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*To all the dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If you surround yourself with love and right people, ANYTHING is possible.* 🙏🖤

@PAul.paUL.PaUL.

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks alot🙏🌎🍀 Stay happy, healthy & safe♥️

@wafaww7055

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🤍

@destroyerinazuma96

2 жыл бұрын

Dudebro, you're relentless with those comments, but that deserves respect in its own right...

@itsdaksha

2 жыл бұрын

No self promo pls

@hemar7543

2 жыл бұрын

Is there any comment section..where I won't find u!!! STOP SPAMMING OTHER PPLS COMMENTS SECTION

Notes from this video👀✨ . . . 1. From what I lack to what i have 2. From what's going wrong to what's going right. 3. Finding something beautiful in everyday 4. Look how far i've come. 5. What i can control I'm so much grateful for this channel. Ever since I've found this channel my life has become so much easier. She has so much positivity in her voice✨✨

@SnehaJadhavArt

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks 😁🌸

@canpy143

2 жыл бұрын

Wah, thenks!♡ Hope you stay healthy uwu

@lavendaire

2 жыл бұрын

:) i'll help. i added 3 extra at the end too: 1. what i lack → what i do have 2. what's going wrong → what's going right 3. everyday is boring / the same → find something new / beautiful in every day 4. i'm not where i want to be → look how far i've come 5. what i can't control → what I can control more examples: your weaknesses → your strengths where you feel limited or restricted → where you feel abundant & expansive what makes you feel small → what makes you feel tall feel free to come up with new ones of your own!

@SnehaJadhavArt

2 жыл бұрын

@@lavendaire 💜💜💜

@Tomiekawakami001

2 жыл бұрын

@@lavendaire 💜💜thanks love💜💜💜

1. What I have 2. What’s going right? 3. Finding something beautiful in everyday 4. Look how far I’ve come 5. What I can control Gonna add these to my notes so I fill it out everyday. ☺️

Isn't it crazy that you can feel so inspired/ learn so much from just 10 minute videos. Thank you Lavendaire 💗💗

@lavendaire

2 жыл бұрын

💕

To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.

@LwaziGwegwana

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you..I really appreciate this ❤

@destroyerinazuma96

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks. This reminds me how Healthy Gamer spoke of skills: it's easy for you to tell you that you can't achieve something cause you don't have the proper education or skills. But that's actually a good signal, cause if you truly value what you value, then you won't use a lack of skill as an excuse, you'll be thankful for a visible and solvable problem. Furthermore, Healthy Gamer used the example of someone who wanted to work in Human rights - it's totally possible to work there, provided a concrete area of work and area of expertise. You just have to be specific, like "I need a Diploma in A to get to position B, to work on issue C".

@thechancellor-

2 жыл бұрын

@@LwaziGwegwana You welcome 🙏🏾. Thanks too 😊.

@thechancellor-

2 жыл бұрын

@@destroyerinazuma96 I concord 😊. Thank you 🙏🏾.

@kana_jellyfish

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! The same goes for you as well🤍

💗 Simple things you can do today to change your life 1. *Practice mindfulness* = Become more aware of your present thoughts and feelings right now. Don't judge yourself if you feel low, guilty or lazy. Allow yourself to be honest about how you are feeling. Ways to be more mindful: Write down your thoughts, listen to uplifting music, meditate, go outside and spend some time in nature, spend some time with a positive friend, draw a picture, color in a coloring book or sit in the park or outside a coffee shop and just enjoy relaxing and watching people walk by. 2. *Practice self gratitude* = Praise yourself, thank yourself, acknowledge the good things you have done now and in the past. Focus on how you have been a good influence on other people, your friends, your family, your work colleagues, your social media followers. Sometimes we receive so much negative criticism, unwanted and negative feedback from other people. We need to show ourselves some self love and self respect. Only you can see how truly talented, gifted and kind you are. 3. *Turn off the news* or start decreasing how much news and celebrity gossip you watch, read and listen to.

