After 64 years, im only just learning these truths. But at least ive begun...

@SviraSvi

2 ай бұрын

Better late than never, right?

@Theresa-yo2sf

2 ай бұрын

@@SviraSvi Yes, better late than never! And one step, one day, at a time. 👍

@Koykoy88

2 ай бұрын

As long as you have breath in your body, it’s never too late

@lizstilwell7329

2 ай бұрын

Life is a life long journey and yes at least at 64 you know it now 💚🙏

@oshkoshmcjoshesq

2 ай бұрын

44 bud..same

At 62, I began using the latter half of my first name, thereby changing it up just enough. Also, I deactivated by Facebook because I was dragging around people from high school who I only said “happy birthday” and “your dinner looks great” to. Then I re-created myself a brand new Instagram for just my art and photography. I grayrocked every single one of my narcissistic family of origin members who seemed hellbent on destroying me. And then I breathed a huge sigh of relief. Now I take long walks in the woods and I garden and I paint and I LOVE each and every day. I hope you, reading this, finds your own path to true inner peace. ❤

@faiziqbal7540

2 ай бұрын

I want to date you ❤

@user-lj9hv3zz9u

2 ай бұрын

Just did this: personal history and others tasks are so tiring and unbearable. I’m 45 and my b cluster brother forced me to move forard without toxic family. It’s great on the other side ❤

@thevagabondsageinthewoods

2 ай бұрын

@@user-lj9hv3zz9u I’m very happy for you!! May I ask what is “b cluster”?

@gjondunadan5852

2 ай бұрын

If you spent most your life around narcissists you more than likely are one yourself.

@thevagabondsageinthewoods

2 ай бұрын

@@gjondunadan5852 thats a ridiculously unfair statement. U just are being confrontational and inflammatory. You’re gaslighting. I recognize narcissism now and protect myself from it. You can try stoic philosophy to learn to deal with narcs. Its helped me. Good luck!!

“I've lived through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.” -Mark Twain

@SmooveBee1

2 ай бұрын

Fair enough. We all live in our head, a good bit of the time, and it is worthwhile to know this.

@robinr5669

2 ай бұрын

For some of us it was all true.

@grannygoes7882

Ай бұрын

@@robinr5669 More reason to just give it up.

@katinabotten

Ай бұрын

Well then, he imagines a lot

@katherinetucker5380

Ай бұрын

Positive thinking! 😊

Thank you for not putting music. It brings a sense of peace, assurance, and concentration.

@claudelebel49

2 ай бұрын

I couldn't agree more. It is so peaceful without it.

@alipourangnia8599

2 ай бұрын

😂👍

@katyhanara

2 ай бұрын

Totally agree!!!

@cutwagman

Ай бұрын

WD plays with words and is disingenuous to no end. I see through his little facade

@ellengrace4609

Ай бұрын

@@cutwagmanAnd yet there are still pearls of wisdom here.

There is no “letting go” - It is accepting what is already gone.

@smokingcrab2290

Ай бұрын

Wow

@SK-le4lj

Ай бұрын

So true

@mishabos

Ай бұрын

Damn.... that's what it IS

@janethaas8222

Ай бұрын

Beautifully stated.

@czar2230

Ай бұрын

Agree completely.

"You can't solve a problem with the same mind that created it.' 😮 wow😮

@PClanner

2 ай бұрын

All problems have components. Not all components are in your control or are created by you, consequently a person does not entirely create a problem. At best, you have a triad of a problem situation. Two thirds are outside of your control, leaving you the third that was created or you have control over. The problem could be the lack of education or the wrong type of education (ideologies come to mind here) Where there are problems created by an amount of learning incorrect information and applying it to reality (where you are part of everyone else being in the same bubble), it was not created by you but accepted by you as true. There are more instances than not that this does NOT apply to.

@dawnturitto8442

2 ай бұрын

@@PClanner maybe, but we can perpetuate a problem, rather than move past it, because of our current mindset. I think that's what Einstein meant. We can't expect different results if we repeat the same choices, or engage in the same mindset.

@John-rb3yv

2 ай бұрын

Only life issues exist There are no problems Challenges Some we need to face Most we can let go No problems

@clairehealy4588

2 ай бұрын

Wow I love this x

@ilexevergreen5405

Ай бұрын

Because it's your *PERCEPTION* that it's a problem. Have to work with what's there &/or change your understanding of what you're classifying as a problem

I sold my house and most of my belongings. I threw away ALL of my pictures and scrapbooks. Everytime I looked at those pictures it didn't really bring me joy. It wasn't sadness either since most of those pictures were taken during good times. I just realized I couldn't go back so why not just leave it there and let it live as good memeries in my mind.

