The truth about assisted dying | Dr. Stefanie Green | TEDxSurrey

What if you could decide at the end of your life exactly when and where your death would happen, choose who would be with you, and ensure that it would be comfortable and dignified? You might never look at dying the same way again. In this powerful and revelatory talk, Dr. Stefanie Green, a pioneering practitioner of assisted dying pulls back the curtain to share what she has heard and see what she has seen; to expose the empowering, life-reflective nature of an assisted death. Dr. Stefanie Green spent 10 years in general practice and another 12 years working exclusively in maternity and newborn care before changing her focus in 2016 to medical assistance in dying (MAiD).
Most recently, she is the author of an international bestselling book, This is Assisted Dying, a doctor’s story of empowering patients at the end of life, a memoir about her first year providing assisted dying in Canada.
She is the co-founder and President of the Canadian Association of MAiD Assessors and Providers (CAMAP) - a national non-profit organization dedicated to supporting the multidisciplinary professionals that provide assisted dying across the country. She is co-lead of the Canadian MAiD Curriculum Project, a multiyear, federally funded project being developed to help standardize the clinical approach to care, educate and train clinicians new to the field, and to enhance the skills of those already involved. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @bronwyntanner4501
    @bronwyntanner45019 ай бұрын

    As a hospice care giver I have watched so many patients and families suffer. Assistance would be so kind and caring a loving. A true act of compassion

  • @itsjustme6315

    @itsjustme6315

    9 ай бұрын

    Amen @bronwyntanner4501 !

  • @francescomanzo3939

    @francescomanzo3939

    9 ай бұрын

    so sorry for your struggles

  • @antispindr8613

    @antispindr8613

    Ай бұрын

    So, given the latest drugs, mindfulness, and well-funded end-of-life care, should it not be possible for people to live their lives out?

  • @nGALOkante14
    @nGALOkante149 ай бұрын

    The world would be a better world once humanity understand that each person is free to make their decisions as long as they do not affect third parties.

  • @awifeinterrupted
    @awifeinterrupted9 ай бұрын

    My mom died yesterday. She was 89 years old. Widowed in January after 66 years of marriage. She was in end-stage kidney disease, 8 years on dialysis. Diagnosed with Afib in July. In August she fell at home and fractured her pelvis and could no longer walk. She spent the next 33 days bedridden being transferred from hospitals and rehabilitation hospitals. Six transfers in all. She knew she was dying. For weeks she kept asking "why is it taking so long"? All she wanted was to come home and sit in her recliner and be at peace. I visited with her everyday and stayed as long as I could. But the day before she died she was transferred to CICU and I was only allowed to visit 30 minutes. She died early the next morning in a hospital attached to machines without me there. I'm 59 years old. I have believed in assisted dying since I was a teenager. My husband died at age 45 with terminal cancer. He passed at home under hospice care with family. My father died alone in a nursing home at age 89 following a stroke just 10 hours after being discharged from the hospital. Assisted dying IS humane. We should all be able to choose our own exit plan.

  • @aliciastanley5582

    @aliciastanley5582

    9 ай бұрын

    So sorry about your mom. Maybe some peace for those exiting but hard for us left behind loving them.❤️

  • @b.v.437

    @b.v.437

    3 ай бұрын

    ​​@@aliciastanley5582I'm 75 years old, and my wife is 73 years old. Unfortunately, we both have cancer and have decided to pursue euthanasia to end our suffering. We have chosen April 10, 2024, for this decision. We believe everyone should have the right to choose euthanasia. If this choice is not allowed, it is unjust. Most importantly, every person should have the right to decide when to leave this world. Sorry for your lost May her soul rest in peace and God give strength to you.

  • @KarenSquires-yk6df

    @KarenSquires-yk6df

    2 ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @twinkletoes.9968

    @twinkletoes.9968

    Ай бұрын

    Condolences on your losses.

  • @SerenitywithLawna-Merry
    @SerenitywithLawna-Merry5 ай бұрын

    I believe we need to be more careful with the things we have opinions on, especially when we are not faced with the harsh facts that people like myself are forced to deal with - I have a chronic progressive condition, and it started off with me being diagnosed after almost dying; I didn't even think I would recovery enough to be sitting here saying that i have intentions of posting my first video on this channel in two weeks but here I am. The harsh realities that I had to face, at a young age, after becoming a mother for the first time were traumatizing and the system often forgets the care in healthcare, so... it's not that we want to die NOW -it's that we want to know we are not going to suffer more than we already have and we do not want our families or our system to suffer as a result of us either. If people have a hard time understanding this, then honestly, they need to be asking themselves whether they are truly humanistic or just ego filled and scared of the inevitable fact that we all die, and we should be able to die with grace and dignity.

