the tragic objectification of a boy: björn andrésen

the tragic objectification of a boy: björn andrésen The Most Beautiful Boy in the World (2021).
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Björn Andrésen on His Tortured Relationship With Luchino Visconti’s ‘Death in Venice’: ‘That Son of a Bitch Sexualized Me’ by Brent Lang.
Whatever happened to Death In Venice’s Bjorn Andresen? by Jason Solomons.
Death in Venice and how film has mistreated child stars by Sophie Monks Kaufman.
Tragedy of the 'world's most beautiful boy'... The movie classic Death In Venice made its 15-year-old star a global icon.
But as a new documentary reveals, it also condemned him to a life of alcoholism and despair by Tom Leonard.
‘Death in Venice screwed up my life’ - the tragic story of Visconti’s ‘beautiful boy’ by Ryan Gilbey. The Desperately Sad Story of the Most Beautiful Boy in the World by Hannah Lack.
Björn Andrésen: ‘I was extremely uncomfortable’ by Donald Clarke.
The face that inspired an entire generation of manga artists by Gill Princen.
Björn Andrésen on being ‘The Most Beautiful Boy in the World’ by Nick Chen.
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  • @yilyau
    @yilyau8 күн бұрын

    The description of this video was auto-deleted in May along with other videos by a KZread error. I am going through videos trying to fix this issue. Please email if there are any queries or errors. I am posting this as a comment in case YT does this again. Sources: Björn Andrésen on His Tortured Relationship With Luchino Visconti’s ‘Death in Venice’: ‘That Son of a Bitch Sexualized Me’ by Brent Lang. Whatever happened to Death In Venice’s Bjorn Andresen? by Jason Solomons. Death in Venice and how film has mistreated child stars by Sophie Monks Kaufman. Tragedy of the 'world's most beautiful boy'... The movie classic Death In Venice made its 15-year-old star a global icon. But as a new documentary reveals, it also condemned him to a life of alcoholism and despair by Tom Leonard. ‘Death in Venice screwed up my life’ - the tragic story of Visconti’s ‘beautiful boy’ by Ryan Gilbey. The Desperately Sad Story of the Most Beautiful Boy in the World by Hannah Lack. Björn Andrésen: ‘I was extremely uncomfortable’ by Donald Clarke. The face that inspired an entire generation of manga artists by Gill Princen. Björn Andrésen on being ‘The Most Beautiful Boy in the World’ by Nick Chen. Email for enquiries: yilyauenquiries@gmail.com

  • @whiteasparagus4331
    @whiteasparagus43315 ай бұрын

    The worst part is that i have seen people say he was “overreacting”, like yeah being sexually harassed and objectified and being upset about it is overreacting ig 🙄

  • @user-kb8qw7dy4t

    @user-kb8qw7dy4t

    5 ай бұрын

    At first, I thought this video was an overreaction based on the film. I wasn't aware of what happened behind the scenes.

  • @teijaflink2226

    @teijaflink2226

    5 ай бұрын

    It seems pretty obvious to me that even if he was 15 he was a very inexperienced, innocent child and these men preyd on and destroyed that innocence. They took him to gay clubs too and seems like they where trying to push an identity on him when he wasn't even gay. I can totally see the shock, confusion about sexuality and trauma that could cause to a child and everyone is different, some are more sensitive than others. Visconti clearly seems like a disgusting pedophiles to me (even if hasn't done anything illegal to a child), like calling him less beautiful as attractive when he turned 16 but definitely mentally preying on children and teens.

  • @poorang900

    @poorang900

    5 ай бұрын

    Not to forget that he had a sad childhood and was a sensitive artist

  • @kimberleywilliams7802

    @kimberleywilliams7802

    5 ай бұрын

    Honestly I was very impressed and thought he was amazing for recognising how taken advantage of he was. I didn't even think that it could be seen as an overeaction.

  • @tablescissors

    @tablescissors

    4 ай бұрын

    Of course he was overreacting, males are never expected, particularly on a large social scale to ever have to put up with this or compromise in such ways. Even actors who are paid MILLIONS upon MILLIONS of dollars will object to having to basic grooming or make-up jobs to actually look like the characters that they agreed to play - often insisting on exhibiting atypical masculinity (lest they lose status in the eyes of fellow males, nevermind the appreciation of female aesthetic/gaze vs how we cater heavily to male gaze).

  • @darialomurno05
    @darialomurno055 ай бұрын

    Notice how the photos where Bjorn is with his wife are the only ones where he smiles genuinely 😢

  • @adeleaslan8182

    @adeleaslan8182

    5 ай бұрын

    I'm glad he at least found joy with her

  • @bujki

    @bujki

    2 ай бұрын

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @egg-jj4qr
    @egg-jj4qr5 ай бұрын

    I see a lot of comments talking abt how he isn’t even “that beautiful” or that he “looks average” and you could agree, but what’s the point of saying that? Imagine if he looked like literal Aphrodite. Would the p*dophilia be justifiable then? Would objectification be ok if he really WAS the most beautiful? It’s like saying “Oh, why did he get objectified when he’s not even that pretty?”… like WHAT?… No one, regardless of how much “beauty” they hold, should be treated that way. Aphrodite or Bjorn or anyone should not be dehumanized in that way . That is what you should learn from his story.

  • @BeccaBeccaBecca22

    @BeccaBeccaBecca22

    5 ай бұрын

    Also, this is before the internet & filters & plastic surgery when most people lived in smaller towns or cities mostly full of average looking people. What qualified as “beautiful” was different back then.

  • @sfkeepay

    @sfkeepay

    5 ай бұрын

    It wasn’t pedophilia. Pedophilia is a sexual attraction to prepubescent children. It’s a condition, a mental illness, because human beings are generally not wired for sexual attraction to individuals who aren’t yet fertile. And, of course, it’s a crime if acted upon, because of the potentially lifelong damage it too often visits on innocent children. But your primary point is irrefutable. No one, regardless of perceived beauty, or age, for that matter, should be reduced to mere spectacle. It is also worth noting, however, that the age of consent in France is 15. That’s not at all uncommon in Europe, with many countries having 14, 15, and 16 as the norm. From what I can tell, only the Vatican and Turkey use 18. My point is just that, with certain rules around raw coercion not withstanding, those adults who courted Bjorn weren’t breaking any laws, and few at the time would have thought twice about it, expect perhaps for some chagrin at the thought of how foolish trying to date someone a quarter one’s age is. It’s odd, though, that we never seem to learn the lessons shown here. Laws totally aside, our culture remains largely fine with sexual exploitation. But, I suppose, why should that be the exception when we practice so many other kinds of exploitation without batting an eye.