*“Reduce the complexity of life by eliminating the needless wants of life, and the labors of life reduce themselves.” - Edwin Way Teale*

*5 things to quit for all people:* *1. Caring about what others think* *2. Not believing in yourself* *3. Not prioritizing your health* *4. Wasting your precious time* *5. Chasing meaningless relationships*

@sapphiremadron7370

2 жыл бұрын

This is a great list.

@aish...71305

2 жыл бұрын

Expect no.5 I always do all these things. I find so hard to take a real action towards that. I being too lazy to take action....😞😓

Today was really a downer for me as a college student. And a few minutes before I saw this video, I was reflecting on my actions and trying to find a way to shift how I was feeling. This is just one of those perfectly timed divine interventions. Thank you for this 😊

Changing perspective is so efficient! Just realized how many things are going extremely right in my life ❤️

Hey Aileen!! Came across you during quarantine and what you made me realised is that its not selfish to care about ourselves. I have always been a very negative person but I now realise that its because I let myself be. A lot have changed since I watched your first video last year and I am happy to say its a good change, all thanks to your support here.😊

@lavendaire

2 жыл бұрын

i'm happy to hear that!

I won't say that I'm gonna get a complete change in my life from this. Because I know it takes a lot. But, these calming videos helps in the short as well as in the long run, atleast for me. I know, my subconscious mind will grasp atleast one of the points that is mentioned here in this video and I would stick to it eventually for the rest of my life. Well, for the time being, it has lowered my anxiety and provided a sense of calmness. And it's night here. So what else is needed for a good night's sleep. Thanks Aileen for these calming and helpful videos. These helps in so many ways.

Hey, guys I just want to spread some love. Give a hug. Give you energy, to get up and take what you need in life. I hope you all heed her great advice. Just remember to keep a positive perspective, to keep a healthy mind. You have The Power!

Hey lavendaire, can you pls make a video about negative self talk and how to overcome it. Im so stuck with negative self talk in my heads. It will be so helpful if you make a video on that. Thank you for feeding us with great relieving contents💖🙏

@Rose-id9sj

2 жыл бұрын

you can watch how to stop being so hard on yourself or change your mind change your life by lavendaire

Shift in perspective ultimately changes your life. Our thoughts affect how we see our lives. life is not from outside to inward but more from inside to outward. Choose that thoughts that support your life.❤

@lavendaire

2 жыл бұрын

yes!

It’s been a while since I commented and I just realised that there’s this amazing community out there. And even when I think it’s over, it isn’t.

You helped me a lot to change myself and everytime i feels down i watch you, thank you 💗

Every time I get at a low point in my life, you upload an inspiring and healing video and remind me that life is beautiful. Thank you so much Lavendaire 💖💖💖

@lavendaire

2 жыл бұрын

I was doing the "end of year journaling prompts" So there was a question that "who had put greatest affect on you this year?" And you know what, Alieen was the first name which came to my mind❤ I thank you from bottom of my heart 🥺❤ Thankyou very much ❤

Whenever i see your video, there is some change in my way of thinking in a positive way, thank you Aileen for those :D

This was all I needed... thank you so much ailen...❤️ Much love! Jefrina 🇮🇳

Hey, It's the first time I am commenting here, You know what I am watching you since 2020 and really you helped me a lot to help myself get over the hard things....whenever I felt low and giving up, your videos were there to motivate me. Thank you buddy for helping me always .Sending my love to you 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

When I’m feeling down or unmotivated I always watch your videos to get my self together

This is a beautiful reminder to keep going with life, despite the difficulties. Thank you Aileen 💖

a life-changing vid,thank you!!💛✨

This is why i love your viddeos I was stressed and crying that i am worst in my life As i saw this videos i understood what mistakes i have made and love your videos

Thank you for this video Aileen. 💛

Thank you for bringing light through this video

I need to hear this! Thank you 😌❤

Yaaas! You can't change what's external in the moment, but you can change *how you percieve & react* to it ♡ your dog is so fluffy & cute

@lavendaire

2 жыл бұрын

yess that's the key

@randomcarrot7970

2 жыл бұрын

Plus, if you feel better inside, you actually get smarter in solving external problems

Thank you Lavendaire! I needed this lesson and reminders! Thank you! 🙏🏽🥰

So grateful for you and your channel ❤

Bless wonderful you for all you give and your precious doggie!!!

