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  • @HardlyInitiated
    @HardlyInitiated16 күн бұрын

    👉 Dating Cards: www.hardlyinitiated.com/products/dating-deck

  • @bekirungu
    @bekirungu7 ай бұрын

    "I knew to find a partner I had to partner with God because he knew where I would he in 5 years, 10 years, he knows my future" that was deep and profound

  • @TheClements
    @TheClements7 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for the invitation!!! We love you guys and we hope your amazing community will find some value from our story 🤍

  • @lb1798

    @lb1798

    7 ай бұрын

    This is such a loving example of NOT going according to "societies superficial ideas"!!

  • @coutureleotards

    @coutureleotards

    7 ай бұрын

    You guys are Dope!! Thanks for sharing your wisdom and knowledge with us ❤❤

  • @bremarie3442

    @bremarie3442

    7 ай бұрын

    Great interview. I love what you said about having the vision first before the relationship happened. Something they said resonated with the last episode. The idea of trying to break the relationship upfront. I did this with my husband when we courted. Asked all the tough questions I could think of up front. We weren't committed so if there were red flags I wasn't loosing on any investment on my part. I still remember that feeling of amazement as we got through those tough conversations.

  • @stacks3459

    @stacks3459

    7 ай бұрын

    I've followed you guys for years! You guys gave me hope for interabled relationship filled with love.

  • @e.edwigep9352

    @e.edwigep9352

    7 ай бұрын

    We love your story ❤.

  • @Caribbeanmystic
    @Caribbeanmystic7 ай бұрын

    So many of us, women AND men should consider quality over aesthetics. I love this couple

  • @RoblEsquire

    @RoblEsquire

    7 ай бұрын

    Lol

  • @SLGreen979

    @SLGreen979

    7 ай бұрын

    Not going to happen because the majority of women would say they’re “settling”.

  • @Caribbeanmystic

    @Caribbeanmystic

    7 ай бұрын

    @@SLGreen979 I believe many of us have “settled” already as you have put it. And we realise that maybe we should look for more of what is needed - say intellectually or otherwise - because we were not equally yoked. I have seen it many times. You are not wrong but the key part of what has been expressed is the quality that she prioritised was quite specific. So with that as the foundation there is hope. I also believe that culturally maybe American women may be (operative word is MAYBE) more materialistic than other cultures. Speaking for myself I deal with intellect, someone who has the capacity for solid introspection. Men also can be shallow…Blessings to you and yours.

  • @SLGreen979

    @SLGreen979

    7 ай бұрын

    @@Caribbeanmystic good point 👍🏾

  • @Shanakkk

    @Shanakkk

    7 ай бұрын

    That's where we go wrong

  • @Farmacy75234
    @Farmacy752347 ай бұрын

    This couple is more peaceful that any regular couple I know. Tha maturity is amazing

  • @ProfessOz
    @ProfessOz7 ай бұрын

    This is actually one of the best episodes I've seen. Men or "Husbands" who come on the show and sell courses, cards or workshops about relationships typically beat up on men and lie to women in order to grow their business. This is a great example of marriage and love. Best wishes on their marriage journey.

  • @olio8226
    @olio82267 ай бұрын

    Hardly Initiated is on a whole other level of production. Wow! May this channel prosper!!

  • @Focused7X
    @Focused7X7 ай бұрын

    My takeaways are; love is awaiting us but step outside the box, premarital sex only clouds judgment, alignment with your purpose is key first, and friendship/communication is foundational to a successful union! @TheClements your transparency is valued & may God continue to bless you & all who encounter you🙏🏾

  • @cheryldian
    @cheryldian7 ай бұрын

    I almost didn’t listen to this podcast. I apologize for my bias. I was so wrong. This man can teach couples how to prepare. I’m impressed.

  • @Expensive-op6pn

    @Expensive-op6pn

    2 ай бұрын

    He had to make up for or rather ‘over prepare’ due to his disability to make him stand out too. He’s phenomenal I’d say.