  • @idontlikeu.com08

    @idontlikeu.com08

    5 ай бұрын

    @@sfkeepayyes it was. in what world does this director not sound like the textbook definition of a pedo

  • @username-yd4wy

    @username-yd4wy

    5 ай бұрын

    Why are you trying so hard to excuse what happened to him? Youre a weirdo. If age of consent was 9 would you still say its not pedophilia? @@sfkeepay

  • @serchmaabaatarchuluun5761

    @serchmaabaatarchuluun5761

    5 ай бұрын

    Beauty standard is a very fickle thing. But yeah, it's weird that's what those commenters are focusing on.

  • @joanofarcxxi
    @joanofarcxxi5 ай бұрын

    I blame the grandmother most of all. Her vicarious thirst for fame. Notice how many celebrities who were famous as children become extremely troubled adults. There is a whole lot of objectification and abuse going on. Bjorn didn't cope well either. He still struggles with it, and alcohol is how he soothes himself. Very sad. Very nice video.

  • @farrah9748

    @farrah9748

    5 ай бұрын

    * the world is a vampire 😑 *

  • @Kallah_DaughterOfYAHUAH

    @Kallah_DaughterOfYAHUAH

    5 ай бұрын

    Yes but MOST if all I blame the PREDATORS…especially that disgusting director.

  • @teijaflink2226

    @teijaflink2226

    5 ай бұрын

    It was her job to protect him as his guardian but it's possible she didn't understand how predatory these men where or why they actually where interested in him.

  • @kelly8107

    @kelly8107

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@farrah9748naaah. Don't say the world. That's western culture.

  • @jenniferacrey2940

    @jenniferacrey2940

    5 ай бұрын

    the people that actually assaulted the boy is at fault!

  • @SILLYGOOSE908
    @SILLYGOOSE9085 ай бұрын

    so fucking disgusting how that director treated him

  • @scroogemcduckrich9705

    @scroogemcduckrich9705

    5 ай бұрын

    he was a p3do i bet

  • @falconeshield

    @falconeshield

    5 ай бұрын

    Bjorn should've been protected

  • @johnmolina3284

    @johnmolina3284

    5 ай бұрын

    what people didn't know then.

  • @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    5 ай бұрын

    The dude who wrote the book the movie's based on was also a huge pedophile

  • @raolhooley

    @raolhooley

    4 ай бұрын

    Lol...try to score your little woke point...

  • @sephoramandondo2548
    @sephoramandondo25487 ай бұрын

    Finaly someone outside of the documentary covered this story

  • @candacegeorge8932

    @candacegeorge8932

    5 ай бұрын

    Its just a synopsis of the documentary

  • @eusounadja5738

    @eusounadja5738

    5 ай бұрын

    There are other videos

  • @lavinder11

    @lavinder11

    5 ай бұрын

    What's the name of the documentary? I have no idea who this kid is.

  • @sephoramandondo2548

    @sephoramandondo2548

    5 ай бұрын

    @@lavinder11 The most beautiful boy in the world

  • @kai_plays_khomus

    @kai_plays_khomus

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@sephoramandondo2548Are you all referring to the documentary by ARTE, the franco-german joint public broadcasting network?

  • @Tenshii_Artii
    @Tenshii_Artii5 ай бұрын

    As someone who begun their ‘Anime phase’ first through older Manga and anime of the Shoujo genre type back when I as a pre-teen. I’ve been all too familiar with the dreamy blonde, blue eyed wavy haired boy type. I didn’t exactly find male characters in that style to be attractive per-se. But I did acknowledge that they always seemed to be drawn with beauty. Then years later, I heard about that Documentary, where I first heard about Bjorn. It was so shocking to learn that he was the blueprint for all those blonde pretty boys. Even with blonde androgynous characters, and even blonde girls! And when I looked back at all of the media I consumed in my earlier days, everything made sense. I could suddenly see the resemblance in the characters I already knew, and I couldn’t believe it. That was the exact moment of me realizing the possibility that the whole reason of having blonde hair in Japan was also seen as foreign and beautiful (Aside from a symbol of delinquency), was because Bjorn had started it all. He truly did look beautiful. But Goodness, what happened to him was awful. Lusted over by men, taken advantage of. Every time I hear if his story, I get disgusted with how many people that have failed him. And that his reputation basically messed up his conscious. The fact right now that there are people in the world who could possibly be In his exact situation right now, is heartbreaking.

  • @dreamwithinadreamfilms

    @dreamwithinadreamfilms

    5 ай бұрын

    Me too! I found out about him from watching Anime, and learning that his look inspired many Japanese artists.

  • @gemh89

    @gemh89

    5 ай бұрын

    Youve described my 5 year old son. Everybody, particularly Polish people we meet (we're Scottish, well, his Dad is Welsh) often call him a cherub. Im already eschewing dating after splitting (but remaining close friends and co-parenting well with his dad) because I dont trust non biologically related people having too much acess to him. I live in fear

  • @desertrose1226

    @desertrose1226

    5 ай бұрын

    I am so glad I was born with ordinary brown hair!

  • @kelly8107

    @kelly8107

    5 ай бұрын

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. He looks like an average child Which the use of "beautiful " disgusts me. It's groomer shit.

  • @WestCountryGurl

    @WestCountryGurl

    Ай бұрын

    @@gemh89 You're a good parent.

  • @silentautisticdragon-kp9sw
    @silentautisticdragon-kp9sw5 ай бұрын

    Abuse from all sides. And to think that such blatant pedophilia was surrounding him and no one was doing a thing to stop it.

