Make sure you watch the latest vlog first! We love you guys! Mikko STOPPED sucking her thumb after THIS! *Autistic Stimming* kzread.info/dash/bejne/p3eds6SHdJTPhZM.html The thumb guard link is above!

@LLStark

Ай бұрын

Hooray!!!! 👏🎉 That's great! So proud of you both!! The whole family actually! I'm just about certain all y'all helped out with this!!! Oooh congrats!!

@roguesnow9887

Ай бұрын

Does she have a tongue tie I noticed she doesn’t fully extend her tongue when sounding out words

@annhepburn8419

Ай бұрын

Ml87

ahh I notice the difference already ! rather than the thumb sucking being her usual go to, she also responds with“no” and “stop” when she’s feeling overwhelmed with the hair tension as you’re brushing; but then you took a small break, let her know you had to keep going, and she was visibly upset but responded accordingly. You’re both doing so well !! ♡ 🥺

@gfjzzu7347

Ай бұрын

great progress.😅 he lets out cries, who knows if he will ever learn to talk. I guess you know that she will never be independent, she will always need support

@awg7068

Ай бұрын

​@@gfjzzu7347 NOBODY knows how far SHE will go. She will go as far as there is support to go.

My son was non verbal until he was diagnosed at the age of 4 and started receiving the appropriate treatment. Now he never stops talking and he is a grown man who graduated high school.

@LadyBug-ky6qu

Ай бұрын

What was his receptive language like between the ages of 2-4? Did he understand language, but struggled with expressive language?

@awg7068

Ай бұрын

@@LadyBug-ky6qu My son was diagnosed just before 4 years old, and from 2-3 we weren't sure if he was hearing impaired because he didn't seem to hear anything said to him. I was fighting the pediatricians to get him evaluated, but it was the audiologist that finally gave us the referral. He's not an honor's student finishing off his Junior year in High school, and went to his first prom where he was asked to dance by a lot of girls, causing a problem between he and his GF.

@Susmithatippireddystories

Ай бұрын

@therealevvonne can you please tell me the guidelines how you handled and .my son is 19 months old . There’s behavioural problem he have could you suggest me which therapies gonna to help to home . Please share the guidelines

@amersklain4706

Ай бұрын

If you’re in the US, please start talking to doctors now. The waitlist is so long, you want to get your child evaluated ASAP. Don’t wait until school age, he will be delayed because of the wait. Push the doctors, you have to be a fierce mamma bear, because no one else will.

@pathak2964

Ай бұрын

My son is three years old. He has moderate receptive language but non verbal at this time. His therapies are going on. I am very anxious how his future will be..

Mikko is really growing under your gentle care! Her communication skills are advancing. When she speaks, I can understand what she's saying. My favorite word is "apple"! Her little voice inflections are the cutest! I love your videos and I'm praying that you and Mikko have continuous, progressive milestones! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

My 11 year old son (neurotypical) has curly frizzy hair and wants me to style it every morning. If he's moody or in a rush, he'll complain that every little tug hurts. I know when he's exaggerating and just wants me to hurry up and finish brushing his hair. We've offered to take him for a haircut but he likes his hair long right now. Cutting Mikko's hair isn't going to stop her from being a bit uncomfortable or antsy when she'd rather be doing something else and has to be patient for a few minutes while mom brushes her hair. Her hair is beautiful! Good job redirecting her attention mom!

I hate to see Mikko cry as it hurts my heart so much. Precious, I don't know how you do it. You are the best mother to not just Mikko but all of your children. I figure that dad is filming and editing and is likely why we don't see as much of him. Mikko is an amazing child in spite of her adversity thanks to mom, dad and the twins.

She was nailing it in the end, even using inflection to communicate intention. Bravo little one.

And I love that mom is being more firm than she was a year ago because it’s keeping Mikko focused on the task.

I noticed how she started looking at you through the mirror for little moments of connection towards the end of the video after she started saying the words more clearly. She was so proud of herself, and it looked like she was enjoying the approval/reassurance you were giving her. I love watching her progress and watching her confidence build! 🤩

Mikko did awesome! It looked like she pointed to her outfit when her mother asked her about the color green😊. I understood what she said. Mom is doing a great job with her.

Awww Mikko. Excellent job ❤❤❤

The progress is AMAZING! May God continue blessing this family!! ❤🙏🏽❤

I want to say that you are very heartwarming. Despite the fact that she mostly just babbles and makes sounds, you gently encourage her, even if she may only be able to use simple words, she's improving, and her knowledge of language is there, you can tell at times when you say things to her and she responds in her own way. You aren't discouraged, because if you were, that'd reflect onto her.

