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Dating is not a scandal and it shouldn't be made out to be a scandal in kpop. Idols are human, they must be able to have a personal life, to experience normal healthy relationships that is not at the expense of their careers. Let them live!!!

@chayazeff1995

Ай бұрын

Jungkook is not a baby!! Why is your username whippedforjungkookie? Are you a solo Stan? Your username proof it!!

@SUNSHINELIX-hl8ds

Ай бұрын

@@chayazeff1995what is wrong with their user name

@cvyyjg

Ай бұрын

​@@chayazeff1995 ???

@kimson305

Ай бұрын

​@chayazeff1995 ok, so what? Do you want them to see him as a baby? You're a weirdo

@chayazeff1995

Ай бұрын

@@kimson305 you didn't understand my comment. It's the opposite.

Honestly we shouldn’t keep mentioning the guy from bigbang, that’s what he wants. He wants to be brought up in the media to try to come back to the industry

Karina’s scandal is so stupid. She is doing nothing wrong and I really hope that this doesn’t ruin her mental health or her career. She doesn’t deserve it, and we should be happy. Plus she’s only 24, she’s still young and doesn’t deserve this hate. THESE “FANS” NEED TO GROW UP AND NEED A LIFE.

@jinnnied1787

Ай бұрын

So true!! But seeing all the hate which keeps on growing I think they will probably breakup soon!! I just hope she is doing well

@jacobblack2381

Ай бұрын

I Think its More stupid Dating a Person she just met once it isnt mature at All even for her Career!

It’s sad seeing kpop idols not being able to love someone without losing their career they worked so hard for for years

@cvyyjg

Ай бұрын

Yeah but Hyuna isn't ...

@lovelynikki2476

Ай бұрын

Hyuna has had several boyfriends in kpop.😏

@STAYing_for_kids

Ай бұрын

HyunA is literally dating a rapi*t and was talking about women safety and improvement 🧍🏻‍♀️💀

@saumyabajpai4684

Ай бұрын

​@@cvyyjg ya that's good Why ppl are so obsessed with celebrity dating life Do PPL have nothing else to do Not attacking you tho Just commenting Have a nice day 💗

Taeyon and baekhyun deserved better......period

@valentinarebolledo5961

Ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@danissegomez7953

Ай бұрын

Taeyeon deserve a man who can protect her.

@preciouslyunhinged

Ай бұрын

@danissegomez7953 they both deserved better fans who were not deranged and delulu to the extent of harassing them....pretty sure there companies restrained them from.doing anything for each other ..its heartbreaking tbh...no 1 should apologise for dating especially idols

@girlinluv426

Ай бұрын

@@danissegomez7953 What do you mean by "deserve a man who can protect her" ? is that baekhyun's thing to do? its the company thing and also some delulu fans , I was in kpop since many years and I know how company must protect both the idols . SM entertainment is useless one , if you are not new to kpop you would already knew . Literally 2 idols passed away , tf are you trying to talk? . does blaming baekhyun for this sh** make's you look cool? .

@tbakhalid4781

Ай бұрын

​@@danissegomez7953 how exactly was he supposed to protect her? They both are under the protection of the same company. One was already an established idol Queen while the other was a rising star. He tried to be there for her and even called out to the saesangs but this only provoked the netizens to target his girlfriend more so he shut up to avoid more drama. It's the company's fault for not taking actions against the saesangs. In the end a really beautiful couple had to say goodbye to their relationship for the sake of everyone around them.

Fans think they are married to the idols💀 Yall don't respect boundaries, toxic

Can’t believe Go Hara ex boyfriend did not go to jail for filming their sex act and release it.

Imagine being harrased and threatened to be boycotted for dating as an adult ...wtf is wrong with peaple... k nets are bizarre ...I love how jae wook sued there as**s

I still can’t believe Ailee is going to get married next year. I am so happy for her. I know she’s not in the video, but it’s just so amazing to watch her grow as a person since her debut.