  • @falconeshield

    @falconeshield

    5 ай бұрын

    Just because it was ignored at the time, doesn't mean it was right.

  • @illuminaticonfirmed1389

    @illuminaticonfirmed1389

    5 ай бұрын

    @@falconeshieldwhat- no one said it was right

  • @illuminaticonfirmed1389

    @illuminaticonfirmed1389

    5 ай бұрын

    @@harsh3948 nobody gives a shit if it’s called ehebephebophebiphelia dude. they still went after a CHILD. 15 IS A CHILD. WHICH MAKES IT PEDOPHILIC. even if the age of consent is 9 fucking years old that doesn’t make it any less disgusting dude.

  • @cranburrey

    @cranburrey

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@harsh3948Stay away from children and ever procreate

  • @cheesm33

    @cheesm33

    5 ай бұрын

    @@harsh3948 what ???? do you seriously think that age of consent laws being lowered at the time makes that claim sound any better😭 . legality is not equivalent to morality/ethics

  • @nat_to_world
    @nat_to_world5 ай бұрын

    The fact that anyone was treated the way he was is so upsetting to hear. They literally robbed him of his childhood and mocked him for becoming a grown adult.

  • @khfan4life365
    @khfan4life3655 ай бұрын

    Abandoned by dad, mom goes missing, and raised a by greedy grandmother who didn’t care about p*mping out her grandson. This poor guy never had a chance.

  • @catastrophically.in.denial
    @catastrophically.in.denial5 ай бұрын

    That’s utterly disgusting, why won’t some people let a child be a child. He was 15 and taken advantage of by so many, I feel the emotions he went through from the screen because of how heartbreaking his life has been. Why hadn’t anyone realized that he was being preyed upon by a pedophile director

  • @catastrophically.in.denial

    @catastrophically.in.denial

    5 ай бұрын

    Another thing is that him as a person inspired lots on manga and that’s why I stopped reading manga or watching anime because of the objectification of people who happen to fit the beauty standards

  • @idontlikeu.com08

    @idontlikeu.com08

    5 ай бұрын

    it’s disgusting he didn’t deserve any of what happened to him

  • @mineguto211

    @mineguto211

    5 ай бұрын

    Thats stupid. you arent doing anything except stopping urself from reading and watching masterpieces cuz of a character who was inspired by his looks. What happend to him is sad, but you arent helping anyone by not watching or reading. Berserk and monster is one example of a masterpiece which had a character who was inspired by his looks.@@catastrophically.in.denial

  • @StrawberryCocoaPowder

    @StrawberryCocoaPowder

    5 ай бұрын

    @@catastrophically.in.denial you’d have to stop consuming western media too then lol

  • @lukeriely4468

    @lukeriely4468

    4 ай бұрын

    We are all objectified. Even our potential for manpower. We are all preyed upon by power. There are some, who enjoy being objectified and want it. Once it stops, they become depressed.

  • @morganleanderblake678
    @morganleanderblake6785 ай бұрын

    and if you think the way they smashed his *face* in Midsommar isn't an artistic nod to his past, I have a bridge to sell you.

  • @mossmother64

    @mossmother64

    5 ай бұрын

    I'd love to hear more cause I think that's a wonderful and interesting take on it (I'm an English major)

  • @gzapray7203

    @gzapray7203

    5 ай бұрын

    I'm glad he participated in acting again. And given that one of the themes of that film is catharsis, that scene is a subtle f u to those deplorable people who robbed him of his childhood. Won't be surprised if Aster knows Andersen's tragic history.

  • @bvgg2630

    @bvgg2630

    5 ай бұрын

    that and the fact that it was such brief screentime. it was really a statement when you think about it.

  • @kyrastube

    @kyrastube

    4 ай бұрын

    He also was in the movie The simple minded murderer (den enfaldiga mördaren) with Stellan Skarsgård. In that one, he is an angel of judgment and/or death. Also a pretty interesting role, considering.

  • @HawkinaBox

    @HawkinaBox

    4 ай бұрын

    I never noticed he was in that movie

  • @AH13371
    @AH133716 ай бұрын

    Im Swedish and let me tell you: he has a way of speaking that just hits you deep. Beautiful soul for sure

  • @Pugrandom13
    @Pugrandom135 ай бұрын

    I genuinely dislike the grandmother who the hell preasures their grandchild like this

  • @susanlaude8969

    @susanlaude8969

    5 ай бұрын

    Macauley Culkin's parents, River and Joaquin Phoenix's parents, Brooke Shields' mom, Drew Barrymore's mom, most child star's parents are like this.

  • @sheila-we7em

    @sheila-we7em

    5 ай бұрын

    Unfortunately, there have been many pushy parents in the film industry who pressure their children and become bread winners and victims of predators in that industry. What I found disturbing is that those men setting him up with a apartment and pocket money in Paris and turning him into almost a male Courtesan. Vile.

  • @Clo_Dub

    @Clo_Dub

    5 ай бұрын

    Oh my god I read that wrong

  • @Pugrandom13

    @Pugrandom13

    4 ай бұрын

    @@Clo_Dub what did you read 🥲

  • @Pugrandom13

    @Pugrandom13

    4 ай бұрын

    @@sheila-we7em I know it hurts to think about it it’s just inhumane

  • @vincentshadetree
    @vincentshadetree5 ай бұрын

    From childhood I read Greek mythology, and Medusa's story made it all too clear how much of a curse that being beautiful can be. People that don't have it want it, but those that do have it, likely don't because of how it puts them in the sights of those that want it. It's like walking around a bunch of starving people with bags of groceries. I thought I wanted that kind of admiration in my youth, but older now, I see how determental it would be, and I've got a low tolerance for being stressed, lol

  • @falconeshield

    @falconeshield

    5 ай бұрын

    To think that in some interpretations Athena was PROTECTING Medusa from harm, but harm still came anyway

  • @user-rr1lo8lu1v

    @user-rr1lo8lu1v

    5 ай бұрын

    Most good looking people are happy with that lets be fr. His case is extreme

  • @blacklight310

    @blacklight310

    5 ай бұрын

    @@user-rr1lo8lu1vtrue, they did a study on it.

