This channel has helped me so much recently. As a 24 year old it's nice to feel like you're not alone. Keep up the great work Harry

@MultiXDDX

3 жыл бұрын

23 here. It's hard but it's really comforting to see that I'm not alone.

@ogeredmon6665

3 жыл бұрын

@@MultiXDDX iam 23 and balding too. That sh*t is depressing.

@chrisyodice8766

3 жыл бұрын

I got y’all beat lmao I’m 21 and got extreme thinning on the crown. One day I’ll just say F it. But we in it together boys!!!

@nik_01_51

3 жыл бұрын

I shaved my hair two years ago, i am 24 now. Got me alot of compliments and respect. I am proud to be in the Club! :D

@lololololololol2012

3 жыл бұрын

I’m 24 and balding as well as going gray . I guess it’s time to adapt. Going bald but I need to get buff as well!!!

Man, I love this community thank you so much Harry

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

Pleasure to have you involved 👍

The thing that pisses me off about balding is how it is a natural process and yet we treat it like it is something to be ashamed of - like it's a personal failure. What's worse, is it is overwhelmingly men who are propagating the shame. Men who will start losing their hair themselves and start feeling shame over it too. I know a younger guy at my old work who used to make fun of the guys who were a bit older and losing their hair. Now he's losing his and you can tell he's self conscious about it. Most of us, at some point, are going to face the reality that we are losing our hair. Guys, we need to drop the shaming of other guys because you are just feeding shame around something that will likely one day be focused on you. Women have been raising some consciousness around their own insecurities, it's time men did the same.

@coffeeguitar2375

3 жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree more with ya brother! It's nothing to be ashamed of!

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

Well said. It’s time to build each other up so we can all do better.

@chrisburns5691

3 жыл бұрын

@jack steve if you have to resort to hookers, you have a lot more issues than having to buzz a balding head.

@chrisburns5691

3 жыл бұрын

@jack steve up to you.. I think i do better with the ladies with it buzzed than when I had a balding look going on.. whatever floats your boat bruh...

@johncrow2852

3 жыл бұрын

@@chrisburns5691 what's wrong with escorts? Oldest profession in the world.

The first guy honestly looked great with that hair.

Hi guys, I'm late to the "shave it off" game (I'm 60) and lost my hair in my 20's. Obsessed for years and tried everything. Finally buzzed it a couple of years ago and last March went smooth with a blade. (My wife wouldn't look at me for 24 hours... she's accepted it now) Anyway, did the challenge and NOBODY noticed. We think about it way more than anybody else. Can't wait to see my old barber next week and have him take it all the way down. Be strong guys, and thank you Harry for your constant encouragement. Best wishes for the new year!

@ogeredmon6665

3 жыл бұрын

Out of curiosity what u mean by tried everything?

@cem1838

3 жыл бұрын

A toupee (in my 20's,) Minoxidil, special shampoos, comb overs, the whole gambit. I have to say one thing that has always bothered me is jokes about balding (and baldness) are socially accepted. I would never make fun of someone's weight, or looks to their faces. But, people do that all the time. (I recently attended a funeral for a family friend, and a relative greeted me shielding her eyes saying "Oh, the glare.") When discussing this later at home, my wife seemed genuinely surprised when I said they were making fun of a physical flaw. Perhaps that's what we all need to work on. We see it as a flaw, they see it as a joke. I'm working on NOT seeing it as a flaw, but as only a part of who I am. Sorry for the long winded reply.

@whitewolf-hn2sk

3 жыл бұрын

Love this well done mate!!!

@stevenscummy1458

3 жыл бұрын

Nothing wrong with being a bald guy, especially during middle age. Most women will never know the struggle though so I guess to her it was normal to make that joke, for some guys shaving the head will make them look younger though

@BudFuddlacker

3 жыл бұрын

@@cem1838 you saying your wife wouldn’t look at you after you shaved it makes me feel worse, because I know women don’t like it

If you're attractive your hair does not matter. I see so many guys who worry about going bald but are overweight. Instead of focusing on things you cannot change naturally. Focus on changing the things you can.

hi mate, not only have you spurred on so many of us to embrace baldness and shave it all off instead of trying to hide it in one way or another, you also boldly grow it all back and show it to the world here on yt without any tricks. What can I say, you're amazing man 👍🏻

Bro i love your channel. You really help men change their whole perspective of being bald. You really really help!

