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@CREATIVEHACKS1

4 ай бұрын

You videos are so inspiring...to people who hurts their spirtits cause of narcisist....very helpful...my parents both are narcisists.....mother is covert narcissist and father is grandiose narcissist...i have been abused for 25 years .......i leave my house in my 25 th year ....i got married on my own and now i got 2 children....i started youtubed channel Creative Hacks....now my life is happy with out them.....

A dog with mental health issues is way more easier to train than a narcissist. Dogs respond alot more easier to love and nuturing

@MissG8340

4 ай бұрын

Lol 😂 love it

@shailasagar7857

4 ай бұрын

Actually you are right 👍🏻

@fakename8856

4 ай бұрын

I love my dog more than my narcissistic twin brother who I haven’t talked to in many years.

@catalday7878

4 ай бұрын

A human dog😂🤣😂

@tonybolstad9514

3 ай бұрын

Narcissistic people don't love themselves... they cannot believe that anyone else could

Give the narcissist total and complete silence and absence, become indifferent, and live well.

I went no contact best decision ever. Very peaceful and drama free 😊. This demons get worse as they age

@mimi_elk.7614

3 ай бұрын

He didn't had any reaction?

@Diamondjane54

Ай бұрын

Its terribke how quick they are to tear apart any joyful moments. It's a maniac Big foot on steroids looking to devour any good it comes across. They never show any sign of remorse. I think it's bcz they are hollow - the narrsissiist I married has no soul. I foolishly thought I could fill his void with love. He loojed upon me as if i were some freak. He will never lie in my bed, share a meal, or a birthday. It's over. I survived.

"...It was a fire not lit by you, so don't burn yourself..." Danish nails it everytime.

The narcissist goes after the easiest prey, whether directly involved in their self destruction or not. Somehow through some remote mathematical probability- Narcissist will choose a person to attack for every stupid mistake they themselves make.

@user-rg3gh8wx2g

4 ай бұрын

Well explained

@CaroleanneWright

4 ай бұрын

Its spiritual I think. x

@flashgordo9485

4 ай бұрын

@@CaroleanneWright I always figured that if it's spiritual of these types of people to do these things, then you cannot really hate, or waste time/energy hating them for it. Much like their karma, I'm pretty certain their afterlife will make sure they pay in full for the endless discrepancies they have caused within their lifetime.

@summacumsoap8983

3 ай бұрын

... I hope you're right...

@Diamondjane54

Ай бұрын

I never thought of myself as prey at least not in my own home.

They are dangerous. Just run and never look back

Don't blame yourself if a narc feels threatened or injured...it is all in their head. And try not to mind the people who the narc convinces and turns them against you...block them from entering your space, both physically and mentally. Focus on yourself and value, reciprocate those who believe, trust, and care about you.

They get mad at you just because you are within reach, honestly. It doesn't matter if it makes sense at all, or if you have anything to do with their problems at all. They need to take it out on something or someone, so if you happen to be there, beware.

After witnessing him watching our marriage "bleed out" & him not doing anything, I'm begging & pleading for his help to save our marriage (he cheated via Facebook)! I have no feelings for him other than an annoying roommate. Right now I can't afford to leave, that's why he's my (annoying) roommate.

@deelight9963

4 ай бұрын

Wheww hope the narc dont know you NEED them for housing 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿devils lease

@deelight9963

4 ай бұрын

Makes sense ..these devils only exists off Need

@haideeanoling8458

3 ай бұрын

We are on the same page. I'm the pastor's wife of a narcissistic person. He's my antagonizing roommate. 😢

@adrianalafuente7937

3 ай бұрын

Oh wow. Thank you, I didn't think that anybody else would be in the same situation I'm in. It's so exhausting and draining, physically, mentally and spiritually. I feel like there's a kind of dense fog around my life. I can't seem to find the exit. Best of luck and again, thank you.

@annjohnson8437

2 ай бұрын

I'm in a similar situation. I'm financially stuck living with my narcissistic spouse of 30 years (who lied, cheated, and gave me an incurable STI). I moved into our spare bedroom and we live like roommates who do not like each other. It's exhausting and depressing. I am moving out as soon as I get enough money saved up.

