The resentment we carry is a heavy burden. Please share this video far and wide. Thank you.

@jaughnekow

8 ай бұрын

what if you only have resentment for yourself?

@Chichimee

8 ай бұрын

This was a mid lecture. More Alan Watts stuff please.

@starryeye6511

8 ай бұрын

This is NOT the "anti-vemom" to the "venom". It doesn't talk about how to address and heal from the real traumas that are the sources of the pain, suffering, "venom". 👎 1 should not have to "take responsibility" for traumas caused by others, and i know it means take responsibility for your own emotions and actions on how to handle it. BUT, that CAN'T HAPPEN UNTIL the person gets the love and support and help to treat the "venom" which is the source of it all. Otherwise the "love" given out from within still carries a desperation or resentment that is part of said venom.

@Chichimee

8 ай бұрын

@@starryeye6511 💯 I’d much rather hear you talk for fifteen minutes than the misguided dude in the vid

@publicrelations9612

8 ай бұрын

Loved this. Came at the right time for me x

That Teddy story hits home. When I was a little girl my mom taught me that lesson with a cousin I had and didn’t like much. He was hyperactive and used to destroy everything. My mom tells me he will be staying with us a full day and I pleaded with her to not allow it because I was afraid he’ll destroy my books. She told me he was not going to misbehave and she was going to show me how. Well he came and as soon as his mom left and he was about to get into my books, my mom offered to read him a book. I remember to this day how still and hypnotized he was, he kept on asking for more books. When he left, my mom mentioned how he misbehaves because he needs more attention than he receives. I leaned a great lesson that day that to this day I remember clearly.

@mattgstar7

16 күн бұрын

What was the lesson?

@GlowBowl420

9 күн бұрын

Great post 😊 Thank you for sharing. Indeed an important life lesson, I'm glad you learned it so young. Sounds like you had a great mom, too.❤

@svtaile1

7 күн бұрын

@@GlowBowl420 I won the lottery with my mom and my dad. Life is easier because of them, all I do is follow their steps with a few updates here and there. Thank you for your words.

@GlowBowl420

7 күн бұрын

That's awesome. :) I've been called wise quite a few times, even though I'm still young. I always say the same thing, "I just listen to people who are where I would like to be and try my best to follow their advice." Adding your own twist is definitely important. Sounds like you're on great path. 🙂

@fefe1179

3 сағат бұрын

I love that your mom gave him what he deserved as a child 😭😭💔💔💔💔💔

I was middle child of 7 kids in a very dysfunctional family. Neglected and abused I was socially aloof and completely checked out in school and treated poorly by a lot of peers and most of my teachers. But Ms. Wilson, my 3rd grade teacher at Bethel Elementary in KC, Kansas taught me what unconditional love was. She always believed in me and treated me with kindness and compassion. I’ll never ever forget her.

@lovemydog27

21 күн бұрын

Unfortunately I never found someone like you teacher or the one from the clip.. In fact at 27 I have a destroyed life, because no one was there to show me I matter

@Rockell479

19 күн бұрын

@@lovemydog27 You do matter! I promise you that. It is very hard to see it though when you’ve been treated poorly all or most of your life. God loves everyone with an infinite love! We can’t fathom how much God loves you.

@lovemydog27

18 күн бұрын

@@Rockell479 thanks, your words matter.

@LisaB-mg4sg

9 күн бұрын

@@lovemydog27 we can learn self care, try to get a mentor, if you speak kindly to people with issues, do the same with your inner and outer talk about yourself. There’s a lady on KZread that I listened to a couple times. Tara Brach. Look her up, not exactly for budism or enlightenment, but just listen she makes me feel very welcomed n normal

@dominiknewfolder2196

7 күн бұрын

​@@lovemydog27You don't need anyone to show you matter. That's a mistake I was making, a terrible mistake. By believing that you need someone you are giving your soul, self-esteem and happiness into someone else's hands. This way you will be used by someone else just for them to feel better. Go and be alone. Learn in solitude to be with yourself. It may be tuff at first 😉 But after some time you can build in solitude yourself from scratch. Believe that you need anyone for being happy is a LIE put into people usually by controlling women, especially mommy. You don't need anyone to be happy. Also try psylocybin. It helps go through the first stages of solitude. Exercises and good diet are also needed because healing your soul may be exhausting 😊 Remember, you don't need anything from anyone to be happy. Nothing and nobody.