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks man. Appreciate you being part of the channel 👍

I don't even grow in the front anymore....just a little more than a horseshoe after 25 days. Had hair when I needed it. Bald is beautiful

@microtechmachineshop

3 жыл бұрын

Same boat as you

Seasons Greetings Harry keep up the good work and supporting men everywhere.

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I hope you had a fantastic holiday season 🙏 here’s to next year 🍻

I think this is such a powerful video

Harry you are the man! Thank you for the channel

Great content as always

Well done to all you lads 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻

i know it may not be super helpful, but i personally find the Uncle Phil ring of hair on the back of the head with a bald top pretty attractive on dudes of all ages

@justinroark88

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you. You’re beautiful also

Hahahah 7:53 a harry james kimbo slice cosplay thank you very much lol.

I started to loose my hair when i was 23. Made the right decision to shave it off. I am proud of shaving it ever since.

Balding men should be the real #bodypositive. Not fat chicks. Anyone can lose weight but losing hair for some guys is inevitable, you cannot stop it.

It's all good guys, but don't ever kid yourself. Hair helps. You are ready to take on the challenge if you know that more swipe lefts will go with balding. Saying nobody cares doesn't mean anything. It is how they (people) subconsciously act..respond and 100% love the spirit of this channel again. Totally agree that the fresh buzz gives you that energy.

Well done lads.

That's actually how it SHOULD ALWAYS be. There is absolutely nothing wrong with losing your hair and it should NEVER affect your confidence. People give way to much value to social media/ fashion and how it expects them to look. There is absolutely nothing desirable in being and looking like a sheep. Start owning yourself and don't allow others or anything else to own you.

That awkward moment when you start loving your receding hairline because you can finally shave it off completely w/o excuses 😎

@vontai4553

3 жыл бұрын

Grow it out

@shabbirkhan5049

3 жыл бұрын

Yup, i can relate.

😎 Informative video about confidence and new hope. Life is short - Pain is Short - confidence is everlasting.

When I was in the hospital for two weeks in April and couldn't shave, I finally got a barber to shave my 18 days of growth. I never really appreciated a shaved head until the point where I couldn't do it. That was the one time a barber visit never felt so good!

Just shaved my hair off and actually love it feels so freeing

Kimbo slice 😂. Tremendous

I've shaved my head twice, once to almost clean shaven and the second to a two. Wasn't a huge fan so I grew it out again. I'm receding and wanted to see how it would look, I would suggest anyone that has slight doubts about their hair tries it. If you do it early your hair will, probably regrow to the same length all over, so you'll only have weeks or months of wearing a hat before it's back. Or you may like it and want to keep it clean shaven or very short. But without trying you can't really know how it both looks and feels.

I don't think I'd be that uncomfortable in the first two guys' shoes, I think the horseshoe is way worse than a receding hairline paired with slight thinning. Kudos to all of you guys for doing this, I tried but eventually gave up. Not necessarily because of the look, but because I hated the feel of it.

@TheExtremeCube

3 жыл бұрын

Integrity my brother

@j-man7467

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah the first guy looked fine without the full shave imo

That first dude; U look good bald my guy.

When are you going clean shaven? Really looking forward to the video

I still have hair but i wanted to try out shaving and seeing how i look clean shaved. The reasons are i wanted to see the process about growing the hair from zero, being prepared of how i look when im balding and i have some skin problems on the head. I am still unsure i like my hair a lot.

I'm bald and I love it

Next challenge: two months! 😁😅 Congrats and greetings, Baldcafe

It’s nice to get it longer so when you shave again it’s supppper satisfying 😂 currently growing my beard and hair out after going as Walter white for Halloween 👴🏻

I’m only 18 and I still have all of my hair but it’s good to be prepared mentally.

