The Price Of Winning & Why It's Worth It: Truth About Kobe Bryant & Michael Jordan | Tim Grover
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As you reflect on your business, career, and personal life; where are you winning, and where have you been losing lately? Whether you choose to see the pursuit of success and greatness as a game or not, the reality is there is a cost to play. In this episode, I’m joined by the legendary and iconic trainer, Tim Grover. He authored one of my favorite books, Relentless, and is releasing another book that will change your life called, Winning. He redefines winning in a way that embraces the discomfort of sitting with your losses. If you’re in it to win it, the hard truths Tim drops here about embracing the dark side and making sure your mind is stronger than your feelings will leave you supercharged and ready to attack winning with a new perspective.
Order Tim Grover’s newest book, Winning: The Unforgiving Race to Greatness: www.amazon.com/Winning-Unforg...
SHOW NOTES:
Winning | Tim dispels what winning is and why you need to know how to lose to win [2:09]
Seeing Inside | Tim on looking internally for the truth stopping your wins [6:07]
Winning Flaws | Tim reveals the difference between flaws and weaknesses [7:27]
Weakness | Tim on how to leverage and identify your weaknesses to get better [10:38]
The Process | Time on why the process is not about emotion, it’s about getting it done [14:41]
Pursue the Win | Tim on why not pursuing or seeing the wins every day is an illness [19:49]
Confidence | Tim breaks down how winning plays a role in increasing confidence [23:43]
Dark Side | Tim explains how using every tool available includes using the dark side [30:54]
Fear of Success | Tim on what happens when your feelings are stronger than your mind [42:02]
Cost of Great | Tim reveals the pain that playing to win can cost you and loved ones [45:45]
Becoming Great | Tim’s tips for finding your own path to winning and trusting yourself [51:45]
QUOTES:
Winning is not about the trophy and the accolades. It's about the grind. It's about the obstacles. It's about the challenges. It's about the pain that you endure along the way. “ [2:10]
“Everybody wants to win, but in order to know how to win, you got to know how to lose because you're going to lose more than you're going to win.” [3:40]
“Your flaws are your gift and people are so busy trying to deal with their flaws and change their flaws when their flaws are actually what allows them to stay in that race.” [7:46]
“These are the things that allow me to be different. It's what allows me to be unique because winning wants you to be different.” [9:22]
“You got to love the process. I agree with that, but I also kind of disagree with that because to me, you have to do the process. The process is non-negotiable.” [14:46]
“The process is a non-negotiable thing. The end result is not always there. That win isn't always there” [15:42]
“...if a new day starts in the dark, why are you afraid to use your dark side for your new beginnings?” [33:26]
“Your mind will make a decision. [....] Your feelings always make suggestions.” [44:39]
“You have too many individuals out there that are not writing their own story. They're letting other people write those stories for them.” [50:30]
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What area of your life are you trying to be the Kobe Bryant or the Michael Jordan of? What are you going to take from Tim Grover's insights to make that happen?
@mjjumps
3 жыл бұрын
Every area. Specifically my personal discipline with money, diet, and also my performance at the job.
@AndrisMerkulovs
3 жыл бұрын
Process
@tj604
3 жыл бұрын
When you said "If someone attacked someone you love, are you going to tap into the light or dark energy?" And yall went into the benefits of controlled rage 💎💎 first instinct in most of us is to go into the dark side and attack back.
@ujjawalmodi7989
3 жыл бұрын
His encouraging speech only concerns with people who belong to some kind of sport profession which requires winning strategies which he explained intelligently. Thanks for bringing him on your show... Yet, i would request you to help us with someone who could praise ideas related to strategies for common man related to their conducting of daily lives...Every common man is not in the race of winning.
@kalkieshwar6902
3 жыл бұрын
Well for most of us, education is the arena of battle. As a student what is the mindset I must acquire to learn to the best of my abilities and retain the information for a long time? Unfortunately I am able to find only a few guidelines in the show which I am able to apply in the educational sphere of my life. Could you help me? Thank you
“Confidence is the ultimate drug...and Winning is the dealer. “ Love it!
@blackmirror9999
2 жыл бұрын
LOVE IT
"Winning requires you to be different." "The process is nonnegotiable. "
_“All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them.”_ ~ Walt Disney
Tim Grover's book-Relentless is not for the faint of hearts. No bullshitting. It gave me a glimpse into the minds of legends like Michael Jordan, Late Kobe Bryant, Dwyane Wade. Thanks for inviting him Tom.
@MindNow
3 жыл бұрын
What’s the best advice u got from the book?