@ace-of-space

2 ай бұрын

I did the SAME thing. It felt so light walking out that front door. Bless Wayne Dyer's words. This helps. We did it, and it IS okay. I see with new eyes at 60.

@bjacob9998

2 ай бұрын

It’s still the brain/behavior study controlling information. Another loss. My baby and parents died, I divorced b/c of abuse, not “differences”, my health was harmed b/c I was in non/consensual testing. Horrible times in this land but do we want more?

@outlaw565

2 ай бұрын

I totally agree. If you want to live in a prison just hold on to everything. Holding on to Stuff snuffs out your life.

@anilkumarvr4273

2 ай бұрын

​@@bjacob9998sorry to hear about your loss. And the way you have gone over the situation is unimaginable. You can still use the acceptance practice to go over and embrace the now. Also try Sadhguru's inner-engineering, this practice helped me immensely.

@LolaAileenVanslette

2 ай бұрын

I'm in the process of selling everything that no longer serves me.

We are living in the wake of Dr. Dyer's light and teachings. We are forever blessed by his time here.

@shahlabadel8628

2 ай бұрын

agree! he was and still is my favourite teacher.

@TheForgotten__1

13 күн бұрын

He is excellent but he’ll be the first to admit that he is standing on the shoulders of giants.

I just gave up my personal history! Boom. The present moment is where all our power is. YES! 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

@eladsinger9215

2 ай бұрын

I'm right behind you. What a gift!

@AA-wc3tw

2 ай бұрын

How did you do that and how do you know it will never bother you again?

@flying_like_a_heroine

2 ай бұрын

Decide. I am God and there is no other. What I say goes. It's still a process but I keep affirming it as the story pops up but it has less charge and less importance instantly. Intention and commitment bring the decision to be.

@onelifesworth7259

2 ай бұрын

It will bother you again, come knocking on your door, or even like a note tied to a rock that smashes through your window if you don’t answer the door!😳😄 That’s why Dyer says to also get help with your issues if you need it. There are many possible forms of help: info/ motivational videos like this one, books, therapists, wise friends, clergy, online and in-person communities, etc. It can be like walking along the beach, maybe you are sad or upset, then you see a lovely shell or rock, and you pick it up and examine it, and maybe you keep it because you like it, and you walk some more and you see another thing you like, and it is free for the taking so you keep that thing too. After a while you may have too much and want to leave some of the less attractive things you found, so you just leave them, with thanks for coming into your life when they did. In this way life comes to with offers and you pick and choose what to take, what to keep and try to hold with respect, and what to leave, with thanks. Relationships are complex so require more patience to cope with, so you may want to seek more perspectives and support about what to do. But if your intent is good (ie helping yourself AND helping others) things will work the best that they can at that time. It’s important to not be in a rush. We often make poor choices when we rush and grab at choices. Don’t be running all over the beach rushing to try and find treasures! Enjoy what you can of your surroundings and watch to see what things you come across, what you notice and choose with care. One more thing he seems to be suggesting is that your experience of life can be like sitting in a movie. If you are not liking this particular movie you can get up and go find a new movie to try. That first movie doesn’t stop playing, and some people stay and watch it, but you can choose to stay, or find a different movie to watch (and some people may go with you, some won’t, and there will new people to watch the new movie with as well🤷🏻‍♂️). Change is not easy or simple but he is saying it is possible and positive change can be your intent. You can gradually learn to take better care of yourself just as when you practice anything your ability to do that thing improves. There will be ups and downs and progress and setbacks and changes of course, but just try and remember your honest intent( which is hopefully to be a good and helpful person in this world).

@lorimills7158

Ай бұрын

a very important lesson. Rest in Peace dear Wayne Dyer❤

The past is gone, i was what i was then, i am who i am now.

@edithbannerman4

2 ай бұрын

@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

@pjmurphy920

2 ай бұрын

I never heard that phrase before but it is very true. I am writing it down to hang on my refrigerator! ;-) Thank you!

@cemcb__

Ай бұрын

What a beautiful, strong phrase

@tinamarie8061

28 күн бұрын

I needed this! WOW

@technojunkindatrunk

8 күн бұрын

Wow, I love this, it spoke to me! Thank you❤

I have been listening to his videos for some years and he has really helped me making huge shifts in my life. I hope that everyone reading this finds love, joy, happiness, abundance and peace in their lives.