This is why I can never be in a relationship again, when I care for someone, I only see the good, even if its not there. its what I learned growing up and through the many yrs of marriage. red flags where?

@helenlesleysmith7559

4 ай бұрын

Yes you are right I never looked at it like that. I mostly like everyone 😢

@lorrainetownsend4898

3 ай бұрын

I'm afraid to have another relationship, too. I lost my sense of trust. I enjoy my life alone - my own home, adult daughter is my housemate, and pets, friends, and a sister are my social outle

Life is full of tragedies, it's all about how you cope with your own.

If your father thought that your mother could pray and make him sick, you’d think he would treat her better. After all, she must be incredibly powerful!

“It is a fire not lit by you, so why burn yourself?” ❤❤❤

my recent narcissistic ex partner had an operation and i was in the hospital to support him. nurses did not give him pain killers for a couple of hours from surgery, they said it can damage his kidneys to take pain killers right after the narcosis. And the narcissist ACCUSED ME to have a conspiracy against him to let him suffer. He yelled at me: you are making conspiracy with the nurses behind my back to keep me in pain!!! And later he denied it. I think they are deeply paranoid because they deeply know they are evil and other people want to punish them.

I feel like I want to cry when you say 'offer your absence most of the time' . That is what I did to end the BS and ultimately relationship with my narcissistic partner and it was horrible and made me question myself and my own behaviour, but it was absolutely the right thing to do.

This makes sense why they have no or limited acknowledgement when you're sick, hurt or injured.

At my grandmothers funeral an aunt suddenly turned on me and started shouting " there now, are you happy now? It's all your fault!" I was astonished. What had I done?

@giuliabaracchi463

4 ай бұрын

Really?? She thought you killed her??

Danish you are the torch bearer for all narsicistic abuse survivors.Thank you so much.I am one such survivors along with my children.

Im fed up of thinking about the ugly spouse in any capacity. Im going 2 a party & i wont think twice about the evil i left behind. I dont drink, use drugs or need 2 jump into anyones arms. This is my life & its 2 short 2 waste another minuet thinking about the narc. Forget about it.

Gifting my absence is the best way out,helps me to survive

My Dad was also a monster towards me!

Only one month more finally I will be free from my mom's grip....she threw me out of d house and I thank God she did that...im 41 and she is 78...she shares her wealth to all her siblings except me who stay n take care of her...she left me with nothing n kick me out of d house...I'm glad she did that...God knows Best...it's a big deliverance....I can't tell how much ive suffered ...thank you Jesus...Amen

@eddygray9295

4 ай бұрын

My mom used to beat the hell out of me she's put my head through walls drag me to school by my hair put in all reality I was a little bugger when I was a teenager I think I deserved everything I got insensibly speaking if I was treated so badly by my mother she wouldn't have had to kick me out I would have moved out on my own accord when my mother passed away she left me nothing but her attitude and boy am I glad she did I have an understanding for my mother's feelings she must have went through hell I could tell by the way she treated me I honestly think she was just trying to keep me from myself and yes I was there for my mother when she was sick in dying and I don't want a medal for it I owe that to her I love my mother I miss her very much I would give anything to have her walk in my door and say Barb put the tea kettle on and pour me a cup of your Cricket piss yep I would do it all over again❤❤

@eugenemairom1887

4 ай бұрын

What I meant is I'm moving out in a rent house after this month ends.

@lorrainetownsend4898

3 ай бұрын

You have lots of experience for caring for another person. There are paying jobs out there for caretakers. You'll find something! ❤

He got beat up in a street fight. He was crying. I cried when i saw him beat up and hurt. He chased me out of the room because i was crying for him.

Its been 16 years i am going through of this now my kids are grown up and a big support for me .i just hope one day i'll get rid rid this toxic relation.i just wish....

@lauralittle6899

3 ай бұрын

​@@jbrown2908 some people can't leave. My daughter finally got out but with the help of ever 2,000 $ that my best friend gave her to go get her own apartment. Otherwise she would still be stuck there. Taking her 3 babies to a homeless shelter wasn't much better of a option for her. But luckily she got out of there !