@yeawhatever3622
3 жыл бұрын
@@MindNow "There'll never be another Michael Jordan, and Kobe and Dwayne will be the first to tell you that".. it reminded me to be yourself while developing a relentless mentality, not to be like someone else
@MindNow
3 жыл бұрын
@@yeawhatever3622 very well said. When I was younger I always wanted to be like someone else and as a result, I actually injured my vocal cords...It's a lesson, but now I fully embrace who I am
@futureyouths
2 жыл бұрын
They r not legends. They are 'Icons' " - Tim Grover
@jaysteve4442
2 жыл бұрын
Feels like this is a cut & paste from an Amazon review on his book 🤨
"A new day begins at midnight."
@manziczar3226
2 жыл бұрын
Any new day begins with the darkness
“I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed.” - Michael Jordan
*Growth and change is painful, but nothing is painful as being stuck where you don't belong.* Love from a small youtuber 🖤
@NathanaelMorton
3 жыл бұрын
Keep going with your channel bro. Subscribed 💪🏼
@mohammedobeid7643
3 жыл бұрын
You have a good channel! Saved some of your vids for Watch Later!
@Orgizo08
2 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾
Winning is seeing the little improvements each and every day when you put in the work to get to greatness
@JeanPetipape
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@johnodland8320
3 жыл бұрын
Love the heart of this man
@jonathanm9793
3 жыл бұрын
“The process is non-negotiable.”
@jacktheartcreator
3 жыл бұрын
100%
@Orgizo08
2 жыл бұрын
That’s what it’s about! Forget about the massive goal. Just focus on the little goals in between. It builds confidence and you get stronger 💪🏾
“Leaders can let you fail and yet not let you be a failure.” Have a good day everyone
Don't think I've clicked a video faster than this. Knowing the work MJ and Kobe put in, there's bound to be some incredible insight here
@Zill10
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly my thought. Hope you get what you need.
@PracticalInspiration
3 жыл бұрын
@@Zill10 thanks, you too!
@kennymeadows2688
3 жыл бұрын
Same for me
I love “ you don’t have to love the process, you have to do it”
As much as a boss as he is, he is not afraid of being emotional or getting choked up. It’s because he puts his heart and soul into everything he does. That’s a winner.
@vitaliscalixtrato
Жыл бұрын
IT'S THE PASSION THAT'S DEEP INSIDE OF HIM.
@LegendaryRob
Жыл бұрын
@@vitaliscalixtrato 💯
@vitaliscalixtrato
Жыл бұрын
TO PRODUCE GREATNESS, YOU NEED PASSIONATE PEOPLE & THEY FIT UNDER THE CSTEGORY OF CLEANERS.
Tom, all your videos are mental nourishment... listened to you for 5 years now. Keep it going!
@SamMartinPeakPerformance
3 жыл бұрын
Mental nourishment - love that!
@MotivationalStormvideos
3 жыл бұрын
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Min @33:20 - mind blowing!!! “The new day starts at midnight, when it’s dark”
My husband worked for his family and he is a very nice guy, very simple, seemed very down to earth.
The process is neutral. It's non-negotiable. It just has to be done. 🔥
@dushyantsingh2067
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely We give way too much importance to our feelings Once we decide what to do, we must stick by it no matter what
Did it strike anyone how calm Tim spoke. This is a man that coached, trianed, conditioned and lead men to their greatness... his patient and calm manner of speaking really stood out. So many takes form this. As usual @tombilyeu excellent content.
@Numantino312
3 жыл бұрын
calm indeed. gotta say i would not i'd want to piss him off tho.
@marvinclark8964
Жыл бұрын
Great observation Vanisia
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20:00 To his point I totally agree. When others would tell me I was too militant or too serious about how I believed I should go about my life, I stayed in a depression that was difficult to get out of, not realizing I had internalized those words and I allowed them to make me weak. What was "militant" was discipline and what was "too serious" was focus.
winning is a language that only people with growth mindset can understand. humble or be humbled by life.
The more challenges you overcome the better you get at it. It is like progressive overload in lifting weights. The same pattern applies everywhere!
@MindNow
3 жыл бұрын
Very well said brotherhood! 🙏❤️
I have never shed tears listening to any podcast this episode put an end to that streak (Tim Grover blew me away)
Tim G; The reason I know how to win is coz I have lost a lot. People say when u have lost, u have to jump right back in. I disagree. Stay down there for a minute, an hour, a day, a week. When I stood up, I was different, I was smarter. The unforgiving part of winning is the losing.
42:12 That's the definition of: "Pay'in the prize" It's not literally a prize, it's much more than that I know how it feels But if u >REALLY Don't wait to be ready for that, u never be Can't priorize everything JUMP to the next LVL...