@kristinlaviolette9119

Ай бұрын

Thank you for sending kind wishes on everyone. I’ve found this video to, sort of, give me permission to let go and exist in the present. I think I’ll take the cue from you to rewatch it from time. Be well! 😊🌸

@maxspears6030

Ай бұрын

Aśe Dear One. I appreciate you sharing your light. ❤️✨🙌🏾✨❤️

@Scarlet99977

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind wishes to us all. I think that one can be traumatized so much in life that you reach a point where all you want is peace and happiness. Not happiness in terms of getting stuff so much, but the happiness of no longer being demeaned by one's past misadventures, and the quiet of the soul; God's peace.

When i was at a very low point in my life and in need of guidance, I was flipping through the tv channels one day and came across Wayne Dyer's PBS special called "Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life," which was basically about applying principles in the Tao Te Ching in order to improve your life. Now, 20 years later, I am still applying what ive learned in the the Tao Te Ching and am infinitely greatful for the day that I saw that Wayne Dyer special on PBS, and credit Dr. Dyer and the Tao Te Ching, as being the catalysts for the Man that I have have become and the life that I have lived to this very day. 🙏🏻❤️☯️😁

@angelaripolo2721

Ай бұрын

Like Wayne always said, “when the student is ready the teachers will appear”

@GinaMartina2023

Ай бұрын

That is beautiful… Thank you for sharing! 🙏

I miss Wayne Dyer 😪 One of the wisest men I've listened to. What a beautiful soul and loving mentor.😊

@SviraSvi

2 ай бұрын

He seems so wise yeah

@ultracalicokittycat

2 ай бұрын

@@SviraSvi I usually go to Amazon and read the reviews people write there

@shawnvoss3633

2 ай бұрын

​@SviraSvi you see it when you belive it, is one title.

@jodychamings7312

2 ай бұрын

My thoughts also whilst listening to this 🥺 I watched THE SHIFT again recently…I needed the reminder,and his wise words of gentle advice 🦋May he rest peacefully,closer to source 💫

@shahlabadel8628

2 ай бұрын

indeed! I am a fan!

Sometimes your pain of the past becomes your joy because it's all you know. Deep down you want to be normal but don't know how.

@bjacob9998

2 ай бұрын

It becomes your strength and compassion. Increasing this is a change

@user-te3jw8gk7h

2 ай бұрын

@@bjacob9998 I seem to be missing something.thelostone

@ivanavidovic3714

2 ай бұрын

Give yourself an opportunity to observe what you are surrounded with, when you notice something that catches you attention either in positive or negative way, think about the reason why that made you feel in a certain way. It helps to be present in the moment. It is hard to change yet possible. Your past defines partially your character as a person today and maybe even decisions you make, however if you are not content, give yourself a chance to change for the better and know that present actually is a present given to us, unwrape it and hope for the best and work on becoming the person you would like to be. A happier version of yourself. You can change, first thoughts, then words and finally actions. It is hard, yet possible. It's up to you.

@user-te3jw8gk7h

2 ай бұрын

@@ivanavidovic3714 thanks I keep holding on but I don't know what I'm searching for.

@TheBlueskyson

2 ай бұрын

Embrace it, then toss it and bring yourself into the present moment always. go 4 it friend

Things happened the way they did because we needed the lessons learned.

@leanne123

15 күн бұрын

I didn't need to learn that my family lied and disrespected me behind my back for years. Shitty lesson.

For people with anxiety and depression, just changing one's thoughts like flipping a light switch is rather naive, isn't it?

It isn't only the negative aspects of your past life you must give up, it's the positive aspects as well. Positives experiences bind you to delusions about yourself and create expectations for the tuture that don't happen. Giving up the past, means the whole past, not just the unpleasant parts.

@pjmurphy920

2 ай бұрын

Very true and very wise of you to mention that. I never thought about that aspect before. Thank you. 🙏

@sandiapillay9691

Ай бұрын

Nah not at all that's a limited belief that expectations arose only from that..the good memories don't need to be deleted its about state of being ultimately in the now

I read Journey to Ixtlan in 1986 and decided that Casteneda was right- personal histories keep you more in the past than you may realize.

You can give up your history but your history will not give up you

@Scarlet99977

Ай бұрын

You are right, and some of your history comes uninvited, as things you had long forgotten. One can change but you will never be able to not be effected by some of those things. You can only treat them as a lesson learned and try to reject the thoughts.