  • @vincentshadetree

    @vincentshadetree

    5 ай бұрын

    @@user-rr1lo8lu1v I started to reply to you, but your account looks sus, there's almost zero activity. Looks like a Bot account...

  • @SolUFO

    @SolUFO

    5 ай бұрын

    @@user-rr1lo8lu1v there’s probably a point where the cost isn’t worth the reward. Most people are probably fine

  • @Venusingatorade
    @Venusingatorade5 ай бұрын

    What haunts me is how his mother died and the mystery around the father of him and his sister. So sad.

  • @luminyam6145
    @luminyam61455 ай бұрын

    Poor man, neglected by his mother and sold like an animal to the slaughter by his dirty predatory grandmother. My heart goes out to him.

  • @ProcrastinationQueen
    @ProcrastinationQueen5 ай бұрын

    Omg, I’ve literally read older shoujo manga that had male love interests that looked _exactly_ like this guy!! I never knew that he was the reason for that particular look in ML in shoujo around that time, that’s absolutely wild! He definitely has that particular model look and aura, that only a few people in the world have had, but it’s just disgusting the way they treated him. The lifelong trauma alone must be hell to live with

  • @thatsrealroughbud...2394
    @thatsrealroughbud...23945 ай бұрын

    I will never understand how films lionizing paedophilia aren't banned outright.

  • @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    5 ай бұрын

    Sadly the intellectual elite have a weird obsession with defending immoral art under the idea that art is somehow above criticism.

  • @alexeig127

    @alexeig127

    5 ай бұрын

    Art can't be banned

  • @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    5 ай бұрын

    @@alexeig127 If it depicts a criminal act it could.

  • @jenniferacrey2940

    @jenniferacrey2940

    5 ай бұрын

    @@alexeig127 rape is not art

  • @thatsrealroughbud...2394

    @thatsrealroughbud...2394

    5 ай бұрын

    @@alexeig127 You can't call media advocating for crime "art". That's the same BS paedophiles distributing CP in Canada tried. You can't try to justify paedophilic media as "art".

  • @PillBABY
    @PillBABY7 ай бұрын

    watching this video was both sad, but also comforting (Since I went through similar things). I appreciate you showing that objectifying people doesn't only go for women honestly regardless of gender, sexuality, or ect. everyone deserves to be treated as human.

  • @dreamydaze

    @dreamydaze

    6 ай бұрын

    I so wish that I could spend a few hours with Bjorn, I am about four years younger than him. And I am very aware of many aspects of Bjorn‘s life, as I am a fan. But your content made me more aware of a few aspects that I was not aware of, speaking of his young son, that had passed and him laying with him for hours afterwards, I can relate as a brother that had passed from viral pneumonia, and the mother, who suffered the rest of her life, with great guilt to the point where her life was ruined, and psychiatrists, tried to piece her life together again with antidepressants, electric compulsive treatment. I was totally the opposite of Bjorn, I was a very chubby boy with a very nondescript face. And my presence was very quiet. So I would love to talk to Jorn and share notes not to say that his life was better, or my life was better, but the share our pain, and maybe even some of the happy moments in our lives. I feel so bad for him as he has towards the end of his life like I do, and I pray that he finds a community or group of people that can Surround him and love him for who he is, and that he can let go of the ghost of the past, so that he can enjoy and see, and feel the best of what this world can give us.

  • @foregroundeclipse8725
    @foregroundeclipse87255 ай бұрын

    I feel really bad for this guy. He deserved better . I hope he's able to find peace .

  • @jennifersaar1611
    @jennifersaar16115 ай бұрын

    His story is just so, so sad, and I find myself so angry for him. He never really had a childhood, did he? From the very beginning, no one let him just be a kid.

  • @bred-ib6mj
    @bred-ib6mj2 ай бұрын

    The dance scene around the poles on the beach is the essence of the film. Explain everything. I don't think Tadzio was making fun of Gustav, the reason is simple. A 15 year old noble boy with some education would never make fun of a man who could be his father, rich, titled (baron), famous as a musician. Gustav is an authoritative figure. At most, a boy of that age could have made fun of an ugly peer, with crooked teeth, plump, with glasses... or a homeless person, a disabled person, but certainly not a distinguished and authoritative person like Aschenbach. I think that in the film Visconti wanted to make it clear that the blond boy wanted to experiment something with the older man, perhaps also because the boy had understood that Gustav is rich and wealthy (the same old story in short...). The famous shot in which Gustav seems to be "on top of" Tadzio from behind and the fact that both were sexually "involved" in this scene (objective data visible to all, if you want to understand...) speaks for itself.

  • @EllawoodBlues
    @EllawoodBlues5 ай бұрын

    This story is so sad in many ways but i can't get over him losing his mom at a young age and then losing his infant son...just heart breaking

  • @user-po1pi8xv9y
    @user-po1pi8xv9y6 ай бұрын

    Personally I think bjorn looked a lot more attractive as an adult man then as a 14 boy(crazy I know) and I don't think his looks were androgynous as much as the fact that he was an underage boy. I also wished you were more a bit more critical on grpup 24, for taking an appearance of a young child and using that for glorified artistic porn. I heard another story about how Japanese people became less interested in Bjorn as he was just another tall white guy then.

  • @yilyau

    @yilyau

    6 ай бұрын

    I was going to go into group 24, but in the documentary Bjorn seems to have fond memories of Japan and doesn’t seem to hold much of a grudge against the members; there’s even an appearance of Riyoko Ikeda, so not sure what to make of that.

  • @Ri57490

    @Ri57490

    5 ай бұрын

    As a 14 year old boy, he looked better than most 14 year old boys (and girls). As an adult man, he looked average compared with other adults.

  • @zappers8027

    @zappers8027

    5 ай бұрын

    Oh, of course not lmao, as an adult he was superior in looks, @@Ri57490

  • @falconeshield

    @falconeshield

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@Ri57490He....probably didn't grow up well. For obvious reasons.