@lubdid

Ай бұрын

Yes, I’ve been a fan since forever and we were always joking about how she lacked “dating scandals” on Twitter and now she’s getting married next year. I’m really happy for her 🥹

It’s sad that idols can’t be themselves and do stuff with their personal life without the media coming after them. Always “neglecting fans” or “not focusing on their career” or “betraying fans”

@tubby_1278

Ай бұрын

Man the fans are part of the toxicity too

And: why do “fans” think they have any power over the bands/idols??? You are a fan, nothing more. U pay for concerts, albums, merch, u scream their name, u are faceless to them. U are one of many, nothing really. Your only privilege is to throw your money at them. U will never have a say what they do, who they date or marry. U are just a fan. Just a fan! Nothing more.

Knetizens should look in the mirror. They are the national embarrassement. They were the one who told her to apologize and she did. Which she did not have to do

honestly the ONLY dating SCANDAL that comes the mind is anyone who dates any guy that has anything to do with the burning sun scandal/crime

@STAYing_for_kids

Ай бұрын

Fr HyunA I used to admire her but now nah 🤡 she ain't cool.... DAWN should have his career back!!!!!

Those dating Burning sun criminals literally took "Mama I am in love with a criminal" to whole another level💀

@user-gb1gz8wl6f

Ай бұрын

Fr....

Stop saying that dating is scandal first of all. That kind of language needs to change. It is normal in life to fall in love. Let them be. Also no need to apologize for being in love.

Chen's relationship with his now wife was not a scandal. I remember the day when he said he proposed to her and k-exols wanted to protest the whole thing by throwing away his merch and boycotting him. I've been into kpop for about 13 years now and I honestly still cannot understand why idols can't date like AT ALL 😢

I hate when people attack idols over their personal life. I hate it more when they attack and bully people like Go Hara even though she was a victim. These "fan" are disgusting and should be ashamed.

That guy from bigbang and Hyuna’s boyfriend BOTH ARE NASTY!! I’m terrified how these two have a career and fans

Dating shouldn’t be a scandal in Kpop and JPOP and it shouldn’t ruin there careers

South Korea became a national embarrassment because of some toxic fan for forcing Karina to apologize

I loved Baek n Taeyeon 😢. They were perfect together. I'll always dislike knetz for ruining that gorgeous couple.

The netizens who think idols shouldn't date, be happy and have a normal live,when the cameras are off, are the real embarrassment for their country, not the idols. Thats why it gets worldwide coverage everytime. I am sad when I see idols being exposed to criticism, for the most ridiculous reasons, when they need to be protected.

I definitely think the hate around dating is cause netzens are jealous cause they are young, rich and hot like of course they are going to date. Wouldn't we all if we were in their shoes

Taeyeon & Baekhyun doesn't deserve that

Tbh i would never feel pity for seungri after what he did the victims will still be suffering

Why do the media keep mentioning the ex member of big bang

Geez kpop is so unserious I never seen this happened not once in western celebrities where dating is such an issue yall possessive fans need to grow up

@Thefashiongoddessnyc

Ай бұрын

Do u not remember what twilight fans did to rob Patterson’s ex fiancé Fka Twigs? It was insane and she still is heart broken 😢

Can we stop calling normal dating for scandal

Dating scandal ❌ Dating rumours ✅

If there's anyone that actually lost my respect in this list then its Hyuna and Seungri for their respective issues. The couple I feel most bad for in this list are definitely Taeyeon and Baekhyun. Both of them didn't deserve the hate they got.

Its crazy how the asian countries have this weird dating scandal thing, Weird asf. I'm not going to be threaten over who i date, crazy as hell.

Do those toxic fans think they have a chance with Idols I mean you think you literally a nobody can date an idol face reality 😒😒

You guys should do a vid about successful relationships that people love til this day!

I admit the safety of the idols and the need to make decisions for themselves is a thing but they gotta be more discerning when it comes to their fans and the industries they work in. Of course, netizens and haters alike are too damn insecure, emotionally blind, attention-seeking, aggressive, irrational and boisterous when it comes to the idol’s careers and yearning to be noticed by them. And they end up taking their feelings out on the idols. Look at Sulli, everyone hated her guts without a reason and she offed herself because none could do anything but watch. If you truly love the idols, stop controlling them and their decisions. Show some empathy. And admit this, the truth does not care about the public’s feelings.