@elenif.vlachou9126

Ай бұрын

@@Scarlet99977Once you meet Jesus, and see the sacrifice on the cross as your death, the death of your old self and all the baggage with it, you fall to your needs in gratitude and thanks....because HE went thru it all and saved you from the pain and anuish and shame not you.. You were the one who was meant to suffer all consequences of your own sins. (Me , you ...) He took it all. And now youre living as a new creation IN HIS life. No more on this. The WORD is our source of True Life. His Spirti in this new creation. Ffo you have a pastor who loves Jesus?

@GD-tn3ez

25 күн бұрын

That’s called karma. Those who understand karma know that it is better to do nothing with intention, than to do something without consideration

My past was a teaching, i am honored to carry it

@tiredofcrybabiesonYT

2 күн бұрын

Some of us out here are debilitated by those things that we experienced and it cripples our lives as a human being and stunting the growth that we need to flourish and become better selves .

@JSTNtheWZRD

2 күн бұрын

@@tiredofcrybabiesonYT I am actually handicapped it's funny you said that - it's related to my past, not only mine though

@JSTNtheWZRD

2 күн бұрын

@tiredofcrybabiesonYT and I'm still becoming more of a monster everyday

KZread brought me here and I needed to hear this. 😀

@arveyilleszender5809

Ай бұрын

What’s KZread?

This is exactly the message I need right now. I am going through a process of releasing all attachments. I did not realise that included letting go of my past. The weight of carrying my past is too much. I am so embracing this today.

Many times, it is not just mental/psychological burden we carry but physical/material burden. We accumulate so much material "stuff", it becomes a burden to take care/maintain. We use a lot of resources (both mental and physical) to take care of the material accumulations. We must think of reducing it too. We have to live, but try to reduce the physical accumulations. I am working on reducing the material/physical accumulation which also helps in decluttering your mind. We should constantly engage in introspection, think about what is going on in the world. We are fortunate to have wise men like Dr. Wayne Dyer and others to guide us.

@pjmurphy920

2 ай бұрын

I am getting rid of stuff, too. One of the best books that always helps me to do that is called: Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui by Karen Kingston. It's small and easy to read and explains how clutter holds us down and getting rid of it is freeing.

All very flowery and idealistic, but this takes nothing away from the very real physiological and psychological effects of PTSD.

@srso4660

2 ай бұрын

As someone diagnosed with ptsd I have to say it *does* work, it *is* possible to retrain your mind and heal your trauma, only *you* can do it. ❤

@funkysawmanwright5077

2 ай бұрын

​@srso4660 yep I fully agree. Suffering from CPTSD from a logging accident 11 years ago. I'm finally able to let me past go and move on in life

@zacharybloo9884

2 ай бұрын

Even if the mind forgets, the body remembers.

@osun2625

2 ай бұрын

Friend, I think you would appreciate Dr. Gabor Mate in that regard. My love and best wishes to you. 💗

@John-rb3yv

2 ай бұрын

AMEN!! Me too!!! Just start Then again And again Then act Then again.......

“your focus determines your reality”

I read Deepak Chopra in the 90s, my life improved. I read your 1st book after that. My life improved more. I read Eckhart Tolle 2 yrs ago. Between the 3 of your very unique styles, i absorbed invaluable enrichment. I know you are gone now, but I've got a feeling that somehow, you've seen this tiny little woman walking in the woods with a heart full of beauty, acceptance and appreciation, no matter the circumstances of my 'Nows'. ♥

Thanks so much for this teaching. I recall a Zen Koan I heard in past days that today makes sense to me. Someone asked the Master, "What was the purpose for my past; why did I go through all that?" The Master replied, "You go through it so you can toss it away." 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@shahlabadel8628

2 ай бұрын

thanks. loved it!!

I keep hearing this, let go of the past, stop looking back, i feel ready now to stop doing that and live a new life 🙏🏼🥰✨✨✨✨

@rebit6511

2 ай бұрын

Yes, don't look back because you are not going that way

@starlightsky655

2 ай бұрын

@@rebit6511 such a perfect way of saying it 🙏🏼✨ tks 😊

Immediately after retiring in 2020 I threw out everything that reminded me of the work I did and stopped talking about the work. I don't remember hearing about doing it but I know now it was right to do. My unhappy neighbors have one thing in common - they are stuck in the past. I tried to encourage them to have new goals for the new year but they couldn't care less.