@averyhouston8149

3 ай бұрын

The narcissist is poison. And they know if they give you that much poison they become the antidote. Now you want a hit of the dope while their being horrible.. Problem is they want another hit of you and they come back at your weakest moment of detoxing the poison. Stay strong.

I had this experience, too. We had shifted to a new home. We were unpacking and it got late at night. He wanted to eat pizza, but they weren't delivering anymore, so he went out to get it himself. He got drunk on the way and while waiting for the pizza. The park police came to investigate as it was 11ish in the night and there were no other cars in the parking. He texted me and started saying what I've been wishing for is coming true. He's going to go to jail for drunk driving. We are migrants in the US so it came to me as a shock that he's being investigated. First i thought he was joking. It was impossible to make sense of what he was saying, how he was saying. That all my prayers to god to punish him have come true. That I'm so useless i won't even be able to bail him out the next day. And that his career is finished and we'd have to go back to our country. And it was all my fault because i let him go outside at such an hour knowing that he's been drinking. That i somehow plotted for him to get caught up in police biz. In such a situation, you try to help them calm down or help them in whatever way you can. What you get in return is more blame and abuse. But if you don't keep consoling them they'll make it even worse. How i deal with such situations now is by clearly stating that we are all adults and responsible for our own actions. So whatever mess you are in you did it yourself.

Thank you for this. I thought sometimes they were sorry. But then I realized they were not. They still make me the guilty one and responsible for ALL their failures. Thank God I am at least away from them. But in my mind not really. I wish I would be free of my past, but in my mind, I can not get out after 20 years.

@donnaroberts4565

4 ай бұрын

You might try to give it back by writing out as many things that burden you from that past like a list from each person that made you feel hurt, confused, ashamed, guilty etc. then put it in a box. Gift wrap it put a ribbon on it kiss it goodbye take it outside... AND SET IT ON FIRE !!! 🎁🔥

Thank you again my ex girlfriend of 9 years did exactly the same it’s been 5 years I’m still getting almost completely over it, long term effects

It was a fire Not lit by You !! So why burn yourself...?!!!! Awesomest Statement I Ever heard !!! ☺️ 💖💖💖 Thank You!!!

My late mother-in-law beat up the kids inside the compound for no reason. Now, I finally discovered that she was a narcissist. It must be genetic because my sister-in-law also exhibit a narcissistic personality style. I've been suffering since I married my narcissistic husband in 2013.Thats why, I "seminar" myself by watching Doc Ramani and Danish videos. 😢😢 😢😢😢😢😢By a struggling Filipino mom of an autistic child here in Houston, Texas.

You are right Danish. I have seen it. It’s incredible but true. Aging and ill narcissists are not a pretty sight to see.

It takes a two-third of life time to understand the realities and truths after living with your narcissist father and to arrive at a solution of "IGNORING", which is difficult to practice when your facing the narcissist father during your early days. By the time you understand the reality the damage is done and the victim lives with a destructive psyche for the rest of his life. There is not a complete recovery out of it, you struggle through the rest of your life. This is my experience. I greatly appreciate your dedication to educate the world Danish Bashir. Keep going.

@summacumsoap8983

3 ай бұрын

I've never heard my situation explained/described so completely. At this point in my life one would think that I should be "healed" after all the education, $$, time, sweat and tears spent in seeking answers. Watching these videos and others, I always feel I have somehow missed the boat. It's good to have validation that I indeed have come far; just need to continue to learn and forgive myself for not reaching complete wellness. Thanks for your insightful comment 🕊️

@LoveBeliefTruth

3 ай бұрын

I hear you! Although I have understood ages ago what's going on in my parental family, I still suffer from the symptoms - the worst is freeze! I cannot act like I want to in life 😢 Or I COULDN'T! At this point of life not much possibilities anymore unfortunatelly.

