Don't misunderstand her.. She is talking about toxic friends and people . Not about real friend. Aajkal toxic friends jyada milenge. Real is rare.

@CANEHADATTA

11 ай бұрын

True !!

@bhavyalaxmi2744

11 ай бұрын

Friends toh toxic ni h mere bs 3 hi frnd h mere or isse jada koi dost ni h mere... Bachpan ki dost.. toxic relatives h bs.. unse to connect hone ka kb band kr dia. But fr v khud chale aate h 😂 wo zindagi me

@gayu145

11 ай бұрын

@@CANEHADATTA and Neha thank you so much kyuki u r inspiring me. I'm 30+ with no job. Your and mine journey is quite similar. Tumhe sunke sachme kafi achha lgta hai. Aur himmat milti hai. I'm on a journey to change myself.

@PnkjMande

11 ай бұрын

❤ i will try this from now.👍👍..

@ChayanikaSaha-hy4ls

11 ай бұрын

​@@bhavyalaxmi2744same 😂

"There is some self-interest behind every friendship. There is no friendship without self-interests" (Chanakya)

@k.vabhavmishra

10 ай бұрын

100% true applies to both nerds group and Jolly and backbencher group wrt to college.

@talking_verse

10 ай бұрын

100% true

@reenapalav8000

10 ай бұрын

😢true

@monunagar4474

10 ай бұрын

Bachpan ke friend agar 30+ me bhi friend hai to vo real friend ho sakte hai otherwise real friend milna bahut mushkil hai

@reenapalav8000

10 ай бұрын

@@monunagar4474 mere bachpan ke friends kamine hogaye hai abhi 🤣 no way.. Nahi chaahiye

I am 19 years old and I realised this... So , I leave alone in college because everyone is abusing bad word, insulting each other, talk about sex... Etc.... I don't want this type of friends in my life. My friends is Radha krishna 😌❤️they are everything for me❤️. Radhe Radhe ❤️

@deepshikhaupadhaya2267

2 ай бұрын

Radhe Radhe

@somethingnew5806

2 ай бұрын

Same as with me but I think u would have to spend some time with them otherwise esa naa ho ki apko friends hi naa banae aaye baad mai Mai apne personal experience se bata rahi hu

@Life_Reality110

2 ай бұрын

@@somethingnew5806 haa apki drishti hai wo atchi hai.... Par mein dhori akela hu radha krishna hai na har samay... Mujhe bas unke pass Jana hai .... Radhe Radhe 🙏🏻

@Life_Reality110

2 ай бұрын

@@deepshikhaupadhaya2267 Radhe Radhe ❤️

@Life_Reality110

2 ай бұрын

@@ishan.18 haa lekin daily nhi padh pata .... App bhi padha kariye.... Radhe Radhe ❤️

You are too young but the level of maturity and understanding you have gained by own experience is really commendable

I have realised that I am alone is better than any thing else...god is best friend ♥️🥰✨🙏🏻

@srijanibose5299

10 ай бұрын

Exactly 💯. Mam..

@noir3745

10 ай бұрын

becareful of depressive states. people are nessacary in our lives, we're social beings. Goodluck

@royalboy850

10 ай бұрын

Yes

@nandinisharma9304

10 ай бұрын

Yes

@bhavanarathore58

4 ай бұрын

True

You r absolutely right. I also done this. I removed all toxic so called friends. Now I concentrate my Valuable time to learn new things, explore places and Spiritual Practices. Har Har Mahadev. 🙏🏼

@kashishgautam1614

10 ай бұрын

Jai ShivShakti Har Har Mahadev 🕉️

@ishitachopraec

10 ай бұрын

Same when you spend more time with yourself you learn and lot and tbh reading bhagwat geeta helped me a lot

@vickysharma3752

10 ай бұрын

can u believe that in my college of haryana ...2 boys put the penis inside the face of boy and urinate in the name of ragging ...there were my class mates ..later on that guy killed the whole family of those 2 boys 😢im from delhi and pls stay away from jaat gujjars people 😢

@amrit1144

10 ай бұрын

Har har Mahadev 🕉️🙏🏽

@tagruvivek9233

10 ай бұрын

❤❤

100 percent Correct I was a part of a toxic group and and they always made me feel small and after spending time with them I always felt guilty . I always thought that why am I faking myself in front of them to be liked by them finally left them and my life became more peaceful my way of thinking changed and I've started to prioritise things or people that really deserves it !