@gillianm9367

2 ай бұрын

❤wow- exactly what I did after 25 years in toxic working environment. Leaving there was such a relief that for a full 2 years afterwards I would wake each morning with so much joy in my heart. From there I chose jobs I wanted to do and stayed only as long as I enjoyed them, moving forward to better things each time and learning more about myself in the course of those few years then that 25 year self imposed life sentence! Only remain in touch with one ex-colleague from the old place but I do find them a bit negative and it is so important to stay away from negative energy I believe. Would never set foot back in the old workplace 😊

@pjmurphy920

2 ай бұрын

@@gillianm9367 Good for you! You learned something important and made the changes you needed to make.

@LindaReynen-tf7fp

Ай бұрын

Everybody is different...what works for one doesn't for another. Some see life in different ball field than others.

I love Wayne Dyer. I miss watching him on PBS.

I shook off the past 20 years ago as a result of performing the 12 steps. Find your method and set yourself free

Treasure your divinity. I took nearly 60 years to get there...... ❤

Wayne “If you go to source energy to find what’s missing you won’t find it. We live in a world of abundance.” These words changed me. Thank you Wayne, back then and always in your presence.

@giachahal

2 ай бұрын

What does this nean

@rishigupta2810

2 ай бұрын

What it means that when you reach out to your source, you will be fulfilled. There is no shortage/scarcity in the truth, but only an illusion. Reaching out to source or connecting to your source, you will come to know of the truth. Truth is, according to Wayne, there is no lack, life has plenty to offer but we are defocused like someone with his back towards the sun might look at his own shadow and say there is shortage of light in that particular area but all that he or she needs to do is to look towards the sun and there would be no shadow.

@giachahal

2 ай бұрын

Ok so do you go to the source to find the truth which means everything is an illusion?!? Thx!!

@rishigupta2810

2 ай бұрын

@@giachahal work in progress, dear. I am coming out and again falling in and then coming out. It's all work in progress.

@John-rb3yv

2 ай бұрын

Give without measure Always comes back Take from life, life takes from you Just heard him read that from the way of the tao

Loved Wayne Dyer but disagree with giving up your personal history. I have learned so much from my dysfunctional family and past and my place in it. I was able to transcend the pain, embrace it and move on. Tossing it would be like cutting off my arm . The past will always be apart of me BUT it doesn’t control me rather it has made me stronger and I am able to function well knowing I’ve Dropped the anger, bitterness and embraced the love and joy but cannot be the naïve victim anymore.

Sounds Heavenly. Amazing how many people have Narc... family. I'm almost 67 & remembered my Grandparents guarding their peace like their lives depended on it❤

I’ve allowed my painful past to define me, possess me. Thank you for this.

This is really about deprogramming yourself. Our parents, siblings, culture all put us on patterns that don't help our happiness or contentment. All you never needed was a path to self empowerment. It starts by understanding money and how it works. Money buys you time so you can enjoy a sunset. Ignorant buys you slavery. It's that simple. Once you get that under control you no longer need your family and can choose your friends better and you can live your life on your terms and connect with your faith in the best way possible; without bad programming.

Some of my best days have been my worst. Reason being, is the acknowledgement that these cataclysmic catalysts were shocking enough for me to change my choices for the better.

“And Moses said unto the people, Remember this day, in which ye came out from Egypt, out of the house of bondage; for by strength of hand the LORD brought you out from this place:

I still love my X, that's why I set him free❣️

@ZFern9390

2 ай бұрын

I want to do that. I needed to hear you say that ❤

@cathithomas2888

Ай бұрын

Letting go is a huge act of generosity.

I am 63 and start learning this about 3 years ago. It’s a slow process, because the old way of thinking wants to creep back. There are set backs, but I am trying. Throwing negative thoughts out and replace them with positive ones. Spending time in nature to get energy from my collective or give it , whichever at that moment. I like this video. It describes it very simple, even though the process is tough. But I will get there. ❤❤❤

My personal history is who I am. It's the thing that saved me. I can stop doing some of those things, but i can't change who those things made me.

I love the end where he told the people "well that's what you're going to find here", it was funny, but pretty true...

Im in therapy im 70 fit lift weights etc. had some post covid stuff in 2022 its gone. Now chronic pain: burning skin , tendinitis & low back pain. In therapy we talk about my abusive father & health anxiety mother. Im now much worse after 4 months I need to leave the past behind

@leanne123

15 күн бұрын

You have to grieve over your past in order to move past it. Those old emotions are still there trying to give you their message. They must be felt before they will leave you alone.