When something someone did or said to me hurts me.. I would let it eat at me and I’d be angry or upset and get anxiety everytime I thought about it. I started forcing myself to say it out loud and in my head that I forgive them, I accept what happened and I forgive myself. I repeat it a few times or anytime it crossed my mind, now when I think about what happened, I don’t get any anxiety or negative feelings. I can forgive very quickly and easily now, it’s helped me be more understanding and patient with people. Forgiving people isn’t about letting bad people off the hook, it’s about not letting it affectyou anymore. ❤

@holayou2241

16 күн бұрын

I’m fighting this right now. It got so bad ,I may have compromised my health because of this. I keep thinking about it over and over and over again. And I’m so conscious that I shouldn’t be wasting my time and emotions on that, but it’s hard. 😢 not fun

@stellablue707

Күн бұрын

I had a sad realization today and felt hurt and then mad. Your suggestion is helpful i repeated it and just felt all the feelings 😢. Thanks for sharing.

This made me cry. I grew up with extreme abuse for many years. I am now a parent and I have been struggling in my relationship with my son. Yesterday I watched a coach speak about how he encouraged and supported one of the best athletes ever. Today I stumbled upon this beautiful message. I have found my answer. It may seem so obvious to many, but when you were born in darkness, it takes 10 times the effort to find simple truths. Thank you...

@paxnorth7304

23 күн бұрын

And of course, then they're ten times as clear once we get them ;) You might like Anthony DeMello's work. He's passed on, but you can find many of his talks on KZread and Spotify. God bless.

I spent the majority of my 20s being bitter and resentful because people who were close to me turn their backs on me and hurt me tremendously. I always thought I was aa good person who was better than everyone and believed I had some kind of moral high ground but I had to learn that REAL GOOD people show it through action, they don’t just sit around and claim to be a good person and they definitely don’t sit around and judge others. Forgiveness, understanding, and healing are painful processes but nothing compares to the years of suffering I have already endured being alone and angry at the world and god. I hope everyone find the strength to overcome their challenges and to choose love and happiness over all.

@Firstthunder

2 ай бұрын

It’s wonderful that you have freedom from that sick feeling of resentment

@Ultralined

Ай бұрын

I admire your Self awareness❤

@Izz740

23 күн бұрын

How did you overcome? I’m still sad they could treat me in ways

@isaacbrown617

23 күн бұрын

@@Izz740 If you can afford therapy or if it is offered through your health insurance you should start there. The pain others cause you may never completly go away but you should try to understand the people that hurt you. Maybe they have been through traumatic things or maybe they don’t know or don’t realize they are causing you harm. Try to rationalize on your own why they treat you the way they do and forgive them for it. Forgiveness isn’t weakness. It is actually the most selfish thing you can do for YOURSELF because YOU are choosing to LET GO. Like Wayne mentions in this video. You can’t wait for people to apologize because it may never happen, they may not see the way they live or treat people as “bad”. Choose forgiveness and love. Lastly, do some self reflecting. I don’t know your situation but I’m sure there are things you can change about yourself. Rather that is setting boundaries or learning to stand up for yourself in a way that you’re comfortable with. Remember, these changes don’t happen overnight. It takes months, maybe even years and a lot of self-love and mindfulness. I hope this helps you. You deserve to be happy and live a life you enjoy. Don’t ever forget that.

That Teddy story made me tear up. When I was in primary school I was a pretty bad student. I was poorly socialized and didn't know how to make proper friends so I was often frustrated and acted out. By the first quarter of 5th grade my teacher noticed that I was intuitively intelligent but wasn't applying myself so she took special attention and helped me channel my skills into school. Ever since then I've been an over-achiever and it has taken me to great places. I'll never forget Ms. Higgins.

@Featherfinder

Ай бұрын

That is so great! God bless you AND Miss Higgins.

@sathirakatugaha974

Ай бұрын

@@Featherfinder thank you!

@sathirakatugaha974

Ай бұрын

@@Featherfinder god bless you too!

Being a child and domestic abuse survivor, this hit right in the feels. I am resentful of so many things I know I have to let go in order for me to be free

@litao3679

7 ай бұрын

Know that what you went through was in order to help you, no matter what it looks like. Like the lotus that blooms out of the mud, we also bloom from the muck. Be that one, the example of what transcendence looks like. Much Love and Light on your journey 🙇‍♀️🙏💛

@medic173

7 ай бұрын

U gotta ask God to help u forgive and let go of bitterness cuz that root has grown over the years and u don't have the strength to pull out that root of bitterness, only God can do it.

@msimon6808

7 ай бұрын

The anger is the disease.

@Arcano_doce

7 ай бұрын

The tricky thing is, we can't really let go of resentment because if we do, then there is no "I" to tell the tale. The "I" will therefore resist letting go though many clever, clever ways... Luckily, all we need to do is recognize that resentment is still there, that we (and no one) are not guilty for keeping it, but we'd love to think differently. We ask the Holy Spirit, God, or whatever we want to call it, for help, that we can look at things in a different light. That's all. We ask, wholeheartedly, and just make sure we're willing to recieve, to the best of our ability. The "I" gets to stay, and use it's functions, which means resistance won't be too hard (it will be there though, it just won't win the battle), but it slowly gives way to Truth.