  • @shahrzad10036

    @shahrzad10036

    4 ай бұрын

    my Dear . I absolutely agree . and I wish peace for you and your beautiful family

  • @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    4 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much. I really appreciate this!@@shahrzad10036

  • @antispindr8613

    @antispindr8613

    Ай бұрын

    But, before rushing to push assisted killing, why are people not campaigning for decent, well-funded, end-of-life care? Or are the elderly becoming a burden on the state?

  • @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    Ай бұрын

    @@antispindr8613 I don't know, why aren't you doing just that? and sticking around to build the plans and secure the funding... and making sure people are there for people like me and my family members? Also, why do I want to be treated by the same healthcare professionals that you don't trust to be able to make the right decision on allowing people to have dignity in their death? It makes no sense to tell me that I want to end up having to rely on anyone for my end-of-life-care if it means I'm incapacitated. Why are you trying to argue with the person who this affects instead of trying to understand that its my voice that matters in this situation - not yours. I hope you can put everything you know aside, and really let the above sink in.

  • @HeyitsBri_
    @HeyitsBri_9 ай бұрын

    My grandmother passed this way and I was blessed enough to have provided her hospice care at home. She got morphine to make her comfortable and she went with family, clean, on new sheets, in her own bed. It was sunny and it shined on her through the window. I wish this for so many and it hurt so bad to see her go but it’s the best we could’ve done.

  • @VanillaGorilla541
    @VanillaGorilla5417 ай бұрын

    Personally, I think/believe that when we exist, death is not present; and when death exists, we are not present. All sensations and consciousness ends with death and therefore in death there is neither pleasure nor pain. I think that our fear of death arises from the belief that in death, there is awareness. I mean just do your best to try and remember how it felt in the whole of time, before you were born. As far as I can tell, we were all "dead" up until the time we were born, and it didn't seem to affect me in the least..

  • @janetslicer3637
    @janetslicer36379 ай бұрын

    I completely agree 100%. It was the way my parents went and I will choose it too when the time comes.

  • @viktor4840
    @viktor48409 ай бұрын

    As long as medicine is prolonging life, it is a gift. But it becomes a horror if it is just prolonging death. Assisted dying can preserve dignity and reduce suffering.

  • @colleenUN

    @colleenUN

    9 ай бұрын

    People can turn down any treatment.

  • @davidkessler6878

    @davidkessler6878

    Ай бұрын

    They are often pressured by relatives into undergoing treatments that are not in their best interests. DNR orders are also routinely ignored.

  • @antispindr8613

    @antispindr8613

    Ай бұрын

    While few here seem to want to address this, are there not a number of greedy people that are willing to make granny feel like a burden?

  • @joecheffo5942

    @joecheffo5942

    9 күн бұрын

    @@colleenUN I was crippled by an antibiotic my doctor gave me. Now crippled and in pain. This was my doctors fault, didn't give me any warnings and could have used something less dangerous than Levaquin. I trusted my doctor. They are supposed to do no harm. Now I suffer every day and want to die, but this is not terminal so what do I do?

  • @TestTest-eb8jr
    @TestTest-eb8jr9 ай бұрын

    As the widower of my wife, who suffered from (inoperable) brain cancer, I can only say this about this TED-talk... 👍🖒👌🖒👍.

  • @francescomanzo3939

    @francescomanzo3939

    9 ай бұрын

    so sorry for your loss :(

  • @TestTest-eb8jr

    @TestTest-eb8jr

    9 ай бұрын

    @@francescomanzo3939 Thank you !!

  • @twinkletoes.9968

    @twinkletoes.9968

    Ай бұрын

    Condolences on your loss.

  • @fillistine
    @fillistine9 ай бұрын

    I sign petitions for this in the UK. I live with a condition that will get worse and I personally want this for myself when I become terminal. Lobby your MP or whoever you voted in, if you want the change. Keep on lobbying I will go through any psychiatric evaluation to show i am of sound mind and capable of making informed choices, just so I can get the death I want

  • @b.v.437

    @b.v.437

    3 ай бұрын

    I'm 72 years old, and my wife is 70 years old. Unfortunately, we both have cancer and have decided to pursue euthanasia to end our suffering. We have chosen April 10, 2024, for this decision. We believe everyone should have the right to choose euthanasia. If this choice is not allowed, it is unjust. Most importantly, every person should have the right to decide when to leave this world. I hope the government allows you to do this. No one should be suffer.