Great Job Mikko!!! I had the biggest smile on my face. Great Job Mom!!!

She has really progreaswd since I started watching your vids. The thumb guards really help with understanding!

Well done, Mikko! You're doing a phenomenal job, Mama. Shes flourishing under your care. Thank you for taking us with you on your family's journey. ❤

The more I watch videos about Mikko, the more I feel like I know her snd just want to give her a big hug! 🤗🥰

This is so amazing to witness. Great job on working with her.

I’m rooting for the whole family!!! Many Blessings !

This is wonderful. Her voice is getting stronger when that distraction was removed. ❤

You’re such an AWESOME Mom! Trying everything to make better for your beautiful daughter. Your LOVE is tender towards her quality of life ❤️🙏🏽❤️

We love Mikko all day everyday and the twins too, would like to see more of them. She is progressing so well.

I'm here for it family

@thegentlelife

Ай бұрын

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I was waiting to see hair all finished. Love Miko such a cutie pie.

Wow, big transisitoons are so hard but y'all are nailing it! Such an inspiration 😊

You are a great patient mother ,love the way u handle yourself patience is the way ❤

Oh what a great job! She is doing fantastic! Way to go Mikko, I am so proud of you! Great job to you Precious as well! Lots of patience goes far! Keep up the wonderful work you do! Just remember to take care of yourself too! Love your videos! ❤❤❤

You know what you’re doing Mom!!! I can see so much progress already!!!❤

You are such a good mom and I just adore your family ❤

Your daughter's communication skills is improving.You are doing an awesome job and I will continue to pray for you and your family.God knows everything better

You guys are doing amazing, keep up the amazing work! 😊❤

You and Mikko are amazing!

She is moving right along...thanks mom and dad 💕

So glad to see you are encouraging the beautiful little girl to be verbal.

She’s doing really well without the distraction of sucking her thumb! Niko has such beautiful hair and mom you’re so patient with her! God Bless.

Mikko is a beautiful little girl and i love seeing her progress with her saying her words but i have to say i applaud your patience God Bless you and Mikko

Mikko did great. She is learning ❤❤

Just don’t give up! You’re doing great❤!

Mikko be trying to front to keep from getting that beautiful hair done. I love how Precious calms her down with love. Precious you and Chris are the best parents. I love y'all journey for Mikko. Keep up the great job. Let's go Mikko 🎉🐥🫶✌️🙏🫵👍

Good job Mikko❤ you're doing so great!!

She is a very lovely girl.Keep on progressing non stop.❤❤❤

Congrats for all your steps forward! Little (big actually) thing I noticed: you don't actually speak to her much, as in explanations, easy questions etc... Like "I need to unbraid and detangle, see? This is a liquid that helps me, do you feel it's fresh? Do you like the smell...? As if to explain the things that surround her and then having her participate in the conversation her own way. I think that would help her get her messages through to you better. I mean, colors, animals, numbers, letters, all those are great, but I just had the feeling that she might not be hearing many words from you and that is one of the reasons for late speaking skills in kids (generalizing, I realise, but why not try??) Keep the great parenting!!

Precious continue to become more precious as you nurture and care for this wonderful blessings from the Almighty. 🤗🤗🤗You and Miko inspire us all👏🏿👏🏾👏👏🏻👏🏽

What I love most to watch is when you’re doing Mikko’s hair. My 1st grandchild is 1/2 black and has hair like Mikko’s😊 She is absolutely beautiful 😍 We’ve always told my baby how beautiful her hair is and so lucky to have such pretty curls. It goes all down to her bottom and we all love it. Thou it’s pretty it comes with much care and endurance because it takes time to brush,wash, condition 😊. We straighten it for the 1st time for her 10th B-day and she wanted it again for her 11th. I’m so glad she loves her curls more than straight hair. You know your daughter better than anyone and I’m glad you don’t let the rude or mean comments show in your videos. Much respect Momma. 💚🩷🤗🤗

Tough call, but you can see it helps her draw attention to other things. I think self soothing is so important, but sometimes distraction helps sooth, too. And you are teaching her that by giving her a chance to try other things. So important to know there are multiple ways to cope and soothe yourself. Stimming can be grounding and help with body awareness, but when being aware of your body is distressing, it can be helpful to draw your attention away from it. Saying that to her, whether or not you can tell if she understands, could help her. Autistic people so often need to hear the “why” behind what is going on. I think it’s probably important to allow thumb sucking at certain times, like at night since she doesn’t speak while she sleeps, anyway. Unless of course it’s causing dental issues. But if it’s not, than what’s the harm. It doesn’t look like this is an issue, but please never scold her for it. So many of my self care skills are motivated by shame, and it’s been taking a long time to build a different relationship to all of that. I finally showered last night because I wanted to, for the first time in a very long time, and I just wish I’d been taught how to enjoy those things more.