3:30 made me cry. “ the reason I know so much about winning is because I’ve had to deal with so much loosing”. Mistakes, past regrets all of that can just be used to learn important lessons that make you different. WOW ❤️🙏🏽✨
@Numantino312
3 жыл бұрын
nothing have that loss-burn seared into your psyche. brings about a good strong "oh hell fucking no" that sticks with you for life. where you'll never dork about on that again.
@jusdhaliwal8602
3 жыл бұрын
@@Numantino312 YES !!!
Never forget that anything is possible. We live in an infinite Universe with limitless possibilities ✨🕊
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3 жыл бұрын
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@thalessilva1
3 жыл бұрын
And i believe it's possible to date a girl like you 😏👍
@colinb8332
3 жыл бұрын
@@thalessilva1 stop.
Winning is having justice, being in a state of abundance. Winning validates having success.
46:15. Man... What an incredible shift in the interview. The silence in the room is almost cinematic.
@Job.Well.Done_01
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it was a wonderful moment in the interview. Very touching !
"If I eat less will you be home more" goddamn that hurt geez .____.
@qmakesithappen
3 жыл бұрын
I cried like a baby when he said that
@igorivanovic4784
3 жыл бұрын
@@qmakesithappen yes but pattrick from vaulentainment said the same story .. So who is lying?
@qmakesithappen
3 жыл бұрын
@@igorivanovic4784 that's a good question, I'm not sure but people quote others often. What interview did Pat say that? Regardless who said it it pulled my heartstrings.
@EzMoney23x
3 жыл бұрын
@@igorivanovic4784 I thought the same thing at first to but Pat actually quoted his book
This guy is a legend. Always great to hear from the people behind the top performers in the world
This guy has an extremely off the charts IQ on winning and being a champion.. I see its not a coincidence his clients have so many championships. They simply understand the nature on a level that most people don't. 🏆
"If I eat less, would you stay at home more?" Crazy quote, that quote is where the path really splits on how bad do you want it.
@milcky16
3 жыл бұрын
To me it comes down to values. What do you value more.. I would always choose my child over personal gains. Maybe that's a flaw, good I don't have children so won't find out xD
Tom, I’ve seen dozens and dozens of your interviews and there are ones that are simply majestic but this one is a piece of art. Totally opened and change my view on winning Thank you
@MotivationalStormvideos
3 жыл бұрын
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Money doesn't go to people who need it. It goes to people who can multiply it :-)
@Numantino312
3 жыл бұрын
quote i heard not too long ago "money goes where it's treated best"
I was lucky enough to meet Coach Grover in 2015 at an intimate conference in Atlanta. One of the greatest mindset coaches in the world. No bullshit, just real talk kind of a guy.
16 min gems over and over dropping
This guy is the mirror of greatness.
Tim Grover opened my eyes to many things in 'Relentless' and 'Winning'. He is my go-to guy for a motivation mindset.
Grover is the “If Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant had a baby” of trainers. True greatness and inspirational!
Discipline and Dedication are the Foundation, the Soil and Framework of Success
Iam just reading relentless now.... It's so breath taking
So in love with this interview. It reminds me David Goggin's process. Thank you Tom🙏
@sandrahodges9625
2 жыл бұрын
Tell me more about David Goggin's process...please..
Tim G; when does a new day begin? At midnight. Is it dark or light? Dark. So if a new day starts in the dark, why are u afraid to use your dark side for your new beginnings. Tom; wow!
Relentless is one of my favorite books ! He is the baddest of badasses !
The way he explains and puts things into his own words resonates with me in so many ways.
"Winning is everything"
"Why are you afraid to use your dark sides for your new beginnings?" => Mic drop moment.
@MotivationalStormvideos
3 жыл бұрын
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OMG!! First Ed, now Tom!!! Thank you for bringing Tim back!!! He's beyond the beast!!
I’ve listened to his book Relentless several times after being introduced to him here, it pumps me up and focuses me… but this interview really resonates with me… taking the emotion out of the process is where I’ve learned to live, it’s harder, but it’s made me harder. I really appreciate this one. It’s the depth, not the muscle or the grind.
Winning is everything. Nothing encapsulates Kobe and Tim more than that. Unreal amounts of value from this interview!