  • @copper815
    @copper8158 ай бұрын

    this deserves more attention

  • @anniekarinarichardson5638
    @anniekarinarichardson56389 ай бұрын

    I had the opportunity to assist a love one like a caregiver and, this is an experience that changed my life for ever. Palliative care is a huge way to helping people in that moment in the end of life. Helping the families as well!!!

  • @francescomanzo3939

    @francescomanzo3939

    9 ай бұрын

    so sorry for your loss :(

  • @colleenUN

    @colleenUN

    9 ай бұрын

    Euthanizing people or Assisted Suicide is not palliative care.

  • @notmedude
    @notmedude7 ай бұрын

    This is one of the most amazing ted speeches I have ever seen and I saw many. Hopefully, one day, this will become one of the unalienable rights of every person on this planet.

  • @clairesnyman895
    @clairesnyman8959 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your continued work on increasing awareness about assisted dying. This was a very impactful talk and really drove home to the fact that it is often about how we really want to live.

  • @randal_gibbons
    @randal_gibbonsАй бұрын

    I have severe ringing in my ears (tinnitus) and I have decided I've had enough. I have live with it for 35 years but after getting COVID it has become unbearable. Tonight I had the first talk with my gf about wanting to end my life. It didn't go very well. I'm tired of suffering with this. It is torture every day.

  • @joecheffo5942

    @joecheffo5942

    9 күн бұрын

    Wow can't we just leave when we feel it's not worth it? It's so ingrained, I know it's partly religion but not all. People just can't accept mortality. They just can't. That has to be the biggest mental illness of all.

  • @tizianobrombin8516
    @tizianobrombin85169 ай бұрын

    Great speech! Helping people in a compassionate way. what a job. What a mission. Thanks a lot!

  • @itsjustme6315
    @itsjustme63159 ай бұрын

    I think assisting someone's death is such a beautiful service to provide! This is a very necessary and humane service and should be a normal thing to do! Folks put their suffering animals to sleep. "It's the humane thing to do", right??? People suffer so much in torturing pain, I don't want to die that way. THANK YOU FOR WHAT YOU DO!

  • @TryingtoTellYou

    @TryingtoTellYou

    7 ай бұрын

    Yes, let's all get our morals from a John Wayne movie.

  • @Qamar-Raza
    @Qamar-Raza9 ай бұрын

    This video made so emotional hardly we think about this reality of life. We are so occupied in day to day activity as if it’s never gonna end😢

  • @wella_agda
    @wella_agda9 ай бұрын

    I witnessed how my mom suffered from cancer and I wouldn’t want to go through that. I told my hubby I want to die on my own terms should I suffer the same fate as my mom, but he brushes me off. He avoids death topic.

  • @Petrvsco

    @Petrvsco

    9 ай бұрын

    @@kmkmk7887i would not go that far. Death is not “a beautiful thing”. It is important and something worth discussing with people in your life, but not beautiful. Also, many people do not need the clutches of a god-like figure to navigate life (and death).

  • @usjuliana
    @usjuliana9 ай бұрын

    Amazing, dear doctor. Thanks for so much respect for life and its dignity. Blessed be. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🫶🏻❤️

  • @Grits7
    @Grits79 ай бұрын

    I live in British Columbia and am approved for assisted dying for non terminal chronic illness. The empowerment and relief I feel keeps me living longer knowing I have a choice

  • @DanniiGirl1

    @DanniiGirl1

    9 ай бұрын

    So how did you get approved if you're not suffering. If u don't mind me asking are you lonely or 90 something and had enough?

  • @DanniiGirl1

    @DanniiGirl1

    9 ай бұрын

    Or do you feel you didn't belong in this world. Never found your place in this world perhaps. I'd like to understand

  • @joecheffo5942

    @joecheffo5942

    3 ай бұрын

    She has a chronic illness, just not terminal. It is probably causing pain and physical limitations on her life@@DanniiGirl1

  • @antispindr8613

    @antispindr8613

    Ай бұрын

    Has anyone made feel that your life does not matter, or that you are a burden on the state?

  • @Grits7

    @Grits7

    Ай бұрын

    @@antispindr8613 No never. I believe in personal responsibility

  • @pwgrayson1
    @pwgrayson19 ай бұрын

    Wow. This is really amazing.

  • @user-mz2it3bq8i
    @user-mz2it3bq8i8 ай бұрын

    Your pragmatically compassionate explanation of what happens for a person who gets the power of choice over their care, their suffering, and when to end the 'fight' to live. With the power of choice, how much that invites living back into a person's last days. Thank you Dr. Green for your service.