  • @Skyebright1

    @Skyebright1

    5 ай бұрын

    I think being women he was happier about it even if he was 16

  • @wareforcoin5780
    @wareforcoin57805 ай бұрын

    For once, "what about men?" lead to something worth discussing instead of an argument.

  • @Babyblue115

    @Babyblue115

    5 ай бұрын

    "What about men?" is in my opinion most of the times a whataboutism that people who don't want to discuss women's issues say to deflect from the topic. It's something that people who clearly don't care about the subject matter comment when they feel the need to direct the attention to something else.

  • @Babyblue115

    @Babyblue115

    5 ай бұрын

    There are ofc "What about men?" comments that are actually sincere. But as you can see this video talks about the objectification of men, on a channel with a mostly female audience. And it's one of the most viewed video of this channel.

  • @ah-sh9dw

    @ah-sh9dw

    5 ай бұрын

    There's no such thing as a "what about men" that's worth discussing. The issue isnt in the "men" part but the "what about". "What about" means that it isnt a discussion on it's own rights but is instead trying to steal from a different discussion

  • @JohnDoe-nm5le

    @JohnDoe-nm5le

    3 ай бұрын

    @@ah-sh9dw If the world focuses 99% of its time and attention on one group of people despite another group of people having the exact same experiences, albeit at a slightly lesser rate but a troubling rate nonetheless, then that would probably warrant a "What about...". It's like trying to say that back in the past when there were a lot of civil rights marches for women, that saying," What about women." was a detraction from men and their accomplishments. Yes, we know about various males accomplishments. They're discussed 99% of the time. So what about women? Similarly, we know about female objectification and women's dealing with sexual assault, harassment, and targeted sexual violence. So what about men? What about boys?

  • @mayjailersirens

    @mayjailersirens

    2 ай бұрын

    @@JohnDoe-nm5le oh pls stfu. men are about 90 percent of their own problem causers, look at how men who are deemed less masculine are treated in any prison, or in a war like setting. men can be victims, no one denies that. but do you think women and girls being exploited is being explored thoroughly without dismissal? in the west women are deemed whores, bitches, prostitutes and dehumanized constantly even for the mere fact they’re girls/ women or maybe they’re wearing something a particular person doesn’t like. women have always predominantly been the victims in a male dominated society, they have always been at the receiving end of the abuse by the barbaric male society compared to males being abused. usually men are abused by family members and other men, men are the ones that don’t take male victims seriously - deeming them as weak etc.

  • @lidu6363
    @lidu63635 ай бұрын

    A while ago, I didn't even know he existed, but now, the immemse impact on the shoujo genre is so difficult to overlook! I could name so many characters that I am certain were directly inspired by him... and my feelings about those stories are getting more complicated, considering he maybe would not have consented to it.

  • @kaytaku629
    @kaytaku6295 ай бұрын

    he looks miserable in every photo :(

  • @AWlpsSHOW36
    @AWlpsSHOW364 ай бұрын

    Thankyou so much for talking about this boy. What really gets to me is the fact that a feminist made a book showing pictures of topless and naked men as a 'reversal' of objectification and sexualizing people, which is something that happens to women a lot. But who was on the cover of this book? Bjorn Andresen. But what made this outrageous and disgusting? Is that she never ever got his consent to use his photo for the book cover. Absolute selfish hypocrite.

  • @antiheroine3611
    @antiheroine36115 ай бұрын

    That's effing disgusting. It is interesting to see how he inspired a whole pretty boys archetype in mangas and anime

  • @MadeleinesMadeleines
    @MadeleinesMadeleines5 ай бұрын

    I can’t put into words how sad this story makes me every time I remember it. Kids deserve so much more and this world always lets them down. I wish I could protect ever single child with my life.

  • @olgagachaphoenix9130
    @olgagachaphoenix91305 ай бұрын

    I didn't know he's Swedish. His story is basically a warning for future generations

  • @tigerlily8312
    @tigerlily83124 ай бұрын

    Bjorn really reminds me of Leif Garrett who was also a teen actor and musician during the 70's and shared a similar beautiful appearance as him, thick wavy blonde hair and a slim figure. He also later got addicted to alcohol and drugs.

  • @captaincrunch3720
    @captaincrunch37205 ай бұрын

    Reminds me of what happened to Justin Beiber and Usher when they were younger. He naturally has softer features and was referred to by many GROWN MEN while he was still a child as being "beautiful like a woman". The s*xual abuse of male children in Hollywood is RAMPANT but sexism and homophobia amongst men as well as a history of victim blaming in society keeps many from speaking out.

  • @cutieowl347
    @cutieowl3475 ай бұрын

    This reminds me of the movie Malena and how the movie makers/director sexualized a 15 year old boy for it. They had scenes of him pleasuring himself and scenes of him undressing and kissing a woman that was twice his age, yet all everyone talks about is how Malena was sexualized in the story of the movie. It's disgusting that this sort of thing is able to happen to anyone and its also disgusting that a boy being sexualized isn't seen as a big deal.

  • @fauzianalwoga1002

    @fauzianalwoga1002

    4 ай бұрын

    Ikr😢

  • @HawkinaBox

    @HawkinaBox

    4 ай бұрын

    I instantly thought of that movie, too!

  • @JustAGuySlayingDragons

    @JustAGuySlayingDragons

    Ай бұрын

    Ikr. People forgot he's the child in the story too

  • @whooah
    @whooah5 ай бұрын

    His story always made me so sad. I hope hes doing better now

  • @vivianworden2706
    @vivianworden27065 ай бұрын

    Of course it happens to males. Even Terry Crews was harassed and he is a physical beast.

  • @melisacaceres8740
    @melisacaceres87405 ай бұрын

    I'm glad that as a society we came to a point where the description of the director obsessing over him sounds horrific instead of "part of the creative process". The parade of young boys is truly something out of a horror film. Poor Bjorn and poor other young boys whose youth was stolen from them for profit.

  • @fatemahe9432
    @fatemahe94325 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for talking about this topic, people are starting to forgot what happened to him and it’s incredibly sad.