  • @beverleyreid7572
    @beverleyreid75727 ай бұрын

    This is definitely the epitome of what not caring what society says and just going with your own sincere and authentic feelings of what God truly wants for you. So inspirational. God bless you both. Amen!

  • @lucyhunt1618

    @lucyhunt1618

    7 ай бұрын

    Awesome couple, God bless you as you continue to inspire others that love is what you make it, so be happy. 🙏

  • @clarkkent2005

    @clarkkent2005

    7 ай бұрын

    What do you mean by "not caring what society says"?

  • @adriannorwood8237
    @adriannorwood82377 ай бұрын

    This isn’t the average guy.. he has a Ted talks, he was working in tech, he is independent, I’m sure he has a level of maturity that most guys don’t…

  • @charlib8650
    @charlib86507 ай бұрын

    They are such an inspiration to not only inter-disabled couples, but non- disabled couples as well. They are such a thoughtful and intelligent couple. ❤️

  • @bevt9982
    @bevt99827 ай бұрын

    We can ask them a million questions but what touched my heart is see a person the way that God see them. God is their protector and I hope my Kingdom Spouse see God’s light in me. ❤

  • @talayamichael8881
    @talayamichael88817 ай бұрын

    I love how they look at each other when the other is speaking

  • @ShaunettaMarie
    @ShaunettaMarie7 ай бұрын

    ✨️When God gives you the vision you have to run with it and be okay with people catching up later.. powerful word.. #Wisdom Inspiring on so many levels✨️

  • @RoblEsquire

    @RoblEsquire

    7 ай бұрын

    Lol

  • @taliaowens5356
    @taliaowens53567 ай бұрын

    I appreciate the transparency and the vulnerability this couple is displaying with us.

  • @janelleshanakay
    @janelleshanakay7 ай бұрын

    Both questions and answers were phenomenal in this episode!

  • @ccspeaks3037

    @ccspeaks3037

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes! I love how articulate and intentional they both are!

  • @Barnyard-sunlight

    @Barnyard-sunlight

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes❤

  • @mariemuhammad7983
    @mariemuhammad79837 ай бұрын

    The person that I pick is going to affect the next generations. This is bigger than me. Is this someone I can build with? Is this someone I can break generational curses with. Is this someone that will help me become the best version of myself ❤

  • @tricks2564
    @tricks256417 сағат бұрын

    This is wonderful. I did a KZread video years ago about my ex, who's a quadriplegic, and i and how we had twins. It's amazing how insensitive and judgemental people can be. They whisper behind your back and say things like "I thought people in wheelchairs only deal with other people in wheelchairs." "If i was handicapped, i wouldn't expect anyone to want to be with me." It truly does take a mentally resilient person to face opposition in that way. They don't murmer about the blessings that exist. So shameful how society thrives on negativity. Thank you Ryan and Tysean for this amazing revelation on your platform.

  • @tameramagee4000
    @tameramagee40007 ай бұрын

    They are a perfect example of the importance of communication in the development of and maintaining a healthy relationship.

  • @lorettaelliott4481
    @lorettaelliott44817 ай бұрын

    My daughter has 1 leg I sent her this so she can see it's possible. She has only dated a female seriously and I Know it's because of insecurities. I Love your Podcast! Really hope she can see Value I received from All of you. I wish the 50 50 guy and this couple could have an episode on your show omg he would learn everything doesn't fit in that neat box! lol

  • @iyanayona5348

    @iyanayona5348

    7 ай бұрын

    Oh Ma'am, this touched me. May God touch her heart! Heal her and may she expand her pool to men from everywhere in this world. Godly and good ones.