@UDC-bj

5 ай бұрын

Mere sath bhi esa hua h

This is exactly i've learned at the end of 27 years and i'm very happy , i've actually learned at 25 , but still was fooled, but now i came to the exact conclusion which you gave, there will be no friendship without expectations, there is something which you are offering is making the other one feel you are important, once it's done, you'll be thrown out, glad you brought this out

@tiramisu9358

6 ай бұрын

Then that has a different name. It's not friendship. True Friendship is entirely something else.

Going through betrayal from friends, getting used for being too kind. Got exploited for trying to help people at own health and money expense. And then got recommended your video. ❤

@Music_Editsss

9 ай бұрын

Same here🎉

@alokendughosh7013

Ай бұрын

Same here!!😅

This is one of the lessons I learnt in a hard way during the 4 years of my engineering. If anyone in their teenage or early 20s is watching this, please implement whatever didi is saying. It will make wonders in your life. Also my favourite moment in the video starts from 4:46 ❤. May Shree Ram and Hanuman ji bless us all 🙏

@mampaguha9579

10 ай бұрын

Hey same here am 21 nd it took me four year to understand who r frnds😂😂😂😂..ppl tke benefits nd thn they leave

@krishnapriya6533

10 ай бұрын

​@@mampaguha9579true

@ishitachopraec

10 ай бұрын

@@mampaguha9579 true even most of my friends were toxic and hum ignore krdete h but we also know choti choti chize notice krna hota h even I left all my friends as all of them were just toxic and were just using me I hope i'll find good friends in college maybe

@Priyanka227k

10 ай бұрын

True!

@rushiraul4084

10 ай бұрын

We don't need blessings of hypothetical characters.

I promise that I will leave all my toxic friends and start focusing on my career and I will become the friend of books because with time, I also realize that my friends are stopping me to achieve the success. I am 15 years old and Thank you so much for giving me this valuable guidance....

I can also understand this . Because when there is a little bit trouble came my friends laeve me alone on which i can trust a lot

@cumberworld-c7h

Ай бұрын

Same . I can relate.

with god's grace, I learned this thing in 2020 and after school, I cut myself from all school friends after some time I used to felt I am left alone I have no one in my life but at the time and even now also there is always an inner voice saying I prefer quality over quantity ... thank you Neha di ... I am deciding to take your august workshop to see you soon

@drishthetic

10 ай бұрын

this is fu**ing relatable🗿

@sanjanasinha7634

10 ай бұрын

I too did eliminate those toxic friends. I isolated myself from such "friendship" and worked on self growth. Currently doing my PhD from an IIT. I have a small yet like minded friend group and enjoy my work. Better walk alone than being dragged by fake friends.

@ManyaSingh-hm9og

10 ай бұрын

@@sanjanasinha7634 how people are there in IITs ? I have many expectations from IIT that ki after clearing JEE entrance in few months i will be there nd get my type of people there who love science nd are not oriented in so much showoff nd social media stuff

@lightyagami1634.

4 ай бұрын

​@@ManyaSingh-hm9og Same

I can totally relate myself with you. I left every frnd because they were toxic, always backbiting & i literally cried hard when i was in 11th 12th and i was done with them. I left Everyone, But now I'm alone but Happy, productive and invest time on myself 💯

@namankharbanda3843

10 ай бұрын

Yes your words change my life and give me strength to built myself and now I started investing my time on myself and on my career

@LuckyxPro777

9 ай бұрын

Same for me I already known that my classmate are toxic in my new school from 10th so I didn't make more friends and I'm happy right now that I am focusing my carrier 😄 and now I have smart friend