  • @NoFirstNoLastName
    @NoFirstNoLastName5 ай бұрын

    Brooke Shields by straight men. Bjorn by gay men. Taylor Lautner by straight women. Justin Bieber by everyone. Like, the amount of teen stars that are considered beautiful or handsome and are sexualized by adults disgusts me but the fact that it can happen from any group just makes me sad. We as a society have to do better.

  • @fauzianalwoga1002

    @fauzianalwoga1002

    4 ай бұрын

    Now it's Timothee Chalamet, Robert Pattinson, Zendaya etc

  • @Venjamin

    @Venjamin

    4 ай бұрын

    @@fauzianalwoga1002 Weren't all of those people already fully mature adults by the time they became famous, even for their looks? IIRC, Timothee was 21, Robert Pattinson was 22, and Zendaya was 19? Don't get me wrong, they played young characters (unless you count edward cullen as old LOL) but I dunno. It seems different than a fifteen year old, I guess.

  • @shaylenwayne9284
    @shaylenwayne92845 ай бұрын

    He kinda reminds me of Finnick O'Dair with how young he was objectified and treated. Or how that talk show host went to touch Justin Bieber's face a while back even tho he was clearly uncomfortable.

  • @khfan4life365

    @khfan4life365

    5 ай бұрын

    I remember how women were with Taylor Lautner during the Twilight craze. They counted down the minutes he turned 18. As a teen, I had a crush on him, but these were grown women. Ew.

  • @persephone3309
    @persephone33093 ай бұрын

    It's truly sad how anything beautiful is always destroyed in some way. For me, I used to want to be beautiful so badly as I wasn't during my teen years. Once I became an adult I started to become beautiful but I then saw the ugly side to it. It made me not want children, especially a daughter. I don't want people to hurt her because she's beautiful. This applies to other things too. Beautiful animals, we capture and/or kill them. Beautiful places created by nature, we destroy them. People will even destroy their own beauty with plastic surgery. It's tragic how much the world seems to destroy beauty through it's own selfish desires.

  • @todiann27
    @todiann275 ай бұрын

    My high school boyfriend looked very much like him. We’re old now, and he’s still beautiful. We keep in touch.

  • @alilcritter

    @alilcritter

    Ай бұрын

    Cute 🥹

  • @yilyau
    @yilyau7 ай бұрын

    Captions/subtitles available in settings.

  • @Alumnia91

    @Alumnia91

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks I will need it. It is very hard to listen to a breathy, whispery, overly cutesy voice. You can talk normally too.

  • @justlivinglife465

    @justlivinglife465

    5 ай бұрын

    Good call

  • @Lola-xy9bw

    @Lola-xy9bw

    5 ай бұрын

    @@Alumnia91help it’s not that bad I can hear it as a person who sounds like this too naturally that is my normal voice and they is nothing I can do about it and by the way she sounds natural I don’t think it’s forced

  • @saysayj7047
    @saysayj70475 ай бұрын

    It is not a cult gay film actually. Literally barely anyone the community knows this film and I feel like saying it is a "cult gay film" is severe misinformation.

  • @eden-kx4pc

    @eden-kx4pc

    5 ай бұрын

    really? i am film student so I know many who know this film and most of them are lgbtq+, it is a older film so maybe that's the reason

  • @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@eden-kx4pcWell sadly we queers are self-loathing as all fuck and will take any rep it seems, moreso back in that day.

  • @Cast_Iron_Kitty

    @Cast_Iron_Kitty

    5 ай бұрын

    I'd call it more an art film. Every scene is beautifully laid out.

  • @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    @ChangedMyNameFinally69

    5 ай бұрын

    @@Cast_Iron_Kitty Too bad it's about a dude thirsting over a child

  • @suec9426

    @suec9426

    5 ай бұрын

    It may be a ‘cult, gay film’ now, but I saw it in London when it was released in 1971. It was definitely mainstream then.

  • @cristalblackstar8177
    @cristalblackstar81775 ай бұрын

    Pobre muchacho. No tenia nadie que lo proteja. Espero que hoy en dia tenga paz y tranquilidad en su vida.

  • @billietae5693
    @billietae56935 ай бұрын

    Hey can you do one about k-pop? You can do separate ones for the boys and the girls, the exploitation is unbelievable and then there's things like beauty and body standards, plastic surgeries at the age of 14, diets that come close to killing people. They actually have a "visual" in each group, someone there just to look good...i cannot imagine how damaging that is for a person, that their job is simply to have a pretty face.

  • @breadpilled2587
    @breadpilled25875 ай бұрын

    The quick cuts are a little distracting. Great video! Thank you

  • @yilyau

    @yilyau

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you for watching and commenting, breadpilled. ☺️🌼

  • @cannonball2264
    @cannonball22645 ай бұрын

    i noticed you missed the more recent, popular examples in japan, such as griffith from berserk and dio from jojo. i remember gasping when i saw bjorn the first time, seeing who inspired these characters

  • @greyghost8343
    @greyghost83435 ай бұрын

    To think without being in this film, he could’ve been just any other boy and lived his life the way he wanted without scrutiny.

  • @tracycraft2971
    @tracycraft29715 ай бұрын

    Just happened upon this channel because I recognized Bjorn. As a young girl I always thought he was so handsome in a quiet shy kind of way. He was a good person who had a tragic life. He was a brilliant person who was so objectified. I will always love his music . Thank you for this brilliant channel! ❤

  • @davidlynch7828
    @davidlynch78285 ай бұрын

    Thank you for the content i had never heard this story before

  • @user-io8ns9pq9x
    @user-io8ns9pq9x3 ай бұрын

    Thank you for telling us behind the story ✨💐🙏

  • @--Paws--
    @--Paws--5 ай бұрын

    Wow, this was a really sad exposé. I didn't realize "bishounen" trope of a sailor outfit come from a real person.

  • @peony70
    @peony705 ай бұрын

    I really want to watch this, but all the rapidly flashing images made me feel like I was going to have a seizure

  • @RyzaGlee-tc7go
    @RyzaGlee-tc7go5 ай бұрын

    As a girl also, sometimes males suffered the deepest and wouldn't even realize everyone if someone didn't start taking their backs. This is really depressing for the fact that all those years he didn't find freedom and love.