@adamwnt

3 жыл бұрын

i always said at your age, when i gonna start balding, i gonna shave it all off, then when i actually started balding i used all the possible tricks to hide it, hair fibers above all. Never ever do it, or if you do, maybe just at the very beginning, and then shave it all off, you gonna feel much better i'm telling you. i used fibers for far too long, but at least i did not consider doing transplants and stuff, that would have been too much. Life is too short and money is never enough to be holding on to your receding hair. Once you shave your head whenever you start balding you gonna feel much better and I owe so much to this channel which gave me the confidence to do it a couple of months ago. Sorry for the long winded comment.

I tried to join this challenge but I gave up on the 10th day lol

i have the same issue as you when are you going let it grow for a few weeks and do a fade i think that would be good for a future video i am now a new sub to your channel buddy.

Since i noticed that my sculp is visible i felt in big depression. It feels like my life is over and no woman will ever been attracted to me now. My self confidence is so low that i even can't go out of bed and go out meet new people. Maybe the most doesn't undersand my fears and depression here but it feels like my life its over now.

@hasselett

3 жыл бұрын

Mate, it's not the end. Invest yourself in this channel and watch some of these guys' stories. So many of them have been in your exact situation, but they've come out of their tribulations stronger and more confident than before they shaved their hair off. There's always a light at the end of the tunnel, and no matter how shitty you feel now, your situation will improve. My tip is to shave your hair off ASAP so that you can start off your new chapter as smoothly as possible. If you still feel depressed about your hairloss, I suggest talking to a therapist so that you can get some advice moving forward.

@MHG00876

3 жыл бұрын

@jack steve that is your experiance? Just joking or are you for real?

Shaving balding hair is look younger and free😊

04:25 you look like a wise man. Greetings 👍

100 % if you went to a barber who can actually get you right you could pull off a nice skin fade with like a 1/2 or 1 on top def have enough hair to get a sharp line with razor and all

Hi brother. I think . You will much much better in French beard

I wear a baseball cap to hide the fact that i am almost completly bald. I do shave my head though. There was this girl who was interested in me. We made out & she wondered why i wear a hat all the time. I said that i am not really comfortable being bald yet. This came as a shock to her....she stopped talking to me. This story has happened many times by now. Man being bald gets you no girl....it really sucks. Sex is our strongest desire after all.

@4Frmcfff

Жыл бұрын

Wow man can u give me an update do u have a girl yet 2023 ?

@Eurolaflare

Жыл бұрын

The best is to just not wear a hat and not hide things, makes it worst

Great channel. It’s the only lack of hair lifestyle channel 😂 I subscribe to. Can I ask your advice? I’ve only recently started shaving my head bald. I use a Braun series 9. I’ve noticed I’ve been getting a few little spots, like red pimples. What can I do to avoid this?

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

That’s interesting as I thought electric shavers were better at avoiding that. I would say to start be conscious of how hard you are pressing onto the skin when shaving (shouldn’t be too hard) and I’ve heard guys use baby powder when dry shaving to give a smoother glide. Might be worth a try!

@boriswindsor-lockhorne2449

3 жыл бұрын

@@Baldcafe thanks for the reply a. I will try that. It’s not mega bad but my skin is always prone to irritation/spots in general. Watching your channel is what made me decide to go from clippers no guard to a razor and I’m so glad I did

Tons of guys would benefit massively from leaving their hair at a no guard oppose to completely skin bald. Depends on the level of baldness

I was thinning on the sides really bad after I cut my man bun off. I had the Jorge Masvidal (ufc fighter) hairline forming. I cut it off in the summer, all of it and I loved it. I grew it out for 6 months again and it was the same thing so I cut it all off again for the 2nd time this year Christmas night. I could’ve finessed it and held onto some beautiful hair besides the small thinning but it was bugging me and I just did what made me happy. Plus this look, looks better and if you can grow a beard it really adds to the aesthetics If you can’t grow a beard, grow whatever you can out to the max, mustache, sideburns, goatee, chin hair, whatever. It’s a 🔥 look. Blessings. - Quan Duke

