Why would I use dating apps when I could get rejected for free in real life 😂

@clownworld360

Жыл бұрын

😂😂

@birungiwinnie2743

Жыл бұрын

Your comment 😂😂😂😂

@clownworld360

Жыл бұрын

@@birungiwinnie2743 😂

@birungiwinnie2743

Жыл бұрын

Free rejection killed me 😂😂😀 it happens though

@user-mf1kn9xl6g

Жыл бұрын

They pay to be rejected online so no one can see you😂😂😂

The worst is my boy who pays for tinder gold and boosts but doesnt message any girls at all. Literally just funding tinder monthly for nothing because of his weak self esteem

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

damn bro homie is hurting eh

@neoreign

Жыл бұрын

that dude is off his chair. He needs an intervention soon. What you mean he doesn't even message them?

@adrian14752

Жыл бұрын

@@neoreign Doesnt swipe on any of them either. He just looks at all the girls who likes him. I'm like dude you need to swipe on the girls that like you and message them!!!!!

@sfrealestatedealmaker6001

Жыл бұрын

@@adrian14752 Orrrrr… Maybe he’s using it for validation? 😂

@Roderickthegray

Жыл бұрын

Brutal🤦🏿‍♂️, hope he comes off it

I used to have a friend of a friend that worked at Tinder. He told me how the algo would be rigged against people and would most likely match people who were more looking for something casual. The reason is because if someone is looking for a long term relationship, they won't be back on the app soon. While someone looking for casual stuff would come back later on. That's why these dating apps are not the most optimal solution at all.

@muffemod

Жыл бұрын

The problem is dating apps are the #1 way people are meeting today though. Damned if you do and and damned if you don't.

@marvin2678

Жыл бұрын

​@@muffemodyou need to Break free by Bildung the confidence to Talk to women in real Life directly

@SniperSam

11 ай бұрын

@@muffemod Its no wonder the bars seem emptier

@muffemod

11 ай бұрын

@@marvin2678 i talk to women all the time and I teach confidence for a living.

@alejandroortizdeurbi

10 ай бұрын

And how is the algo supposed to settle someone is looking for something casual or not if that information is not added in the description?

I barely get matched with the unpaid version but as soon as I pay, I get matches and they don’t even want to respond. lol so rigged

Dating apps basically turned love into a business

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

yup

@signmaindividual4016

Жыл бұрын

Sadly it was always like this , before it was way worse , most of marriages were for wealth and now too for example.

@kevindiaz3599

Жыл бұрын

They took advantage of Covid, people don't know how to communicate in real life again.

@jakehawkins8669

2 ай бұрын

Just like automation has almost ruined the ability to find a good paying job in fields like manufacturing

@jlpe954

2 ай бұрын

Love has always been a business…

I've tried it all. The real life interacting as well as the dating apps. None of it works. The best way to find a woman is either through friends, college/university or work. Going out there as a lone wolf to try and hustle a girl is just going to make you look like a predator. Same thing with those lousy dating apps, unless your like buddy said, 6'3 and look like don juan with a masters degree and your own business.

@manosijroy8282

Жыл бұрын

So is it over for me as I have no social life? I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend before and I feel the FOMO so much. I hardly get matches on dating apps and even if I get one, I get ghosted most of the time and 2 of my crushes in my college too rejected me few months ago. I also chat with some girls on Instagram whom I knew in high school days and they are all 19-22 year olds now but most of them ended up ghosting me too except like 4 girls and only one sweet girl who is 20 year old is nice and flirty to me. We were in the same school too but now in different colleges in the same city and we send each other virtual hugs and she calls me cute but she said she is already in a relationship but idk whether she lied about it because she is still being flirty to me.

@destinhook3826

Жыл бұрын

Nail on the head

@pyroseed13

Жыл бұрын

This is sadly the ultimate the black pill. Playing with Fire did a video recently walking around in public asking people how they met....out of the 25 or so couples he interviewed I don't think a single one met through cold approach. Hell, not even one from a bar. This is I think the problem with a lot of red pill that tell guys they will be in their prime when they are 35. But let's be real...by then your friend group is smaller, more people in your place of work might be married, and you're around fewer women than you were in college. At that point your best solution is to probably go abroad.

@MyZombie45

Жыл бұрын

It works for me tho?

@bryangnu

Жыл бұрын

keep going it is what it is. guys doesnt get validated that easily

I talked about how dating apps aren't made for guys like me with one of my female friends. As soon as I mentioned how much I paid for Tinder, she immediately bounced back with "you guys have to pay?"

@CruceEntertainment

9 ай бұрын

It’s like constant “ladies night”

@driftergrey

8 ай бұрын

Yeah I got that reaction too LOL

@francoherrera601

4 ай бұрын

Girls are completely clueless on how privileged they are on the dating market.

