They actually have a good intention but they are doing it wrong.

@noratikah7983

5 жыл бұрын

They have step mother

@eybayby-dul

3 жыл бұрын

@yonGGeun 드래근신 the stepmom

@egujugapupfh7543

8 ай бұрын

@@noratikah7983 so...its still different than having your birth mom

I feel bad for him. The sisters really don't understand how much harm they're causing.

@joblupata3673

5 жыл бұрын

they took care of him in their moms absence so its expected but they also need to advise him to avoid mixing with the wrong crowd and hitting him doesnt help get their message across to him

@littlehua2005

5 жыл бұрын

Yong Geun Song that was his “stepmother”” His real mother died after 1day giving birth to him..

@littlehua2005

5 жыл бұрын

Yong Geun Song they did watch back

@lemonpie227

3 жыл бұрын

@Yonggeun so what if they call her mom ? No one calls his Stepmom "Stepmom"

@oiawoo9168

2 жыл бұрын

I feel for him, especially with the kids. I sometimes scold my little brother but my sister, my mom and everyone else invalidate my scolding. Now, my little brother belittles me and my parents, especially my mom and my uncles from her side keep on pampering my little brother despite of him being in high school.

To be honest, he's just going to grow up lying more if they continue to do this. It's not helpful to anyone, the best way they can look after him is to explain dangers of things to him and leave him be

@user-gq4it7ye6d

5 жыл бұрын

agreed

@pohordebbarma9224

2 жыл бұрын

@@saraism8698 I'm sure it didn't start with him but through their bullying him

Eunji is naturally an actress, y'all. 😆

@multitrash9945

5 жыл бұрын

Yessssss....hehehehehe

I feel so bad for him but the O.P joke is so funny

@choohah5604

5 жыл бұрын

MC OP yalll * bbyung byung byunggggg*

@misskeithlee6022

5 жыл бұрын

lmao and the host still thinks it's fun wth

@rainbowfish1587

5 жыл бұрын

@@RogueRhiRhi my teeth is yellow and big and if anyone i know knows of the O.P joke I would literally be the new O.P

@plastictaste9423

5 жыл бұрын

Rhiannon This may be for older people, but probably not for this 18 year old. I bet it's just coffee/tea and other food colorings

@MrJuulia01

5 жыл бұрын

I didnt even understand it

His rap was good, with practice he might be awesome. They should stop invading his privacy and putting him down. Goodluck!

That's Sian's future, his noons are going to do the same, getting involve in his business

@siiaaasi6989

5 жыл бұрын

Lmaao

@shakyadilshani6444

5 жыл бұрын

ROFL I though the same and saw your comment.

@cinthykwok

5 жыл бұрын

LOL especially when he has 4 noonas 😆😆😆

@AnitaBantu

5 жыл бұрын

lol

@rexamd6153

5 жыл бұрын

i was thinking the same lol

That German guy is really wise...

The "she gets angry when she watched him eat, but she buys him food as payment" revelation had me DYINGGGGG omggggg 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

If they keep going on like that , he’ll gain insecurities and lose his confidence because they ‘like to joke around’ . It almost sounds like bullying .just because its funny to you doesnt mean its funny to the other party .

i honestly hate the fact that his sisters try to justify everything they do by saying they're just trying to be a good mother figure and that they love him. that is the most toxic thing anyone can do ffs. constantly belittling him and invading his privacy is something a good mother figure wouldn't do, is that so hard to grasp? also, if they really did love him as much as they claimed to, wouldn't they be supportive of his choices and encourage him? to think that everyone was sympathising with his sisters almost the entire time and as they went on about how they're protective of him due to their mother passing away was absurd. hearing the other side of the story is one thing and blatantly siding with someone so toxic is another. i love hello counsellor but this episode was frustrating oof

@aquietgirlcalledsoph739

5 жыл бұрын

kpop idols own my ass I can absolutely agree with you here, their attitudes towards their brother was so childish and pathetic and the fact their kids picked up their mom's habits of slapping him was just so disgusting to me, I honestly just want to hug him because he deserves one

@deuders8574

5 жыл бұрын

when the sisters spoke about "doing it as a mother would", i was in disbelief. they invade his privacy and the eldest sister took 80% of this as a joke. they're so obsessed with him because they know how much of a pushover he is and they think it's fun. they need to focus on their own lives instead of shoving themselves into his. i doubt they truly understood his annoyance and i really wanted to jump inside the screen just to ask them how they would feel if they were in his position. this issue annoyed me so much. if they really wanted him to grow up well, then he wouldn't have ended up on hello counselor. a mother looks for the best in her child, not their discomfort. jesus christ.