This video is a gift, thank you!! 💗

Thank you Aileen for making this video!! This week I've had a string of external bad luck events and I'm beginning to feel frustrated! l really needed that reminder that plenty of bad things can happen to you that are out of your control, but shifting your perspective to focus on the things you can control and the things you are grateful for can provide comfort and help get you through it all💕💕

You never fail to provide value to your audience! Have learned a lot from you, Aileen. Blessed to know a gem like you!!!

Thank you so much for this 💗, hope your days and mental health becoming good too

was just searching video related to this topic . Thanks love ♥️ I needed this🦋

I saw someone share notes in the comments so I'll pin these here for you! :) don't forget to check out my shop if you haven't already: shop.lavendaire.com notes: 1. what i lack → what i have 2. what's going wrong → what's going right 3. everyday is boring / the same → find something beautiful in every day 4. i'm not where i want to be → look how far i've come 5. what i can't control → what I can control more examples: your weaknesses → your strengths where you feel limited or restricted → where you feel abundant & expansive what makes you feel small → what makes you feel tall feel free to come up with new ones of your own!

@canchanstudy5356

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 🥺 Now I'm 18, and I hope I can reach my dream✨🌱🌻

@sandyvdh6226

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you mindset shifts are a constant struggle... even as a 30+ ...its not just twenty sth who doubt theirselves...

@reannaparker5705

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, thank you for these, Aileen!! 🌼💛

@annaugcitaly

2 жыл бұрын

I have loved your video so much 💕 It is important to shift from what's going on wrong in my life to what's going right because we can develop the ability to be grateful for beautiful things in life 💖💖 togi is really gorgeous ♥️

@anupamak238

2 жыл бұрын

Aileen you make my day

How did you know i needed this???? as always this video was amazinggg love you loads

such a beautiful soul! thank you for the inspiration and the peace you bring to us

That's so true! Thanks for sharing 💗

Thankyouu for thiss videooo!!!❤❤❤❤❤

Love YOU and your content omg thanks :) It makes me feel soooo good!❤

You’re so inspirational. Thank you for your content 🥺

Loved the way you articulated and presented it 🙂

Thank you so much Aileen 🥺♥️

I love how impactful and soothing your vides are!

Thank you so much Aileen.....😀😀!This was much needed for me right now...!!!I always love your content and how it helps to make my life better...U r truly a gem...!!!☺️

Loving the vid:) change my habits and routine takes a lot of effort. Change perspective is also something that I wanted to work on! Having gratitude is very important. Writing a gratitude in journal used to be my strategy. Girl, I would need to start gratitude journaling again! Thank you for the nice summary:) ❤️❤️❤️

Thank you for creating this Aileen - I really needed it today.

Been watching your vids for so long and you still keep inspiring me/us. Thank you for this Ms. Aileen! Love love from Philippines ❤❤

Thankyou so much Lavendeire! You are heaven sent. 💜

This vedio gonna change my life ♡

Perspective is the view in which we see the world. We change our perspective and we change our whole view of the situation at hand. 🤍 From a self love content creator to another. Great video Aileen! ❤️

Thank you, I really need this at this point in life.

I needed this sooo much right now 🙏🙏🙏and i am sure i can always come back to this video whenever i am in this kind of phase🌹

Thanks so much for this one! Amazing ideas to change our own perspective! To start changing and avoiding feeling frustrated, worried, unworthy etc... it's much better to be thankful and focus on the positive!

Perfect timing! Thank you so much the video really lifted my energy 💞💞 you are amazing and so inspiring!!

Discovering your channel is a huge milestone in my mental glow up journey💜

The subject matter you chose for this video is golden. I appreciate what you do. Thank you

Thank you for this! I often feel like I perceive my life in a way and don't have control in the way I do. Like negativity becomes an automatic response.

Thanks a lot Aileen 💖🌻

Heyyyyyyyyy i’m earlyyy today you reallly changed my life and i’m soo happy that i came across you’re channel Sending you lots of loveee gurllll!!!! 🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️

This was beautifully edited 🥺💕the clips and your voice and your words… everything

Perfect video at the perfect time

Thank you very much. I personally really appreciate this.

