Hi! I just wanted to say that in spanish we have separate words for "I am" one being "soy" (like WHAT I embody) and "estoy" (like where I am, how I am) so when we are sad we don´t say "soy triste" like I AM sad, we say "estoy triste" (like I am sad now, but is like a place where I am not something inside me). A lot of other languages do have this feature, so cool that you could find a way to make that difference in english to!

@cernatcristina

2 жыл бұрын

Something I learned from my therapist is to say something like "sadness is happening to me" or "I am experiencing sadness". It makes it so easy to sit with the feeling

@mastandstars5869

2 жыл бұрын

Flopii Spanish is one of the happiest languages ❤️ Yes! Christina. I do the same. So silly but after a hot shower I’ll correct myself from thinking I am cold TO coldness is present.

@Valdir1981

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, we have the same in portuguese. Great explanation!!!

@psykloz

2 жыл бұрын

Same in Portuguese! :D Nice that you pointed that out!

I’ve used 3x5’s for 60 years 9 careers later!!! Tasks replace Goals. Passions replace purpose Focus on the PATH rather than the trees. Live in the moment, past is a reflection, future is a mirage. Competition and comparisons are cheaters. Only track your own progress. You are “teething “ on your life span . Growth rings show pride and joy jumps on your journey Keep a growth journal to see how far you’ve come

@walkingpueblosmagicos3667

2 жыл бұрын

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@bellavita521

2 жыл бұрын

These are certainly words of wisdom. I especially appreciate "Only track your own progress. " and "Passion rather purpose" . Thank you for sharing 🙏

Ever since your previous video on the index card method, I've been trying it out too. And I must say it's so much more effective than I thought it would be. I'm such a visual person that I thought a vision board would be more influential, but the fact is that it's just distracting before fading into the background. The index card method is so much better - thank you so much for posting your previous vid, and I can't wait to find out what you have to say in this one!

@Lefie

2 жыл бұрын

Awesome to hear that you find it helpful!

@joeltupacmendoza5471

2 жыл бұрын

But I dont get it. You read it every day? every week? how does it function?

@BarbiQued

2 жыл бұрын

@@joeltupacmendoza5471 I think those were discussed in her previous video about the cards

Seriously though, THIS HAS ALSO CHANGED MY LIFE! I recommend it to others because it is daily subconscious repogramming codes. I read them while I am walking, and generally have them out/visible whenever I am doing something related to the card (e.g. "I meditate everyday" is in front of me while I am meditating). When I am "unsure" of what I am doing in a moment of my day, I can mentally remember the card, so if I am on the fence about going for a walk, I remind myself that "I go for walks everyday". It is a wonderful way to reinforce/stay accountable for all the shit you desire for growth, versus giving into the comfort. Thanks Lefie!

This is such an inspiring exercise. Wow. I have been writing in a bullet journal, and just started into the world of positive affirmations and this is right up my alley. I also reminds me of my current deck obsession. Like I have a yoga deck, a therapy deck, a quit it deck, and this feels more personal. I like it.

In the Irish language, "I am sad" is "Tá brón orm" which translates back as "the sorrow/sadness is on me". I only thought about this now, but it also means sadness can be taken off of you too. "Tá athas orm" is " the happiness is on me" 😀

@melaniezoe09

2 жыл бұрын

(Edit: I didn't see that other people had commented the same already. Sorry! 😅) That's really interesting! I was going to comment that in Spanish we say "Estoy triste", which broadly translates as "I'm sad", but its real meaning is "I feel sad". That's usually a difficulty in learning Spanish, the difference between "ser" and "estar", where the verb to be would be used in English.

@ciaranlappin5016

2 жыл бұрын

@@melaniezoe09 I keep getting those mixed up! This has made me think about the Irish language a lot. Shame its not used much .

