....nah...this man wasn't acting. That came from someplace real.

@natoriousthehopeful2786

2 жыл бұрын

They say there's a grain of truth in every fiction (or lie; either way it works)

@namelastname4077

2 жыл бұрын

agreed.. but that's also the whole point of acting bro

@matatajobor2035

2 жыл бұрын

I feel for the spaghetti 🍝 more, it's more miserable 😢😁😂

@matatajobor2035

2 жыл бұрын

I feel for the spaghetti 🍝 more, it's more miserable 😢😁😂

@aminabesmilin4691

2 жыл бұрын

Yes that’s very true.

Bro when he said "made me feel like a bug" suddenly hundreds of memories started flashing back like ptsd

@sierra281

2 жыл бұрын

Same here. It is so relatable,it always brings back bad memories.

@wallacegarrett668

2 жыл бұрын

@Laura Hackstein Wow, are most women that bad? I am glad I am going MGTOW. I stop dating 12 years ago after my last girlfriend cheated on me, after a 16 year relationship.

@MS-nm2kt

2 жыл бұрын

Same here bro

@Kyro23

2 жыл бұрын

@@wallacegarrett668 sorry to hear that bruh, hopefully life is much better now

@cosmo5076

2 жыл бұрын

@Laura Hackstein wow way to bellitle someones pain

“I’ve had enough pain.” That line got to me.

@user-hn4rq3ux9r

6 ай бұрын

But that's the truth ......

@aradikas8811

5 ай бұрын

Yes. After many years of disappointment I asked out a guy for the very first time in my life and got rejected....today's winter solstice ending with the darkest day of the year. I'm done with the pain

@spacenightmares7767

Ай бұрын

"I got feelings, too. I don't want to get hurt no more". That really got me. You know that ache you feel on your chest when something cuts right through your feelings? That just happened to me.

My brothers of every race. Focus on you not them. You’ll lose more chasing them than vice versa.

@ANGRYTRUMP2024

Жыл бұрын

i learned that the hard way bro! i needed to see this advice at least 25+yrs ago :(

@psdcypress3128

Жыл бұрын

Great advice for all men

@mrwho2513

Жыл бұрын

Thank you bro! Really helped me this adivce

@mrwho2513

Жыл бұрын

@@kiki164 that's what the agenda wants. No marriage, no more kids, depopulation

@CraigMcfly1985

Жыл бұрын

Thx but I already learn that lesson Philnelius for 16 years.

The instant rejection isn't bad. It's when you invest time and then they brush you off with no explanation. That's the real hurt

@spottyblanks5199

2 жыл бұрын

That just happened to me.

@jamuell.sackson9313

2 жыл бұрын

I know that pain. Sorry you went through that

@heydani6678

2 жыл бұрын

@@lllllllllllllllllllllllllllllj shut up

@realitycheck3149

2 жыл бұрын

chin up king

@AllNightTripz

2 жыл бұрын

It sucks that most men have gone through this in one way or another. Relationship or just friend-zone. Either or, there comes a point to call this quits. Never feels good because being a man will never be enough for most women.

Imagine how the mom felt. Her son saying he is not worth it and crying.

@karanfield4229

Жыл бұрын

Oh my. Heartbreaking stuff.😭

@Majoco21

Жыл бұрын

😓

@williamlevy6964

Жыл бұрын

Flashbacks to all the men she went out of her way to lead on and reject to boost her ego. Hmmmmmm. Maybe I shouldn't have done that. It's not rejection that's wrong per say. It's going out to get attention with no other intention then rejecting to feel more powerful. It is literally toxic af.

@hotdog5927

Жыл бұрын

i dont need to imagine it I live it

@advocatevarunrathi2831

Жыл бұрын

You have to earn money, property or fame then panties come down very fast.

He won an Oscar for this role.

@Plotani

11 ай бұрын

movie name?

@theHermitofEngedi

11 ай бұрын

​@@Plotani Marty

@Mari-lv1rd

10 ай бұрын

Well deserved

@MetalChipps

10 ай бұрын

He had ought to have.

@jasonu3741

9 ай бұрын

The academy stood up with wet eyes and clapped

one year later from me commenting on this. The quote still stands. "Whatever it is women like, I ain't got it." Amen.