Awesome Neha Didi,I also had a similar friend group who always bullied me, and when I criticised them.They use to say that we are kidding bro and this that..They use to humiliate me in front of everyone and say it was a joke..They always demanded money.i use to think that these things happen in friendship.But slowly and slowly,I started feeling that my energy was draining.I was with them for 10 months and those were very bad.I literally get depress when i recall those events.They use to make me feel less important, and always forced me to feed them.One day,i went to water park with them.And,they even pulled my pants down in front of everyone.Still they said, that it was a joke.On that day, I realised that they are my fake friends.They always abused me.When i tried to pull their leg.They use to say that you don't have manners and you are not a good friend.Although i am fortunate that I left their company.Right Now,my friend circle is very very small.But I am happy.Your words motivated me alot. Thank you Your viewer Aditya

Our generation needs this the most. Ty❤

Mam believe me this video is much needed for me. Somewhere I feel Why I do not have friends & when I intropect about this I realise sometimes you do not need friends you only need is having time with yourself and improving yourself day by day. May be in future you got friends which you truely deserve. You are a gem 💎you explain everything very smoothly and in clear manner. I am blessed that I found your channel.

@arial3249

11 ай бұрын

This is something which I also think 🩵

@gaganpreetsingh1313

11 ай бұрын

Same dear read my comment😊

@ansarsayyed6140

11 ай бұрын

i also think the same. and i am also blessed.

@gungunsrivastava6334

10 ай бұрын

Yupp I feel the same..I get lonely from time to time seeing others having a large group & tons of friends while even after treating someone they don't realise my worth..I guess it's just god who wants me to grow ,he knows those people aren't worth my time that's why he separates me from those toxic people ..I realise how much I can utilise my time into learning new things..I am really grateful to didi ..made me feel that it's ok to be alone & enjoy solitude 🥰

It's true. Majority of 'friends' are just snakes in disguise. I've left almost everyone cause my 'snakes' were too toxic for my mental health.

It is a commendable that at an early age you could understand that something like toxic people of toxic talk, behavior exists. As well as create awareness for other people earlier than later. Good work

You are really awesome, thanks for this video! 😊

He(Hanumanji )is my best friend......loved your mindset ......inspired by the positivity you are carrying Neha......keep growing👍👍

I am totally agree with you Mam . Real friend is rare but fake is everywhere. So focus on yourself and Ignore The fake people. Believe in God and Believe in karma. Shri Radhe Radhe 🙏 Jai Bajarang Bali 🙏 Jai Hind 🇮🇳

I've also this types of toxic friends and I've finally realised that no one is for myself only i am the only one for myself , NOBODY CARSS AND" NOBODY IS YOUR FRIEND, ONLY FRIEND THAT YOU HAVE IS YOU". ❤️

thank you for this from the bottom of my heart 🙏

Everything about your life is so relatable with my life from education gaps, toxic people & friends in past but now peaceful in life also growing in my career 😍

@artadventure89

10 ай бұрын

💯🙆🏻‍♀️I also went through d same situation. Thanq 4 sharing. 😢same

I was a person who think everyone was my friend. I tried to make friends in my college. Later found they always talks behind my back & make fun of me. Put me down because of my introvert nature. 3 years of my college taught me so many things. I realised every positive soul goes through it. I realised it's okay if you have no friends. It's better to have a positive friend rather than having dozens toxic friends.

@krishnakumar-lg9vp

9 ай бұрын

Going through same samjh nhi aata kya karu

@productivefellow

9 ай бұрын

Just focus on your goals and priorities. Cut off from those who does not value you or make you feel not good about you and stay with positive people. ❤ You will be fine.

YOU ARE AMAZING.

Glad to hear! You too were amongst us!❤

Neha di i just wanted to tell you that.. I was that person when i was in my degree college.. I totally accepted my toxicity towards my frnds.. ( bullying, making fun) ... And i still feel guilty about tht.. But after seeing this video i think i made lot of mistakes.which affected my CA journey.. Failing by 8 marks .. 1mark exemption... Also thank you dii.. Ill work on myself... putting this comment whenever somebody likes it... I will get reality check!!!