Dating is IMMATURE now!?

People's have no emotion and never let idols breath whenever they want to date they end up getting hate and dating is not crime I don't know why people like to spread hate and it also led some idols to suicide which is so sad to hear and they r still accusing go hara and the one who did this to her living his life properly

"Is the love fans give you not enough?"😵‍💫 What!?? Wtf?! Do they not hear how crazy that sounds? LITERALLY INSANE! This just shows you they do not think of these idols as actual people. They are merely artificial beings, who's only sustenance is the love and praise from fans. 💀💀

we miss you hara

You mean 18 months not years

I saw this on tiktok, but I want to see an entire Kpop group drop that they are all dating at the same time jus to quiet the crowds that say, "so and so needs to be kicked from the group." Can't kick out the whole group.

@BTSISMYHAPPYPLACE4VER

Ай бұрын

LMAO. That would be awesome! That would shut them up. 🤣🤣

@sakshi1148

Ай бұрын

Ikr that would be realllyyyy cool.😂❤

"He was more scandalized by the fact that he was caught fimling rather than the fact he was sharing i videos" How about rather than the fact that he was ab sing someone in the first place guys ?? 😐😐😐

@Lafilledlapluie

Ай бұрын

Right?

@Sokeefe_292

Ай бұрын

Everyone who got hate cuz of dating doesn’t deserve the hate

Dating is still a scandal 🤦🤦🤦🤦

G na is forgotten but her case was ended no were then dissapeared or went silent

I feel like dating should be fine and K-pop but also, these cases weren’t even dating sandals. Most of these literal crimes being moved by people. And I do feel like that’s something that I think people kind of forget there’s a difference between idols dating and fans being delusional, and then people like dating no criminals, or people going to prison because of crimes that they committed people, committing blackmail and domestic violence, and things like that being put out there in the public and people sitting there side people who did the wrong, or the people who are allowing themselves to date someone who did something like that or was a part of something and friends with while people, because birds of a feather flock together if you’re willing to date someone who was aware for over a year that illegal crime actions were happening and didn’t say or do anything I don’t really think that’s a scandal that goes past scandal and just straight ruining your reputation and people siding you because that’s questionable and now anyone you hang out with is questionable because they’re OK with you dating a criminal. G.na. That whole situation was just fucked up as someone who was a fan of hers and remember this happening because it’s like she was set up from the very beginning by her entertainment company and then it makes you look back now and kinda look at other people who used to be at that company and the decisions that they’ve made and it makes you just wonder just a little bit And it also makes you hope for their downfall like they have some amazing artist and I feel bad for them, but at this point, I don’t feel like this company should be accompany anymore. Too many shady shit that’s happened from the company too many times they’ve been willing to throw their artist under the bus or pin them into situations where they would take the fall instead of the company In terms of like Karina, or even the SM couple situations, that again is just a reminder, I feel like to fans that at the end of the day, the companies care about money. Because yes, there were delusional fans that were upset, but when you look like overall at the amount of fans that were upset and loud about it versus the fans that genuinely didn’t give two shits, you notice that there were more fans that really did not care as much and the delusional ones that take care the companies basically pander to them.. Unsurprising these are all artists from SM entertainment because I feel like SM does this a lot where in terms of like Karina they will basically just throw their under the bus and have them apologize for something that they don’t need to apologize for because if they apologize they’re less likely to lose money instead of just sitting there and being like look, this is our artist they’re humans they’re allowed to do what they want that has nothing to do with their work or their careers. If you don’t like it, then fuck off, because let’s be real. They have enough hands internationally, and globally that even if they did piss off quite a few , very small amount of international fans and quite a bit domestic fans it would not affect them that much. You wanna talk about EXO members and dating people? Kai & Krystal was an absolute shit show, especially during the SM entertainment did nothing to protect either one of them, especially her being from a girl group that wasn’t as popular as his boy group and the fact that they have so much other private lives leak from fucking there was two different different occasions where receipts were leaked or pictures of them out on dates where people who are working at these establishments, were just hitting them out there and sharing it with people, and the company did nothing. There was no legal action taken. It just got so bad. She was getting so many death threats and people were threatening her so much that the two of them just broke up and then afterwards you never saw them