  • @GothGuy885
    @GothGuy8854 ай бұрын

    youth is fleeting. and Beauty fades. the passing years and long decades now that I am old and Gray I long so much for Yesterday. but yesterday is no more I can never be what I was before.

  • @audenisarat8179
    @audenisarat81795 ай бұрын

    unrelated but your voice is so nice and your scripting is so good!!! great jobb 😸😸

  • @jonboz7585
    @jonboz75854 ай бұрын

    Such a very sad story. Sometimes being a plain looking, nerdy guy is a blessing.

  • @sharcon3891
    @sharcon389123 күн бұрын

    My boss had an 8 year old son who used to visit the office occasionally and everyone would say to his face how good looking he was. Drove me nuts. So I gave an office lecture, saying that if the kid was ugly they wouldn't be telling him how ugly he was. Appearance is biological, the luck of the draw. What I said was to compliment someone on their ACCOMPLISHMENTS, not on their appearance, which they had nothing to do with.

  • @fadhji

    @fadhji

    17 күн бұрын

    ????

  • @DeidreL9
    @DeidreL95 ай бұрын

    Dirk Bogarde was a wonderful man with scrupulous standards, his innate morality meant l never raised eyebrows at this film. He himself was an exquisite young man. Ironically for those of us who lived through the 1980’s, we will remember singer David Sylvian, who looks remarkably like Bjorn, being called the most beautiful man in the world, much to his chagrin. Bjorn could easily be David as a young man. Thank you for this!

  • @amberworr5612
    @amberworr56125 ай бұрын

    This is so sad... 😔 Honestly, he is still very handsome even now, I hope things can get better for him and that he can learn to love himself and find peace. Poor guy.. My heart is sad for him. The things people say to you as a child can really traumatize you and can stick with you forever.. I know some of those things stuck with me, it can be really hard to move on from that.

  • @dodi-wankenobi
    @dodi-wankenobi5 ай бұрын

    I love your voice especially in this one. It carries the tragedy beautifully

  • @yilyau

    @yilyau

    5 ай бұрын

    Thanks, Dodi ❤️

  • @vegasjk27
    @vegasjk275 ай бұрын

    He has led such a troubled life and I feel bad for him because of this. His attention seeking grandmother pushed him into the spotlight with tragic results. I hope as an adult he can find peace and happiness someday.

  • @RiniDiamandis
    @RiniDiamandis5 ай бұрын

    i'm so happy he found his love of music again it's all he ever wanted :(

  • @pohanahawaii
    @pohanahawaii5 ай бұрын

    👍👍 Excellent analysis, narration, and video editing!

  • @cillamoke
    @cillamoke5 ай бұрын

    My heart aches for Bjorn

  • @unseelie63
    @unseelie635 ай бұрын

    I've actually seen Henry Cavill having to deal with the rather creepy admiration of a female co-star on a talk show.He's an adult,not a child,but you could see that he was uncomfortable and if he had to deal with that all through filming and publicity...creepy,plain and simple.So much worse,though,when the person is as young as Bjorn was.His grandmother's actions were thoroughly contemptible!

  • @samantha28391

    @samantha28391

    4 ай бұрын

    Henry dates much younger women. If anyone is predatory, it's him.

  • @kai_plays_khomus
    @kai_plays_khomus4 ай бұрын

    What a great, high quality video! Came across it by accident and haven't seen anything else of this channel's content yet I still subscribed because I have no doubt it's worth it! 👌

  • @creolelady182
    @creolelady1825 ай бұрын

    This young guy is now about 68 now

  • @supremeoverlord0
    @supremeoverlord05 ай бұрын

    This is so heartbreaking... I wish his life had been better in the past, and I hope his life improves further here on out.

  • @alphabettown04
    @alphabettown045 ай бұрын

    Oof the quick cuts make me a bit dizzy.

  • @falconeshield

    @falconeshield

    5 ай бұрын

    Yeah, just listen to the clip

  • @KB-tf8vp

    @KB-tf8vp

    4 ай бұрын

    Yeah, it was way too much.

  • @Saffron-sugar
    @Saffron-sugar5 ай бұрын

    To those saying he is “not that beautiful”, has it occurred to you that you might feel that way because you are not a paedophile? If all you see is a boy…. Good! If you’re wondering how he was going to school during this… Good! That’s how most adults feel.

  • @Saffron-sugar

    @Saffron-sugar

    5 ай бұрын

    I’m not criticising preteen girls who think he is the bomb. Obviously

  • @finpin2622
    @finpin26225 ай бұрын

    It’s horrible what happened to him, I feel like child actors are already at such risk of predatory behavior without the added factor of being literally objectified within the film and then becoming a worldwide star… Unfortunately as much as people like to pretend we’ve come further as a society, stuff like this still happens and it’s just heartbreaking. Look at some of the child actors in stranger things, who even though they weren’t sexualized in the show, ended up having a lot of adult “fans” who objectified them. Honestly I think child actors should be far far less common and far more protected, I understand a lot of films are perfectly normal about depicting younger characters and just want a realistic depiction but when it comes at risk to a child’s physical and mental health, we should question just how important “realism” is.

  • @yanderepuzzler
    @yanderepuzzler5 ай бұрын

    This is really well done, and I hope your channel grows quickly! ❤❤

  • @yilyau

    @yilyau

    5 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Yandere Puzzler. ❤️ That’s so nice of you to say. Have a nice day. ☺️🤍

  • @accessyourinnerlight971
    @accessyourinnerlight9715 ай бұрын

    I'm not sure if this film mentions it but Bjorn Andresen was in the horror film Midsommar as the old man who jumped from the cliffs.

  • @KB-tf8vp

    @KB-tf8vp

    4 ай бұрын

    Whaaaat. Thanks for sharing! I would’ve never known.

  • @lo.lo_marie

    @lo.lo_marie

    2 ай бұрын

    It does and includes clips lol. Did you even watch

  • @finend6075
    @finend60755 ай бұрын

    gosh these men around Bjorn are so fucking gross. it's so heartbreaking. When director told him to take off his clothes I was so livid. Hollywood is just a pit of predators.