She’s so adorable. When she says the animals her cute little voice 😩 awww she’s growing up I can’t take it 🥺💜💜💜🥰

…great job mom…! Mikko is really growing and progressing…! 🤗🌹♥️

She's very smart that for sure. U can see how much they be helping her speech she can like form full words now

Excellent Mikko ❤

You're a great mom and a great teacher

All I have to say is what a wonderful family amazing g teamwork

She is doing great with the thumb guards.

This channel has helped me understand autism, indeed it's spreading awareness and for that am greatful 🙏

Awwwww🥰 We ADORE Mikko!❤❤❤

She could talk all day. I love her voice . 💜💗💜💗

0:55 She’s getting better at sitting there when you call my hair!

You can really hear her trying to say its a, and the whatever you say it is. Mikko is doing amazing! She will get there in her own time!

Great job Mikko

What happened to the "Cecred" products? You raved about them, then i haven't seen you use them since...

Precious, your haircut and style looks amazing on you. I know that this would look 👀 great on Mikko and with her hair being so thick, cutting in some layers would look 👀 so good as it did when she was younger. ❤😊❤

Wow. Thank you for sharing this 💖💖

When engaged, Mikko will speak. Do you realize that not only were the guards put on, but a book was also given. When mom has given Mikko books in the past, regardless of what she's doing, Mikko will respond, with or without the thumb guards. It seems like it's more so the book and mom's engagement that has Mikko talking. Not the thumb guard. If mom is just there combing her hair, of course she'll suck her thumband not say anything. There's nothing else to do so she resorts to the thumb sucking. But when a book is given to her, and questions are asked about the book, Mikko is so engaging. This video does not show me that the thumb guard is the reason she's talking. It shows me that Mikko is yearning for books and conversation and THAT'S what is expanding her mind and speech.

@sjb4280

Ай бұрын

The thumb guards are not a cause effect situstion, shes just showing that it helps. Both because it encourages distraction with other things (like books) over self soothing and because generally speaking its harder to speak if you have your thumb in you mouth. Constantly having her thumb in and out her mouth or trying to speak with the thumb in her mouth is naturally going to slow down speech progression. Theres lot of other videos where she shows other techniques she uses to build speech skills, its never just one thing.

@mj4lu5hffg

Ай бұрын

@@sjb4280 I don't get your point. Mom said that these guards "help Mikko talk". Mikko is clearly thriving because of books and mom speaking to her. Not because of these thumb guards. The only thing these guards help with, is Mikko not sucking her thumb and having teeth that are ruined.

@AngelsOnScreen

Ай бұрын

@@mj4lu5hffgso in other videos when mom is engaging a lot with Mikko, Mikko will put her thumb in her mouth and at times attempt to talk around her thumb. Did you see how excited Mikko was to put the thumb guards on? She understands what they do. By not having her thumb as a distraction, Mikko can fully engage in using her voice. So the thumb guards are definitely helping. It also maybe a part of Mikkos routine. Thumb guards on mean I’m going to use my voice to communicate. Precious isn’t saying that the only reason Mikko is speaking more is because of the thumb guards. She’s saying it helps. She’s been using books and actively engaging with Mikko for years but Mikko is only recently (past few months) shown more interest in using her voice to communicate.

@mj4lu5hffg

Ай бұрын

@@AngelsOnScreen When mom gives Mikko a book and engages, Mikko's thumb is not in her mouth. Mikko's engagement in this video is clearly because mom gave her the book and asked her questions lol. Mikko's talking has nothing to do with the thumb guards. Like you said, she's been talking for months now. Thumb guards were only recently introduced. Books as well as conversation, build vocabulary and speech.

@KrissyRoseAnimallover

Ай бұрын

@@mj4lu5hffgshe repeats words. Or without prompting

you are a great mother

Better and better😊

You should get the untangle brush...it works miracles. My son has long hair and the brush cuts the detangleling time down by 75%

Go Miko!! ❤ Lifelong thumb sucker here 🙋🏽‍♀️ I'm 41 and still find myself struggling to stop. Fortunately, my thumb sucking style is lazy and hasn't impacted my teeth, but I still wish I didn't have the urge.