Just gave up on love, it’s just not worth it anymore. Heartbreak hurts to much, and there is to little to gain

Best way to meet new people, especially new friends is using things like Meetup and go to IRL events. Edm festivals, sport meetups, hobby meetups, etc are all 10x better than dating apps.

@TravellerDado

6 ай бұрын

True personal is better!

@johnnylego807

6 ай бұрын

Ahhh yes!!! Because EDM Festivals where women wear Fishnets and Bikinis and are “high on molly” and mingling with every bare chested dude is the BEST PLACE too find a woman………God help me smh 🤦‍♂️ 🤦‍♂️

@Ontiming2023

5 ай бұрын

@@TravellerDadostill get rejected on meet me

@fernandoluis53

4 ай бұрын

Learn bachata. You’re welcome

I went on a date once with a girl from Tinder. After the date she said she was moving to Texas the very next day and I never heard from her again. That’s online dating for ya 👍🏻

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

damn bro

@_Dalember_

Жыл бұрын

I think she was looking for ons

@spagooter1807

Жыл бұрын

Mine was similar to this but worse in the sense she was involuntarily relocated for a drug problem I wasn’t aware of. Then her uncle hit me up on her socials and said “Stay frosty” I swear I wish I were lying he kinda saved me on that.

@SportsSteadyTv

Жыл бұрын

@@spagooter1807 😂

@untouchable360x

Жыл бұрын

She was lying. She didn't like you.

You perfectly described the negative aspects of tinder in the last few minutes. Thanks for remembering me again why I deleted it , it's not just that is a really bad way of meeting a partner, but at least for me it also came with negative side effects like getting addictied / checking the notifications multiple times a day, wasting time swiping but rarely getting likes/matches and not even getting replies on most of them, and having negative feelings because of all that

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

yessir

I couldnt find a single normal woman on this thing. There are basically three types of girls on this: desperate ones, who have hit the wall, single moms and uniformed, shallow modern women with the same kind of photos, hobbies and bios, who are on this planet for the personal entertainment of a Chad, before they join the first two categories.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

damn hot take

@yuriy5376

Жыл бұрын

Spitting facts my dude

@Krelian4400

Жыл бұрын

That's pretty much all single women, not just the ones on dating apps. The few decent women are already spoken for.

@Jeniffer61867

5 ай бұрын

You need to calm the f down when you are worth old women. You have no right to demand young women when you practically have no options

@Tumi_nn

4 ай бұрын

No! The decent women wouldn’t settle for you. You’re probably in your 40s, probably not financially well off, etc etc… you’re not the most wanted

I'm proud of myself for not stepping into the dating apps trap. I understand that men always have to pay their way in for access but at that point you might as well go to a club and get a table.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

absolute weapon

@-whackd

Жыл бұрын

Having unlimited swipes, extra boosts and the ability to hide your age is the price of two shots at the club, not a bottle, and definitely not the price of a table.

@Victor-ye6cz

Жыл бұрын

If you dont have money to pay for Tinder plus or whatever, you should not even focus on dating dude.

@nickd2296

Жыл бұрын

@@Victor-ye6cz It’s not about having money to paying for Tinder. Tinder is designed to keep you single. Also, you have a better chance of making a connection in person than online.

@Victor-ye6cz

Жыл бұрын

​@@nickd2296 I mean sure. There are other ways of meeting women. But if you are not super ugly, tinder is fine.

I'm an older guy of 42. I'm not interested in 'hot girls': I just want someone average looking. My problem is even though I am average for my age, average women aren't interested in me. So I get no messages, and obviously no dates on whatever dating app I am on. Another problem I have is my so called 'matches'. They're always very obese women with tattoos and over the age of 60. I play sports, work out, and eat healthily. I'm not interested in sitting on a sofa eating hamburgers with overweight women, so how come they're my 'matches'. In the last year of so I've resigned to being single. No point looking anymore.

@genkiferal7178

10 ай бұрын

your profile pic here makes you look chunky, though, so maybe you are in denial?

@roxanahutchcroft1236

3 ай бұрын

You are not average looking. Don’t give up, approach women 😊

@andymanaus1077

12 күн бұрын

You're a good looking guy. Find a regular karaoke venue, get up and actually sing. Just be yourself and be confident and happy onstage, even if your singing sucks. Even if you're the most terrible singer in the world, you'll get noticed by women. Even better, they announce everyone's name when they get up to sing thereby eliminating that awkwardness of having to ask. Go for two or three weeks to the same venue and see if the same people are turning up each week. If it turns out that the venue has lots of transients, not many regulars, or they're not the kind of people you like, move on to another one until you find the places the karaoke regulars are at. You can get to know the hosts and ask directly about whether they get lots of the same people following them and what other venues they host, widening your options in the process. Just FYI, lots of karaoke people aren't there to drink and smoke. They go to sing and you'll find lots of healthy people with interests like yours in places you wouldn't expect. Be ready to be ignored by most people for the first couple of weeks. They're sizing you up, seeing if you are a decent person, just like you are doing with them. Just take your time and enjoy the venue and having a sing. The key is keep on turning up, keep on getting up and having a go. Within two to four weeks, people will start coming up to talk to you and at least half of them will be females. You will also be able to vet out the ones who have red flags while discovering many nice ones, before you ever make a move. You're welcome.