Believe me, you have been chosen by God. you are special. You are very successful at the spiritual level. love you diii💗

Great advice! Thank you!🙏🙏

Very well said...great help..respect

Exactly it's around one month I literally cut myself away from everyone. Yesterday I was asking myself in the gym "Am I doing the right thing?"... here's what I've found out ❤❤ thank you God bless you and your family 🙏

kash maine aapki ye video pehle dekh li hoti 😢....kuch logo se kitni hi achi friendship krlo kitna hi soch lo unn logo ke liye but time aane pr wo chalaki dikha hi dete hain ...aaj ye sikh liya ki kissi bhi frnd pr blindly viswas krna hi nhi h ....koi nii ab kissi ko frnd bnana hi nhi h ...no need of toxic people jo aapki success mai distraction bne 😊

Loved how simply you conveyed this wonderful idea!

thank you sister..many blessings

Yes....I have a few toxic friends in my surroundings ,they are always engaged in criticising others and making gossips, and I also do a little bit with them...but these days I am realising that these sort of activities are causing really harm to my studies.Being a student I shouldn't involve in those things ,I promise from today I will never do so again and will seriously focus on my study.Thank you mam for sharing such a crucial lesson to us..

I had this toxic friend circle in my school and college days. someone from my school used to say "tu karega pass?", " tu to fail hi karega mark my word" - and I took it seriously and scored 80%. I was always an average student but I took their toxicity to prove my worth. Now I have no such toxic friend.

@Jahnavi-Mishra

11 ай бұрын

Bhaiyi bhot sare log to muh pr bole wo acha hai kuch dost to aise hote hai Jo andar andar bhot jalte hai tumse or tumhe apne career se manuplate krte hai .

Thank you so much ! i'm a school student and have finally started cutting my toxic friends off it was really hard for me but now our sections are changing hopefully, i manifest my dream friendship group , till then i'll focus on being okay ,alone with myself

True! You have really been through all this...i cam feel it... Bcz I went through same issues ....thank you so much ...for relating our issues... And motivating us to be a different person ...❤it means a lot !

I can totally relate you and because of this reason I just have 2-3 friends who are genuinely there for me and give me positive vibes

@sachchidanand3482

10 ай бұрын

❤❤

Very well explained Neha! Sometimes such reminders are necessary for one to realise that the problem lies in their social circle that's pulling them down.

@MrAnshu2012

10 ай бұрын

💜

She spoke my heart out.....❤

You just spoke out my heart. I was also very sad with the friends who make fun of me and my ideas.

I loved the lines " Miss World nahi Miss Universe. " ❤🤩✌😇.. Thank you for inspiring so soo much 😁🙏

my goodness... I mean how can i have same type of thinking as of her... I m really overwhelmed...... and Hanumanji is like elder brother to me and listen everything and deep down when I listen myself... I found the best of all solutions to the problem... and directly or indirectly I know hanumanji is directing and guiding me... gratitude to universe... and hanumanji... thank you for always being with me and hmesha mere sath rhna.... thank you

Love you for being honest. ❤❤

Soo relatable! Every word you have said is true👌

You are going to Become next Sandeep Maheshwari 👍 Amazing Personality u are ❤

@IamAChampion496

11 ай бұрын

She will become 1st Neha Dutta ❤🌟

That is why in spirituality (which is a path of “self” attainment) satsang - company of good people - is given such high relevance and stature. I love how she’s making profound wisdom available to people in simple language and relatable terms.

@TheDeepThinkingIntrovert

10 ай бұрын

hmm 'yellow' and 'blue'... not SURE about those colours in your avatar tbh 🤔 Need to investigate you further.. 🧐

I literally have one very good friend in my college. She has become toxic since third year,tries to make fun of me and always finds ways to criticize whatever Ive bought instead of just being happy. She's my roommate just for 5 more months then I'm totally going to distance myself from her hopefully 🤞Shes my first and hopefully last toxic friend

Loved It. Fallen for you in a positive way.