FOR THOSE WHO ARE SERIOUS: THIS IS TYPICAL New Age pretty and pleasant Talk, but ONLY TALK nevertheless: "Merge into the now!" Sooo easy. Like fast food, you order it and you get it quickly. But the Serious ones KNOW how very difficult it is to live in the Now.

@Moo2oob

Ай бұрын

Although it's a simple concept, it doesn't mean that it's easy to put into practice. The little ego seems to have a mind of its own.

@christorabie643

19 күн бұрын

Agree. Not easy. Put past relationships behind you. Start new NOW. No comparison with previous love of personalities or the way you lived. Start by doing things that you never have considered before. Don't overthink. Just move on or you remain stuck in the past

At 65 I’m still learning and what I’ve learned from this video , Thank u !!

@edithbannerman4

2 ай бұрын

@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

Ive done this intuitively but it meant dropping my friends because they just don't let it go "remember when we did that thing 20 years ago and this happened and bla bla bla" I like to look forward and think forward.

@Cycology_Major

2 ай бұрын

Exactly. That sort of reminiscing’s fine if you’re reconnecting with an old friend, but def not on with one’s current long time pals, or even siblings. Anyone who deep down believes the best is behind them. 😬

When i look back at the cringe that was my past i always remind myself that 95% of the people i had that moment with either a) dont remember it b) wouldnt recognize me on the street any more anyway or c) have also matured and realize we all do stupid things when we're young and just like they have changed so have i. That always gives me a bit of peace. Actually the thing i worry about more is how to hold on to the good memories, which are also slipping away.

Honestly I try to just take each moment by moment really. I'll imagine that I only just started existing right now. And I'll vanish again in another hour. It makes me wanna quickly run and do something meaningful. With all my effort. It makes me wanna make sure to acknowledge everyone. And make sure they knew I loved them. Even that random dude nobody talks to in the corner.. it makes me wanna tell people my true feelings about God. And try to be joyful as possible. And make that last moment good as possible. I never wanna be on my phone in that last hour. Or go eat a junk food or drug. Or be mean. Or hold in my feeling. Or not love my peers. And family. Sometimes I forget. Or loose focus of it.

It's not so easy when you've been abused as a child.

@SviraSvi

2 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear that :( I hope you've had the opportunity to talk to a therapist or someone who knows how to move on from such a terrible thing... Wishing you all my best

@aliciamaehuhn

2 ай бұрын

But it is true that you can be made new by the renewing of your mind… it is true. So since everything seems backwards do the impossible. You are not what happened. You are who you say you are🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤😊

@user-qs6yh1ln1k

2 ай бұрын

@aliciamaehuhn Yes, it is true, but it takes time. Especially if the abuse is continuous and you're the family scapegoat because your parents and siblings can't deal with the truth.

@lindajohnson2816

2 ай бұрын

For what it’s worth you’re not alone ❤God will get you through only if you forgive the pain not the act!! Believe it is possible to leave all the shame and suffering behind you, even if you have to leave family members behind. You are worth more than your pain. You deserve and will receive peace and happiness through prayer.

@user-qs6yh1ln1k

2 ай бұрын

@@lindajohnson2816 Thank you 🙏

I remember him on TV when I was a teenager, now as an adult I ran into his material again, but I didn't realized he has passed. Makes me sad, but he left such a legacy, the lessons: ty Dr. Dyer.

I had the pleasure of attending a seminar to see this guy live. I was a small business owner and paid my own way. One of the best events I attended. Still an active small business owner at 74 and use some of the principles every day.

You are missed Dr. Dyer! What an amazing human! ❤️

I frequently visualize the traumas that have shaped me and at 80 realize how blessed I was the former person. child. youth and other incidents, is to visualize that part of me and thank him for having the will and courage to process it and learn from it and incorporate that part of myself into who I am now. Thank you for these tips and reminders of the process of getting here.

Whats strange is how few people realize that despite all the odds they are here no matter what happened.

We know this but we keep needing reminders because they always creep up. We can’t change who we are but we can always move forward because we only have one direction. This is not an easy journey and as hard as you try, it most certainly will always come back. And that is why all these self help gurus continue to make money. They convince you that it is easy to change with just a change of mindset. What they miss is the people who see you.