  • @teeve1500
    @teeve15009 ай бұрын

    Wow. That was beautiful. Thank you.

  • @no_mnom
    @no_mnom9 ай бұрын

    It's the right of anyone who has a terminal disease or a cognitive one which will only get worse, not everyone wants to feel themselves losing themselves

  • @moleybear
    @moleybear9 ай бұрын

    In my country Australia ,, assistive dying is too restricted.

  • @JonModham
    @JonModhamАй бұрын

    I have a terminal illness, I am not now terminally ill but I still have a terminal diagnosis. It's as simple as pie. And that is why I'm a100% no to assisted suicide in the mid term future.

  • @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    Ай бұрын

    What is it that you stated that makes you a 100% no to assisted suicide in the mid-term future?

  • @joecheffo5942

    @joecheffo5942

    9 күн бұрын

    What does that even mean? Against it for yourself or everyone? What is "mid term future"? I understand you are ill but this doesn't make sense.

  • @JonModham

    @JonModham

    9 күн бұрын

    serenitywithlawna-merry, 'what is it that you stated' I not made statement, I wrote comment,, Joe chefo5942, I'm going to go, I mean me, ' I'm against assisted suicide' it's my comment, 'i understand you' I and you are the same puritan individual. thank you to everybody using the KZread platform for comments. Mine will always be deleted on request. No to assisted suicide in UK. No to euthanasia in UK.

  • @joecheffo5942

    @joecheffo5942

    9 күн бұрын

    @@JonModham I wish you well friend. I just dont want people to suffer. Peace friend ❤️

  • @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    8 күн бұрын

    @@JonModham Listen, you just basically explained why I don't understand why people force their own opinions and views on others. Your opinion is yours but when you say no to assisted suicide in UK, you are taking away other people's rights and not allowing them to make decisions for themselves. So, why aren't they allowed to say the same thing? You can say no for assisted suicide for YOURSELF, maybe instead of a blanket no for everyone and then I, as a fellow person with a terminal condition, can decide what I want to do with my life. This is not ill-intentioned - just a way to learn from one another which is why I am here and I hope that you understand this and can reply from a place of compassion. I hope you are managing well with everything going on with your condition and am sending light and love your way.

  • @jonnybloggs6790
    @jonnybloggs67909 ай бұрын

    Absolutely great talk .. of o get to the stage as need this I will to chose when I exit this game the death pod sounds like my first choice cos who wants to suffer to death from cancer or such like knowing at the end it will get worse and you will die anyways why prolong the inevitable?? It’s crazy we put down animals as it’s deemed not cruel yet we let our own species suffer horribly before death it’s just madness who ever made up these weird rules

  • @1sanremy
    @1sanremy9 ай бұрын

    Thanx for helping shining light on this sensible unpopular topic which needs more courageous communicators like this heroic doctor. Every one is concerned and has the moral responsability to participate in the debate. WE must "KILL" PAINFUL DEATH before IT KILLS US ! Peace & love

  • @SPDeclan
    @SPDeclan9 күн бұрын

    I found it very difficult to gather information about assisted dying online. Anyone know which country has the lowest threshold?

  • @victoriamacpriest7130
    @victoriamacpriest71309 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @zekornizstudiosgh
    @zekornizstudiosgh9 ай бұрын

    I find it hard to understand people who think assisted death is wrong. I mean, why watch a loved one who has no chance of healing suffer helplessly anyway? Is that what you call love?

  • @swredderx

    @swredderx

    9 ай бұрын

    This is called 'emotionally-driven irrational decision' , strong emotions override practical or logical thinking. Is it right or wrong is not for me to say but it's REAL.

  • @darlenestuart9900

    @darlenestuart9900

    9 ай бұрын

    It starts with volunteers, then after a while the govt will make it mandatory at a certain age. You know that the govt already wants to get rid of millions of people. . That would just open the door. Just like the movie soylent green. You should watch it.

  • @zekornizstudiosgh

    @zekornizstudiosgh

    9 ай бұрын

    @@swredderx It's real alright 👍🏽

  • @MeghanSchrader-gj2tl

    @MeghanSchrader-gj2tl

    9 ай бұрын

    I oppose assisted suicide, because I am disabled and I don’t want to be forced to live in a world where doctors regularly suggest that I end my own life, as this reincarnation of Josef Mengele supports. This is not a doctor who only helps dying people die, she is enthusiastic about killing people with psychiatric and neurological disorders like mine. Opposing the implementation of such a program is not irrational emotion, that’s self-respect and demanding respect from others. I don’t care how kind and gentle this person sounds; it’s objectively hateful & oppressive to turn disabled people’s suicides into a “medical procedure.” You right to die supporters are NOT entitled to inflict 4th class citizenship on the disabled community so that YOU can plan your own deaths.