@00_UU

7 күн бұрын

Easy fix - go abroad. Lookup passport bros for starters

If you meet a woman on a dating site shes still chatting to loads of dudes and you will get dumped when she gets a better offer. Dont waste your time!

@genkiferal7178

10 ай бұрын

maybe. but, i keep most of the men i liked a lot in limbo when with another guy. The man I am with may turn out to be a player or a dud, after all. Also, too few men are afraid to show us who they really are. They think being rejected for their true self is a failure. But, I often gravitate towards men strong enough to show me who they really are.

@innavision1920

10 ай бұрын

@@genkiferal7178real guys don’t like being held around as orbiters

@nicholasbrajkovic1710

Ай бұрын

@@zpiazzahit the nail on the head. Tinder just makes it easier

@mollygrace3068

13 күн бұрын

The way you describe normal dating is so funny. “She’ll dump you if she gets a better offer”? Do you mean she’ll talk to you and others, and maybe date you and others, u til she finds someone she wants to pursue a relationship with? That is literally the dating process. Go to any point in history and you’ll find some version of this.

@nicholasbrajkovic1710

12 күн бұрын

@@mollygrace3068 lol

I ditched dating apps, I’m 6’2 and average looking. My picture quality was terrible, I don’t have everything together in my life and it was just ruining my self esteem all together, I’d wake up and check tinder the first thing in the morning, that’s when I knew it’s time to get off of it for good.. maybe one day I’ll be back on there but I’d rather prioritize my mental health.

@birungiwinnie2743

Жыл бұрын

😢

@massivememes326

Жыл бұрын

If you're 6'2" just lift bro

@SR-hf3hx

11 ай бұрын

That's funny I'm 6'2 average looking and my pics suck lol....forget the sites man its garbage, do it for boredom or bc your horny, not to settle down

@innavision1920

10 ай бұрын

Bro even if you meet up with a girl on a dating app and she says she’s not about social media and thinks the apps are dumb will still use the optionality to their advantage and devalue and abandon you in a moment

@LarrySalamander

10 ай бұрын

@@innavision1920 then let her, who cares, there’s billions of women out there, why trip over 1 💯

They say that 61% of guys who are single and are using dating apps would rather meet a girl in person but suffer from social anxiety (fear of rejection). Tinder knows what they're doing. IRL is the way to go.

@ghostridersinthesky21

11 ай бұрын

See thats how I felt then I cold approached over 50 women, got a few numbers but zero dates. Most of those numbers were probably fake also. Cold approaching has about a 2-7% chance of just getting a phone number, and a 1% chance of getting a date/second date. Many cold approaching experts on reddit forums would agree. You just need to have low standards and settle for someone in your social circle

@genkiferal7178

10 ай бұрын

and if a girl likes you/is flirting, men, please do not tell EVERYONE about it or else she may just disappear on you

Used tinder for a couple months and it was awful. I had several first dates set up with different women and a good 80% of them flaked. Haven’t been on dating apps in a couple months and I’m a lot happier as a result lol.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

bruh

@simonn6746

Жыл бұрын

less dating apps = noticeably happier life

@Jeniffer61867

5 ай бұрын

Even if you meet women in real life whether at your workplace or anywhere, if a guy doesn't have good looks and money and not willing to provide financially, he doesn't stand a chance.

It’s crazy because back in 2016-2019 I was extremely successful, now it seems like they want you to pay

@rodrigo2713

Жыл бұрын

I second that, I literally got like 200 dates in the same date period, now I don't even get a match, same photos, same strategies and even paying .

@Wilde-Runner

Жыл бұрын

@@rodrigo2713 Same its crazy

@MOODYSTYLE

Жыл бұрын

Same accord was crushing the them dam apps couldn't keep up with the mayham. Full active roster that needed cuts, overwhelming practice squad vying for a slot man please I had so much fun.. now I could careless about them I had an amazing run

What is sad about this is that with online dating apps you can already get a glimpse of someones interests and filter who is compatible with with you. Something you can't do in real life. I'm introverted and don't like dating. If I have to force myself to entertain someone for a few hours I want that person to be worth it.

Only thing I disagree with is the plumbing thing. I'm an electrician and women seem to like guys who can fix things and work with their hands because it's masculine, plus it's becoming more widely known that us tradesmen are making good money nowadays.

@Nesterou

12 күн бұрын

Yes... I appreciate guys who can do stuff by themselves and not pay 100$ like victims because there's a leak that can easily be fixed, provided you are curious.