What ever you have shared here is the same happening with me,n now i m planning and trying to get rid of my narcissist husband ,day by day he is becoming worst

I truly feel bad for my ex. Under the grip of a highly narcissistic family, then resented me for being a good person. Couldn't let it go and even admitted it several times. Pained me to have to be like, well then you gotta pick a side. She clearly chose them and i clearly left and it was heartbreaking. After I was out of the picture, she instantly reverted back to how they acted and it made me realize how much time and energy I spent trying to keep her on the rails and how much time and energy she was spending trying to overcome it. So in the end, I was trying to help a narcissist (who I truly believe knew it and wanted to change but couldn't) while also fighting off a family of flagrant narcissists who didn't care.

Yesterday, I copped an extremely aggressive and abusive text message from a woman I thought was my friend, but turned out to be a narcissist in disguise. I politely, but firmly told her that I am no longer willing to do any more favours for her, as I only hear from her when she needs something. I had previously done some favours for her, only to have her disappear afterwards, and re-appear when she needs something from me. She proceeded to tell me that I was being rude, and swearing at me. And then she tells ME that my social skills need work, even thougb I never called her names and nor did I swear at her

@tuffguydoe7937

4 ай бұрын

After cutting off friend for not returning favors/money I told myself "good friends call and say hi not help"

@christinelee4780

4 ай бұрын

@@tuffguydoe7937 Don't worry. I blocked her right after I sent my reply. But I am still disappointed that she behaved like that

Danish we live in parallel experiences 😢 You literally read my mind all of this happened to me It’s not nice and not fair it’s so hard to stay strong 😮

@MissG8340

4 ай бұрын

@@jbrown2908 so very very kind of you to say that, As narc survivors we are programmed to believe we are not strong and any existence is due to the to narc and not cos of our strength. Every day I’m trying to improve and become stronger. Narcs take away your confidence and that’s so key to everything But thank you for saying what you did and choosing to reply to me and say such kind words xxx

@MissG8340

4 ай бұрын

@@jbrown2908 I appreciate your truth as I need to start absorbing the positivity around me as my narc father had drained all the life and soul out of me before.. so thank you j brown

The smirk doesn’t lie 🫣 evil 👿

I always gave my x and my family the best care possible and it was always expected without any appreciation or not authentically appreciated.

I knew all the time that my narcissistic mother and father will treat me like sh.. t if I looked after them towards their end. So I left them to their golden child ( my spoilt brother) who really gave them hell and even drove them to their grave. I watched from a safe distance abroad. Phew!

Thank you for sharing your experiences about narcissistic behaviors and thoughts. Just recently I discovered my mother is a narcissist and I am a victim of maternal narcissism. She was hospitalized for heart and lung disease last year and I was right by her side day and night to assist in any way possible. Once she released from the hospital she refused to learn how or when to take her meds she even sent back vital equipment to help her breathe. Now a year later she has been hospitalized, which I warned her who happened. This time around she refuses to eat or get out of the bed. She has been medically cleared twice to go into rehab but instead of eating to build her strength she continues to starve herself and now she has kidney infection! It appears that she wants to make herself sicker so she can hospital for everyone can feel sorry for her.

He told me that I’m the one to blame for his adult children not liking him. When he was hospitalized he actually counted the times I and the children came to see him. When he was never there for any of us. He also did say that we only want his money. As he ages,, he gets more delusional and believes his lies.

I've been no contact for almost a year, and I'm healing! No more yelling at me for no reason. No more crazy making when I ask a valid question. If people can't respect my boundaries, now I don't speak to them again. I've lost too much to even worry about my image in their eyes. Let them say what they want. I won't be there to hear it. It was always my fault anyway, according to them. Even though it was rarely my fault. Freedom is ringing for me, and if you leave them, for you too. :)

We can overcome difficult situations we just gotta be willing to try

my parents were violent as well, I would miss a lot school because of the marks on my body, but the worst was, I was not allowed to celebrate my birthday, it was the worst day of my fathers life, My father already had three daughters, when I was born, my parents had four daughters, they wanted a son so badly. and I was not that. my parents are gone now, but I was the one who took care of them in the end. not my sisters.

@shihtzuluvrtwo6386

4 ай бұрын

Wow. My mother told me she tried to abort me because my dad didn't want me. Was a total lie. He was great she a monster!