@purplelaketafahdhali7753

10 ай бұрын

Do you have what YOU want in you? There is SO MUCH LIFE outside of relatuonships and sex. Go find it and enjoy it.

@Rudabeger

10 ай бұрын

@@purplelaketafahdhali7753 I hope you take your own advice. Because i sure don't need it. Good luck out there.

@purplelaketafahdhali7753

10 ай бұрын

@@Rudabeger I sure do take my own advice.😂🤣 I don't need luck, Im talented, knowledgable and skilled. ✌🏿

@Rudabeger

10 ай бұрын

@@purplelaketafahdhali7753 good for you.

@purplelaketafahdhali7753

10 ай бұрын

@@Rudabeger I know, that's why my life is dope. But either way, I wish you happiness, abundant joy and light in your life. I truly do.🥰

"I got feelings y'know" damn bro who slicing onions?

@alimohsin496

2 жыл бұрын

Joe is slicing the onions

@jalengholson8595

Жыл бұрын

​@Blaise Pascal can you link the vid

@farhanaditya2647

Жыл бұрын

@MyMotif.... Wtf

@mmr1137

Жыл бұрын

i am eating onions raw

@vkone7162

Жыл бұрын

@@blaisepascal5498 Seriosly! What the 💀

Even if he’s acting i can tell he’s pulling at some deep memories.

@CrystalDatingCoach

2 жыл бұрын

Actually no. This is #ernestborgnine he was happily married for over 30 years. 💞

@aprillove10

2 жыл бұрын

@@CrystalDatingCoach 😑...You don’t think before you speak. Being married for 30 years Doesn’t mean he was never rejected by women before he found the right one. 😒 You people on this internet always think you have to put other people down.

@CrystalDatingCoach

2 жыл бұрын

@@aprillove10 You people? I'm a 50+ year old American Women. Not insulting or putting anyone down. Just stating the facts. He's was a Movie Star since he was 20 and Won an Academy Award. But. Ok. You're right. He MUST have suffered to interpret this ROLE so well.

@strongflamingo774

2 жыл бұрын

@@CrystalDatingCoach I want to speak to your manager!!!!!!

@aprillove10

2 жыл бұрын

@@CrystalDatingCoach So he never chased women and was never rejected?... That was the context of the discussion. NOT whether he was a movie star since age 20. And happily married for over 30 years. She said he was acting but could tell he was drawing upon his life experience. You responded with... “actually no ...he was married for over 30years”. Like he never dated before his marriages. 😒

This is exactly what it is like for men under 30! the women under 30 are either asexual, lesbian, or all going after the "top" 10% of men

@chloescaptures808

3 ай бұрын

Depopulation and divide was created by our governments program.ing the minds through programs . Media

@harryhayes7057

3 ай бұрын

Bro all they are is a pussy to use

@andrewevans7992

Ай бұрын

Nah they be harlots from very young age then when they hit their 30s-50’s they need the D more due to testosterone and other hormones kicking in at thier old age

@BeardAxeMcAxeBeard

10 күн бұрын

Top 2%. They settle for the top 20%.

@andrewevans7992

10 күн бұрын

Or they plainly hate men.. or would rather screw around with a transgender person.. or animal. Like apparently men have to do everything for them to be worthy.. they have no idea how good their life is. It’s strictly western women too

My mom is my biggest supporter, always has been. Even through her cancer treatments. I will never forget the heartbroken look my mom gave me when we had this conversation.

@kozmickitsuneame

2 ай бұрын

I can relate, the same thing happened to me.

The way he played with his food while talking about his deep emotions just hit me hard. Its exactly how I have acted when I'm having a deep and tense conversation with anyone. Natural and class acting. Hats off.

@monical733

2 жыл бұрын

A lot of actors dont actually eat the food in sceanes

@drunkenmasteroftheleopardclan

2 жыл бұрын

@@monical733 true but in this scene you actually shouldn't eat the food, cause the emotions are pouring thick and quick, one will subconsciousnessly just keep speaking without realising he's not eating. He/she will use the spoon or fork to pick the food to once again drop it and repeat the process unknowingly.

@toastycarp

2 жыл бұрын

What movie is this?