I completely agree with you Di❤ Thanks for sharing this ✨️

Real friends are hard to find!! Thank you for making this video❤

I really really appreciate your talk, Do take care of yourself. GOD BLESS YOU.

SO TRUE! THANK YOU.

Thanks for making things more clear and reaffirming me about my recent actions for self growth 😊

Really you have opened my eyes!! 👏☺️ Kudos to your content 👍

Thank You, Neha. 🙏🌻🌻 Grateful.

Thank you for this video❤❤

How can you be so real and relatable Neha Di? Every time you speak your heart out you speak our hearts out. Thank you for being there you've helped a lot a lot times. You're indeed a blessing for everyone❤❤

she is a real gem 💎

you are talking with reality at point

Thank you 😊 For sharing your precious experiences. By using your positive messages people can improve their personality.

only thing i wanna say is : "THANKS" from bottom of my heart for sharing these beautiful thoughts, helped me a lot

I can also relate to it because I have also experienced the same. Thank you so much for sharing your experience

I had to hear this today!❤️

I really loved this video of yours - Thank you!

Thankyou Neha ! I needed to hear this from someone to make peace with myself. You are better alone than being with people who gossip about you. 👐

You are so so positive and your positivity reflected in your face,eyes & the way you are talking ❤ Continue to spread the positivity ❤🤗

You r doing a good work and I appreciate your advice

You said something that i found to be so much helpful and positive. It brought me to a bright side of the life, that i would also like and will definitely try to work on myself as much as I can, thankyou buddy. 😘

Your past is so relatable. I've been getting this thought from few months that I'm in the wrong circle and need to change this asap since they are not contributing in any way to my personal growth but instead I get distracted and feel like I waste my time whenever I talk to them. I even uninstalled WhatsApp to take 'a break.' Thanks for making it clear.

You are absolutely right. Toxic people will stop you growth. In fact they will put you down. Thank you very much for your suggestion.

Lovely. Well said. Take care. You look gorgeous too.

Your videos made us realise real life which we know but we never want to think about it. You help us to feel that reality.

You are such an inspiration. I really need this video as recently I fought with my so called best friend who abuses me very frequently and tries to justify his act by saying that its very common among best friends. His constant abuses really affect my confidence and then finally I decided to confront him. Now I am feeling very good and relaxed because I finally took some steps to protect my self respect.

This makes me cry so loud that I'm feelin really good how could I appreciate you! 😭❤️‍🔥 This is high time to be aware and implement what is right for us! 😌✨

Thank you ma'am! You are right.

Neha Di(Ma'am) firstly I'll say that your videos are actually to the point and I used to watch each and every video of yours. So commencing about friends, yes I had such friends. When I used to be in the other school they used to speak a lot bitter for me also they used to make my fun. They made me feel embarassed every single time. But in class X when I changed my school, I met a girl who actually became my seat partner and then she's my bestfriend today. She understands me a lot. Not only this , she motivates me every single time to achieve my goals. Even when I told her in the very beginning that I wanna pursue cma , so she just motivated me to do it and she's the one who pushes me every single time, she scolds me and do everything. The same I do for her. She's that person who speaks nice about me in my absence as well. She was a science student and I was a commerce student. But I'll say , she motivates me every single time. And those friends of the old school who used to speak bitter about me that time, today they love the way I speak , they love the way I write poetries, the way I'm growing. They want to stay near me now. As ab unhe meri value pta chali. And I agree to each and every single point of yours. Leave them and they'll know your value afterwards. Additionally, I know this know how to find a good friend... Rest , I just need all your blessings for my cma journey. Jai Shree Krishna ❤️🦚🙏