  • @b.v.437

    @b.v.437

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@MeghanSchrader-gj2tlI'm 72 years old, and my wife is 70 years old. Unfortunately, we both have cancer and have decided to pursue euthanasia to end our suffering. We have chosen April 10, 2024, for this decision. We believe everyone should have the right to choose euthanasia. If this choice is not allowed, it is unjust. Most importantly, every person should have the right to decide when to leave this world. If you are suffering and want to leave this world, then there is nothing wrong with this.

  • @teddyboef2821
    @teddyboef28219 ай бұрын

    Are you as the executionar not wary that after 300 deaths you become callous and your bar lowers for who is qualified to die. When does it become murder?

  • @phillysea3456
    @phillysea34569 ай бұрын

    Thankful to have this option in Washington State.

  • @rxcashdaddy87
    @rxcashdaddy879 ай бұрын

    im not crying, youre crying

  • @elliemurphy2560

    @elliemurphy2560

    9 ай бұрын

    Who is cutting onions?

  • @hemlocksocietyofsandiego
    @hemlocksocietyofsandiego9 ай бұрын

    Great talk! Thank you for sharing the truth.

  • @MrChristiangraham
    @MrChristiangraham9 ай бұрын

    Great talk, Dr Green.

  • @smokieholmes7138
    @smokieholmes71389 ай бұрын

    Sounds like the way to go to me!!

  • @JonModham
    @JonModhamАй бұрын

    Health professionals in the UK are too focused on the most vulnerable ill people in this debate. They have become the service user in this relationship.

  • @alejandroc0529
    @alejandroc05299 ай бұрын

    A persons free will and what they want to do with their life is always to be respected. However, I have learned that in the dance of life , God will help you but you have to do your part all the way. .. As a health and life coach, I would say that as a society we need to focus more attention on healing mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually and trust that God has our best interest in mind. We have the capability to heal and reverse from all types of illnesses, but just need to follow our hearts, our intuition and ask for help from God and those that can help us. God bless. 🙏🏼 💚

  • @jadedmonk7001

    @jadedmonk7001

    9 ай бұрын

    Eloquently stated and so very, very true. Thank you❤

  • @lisasalyersrnc4829
    @lisasalyersrnc48299 ай бұрын

    We are more human to animals than we are to humans

  • @Nicolas_Arencibia
    @Nicolas_Arencibia9 ай бұрын

    That image definitely stick with you all your life. I cant imagine the sadness not only suffered by those families but yours, that have to see a lot of cases like the final one you told. I shed some tears watching this talk and I am glad to know about assisted dying, being the last will of someone who is dying by any cause. This TedTalk have had an impact on me that left me speechless.

  • @JonModham
    @JonModhamАй бұрын

    When you talk about assisted dying, is there a element of your own acceptance of death, and that risk factor when you decide. No to assisted dying.

  • @nokoolaid
    @nokoolaid9 ай бұрын

    The outliers with this are people with mental illness. That's a tough one. Not physically ill and could live a long life, yet seek this out, so the question is, how to deal with those folks?

  • @bobbimalanowski2848
    @bobbimalanowski28489 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Dr. Green, for speaking on a subject that most people avoid. I plan to find a country where I can plan my death. If we have the compassion to help companion animals, we should be able to leave this earth on our own terms.

  • @TryingtoTellYou

    @TryingtoTellYou

    7 ай бұрын

    Except you're not a dog and you need to find a better argument.

  • @bonnieikamas1201
    @bonnieikamas12019 ай бұрын

    Grateful ❤

  • @mfamily133
    @mfamily1339 ай бұрын

    😢 Human life is precious.

  • @joecheffo5942

    @joecheffo5942

    3 ай бұрын

    Precious means to have great value. But if you are very ill, who is it precious to? A Rembrant painting is precious but not if you splatter paint all over it.

  • @TheLRider
    @TheLRider9 ай бұрын

    But can you trust family members who are hungry for their inheritance. I absolutely agree that we should offer people, when they are fully aware, the choice of how and where we should decide we've had enough of this life. Religion might get in the way though as it's only God who can decide. 14 countries is very impressive though. I'll find out where they are. Thank you.