Dyer was a top Maslow student who was a master of using with and humor to communicate deep and useful life advice. He continues to influence us with his ideas long after his has left his "garage". Yes, he liked to refer to our bodies as temporary garages. LOL

Dr. Wayne Dyer, coming through from beyond to extend messages to those who have ears to comprehend and the resilience that's required to move forward on a call-to-action. I love it! I am content that I did not miss this one. Thank you!

I read Carlos Castaneda books in the 1970s & Tao Te Ching & got lost in the wording. Thankfully I came across Wayne Dyer's tapes and between listening to his tapes & reading Ernest Holmes, The Science of Mind I finally got it. I am happy that KZread suggested this for me today. This makes sense because I need my energy to focus on living my best life now.

Miss Wayne so much. One of the great speakers ever.

universe supports me through every situation, i am protected and safe something wonderful is happening to me, everything is wonderful, everything has a good reason, i am here to learn

@lindawise5546

2 ай бұрын

I am just beginning to learn these lessons. I pray Dyers I Am prayer throughout the day. " I am the conquering Presence. I command this Presence to govern perfectly..... ", then fill in the end with my prayer. Seeing that I Am the same Presence as the Universe and letting myself claim my right.to ask anything changed my life.

@bytethought

2 ай бұрын

thats so profound, good job my friend, bless you, all the power is in now@@lindawise5546

He was such a pioneer and a prolific writer and teacher in the early days of personal development and spiritual discovery in America ( even had PBS specials). Forever grateful for his many contributions.

I would hate to let go of my grudges, they give me much satisfaction.

Thank you Dr. Dyer for all your love and work. It helps so many to improve their quality of life and let go of suffering.

Dude that is brilliant, super timely for me and incredibly useful. I had been thinking that there is 1) No way that I can go back and fix any of it. And 2) All the choices I made at all those times, I thought were the right ones. So 3) I have to let all of the past go, good and bad, I gotta hit the ball from where it landed just now.

Giving up doesn’t mean forgetting.

@edithbannerman4

2 ай бұрын

@Hello there, how are you doing this blessed day?

@thebluedan

2 ай бұрын

“remembering is so much more a psychotic activity than forgetting” Speed Levich from the movie Waking Life

A real long time ago, Bob Newhart did a skit about being a therapist & to everyone's problems & complaining his advice was same to all "Stop it". I say that to people all the time. (and to myself too). When you find yourself in that mindset that's dragging you down, stop it.

"there is nothing noble about being superior to your fellow man, true nobility comes from being superior to your former self" Hemingway. Let it go. I'm 5 months sober. I didn't quit. It was not a sacrifice. I'm alive. If I look after myself I've possibly got 30 years left. The last 10 will be dominated by physical and mental decline with the darkness of the end my life looming as the only future I can expect. Live.... In ... The NOW! it's really all we have.

It’s like you never left, MGBY Dr. Wayne ❤

@plhhw2758

2 ай бұрын

My mentor, truly missed.

@robinr5669

2 ай бұрын

Hearing his voice feels so good.

I believe we can not let go of the past. We are our memory. But we can mitigate it with mindfulness habits, and eventually, those neurons that have fired and wired together will be covered over with new neurons!. Rumination is the enemy.

@angelaleishman1570

2 ай бұрын

I took it to mean not to dwell on the past but to live in the now.

@leighallen2673

2 ай бұрын

You are your past. It's what made you, or broke you. Either way, you never fail to learn, and life here is about experience. The highs as well as the lows. Edit the past, remember the things that you loved and drop the memory of things that disempowered you. Unless of course it made you stronger

In my opinion, only let go if or when it makes sense. It might never make sense, and progress happens naturally anyway.

@KENTUCKYUSA1

Ай бұрын

Wisest comment on here.

Its taken many miles of trekking to reach this point, why would l let go of the miracle my Creator gave me. Joy and tears are as one compared to His unending Love.

Being at peace with what was allows going forward with the ability to choose whatever life wanted with a clear conscience.

The ancestor of action is thought

It's so amazing how we tend to embrace the past in such a negative manner of suffering. Everything we've been through has been lessons experience as humans. When we accept we are Spiritual beings having a human experience: according to Yahweh Elohim's Divine Purpose... HalleluYah!!! 🕊🕊🕊

@AlwaysOnPoint_

2 ай бұрын

I sense Neville in your words... and in Wayne Dyer's, since Neville inspired Castaneda as well, and Castaneda - even though unwillingly - knew him and his works.