@elaineoh3984

3 жыл бұрын

@@deuders8574 I think they don't want to think of the things they did as horrible, it would mean they were horrible for doing it.

@veIvette

2 жыл бұрын

this always happens they always side with the toxic behaviour because it's out of love. All that it's going to do is ruin his confidence and self-esteem.

I guess the 2 older sisters never considered that their younger brother could take the blame for the loss of their mother and feel such horrible guilt for that. They need to be more mature and really caring of him so that he doesn't develop depression or even worse. Maybe that's why they are so passive aggressive and justifying such bad behaviour towards him as "caring" because they hold such a large grudge over his head. They need to grow up and be more responsible by also taking care of their own families, given the fact that they old enough to be married with children. The boy also has a right to his own privacy, and the people he should be able to trust most should respect that. Can't believe people thought it was great to have a laugh at his expense hearing how he got rejected. The way he is treated now could lead to such serious psychological problems and self doubt if the older sisters don't change their behaviour.

He's not a bad rapper, but it would be better if he has another goal that would support this dream of his. This is because you'd never know how long it would take before his dream will come true.

@stuthijha2994

3 жыл бұрын

Yes. He needs to have an alternative career plan to survive. Cause visuals r the main thing in k pop industry

the saddest part is that the sisters are all laughing thinking that they did something while all they did was harassing him

@user-ij5sp4zv5h

6 ай бұрын

theyre not harassing him, theyre raising him correctly

Yikes, those sisters are terrible. -_- Everyone is laughing but I was like heck no. Loved what Lee Youngja Noona said towards the end.

@catch_me_if_you_can6596

5 жыл бұрын

''Noona''

@sbjo

5 жыл бұрын

@@catch_me_if_you_can6596 ?

honestly i kinda feel bad when they laugh

@suzanbae1487

4 жыл бұрын

I swear....I'm seriously listening to his problem and the laughter makes it feel like one comedy show.....the expressions are way over the top too

Okay, are we gonna ignore that he's actually good at rapping??

I feel sorry for him and definitely disappointed with the hosts. They make his concern trivial by not focusing on the gravity of his situation, the privacy invasion, his self-exploration of life. They kept on cracking jokes on his situations with his sisters. It’s obvious from his body language that he has low self-esteem, and if that continues, how’d he fare when he has to face the real world when he gets older? There’s a limit to how concern one should be even in the name of love. Even real mothers teach their kids to be independent.

@heavenlee6464

2 жыл бұрын

This show is not a replacement for a therapist they Are comedians don't think they will take everything serious the show isn't for counseling session the show has said that before people come on the show to try to get others opinions and try to change the peoples ways the show has even talked to doctors and therapists about actual cases and recommended the family to go to them if the problem is to bad in this case The sister have good intentions but are going about it the wrong way

@novy21b

2 жыл бұрын

Their mother died in their young age. They are his sisters, no one teach them how to deal with a teenager boy. Don't compare it to "real mother" It's out of context. Yes, the sisters made mistakes by invaded his privacy & made joke of him. But it's how they show their love to their brother, even it's in a wrong way. Since the sisters knew in the end they both made mistakes, hope they will change their behaviour to their brother.

@heavenlee6464

2 жыл бұрын

@@novy21b it’s fucked up to compare them to a “real mother “ they didn’t get that experiment of being a mother to a boy a teen at that all sisters I know do that to their younger brother where they invade their privacy but without a mother to tell them were they went to far they don’t get it that easily I agree with you

The fact that they are spitting his private conversations in this audience is also wrong. It feels embarrassing

honestly i would be so mad if i was him tho. imagine you bring your concern to this show expecting a solution and all they did was laughing the whole time. like wtf my patience could never

9:54 I love how everyone was giving him their full attention

@moonchild_ash

2 жыл бұрын

Who's he? Is he a actor? His way of speaking is very eloquent.