@joshpaul6417

3 жыл бұрын

I swear masvidal had the perfect hairline till he grew his hair out.... Wonder if he will shave his head as he would look badass with a bear and bald head

@stevenscummy1458

3 жыл бұрын

Jorge Masvidal, that's it? Lol he doesn't look that bad to me considering he's in his mid 30s, nothing wrong with a bit of a mature hairline. I'd take a little bit of an imperfect hairline vs overall thinning anyday. Of course if the hairline continues to recede rapidly that's another problem

Thanks. I’m balding quite a lot but I just don’t care since I watch your videos. I realized nobody really cares about our hair.

🤣 bald is beautiful!!😎

The 3rd guy....its the beard that looks bad your head is fine !!

the front is okay the back is were you can see how very thin it would get it would be engrossing to see how much hair you would have when your 35 years old from what i read online the hair you have at 35 years old is the hair that usually stays would you for the rest of your life like i said this is just data that i read a long time ago.

Next should be "Grow a Skullet" challenge.

I get way more women that hit ob me shaven than before. Women actually love bald heads.

I'll stick with the Big 3

This inspires me to keep my head shaved 24/7/365 :-) :-)

i definitely appreciate having hair, but bald dudes look tough af.

I like the looks much better then shaving it off

being bald at 25 gave me huge huge spiritual transition ... it kind of let me go of all the mundane things life ...

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

I can totally relate man

@natsukakashi124

3 жыл бұрын

Being bald at 25 y old is different than being bald at 16 y old. I am balding since my 16 y old. It was such bad experience.

@BruhaspathiRoark

3 жыл бұрын

@@natsukakashi124 I know the pain ... at the end, you'll only be stronger :) ...

Could you kindly put a link for the clippers please thank you 🙏

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

Oh damn I forgot that! I will add one very shortly 👍

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

I have added now here is my amazon link to the clippers - amzn.to/2KGfDxQ

@manlybeardoil9941

3 жыл бұрын

@@Baldcafe Thank you bro 👍🏻

It's not enough bro. I have already shave my head and i have a bad head shape. My insecurites is way worse bald than when i have hair. I look old also

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

Shaving your head is not enough. Hey you tried it and if you felt better with the hair you had then it will grow back in no time if you want to go back to it. You haven't lost anything, You have learnt something.

I've been shaving my head (well buzzing with no guard specifically) for about 10 years....I'm also over 50...it does not bother me anymore not to shave it for a while (a month or so) and honestly if I was more grey I would just grow it out some and leave it...it really doesn't bother me knowing that I can shave it off comfortably whenever I want. If I were a young man in my 20's or 30's I would probably feel different, but at 52 I just don't give a "shite" anymore....it's TRUE liberation.

@SteveWKk

3 жыл бұрын

I stopped caring at 24 :)

Just buzz or shave it off " confidence is in a man's balls not his hairline .😎

Shave shave shave, get rid of that hair. Free yourself of the insecurities

@axelpineda77

3 жыл бұрын

Awesome bro 🙏🏻🤘🏻

@damienoptc7222

3 жыл бұрын

It's not enough bro. I have already shave my head and i have a bad head shape. My insecurites is way worse bald than when i have hair. I look old also

@axelpineda77

3 жыл бұрын

@@damienoptc7222 me too bro, i’m losing my hair since 2014 get so depressed and fucked up, now i’m start shaving my head and don’t give a damn about people says, im trying to be more confident and do my best about my hair 🤘🏻🤘🏻

@xSalamz

3 жыл бұрын

Amen. Preach!

@donaldallen5748

3 жыл бұрын

@@damienoptc7222 that sounds like a cop-out excuse to me

I would say that if you’re obviously balding and everyone can see it but you’re trying to hang on for dear life 100% of the time it’s better to just shave it off. Unless you wanna go the route of transplant, pills, minox, hair fibres etc. (nothing wrong with that btw). All these guys look so much better with that clean look instead of that “hey I’m obviously balding, look at me trying to hang on for dear life” look!