It is all about the looks. Women cry about guys not reading bios but they don't read either. Even at 41 I can still get likes on dating apps.

@Pato126thst

Жыл бұрын

So the picture you have here is not new?

I am a woman and I have had so many guys ghost me, ignore me, or once they WhatsApp me ask for my picture then disappear. So I have deleted all of them and I'm so glad I did. But also meeting irl hard to, these days. Most men are married. Sad but true. I'm done with all dating anyway ❤

@NewPaulActs17

Жыл бұрын

irl, i keep (unintentionally) trying to ask out lesbians, married women, or married lesbians... i guess i have a type?

@eddiegraham3241

Жыл бұрын

When I ghost or unmatcg girls on tinder, its because they take too long to reply and honestly I rather unmatch just to not waste my time and energy

@R.G.Edio_CPA

11 ай бұрын

​@@eddiegraham3241tbh, those girls who replied late after having a good conversation on first talk have their own life aside from dating app. Let them be ready for you and be patient at first, if you have second or third good convo with her, at that time she'll likely to stick around. Give girls time to get to know you, remember that you are still a stranger online. Tho not shoe fits all, this one was based on my experience.

@R.G.Edio_CPA

11 ай бұрын

​@@NewPaulActs17lost for ISTP girls 😂. It seems that's your type.

@genkiferal7178

10 ай бұрын

I've been careful about the married part, but the first part of what you said also rings true for me (a female)...although I do best when I video-chat. Some men only wanted nudes of me, so I've begun skipping the exchanging of photos when messaging. I think my end results are better than I anticipated, but then I am a rather cynical, jaded woman, too.

With an over 5 to 1 ratio in men to women, with lots of women's accounts being inactive, women fleeing the app due to all the creeps and desperate dans....amazing how many men chose to lose their self-esteem in that cesspit environment.

@Max-om5gh

Жыл бұрын

Try about 100/1

Every dating app will be like 85% men. Because men like sex. There is a reason that lesbian porn is aimed at straight men but gay porn is aimed at gay men.

The problem about Dating apps as they relate to cold approach is women will subconsciously compare men they meet in person to men they match with on dating apps, or on social media. Now if a man is skilled socially enough and is physically attractive enough, he can overcome those comparisons. But it takes months if not years of work.

Nothing makes you feel cheaper than a 'dating' app. Don't waste your money!

The problem with tinder is also that men are now never even learning the skill of approaching women. If everything can be done from the comfort of their own home, why should they? That's why even the "lucky ones" that do get a lot of dates on tinder are really losing in the end

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

agreed

@scottrap

Жыл бұрын

Well that issue goes back to dating websites like JDate/OKC etc. and I totally agree with you.

Just founded your channel man keep it up ❤️

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

welcome bro wont let you down

I love how you keep shouting out Alex from playing with fire. He helped me with my online game

Like all companies, they're not there to help you or even be useful, they're there to make money. And if you find a match and start dating, you're off their app and stop paying or viewing ads. It is in their interest for you NOT to succeed. The apps suck for everybody, but in different ways. Just don't use them.

@Jagdoom

Жыл бұрын

I have this weird belief that they could technically even unmatch a perfect match for you, since that would mean you're gone off their app. What could prevent them from doing that since they own the business? Perhaps it's coping, but who really knows what they could do with their algorithm...Instead they could show you all the matches from women you don't really like and that's going down many points well below your own looks. 😂. Because in real life I've had more success dating at least girls at my own level looks-wise.

I always thought it was weird. It’s an ego boost for women, why boost a solid 6 thinking she’s a 10.

@deadlykilla39

11 ай бұрын

these dating apps need to burn to the ground. this is coming from someone who has never used a dating app or made an account in those apps in my life.

@Jay_Lo

11 ай бұрын

The same can be said for males.

@innavision1920

10 ай бұрын

Bro literally just had this experience. No ego I’d say I’m an attractive guy maybe 7.5-8ish in my own view, and I recently dated a girl that was like a 6 maybe a 7 when she dressed nice but I could sense she thought she was easily 8+ because she had tons more attention than a guy like myself gets on these apps so even avg women treat above avg and rare men like an option

Jack, great video! Do you find the women in Ontario are more stuck up compared to some places in the USA? Like Arizona for example

Proud to say I've never used dating apps at all.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

weapon

@tyronewilson7890

Жыл бұрын

You don’t want to use them, trust me

@Aikunle78

10 ай бұрын

@RabhRai04, please keep it that way! I joined an app Tantan, paid for the App and been on it for over 4 years on and off and have NEVER met a single woman! To make things worse and something I hardly see others mentioned, a significant majority of the "females" I matched with ended up wanting to sell some financial product, or service, or persistently asking to invest in some sort of scheme or trading platform and as soon as I make it known I have ZERO interest in such a scheme, the other party invariably loses interest in continuing the conversation or getting to know me. STAY AWAY FROM DATING APPS I SAY

@computeranalyst5737

5 ай бұрын

Same here.