@drunkenmasteroftheleopardclan

2 жыл бұрын

@@toastycarp sorry no idea mate.

@user-vw1bz3pl3b

2 жыл бұрын

@@toastycarp this is the great Ernest Borgnine in a film called Marty 😊👍🏽

"Sooner or later, there comes a time in a man's life when he's gotta face some facts..."

@wildfireslayerjesse3112

2 жыл бұрын

"I got hurt enough, i dont want to get hurt no more"

@safehavencarequality1516

2 жыл бұрын

Too true. When you can except that you can make the necessary changes to make the changes that will make your life better. Life’s all about you, also about caring about others. But people generally choose one or the other and that’s when they make the fatal mistake where no ones happy

@alphap9007

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, for me age 9.

@matatajobor2035

2 жыл бұрын

I feel for the spaghetti 🍝 more, it's more miserable 😢😁😂

@karansidhu89

2 жыл бұрын

Then you become beast or preist

If my son had said that to me my heart would have shattered

@IbraheemFarraj-go2kl

7 сағат бұрын

He's speaking what's in his heart.

This is my life right know, i chased after enough women, i never got a single girlfriend, nooneuever liked me, good luck to everyone going through the same, u fell you brothers

"Go ask her out dude! Whats the worse thing that could happen" *girl proceeds to absolutely destroy you in front of a bunch of people*

@nonapplicable3055

2 жыл бұрын

@@julia-qm2td Yeah, but ypi are a bold face LIAR if you say you haven't witnessed a bone crushing rejection or two. I remember my first rejection in 6th grade. She basically stood up, looked around at her classmates and laughed hard as hell. Rejection is par for the course, every guy knows this and accepts it, but being embarrassed is what made me trip her ik the cafeteria later that day Lol. Comeuppance.

@willtinarey3674

2 жыл бұрын

No mature woman needs an audience for that. I'm sorry if that happened to you or a friend. In hindsight I would call it a blessing though. A cold heart can not love as the love you deserve. Wish you the best

@Ash-lf6to

2 жыл бұрын

@@julia-qm2td keep that same energy when a man you want doesn’t give you the time of day or only has sex with you and tosses you to the side. Not wanting to be publicly humiliated by the person you are romantically interested in isn’t “entitlement” but any woman willing to do that to a man who is a gentleman is just evil.

@Ash-lf6to

2 жыл бұрын

@@julia-qm2td I never said that’s every rejection, you are putting words in my mouth to fit your argument. The original comment said “girl proceeded to destroy you in front of a bunch of people” that is the direct subject matter. I have no problem with rejection as long as it is handled between the two people alone. But rejecting someone in front of a bunch of people and making it a spectacle just shows how terrible of an individual that person is.

@Gnarledreaper

2 жыл бұрын

@@julia-qm2td You're not entitled to be an asshole, learn to reject a man with dignity and grace, you may have to look those up in a dictionary.

The way he delivers those lines... it feels like he's speaking for a lot of us...

@filipe.sm31

2 жыл бұрын

Who is he?

@hanson2649

2 жыл бұрын

@@filipe.sm31 Eminem

@yogsenforfoth5948

2 жыл бұрын

@@filipe.sm31 Ernest Borgnine. He was a great actor.

@filipe.sm31

2 жыл бұрын

@@yogsenforfoth5948 thanks

@ssjakuma

2 жыл бұрын

We remember the feelings. But that's what helps us uplift each other.

This guy needs a hug

@jr5993

10 ай бұрын

You understand its a movie right.

@apuz1234567

5 ай бұрын

​@@jr5993you're missing the point!

@winterwulf1995

Ай бұрын

Nah he needs to be left alone

Sometimes it's not even about looks or charisma. I am a very attractive charming young man but I've never had a woman show genuine interest in me. Yes, getting laid is possible when you chase long enough or put up a certain mask... But being my authentic self never got me anywhere. Maybe I am just that genuine nice guy who make people feel good. I refuse to fake a persona to get with women, it's disgusting and exhausting.

@kolas1010

4 ай бұрын

This is so me. But I'm used to it now, being alone, and to be honest I'm ok with it because I'm happy with the person I'm alone with and as long as you're happy with the person you're alone with you'll never feel lonely. I've always been my genuine self and yes it hasn't gotten me anywhere in my love life and to be honest I'm ok with that as well, i don't want to lose myself pretending to be someone I'm not.