interact with each other again and it was crazy because they were like best friends alongside.Taemin like the three of them had trained together they were all really good friends. They were basically the equivalent of childhood friends because they all start training around the same time. They all freaking grew up together, and then he got to the point where, like they wouldn’t even look at each other when they had to interact because this was around the time with them still had SMT concert like they avoided each other like the plague, and it was so sad to see. Just kind of repeated itself again with Baek and Tae because once again, the company did nothing. This time the group put a little bit more on like the same - and turns to popularity but again she was getting so much hate, and it was so bad and the company didn’t do shit it’s like people people were genuinely threatening this woman in her life and the company sat down and was like so we’re gonna just not do anything you’re not taking any of the serious right because if we did, it’ll fuck with our money and that’s exactly what they said and exactly what they did, it was the weirdest thing ever let’s be real had nothing to do with either one of the women in the situation had to deal with the boy group, and the way that entertainment consistently would push the group to being like your boyfriend and to the point that it really created way more delusional fans than it needed to a great example of how we know this. You have to look no further than Tiffany from SNSD when she was dating Nick of 2 PM because the backlash wasn’t this bad and remind you at this point when they were dating, Tiffany was one of the popular members she always had been and there wasn’t as much animosity and hate if I remember correctly these two ended up dating for like a good like two or so years and there was nothing that was super hateful about the 2 PM hotness we didn’t give two shits like OK cool they’re dating we expected us to happen. Those are fine ass men of course there gonna date SNSD fans They also didn’t care as much. They understood that those women were gorgeous and they were old enough to start dating genuinely I feel like I’ve never seen issues necessarily with their fandom of being his off about the men that these women have dated, but low and behold certain boy groups, because again it’s not all boy groups there’s quite a few boys groups for people have come out and talk about Danny and the fans are like completely fine but certain boy groups, and in my opinion that someone who’s been a fan of K-pop For over a decade since I was like 11 years old it’s always a boy groups where the companies are constantly trying to push them as being available and your boyfriend, because that type of advertisement always backfires it always creates delusional fans like seriously look at the groups that tend to have the most delusional fans, and also tends to have the most issues with stockers like yes they groups were they do not advertise themselves like that and they still have stocker fans because they’re just crazy ass people out there but you can definitely tell the difference with groups where it’s like that’s their whole MO from the company is for them to come off as being your boyfriend and it backfires so hard. It’s one of the reasons why personally, I like groups where the members are like factual with a fan like we can still be playful we can still be flirty, but at the end of the day they’re still that bound, but we know that like we have a very small fucking chance in hell of ever dating these idols, and they’re going to go ahead and live their life and date people and that’s perfectly fine because they’re not feeding us this fantasy that that’s not going to happen. if anything, they’re just like the really cool flirty friend that you might have were you guys might banter together you might be a little flirty but at the end of the day you know you’re never dating that dude you know you’re never dating that girl you guys are just good friends and that’s how going to stay and I’ll always be you’ve been friend zone and you’re OK with it too.

Netizens: Harass idols and make they apologize for LIVING THEIR LIFE. Also Netizens: You made us look bad for our absurd damands and harassement, how dare you?

Don't mention burning sun as if his career was so important he doesn't deserve and spotlight the only thing that he deserves is jail and his dating scandal after his biggest scandal were not that big because he is already finished and should have been in jail

So let me see if i get this right... The Idol you like is dating someone, you being a so called "fan" think you have been betrayed and demand an apology 👀. You get the apology (which should have never happened in the 1st place), news of your toxic behavior is called out worldwide BUT the Idol is the embarrassment???? For real this is the part of kpop culture I can never wrap my head around and will never understand why it's gotten away with. I get fan service is a big thing in Kpop, and that's cool, but you can still have fan service with CLEAR boundaries set!!! These Idols are just like everyone else and deserve privacy and are allowed to have lives outside of there Idolhood (is that a word lol). You do not own them, you don't get to dictate what they can & can't do. These brave little keyboard warriors are ridiculous and need to get a life!!!