I loved your prank videos. I have couple of them saved in my like history. This video is great as well. Good to know the harsh truth of the dating apps. I was planning to try it to test my luck as I have been single from childhood but now I won't after watching this. Also, I'm 28 years old man and a programmer by profession. An average looking guy. I do get well paid. I don't drink and smoke. A complete introvert (no close friends and no gf experience). Tried to mix with people but suffered failure there as well as they don't like "Nice" people. No girls/women were interested in me. I have already given up and happy as single. But deep down still keeping that hope alive. But the probability looks 0. Lets see what happens whatever is decided in faith will accept happily without asking any questions.

I'd say the biggest piece of data that you missed out is women swipe left on 90% of profiles anyways and that includes a lot of attractive looking guys. But yes I'd say the 3 keys to success... 1. Visible Abs (women are more forgiving of 1 or 2 selfies if you have visible abs), 2. Have photos that show off an attractive lifestyle (ie not videogames, gym selfies, and fish photos), 3. A square jaw line and clean shave haircut. Most men on Tinder have 0/3 and it won't matter how much they pay the app, they will still receive a lot of left swipes. But if they boost enough, like spending $400 a month boosting they might find someone worthwhile. Yeah I'd recommend don't swipe until after you've boosted.

@dna8269

Жыл бұрын

What are you basing the ab picture thing off of? Bumble won’t even allow it and most women will just swipe left thinking you’re there to get laid

@Kevin-it4fh

Жыл бұрын

Vacation pics and mastering angles are what work for me. Also gotta mention that I'm over 6

@Nesterou

12 күн бұрын

I honestly skip guys showing off their muscles. The posture with some clothes tells much more. Showing off abs is vulgar and probably means the guy doesn't have much more than his look.

I have no way to meet a woman. 4+ years of 100% rejection. I try to stay a good person but I can understand how loneliness can send you to very dangerous mindset

@naldovaz9157

Жыл бұрын

i can relate

@Brisun

11 ай бұрын

same

@mitu123Copper

10 ай бұрын

That's brutal!

@genkiferal7178

10 ай бұрын

women also feel it, except that it often happens when her man cheats on her. And, yes, less attractive and/or less successful men can cheat as often as rich men or Chads.

@professorsip7242

Ай бұрын

People often rejected the better quality stuff and just go for the cheap stuff instead

Hey Denmo, what is that classical piece named in the beginning of the video? It’s beautiful

Phew, it's a good thing I'm a 6'7 pilot who volunteers at the local firestation with me and my large social circle of friends. Should have no problem getting a handful of likes!

This is depressing but reality checks are necessary

I've met and hooked up with a few girls off tinder but now I prefer meeting girls in person, grabbing their number and meeting up. Too be honest tinder is in control of the app and they tell you you have likes but unless you pay you don't ever match with most of them. Also, the last time i was on tinder there were so many bots and catfishes with blue checkmarks.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

lmao

@Kevin-it4fh

Жыл бұрын

What's funny is that I wouldn't even match with 90% of the girls that liked me. After left swiping some woman that probably weighs more than me, Tinder would tell me "oops, you missed a match", like that was gonna make me reconsider 😂

@renegade2325

Жыл бұрын

Tinder definitely works for some men. I had a friend who constantly had 99+ matches, and constantly hooked up and met new girls through there. 50% or more of all relationships are formed through online dating. Saying online dating doesn’t work is a cope, no it doesn’t work for unattractive men, simple as that.

@finkamain1621

Жыл бұрын

@@Kevin-it4fh Women will also match with you even if they never respond because they put you on the back burner until they run out of their best men to talk to/bang

im beginning to feel like almost everything is rigged, everywhere.

@Denmosocial

7 ай бұрын

time to improve G

Join 15,000+ other men on Discord: discord.gg/p8kCx3ncb4 Who here has smashed on Tinder? Share your story below

@RetroLodge

Жыл бұрын

I haven't and would rather be patient, to let love find me so yeah.

@Kadood

Жыл бұрын

im back jack, ive been (very) successful with dating apps and its soul draining.

@MariaK222

Жыл бұрын

I’ve never had tinder but i met my boyfriend on a dating app and lost my virginity to him. we’ve been together for over a year now. We get along great and are very in love with each other. And I agree dating apps are draining and no fun. I will never go on them again

@44harbordale44

Жыл бұрын

I could have , probably wouldve been the best sex of my life but I ain't ready. She has green hair , full sleeves , and claims to have a ddlg kink ( Dom daddy/little girl ). I couldn't touch that with a ten and a half foot pole. 😅

@vaggs003

Жыл бұрын

I lost my virginity from Tinder with my first "girlfriend" but that was years ago. I don't feel comfortable going back to using these dating apps after a long term relationship which unfortunately ended. It all feels superficial.

i do fine on tinder as far as getting matches, numbers, dates, and relationships, but the women on there tend to either be disturbed, hypocritical, liars, and have daddy issues.