@leonardodavincifelicianose9676

4 ай бұрын

Yes!! That's it guys! I feel just like you two. I feel like I had enough fake people, fake intentions, lazy ass girls, one night stands... in my life already. And I don't even think I'm actually beautiful, a 5 or 6 at best ^^" But yea, I have enough. Now it's only me being me. And yes, company would be nice, but not at the cost of be playing a fucking stupid role that is not myself all the time. Nah... I'm good with myself already. I wish all good for you booys =)

@kolas1010

4 ай бұрын

@@leonardodavincifelicianose9676 you are a 10 bro, we are all a 10, each and every one in this world is beautiful on the inside and on the outside in their own way. Goodluck to you to mate...and to all other guys out there who feel like they're not enough or haven't had any luck in their love life... you're amazing, you're enough, it's not you it's them, never stop being yourself because that's all you've got. Don't be afraid of losing people, be afraid to lose yourself by pleasing others😊. Nice guys are the real winners 🏆 and there is someone out there who'll appreciate you for that.

@McKeeW10000

4 ай бұрын

​@@kolas1010I appreciate your strong words which are very kind. However, there are some of us who believe we're living our best life by giving a woman happiness and joy. It just seems to continuously be getting harder to get to that point. 😔

@ripmax333

4 ай бұрын

Well at least your charming and Attractive😅 getting laid is also possible, look to the bright side😅. Other like me its always as he said in the video "girls that make you feel like a bug"

This hits the feels, especially the part where he says “what women want I ain’t got.”

@masteryoda9454

2 жыл бұрын

Like out Lord Vader said before “through pain i gain strength”

@vojacked305

2 жыл бұрын

@@ellobo5558 you see there's that wrong concept. Are you really sure you're a genuinely good person? You see, that also happened to me. She said that on my face. If that's what she wants, then fine. I'm just sure I'm not a good person though and I won't ever delude myself that I am.

@dedmemez1384

2 жыл бұрын

@@masteryoda9454 through strength, I gain power

@masteryoda9454

2 жыл бұрын

@@dedmemez1384 through power i gain victory

@jrtheblacksheep7159

2 жыл бұрын

The facts you need to realize after this is if you get a girl and you don't give them enough attention they will you the brush off. Treat them right

Thats how I felt using online dating apps.

@Humbledfx

2 жыл бұрын

Shit a women’s game bro that shit fun for them💯

@overanalyzing

2 жыл бұрын

@@Humbledfx faxx they just coasting thru on there meanwhile dudes being suckered 💯💯

@HueghMungus

2 жыл бұрын

@@overanalyzing Yeah man, my account deleted too by one app. Did nothing wrong. I just sucked so hard they deleted me straight off. I got refunded fully and pro perks given for free, but nah man I'm done playing I aint got it ma.

@MrOneWay5000

2 жыл бұрын

Dating apps are only for the top ten percent of men. If you’re not in that top ten percentile of men, those apps will crush whatever big of self esteem you have left. Listen to Alpha Male Strategies videos and make something happen for yourself

@leticiavallejo7914

2 жыл бұрын

No online dating. Just eye contact and a smile 🙋‍♀️‼

I just told my mom this last year. One of the truest things I ever told her.

They don't care about men feelings at all! They don't want you to hurt their feelings but they will hurt yours in a heartbeat!

"Sooner or later there comes a point in a man's life where he's gotta face some facts; and one fact I gotta face is whatever women like I ain't got it." *I felt that*

@Antonio-ti2he

Жыл бұрын

Consider yourself blessed!

@SinnerOneNine

Жыл бұрын

@@Antonio-ti2he cope

@blueblade455

Жыл бұрын

46 years old here and if I haven't found a woman by now, then it's probably never gonna happen. I just learned to accept that I don't have what women want and I'll be single for the rest of my life. You young folks have a better chance of changing your destiny than me.

@voltagechronicles2938

Жыл бұрын

Get closer to God, he is the only one that can give you joy, you will see your purpose in life, do you really think nothing created everything? That an explosion created flowers, horses, complexed eyes, dogs which comfort us when we are sad, birds, etc, if you do, thats what i call being foolish. Let me tell you something there is no proof of evolution, but there is ton of proof of a creator, remember every creation has an inventor, every house has a builder.