Sisters like this are THE WORST

@frostrosta3814

5 жыл бұрын

I have same but its my mother but i know why i get so much antenttion from her so i know why the sister want proctect him

@FMKAnimation

5 жыл бұрын

Just bullies

@princesspeach6072

4 жыл бұрын

I personally would just leave. If it were me in this situation.

The lil boy will regret not coming to wonyoung when he's older cjfncn

@isaymamamoo9469

5 жыл бұрын

Huh

@uwuvicton

5 жыл бұрын

Moomoo 19:42

@dropitlol4571

5 жыл бұрын

🚩😂🚩

WTF he was SO GOOD at rapping!!!! hope he follows his engineer dreams and post a couple of bangers here and there

Evertime I hear sibling stories on this show it makes me realize that I enjoy being an only child 😂 Edit: I know it must be hard for them because their mom died during childbirth, but I think his older sisters need to realize that they shouldn't be so obsessed with him. They need to let him breath every once in a while because he could grow up to be hostile towards them for never letting him do his own thing. I also think the oldest sister should spend more time with her husband. She shouldn't push him to the side when he moved from his area to hers leaving behind his friends and family.

@user-ij5sp4zv5h

6 ай бұрын

nah, I can assure you having siblings theres no greater bond in the world

I get that older siblings teasing younger siblings is ‘normal’ to an *extent* But these ladies are grown ass women lol They should’ve grown out of that behaviour by now

Just because of the circumstances it doesn't make it okay to treat him that way. It seems more like they are making him to be the way he is which is what they feared.

Eunji ♡♡ I feel bad for him. His sisters are definitely crossed the line.

they're doing mom 's job and play the sister roles at the same time. the problem is they doing it wrong

"I don't want him to look foolish" well it's easy, don't make a joke out of him, of what he does (rapping, daily life, etc), is that too hard??

This is actually one of the best family I have seen in this show so far. This being said, it's normal that he is at loss. They keep changing roles from older sisters to mothers. Family relationship between older and younger siblings is already particular in South Korea. They all very clearly love each other though, so they can get better. The German guy needs to come more on this show

I understand they want to take care of him and be that mother figure, but theyre suffocating him and pushing him away. Theyre also just kind of lashing out their anger at him...

So, dissing him helps them groom him better? Wow.

itd be nice to have at least one actual professional counsellor who can bring it back after the comedic bits

He always makes fun of him. I feel bad for her brother. She is way to rude. tsk.tsk.tsk.

@kenmasugarbaby1946

5 жыл бұрын

she* lmao

Maybe because they lost their mom at an early age.. I understand his sisters.. They want the best for him.. I know its a bit too much but because they love him and they want to protect him.. Communication is the key.. I hope their younger brother will voice out his thoughts to his sisters

@isaymamamoo9469

5 жыл бұрын

No, they mentioned that their mother is still around

@chaeyeonizone4060

5 жыл бұрын

Moomoo no.. their mother died from child birth.. check it out again.. their mother who is present now is their step mother.. so they raised their youngest brother when they where just 9 and 11 years old

I clicked this video without knowing that eunji is here and I am really a big fan of apink, specially eunji.... So I am really happy to see her here. 💓💓💓

I can kind of understand how the sisters feel. My mom was a single mother while i was growing up so i was the one raising my brother. And now he is growing up to be a nice young man and it pains me seeing him slowly finding his way in this world. And in a way leaving me behind. But i as his caretaker even if it pains me I let him so and choose his way. I cant choose for him anymore. And the sisters need to learn how to let go. And to calm their obsession with him because one day he will be fed up with it and will hate them. So i really hope they really work on their relationship

to make something clear: in Germany you actually are allowed to smoke at the age of 18. They changed the law. Also you never ever smoke with your teachers in school, cause smoking on a school property is forbidden:D (but smokers find their ways:D). Maybe he hasn't been to Germany in a veryyyy long time.

@arsoudarded363

5 жыл бұрын

I´m german and it´s true that they changed the law and you are now only allowed to smoke at the age of 18 BUT from my own experience (I´m 16) you always get your hands on cigarettes that´s no big deal also the majority of people in my age group smoke. And also it is NOT UNCOMMON for students to smoke with their teachers outside the school building. We often do that during lunchtime.