@Ace.0.0.0.

11 ай бұрын

Gotta love those daddy issues

I’ve had success without paying for the apps but it does take much longer. It’s definitely better than not trying at all.

😂 got a bumble ad and a hinge ad back to back for this video!

I have officially sworn off dating apps after being on them for years with several failed relationships from them. Going out and meeting someone is the way to go, it doesn't happen overnight either, just do you, work on yourself, you don't always need a girl to validate your meaning in life.

@NewPaulActs17

Жыл бұрын

i wouldn't bet on matching with someone to save my life

@D-Thang_

Жыл бұрын

Real happiness ain't supposed to come from a female..

@3825cmac

10 ай бұрын

@@D-Thang_word. Cums from the left hand. 🤚🏿

I met my man online. He smiled on his profile picture which was rare on there. I immediately looked at his profile and his answers were very similar to mine. I immediately super swiped and stop talking to all the guys on there. He is the going bald and 5”9 and I couldn’t be more happy in my life a year later. He stole my heart by the second date by not being superficial. Not complimenting my looks immediately which gets repetitive after awhile. He showed he really looked at what I wrote in my profile. Good luck fellas

@professorsip7242

Ай бұрын

When you turn off those high expectations you get great results,5.9 is perfect the forgotten normal height,not tall enough to be considered over valued,nice

Good call out on Playing With Fire. I had no clue what I was doing before I found that guy. Your prank / approach content helped me get into the right headspace before talking to people in any environment and to just have fun with it, so thanks man.

Thanks for your channel, I gave up on trying to find a lady to like me, but I just don't have what women want. When I go to do errands, I see a lot of pretty ladies, but I don't try and talk to them, because I assume they are spoken for, I don't have lots of money, I live with my parents, I'm a caregiver. I just figured that it's just not meant for me, I know I'm not good looking, but I wish I could know what it feels like. But I guess its better this way.

can you make a video on how to study in university and have job or business at the same time and be productive? which jobs are best for students, since you have worked in many different jobs. and maybe what guys main focuses should be in years of university? loving your new vids and much appreciate

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

will do brother

What do you recommend for us guys who want to socialize with women in loud spaces but are limited to communication due to auditory processing disorder?

@LibertarianGalt

Жыл бұрын

Look for silent discos and other events like it!

Hey Jack, cool video! I agree with everything about your perspective on dating apps. Aside from that, I have a suggestion. You should do videos of your subscribers trying do the same thing as you do in your previous videos. Seeing you rizz up is cool, but it would be even cooler if you film regular people doing approaches as examples, like how Social Animal does because it helps us relate much easier with the failures and success which also encourages us to practice with approaches. So far your videos are examples of you doing approaches which doesn't help much because we can't relate to your successes. If it were a series of average folks who have no game but then getting good reception and numbers from women in the end, that is a good influence to us because it shows that if other average or even sub-average guys can do it, then so can we. Social Animal does subscribers challenges of all demographics whether it age, race, or subculture identity. Hell, he even made a video with a guy who has autism and he still got game grabbing numbers in the end. What I'm saying is, it will definitely make your channel feel more genuine and human!

I think the one advantage of going to an online platform is that you cast a wider net. Whereas in a bar you will have 20 women where you might like 4 of them and 1 might like you back - online you can have thousands. Even if the odds are lower the end result should theoretically be better. Notwithstanding the headache of dealing with fake profiles of course.

We shouldn’t allow these conglomerates to take control of this issue. We should stop using their apps

That last bit hit man. Thank you.

For me, one of the big advantages of dating apps is you don't have to approach a woman and ask her out running the risk of embarrassment - "already has a boyfriend" is married etc. Having said that, yes, for 99% of men (including me) they are soul destroying and best avoided.

@aseeladel7096

11 ай бұрын

I think a lot of women if you approach them respectfully and they are single would say yes. Personally, if men do approach me and they are being respectful even if I wasn't very attracted to them I'd still give it a chance and I think most girls would too, but unfortunately most of the time they are just creeps.

@genkiferal7178

10 ай бұрын

i feel the same and am female. I had a strong flirtation with a man at work, but was humiliated when he told everyone about it and then changed his mind later based on their assessment of me. I thought getting to know a guy was the right way, yet the failure of it stung 100X worse than a rejection online by someone I will never see in person.

thank you for the video. it is depressing getting little to no results on dating sites...

Great video !

My brother, I didn’t even have to get past the first 30 seconds before I knew this video was pure FACTS!

Catch 22: dating apps suck for 99% of guys...yet you can't meet women in the real world because a cold approach now makes you a "creeper". Even approaching a girl at a dance club makes you a "creeper". Like, WTF are dance clubs for?