Thank you so much Neha di ❤ This was much needed now ....yah I was wrong , too wrong in being polite...to those friends who ignore me straight ...just to stay as friends...yes we don't need such people in our life .... Thank you di thank you 💕🤞

much needed thankuuu soo muchhhh

Thanks for this! Recently I realised the same vibes from one of the toxic friends with whom I have spent my childhood. For the past 2 years, I have been dealing with her extreme narcissistic behaviour and stupid reactions, gossiping and feeling trapped into household chores. Yes you are right! I started thinking like her.. even disseminated every parameter that she was setting in our conversation. Before friendship day... I settled my mind saying that I can't deal with this anymore and texted that I need to get rid from this. After that day I was juggling with doubts whether I did right or not.... This video empowers me... I made the right decision. And I am really relieved and relaxed... Cuz I am not entertaining any idiotic things anymore

You are the best ❤ I literally feel so grateful to have you...I totally relate with whatever you say in ur videos.. its like you are my elder sister guiding me ✨ I wish to meet you and wanna make you my friend 💯🙈

Same thinking sis same reasons loved it ❤❤❤❤

You are such a true motivator.. ❤❤thanks a lot

Thanks so much mam I also have a group of toxic friends and without even realizing it even I would start gossiping about people Only recently did I notice that I was lacking somewhere and this video helped me know what I am doing . I'm not given privacy among my friends, they dig into everything. My ideas never really mattered for them and always criticized which brought my self esteem down since past few months and I was fooling myself by taking things as a joke. I don't want this circle anymore and I will get rid of it as soon as possible

Most relatable video ever!!! Before watching this video, I was cribbing about how friends mistreat me or they leave me alone! But from now, I got a clarity about how to control my emotions!

Such a genuine suggestion thanks

Yup, true facts. I infact deleted my contacts with toxic friends indeed from all social media and as well as phone-book. Plus I blocked them. So they have no access to me. Indeed am focused on making myself better. Social media de-cluttering is something that guys don't do on a daily basis. Your feeds become better with each session of de-cluttering.

Thank you, Neha. I second with every word that you said in this video. I was so wrong all these years that to have my primary instinct set to 'always trust' people and believe that every person who walks into my life shall have the best of intentions for me. I learnt it very hard way that not everyone who walks into my life would want me to succeed, the reflections of which I saw in their behavior, every time I shared something good that is happening in my life to them. I drew his conclusion after a hard lesson that no matter who the person is, or how long it has been since I know, it is never certain that everyone's association in my life is a 'value-add'. Some people can just be forcibly there who serve as a constant source of stress and is best if we find better ways to eliminate them from our lives once and for all. What's the big deal if one has friends that are less in number, what they bring into the table of 'friendship' matters way more us letting them leach into our emotions, draining every bit of positivity that we have. This video made my day and got my convinced that I am not alone in this world who is trying to cut off people only for the sake of preserving the mental wellbeing and chosing quality over a mere number that reflects nothing but a sheer nuisance. God bless you and your channel!

I really needed to hear this. There are always some people around you wholooks like your wellwisher but directly or indirectly do mind wash which lead to self doubt and is an obstacle for your success. Our only best friend is God and our parents❤🙏

Very good analysis

Today I come across your channel. Really really true speaking. Please keep continuing.

talented girl sorted her life and opening up to all of us so that we also come out and grow. her words coming from inside... real experience speaking. congratulations on your success and thanks for the video made

After listening you I'm feeling that you are my reflection whatever I'm going through right now and whatever happened in my past same exactly you are saying but sometimes people show best friend show off they always go out and celebrate like this but my mom and God is always with me in any situation they are real frnd ❤❤

your every line is making sense to me now❤Thank you so much, God bless you

Dear you understood a great truth in an early age, may God bless you, have a great future.

I can completely relate with whatever you said nd it's absolutely true. Initially it's hard to block people or to ignore their messages but once they leave your life then things become really sorted nd we get rid of that negativity.

I have been there. Felt it. I can totally relate to it. Now, I'm in isolation. My family is my best friend along with the universe/the Almighty. Now, I'm free to explore my interests. I want to shine like a diamond and star. Yes, toxic group of friends are not network. They are chains to your thoughts. You can't grow in a cage. You have to break the chain and the cage. You have the ability to shine. You don't need manipulating and non-empathetic friends.