  • @Spiralobsession
    @Spiralobsession5 ай бұрын

    "He was the only foreigner who bothered to learn the correct pronunciation of Björn's name" - she says, while mispronouncing Björn's name. (I'm sorry, I don't mean that as a mean comment, it was just funny.)

  • @mirtikaschultz3282
    @mirtikaschultz32824 ай бұрын

    I disagree with some of the comments. He was absolutely stunningly lovely in his youth. No wonder Vischonti was mesmerized by beauty (a visual person, after all, as directors re), but taking a minor to a gay club? Geez. No one should be abused or exploited because they are gifted with beauty, but sadly, all recorded histories and stories show what a terribly human failing this is. Helen of Troy has a word to say.

  • @MoistCrumpet
    @MoistCrumpet5 ай бұрын

    Ngl the movie even without any context from the documentary is pretty creepy. Just watching a grown man following a boy around staring at him with that look in his eyes makes me uncomfortable.

  • @EmilyTienne
    @EmilyTienne4 ай бұрын

    So sad, that he became a total vegetable after this film and never recovered. (Okay, that didn’t happen…and neither was his life “destroyed”). That said, the entire film, television, and music industry exploited children by objectifying them and not compensating them adequately. They failed to help them transition from the entertainment world to a more mundane and anonymous life after their fifteen minutes of fame was over. This led to drug and alcohol abuse with some. Child actors should be assured pay for college and given career assistance. In the past, tragically, they were usually abandoned and forgotten.

  • @brisenocturne1441
    @brisenocturne14417 ай бұрын

    This is a very sad story

  • @user-eh1sp6wh2l
    @user-eh1sp6wh2l6 ай бұрын

    ほんと! 曰本の少女マンガの美少年そのものの ピョルンさまに、熱狂したでしょうね~ 日本語で歌を歌って下さり、レコードに なったと思います。 「ミッドサマー」で、老人役の彼をみて 時の流れを感じましたが、 素敵でした~ 美しく生まれた故に、ご苦労もあったと思いますが、 それも含めて今があるのですね〜 ステキな動画ありがとうございます~

  • @minmingzhou5311
    @minmingzhou53115 ай бұрын

    What are the piano songs in the background called? Specifically the one at 3:12?

  • @oblongshapes

    @oblongshapes

    5 ай бұрын

    I was wondering this too. Anyone know?

  • @jelsner5077
    @jelsner50775 ай бұрын

    I hope he is able to find some peace and contentment in his later years. Such a sad story.

  • @FoxNHound
    @FoxNHound5 ай бұрын

    Its really sad because Bjorn is a pretty good actor. Shame they forced him into it and abused him. I hope he can heal today.

  • @rutho.6282
    @rutho.62825 ай бұрын

    I wished you reference the myth of Ganymede!!

  • @watrgrl2
    @watrgrl25 ай бұрын

    It’s so sickening how Bjorn was treated. It’s just as sickening that Sweden looked the other way.

  • @taylornusteling8692
    @taylornusteling86925 ай бұрын

    Hope he's living his best life now.

  • @jaywilliams8386
    @jaywilliams83865 ай бұрын

    I was especially stricken by the comments regarding Germaine Greer's use of his image long after he was a grown man. I have been deeply effected myself by this kind of gross hypocrisy in the feminist movement concerning what it says it represents and what it really does. Thank you.

  • @thirteenfury

    @thirteenfury

    4 ай бұрын

    There's plenty of public domain paintings that feature young androgynous men (or boys) she could have used. Or at least fine art that might be in private collections but are known worldwide. It's pretty disgusting and hypocritical that she used a copyrighted photo of a living person without his consent or knowledge. If the book had been about objectified teen girls and had a photo of a living actress posed sexually as a child, there would be mainstream media outrage and the author would be banned from feminist circles.

  • @jaywilliams8386

    @jaywilliams8386

    4 ай бұрын

    GOT THAT RIGHT!!! @@thirteenfury

  • @madisongracemusic
    @madisongracemusic5 ай бұрын

    What I would do to have a conversation with him. Does he have a book?? I gotta watch his documentary

  • @sunikitti
    @sunikitti5 ай бұрын

    Why are the cuts so fast? It’s so distracting 😵‍💫

  • @siopaobun3829
    @siopaobun38293 ай бұрын

    what is the piano song that begins at 3:14 ?

  • @tompommerel2136
    @tompommerel21364 ай бұрын

    On a more philosophical point: We all travel with our histories, and for those who have been graced with a kind of self-reflection that is more curios than pained, we can begin to have a better relationship with this history. It's a journey all people born in this world MUST UNDERTAKE to discover the difference between victimisation vs life, as well as mere survival vs thriving.

  • @leonhue722
    @leonhue7224 ай бұрын

    Thousands auditioned for the lead role in this classic movie and Bjorn was lucky enough in landing the part. He had an adventurous experience and was the envy of many boys who lost out. He would have most likely ended up the same way film or no film. In life, opportunities may come one's way and it's how you seize upon them and optimise the life changing experience

  • @MrMoistIITheRevengeOfTheMoist

    @MrMoistIITheRevengeOfTheMoist

    2 ай бұрын

    You’re a dumass who talks like a smartass. It’s crazy how people like you will do anything to change the narrative for your own personal feelings, and type it out like it’s factual. People like you are why I discipline myself, so when I grow older I don’t let my subjective lies get a hold of me.

  • @matheo9150
    @matheo91505 ай бұрын

    Where are the scenes at 08:58 from?

  • @sweetsugarie
    @sweetsugarie5 ай бұрын

    I love your videos, really, really love it.

  • @justasy1092
    @justasy10927 ай бұрын

    Great video, keep up the good work! 🥰

  • @yilyau

    @yilyau

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, Justasy! 🥰🌹

  • @justasy1092

    @justasy1092

    7 ай бұрын

    @@yilyau 🥰 Sorry about the other comments, haha

  • @yilyau

    @yilyau

    7 ай бұрын

    No problem! 🤣👍🏻

  • @Skyebright1
    @Skyebright15 ай бұрын

    Like Marilyn Monroe or Judy Garland, given pills