Honestly, even if you two just talked nonsense the entire episode, I would still watch because your relationship is a potent and beautiful message in itself. ❤ Much love and prayer to you both.

@markjamieson5962

Жыл бұрын

Lol I was joking with them on there last video,saying ill return the favour of them helping me on my journey by mowing there lawn for them when wee get to heavan 🤣 god bless Kate s 😁

@melissadejesus4958

Жыл бұрын

Hehe thank you both ❤ 😊

@katiesanders96

Жыл бұрын

@@markjamieson5962 Oh, I misunderstood your initial comment. 😂 I thought you were saying that Mark is going to be mowing our lawns in heaven, and I’m like, “We dump all our problems on him now, and he’ll still be serving us in heaven?! Doesn’t the poor guy get a rest?” 🤣 Then I saw your name is also Mark.

@katiesanders96

Жыл бұрын

@@melissadejesus4958 You’re most welcome, sister. Lovely to interact with you. 🤗

I relate to Melissa so much I just want to thank her for sharing these things because I feel like I am not alone and it encourages me so much! Because she is healing and so gracefully explaining these things and it shows me that I too can heal. And I too am a mother of a son with Autism. I just started having him look at himself in the mirror (he struggles with eye contact) and saying "I am a man of God and I am loved and God made me for a purpose" already he knows when I ask him... " Camden what are you?" He repeats it word for word!!! Thank you for all you do from the bottom of my heart ❤️

@katiesanders96

Жыл бұрын

What a sweet interaction with your son!! ❤️💙

@sprintp739

Жыл бұрын

I get a lot out of hearing Meissa talk also, and then I get a lot out of what Mark says back to her.

@katiesanders96

Жыл бұрын

@@sprintp739 Absolutely. They each have so much unique richness to share. ❤️

I love when Melissa comes on shared her heart with us!

@melissadejesus4958

Жыл бұрын

❤ thank you

@dee-ix3iq

Жыл бұрын

​@@melissadejesus4958 This hit me like a tone of bricks when you said the looks on peoples faces How did you over come this?

These scenarios have been my whole entire life...

Certainly solved alot of my problems 🤣 from Mark, the guy thats going to be mowing your lawn in heaven 😀

@katiesanders96

Жыл бұрын

Lol, what?! 😂

@markjamieson5962

Жыл бұрын

Lol I was joking with them in one of there last videos,I said ill return the favour to them helping me on my journey by mowing there lawn for them when wee get to heavan 🤣,god bless Kate S.

Making people happy to feel loved - that just stopped me in my tracks!!! Oh my 😮

You guys Rock , word for word ya'll pointed out everything i myself struggle to explain through therapy . Please don't stop what your doing you're life savers. GOD BLESS YOU!! 🇳🇦Love from Namibia.

@melissadejesus4958

Жыл бұрын

❤

Impressions… saaaaame… it’s such a battle… the hard part is that I can use humor cuz it makes a merry heart… 🧡 thank you for more insight- I feel there’s been progress… you’re right - it really IS a journey Melissa - me too..: overstating has been a huge battle for me… that stinkin pit never gets filled - I almost cried listening, it really hits home 🧡

I liked it before I heard the whole conversation of encouragement. ❤️💙

Thank you!

This is a great discussion . Thank you for your openness and honesty . I relate to you both in the people pleasing , self criticism and self hatred. I’m taking baby steps in receiving Gods love and learning to love myself . It is hard for me because when I look in the mirror it is difficult to accept the visible signs of ageing . 🥰

I can relate to attracting friends who you have to cater to and people please!

Wow, so thankful for both of you being honest and transparent. I really related to the faces part.

I realised a lot of my mental health problems, insecurities had a strong correlation with my diet. Since I changed my diet, adding saturated/animal fats, giving up carbs, I’m so much calmer. It’s so much easier to work through and process my thoughts. Back then, I was all over the place. No matter what I’d do, my mind had a mind of its own and everything in me seemed to want to turn on myself. Now, its so much easier to apply all these self help techniques in my life. It seemed so impossible before. I’m so grateful to God to bringing this knowledge to my life.

Wonderful discussion, Mark and Melissa. First, I respect the relationship you two have. Good listening, faithful discussions that are vulnerable yet meaningful, and speaking on subjects that a lot of us have/had struggles with. A few topics hit home for me. Praise God for you both 🙏.

You guys are so authentic. I really appreciate how candid you are. I believe that’s where the healing takes place. So many people aren’t real. It’s hard to find safe people

God has been so kind, I first was thinking like God we have so much in common, you like this I like this too🤣 when it was actually God drawing me closer to Him using my interests , praise God and thank you too.

i needed this guys. thanks alot.🇧🇸

@marktdejesus

Жыл бұрын

So glad Randy

this is the type of marriage of ideal

Your recent discussions on people pleasing is helping me so much. With this discussion, a part that hit me was when you changed the songs to please your parents. It made me think that when I do things like this to appease people, I felt like i was there. I’m appeasing myself and feeling the void but the Holy Spirit may have wanted me to sing a certain song that would have brought healing to the room insteadnof focusing on my need.

Melisa you should do a channel for woman and sharing your testimony. I can relate so much! Your a blessing and a breathe of fresh air! I love you too Mark you each have your own gifts and I love you both so much 💗

Wow I can relate with everything you both are talking about! Thank you both for such honesty , I have such issues with over talking and over sharing because of not feeling I'm enough to just sit and be. The Lord is definitely working on me and your videos and resources have been so incredibly helpful! God bless you and your family:)

I love you guys!! I so appreciate the way you talk about how so much of our pain stems from childhood.. not being good enough for out parents or siblings

Thank you for talking about people pleasing Mark & Melissa - this is so helpful as I've done this for a long time! So grateful for your honesty and understanding of the subject matter - love you guys so much! ❤

Oh my word, this has me crying 😭😮

Thank you both!

I hated demerits. God bless you. The Lord is so good to render this word through you.

Do you have any videos on “neediness in relationships”? That is something that was a battle for me at one point

@marktdejesus

Жыл бұрын

Mostly in my Exposing the Rejection Mindset materials

I love this!!!!!

This is good and I can relate so much!! I find it interesting I'm 39 and still learning who I am and why!

@nathanaelbarrie214

11 ай бұрын

Hey I'm only learning the truth of the Good News stated in Ephesians 2:8.9...! Only just been freed from Christian legalism...which is Satan's trap and keeps us in bondage to religion and a fear based faith..!! Soo beutiful to be freed from this religious bondage. Praise God 🙏💆

Thanks very much 👍👍❤

I got to relook on what love is. What is this love that's not actually a compulsion? Love isn't confused, but I'm adopted so I wonder what love is? I know I should be doing real love over lust. I'm really trying to figure out what love is. I'm dying of oxygen and love!

I appreciate both of your transparencies but she still over talks and affirms (yes, yes, mmmhhh, right) while your speaking and interrupting and helping you to tell your stories and experiences. I relate because I want to make sure that I "say the "right things" and to communicate in hopes that they understood and even believed me, so I gave too many details to seem credible.