  • @colleenUN

    @colleenUN

    9 ай бұрын

    Correct. Inheritance and A gov. not wanting to pay for treatments is just a tip of the iceberg of problems with this. With Coercion, mistakes, abuse innocent people have their lives ended.

  • @tonedbytj
    @tonedbytjАй бұрын

    If you’re depressed you should have this option! Not everyone wants to be on medicine to function ! I don’t think only people who should access to this should be terminally ill. You didn’t ask to be here why you gotta stay ?

  • @copper815
    @copper8158 ай бұрын

    RIP ED

  • @arshianazem4092
    @arshianazem40929 ай бұрын

    Not when it’s used to make life easier for Canadian government to give up on veterans and psychological unwell people. Treatment is the ay to go for these people and with assisted death, there is a lot of harm. Gotta have a better system if you wanna come here and preach about assisted death. If you care so much as a physician and want to be a good one, you can’t be one sided in your perspective. I could write this a lot more formal and nicer, but I spoke from the heart, so pay attention to the message and not how it’s relayed.

  • @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    Ай бұрын

    I laughed when I read your comment; not in a malicious way but I laughed because everything you are saying to this person could be taken and thrown right back at you. It's silly to ask people like me (terminally ill) to rely heavily on a system that you have said in your comment you do not trust to make proper judgement calls, and think I'm going to get the best care? You are okay with watching people like me suffer in pain while people like you do nothing to advocate for patients but come on social media to spread your opinions about something that has nothing to do with you? When are you going to come advocate for me while I'm not receiving adequate care in the hospital or they won't give me medications to keep the pain away? If you care so much... you'll stop and listen to me. You are not disabled people, terminally ill or mentally ill people's voice - we have our own, you just need to back it up and you aren't.

  • @ddstudio9797
    @ddstudio97979 ай бұрын

    It's not easy doctor u gave the option when and where he wish to death. Family members don't want to see his suffering for deadly disease I think that administrative the medication along with holding the wife and children hand it's a best way to die but still live a long in heaven. Help All Serve All Big Salute to all Doctors its Not Easy

  • @geode9512
    @geode95129 ай бұрын

    These services should be available to all. So many people end their lives in violent ways. It would be better for them to leave more peacefully. My body my choice

  • @Shamsiddin-wl5sp
    @Shamsiddin-wl5sp9 ай бұрын

    Great

  • @ZiemniakPospolity
    @ZiemniakPospolity9 ай бұрын

    Of course I would prefer to die in a place I choose but the timing is much more important for me. I prefer to die in hospital or alone, if I can win months or years of living and discovering the world.

  • @rn6710
    @rn67109 ай бұрын

    I believe in life from conception to natural death.

  • @donharder5449

    @donharder5449

    9 ай бұрын

    I agree with you...

  • @emifro

    @emifro

    9 ай бұрын

    Let's see how you believe in natural death when you've been lying in a hospital bed or nursing home for years, unable to do anything, but unable to die, being miserable.

  • @aliciastanley5582

    @aliciastanley5582

    9 ай бұрын

    I refuse to live with Alzheimer’s as my mother, her brother and great grandmother died of. Grandma died earlier due to a chemical exposure but I believe she would have gone that way. IAM NOT DOING IT- to myself or my spouse.

  • @nonstopenglish

    @nonstopenglish

    9 ай бұрын

    You are free to believe in whatever you want. I'd like to have a choice.

  • @no_mnom

    @no_mnom

    9 ай бұрын

    You will change your mind when you notice your mental decline after you hit 70, it's terrifying

  • @frenkndjd
    @frenkndjd9 ай бұрын

    Great speech 👏👏

  • @kateg7039
    @kateg7039Ай бұрын

    I had to watch someone I love waste away for 8 days. Every day, every night I couldnt rest. I know it sounds selfish but no one would want that

  • @RussianVideoPodcast
    @RussianVideoPodcast9 ай бұрын

    Assisted dying MUST be legalized. This is a compassionate and dignified approach.

  • @kiano99
    @kiano999 ай бұрын

    @stephanie Greene Like Ed, I enjoy humour! Especially when it is dark and hard to see the light in such a gloom. And like Harvey, I wanted to have the dignity of dying. The quality of life I am now forced to live; is very low, like the arguments to my application. It is right, not easy to just call up! I am deserving of a dignified death.

  • @niv8880
    @niv88809 ай бұрын

    I watched my mother deteriorate, she desperately wanted to die. Despite the fact that it's illegal in the UK to assist, the amount of morphine got turned up each day when she reached the hospice. I'm not going to name that charity but it seems to be commonplace in the UK, you go to this chain of hospices and get ended. Simple. And nobody says a word. I had to confirm her death was due to lung failure, but the truth is, her death was due to the amount of morphine being pumped into her body. She got what she wanted and I'm OK with that. So actually, I believe assisted dying does exist in the UK.