@genkiferal7178

10 ай бұрын

learn how to flirt! Flirting is done BEFORE you approach usually. The flirtation is the "come hither" invitation and not something to be skipped. Too many men miss this first step and then get bitter about their bad results.

@flechette3782

10 ай бұрын

@@genkiferal7178 Flirting doesn't exist if you are trying to meet someone for the first time. I am beyond dating; I have just given up. But I did see a guy recently approach a woman and very nicely introduce himself and ask her what her name was. She sneered, "I don't have a name." I tried to make the guy feel a little better. See the difference? I didn't even know the guy and *I* was nice to him.

@genkiferal7178

10 ай бұрын

@@flechette3782 maybe YOU should date the guy then. Women get rejected, too, ya know. I recently got rejected (I think) by a guy I was seeing who I REALLY liked....he seems to have ghosted me. That is the risk of putting yourself out there. If you can't deal with the pain, you don't get the pleasure from the few wins. I picked myself back up, dusted my bruised ego off, and now seem to have tentative plans with a good looking man this coming Saturday night. Who knows, maybe me and the new guy will be far more compatible.

@OccidentalAryan

2 ай бұрын

Irl means social circle/warm environments, not cold approach. You need to already be in their circles.

@flechette3782

2 ай бұрын

@@OccidentalAryan Their circles consist of a few other women on their cell phones. Even women are having fewer close friends nowadays, making networking very difficult.

i've been on fb dating for nearly a year now, and bumble for 6 months- i've had little to no luck on either. and it should go w/o saying, but zero meetups or dates. no irl interaction. i haven't had a single match on fb in over 3 months. and on bumble, i get a match about once a month- but the match literally vanishes within several hours my one buddy swears by fb (he met his wife on there) and thinks a couple of photos will make all the difference. but i've regularly update and change my photos- and bio, prompts, expectation- but it's always in vain. he is, of course, that one guy that always gets the girl. so that's something. and on bumble every other profile thinks sushi is a personality trait. at this point online dating for me is masochistic entertainment

@7:58 uber eats. 50 bikes in front of mcdonald's, 1 phone rings, the others continue to wait.

Throwing money at Tinder is 'gaming the app'? Yeah. Something's being 'gamed' but it ain't the app.

I tried six dating apps and all the woman want to do is chat forever. Never want to meet and I have been catfished on each of them.

I just realized joing dating apps is one of the dumbest decisions I made as an adult. The time wasted and money spent on these stupid dates and matches. I learned dating apps are for the lower tier/thot women. I recently deleted all the dating apps and focused on meeting women in real life.

Bro you are so right ❤ thank you so much

No one mentions the tinder BOTS!! fake women profiles

Tinder here in my county sucks. It's never the women you desire just older women who seem desperate 🙄...glad to have you as my coach

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

atta boy here to help

@redalert3pro

Жыл бұрын

What country

@user-cx4xo4qb7x

Жыл бұрын

Which country

@redalert3pro

Жыл бұрын

Wher country

@user-cx4xo4qb7x

Жыл бұрын

How country

It kinda worked for me in 2013-2014, those days were fun.

I said this in 2014. You still gotta go out every day and pull girls irl. You still gotta build a social circle, a passé, a crew, whatever you want to call it. Why aren't we telling men to go seek manly relationships? go find some homies, build your social circle and then go pick up girls irl. Girls are all the same, when you walk in with 10 of you boys, you own the place, you will smash, i guarantee you that.

@rodrigo2713

Жыл бұрын

walk in with 2 girls and you'll smash for sure.

The whole “be attractive” thing isn’t true. The app literally doesn’t show your profile to relevant girls no matter how attractive you are. Why would they do that? They would make no profit. It’s better for the company if they keep guys thinking that the women are rejecting them. That way you are incentivised to pay for premium features. I did an experiment where I created a female account and tried to find my own profile but I couldn’t it obviously wasn’t showing me. As soon as I paid, guess what? I suddenly got lots of matches…it’s rigged.

Exactly right, been saying this for years. These apps should be banned. They are scammers.

Dating apps are like the junkfood of dating for the most part. The most real people usually aren't on them and usually aren't advertising that they want to date either, but they may be open to it if you're also open and secure in many other parts of life, not "needing" someone.

i really want to meet a lot of girls in real life and approach them but seriously the money factor is stopping me ( i don't have the money even for the transport to get there and i can't ask my parents for money because i feel ashamed to ask for it ) i'm trying my best to solve the money problem , the rest is all good , i'm in good physical shape , i look good and also i've to work on my social skills , but that's fine that can be easily done

Just because you're in your 30s, doesnt mean that you make $100000 a year. Stop putting so much pressure on men.