  • @Rosegold.energy
    @Rosegold.energy7 ай бұрын

    These are two very articulate people and shared very valuable ideas. This was so much better than I was expecting. Thank you

  • @j.o.y_aliba
    @j.o.y_aliba7 ай бұрын

    Idk if I am more proud of the guys for having them or them for staying true to each other!! This episode was pure bliss!!🙌

  • @mjohnson8206
    @mjohnson82067 ай бұрын

    If God ain’t part of our foundation in relationships it ain’t gonna work

  • @lorettaelliott4481
    @lorettaelliott44817 ай бұрын

    Such a mature couple I Love their honest approach to everything

  • @JJohns1980
    @JJohns19807 ай бұрын

    I love that you guys did this interview. This is a couple I watch and their relationship inspires me because it’s proof that love and relationship is available to all as long as you are wanting it.

  • @joywilliams2061
    @joywilliams20617 ай бұрын

    When you're challenged with bodily issues,,, it forces you to excell to the next logical level... and especially when you've discovered your purpose and keep Christ 1st, you automatically advance to your next level in a way to where people cant begin to fathom. Once you've done the personal work (within); you view most things thru a much different lense than others. This is such a dynamic couple,,, I totally get them and can completely understand their Godly union!

  • @instrinsiclove
    @instrinsiclove7 ай бұрын

    I’m so proud of you both Tysean and Ryan! The growth is remarkable.

  • @Ifeoma999
    @Ifeoma9997 ай бұрын

    I love The Clements Family, I've been following them since they started on KZread. ❤ I'm excited to see them on HI!!!!🙂🎉

  • @gladyswambui1327
    @gladyswambui13277 ай бұрын

    This is a God fearing couple, i honestly love them

  • @sonjadf47
    @sonjadf477 ай бұрын

    When a man moves with spiritual intentions, that’s when your wife will appear. But until then, you will get who you are and that’s why most marriages fail. There MUST be d a spiritual connection.

  • @cynthiahoyi3925
    @cynthiahoyi39257 ай бұрын

    This was so beautiful to watch. I was actually talking to a girlfriend of mine and were talking about disappointments in business, friendship etc, and we forget that God had already gone before us and knows exactly what/who we need. I always pray exactly what Mayfair said, “God you know exactly who I will need in 5 years time, in 10, 15, 20…” that’s who/what I want! I’m so happy for this couple❤️❤️

  • @cheyluv6256
    @cheyluv62567 ай бұрын

    Love does not have barriers only if you make them… God bless this beautiful couple 🙏🏽💕

  • @sandrawillis-curry6701
    @sandrawillis-curry67017 ай бұрын

    I am amazed at the growth and spiritual alignment of this podcast and the young men leading it.WOW. I have gone from detesting you to ADMIRING YOUR EFFORTS AND TRANSFORMATION!

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk58477 ай бұрын

    This is a powerful conversation, some of us can really got to understand the Clements....thank you so much

  • @Sunshine-ye4xz
    @Sunshine-ye4xz7 ай бұрын

    This has been one of the best episodes!!! Very healthy and inspiring!!! This is what is needed in order to make a change in this world!!!

  • @simonerenee9919
    @simonerenee99196 ай бұрын

    Such a beautiful interview... Really sweet, warm and you feel the love and respect radiating from this couple.. Very encouraging also. And I have to say you guys are great interviewers, you guys listened and asked the right questions and really gave the interviewees space to just tell their stories.. Beautiful...

  • @antoniajuddine203
    @antoniajuddine2037 ай бұрын

    I love this couple I have learned a lot from them. They are very blessed and a prime example of how a husband and wife should be with one another.

  • @NoduM2
    @NoduM25 ай бұрын

    When they talk about relationship goals. This couple is it! Not the superficial relationships that we normally see which are not purpose based but are based on a esthetics and material.

  • @dorothymatthews6690
    @dorothymatthews66906 ай бұрын

    Wow! This was so deep! I pray that God will send me a man that will align with my purpose! You definitely have to hear from God about your spouse! This was a testament to that for sure! This episode taught me that you truly have to know the soul of a person! He is kind and supportive?

  • @kenjones8139
    @kenjones81397 ай бұрын

    A beautiful couple and a beautiful story and journey. God bless The Clements!