@melaniezoe09

2 жыл бұрын

@@ciaranlappin5016 🤗

@Valdir1981

2 жыл бұрын

Gaeilge 😍

You are a master class of so many things. Thank you for sharing your evolution with us--I gain so much from so many of your videos! Your storytelling (which I have always thought great) has certainly improved over time. Please keep this passion alive as long as you can, it is a selfless act that helps so many!

Lefie! I made my own index card vision board inspired by you, and my life also changed dramatically. This is why I follow you! Have a great week.

@Lefie

2 жыл бұрын

Ah! Great to hear, Phil! 😁 Hope you have an excellent week too.

This exercise is a piece of brilliance. I've been using it and created a modified version for my clients. It is quickly becoming a mandatory part of my client experience.

I saw your previous video last week about doing these cards and loved the idea so much that my BFF and I got together old school to work on them together! We even did a few magazine cutouts for a few of the cards. I’ve been looking at my deck every day and have added a few more over the last few days. It’s a great reminder of where I want to go in life and who I want to be. Thanks for sharing!

Your reframing "I am sad"..... cracked open a new way of thinking for me... Gonna try it with " I am old." since I am 74.... Thanks! And, my version of a vision board currently is one or two quotes printed out on my computer and posted where I see it. Right now it says.. TODAY ONLY

I made index cards after your first video, you inspired me so much. I cut out pictures of things I would like in my life too, read them every day, and those things are now happening in my life!

@poorvababosa895

Жыл бұрын

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So happy to see an update with others experience with the cards in the comments too. I just discovered your channel tonight and can’t wait for morning to make my own deck!! Thanks for sharing, and updating!!

Thank you for being so transparent because it makes me feel like I don’t have to work so hard to hide. You remind me it’s actually beautiful to just be who you are and not the cookie cutter the matrix wants us to be.

I love that you updated this! I have been trying to organize my thoughts into note cards for ages, but never worked it out. Your videos help me organize my thoughts into productive action!

Thank you so much for sharing an update of your deck! This motivates me to finally sit down and create my own. Just the video I needed today, thank you for being a great person and making awesome content. ❤️

Your videos are such high quality and meaningful! Thank you for being such a bright light! I’m going to watch this again and then do some cards! 💕💕

@karineb5980

2 жыл бұрын

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I was just sharing this technique with a friend! It’s such a beautiful and motivating activity! Thank you for sharing. And you are so supported in your goals!

Spanish has two different verbs that mean "to be". One is used for how you feel, and the other for what you are. I am short, I am smart, I am an avid reader, use the verb "ser." I am mad, I am sad, I am confused, use the verb "estar."

@juzi33

2 жыл бұрын

same in portuguese

I have been waiting for your next video. Would visit your channel just in case I missed new one. And finally a new one is here, and that too with the index cards! Please make more content, love your work!

This is not the first time I am watching this, and it won't be the last. Thank you for making this. It is very helpful in so many ways. You never know who you are going to reach when you create something this personal - it is extremely valuable to me so I appreciate the time (and perhaps courage) it took for you to create this. with Love ~from some random lady on the internet.

Thank you Lefie! I used this idea this year for my fifth graders. They keep their clipped cards on their desks and each morning they go through them, replacing them or reading them over.

I think you have your 1,000 true fans. Won't be long before you're blowing up with this fantastic content!

Thank you very much for sharing Lefie! much love and appreciation.

It seems to me you look happier. About distancing oneself from negative thoughts, it can be useful to rephrase : 'Im having the thought that [blank]. Im noticing that Im having the thought that [blank]'. Only with harmful thoughts, negative feelings need to be felt :)

hi Lefie, every now and then i keep returning to your videos. thank you for sharing your ideas and wisdom with the world. you have genuinely impacted me and many others. i know its been a while since you last posted but i thought i'd just leave a thank-you comment. lots of love, El

So glad that I found you again! Completely going to jump in to the index card habit!

Hi :) Since your previous video on index cards, I've been trying out my own version of your system and, so far, I feel it has given me more clarity and calm than anything else I've tried. Thank you so very much for sharing about your method! All the best with all of your projects. Thank you again!!