@litao3679

7 ай бұрын

@@Arcano_doce I needed to hear this today, as I’ve been feeling a lot of restlessness, fear, anxiety, worry and an overall sense of dread. Not feeling equipped to handle this thing called “life”, wanting to leave sooner rather than later. Such a hard thing to do, separate your feelings from what you truly are. But pointers like this help on the journey. Thank you so much and I hope you have an amazing day 🌅 🙇‍♀️🙏

Taking responsibility doesn't mean what happened was your own fault, but it does give you your power back in the situation. I used to scoff at this ideas of not being concerned with blame and resentment, but now I can completely see that entertaining these feelings and ideas have only kept me stuck in a place of misery and inaction.

The Teddy story reminded me of my grandma. She was a primary school teacher for math and science in a public school of a small community in the south of Brazil. She told me that she would always look at those kids that were left out, that were not doing well in the tests, that wouldn’t pay attention in class. She would call them up to talk to them individually, and no doubt, they always 100% had some big problems of abuse and lack of love at home. She would see them, and give them the support and care that they needed. No doubt no matter where she goes, there are 40/50 y.o. People that recognizes her in the streets and shops of that town and will always remember Teacher Leda, and they all say how great a teacher she was to them. God bless all the kind teachers out there in the world that see and care about every children. Love is the answer, always! Ps: I loved that you used aang in the art 💛

@rahelglaus5721

8 ай бұрын

@@ChucklesMcGurkOf course they are allowed to feel that. The message is that, once they can forgive and let the resentment go, they are free of that burden and can grow out of victimhood and finally take responsibility and their life into their own hands.

@henrikljungstrand2036

8 ай бұрын

​@@rahelglaus5721Yes that is correct. We are allowed of feeling resentment, but it is of no use, this is merely us cursing ourselves with prolonged torment. By letting go of our resentment, we are choosing to act out of self love and bless ourselves from now on, instead of cursing ourselves. This takes courage and strength indeed.

@ade0573

8 ай бұрын

Yep 👍

@isabelmujica945

5 ай бұрын

As a Teacher, thank you, THANK YOU FOR YOUR WORDS. God bless you and Teacher Leda.

@AtTheDoor

5 ай бұрын

@@isabelmujica945 God bless you for all you work, Teacher Isabel

I am a 52 year old father of three boys, gulf-war veteran, 5th degree black belt and I consider myself a pretty tough guy. That "Teddy" story has me bawling like a 220lbs baby as I type this. Haven't blubbered like this since I was a very small child.

@jeffmiller3499

8 ай бұрын

Sissy. Lol jk man. It was very touching and beautiful story

@marshagail2727

8 ай бұрын

Beautifully said by a Real man👊

@jdawg8157

8 ай бұрын

Only the toughest cry brother 🫡

@martinevanloon2695

8 ай бұрын

I cried too - it’s a wonderful gift to be given that

@psplayer1344

8 ай бұрын

Hilarious when men list their physical size when mentioning they cried

If you feel resentful, dont feel guilty about the resentment but know that no emotion can last forever constantly. Its okay to feel this emotion and dont forget to look past it too and focus on things you are drawn to. When you are ready you will search for Bliss. Resentment will not last.

Fault means accountability blame means responsibility. Resentment when justice is not served.

Wayne Dyer has been one of the greatest teachers in my life. I miss him.

@bobettemorgan453

Ай бұрын

First book read was "Your Erroneous Zones" CHANGED MY LIFE decades ago.The latest piece of truth of his I've been chewing on, was when he said " when you change the way you are look at things, soon the things your looking start to change".❤ RIP DR.DYER.

@kungfookatcc

26 күн бұрын

He was a rapist. You idolize a rapist

@juliel4891

15 күн бұрын

❤❤❤❤

No leaf falls randomly. Patience be with us all.

His name was Mr Council, He was the librarian at my primary school and temp teacher. He understood the challenges of growing up with a mother with a mental illness. His kindness and understanding still brings tears to my eyes.

@Firstthunder

2 ай бұрын

I’m the mom with who struggled with mental illness who is grateful for teachers like that.

Teddy was lucky to have had a good mom he actually missed. Never underestimate what an act of kindness might do to a little boy.