  • @tarnett331
    @tarnett3317 ай бұрын

    My take away was at 48:40-when you’re in a crisis find the possibility-find a community for support and doing the inter work for yourself-this could be therapy or finding that one thing that finds you joy-thanks for the words!

  • @ogbonnachioma1052
    @ogbonnachioma10527 ай бұрын

    The clements are the best couple. Realistic but superb. Your teachings are so motivating nd a lesson to other couples❤🎉

  • @eulaleecallun9750
    @eulaleecallun97507 ай бұрын

    Love this couple n looove this conversation n the questions that were asked. Really wanted to understand without judgement. This has helped me so much. Thanks🙏🏽to the the Clements. Thank you too.

  • @favouredone5558
    @favouredone55587 ай бұрын

    The guests were excellent with the responses, but we must admit the questioning was the compass to this project.

  • @karonshelton3652
    @karonshelton36525 ай бұрын

    I like how your questions and comments were respectful. What an amazing couple! Blessings to all.

  • @cetraingram4378
    @cetraingram43787 ай бұрын

    This not a love story it's a fact how Beautiful love is especially when it's sent from God the Clemens are the sweetest marriage couple I've ever seen

  • @jackiepeter4512
    @jackiepeter45127 ай бұрын

    Fantastic! Awesome couple, real, honest and unapologetic. Love them so much 🎉

  • @aveese33
    @aveese337 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed this interview C fam! ❤ so glad you two got the opportunity to express your love and wisdom on a different platform!

  • @itzmee_kisha4600
    @itzmee_kisha46006 ай бұрын

    Hey guys! The Clements sent me here. Although I have only been subscriber to the channel a short term . I’m so captivated by their love. The love Mayfair & Winston have for each other makes me further believe there is an actual thing as true love . They are so inspiring. This was a great episode it left no questions unanswered.

  • @mrdanielleebrown
    @mrdanielleebrown7 ай бұрын

    Commitment and intimacy are such a beautiful thing.

  • @MsKibibeBailey
    @MsKibibeBailey7 ай бұрын

    “We’re on the same team even in the trenches” love them. Beautiful couple, real powerful couple.

  • @einnodandme
    @einnodandme6 ай бұрын

    WOW! What an amazing couple. I so appreciate their faith in God and how they lean on and trust Him as their source and guidance in their marriage. Sharing their lives opens the door for others to see they too can have a fulfilling life when they approach relationships and marriage God’s way and not society’s way (the world’s way).

  • @carlottawilliams7267
    @carlottawilliams72677 ай бұрын

    I really admire The Clements it's the kind of love I pray for everyday may God continue to bless them in there marriage.

  • @godivabaker6622
    @godivabaker66227 ай бұрын

    Such a beautiful couple and story! Y’all the G.O.A.T.s of Podcasting, because you all bring quality content and your guests offer practical solutions. Keep up the good work guys. 👍🏾

  • @sanyukyeyune6191
    @sanyukyeyune61917 ай бұрын

    Very inspirational! Mrs. Clement you are indeed God sent. God made your paths cross for a good reason and i believe that all shall be well with you as you continue to put God first in this relationship.

  • @zinanguru1817
    @zinanguru18176 ай бұрын

    Such an authentic and wholesome conversation

  • @monicaarang7688
    @monicaarang76886 ай бұрын

    This was a powerful interview. As someone who's entering marriage, I’ve learned so much from this conversation ❤❤❤

  • @rebeccabanda909
    @rebeccabanda9095 ай бұрын

    This is really exceptional. God is good. God help me to listen to your voice in all I do. Help me never to be in conflict with your will for my life. God's plans are always beautiful in our lives no matter what!❤

  • @shaffronbyyourstruly7512
    @shaffronbyyourstruly75127 ай бұрын

    This was so good and a much needed conversation!! ❤What is truly important when you finally find love and what is not!