@cashuflakbreakdancer

Жыл бұрын

​@@voltagechronicles2938I mean getting a few cool hobbies and friends never hurt either lmao

"Whatever women like I ain't got it" I know exactly that myself

@MD-qg5kt

2 жыл бұрын

I hear you.

@jackbryan2089

2 жыл бұрын

@@elizasass2079 & I am so grateful to the OGs & PLAYERS for putting women like you in their place !!😜🖕

@Keniz99

2 жыл бұрын

@@elizasass2079 I agree with your point and the fellow below your comment too but can't decide who is right

@shen2404

2 жыл бұрын

@@elizasass2079 just change who you are bro

@carolynnalvarez7032

2 жыл бұрын

It'll get better hun someone's looking for exactly what you got, and you'll find her when it's right.

i cannot tell you how hard my mother cried when i had to have this conversation with her.

@bashengatheblackmanta7003

Жыл бұрын

Same here man, it breaks my heart aswell because she wants to be a grandmother so bad

@mavicminipilot

Жыл бұрын

Haha 🇮🇳

@imcoop

Жыл бұрын

I am sorry you had to go through that

@garmisra7841

9 ай бұрын

Maybe you should have framed it as her fault, too?

@praxter5638

7 ай бұрын

​@@alejandrocane5932pffff hahahahahahhaha giving up women is the right choice they are pointless and unpredictable

Ladies when you hear us say nothing is bothering us. This is what’s on our minds

This is so real. Men go through a lot, a lot of rejections. Life's brutal for men, be it war, finances, labor .. men are loved only under condition they provide.

@justasmltwngir1732

2 жыл бұрын

Men and women go through different hardships, but hardships nonetheless. From a woman, I think that you are enough even if you never provide another thing in your life.

@paulpower324

2 жыл бұрын

Even someone who society considers a 'loser' can laugh with people and listen to them and enjoy nature or something. There are many good things in life for which you don't have to pay in some way. Maybe there is even unconditional love out there. But Im not sure :D

@shinyguy1

2 жыл бұрын

@@justasmltwngir1732 men go through way more hardships, it’s definitely not equal. Different? Sure. However the total sum for men is much greater

@justasmltwngir1732

2 жыл бұрын

@@shinyguy1 it depends on who the woman is vs the man.

@jadyngriggs658

2 жыл бұрын

@@shinyguy1 how about it doesn’t matter the gender, it’s how your life goes. No gender has it worse, life really does not care if you’re a guy or girl, it will mess with you either way. No one gender has it worse than the other, you people and your gender wars are fucking ridiculous. We’re all people Jesus Christ.

I’m so tired of being rejected when I pour my heart out

@prod_rero

Жыл бұрын

lol same

@karanfield4229

Жыл бұрын

I'm sorry. You deserve to be happy and respected. I wish the best life can offer you.🥂🌼

@deseann1591

Жыл бұрын

Never pour your heart out to anybody bro maybe ur mom

@Ghost-vg6iq

Жыл бұрын

@@deseann1591 Not even my parents call me up these days actually i am going through worst phase of my life and i don't think it will get any better very fast. All i realised that i am standing completely alone in the face of chaos.

@deseann1591

Жыл бұрын

@@Ghost-vg6iq keep your head up G forreal

Damn... Homie is not the only one.

@GaysAreDumb

Жыл бұрын

😢

I'm retired now. He just described my entire life.

"Girls made me feel like I was a bug." All of HS and college right there. I'd like to say it got better, but it didn't. Settling into my 40s now and yeah, whatever women want, I ain't got.

@disopolo676

Жыл бұрын

You don't have to try, just be nice to people. Smile without wanting a smile back and eventually someone will smile back.

@facelessdrone

Жыл бұрын

Women want a guy who will listen and confront his biases in order to understand them, perhaps you had an ego problem and resent women. They arent dumb, they know when men hate women...

@jreese7436

Жыл бұрын

@@facelessdrone Pretty sure I didn't have an ego and resentment problem at 14. It's always been a surprising amount of hostility aimed in my direction and more than a little materialism. Like the clip said whatever they want I ain't got. And at this point in time it's no longer worth the effort to figure out.