The artwork and words with this video and Wayne’s voice make this so powerful. Thank you to the late Wayne Dyer and to the artist here! ❤

It’s 1am and have tears streaming down my face

@justice4all977

26 күн бұрын

Same

Yup! One of the greatest teacher. Mr Wayne Dyer!!!❤

Wayne Dyer’s books aided my spiritual awakening over 30 years ago, love his teachings 🙏🏻💕✨

The Teddy story hit me right in my feels. Esp the part where he tells his teacher "thank you for making me feel important and showing me that i could make a difference". I feel like we need to wake up everyday and be that person for ourselves. Believe that we are so important and so capable of making so many lives better just by being us. Best wishes to everyone here, hope you have a great day today:)

This all makes sense, but it has to be applied collectively. If you’re stuck in a family who resent each other and you’re the one who lets go of that you will be attacked by the others who still resent you. I’ve been trying so fucking hard for years now to sort my family out and reach a proper understanding. I do everything I can to be kind and at my very best. Frankly these online motivational quotes sound lovely, but don’t really work. Be humble and work hard and you’re going to suffer and other people will shurk their responsibility on to you. In the end I’ve realised that I’ve got no choice, but to walk away, no matter how much I love them and try my very best for them, it’s never enough. I’m tired and I hurt and I really don’t want to resent them for how hard they’ve made my life, how much pressure they’ve put on me so the only option left is to walk away

@cathlaurs9754

Ай бұрын

I think you're doing the right thing. I walked away too. Perhaps they will learn something from losing you, but alas, probably not. I walked away too - I think of them now, years later, with something like pity and compassion (on my better days), because they can never be as I am - free of people who seek to cause harm. I carefully choose my battles - and actually don't have many anymore. Good luck to you 👍

@mercyme8014

Ай бұрын

Leaving the drama and allowing others to fully walk their path without trying to “help” is the lesson I finally learned. Now I live a calm life free of family and friends who I felt responsible to help.

@Papaconstantopoulos

Ай бұрын

Definitely, like he says at the end "How others treat me is their path, how I react is mine." In the case of poor company, you always have the option to respectfully decline to stick around and walk away instead :) a far better choice than sticking with it day after day and becoming resentful for your mistreatment, especially after trying and taking steps to correct it

@annestrada1724

Ай бұрын

They're not talking about converting narcissists.

@namedrop721

Ай бұрын

@@annestrada1724oh and how are we supposed to know if they give no disclaimers? ‘Forgive everything and everyone, no resentment is justified’ 😂

What helps the most in such circles is to always remember that I am dealing with people who are sick, just like I am. And since "it is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society," we all must be profoundly sick.

I truly wasn't expecting rhe Teddy story. As a teacher and dad, it makes me think about my actions and who I am. I hold myself to a standard of not doing harm and encouraging my students and kids to do their best, but I know I fall short. This story has me in tears and I thank you. I know I can do and be better, and stories like this remind me of that.

@abby999

7 ай бұрын

don’t forget to forgive yourself too - the resentments we hold against ourselves can be the sneakiest kind. ♥️

@bigpictureguys8415

7 ай бұрын

Same man. I’m better than most at it but I fall short and can be better about it.

@mrb0239

7 ай бұрын

Same, I'm a teacher too and this made me cry because I'm falling short for my students right now and I want to do better. Oof it's so hard to be human. Maybe no justified resentments can apply to myself too.

@jill-of-all-trades

7 ай бұрын

@@abby999Aren’t they tho!!

Wayne Dyer is a beautiful person. This is a beautiful message. The peacefulness that comes with letting go of resentment is life changing. Although the artist is very talented, the speed is disruptive to receiving Wayne's message.

@robertdidion6046

Ай бұрын

I edited this to say the artist is very talented, but the speed of the visuals disrupts the message effectiveness

The "Teddy & Mrs. Thompson" story made me cry. So poignant.😢💖

I’m a grizzled old angry vet, and I don’t cry. Until that damn Teddy story🤧

@lluviadequito8189

13 күн бұрын

Well, congrats!

@user-qj3vz7jk6i

4 күн бұрын

you’ve taken the first step

Man i’m so glad I saw this today. Blame & Resentment have no place in my heart.

Thank you, this was beautiful and touching. Rest in peace, Dr. Dyer; thank you for what you have shared with us, which resonates beyond your living time here.

@gettingintrospective

8 ай бұрын

What a timely and beautiful message. I believe this can work for shame as well as blame. In that case you would be both the teacher and student. When we are gentle with ourselves and stop blaming ourselves so harshly, we can find the energy to take a step toward what is in our hearts. For me that looks like picking up a thing or two from my clutter instead of beating myself up for being a perpetual mess. Or allowing myself to make mistakes instead of berating myself. No one is perfect. We're all just waves. Takes courage to learn to surf. But it's more fun than getting stuck in the undertow. Just don't get discouraged when you fall. It's all part of life. No shame!