Koreans fans are too immature, don't they feel embarrassed sometimes, that's one of the main reasons why Kpop will never be on the same level as western music. Because entertainment is the major aspect as well as the western celebrities feel more passionate about their job knowing that they have freedom to love and actually have an opinion

@tubby_1278

Ай бұрын

Then go listen to western music lol and it's not like Hollywood doesn't have it's own problems. If you ask me Hollywood celebs sold their souls to the devil and they're all mostly fake af and even more problematic

@GurlTherapy

Ай бұрын

Yes i have seen some comments from taehyung new mv and some people were commenting that they got scared because wht if he kisses his coactress from one of the scenes of the mv and were glad cause he did not .The comments were so embarrassing and hilarious .they were writing he did not cause he is true to his fans omg it was so childish

I was such a huge G.NA fan, it was so frustrating how she just disappeared :/

K netizens are just too much first they demand an apology for freaking DATING and then when she apologised she is a "national embarrassment" LIKE WTF DO U WANT THE POOR GIRL TO DO???!!!!

This is sad :'((((

Fans being so delulu they don't allow idols to be human beings with basic human rights like having feelings and emotions...and people ask me why I'm not in any fandom despite being a Kpop fan smh..

Why dating so hard?

@Tummyachesurvior

Ай бұрын

Because “fans” think idols belong to them and think they have a chance with these idols. Karina had to apologize for dating someone because her fans turned on her

@dancinginthemoon5826

Ай бұрын

Bcoz that is what they are marketed like "ur idol only loves u no one else" lol

@tubby_1278

Ай бұрын

Because it's bad for business and it affects their image

@nastynat2002

Ай бұрын

​@@tubby_1278That is immature. At least it shows that they are human beings with feelings. They don't belong to any of us. Those toxic fans need to chill and get a life. For real.

I love Karina & HyunA so it’s such a bummer that as a fan I’ve seen them get so much hate (with HyunA I’m talking about her dating Dawn, not her new bf..). I think it’s ridiculous how fans & the media react, idols are human and they deserve love and like everyone. I hope there’s a shift in how people react.

@yes_hunny

Ай бұрын

true, bit hyuna's new relationship is deserving of criticism, she really can't tell apart right from wrong anymore

@justcara6112

Ай бұрын

I love Karina, she doesn't deserve the hate she is getting, it's so unfortunate that people have to be like this. However, for Hyuna, I have lost my respect for her, it's not because she is dating but because of WHO she is dating, I don't understand why she would date him, especially after what he did. Well, I hope she wasn't expecting people to accept that.

Dating was called scandal bcause usually these idols just date for fun before part way. It's not like they're serious for the marriage. Same as other ppl😂

So if idols can’t date says the fan why can he date you the fan can you see how ridiculous that is ❤ to all idols date whoever you want the real fans will still support you you all deserve love ❤️

Karina's case is literally so sad. I just hope she is doing well also i don't think this relationship is gonna last long with all the hate she is getting...i feel so sorry for her!!

Karina's dating life disgusted me. Why should she have to apologize for something so normal in life. Dating in K-pop isn't a scandal. It's just idols living a normal life outside of their careers

Damn you dispatch for hurtfully exposing my dear sweet Karina... Stay strong Karina, keeping fighting Karina, I LOVE YOU ONLY KARINA... 😭💘

nah,the k-pop industry is really toxic. from fans to haters, it's bad that they even got harrased. I really feel bad for the idols. even though they were supporting the songs if hey start to date like normal people they get hated on,that's just wrong.

It is that kookielit hasn’t covered the drama that went down a few days about with Han sohee

People saying when female idols date they should be left because they are grown up but when was this logic for other female idols? And make idols?

0:47 18 years??? Akksjdkad

There's so many sh*tty things which is done by idols would not consider as scandal..but genuine,pure things would be considered scandal wow .and Karina didn't ruin her career...she isn't going to

0:49 18 months* not years

You really have to milk everything

If only dispatch didn't leak Baekhyun and taeyon relationship. I think they would be still together till today.