@atropos1403

Жыл бұрын

​​@@jreese7436 live your own life, if a woman comes into it then cool, if not, cool. Personally I've found that when I chase woman I repell them but when I don't they stumble into my life.

@js-1174

Жыл бұрын

Try again bud...I know it sucks, I'm in the same boat. Giving up is a decision that you might end up regretting more than putting yourself out there again...I know I regret it...@DISOPOLO gave you a good rule to follow

I am okay with women straight up telling me, "No, I am not interested", when I approach them. But there is a special place in hell reserved for women who feel the need to make fun of/ publicly embarass a guy for trying to talk to them. May God be with the guy that ends up with girls like that because her beauty will fade with age and he'll be left with a witch.

@cameronsnow1162

2 жыл бұрын

Oh that undefeated wall 🤭

@dearmysoul6706

2 жыл бұрын

I get angry when a guy try to take at me in ignore him or act in a way that im so offended, because in my culture this is disrespectful to a woman to be approached by a random guy

@marvinjones689

2 жыл бұрын

Fuck those hoes there all distractions

@megteg

2 жыл бұрын

100% agree. There is no need for that and it’s cruel. Those woman can go f themselves. Too many times my friends or family have been seriously embarrassed and saddened by this. Idk who the fuck thinks that behavior is alright

@browngirl603

2 жыл бұрын

I tell men no I’m good kindly and get called a bitch out here in SF

The worst is when you weren’t looking for anything, and then you meet them. And you’re still not looking for or expecting anything but they start to show what you thought were clear signs of attraction, and in your mind it’s all you can see. It’s so clear, it’s staring you right in the face. So you get invested. But you realize you were completely wrong, and you don’t know how or why. And not only were you wrong, you put yourself out there, allow yourself to be a little vulnerable, and then she figuratively laughs in your face by making it clear that you’re not, and never have been, a priority. I hate not knowing why I thought she felt a certain way about me when she absolutely didn’t.

@prasadsaravanan4730

11 ай бұрын

Its like you were looking at my life

@vietphamminh1679

3 ай бұрын

Same story here bro. I can feel you

@jescorpizo7614

2 ай бұрын

“I hate not knowing why I thought she felt a certain way about me when she absolutely didn’t.” This right here, this has always been a reoccurring theme in my life. I hope you have begun to enjoy life since you’ve posted this. I wish to be there one day soon

Your not rich enough, your not masculine enough, your not handsome enough, your not famous /popular enough…..nuff said. The script writer was 50 years ahead of their time.

@Metalhead.1315

5 ай бұрын

FACTS!!!🙏

@vladimirputin4157

4 ай бұрын

You're missing not tall enough

@brutustantheiii8477

Ай бұрын

@@vladimirputin4157 FACTS

Only woman I’ll share my feelings with is my grandma. Sucks I’m really far away from home. I feel like talking to someone about these stuff helps you mentally. Chin up my brothers, you’ve gone through up to this point.

@bigbootybastard6973

2 жыл бұрын

Sucks to hear that man, hope you two both stay safe and healthy

@terrylawrence8362

2 жыл бұрын

We are in critical times.. everyone suffering in some way or other darling...I'm struggling too but tired of being bothered about it ...I say bring it on.. we have the strength and clarity of mind to deal with it...your blessed to have each other..my grandparents brought me up.. it was very precious....stand in your truth..stand in your own light and power GOD IS WITH US pray 🙏 and have faith sweet heart ❤ 💙 💜 regards frm N.Z.keep safe 💖 I'm older got many good memories

@annepierre9762

2 жыл бұрын

Hope things change for you

@clevername2220

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe the whole reticent masculine thing is a little silly

@subbinbacktoallsubbs5272

2 жыл бұрын

Same, my grandmother is the only person I've talked to honestly about myself, everyone else wants to interject or give half-assed advice. Sometimes you just need for someone you trust to listen.

I think this is the only video on KZread that doesn’t have a single person in disagreement with another in the comments. That just tells you how real this is.