I don't know much about Wayne Dyer except that I listened to his audio recording of the Tao Te Ching for hours and hours, over and over again. Just his voice gave me peace. I think that's the ultimate example of what he's talking about here. We never knew each other and never will, but because he was filled with love he could give me love without ever meeting me. I know I need to work on being the same way.

@pinkifloyd7867

3 ай бұрын

Heard that peopke showed up naked when he presented his first book which was called Your Erroneous Zones in 1980's 😅 They thought it was Errogenous zones 🤣

@Dogsdontwhisper-bo9vc

Ай бұрын

​@@pinkifloyd7867this is hilarious

I haven't cried that hard in a long time. This one really hit different

My face is a mess, so many tears rolled down with the Teddy story. Don't even know why it moved me so deeply.

Who’s cutting onions 🥲 beautiful message ❤

@kierredestiny2

7 ай бұрын

Right here 😢😢😢

Wow, that's such an amazing story. I don't think anyone that watched this didn't shed at least a little tear

@3rdeyefocused

7 ай бұрын

I watched the whole thing and didn't at all. I'm all cried out, plus I feel dead on the inside....soooo nope

@flynnmayne2055

7 ай бұрын

@@3rdeyefocusedI understand how you feel, not many things make me cry anymore. However I do believe this story is very inspirational.

@ObsidianContraption

5 ай бұрын

@@3rdeyefocused well at least your 3rd eye is focused

So beautiful, thank you. People can only behave at their own level of consciousness, and when we act in unskillful and cruel ways to others, it is an indication of our own suffering. I choose compassion & love over resentment & hate. When I start to feel the embers of blame, resentment or anger towards those who have mistreated me, I say a prayer for them, “may you be healed, may you be at peace”, and I say the prayer for myself as well. All is love, and love is all.

@litao3679

7 ай бұрын

You found IT. So happy for you. The world needs more of what you have to offer. 🙇‍♀️🙏💛

@jennykelter9518

5 ай бұрын

What about pedophiles who abuse kids their whole lives . I was that kid , then my daughters were those kids . I really don’t care that he was suffering to do that stuff - he made multiple CHOICES to abuse. This happens to so many people and they feel they must be doing something wrong by being angry or resentful. I understand that resentment keeps you imprisoned to that person , but I also don’t believe that the formula of looking at the other person and seeing it was only their level of consciousness at the time that allowed them to be cruel is healthy. Maybe for smaller acts of cruelty, but s. Abuse ? That kills another’s soul and it lasts a lifetime for many while these people “who are only acting from their suffering “ keep harming people over and over.

@ZFern9390

3 ай бұрын

​@@jennykelter9518I agree. My mother was violent and cruel. And I have difficulty not being angry at her. It caused me to develop unhealthy coping skills that have kept me in chains. I practice self responsibility but when triggered Its one step forward two steps back.

@ndjubilant8391

3 ай бұрын

Because some of us have way more to forgive. Because muscles 💪 only grow through resistance.

Wayne Dyer had such a great way of telling stories to teach life lessons. Thank you for keeping the stories alive!❤

@feddi7693

7 ай бұрын

💯

People harm one another, this is an unfortunate aspect of human reality. To pretend otherwise, to pretend that you have been hurt but shouldn't feel any pain is an illusion. Understand your resentments, understand that the people who wronged you were perhaps sick. Allow yourself to have resentment, allow yourself to understand it and grow from it.

@dxfifa

8 ай бұрын

You are missing the point. The point is that resentment never actually helps you in any way. You don't have to feel anything to learn from things that happened to you. All resentment does is hold you in a bind of learned powerlessness. There is no changing the past, and you can learn all the same lessons without holding on to things. He's not saying to not feel pain in the moment, he's saying don't hold it and don't assign it to things out of your control long term

@johndillon6330

8 ай бұрын

@@dxfifa , My point is that: resentment is normal and healthy; while staying resentful for years and years is unhealthy. I have a background in the recovery world.. Too often people in recovery are told that when people have wronged them that it is still their fault. There is nothing more self-centered than to think that even if people screw you over that it's still your fault. Just to be clear: I say that this is a nuanced topic and deserves a full dissection. Resentment is normal and moving beyond them is even better.

@tonijackson3421

8 ай бұрын

thats the hard part. my uncle went to jail for 12 yrs b/c he r worded three of my little cousins. its hard because it DOES feel justified even if he grew up tough

@Rayven145

8 ай бұрын

Recognition and moving through something is a path to a new way of being. I see the wisdom in your words and the stepping stone of allowance and authenticity that eventually leads to dropping the blame. You're not missing the point. You're taking your own path to the same end.