  • @BrittnePtheBestGirl
    @BrittnePtheBestGirl6 ай бұрын

    I absolutely love how they look at each other!!!? It's beautiful 😍

  • @amandariley6946
    @amandariley69467 ай бұрын

    Love the Clements! Ya’ll got a new subscriber here. Keep on doing the good work, our community needs this🙌🏽

  • @MsEbony-pl7bi
    @MsEbony-pl7bi7 ай бұрын

    I watch them they are wonderful! Blessings guys ❤

  • @Hiiyena
    @Hiiyena6 ай бұрын

    Mayfair is a goddess and I’m so glad she met Winston - they give me hope. They remind me that there are still good people who love god, they’re not all nutty maga evangelical types out there. Can’t imagine them without each other and I appreciate all they do from the goodness of their hearts

  • @latoyabasden4725
    @latoyabasden47257 ай бұрын

    If love was a person. The level of EQ displayed here is both phenomenal and admirable.

  • @patricialee7919
    @patricialee79197 ай бұрын

    I love the Clements Im subscribed & a person Patreon member ..Interesting that I've learnt so much more about them today than before .Thanks for being so open & honest .I already know you love & adore each other and you have a fantastic relationship ❤️ Great interview guys Xxx

  • @TheClements

    @TheClements

    7 ай бұрын

    So much love Patricia, thanks for your immense support 🤍

  • @VershyTheQueen
    @VershyTheQueen7 ай бұрын

    This truly is a beautiful interview especially because I am truly following Christ. It goes to show that there are so many levels of faith and trust in the Lord. For me personally I wouldn’t have ever though my future husband could be in a wheel chair personally. I have always stated that I have no problem being with someone blind, deaf, hearing impaired, walked with a limp, or even had like 1 arm or 1 leg things like that. But to her extent no. And it truly does make you wonder if you are shallow. I really appreciate this video and I hope more people appreciate it as well

  • @julietliving1016
    @julietliving10167 ай бұрын

    Followed from the early quieter days😊So glad to see you both growing together in your unified truth and making sure the Creator is foremost in everything. Good lessons!There is so much we can achieve...

  • @schandrikawilliams2792
    @schandrikawilliams27927 ай бұрын

    Two of my favorite people ❤. I can listen to their story again and again 💜❤️♥️🙏🙏🙏Huge Fan 😊

  • @juliaboyle1200
    @juliaboyle12007 ай бұрын

    That was phenomenal and very humbling. It was eye opening and gives a different perspective to what society perceives as normal.

  • @MyVlogTherapy
    @MyVlogTherapy6 ай бұрын

    “I had to partner with God, clear out the nose, and listen in my heart, because he knows where I’m going to be in 5 years, in 20 .. and who is right for the journey.”

  • @bigelowkaryn
    @bigelowkaryn6 ай бұрын

    Loved this interview. They have a beautiful love and friendship, and I love hearing their story as people of faith. I’m going to follow their channel

  • @mariefpaul1875
    @mariefpaul18757 ай бұрын

    Am heading to work and yes I will be listening to you guys while taking care of the babies. Thank you so much for sharing your story.❤❤❤❤

  • @melanatedandlovingit1305
    @melanatedandlovingit13056 ай бұрын

    I love these two ppl right here....Well done Winston and Mayfair ❤

  • @melomelody7349
    @melomelody73497 ай бұрын

    This was so beautiful and encouraging . ❤ thank you so much

  • @patriciapadgett3715
    @patriciapadgett37157 ай бұрын

    Wow! What Ana amazing interview. Powerful couple. Thank you guys for having them on your show. God Bless you the more…

  • @tammycovington3288
    @tammycovington32885 ай бұрын

    I think we have forgotten God instituted marriage with that being said God doesn’t see or think like humans. Marriage is a spiritual task. The looks and money doesn’t matter to God… the marriage has to give God The Glory. God looks at heart of a man and woman 👏🙂

  • @keelhe893
    @keelhe8937 ай бұрын

    I am glad to have heard this interview. I never heard of this family prior to this interview’s announcement. I love how Mayfair is very gentle and feminine. Many black women are assumed to lack submission and gentleness but Mayfair shows that this is not true

  • @coloursof-autumn8650

    @coloursof-autumn8650

    6 ай бұрын

    Such a weird thing for say. She’s Zimbabwean which is a very deeply patriarchal and conservative society. They literally teach young girls do submit to men even to their own detriment.