@deelight9963

4 ай бұрын

Empaths ❤❤❤❤❤❤ that's why God want us here ...I'm taking care after being the most abandoned also

Exactly!!💯 This is my life story too! The story of The Lion King tells this story!! That same narcissistic spirit has followed me my whole life. I still stand firm in my faith and still chose to love others. Real people eventually see the situation and walk in love with me! Many blessings to you Danish!

I remember one of the things that stood out about the narcs I had been with in the past was how the relationship started with him telling me a sob story of a previous relationship where he was the helpless victim. And as a result, that was why he is like he is toward women. 🙄 It's a total setup for you to do everything you can for them and be the best supply. Then once they've got you hooked in their trauma bond, the abuse begins!! It's so insidious too!!! Thank you for your videos, and allowing us a safe place to tell our experiences!!!

Now I see how dangerously I lived with a malignant collapsed Narcisist/ psicopat

Thank you. Your best video yet.

One of my friend and cousin are narcs...they are abusive and belittle me...but now everytime they see me their heads are down and angry but they cannot look me in the eyes..like they are scared...i guess they are failed to destroy me..

Danish, can you have more meetings this year? I was not able to make it this month, but I really want to support. I am thankful for your content and your help. Thank you - hoping for the best!

Great video, Thank you for sharing your story with us. Peace, Blessings. ❤

Thank you! 🙏 Greetings from Sweden 🇸🇪

I like your explanations. The unbelievable !! incapability to see themselves.

You are amazing....You help me so much...Thank you.

This was a really powerful one, Danish. Very impactful. Thank you

Feeling validated Danish...thanku sooo much

💯great video i can relate.

Yes, it is exactly so.

Great one! Thank you- my brother is the narcissist😢!

That helps me so much. I have known beyond a shadow of doubt that I definitely was dealing with a narcissist. But there were certain events I couldn't comprehend or explain even after all I learned about narcissism. Like he'd stump his toe or bite his tongue and it was my fault. This just helped me make sense out of all his nonsense. Thanks Danish!!❤

Gosh Danish, I'm so sorry you were put in that situation. How terrifying to be stuck like that. My heart really goes out to you. 😢

Hi Danish, Surrounded most of my life by Narcissists or those with very prominent traits. Have finally gone no contact with Mother-in-law. She is 93yrs and has Dementia and looking back this has been obvious for a number of years, her basic character is the same. After historical insults being flung at me on steroids, my husband and I have upted the service provider care and he is is now sharing duties with our two sons and a nephew. The whole situation has affected my health and I now have shingles but 'The no contact' is best. I still support my husband and family, with a better strategy all round. Nothing and no one is ever good enough, that will never change but with the illness, this has increased at least by 70%.

You pop up everytime I open youtube 😮

Thank you. I now feel validated. I've done & felt exactly the same as you've mentioned Danish. I've been married for 40 yrs and only for the past one year I've started ignoring him & finally started living my life on my terms. Of course I do run the house, prepare his meals & some basic things, then disappear even while in the same house. I've even stopped going out with him for any family functions or shopping. Even days go by without looking at his forever depressed face. Ignore = peace and freedom.

My narc mother 97 is getting worse every day I am now getting the silent treatment.

My goodness.. This is sooo true! My mother played this game times and times.. I could never understand the point of it... Pure madness.

Wow huge Projection on Farhers part. 😮

Oh yes they're injured when all's well, perish the thought they're having a bad day and you're not up to playing a fiddle 🎻 nor drying their tears, you'll pay gravely for that later on...

100% correct I have experienced this horrible situation when my narc husband in the hospital

This helped me understand i was not at fault... which he used to blame me. We used to have family friends , 3 couples and we used to play poker on weekends with them. One day my husb accidently or wantedly hided a poker coin during a game with them and one friend pointed it out and the narc got raged and shouted and cut off friendship with them. I was in no way involved in that case. Narc husband for a month he accused me saying ' you are the one reason for cutting off with them. You are jealous of them, you never was friendly with them etc. Everytime he missed them or felt yay happened, he used to belittle me, blame me, and judge me. While he pretended that me and the friends were mean to him

Thanks

True massage my husband was always blaming me for all fault he does.iam became sick still blaming me .fed up even his family members.