@jadapinkett1656

8 ай бұрын

Nonsense

Wow, I didn't think id be in tears but when that story about Teddy came into it it had me. I lost my mum last year and have had resentment since but have been working on many different ways to over-come it. It was a beautiful story to hear - thank-you

@emmalewisart641

8 ай бұрын

Sending love to you ❤The story made me cry too. Hope you're ok 🫂

@startedfarting2336

8 ай бұрын

You didn't cry alone. I'm right here crying with you.

@VeganSemihCyprus33

8 ай бұрын

Learn and act accordingly 👉The Connections (2021) [short documentary]💖

@SpaceHopper777

8 ай бұрын

Thank-you I'm good, the goddess/Gaia/Mother Nature has me. What will be will be. Its just difficult at times reminding myself that all is a delusion despite the trials and tribulations that we face. Life can throw a curve ball and knock you hard and that puts things in a different perspective @@emmalewisart641

@fredventure

8 ай бұрын

Right here with you, brother ❤

Letting go is the hardest thing ever.

The thing about that story was that we all have that, out of all our teachers we all have that one teacher that truly believed in us ❤

I'm not crying, just washing my eyes! Thank you for such a beautiful example of what we can be.

@34missgreen

7 ай бұрын

Same! ❤

@reddirtwalker8041

7 ай бұрын

Yea, I had a little dirt or an eyelash get in my eye during this video.

This video came about right when I needed it. I’ve been experiencing lots of big life changes this year and doing my best to navigate them with the same grace, patience and compassion I’d want to be given. I first discovered Dr. Wayne Dyer early in college when our library had a book sale. His interpretation of the Tao was 50¢ and found me at a time in life where I was struggling immensely with mental health. I’ve read and reread that book and others many times. His book opened my heart and mind and spoke to my soul. His works are a big part of why I’m still here today. Rest in peace, Dr. Wayne Dyer❤

That teddy story reminded me as a young boy for what I went thru with my father on his own terminal illness and all battle we shared. Miss you father so much Hope u all r safe my friends Namaste ❤

@sx1031

8 ай бұрын

Ty for this video It did wonders for my for what im going thru now

This made me cry, what a beautiful story.

After I lost my father 2 weeks before starting 8th grade, in my 1st quarter I was sick and out of school, and looking back my immune system must have been trashed from the stress, and my teacher decided that I was cutting class and failed me. Even though I had a doctor's note. Then when my mother had the school change my class to a different teacher, that teacher pulled me aside the end the year. He told that he saw great improvement in me but had to lower my grade because the other teacher failed me. Those were some of the worst teacher I ever had.

@emmalewisart641

8 ай бұрын

Im so sorry to read you were treated this way. You deserved so much better. Im sending you lots of love from Wales and cwtches, warmth and encouragement for the little boy you were back then. Im sure your father would be very proud of your strength and resilience ❤

@jenniferellison3480

6 күн бұрын

As a teacher, this makes me angry. The second teacher makes no sense.

If I really listen to what the universe is telling me over and over…I pray I don’t mess up this time. Resentment and blame are my worst pains 💔.

Never felt so moved by a KZread video, Teddy story, the thoughtful comments and the kind words of Wayne

This video came back up at the right time in my life. I forgot I had seen it once before until I heard the story about the butterflies. Then when I heard Teddy's story again, I could relate so much to what he had gone through. Although I was 17 when my mom passed, life at home was no walk in the park. I soon finished school and went down a less than desirable path. I'm still working towards my bright future and am learning more each day. Thank you for this beautiful lesson. I will make sure I spread love today and every day.

I usually don't weep at merely reading or listening to tales, but that story of Teddy and his teacher made me all teary eyed, sobbing and feeling my heart ache, which is good, because it relieves me of repressed and locked sorrow inside of me. 🥺💓😭❤️‍🩹🕉🌊🌠 And that is because of the universal truth, love and beauty of this story. ✨️💖💎 A deep story indeed. 🌌

I was told long ago that holding resentment against another person was like swallowing poison & expecting it to hurt someone else. Thank you for this lovely lesson.

I am a young lady and this channel alone has taught me so much wisdom thank you to everyone behind the scenes !! And remember guys “there are no justified resentments”. Much love and Light to anyone reading this Xo

I’ve often enjoyed some of the things that Wayne Dyer has taught, however, this time, while I agree with most of what he saying, it doesn’t apply to everyone. Yes, we need to let go of the venom that is left in our system because of what others do to us, but that doesn’t mean that we have to accept blame for it. He notes in there that we have to accept responsibility for putting ourselves in the situation and accepting our part of the blame. This is not always the case. As a child growing up in abusive foster homes, it was not my choice to be abandoned by my parents and shoved into the system. I was not to blame for the abuse that was poured out upon me. Fortunately, through the Gospel of Jesus Christ, I can apply the Lord’s teachings of forgiveness, and allowing the Atonement to heal me from any resentment. But accepting blame in order to do that, that’s not good counsel for an innocent victim who’s suffered abuse at the hands of others. 🙏🏻

@bobp.6988

8 ай бұрын

It is important to see the whole picture. When I take care of my side of the street, and not focus on the other, I am then able to forgive and let go of all sides. All blame goes away....