@blahqwe

3 жыл бұрын

or it could just be interpreted as 'hey i'm obviously balding, but I don't give a s***'. Or perhaps they don't want the clean shaven look but a 1 or 2.

@jackkelly3697

3 жыл бұрын

@@blahqwe I think you missed my point. I’m talking about the guys that are obviously trying so hard to hide it while everyone else can see it. The guys that want to hang on so bad it becomes an unhealthy obsession..

My name is XouFeng and my hair looks like a bald in the top of my head and my hair is feels itchy... and right there in my left hair looks bald

@lovelygameworld4628

3 жыл бұрын

I can reversed your hair back. I can send the hair serum very very fast in your doorstep. cheers🍼

I paid £4000 pound for Invisalign aligners for my teeth as they were slightly crooked and I was paranoid, I never had no problem with women or anything before anyway it was all in my head, I got them last year , was meant to wear them everyday for 22 hours and should of finished the treatment 1 year ago, guess what, my gf at the time when I got them didn't even notice or care about my teeth, I have dated a few girls since then, they always ask me what the hell is that I'm taking out my mouth, they don't even notice my teeth lol, it's been almost two years and have not even finished the treatment , as I can't be bothered to wear them anymore AS NO ONE CARES! Wish I had saved that money now and bought a 125cc motorcycle 🏍️

@KrisVic91

3 жыл бұрын

I chipped my teeth front teeth in lockdown, it's annoying 😂.

@jittyjittybangbang19

3 жыл бұрын

@@KrisVic91 it could look cute you never know lol

@KrisVic91

3 жыл бұрын

@@jittyjittybangbang19 meh, I'm not vain, I've grown my hair out for two months now, forehead like a dinner plate. But chipped tooth is just annoying eating and stuff, look like a wild animal. Ice hockey players don't give a fuckk, i saw a young guy getting drafted saying " i can't wait to get my teeth knocked out so i can get new ones" 😂😂😂. I fuckking hate how vain society is nowadays.

@jittyjittybangbang19

3 жыл бұрын

@@KrisVic91 Im 30 odd now I remember when I was 17 and in the gym I use to love getting deep red stretch marks on my arms because I was a skinny little fucker and at least I knew I was growing, now I hardly get time to hit the gym as I do manual labour but I wear them as my battle scars haha

Man,i wish i had the balls to do it...

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

you can ease yourself into it over time. Start with a few days, then a week, head out to the shops, those fears will subside then next time you can go a little longer and before you know it it will phase you less and less.

@Jack-ns9sz

3 жыл бұрын

Buy some clippers and have them sitting near your mirror in the bathroom. There will come a time when you are looking in the mirror, unhappy with what you see and you'll say to yourself "fuck it" and grab the clippers and shaved it off. That's what happened with me.

Hey man I do think a Kai Greene Ponytail would be cool.

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

What a guy 👏 I don’t know why I didn’t think of him 😂

i buzz my head once a week cant stand it

when r u shaving off ur beard

Idk why society judges if u keep ur balding hair who cares if u have a m shape hairline i feel more comfortable with m shaoe hair line vs nothing

Why not use minoxidil?

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

It’s not the cure people want it to be. Especially not long term

Easy for you to say, you don't have the top of one of your ears missing.

I could never grow my hair out again, I don't think I'm balding, my Dad had a great head of hair even at age 70 when he passed away last June, so maybe it's genetic, but I've been shaving my head bald since I was 18, I have OCD, I hate hair, just about everywhere on my body, Head, Chest, Back, Private, I don't mind a short beard, I actually tried shaving my arms and legs, I regretted it, felt so weird. And yes there is nothing like that fresh feel of a clean shaved head, and IMO, it's now socially acceptable, no longer should white men be looked at as Neo-Nazi's, or White Supremacists, or Skin Heads for shaving their head bald, I love the feeling, maybe one day I'll try the no shave for a month, but for now, I'm a wet shave every night in the shower, Shick Hydro 5 bladed razors, with regular shave cream(On a budget, so I can't afford those fancy blades you have, but those are awesome looking for being able to just do one pass by of the head and it's bald, I need to go over spots a few times, but it's ok), also love your channel, you're helping so many guys who are balding realizing bald is beautiful, Do it, especially if you're insecure about your looks, or like me, I can't stand hair. Anyway, awesome videos, cheers, and happy holidays.