Needed this in time. Brought me back had gone off track! Thank you

I hope you will do future updates on this. Excited for your comic journey!

you are so beautiful Lefie, and seems really joyfull in this video ! I am really happy for you for all these changes

Hi Lefie, loved this video, I have watched your channel from the start, you have come a long way, you always make me smile. I'm 57 years old & I want to say, ALWAYS be true to yourself, just be YOU! You are a beautiful person. Unfortunately it's taking me all these years to realise that you can't please everyone, but you have to face yourself in the mirror at the end of the day. Keep being you and good luck with your future, have a fantastic day, Warm Regards, Fiona, Sydney, Australia 😊

I made a physical deck when you first made your video to try it out too.... but then I forgot about it. I updated it as I was watching your video then you mentioned having a digital one and I think I'll try that instead since I'm always on my phone or computer. Definitely placing it somewhere where I can read it and see it everyday will help - I just shoved mine into my book shelf... I promise I'll get better at this! Thank you for the update, Lefie.

Yes make it a regular thing. Your deck video is a favorite of mine. Going to watch the first on again and then actually do it. Thanks. Glad you are back.

Yassssss! The Deck of Infinite Possibilities is back!!! (Shout out to the Washi Tape and Sticker Squad!)

tThank you I appreciate it! It was great I have my own index cards now. Reviewing them each day I think is going to work great in my daily routine is an easy method to concentrate and who you are, and what you really want, and how you can accomplish it.

Happy to find you at the starting of this year Love it, and I'm doing it definitely! Thanks for all your videos You ARE a great KZreadr! Waiting for the comics you said Till next time ;)

Mine too!! I've been using them since July and now they are a part of my morning routine. Thank u sooooo much for the idea.

Thank you!! You are great! I did this method before to meet you. And you just confirmed by doing it too, that is useful. I am not English speaker and your style is so cool for me, you speak so clearly. Thank you again! ❤

Thank you for sharing this again and remind me how awesome this is. Totally wanted to make my when you first talked about it and then ... ... ... nothing. So I just put this on the list for my annual review. 👍

So inspiring!! Loved that video 😍

Second video I've watched today where the word "quest" has been added and I am 100% more interested. (The first was to do with organizing to do lists) Love this idea and update. You have convinced me. I will be starting my own soon

You remind me of my family members, just your face. Thank you for helping me change the way I'm going to change my circumstances. ♡

Missed you glad you're back🥰

Thank you so much for sharing this

You know your first video about the index card really introduced me to it. And I am doing. And I love it ♡

@aminalucid

2 жыл бұрын

Mine is thinner lol

Great video and information. Thank you.

This came up randomly in my recommended … so I had to run back to the first and back here… and now I’m frantically taking notes of ideas spring-boarding of your prompts trying to remember if I have a deck of cue cards still. There’s something about this that just feels powerful and like it FITS into my day to day life and what I want to accomplish internally and externally. Thanks for sharing! Keen to see your updates in the future :)

The feelings section: I said one day to my son: "I am anxiety" rather than I am anxious - or even, I feel anxious. He nodded and said, "Yes, you are." Well, that's not what's on my birth certificate. I have yet to change to the "I currently feel..." but I'm going to start today. Also, I'm thinking of that now like a weather report: "Currently I feel anxious (ETA: and I typed anxiety - lol) but there's a shift in the atmosphere and better front of emotions are moving in."

@Lefie

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, Carol! The weather report idea is gold! Makes it somehow more fun, too... 🙃

@dianeyoung8068

2 жыл бұрын

My qigong teacher says, "I am excited"-instead of "I am anxious".

@carolann811

2 жыл бұрын

@@dianeyoung8068 It would be nice if anxiety and excitement felt the same. I have generalized anxiety disorder. I might try saying I am excited rather than anxious next time and see what happens.