Thanks 4 the advice

That’s true! I’m physically attractive and know how to talk. I payed the golds subscription but in the long run.. hook ups and bs convos get boring and time consuming and mentally draining. In real life.. I approach women too and it’s much better. You skip the bs trial and get to read body language better. I suggest it.. if you want a quick fling or consistent flings but relationships.. hell nah. Bad quality women in there and it’s a waste of time

These weirdo guys who get crushed that a woman doesn’t cut off all communication with other men the second he sends her a “hey, wyd” text. Meanwhile, women hate these apps, because after months of exclusively sleeping with one man, doing his laundry, and being told he wants her to be the mother of his children, he calls her clingy for wanting to define their relationship and be exclusive.

I'm definitely not the fittest dude but I don't think I'm hideous and I try to go to the gym 3x a week, I'm also a pharmacist but tbh it seems like no one cares about your occupation on Tinder, it's all about looks

@renegade2325

Жыл бұрын

It’s all about looks in real life too, when will men realize this?

@OccidentalAryan

Жыл бұрын

@@renegade2325 True however the standards are far higher on dating apps.

You pay alot to get matches. And women those who match with you still ignore you

most best matches for a good smart beautiful girl will be on a university campus, and for most woman it will be on dating apps, no one wants a stalker.

It's like a love hospital; they keep you sick and coming back for more (Love Hospital is a great name for a brothel)

Hey Denmo, how do you meet women outside when it's freezing cold for months? Bars?

It’s even worse when you pay for Tinder Gold yet still get little to no results.

@NewPaulActs17

Жыл бұрын

oof

@mitu123Copper

10 ай бұрын

It's over if you don't get results from that!

Tinder probability of getting a date, 5%. Real life probability of getting a date 70%. True story bros.

Tinder is a business/pimp. You gotta pay to play!😂

@Nidox669

Жыл бұрын

you aint even lying.

At this point I rather become a celibate, retaining monk that doesn't talk to anyone and achieve enlightenment

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

this guys focused

I’m killing it on bumble mostly. But haven’t really had issues with any of them. Just depends on the guy

My father is a pilot. And I can learn to fly a plane for free🥶 Gonna use this opportunity closer to summer

Height really makes no difference. I’m 192.5 cm which is almost 6‘4. Single for life. No Dates. I don’t think I’ve ever had an advantage with women due to my height ever.

Would be nice if tinder wasn't a hoe app but the fact it makes me feel more confident if a woman I have interest in approaches me is a bit of a problem given 95-99% of females woman or not wouldn't because they think the guy is supposed to approach them (when these days most who try get recorded or the cops called on them for harassment if not simply called a creep just for looking at them) while approximately 95% of females that would or do approach males she has interest in are either hoes or f*cking insane and would make your life more hellish than it might currently be. It's beyond difficult for me to find a woman... makes me hate myself because I don't know hot to change it.

@viktor2338

Жыл бұрын

Can you send source of these percent statistics? Instead of staring at girl go tall to her instead to not be creepy

As a women at the age of 35, its also hard for me too notonly men. Most of the men are only looking for ONS and those who will shower me with sweet words but when i respond, they ghost me. Like it exhausting! Im tired of this! I think I'd rather be single for life 😢

Thank you for this video man. I’m in an interesting position where I’ve been using dating apps for ten years successfully for sex, but I don’t know how to actually connect with women in person. I literally tell these women there are better dudes out there if you just look under 6 feet, they don’t care. Recently, I’ve become tired of playing that role. Time to go in person more.

The main issue for me is that I use a wheelchair full time, and it’s a muscle degenerative disease, so I’m unable to go to the gym and get in physique. I’m very short as it affects growth. So for me online dating feels like it’s the only option and my confidence has been absolutely destroyed if I’m being honest. But I do desperately want to find a relationship so I can just feel a bit happier and less lonely

I remember going on tinder and I didn’t think you would pay a subscription. I think it’s not worth it because what is the point. I would rather go to a gym and other places to meet girls and chat with them. I never had any luck with girls. It’s all about putting yourselves out there and confidence.

I got banned because a lot of people thought I was Jamaican being from the Bahamas and I put on my profile that I AM NOT JAMAICAN. these are two different islands.

Excellent content man! There's so much bullshit on KZread these days, especially in the area of dating/self-improvement. This was a breath of fresh air - well thought out, highly nuanced, and some funny bits as well. I never ever really subscribe, but you got one! Looking forward to checking your channel! (Y)

One thing I'll add is location and culture of an area. I live in Kentucky and fair less on Tinder then I do when I go back home to California and Nevada. The same would more then likely go for a guy who lives here doing the same.

@Denmosocial

Жыл бұрын

fair play

when online dating started for me was AOL. Chat rooms in local area. Chat, instant message, phone, meet up all in one day.. those was the days and free.... l have never had a date on modern dating sites but spend tons of money

@professorsip7242

Ай бұрын

They regulate it