@dolsemiyano

5 жыл бұрын

Wowww the cultural difference between countries.... 😧

@arsoudarded363

5 жыл бұрын

@@dolsemiyano why where are you from :)

@minoriruba1828

5 жыл бұрын

But isn't it bad for health??

@arsoudarded363

5 жыл бұрын

@@minoriruba1828 yes it is. cigarettes can cause cancer and other health problems such as infertility etc. however it is also very likely to become addicted to cigarettes if you consume them regularly and you then tend to ignore the riscs that come with it. don't smoke kids

I totally understand his concern, and he's valid in his feelings, and the sisters definitely need to back off - however, a lot of stories about families on hello counselor often are so depressing, and often lack love. The fact that his sisters love him and care about him is really important. I think this is a concern that can be fixed.

Why being the youngest child so stressful in south korea? Meanwhile in indonesia the youngest feels like the golden child

@heartyheart4651

5 жыл бұрын

You are true in a sense..that youngest child is pampered most .......But on the flip side ..youngest child is most of the times treated like a kid even when he/she is actually grown up and is also advised a lot since he /she is the youngest and is expected to obey his/her elders always

@hanbinex2522

5 жыл бұрын

Bener banget bro

@HKim0072

4 жыл бұрын

Korea has a strict class structure. One of those is age. You follow what older people tell you.

@luna.s9138

3 жыл бұрын

Im from indonesia and as the youngest sibling in my family i get told to do by my siblings so much its annoying lol.

@gummadiswapna7042

3 жыл бұрын

Yaa in India also but older and younger treats well

...kk as an older sister I get it...but she was sitting there laughing at him...at least I respect my younger brother....ugh

@ILoofYou

5 жыл бұрын

C

Hope their Mother is in Heaven GOD BLESS THIS SON WHO SURVIVED His rap is great

All I can say is Minki has to be one of the luckiest younger brother to have older sster. Jung Eunji, you are so amazing sister

I can relate to his sisters..when someone, something is born and we are the caretaker its become easy to be obsessive..and wants the best for them

I can see the love that they have for him , they're seriously like his mom , but they're going at it the wrong way he need his privacy and some respect

That's the problem with the Korean hierarchy system. I find it quite pointless actually. Why should someone listen to another just cos the other person is older?

@heavenlee6464

2 жыл бұрын

Respect of the older even in other places this is said respect your elders and listen to your older sibling the thing is Korean kids have to grow up way faster and into a society you would know nothing about

@viviankate7240

2 жыл бұрын

Is an asian thing. Im chinese. We have that unspoken rule too. But for us, its not that rigid. If i have these two elder sisters, i would just leave.

I don't know why they're laughing.. I don't know what they're laughing about.. it's not funny at all.. poor soul.. ☹

I hope he had his freedom. 🙂 And a bright future.

I NEED more eunji’s acting kskdk

he’s actually a good rapper cause whatttt he is so good! I have one older brother and one younger brother, he is differently a good brother from what we see.

Looking out for your siblings and teasing is normal but not to this extent.They enjoy it and it's horrible to watch them as the don't understand how it's affecting him. You can see how it's bought his self confidence right down. They need to give him space and stop interfering with how he lives his life. He needs to grow and make mistakes on his own or it's not his life but his sisters.

that kid will regret so much for not hugging Wonyong in 10 years. She's like the most popular member right now.

I have a brother whose 10 years younger and I do worry and wish for the best and sometimes I stress about him but realistically he’s 18 now and I have to trust in his abilities.

Gosssshhh his rap is so good thooooooo 🔥

i feel so bad for him,, the fact that his sisters were laughing and not taking the issue that seriously makes me frustrated, it's like they don't even try to understand their brother's situation

he got a good voice to be a rapper. i hope he can debut or smething like that. hes good

be a youngest. it always happened to be like that. my sisters always read my diary and make me save all thing that i need to confess inside of me. make me become scared to express myself more.