@dianeyoung8068

2 жыл бұрын

@@carolann811I experience these feelings, it is a dance of finding my balance. Drop/relax your shoulders-I have a note on my frig. to remind me- Relaxing your shoulders allows your qi to travel more freely throughout the body. Walking in nature helps too. Many blessings.

I'm glad you had an update on this, because the previous video helped me out, and I like my cards. I'm not a fan of Jordan Peterson (at all) but I am a fan of Lefie, so I got past that. 😋 I went with the physical cards, because I've had digital ones which I ignored after I made them. And my deck is a little smaller, but I'm always expanding it.

Thanks for putting your creations out therr

Hi Lefie! I feel happy for you, that you’ve found a system that helps you go to the direction that you want and that supports you too! I admire your discipline and patience, they are two things that I definitely lack of 😅 I don’t think you’ve made a video about it, would you like to explain how you’ve built your habits and how did you overcome the anxiety of not going fast enough?

I only had four cards last time (I write small and pack a lot in) and this has inspired me to do it again/relook at some things. I may also want to expand. I only had two categories last time. It really helped me focus on a particular writing project and I’ve kept with it for all these months, so I’m glad I took your advice! You keep taking it too. Cheers,

@childcrone

2 жыл бұрын

Project decks make a lot of sense to me 👍🏼

Beautiful cutting technique, when at 14:02 we can hear you talking from the next clip but video is from the previous one. I looove such details!

I made something sort of like this once, a meant to look over every day aspirational goals and quotes booklet. I dug around just now and found a 2x3 inch notebook with perforated pages that I think will work well to combine that old project with your idea. Hate the idea of index cards for this for myself because my dissertation has used so, so many and I'm not done with that yet so I'm spiteful and vindictive towards notecards and will be for at least two more months. Figure is not the best idea to combine my vision board with something that makes me angry lol.

@brucebaker810

2 жыл бұрын

Great that you recognize a friction point. One that, if attempted, would've led to failure. Just would. ...And a viable alternative that facilitates you proceeding. Kudos.

Great ideas...need to watch that first vid :)

For me it's knowing how much to put on it because a lot can overwhelm me.

Do you ever draw (rather than write) your goals/ reminders, etc out on the index cards? It’d be like a graphic novel of your life…

Even more great ideas!!!

Lefie's on a roll. And that pat on the head with cards! 😂

Hey, Lefie! I tried this kind of vision board but I wasn't very consistent with it. Maybe I'll give it another shot. I like seeing updates on your deck : D

I tried this exercise too and I love it!

Thanks for this video!

I saved ur 1st and subscribed and did nothing. Thought it was a good idea though. Then I bought the cards. W highlighters. And I had one weekly section w a M-F checkoff boxes Some cards were Avoiding, Indoor projects, Outdoor projects and Daily. These change every week bc now things are being completed The Beliefs cards get me thru the day. I now don't let the hours get away. I even have a box limiting my soc media and zoning out time. So helpful. It's a coach in a pocket. It's personal rewards I can see. A checked box let's me know that I am progressing towards these goals. Some for now, some forever, all needed. Great stumbling on your channel. Appreciated!!

You are a great storyteller

Great advice, thanks

I feel as if I should (icky not a word I usually use) pay you for therapy! What a wonderful share. TY🙏🏽

This video came at the perfect time for me. I'm currently working on my dissertation film and I'm scared to death...

5:16 - Gold. Thank you for not skipping over the card, it helped so many! I actually wrote down your points and I'm going to put it on an index card (of course) and read it daily! I don't know if I should go on here, 'cause I'm always so wordy, 😂 but I read this today "Not at first, but once the emotion is identified, you can regulate it using strategies such as cognitive restructuring, mindfulness, acceptance and many more." - Nawal Mustafa

COMICS! You wanna learn them? Get into them? Get into Scott McClouds Books. I read "Understand Comics" and "Making Comics" I will get the 3rd book for sure. Its written in a comic style which makes it such an easy and fun read. Usually I never type useful comments (or comments at all) but your content really gives so much that I wanted to give at least SOMETHING back.