My work is what I enjoy most of all. People changed their energy out for what they could take from me regardless if I was here or not.

Wow! What a great way to begin my day! Looks like I need to read Emerson too! Thank you all and God Bless all of you and may you all create positive thoughts frequently!

Father of Motivation. Love him. ❤🙏🏽

The name of the game is attention. What and where you place your attention, those things, those experiences, those states of mind, those thoughts, thouse feelings, they grow regardless of their nature. You pay enough attention to it, and it WILL GROW within you. Call it peace, call it love, call it hate, call it stress, call it what-have-you. What you constantly pay attention to, GROWS WITHIN YOU!!! Ask yourself: what kind of reality do you wish to live in? and THINK those thoughts instead. The name of the game: IS Attention. Pay Attention.

Nothing was or ever has been yours to surrender or give up.

So true... what you think about, you bring about.❤

"FATHER OF INSPIRATION"

Wonderful practice. Pairs well with not knowing anything about myself.

What a beautiful soul this man is and yet we are all in connection with him, how blessed we are. Thanks to him for reminding us all ❤️

I just wonder why people are laughing this is so real and so serious

@Michellemutts7848

Ай бұрын

They are laughing because in places he is making jokes and being funny....it's called HUMOUR!!!

5 mins in and im shaking from how hard this is hitting me. This will need to be watched daily for me. Used to have someone in my life who reminded me of these things....they have been gone for awhile and my oat was seriously off course.....you made me cry though so it obviously hit home, i thankyou for taking the time to share this!

What if your personal history is mostly happy? Has anyone at all had a good life? For some of us, it's a wonderful life. (Wait a minute. I have to quit drinking too? It sort of makes sense: if you forget your past you don't need to drink to forget.) This guy has a pleasant voice. He manipulates words with some skill. I particularly appreciate that there wasn't a lot of coughing in his audience - maybe his advice on lozenges is stellar. But the presentation here is of no value. I am 67. I don't brood over "wounds" or wrongs though I will not claim that these never cross my mind. By the time you reach my age you have lost people you love and who loved you. Breaking with my "personal history" is throwing away all they gave me. No thanks.

@vintagemovielover4511

Ай бұрын

Exactly I'm not throwing away those I have loved and happy memories just to wipe out the bad, that isn't empowering just gives those that did you wrong the power to have removed what was good. This all sounds like a mantra no excuse a parent would give for walking out on a child.

@TheSarahJane33

Ай бұрын

@vintagemovielover4511 It’s always “spiritual” men who talk about these things. And it’s usually “spiritual” men who abandon their kids when they “find God.”

Keep the good memories, but leave your traumas in the past. Forgive yourself for your past mistakes and pursue what speaks to your soul.

I advise you hold onto your history because your story is special and epic with or without the approval of others, there will be someone one day who respects you and probably more. There are heroes in our society who dont wear capes and die in unmarked graves. Fight for your legacy.

@MrOsquu

Ай бұрын

I like this. We we all be forgotten at some point anyway, marked graves or not.

I really need to change my thoughts

Imagine living 20 or 30 years to throw it all out the window and say none of it ever happened . And they call me crazy😂😂😂😂

My friends told me "I just needed to get over the past", I did, I told them they were part of my past and kicked them to the curb. Now I live by that. I see a drowning child I will just see the future past and keep walking and not worry about it. Accumulate no more...

❤very important give up your personal history your ancestors and your inhibited limits.. Go inside you and connect to source 😊

As a sailor, I can say that a wake does help insulate the boat from incoming waves, especially if the waves are coming from the beam or aft quarter. I get the analogy, but the wake of a boat can influence how the boat behaves in the now.

@Xaver-dh8nh

2 ай бұрын

...science facts are so boring...😂

@user-lj9hv3zz9u

2 ай бұрын

Pfft. No one cares popeye 😊

@David_Alvarez77

2 ай бұрын

Alan Watts is probably not a good source for understanding nature and physics, and thus any analogies he draws from nature are probably not very sound either.

Amen, I believe letting go of the bad and embracing the good, learning from your past, and moving on from the issues and memories that drag u down.

Saving this to watch over and over again.

This is awesome ❤❤❤

Well done but this video is exactly that a story that needs to be told. For without our stories what are we. Yes we can start a new everyday we need to improve our personal story to evolve.

Love the wake and boat scenario. So true

I was listening to something else while cooking and autoplay just brought me here. I have to admit, these are words I needed to hear right now.