I'm sorry, but I would also go on a paid date for 35 million won. IDC.

kpop fans have to understand that they are the right hand🤷😅🙃

idols can date they are also humans they can love anyone they want . In my opinion hyunA just betrayed goo hara like hyunA should just date dawn again like dawn ended his career just for hyunA and now hyunA is dated this fool . I feel bad for Karina like jaewook and karina seem like a good couple and karina was probably scared and when she post her apology her fans called her a embarrassment like its the fans are embarrassment not karina just wanna have a relationship leave her alone . Btw I just realised that BLINKS dgaf about their fans dating anybody . MYS (aespa) fans should learn from BLINKS and also other fans from different groups

Kai and jennie deserved better

@manogaming6534

Ай бұрын

Yes

@Sokeefe_292

Ай бұрын

Every idol getting hate for dating doesn’t

G.na deserves arc redemption

Im not an Aespa Stan, but Karina getting a lot of hate for dating and her fans saying their going to boycott concerts only makes me want to see them live!

@mariachristi9260

Ай бұрын

Let her live lol she's a human too, I'm a MY and i fully support her choice to date...

So Karina Met a random she never met before nd Started Dating him immediately 😑😑😑WTF man good thing she learned a Lesson like what is she gonna do Further down the Line Date her Hairstylist cuz he Styled her hair once dznt make any sense 🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻🤦🏻

Putting karina in the thumbnail is so unnecessary like her dating news with jaewook isn't even that bad it's the delusional fans that make it a big deal stop fckn using it for clicks

Hyuna is on my top of the list and 2nd seungri

@ioutsoldurfavs

Ай бұрын

What

@lubdid

Ай бұрын

It’s the other way around

Can we watch anime

If I was a K-pop Idol, I would just date a fan. Less drama, the fan knows you (in somewhat of a interesting way), and you're more connected to the fans.

@princesscherry5217

Ай бұрын

i think it is always a weird power imbalance if a celebrity dates a fan. now a celebrity dating a regular person that turns into a fan, is different.

@lubdid

Ай бұрын

Weird take

@erinlee5936

Ай бұрын

​@@lubdid FR. OP doesn't know that dating a fan is the reason why dating bans for idols exist. An idol dating a fan that turned out to be a psycho sasaeng is what started the dating ban.

@rewghob

Ай бұрын

No, they date within their circle like any other normal person of dating age does. Their fellow celebrities are the people they see the most daily, on projects, at music and award shows. They understand the realities of each other's jobs. A fan is just that, a fan. A fan has an unrealistic and idealised view of a celebrity.

Taeyeon's was the WORSE. I'm glad she isn't with him anymore. Shippers didn't help at all and were rather annoying trying to relate almost everything Taeyeon did or posted to that man and it only got her dragged 😡 If Taeyeon is dating right now I hope it's a non celebrity or an actor at least? No more male idols please 🙏🙏🙏

Makes me so glad that when idols such as Changmin of TVXQ and Dongwoon of Highlight (both of who are my biases lol), and Eli and Dongho of U-Kiss recieved little to no hate when they suddenly announced their marriages. Wish others like Chen couldve recieved the same treatment though.

@tbakhalid4781

Ай бұрын

The fact that Chen wasn't even the type of idol who gave people the "perfect virtual boyfriend" hopes but still ended up getting so much hate is so insane to me😢

@uglytelevision

Ай бұрын

@@tbakhalid4781 it really is, some so called fans need to stop being so delusional in thinking they had a chance with someone who doesn't really know they exist 😅 like Be happy that he's found somebody that he loves

😂 it's hilarious that this channel can't pronounce hyewon

@hunnilola

Ай бұрын

It’s a text to speech.

from IT- Girl to 📉 real quick

IF YOU DON'T WANT STRANGERS SAYING THINGS ABOUT THE PERSON YOU DATE THEN DONT POST ON SOCIAL MEDIA AND DONT GO TO PLACES WHERE YOU KNOW PEOPLE ARE GOING TO TAKE YOUR PHOTOS. PEOPLE JUST WANT ATTENTION. IT'S SICK

Would help to understand their cute language - Cupcake Korean. 🧁🧁🧁🧁🧁