  • @huantexas1

    @huantexas1

    9 ай бұрын

    That’s how it’s done here in the USA as well, be it in hospital or home/palliative care. But because it’s not “assisted” it’s still a drawn out process and agonizing for those last few days.

  • @k8tina

    @k8tina

    9 ай бұрын

    I believe the same happened to my father. The hospice care he received in the hospital those last couple of days was so compassionate. I believe he was given extra morphine and he was able to pass away without anymore pain. Yes, I miss my dad. But I don't miss the agony he went through for the three months leading up to it.

  • @toddwarner3142
    @toddwarner31427 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing your story and offering your services to those who would rather have a choice in their death over prolonged suffering. I suffer from an ultra rare genetic disease that results in inclusion body myopathy, pagets disease and in some cases, frontotemporal dementia. I currently struggle to walk. I have to use a cane, walker or even power wheelchair depending on the situation. There is currently no known treatment or cure. Its progressive. I will only get worse. Eventually I will be confined to a bed and incontinent. I could live to years this way or go quickly. I don't know. I have seen many people who suffer the same disease suffer for many years. Because of this, I have been vocal about my choice to choose medical aid in dying. I currently live in Oregon, USA which has a well established reputation for legalized MAiD. However the current law is very insufficient for most people as it requires two doctors to agree that the patient is within 6 months of a natural death. For people like me, it is impossible for a doctor to know that, even if they are one of the few who specialize in my disease. The laws surrounding this focus too much on the TIME for life, not the QUALITY of life. We need to change this. This is a dignity issue and a mental health issue. I should have the right to self determination. If I didn't have to worry about my suffering later in life, my anxiety would go down significantly. Death is inevitable for everyone. Suffering should not be.

  • @jovanmilosevic6258
    @jovanmilosevic62589 ай бұрын

    I guess "Do no harm is" is no longer part of the oath

  • @TryingtoTellYou

    @TryingtoTellYou

    7 ай бұрын

    Hasn't been for years

  • @joecheffo5942

    @joecheffo5942

    3 ай бұрын

    Do you know why I am seeking assisted dying? Because my doctor gave me an antibiotic that was not needed and too powerful for my body. I am not saying he did it on purpose but he did "do harm". Many disabled people are here because of various medical mistakes, drug or vaccine reactions, and other medically induced health problems. So in my case this is to fix the harm that was done and can't be taken back.

  • @rafaelludicanti2
    @rafaelludicanti29 ай бұрын

    🎯

  • @rafaelludicanti2

    @rafaelludicanti2

    9 ай бұрын

    Found you, darling.

  • @damarisjimenezvigo5620
    @damarisjimenezvigo56209 ай бұрын

    Spanish 😢

  • @HornyTaurney
    @HornyTaurney9 ай бұрын

  • @DisciplesCrossMaker
    @DisciplesCrossMaker9 ай бұрын

    Sickos......

  • @TheGreatBlumpkin

    @TheGreatBlumpkin

    9 ай бұрын

    They’re hiding in plane sight now

  • @0stre
    @0stre9 ай бұрын

    I don't want to live anymore, accelerate!

  • @beimnetgetahun9052
    @beimnetgetahun90529 ай бұрын

    That is not a solution to pain the solution is a hope to live in the challenge.and the biggest solution to pain and suffering in our God Jesus Christ!!

  • @kpd533

    @kpd533

    3 ай бұрын

    If your god really cared about humans then your god wouldn't allow innocent children to be violently abused, innocent children to suffer for years of an incurable illness, or allow vulnerable people to be killed and victimized. Believe in whatever you want but stop trying to make laws based on your religion.

  • @ozcanbekaroglu3458
    @ozcanbekaroglu34589 ай бұрын

    Ne kadar acı çekerseniz çekin allahtan umut kesilmez olümde olsa sonunda bu sinavı en iyi şekilde vermelisiniz

  • @Petrvsco

    @Petrvsco

    9 ай бұрын

    That is how you choose to frame your life, and that’s your right. I hope you can accept that many other people can live meaningful lives without god-like figures, organized religions, etc.

  • @thinkagain2229
    @thinkagain22299 ай бұрын

    I don't agree because soul not body bears pain of death, body dies not souls

  • @cenkgunes8779
    @cenkgunes87799 ай бұрын

    Kadın sanki ted konuşması degil de tiyatro oynuyor gibi. Bütün gerçekçiliği kaybetmis

  • @kpd533

    @kpd533

    3 ай бұрын

    Effective communication utilizes emotion.