@Gary-sq5co

8 ай бұрын

Well if you have no faith in yourself there's always jesus

@TheKingterri

8 ай бұрын

There are always exceptions. The exception does not make the rule. Your experience is the exception here. Brother Wayne’s road map to self-transcendence/actualization is one most adults will find instructive. ✌🏾❤🕊️

@d1want34

8 ай бұрын

As you grow older, and learnt from past experiences and making changes, you know exactly that those events needed to happen to make who you are today. But of course it's not 100% fact

@ideationink

8 ай бұрын

@@TheKingterri Please re-read what I wrote. I never said my experience was the rule. I do agree with what Wayne Dyer says, but as you said and I inferred, there are exceptions-my abuse experiences being one of them. Sadly, your reply is indicative of a bigger issue in society where people see what they want to see, have patience for other people who don’t see or say the same thing. This is usually done by just skimming through what’s been written/said by others rather than really reading and absorbing and thinking about what they have or are trying to say. Please consider that next time before replying. Given your comment is actually quite well worded, I have a feeling you’re above average in intelligence and wisdom. So, I have no doubt others will be most grateful to hear your input-especially if they know that you truly understand and care about what they had to say. Thank you and God bless. 🙏🏻💝

Forgiveness is freedom... ☮️👍

😊Dearly beloved, croaked, Wayne…you are FOREVER, TIMELESS & L O V E D!!! The Teddy story gets me every time! 🥲 WE ALL HAVE A STORY. PLEASE be KIND ALL. ❤️✌🏻❤️✌🏻❤️✨😭

No-limit Person. I remember listening to Wayne Dyer lectures almost every evening before sleep. He introduced to some of the greatest spiritual teachers 🙏🏿 He lives on…

That story took my soul out 😭🥹

Having negative emotions with being unable to take any action against aggressor is bad. Wow truly inspiring!

This was & is something so beautiful in its eloquence, it will touch me forever…RIP & safe travels.

I think I might have to rewatch this everyday

I'm not crying a bird just flew into my eye!

currently tearing up in the club

Wayne Dyer....great spiritual guide...do miss his talks on human behavior!

Gratitude, Respect & Infinite Blessings 🤍

The snake bite analogy really resonates.

@vanajajayaraman8459

Ай бұрын

Something I came across earlier. You die cos instead of seeking to heal yourself, you are on a path to find the snake and ask the reason it bit you and prove to it that you didn't deserve it.

I needed to watch this talk today, it gave me a more focused direction on my slow and painful road to recovery from mental health issues that have literally robbed me of remembering most of my past and made happiness elusive. I am scared and anxious nearly all of the time and despite making progress I’ve never been able to turn off the fear. I had and still have a lot of resentments... my journey continues 💛

@msimon6808

7 ай бұрын

The anger is the disease. Give it up.

Yep, blaming means you believe you are better than the one you blame. We are all humans, we all tend to make mistakes and that goes for ourselves too. Blaming ourselves for everything is also a bad mistake we do against ourselves. Acceptance is the way, accepting the circumstances (we cannot control everything, actually we can control very less lol), accepting our mistakes and accepting others (understanding others is a key point in this). Lord explains this very clearly "love others as I loved you". Peace be with you

That’s beautiful story from Dr Wayne Dyer ❤ Yes I totally agree about holding resentment it’s just not worth it.

I cried at the last story

It’s extremely difficult to watch this without saying “yeah, I’ll show this to person X, that way they’ll see how THEY should behave” - which in turn is, of course, a form of resentment. For this advice should be for whoever is listening, not someone outside of ourselves.

This is a beautiful story! Everyone needs encouragement!

Wayne Dyer continues to teach from the other side of the veil!! I love you Wayne!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Who’s cutting onions?

@bykatesemeniuk

Ай бұрын

Oh those ninjas! They are everywhere! I couldn't hold back my tears, too.

@panemanager

23 күн бұрын

Hahaha good one! 😊

The teacher did gods work. Not gonna lie I almost shed a tear.