Danish , I hope that you 🙂 are well and this change in season isn't going to mess with your immune system and push it to an uncomfortable position , Look After You 🥰 Danish 🙂 Kind regards Bianca

Thank you for pointing this ❤❤❤-Xclusyph Icon

What about when they “fake” that they are sick. Especially right when your going on a happy trip, or have something fun to celebrate without them. To me it felt like ruining everything. I offered to help … no, I’m fine several times, and of coarse, that poor narcissist could not send me or share in the happiness I was feeling on that trip, which at this point he should have felt better from his cold or flu by then… I think after the third time this happened (a flu he had in 8 months, 3 times, that poor narcissist ) this is when my hair started falling out chronically

My mom is a baby trapped inside an elderly body 😅

100% True. My narc bro blew his entire wealth to ano narc bro. 6/7 $Ms bec. He did not listen to me to avoid being conned. Then over some trivial issue he said to me that He'll lose everything and he'll never forgive me. I told him if he'd listen to me he'd be a King today. Why blame me for it. ?

Yes

He sounds like my ex husband. They’re just evil and crazy. Who says that? A narcissist !!!!

My narssitic wife did the same to me ,revenge is calling every body and slandering me

agreed.

It’s like my life story

Omg Danish,it feels like my mum's behavior after loosing her image in public after she was discovered from my father that she was cheating him for more that 10 yrs with the same man,she become so cold to me and my sister and was blaming us for not telling it wasnt true (and that was impossible after all proofs he had ).

They will make you the scapegoat when you had nothing to do with whatever mess is going on in their life.

True

Hi Danish, I folloow all your youtube posts. I was married to one and even went out with one afterwords. It got so worse that I one day wrote on paper, one side the positive points and on the otherside the negatives, because I knew something was not normal. That was just before I made the decition to devorce him. He came accross the list and was very upset about it and asked what is this? I told him someone said I must make a list of his mannerisms. If the post is less that the neg, leave him. His postive traits were 5 and his neg was 37. His reaction was "this cannot be me". I warned him 3 times that I am going to devorce him and he laughted in my face. When he got the devorce papers, he sat crying at the table. I just ignored it and went ahead. It was`nt easy, but the best decition ever !!

That aggressive wolf comes out when someone has been messed with too much… they’re at their wits end… you need to address the pain. Not guilt trip them for being angry

Any time the economy is in a steep downturn it always brings out the worst in the insecure. I saw an attack ad opinion piece aimed at Chrystia Freedland yesterday. At the end of that opinion piece she said, "Why don't you go home and read a book while spending more time with your children? My guess is that opinion piece writer was only wanting in secret to be the 'real woman' at home instead. As if all of us were not already regardless if we work outside the home or if we are home makers. What if I had to be receptionist in an office like hers? Or in the other one fielding calls towards Trudeau instead? Danish now after going to the school of hard knocks we are supposed to have superpowers to cope with that sort of thng. No thank you. I am not cut out for politics. Maybe you are though. Like Christia Freedland.

Does a narc depend on others for survival or take away others money.

Sometimes I feel like I am a narcissist after making decision that present me as mean. I also have a micromanaging problem. Is there anyway I can confirm if this is true I am 16, my parents do not believe in thing like being narcissistic