@zannatulferdos8107

4 жыл бұрын

Slap one of them very hard out of blue, then start crying like you lost everything

@MysticYusha

3 жыл бұрын

@@zannatulferdos8107 lmaoo

Hearing about their mother broke my heart 😢

i feel bad for him

Yeongja always know what to saym.shes the wise of all

Did an agency contact him after this? he got some rapping skills , he could train and get better

In my country it is very common that your sisters or brothers teasing you specially when you are younger than them, and that i think the disadvantage of being the only brother or sister in the family. Worst if you are the only girl, your brothers are more strict and over protectve. It's like you are in the army. I understand why his sisters acting that way,, thier teasing him as his big sisters and over protectve and strict as a mom since thier mom died too early. one of the MC was right his sisters were croseing the line. They should understand that thier brother is not a baby anymore, he needs some privacy and has a right to choose his own path, but of course they can still give him advice and guide him, not manipulating him.

He’s so adorable 😭

His rapping is pretty good. I hope he can find his dream again.

He raps so good 👌🏼🔥

Poor guy. Hopefully his situation works out in the end. They seem to have really affected him.

im an the eldest sister among us 5 but i nver did what they did to my siblings. despite of the hardship ive endured among us 5 til the point i was the one send them to school til they graduated. but.never in.their life i enterfer or dictate their future. ive let them decide what they want at their best capacity. i was jst their always in support and gave advices when they ask for it

I understand their concern for him but the way they express it the right way to do so

didn’t expect to hear haon’s song but SIS I’M HAPPY

That’s literal abuse and an invasion of privacy. The guy is 18, a legal adult and yet they treat him like a child. Focus on yourself, on your husband and children. Stop interfering with a life that isn’t yours. I understood the smoking part gut cmon looking at his texting? forcing him to cut relationships with people? basically creating fear and trust issued within them, their not helping at all.

At least I think it’s one of the sweetest concerns though like he is trying to understand them and they are trying to be his moms, like at least it’s based on love the we could feel. Cause imagine they are really his mom, that’s basically what moms do you know, I’m not saying what they doing is right but still this one is a lot better than most concerns.

as the first child, I feel the same way towards my siblings especially my younger sister as I am 9 years older than her. its like she's my child and I am really protective of her. shes still pretty young but when she gets older I really want to the best for her and protect her from bad men/women depending on who she dates. being an older sibling is loving the younger ones more than a sister almost like mum but more obsessive.

@BlueMeaney49

5 жыл бұрын

"MORE obsessive"???? You need psychiatric help. She is NOT YOUR CHILD. Get your life together before you try to start dictating to others. Children learn more by EXAMPLE, than by scolding or obsessiveness.

@user-mu4kb4ni7g

5 жыл бұрын

BlueMeaney49 thanks!!!

@heartyheart4651

5 жыл бұрын

@Joy Nct .... have to draw a line between showing affection and invasion of privacy......Even mothers cant interfere too much once children grow up.There is a limit for mothers also.because children though born of them and actually different individuals. ..You as a sister can definitely advise her but you cant constantly keep watching what she does with whom she he mingles etc If you are too much interfering in her affairs then perhaps she will try to emotionally move away from you.

@neuzabili1688

5 жыл бұрын

joy Nct true.. I feel the same for my younger brother and sister specially my younger sister sometime I just want to protect her from everything but she too independent lol so change the game I start act as friend to be close enough to advise her when need it.

@sweetpotatoesyum

5 жыл бұрын

I am also an older sibling and I pratically helped my mom raise my little brother as my own son ( I am 13 yrs older than him).My mom would work all the time. I am married now but even when I see him I still treat him the same. (the whole invasion of privacy with him I dont do though. I talk to my brother about his problems and if he is comfortable to talk to me about it .)

I had 2 older sister. I'm glad that they're not like that. Those sister should realized that men and women have different point of view. There are things that only men can understand.also there are things that only women can understand. stop trying to control your brother!.

The sisters think the guy a toy because they can push him around and mess with him and he can't do anything about it because they're his older sisters. Helicopter sistering abusive style.

@heavenlee6464

2 жыл бұрын

No they took advantage of he older sister role and when having to take on that mother role didn't know how to draw the line

Izone and eunji in one screen kyaaaaa

They say they feel like his moms and yet they don't treat their kids the same way that they treat him. U can't say u feel like his mom and yet u treat him like step child .

Allow your brother to live his own life, Ok? Everyone lives a different life. What you consider not important may be important for other people.