  • @Memorial_Memory
    @Memorial_Memory9 ай бұрын

    All of you are mad.

  • @Petrvsco

    @Petrvsco

    9 ай бұрын

    How do you know you are not?

  • @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah, you're right. I'm absolutely mad and y'all made me this way.

  • @Memorial_Memory

    @Memorial_Memory

    Ай бұрын

    @@SerenitywithLawna-Merry in the end it’s just you

  • @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    Ай бұрын

    @@Memorial_Memory Well, if that ain't the most uplifting thing I heard today. lol Thanks for the reminder!

  • @ThatGoat
    @ThatGoat9 ай бұрын

    Well, you actually do have the option. No doctor and it's probably going to be messy but you always have the choice.

  • @Petrvsco

    @Petrvsco

    9 ай бұрын

    That is true, but the point is that for some people and in some circumstances, it does not have to be done in secret or be “messy” and improvised.

  • @ThatGoat

    @ThatGoat

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Petrvsco Well, given I mostly sh*t posted and that's basically a troll comment: Sure, it doesn't have a to be in secret. Pick a tall building and do a flip!

  • @physetermacrocephalus2209
    @physetermacrocephalus22099 ай бұрын

    We already solved this problem. Its called a hand gun. (Its actually called a pistol lmao)

  • @Anonymoose66G

    @Anonymoose66G

    9 ай бұрын

    Which leaves a mess, quite literally, it's a biohazard, police will get involved, it's more traumatic etc. Furthermore you also need to have access to a firearm...

  • @physetermacrocephalus2209

    @physetermacrocephalus2209

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Anonymoose66G Thats why you dont do it within the city. Thats rude. I understand not everyone can travel however; especially the old or sick. One of my enemies actually gave a great piece of advice once: Do it next to a lake so there will be less for society to clean up.

  • @k8tina

    @k8tina

    9 ай бұрын

    My husband did exactly that to end his pain and suffering. Yes, the police were involved and there was an investigation. I believe he wouldn't have been brought to the point of taking his own life if the healthcare in the US was better, especially for our military veterans. 😢

  • @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    @SerenitywithLawna-Merry

    Ай бұрын

    @@physetermacrocephalus2209 Honestly, there's a chance of surviving trying to do it this way. Not worth it in the end because then I'd have to be taken care of people in our healthcare system which is what I'm trying to avoid in the first place. Simple.

  • @physetermacrocephalus2209

    @physetermacrocephalus2209

    Ай бұрын

    @@SerenitywithLawna-Merry Entirley reasonable point

  • @janeseymour5226
    @janeseymour52269 ай бұрын

    DEAR MS DOCTOR, BY PLAYING GOD YOU ARE GOING TO ANSWER FOR EACH AND EVERY DEATH YOU ASSIST💀

  • @chatpapdi

    @chatpapdi

    9 ай бұрын

    And taking medication for prolonging life beyond normal life span is not playing God😏

  • @emifro

    @emifro

    9 ай бұрын

    Helping people not suffer is bad now? What's next, torturing is morally correct?

  • @TestTest-eb8jr

    @TestTest-eb8jr

    9 ай бұрын

    (Like your original reaction in all caps) THERE NEVER WAS NOR NOW IS AND NEVER WILL BE A GOD....

  • @catdoctrigeek1464

    @catdoctrigeek1464

    9 ай бұрын

    If there were a god, she would not prolong the process of dying.

  • @RussianVideoPodcast

    @RussianVideoPodcast

    9 ай бұрын

    And that is fine if that is what YOU chose, but refrain from choosing for others. Your beliefs have no bearing on the rest of us. Keep your religion to yourself. We do not care!!!

  • @robb6059
    @robb6059Ай бұрын

    This goes against natural law, or God’s law, and generates further reactions or penalties.

  • @thinkagain2229
    @thinkagain22299 ай бұрын

    I don't agree because soul not body bears pain of death, body dies not souls

  • @RussianVideoPodcast

    @RussianVideoPodcast

    9 ай бұрын

    And that is fine if that is what YOU chose, but refrain from choosing for others. Your beliefs have no bearing on the rest of us. Keep your religion to yourself.

  • @huantexas1

    @huantexas1

    9 ай бұрын

    Show me scientific or medical proof that a soul bears the pain of illness or injury and not the physical body. You can’t. Your statement is based on your religious inculcation, a burden only to you and no one else.

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