@sasshole8121

7 ай бұрын

almost

Such a beautiful story

R.I.P Wayne Dyer....Boy how thw tears have just flooded my face

Wow that story is a tear jerker

Teddy's journey reminds me of the very first book I ever read from cover to cover. It was called Dibs in search of self. It showed me the importance of accepting others from where they are on their journey and not on ours. Dibs story saw him grow to trust in others and most importantly he learnt to like himself ❤

This is a blanket philosophy that does not cover every situation. You can avoid blaming others to try to be as congenial to others and yourself as possible, but then you enable their further actions, and you enable the further harm they can do not only to you but to others as well

As a Mom, I have tried so hard to give love and slso to my late husban. Since his death 19 years ago things have difficult. Right now they are the most difficult ever and I had given up, allowing myself to fill with anger and resentment. Last week, while visiting my daughter who has poor mental health and my Grandaughtet who live in Europe, I was attacked at 4am in my tiny motorhome. I received a black eye as a man punched me through s window he had just torn off. My daughter's reaction was to become almost catatonic. There was no comfort for me, just a sense of guilt, for upsetting her again. I was so hurt and of course the anger and resentment flooded into my shocked brain. I felt I just couldn't do this any more. I just couldn't take anymore of my daughters illness which has gone on for 20 years. I sobbed and sobbed in despair because I am such a useless parent. My eldest son no longer speaks to me either. And yet, I tried my best. Then I listened to this video and I saw how all that anger, hate and resentment was just poisoning me.

@Ikr2025

Ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that happened to you, sounds a horrible experience. I guess we have to try really hard to accept our weaknesses and failings and flaws and those of others in our lives. We can only do our best and maybe focus on one hour at a time.

Beautiful. . This one was a challenge emotionally.

Fantastic. Repost worthy. Namaste. 🙏🌟😇 Miss Wayne's brilliance very much... ❤

god that made me cry

I could not stop tearing up..

Beautiful! Just a little attention goes a long way!❤

I can see why some people disagree with this message but I think his point is more so that the health and emotional consequences are not worth it. It’s completely fine to block those people, protect yourself against them, etc but don’t hold onto the resentment to the point where you lose your thirst for life and forget your own agency. That, I believe is his true message. Not that genocide and rapists should be forgiven

My teacher's name was Ms. Farrell. She knew things were terrible at home and took an interest in me, even asked my dad's permission to take me out to dinner one night and to an aerobics class. We listened to music and had a lot of fun. I'll never forget she made that effort, she didn't have to.

So nice to hear Dr Dyer voice again

Wow, I really needed to hear this today.

That was a beautiful story

😢thank you, I fell off the wagon. Today! After hearing this. Laying the liquor down. Thank you.

He said thank you for watching I thought thank you for loving enough to teach me, a stranger this

Acceptance transcends understanding

Beautiful 😭

I've read three of Doctor Dyers books; fascinating, and motivational words, and themes.

Esa historia siempre me hace llorar. 😭🤕

If someone has abused you and you are really affected by it, this is something beyond your choice or supposed justification. It would seem to me that actual pain or harm is beyond justification or non justification. Contrary to the video: Most resentments are justified, and by seeing the truth of them you can then move beyond them and heal.

@chamicels

8 ай бұрын

I agree trauma is no joke...

@fistfull1

8 ай бұрын

Agreed

@chamicels

8 ай бұрын

@@CZARNicholas-ht9dq guess I am going straight to hell and my abuser will be in heaven

@mimesthai

8 ай бұрын

@@chamicelsI don’t think an abuser has a straight path to Heaven. And forgiveness sometimes is too hard. But if you can, try at least not to keep thoughts of revenge, or how good it might feel to see your abuser suffer. Maybe you you can already do it. I think it’s a good beginning. Concentrate on your own healing, on moving on. I hope you don’t live with your abuser right now. If you do, concentrate all your efforts on how to get away from this situation. I don’t know how old you are, but if you’re young and your abuser is an adult, try to find someone you can ask for help. I don’t think you’re condemned to hell if you’re dealing with trauma. I really don’t.

@lisareid7043

8 ай бұрын

You miss the whole point! It’s your self that is set free! Keep your resentment and you have no one else to blame where you end up in life, just yourself. You can’t blame your abuser.

Yeah, like the comment I read from the Gore vet thanks for service. I am also 52-year-old dad of two sons. My ex-wife left me destitute, financially and emotionally after 20 years of infidelity and financial burden. I was just the mule that supported the family as she got her college degree, some holes are hard to climb out of

@sibelgunduz1539

25 күн бұрын

Well it might be a good idea to listen to Wayne's wise words daily leaving hurt disappointment resentment aside for the durayion of video. You might hear what's being said. We are poisoninng ourselves not the acts - words of others.

Such a necessary and profound lesson. simple, too.

I’m taking responsibility from this moment forward, and if for any reason I slip back into resentment I will remember Iam responsible!