I can tell he is very caring and thoughtful inside. He just brushes off the insults as jokes and what they say is really mean. Plus it lowers his confidence as a male which is not good.

Yo when rapped that part GOD DAMN!!!!!!! This dude has got it. I like his voice and he’s got that swag about him

They are so unsupportive and invasive. Like just because someone is young doesn’t mean they can’t have privacy.

side note: eunji looks so pretty here 🤩

You can tell they love him a lot but they need to relaxxxx

The sisters rationalize their behavior, but I think they are unconsciously punishing him for there mother's death.

How come, i'm starting to unlike the host of Hello Counselor. They all make things looks positive even tho it's obvious that it's freaking not. I talked to one who sent their concern to them before and said that his fam is still not doing well lmao

@hoseoksleftkidney6652

5 жыл бұрын

Keith Vitug the hosts are all comedians for a reason

@isaymamamoo9469

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, they make light of the situation

@354el

5 жыл бұрын

Oh man, really?! I feel bad for that person whose family isn't doing well...

@caryljadeeyy5792

5 жыл бұрын

It is not the show or the host fault that the family still didnt make it up, like hello counselor's purpose is to entertain, to make advice's, to cheer people up even if it is just for one day. They gave good advices but at the same time they just take it easy.

@-maquia-

5 жыл бұрын

The hosts aren’t responsible for the family’s situation, Hello Counselor is to entertain people and find stories the viewers can relate to and the people who send in their concerns are made aware of this. These people aren’t so stupid that they think all their problems will be fixed if they just talk on this show. You’re speaking as if this is some therapy session, and if it was I’d agree with you. But do you really think a group of comedians and idols would be able to solve a lifetime issue in just 30 minutes? That’s pretty ignorant. ACTUAL therapy can take months and even years to improve someone’s quality of life, you can’t click your fingers and BAM everything’s okay. Of course that guy isn’t going to see a difference in his family’s behaviour. If you don’t like it, just don’t watch. On every single comment section for this show I see people complaining about the hosts not taking it seriously, and I’m fucking tired of it. Their job is to entertain.

His sisters are so immature for their age.

At first i thought they were too harsh, but after hearing them talk properly about the situation, I’ve learned that they just was worried about him and tried to take care of him. I know that it sometimes can be fun too irritating your siblings, but not that much.

salute for their brother, he dont walk wrong path after all of his sisters does they just dont know how it will effect brother mentality, the worst case, he may have some disorder

아홉살 열살때 엄마 돌아가신 누나들도 짠하네요.

AWWWWW THAT'S RELLY CUTE FAMILY

the problem is the more invasive his sisters get, the better he's going to get at lying. they might leave him to mind his own business when he becomes an adult, but there's no guarantee he wont go down the wrong path after that since he's been denied basic privacy since forever and the newfound freedom can make anyone go ham

i always want a younger brother since im the youngest and i have 4 older sisters...but after watching this im glad i dont have one since im scared if we do the same thing to him

that’s when i see things like this that i’m happy to have no siblings....

His rap was amazing bryh

I have two siblings, a sister and a youngest brother. I think I can understand the two sisters concern since I do too to my siblings. I’m have a short-temper. I usually yelled or scold them but after that I would bring foods or allow them to buy stuffs. Since my bro is only six, usually I would buy him kinderjoy or just cuddle him after I scolded him. Sometimes, I feel bad too for always yelling at them even it only a small mistake is from them, and I’m stressed from school work. That’s why I usually silently give them what they want but with a cold attitude so next time if they wanted to make a mistake they would scare of me a little since my parents sometimes are too soft for them. I have to play the role as a big sister. I won’t involve in their life much since I want them to experience their own life. But still I just want them to choose a right path and I have to act like I don’t care about their feelings sometimes. I love them though, since it feels like I raise them along with my parents too. >

I live in Germany but smoking there is also at the age of 18 allowed, but it is really so that some teachers are smoking with their students in breaks 😂☠️

I will support him if he ever becomes a rapper!!!

OmG i remember eunji's brother on apink's showtime 😄

I want my sweet eunji backkkkkkk. So scary 😂😂

Wow, that turned dark fast. Seems totally understandable now.