@damienoptc7222

3 жыл бұрын

You have a good head shape ? What can i do if i have a bad head shape ? i have very huge bump on my head

You have a good donner area for hair transplant , do you think about doing it ?

not fun to be bald let be clear, micropigmentation is a good and simple way for us bald to look good

Man you have good dooner area for HT u can take up to 6500 graft 👌

Keep the beard bro

i don't really understand doing this. if you didn't care / wasn't insecure, then you wouldn't shave anyway and need to do this? not hating, just a genuine question?

@derekporter66

3 жыл бұрын

@Csmithy2100 but why. That's like someone hating being fat and purposely gaining 30 stone

@chrisdavisjr

3 жыл бұрын

@@derekporter66 It's more like someone hating being fat but wearing a swimsuit anyway; it's revealing to everyone what you were insecure about and being okay with it being on display.

@derekporter66

3 жыл бұрын

@@chrisdavisjr but they shave their head, so they're not ok? i don't get it

@chrisdavisjr

3 жыл бұрын

@@derekporter66 It's often good to confront your insecurities in order to work through them: These men were worried that growing their hair out would make them look bad or feel bad but, when they actually did it, they felt fine; that's really the ideal goal of the exercise. Does that make sense?

@SoberJokR

3 жыл бұрын

@@chrisdavisjr plus they prefer the shaved look. Good explanations there, very patient also haha

Guys, I thought I was the only insecure little bitch out there, but it's kinda nice knowing I'm not. I am 51 years old and I have been wearing a hat every single day and nite since I was in the 4th grade. I would like to say my hats off to the brave men who had the balls to embrace there hair issue and accept it, but I'm embarrassed to take it off. I wish I could do it but I'm the percentage of guys that just can't do it. Fuck it sucks to be me😭🖕

a lot of these guys of easily just run norwood cover up game and normies would not even be able to tell that they were balding..................

@Jack-ns9sz

3 жыл бұрын

that's not the point though. trying to hide their balding takes a lot of mental energy worrying about it.

meow

You could have saved your hair with Fin and 0 sides. It's a shame you went the "liberating" path. There is nothing liberating about letting MPB get the best of you. Best, -MK

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

In my eyes accepting the MPB is not letting it get the best of you. All the best 👍

@PharmacologyandHealth

3 жыл бұрын

@@Baldcafe Accepting MPB? Why would you accept a genetic defect that makes you look older? DHT is a trash hormone that serves no real purpose after puberty. There are a lot of things in our body that cause harm, DHT is just one of those things. Most people not only regain hair, but have more confidence and clearer skin from using a DHT blocker. It's all preference, for me, looking youthful and young for a little while longer is worth any fabricated risk.

If I wasn't so fat I would shave my head off. I just can't see myself with a shaven head and my obese body.

@westleydenny5668

3 жыл бұрын

so work on getting a healthy body bro nothings stopping u but u

Wtf bro? in 2018 you still had all your hair. How could you go from norwood 1 to norwood 6 in just 2 years?

@chrisdavisjr

3 жыл бұрын

Some people just level up faster than everyone else.

In your country is acceptable but in 3 rd world like south asiah is very difficult people always commented you looking old and uncle type so many disgusting think's I hear every day can anyone help me I am 26 live in bd

@Baldcafe

3 жыл бұрын

Be the change you want to see. Not easy but someone has to do it. It’s possible. Don’t play into their bs “you look like and uncle” crap. Rise above that shallow minded sh*t

Dude, forget about your head. It's alright! Just get rid of that ridiculous beard...

You're only 23 I thought you were at least 30 ahaha

None of this is important. Please spend your time doing something else.