I wonder if you can have both be a narcissist or have narcissistic characteristics and also have another side that is very loving, kind and empathetic, but then other traits that when they get into the other side, I called the evil side become stubborn difficult selfish. Will do anything to get what they want, and all the other narcissist characteristics. my daughter is both and when she’s in her narcissist, side and bad things happen to her wherever like at school, something happens and she’s hurt emotionally mentally in someway she comes home and acts like I’m the one that did it to her and rages, and takes it out on me no matter what happens if she fails at school she blames it on me I’m a soft target and I have talked with her all through her life and helped her, anything that goes wrong in her life is my fault, even when the proof or the evidence completely says, otherwise, it shows that it was her that did it to herself, for instance, she’s 17 years old and last night I was making her bed late at night because she wants me to make her bed. She does not like to do it so I agreed to do it for her but yet she won’t let me do it till it’s late in the night knowing that I have to get up in the morning and go to work so I was making her bed. I’ve tried to get her to make it herself for so long, I accidentally spilled juice on the floor. I kicked it over her room was a mess. Everything was everywhere and I couldn’t even see the glass of juice. I was tired and I was just trying to get the task done so I could move on and do what I normally need to do for my routine, once that happens, she snapped, blamed it on me was raging. Got violent was throwing things at me. She’ll break my door down I’ll hide on the other side sitting against it. The dogs are scared no matter what happens in her life she will not take responsibility for the fact that her room was a mess. She does not see how she caused the whole thing how she forces me to do things late at night knowing I need to go to bed, it’s completely manipulative and twisting the way she does it that’s just one example, she will harass me till she gets what she wants. She won’t do any task. If she doesn’t like to do it, she will try to get me to do anything no matter what, and she harasses me late at night because she knows that’s the most difficult part for me when I’m really really tired I need to go to bed, no matter what happens in her life if she chose not to go to school because she didn’t like classes she won’t do anything that she doesn’t like then she says it’s all because of me. Blames it all on me no matter how hard I try to get her to go to school no matter how hard I try to support Her, she rages at me for everything

Can a narcissist be cured in therapy?

@lauralittle6899

3 ай бұрын

Not usually because they do not feel there is anything wrong with them and if they do agree to therapy it's usually done only to manipulate somebody sadly!

They are very over the top and very extra because they need the attention, and victim validation

No. My dogs were always better than a narcissist. They don’t come to bite the one that they love bc they know it was an accident. The narcissist can’t deduce it with this clarity.

I stepped on my dogs paws before they don’t try to bite you for that… my dog knows I love him because of all the love I give him. If he bites you for accidentally stepping on him it’s probably because he’s very insecure about your connection with him. Which makes me wonder, are you a narcissist?

@lauralittle6899

3 ай бұрын

Lol he for sure is not a narcissist. Lol he was using that as a example .❤😊

My husband want me to admit either I m schizophrenic or prostitute if I oppose him or try to tell him heis wrong he became violent

Danish have you met my mum!?

You do realise that these people arent always narcs? Sometimes theyre BPD or some other personality disordered individual/combo. Many pw BPD can have narc traits or a combined diagnosis. For that matter, even regular people can have a few narc traits at various times. Full blown narcissim needs proper diagnosis via a psychiatrist. Prefer Sam Vaknins very in depth differentiations.

@lauralittle6899

3 ай бұрын

Yes and some people just have very pronounced narcicissim traits with out actually being a narcissist or having any specific disorder. I always remember this saying, just because someone is acting narcissistic does not always mean they are a narcissist. Lol

@lauralittle6899

3 ай бұрын

Yes and some people just have very pronounced narcicissim traits with out actually being a narcissist or having any specific disorder. I always remember this saying, just because someone is acting narcissistic does not always mean they are a narcissist. Lol

@oklahomaisok

3 ай бұрын

A psychologist told me that borderline personality disorder was just a “trashcan” diagnosis for when they can’t figure out what the problem is. My sister was diagnosed initially with such because she was so destructive. I believe she is a hardcore narcissist. She doesn’t take responsibility for her action and projects everything onto others. She’s either a victim or hero in every story she tells.

Is it possible to help a narcissist and keep them from self destructing?

@ellensunden2778

4 ай бұрын

No. If you try, the narcissist will destroy you. They are a lost cause.

@yuu_miran

4 ай бұрын

You cant help someone who doesnt want to get help. And who is not able to see their problem. If only thing you can do for that person is pray from a distance. Or in close proximity if you feel like you can handle it.

@s.9806

4 ай бұрын

Don’t even try! They will use your empathie as supply and drain you totally empty!

@sarahgilmore9990

4 ай бұрын

As hard as it may be, think about yourself. Toxic hope does no good when they can't live like a true human. Jesus even instructs to ignore, call them out or simply walk away. Preserve self and help those who are actually deserving. You cannot be a savior for a narcissist. Beware!

What if the source is GOD Almighty himself? Hallelujah