  • @faith2faithconnections448
    @faith2faithconnections4487 ай бұрын

    Love that term destiny helpers! Congratulations to you both ❤

  • @lorinakers7934
    @lorinakers79347 ай бұрын

    Powerful message. Love is... Importance of the daily support!

  • @melissasmakeup8202
    @melissasmakeup82027 ай бұрын

    These are EXCELLENT for those getting back in shape...but his eyes and smile...ohhhh my goodness.. beautiful..kinda hypnotizing...yay

  • @2020daniella
    @2020daniella7 ай бұрын

    What beautiful people with beautiful souls. Great love story!! May God continue to lead you and bless you. May you both continue to listen to God.

  • @chiquataelder
    @chiquataelder7 ай бұрын

    Although, I love and find some much value in the content and people who have been on your platform, this has to be one of the best episodes ever. So much rich information that can help everyone move forward in allowing God to send you your purpose partner.

  • @user-yn2bx4tl6x
    @user-yn2bx4tl6x7 ай бұрын

    Such an awesome conversation it’s very inspiring thanks again HI

  • @AuntieCheri
    @AuntieCheri7 ай бұрын

    Their vibe is AMAZING!

  • @royalndebele-1
    @royalndebele-1Ай бұрын

    Heavy on emotional protection…100 per cent correct. Intelligent couple right there .

  • @apoetsdaughter
    @apoetsdaughter7 ай бұрын

    I LOVE THIS PODCAST AND SPACE!!! ANOINTED 🙌🏼

  • @RassyV
    @RassyV7 ай бұрын

    This is beautiful to watch,i follow their Channel..Lovely couple ❤️

  • @W.I.F.E
    @W.I.F.E7 ай бұрын

    So much wisdom!! I love it!! Another great episode!!!!

  • @aishagreen5638
    @aishagreen56386 ай бұрын

    Great couple. Enjoyed the questions that were asked and their responses! Praying that God will continue to bless their marriage

  • @shirleydavis5060
    @shirleydavis50607 ай бұрын

    I truly believe the two of them going into life coaching helped their personal development & has helped with marriage now. This is FANTASTIC!!!!❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @charlenejones7874
    @charlenejones78747 ай бұрын

    I have admired listening to this beautiful couple. God is amazing that they see each other as individuals.. Love the story. I will be following them for sure. Happy Holidays Holidays

  • @5rgyyuyrgg
    @5rgyyuyrgg2 ай бұрын

    I believe, That in a certain way everyone has some form of disability because no one on this earth is perfect!

  • @SweettoothMarie77
    @SweettoothMarie777 ай бұрын

    I follow them❤ Good to see them come through for this interview🎉😊

  • @Pelle477
    @Pelle4777 ай бұрын

    True. They make it seem so easy . They also make it seem attainable for the average person. Other couples seem so perfect it seems it can’t be achieved

  • @ammcgowan
    @ammcgowan6 ай бұрын

    Thank you. This was EXCELLENT!!!

  • @wandamoore9582
    @wandamoore95827 ай бұрын

    This was an excellent episode! Everyone on the podcast represented themselves very well! Great questions gentlemen! I look forward to each podcast! Keep up the excellent work!🎊🎊

  • @Barnyard-sunlight
    @Barnyard-sunlight7 ай бұрын

    I'm too excited to watch this one!!!

  • @Lifeisagift7
    @Lifeisagift77 ай бұрын

    Love the Clements. Real Heaven Sent True love. ❤🙏

  • @malcolmx7691
    @malcolmx76917 ай бұрын

    Thank you 😊 guys ❤