@Lefie

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Viktor! I did read "Making Comics" last year and really enjoyed it. Haven't gotten "Understanding Comics" yet but I'll take a look at that, too!

I saw this video when it was new. I'm giving the index card thing a go, I guess, so I came back. Your channel was nice, Lefie. Come back.

Writing pictures and drawing words by Jessica Abel and Matt Madden is a textbook/course book about making comics and sequential art. It has I think two books in the series and they have a community around them. They have exercises and “homework” and you can post within their community without taking a actual class.

In the Irish language we express emotions differently, we say eg. Tá brón orm... the sadness is upon me.

I’m going to re-watch the previous deck video again because I really think I need to try this. Great video!

I love the “lift heavy things”. I agree it makes me feel impressed with myself.

Was gonna comment about the I" am" and verbs "ser" and "estar" from portuguese language, but someone commented the same about spanish language. Now I am curious if latin countries have happier people because of that, or just the sunny weather haha. Continue with the great videos :)

I'm late, but yes now I use the index cards with clippy thing because of you.

Worked well for me. Easier than a vision board and I always carry them in the bag when going somewhere for a while. Got me completely solidified in journaling.

@Lefie

2 жыл бұрын

Ah, sweet! Good to hear, Daniel.

@MonikaMonikaaD

2 жыл бұрын

Ohh, did you have "journaling" written in them?

@MonikaMonikaaD

2 жыл бұрын

It's so amazing to hear the transformation you experienced!

In gaelic we say 'the depression is at me'. We're not possessive about any of our experiences and it makes EVERYTHING easier, from hunger, to anger, to fear etc.

14:20 😁😁😁 A veces sucede. Quizá solo no habíamos realizado algunos ejercicios y únicamente por alguna creencia los asumiamos como 'falsos'. Gracias por compartir. Saludos desde México

Thanks for this. I don’t think the card concept is for me but the things you talked about made me think. I’ve been feeling pressured by my KZread channel lately as I’m getting more followers I feel like my content should get better but I am already doing my best ideas so I need to just chill. Thank you.

Right on You rock

I use my index cards to vent on 😅 Throw them all into my index card box and try to move on. That’s how I stopped myself from lashing out from anger, depression and frustration. It’s my way of externally bottling it up instead of internally bottling it up. It seems easier to handle when I can physically pick it all up and put it wherever I want.

Why don’t you want free time

There are three systems of note taking and planning that actually work: Franklin Covey, multiple legal tablets, and index cards. I have tried all three. The Franklin Covey is not flexible and requires slavish devotion. The legal pads are cumbersome. The index cards can be categorized and physically moved from box to desk to wall.

Miss seeing you here. Hope you're doing well! =)

Thanks for the recommendation, I love "How to funk in two minutes" :))

I prefer planner/journal thing, getting older I want to remember what happened in my life :P

I'm using this too!

Leftie, you are a looney but lovely. Hope things work out for you.

heck yeah!

Time to make an update video. Been 10 months or so. Do you still use this method?

Have you kept the cards that you have discarded or have you added those things to your ‘accomplished’ card?

@Lefie

2 жыл бұрын

I didn't keep them, no - but I'm thinking maybe I should have... I really like the idea of adding them to the "accomplished" card, though! Thanks, Ann!

what does "find something worth giving up your screwing up" mean?

Will you please post a link to the Jordan Peterson/Russell Brand vid?

Hi. I'm not a much of a commenter. But I wanted to say that in Spanish it's much more used to say the words "feeling sad", "feeling angry" cause saying "I'm sad" it's basically saying what you are and not how you're feeling

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Damn that Was an eye opener

May/10/2022

Next Gen. sounds more techy.... You mean more Trekkie! Ooooooooooo! Peace.