When I was younger my mom used something called Thumb and put it on my thumb it tasted horrible. it stopped me and my brothers from not sucking our thumbs. maybe something to try

It's a 10 detangler works great if you wanted to try it

@montycharm4514

Ай бұрын

And, silk/satin scrunchies instead of rubber bands that pull the hair when taking them out...

No Matter What, We as Black Women Know about this hair combing process when we were children.... 😫😭

Sure it's helping! There are chewy/mouthing devices for kids that are sold on amazon. I bought one of their dolphins on a neck string for a student and it was great for classes. The child could self-soothe and continue being in with his peers. They also have pencil toppers. A LOT of kids chew on pencils and pens so it is age-appropriate looking, for adults, too1

who needs a child like this 😅

Hello how you and mikko I 've had long hair all my life your hair looks nice first twisting two pieces instead of braids is less tangling put hair grease like blue magic indian hemp and hair detangler use a comb on the end and hold it tight and work your way up. The comb you use is good after you get the tangles out keep it wet like you do. Good luck glad to here miko speaking that wonderful. Did you ever download olivia and dora the explorer they show independence maybe to encourage Mikko in someway. God bless

That baby got a good grade of hair. I been following her since she was a baby with good hair 🐥🫶✌️🙏🫵👍

Hey mom try brushing from the ends up to the root. That will help a little bit too. I’ve been watching you and Miko is talking a lot more now 💜💜💜💜💜

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY AN AMAZING WOMAN AND MOTHER

Keep this going it works

Her voice is super cute

I hear you little girl. Like you i cant have my hair touched bcuz if i feel one pull on my skin, im done. Mom, no "No More Tears" . I can feel her not liking the pull.

Does music help to calm Miko at all? My aunt used to play classical or jazz music that would help to soothe or calm down her autistic non verbal daughter. She really enjoyed music.

Have you heard of the "Unbrush" detangling brush. It may make things a little easier. Just a suggestion. Keep up the GREAT work!

Spray aloe vera juice all over and on her scalp to reduce sensitivity and put leave-in on before you detangle. I like elasta qp mango cream leave in plus it's a heat protectant that can be used before blow drying or not

I have a three year old son..he beats us when asked to speak..what can we do..pls suggest.. thanks a ton for your videos. You are a very committed mother.

Idk if you are familiar w Tyler aka Big Slim. But he was non-verbal & now speaks, his mother seems to be very welcoming with how she transitioned him to speaking. She may have additional info... You are doing a wonderful job Precious!! 🎉🥳 youtube.com/@checkmyfreshh18?si=Mgk0AkiLYurwsa0K

Great job mom, thumb sucking does damage the teeth tremendously 😢 (currently having to teach myself to stop- 32, wife, mom… ) this motivated me

Hallelujah 😢❤.

She not to like does bands that tangles unto her curly hair try the cloth ones instead

I tried a thumb guard for my thumb sucker. My daughter was a thumb sucker before birth. Her teeth were shaped just like your sweetie. The only thing that stopped the thumb sucking was a mouth guard/expander that was installed by an orthodontist. She didn’t wear it long but it was the only thing that stopped the thumb sucking! I felt bad when I had to turn the key to expand her bite. But I knew she would not want to live with such an extreme bite. Now that she’s turning 19 she happy we did it when she was small.

Have you tried the unbrush? I saw someone say it's helped with hair time for their neuro baby.

What about a favorite soft toy to self soothe?

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Just a question: Would it be less painful and require less time to do Miko's hair if it was shorter?

@kkmcknight5463

Ай бұрын

Precious (mom) has addressed this in her videos a couple times. Mikko has come so far on her hair journey (and her hair is out of this world beautiful), and uses her hair to stim. Mom is teaching her that she doesn’t get a pass on things like this that may be difficult for her, and in the meantime Mikko is learning the skill and the importance of grooming herself consistently as part of her daily routine. So mom has asked people to stop suggesting cutting Mikko’s hair; it’s never going to happen.

as an autistic person who doesnt talk myself, im curious if you all/she uses alternative communication such as signing or aac alongside working on vocal speech? I personally prefer ASL, and online or to ppl who dont know any sign ill text or use a tts app

What about one of her fav little movies or a talking back pic/word even with spell on a tab. Anything to get you both finish quick. Just wondering if you were leant one from school or preschool, early intervention?? Anyone have an old one. I know all that's expensive but if you have a good app to put in, shes learning and getting pretty.

She's So Beautiful Baby Girl. 😍😍😍😍

Love the animal sounds after the animal name.

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Where is Amazing? PRECIOUS. 💕💕

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3:30 "I can't right now"

It will help her teeth and palate/ speech as well...❤️