Maybe you will see this someday ! You don't know how much support and love you and your videos have given me at my worst times since last year . I don't know how to thank you Aileen . I can just obey and follow what you tell me to do (ofc good things like loving myself , etc) and send you my loving energies to you ! Also , it was a great video!

Thank you so much for this powerful reminder.May God give us the strength to see the best in everything.

Thank you 😊

Wow.. Amazing video Aileen! Oh.. Toggy is soo cute on this. 🥰 Lots of love from Sri Lanka.. You improved me in many ways.. LYSM.. ❤️

Thank you, Aileen. 🌷 We all have our ups and downs in our lives. But we will get through them, all of us. Lavendaire has been with me for another year, showing the meaning of life. And today, you gave me the perfect video to end my day.✨For me, the simplest way to change my life is self-care. When I need immediate results, it's living at the present moment. It was said as, '' past is history, future is a mystery, the present is a gift of God ''. 🌺Still working on it, but when I need immediate relaxation and satisfaction for a happy life, I choose the gift from God.😊❤ Great vlog, hoping for more.

Thanks Aileen ❤ For the past few months, I've been stressing about the world's systemic issues. Turns out, the only way to solve those issues are *many* people (not only me) indirectly or directly helping each other to solve those issues. And the best thing that I can actually do is just do my part. Do my part in making this world better. Instead of wasting my energy over things I can't control.

I just love watching youhh...I discovered about your channel only at the beginning of this month and now I can happily say that everyone must have a person like you in their lives. Thank you so much for being the constant source of positivity and helping me living my life from feeling mundane to feeling lively..🌸♥️ Lots and lots of appreciation from India(Bihar)!✨

Your videos surely boost my confidence and make me realise that I should be proud of myself and love myself.. thank you..

I have something to download and learn again in life, thank you so much l, from Philippines.

Thank you for your video. I always feel better after listening what you're sharing. I wish all the best for you. Love from Vietnam

Your videos like this definitely motivates me and change myself to be better. It is so calming to hear your soft voice. Thank you, Lavendaire!

Thank you so much! Your videos really help me

thank you for everything ❤️

Thank u so much for that 💗

Shift your perspective. Look at the bright side is what I learn from this video. Very useful and inspiring video for a new day. Thanks.

I am getting somany signs to get out of this negative loop and change my life for better n this video is a significant sign to start. May we all can better are self n our life .love you somuch aileen our angel 🤗🥰

You are such a Priceless Therapist I got in my life , I'm very lucky to have u in my Self-love journey 😭🥺

Thaaaank uuuu eline

This is such great view points I really enjoy these videos positive energy and happy thoughts can change your life blessings in life are incredible we Don't need to be in competition with others and get a dog 🐕 it's perfect for companionship

you do not know how much i need this right now!

It's awesome thanks for helping me from the past year, this year and the year to come

I REALLY love your video! Is so motivational for me!😍

thank you for this video Aileen. iloveu

I love your videos they are so inspirational!!!

Thank you ❣️

I'm really grateful for you Ailee...because of you my life have changed and my thinking pattern also ..you are really an angel ....thank you very much and I wish you the best of your life💖

love this!

Iam using your videos as a therapy .. thank you for making me love myself even more💖

I got distracted by your dog that I didn’t pay attention to the video lol. I count my blessings all the time. But so few days I feel like I’m in a very dark side, but when I’m there and dont want to think I just snuggle with my 3 dogs and it comforts me and makes me smile…doesn’t take much. Pets are angels from heaven

I really really like this video a lottt. It's so hard for me to believe in myself coz lack of achievements,skills and so on. I don't know when I can change my perception about myself but I will keep trying it until I succes. Love ur contents a lott and keep looking forward to itt....😘😘😘❤️❤️

I just recently started to hear the lavendaire podcast and i'm almost halfway....i'm loving it..❤❤ Is there another season....it will be sad to wakeup in the morning realising i've no more podcast😪....what i'm intenting to say is....we need more podcastss too...love your content💗💗 thank you for making our life better✨❤

Absolutely Gorgeous vídeo , so much Loved it ❤ thank you ... Love from Colombia