, theres some people who spend too much time on here posting their everything about their business.

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

True

This is so true. Once I realized I was always their rent a crowd but there shout outs all over social media were for the ones they had to chase and cheer.

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

@@Bellanaria those are the main ones who could care less about what you have going on. They just want your cheers, energy, money or clout you may have on their platform.

@Bellanaria

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh So true.

So true I have supported some, and no one supported my channel

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Start setting boundaries! When they come at you always asking or expecting your support ask yourself if they have the same energy towards you and your endeavors that you do towards them.

@BJSJAZZYJEWERLY

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh Thanks so much for this great advice

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

@BJSJAZZYJEWERLY you're welcome my sister. It was my pleasure.

I refuse to support people that wont support me including family

Praise God for giving us every means to want one to have the best for oneself as for others! I therefore bind to hell every desire supporting those who are not willing to support one's best interests in my life, the lives of my family, friends, colleagues, neighbours, acquitances, opponents and the body of Christ while bindi g one to desire to support one another one's best interests, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone not desiring to support my best interests, in accordance with this word and ephesians 5:21, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!

This message is a confirmation! 🙏🙏🙏

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Praise God!

There is no need for me to comment. You spoke truth to power on this matter ❤🙏🏾.

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

❤❤❤❤

My beautiful sista, you sooke the truth, I am glad you spoke the truth. This message made a lot of sense to me. Someone that I knew for a long time was trying to get me into a travel business persuading me to join her company to become a muli millionaire to make money. I told her no, I am not interested. She said just said, "Think about it. If you're a child, God, you should not want for nothing. She also menton you should never want to be broke and not have no money. I told this person you're not going to change my mine, and it's a no for me. I told her I put my trust in God! and he supplies all my needs and not man. When I told her that she felt a certain way. She made a comment and said I still want to join the travel business, so think about and pray on it. Long story short, she kept sending me the Zoom link for the travel business even when I told this person she acted as though she did care about feelings. So she got mad and got in her feelings and started texting with a bunch of nonsense. I told her dont text or call no more in a respectful she got the point then.

I'm done supporting/helping people that have the "out for self" mindset. I thought about this message yesterday. Scaling back from those who have a selfish spirit and who give the I want people around me to do good but not better than me kind of vibe.

@missctolbertvoh

14 күн бұрын

I don't blame you!

Amen 💯 thanks for your powerful message everyday ❤❤❤

I had to put my boundaries in perspective. I am nurtured and supportive if you need me to. So, I had to give all that support into myself. Because it's not returned back to me. I stay the same, but i know who to help and fall back from. But I will support when it's necessary 🙏

Happens to me all the time. So I had to distance myself from a lotta people 👍🏾💯

@missctolbertvoh

14 күн бұрын

Same here!

Lawd have mercy...sad but true!

Sis this the one right here.. Aint no power on in Houston but imma listen to this message

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

I appreciate you bro. I hope you guys get power back soon!

Don't share, don't comment, don't engage...nothing!

@missctolbertvoh

14 күн бұрын

Exactly 💯. They don't do any of that but have no shame asking you to like, share, comment or promote their brand and platform. Its insane!

@jamieradiancemoorehead7

14 күн бұрын

@missctolbertvoh this video is definitely confirmation. I will continue to fall back and help those that the Holy Spirit leads me to.

@missctolbertvoh

14 күн бұрын

@@jamieradiancemoorehead7 same here sis. Same!

Always feel those who want to be one sided only want to connect on their terms are very selfish people. I done had too many claim to be for me, I used to give so much time/ giving to them. When it came to reciprocate always fall off. Now, the Lord allowed me to walk alone, I no longer try to reach out. Learn this some ppl want to you to run after them, once they see you can stand on your own either they leave for good or start to have a respect for you.

@missctolbertvoh

14 күн бұрын

Some people are very selfish!

@hopeh1095

14 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh Yes, they are very selfish ppl. God will send the right people who have the right heart to support your business in due timing. ❤️

Exactly that's why I'm about to stop supporting my own race and whoever else after that lol because they don't wanna see a good God fearing masculine black man succeed but always complaining about black men. Done with folks I'm a keep going strong and only show love to who show it to me first from now on. Tired of showing it first like I'm not a VIP myself lol fr

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Keep shining my brother! God will send the people who adore you and support you for real into your life. There are people out here who love you!