That part about winning section hit me so hard
Dear Tom, I am deeply grateful for this presentation on the 77th Anniversary of D-Day. I was deeply challenged and in fear as I prayed for help this morning. My prayers have been answered with the instructions and insights I will take from your interview. God Bless your Impact Theory Team and You from the West of Ireland. Dermot JM
Determination, commitment and discipline enable you to overcome any obstacle, reach any goal, and fulfill any dream. 👍🏽💪🏽🔥
@MindNow
3 жыл бұрын
Hell to the freaking yeah! 🔥
This Episode is one of the best i have ever watched. Thank you Tom 🙏🏽💯
Andy frisella recommended relentless as must read book. That's how I found this interview. Tim is legend. So much respect for the guy
Thank you Tom, you are litteraly THE best. I CAN'T get enough of your shared perspectives.
Thank you thank you thank you, Tom for this upload. What you do is life changing for many. Thank you. ✊🏾
I felt what Tim felt when he was packing. Damn. It never gets realer than that.
i don't know why this episode has so much low viewer.... Tim is Thee GOAT
Thanks for this. RIP Kobe.
Don't rush to get back up. Stay down for a minute. and learn why and how you got down there first, before getting up. Wow.
From every little win comes a little more confidence! The feeling is incredible. If humans can understand what a “win” looks like we could definitely understand the “illness” as well. Thank you Tom for inviting Tim Grover. We need more conversations like this. 💯
This was more than just the interview. To me this was the therapeutic interview I needed to watch. Thank you guys.
@MotivationalStormvideos
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Phenomenally loaded discussion. Thank you Mr. Grover for the transformational vulnerability you displayed, sir.💯
I just finished watching this interview and I immediately wanted to rewatch it!❤️ So many gems!
Excellent stuff! Thank you. There's a proverb 13:12 which says: Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but desire fulfilled is a tree of life.
wowzer, the story he shared about his daughter. thanks for sharing this tom!
Thank you so much Tom, you’re the best . Wonderful interview 🙏!!
Thanks Tom! Great episode. Winning takes doing the things others won't. That's great!
POWERFUL!!! Thank you and Mr. Grover.
I’m slowing but surely learning the important lessons from Tim Grover’s teachings of winning. A inside preview of the mindset I need to have in order to achieve long term success and greatness in my life!
This has been the most inspiring talk I have seen in a very long time. It's just what I needed to hear. I had literally forgotten how much I like to win because it's been a while. The inner 🔥 is stoked and I know who I need to be and what I need to do. Thank you 🙏
Winning is everything
this is the most powerful interview EVER made. unreal. best. hands down.
Tim Grover keeps blowing my mind, i am out of words
Tom, this is by far the best interview you have done! Incredible!!❤
He is a LEGEND!
Fantastic Episode, this is the best SHOW in the world. Thank you for doing this Tom, one day we'll meet and I'll tell you this myself
So many nuggets to take from this interview to think about an apply to your life
Thank you so much for this !! Amazing interview!
This is great. One of my favorites. Thanks to both of you .
Love your book so much Mr. Grover! THANK YOU!
Great interview. I've read both Relentless and Winning plus I'm a huge fan of both MJ and Kobe due to their work ethics. I've always loved the "take no s$#%" approach to success! What Tim said about sitting in your failure was so on point💯 as well
wow just WOW! Thank you Tim and Tom, this was amazing!
What a man! Never heard of this dude before. That part when he talked about his daughter about missing him must have provided the storyline in Adam Sandlers film I watched just last night "Hustle". Love from South London all. Let's all be legendary 🙌
So powerful, thank you for this gift!
I was looking forward to this episode been dreaming about it been following Tim Grover for a while one of the best human beings on this earth thank you so much for your amazing work looking forward to David goggins second book keep up the amazing work the world's a better place because of you both Tom and tim grover.😁👍🏽🙏🏽💪🏾💯
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Amazing interview..thank you Tom as always for such insightful questions
Gotta watch this to get back to the roots
Very touching and insightful interview!! Loved it!!! Thanks a lot!!
Wow. WOW. WOW. The travel story with his daughter. Wow- such vulnerability, bravery and personal leadership- just Wow
I am so intrigued by this interview! It is causing me to rethink what it means to be a nice person…a good person…how I have been limiting myself by not allowing myself to operate in “controlled rage”. I’m going to take a good look in the mirror. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
"If you thinking that winning cost a lot! Wait until you get a bill from regret"
Powerful podcast! Thank you!!! God bless!!
First 30 seconds, feeling chills already.
There's always a FEAR but you never have any DOUBT to get the result you want! POWERFUL So much wisdom words, as always, Tom, an hour of your show is always filled with great nuggets. My KZread channel only has 6 zeros less than yours, but I'll take this SECRET: I will NOT QUIT!
thank you tim! your messages mean a lot to champions
putting in the work and to see yielding the results of all your efforts hits dopamine...and goes on
Ahhhhhhh! I am beyond excited!!!! RELENTLESSSSSSS is the book!