@officialdoctv

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh you're so sweet and always keep it real. I believe that. When the time is right. Thank you for the encouragement. I'm a very strong spirited person, but this body gets weighed down from this heartless world.. only sometimes lol ✝️❤️

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Things can get hard having to deal with people who have a negative spirit and mindset. But God always gives you the strength to rise above it

@officialdoctv

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh True. You're absolutely right!!!

I've had these experiences often that you are describing, letter perfect! Ive wondered if they have no understanding of reciprocity? Or if they consciously decide at all times NOT to support you. Better known as haters wanting love back.

@missctolbertvoh

14 күн бұрын

@@derrickmccrimmon442 I think there are just many selfish and self absorbed people out here. They only think of themselves. Furthermore, they may not even like what you're doing but they see it gets attention and traction so they want it for themselves. Hence, why they want you to shout them out and promote them.

@derrickmccrimmon442

14 күн бұрын

You articulate very well, with a very organized thought process. You touch on very relatable experiences for me.

@missctolbertvoh

14 күн бұрын

All thanks be to God

@missctolbertvoh

14 күн бұрын

@@derrickmccrimmon442 I appreciate you ❤

I would love to promote people, but they never want to support you so I don’t do it. I’d rather support a stranger. The people who have some familiarity with you are the worse.

@missctolbertvoh

6 күн бұрын

I think that's the problem. Folks who are familiar with you don't really desire or feel its important to support you.

Hey keke..hope all is well..good video..i stop being extra nice to people cause i dont get it back..most people i use to didnt support me . People jus want energy. Live and learn

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Hey you!!! Thanks!! Thats the thing you come to realize....being extra nice and supportive of others is rarely reciprocated

@exgng

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh facts...

We appreciate what you do❤ it takes a lot. I've had the same experience, and know all to well. Be thankful God gave you a gracious and generous heart ♥. God knows your heart, and those that are worthy of receiving your grace will truly be supportive and grateful. 💯 Stay beautiful ❤ stay strong

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

I appreciate that. God bless you too

I LOVE THIS MESSAGE SIS !! I can also relate!! 💯💯💯💯

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Hey sis!!!!!! Thanks so much. I hope you're doing great!

@zaahire

15 күн бұрын

@missctolbertvoh I am Blessed ,I hope you're doing well also !☺️

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

@@zaahire God is good. I can't complain 😌

you are so funny for this because I just was chatting about how amazing I think it is that they was willing to drain me down but wont let me anywhere near them when I need it in return. its actually making me kind of bitter but I trust GOD fasho

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Don't grow bitter!! Just act accordingly when you see the fake love and expected support from others. You're seeing it for a reason

@destinixshakur

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh it’s so frustrating. This is why I appreciate you posting this because I was just talking to our Father about this and how exhausting and stagnating it’s making me. Bless you always 🙏🏾🖤🫶🏾

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

@@destinixshakur I know how you feel. It can be very frustrating and irritating but you'd rather see the truth of the matter than it being covered

@destinixshakur

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh I’m blessed and glad He’s doing it because the ones He’s been revealing are ones who were VERY sneaky and calculated but GOD exposed their hand. Now everybody scrambling. I can feel our blessings coming sis🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

@@destinixshakur amen!! Most definitely!

I just turn the other way and leave them alone

@rafaelrosado3773

15 күн бұрын

Same here

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Lol!! I'm not mad at you! I totally understand your stance 💯💯

@dennisallen8333

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh I mean well but wouldn’t you get tired of supporting folks who don’t support you?

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Of course I would. Thats why I released this message. You're not wrong for doing what you do once you see how people treat you and what you have going on

@dennisallen8333

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh 😉

WOW this was just on my mind

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Praise God! I knew this message would help some people

True

I agree

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

I had to pull back from supporting many people 💯

@chanettelaing4664

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh same I think since the pandemic it really opened everyone’s eyes

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

Sis that pandemic exposed so many people its not even funny

@chanettelaing4664

15 күн бұрын

@@missctolbertvoh it did that’s what God intended it to be because I shouldn’t even have survived past 2020 and then I realised who really was my enemies what about you?

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

@@chanettelaing4664 WOW YES YES YES!!! I realized how so many people were my enemies and fake friends. A few family members even got exposed! So much that was hidden came out the woodwork. God uncovered some people to me. I didn't flinch though. I took what was shown and turned it into more building and trusting God

Amen sis so true 🙏🙏

@missctolbertvoh

15 күн бұрын

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Thank you for your advice! You are talking very soft and low lol. But yea turn up the mic, please and thank you!

@missctolbertvoh

14 күн бұрын

Hahahahaha you just have to give me a hard time!!! My mic is turned up sir 😂