@danielbautista2561

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree

@angelomg5683

2 жыл бұрын

@@danielbautista2561 disagree just to prove him wrong I'm guessing lol

@realadityaparida

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe the actor gave the detailed past of himself or i can say experience he just faced in his own life.

@Zachorazor1

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree because it's pathetic. If it's true that no one in all the comments disagrees then what we've got here is an INCEL nest and all I hear is: "WAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH . Mummy, girls don't like me." You have to be likeable to be liked. Work on the inside and stop blaming others. Go Your Own Way by all means, just go far away. Playing piano over a diatribe doesn't make its content truth.

@jurassicrino3769

2 жыл бұрын

All the "disagrements" here don't count. Anybody disagree? Yeah, i'm sure you do🤣

That came from the heart.

As a 31 year old man who’s never tasted love and been rejected by enough women, I felt this profoundly. A lot of the women I went after not only rejected me, but treated me with contempt and disdain after the rejection. It was almost like they were offended that I would think they’d desire me. Being rejected by someone your heart really wants is one thing. But being shown utter contempt and disdain on top of that fking hurts. That shit tore my heart to pieces and I still hurt to this day 10 years later when I remember those situations.

The movie is ‘’Marty’’ , the actor is Ernest Borgnine! ❤️🎶

@dojocho1894

Жыл бұрын

McHale's NAvy

@davidswain2601

Жыл бұрын

Great movie

@davidswain2601

Жыл бұрын

Oscar winner

@marybianca2722

Жыл бұрын

I remember this scene but could not remember the movie title or the actor. Ernest Borgine was a very famous actor, he played in a lot of films. Thanks for the info 🙏

@Thisnamemadememad

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

“I got hurt enough… I don’t wanna hurt no more…” Perfect words to represent many many of our feelings

@rancid3179

2 жыл бұрын

This hit me hard cause its how i feel anymore

@LSFord

2 жыл бұрын

I wish you were wrong

@ickballgaming6611

2 жыл бұрын

Bruh

@LONEWOLF-rq5tl

2 жыл бұрын

@@rancid3179 It would be,it's how you feel now and NOT how you said it.

@winterwulf1995

Ай бұрын

Yep. I'll die alone before I give a girl the chance to hurt me again

this man is speaking for a lot of men 🔱👑💯

@srigorakhnath1297

5 ай бұрын

😢

"The worst thing she can say is no."

@Ronin-R410A

10 ай бұрын

Idk bruh some have gone the extra mile to let me know I ain't wanted lol.

@jtl-en4yx

10 ай бұрын

No the worst thing they can do is accuse of SA/SH!

@seanhazelwood3311

10 ай бұрын

No. They can say Yes for a while, then walk for no reason.

@MPeaches1958

10 ай бұрын

She can waste the best years of your life, give you a few dependants to support, then leave you for some ex-jock she met in line at Starbucks, then take your kids across the continent and tell them she divorced you for the other guy, because you were abusive. She won't marry the other guy, just to keep you paying alimony to her, after the kids are grown. Yes, they can do a lot worse than say no and they do. 50% of the time.

@jamesgentry13

9 ай бұрын

Every no is another stab wound. A human can only take so much

I don’t mind being rejected but some girls are cruel instead of saying No they belittle you , make fun of you , laugh at you especially if friends are around. That’s the part I’m good off of 😂

@joeyfigueroa4748

2 жыл бұрын

Right?! I agree. Like just say no. They think we still have the mind of a cave man and don't understand rejection. I know it ain't like the movies. Say no and I'll find my way out of your life real quick. Thats it. 😂

@rickgrimes8870

2 жыл бұрын

I heard somewhere that they take it as an insult if a guy that she thinks is in a lower league than her approaches her, thus they feel the need to insult you back.

@codemiesterbeats

2 жыл бұрын

Never let ANYONE berate you for "free" Lol if they are rude say something like Patrice O'Neal would say "b**** you look like your breath stink anyway" and finger gun as you moonwalk away.

@robertgriffin7389

2 жыл бұрын

Stand strong man you will find that diamond amongst all that glitter.

@shayde3428

2 жыл бұрын

@@joeyfigueroa4748 i wanna find an smack the people or person who came up with “the worst she can say is no”

When people feel this way it’s really sad. Everyone who has a true heart should be loved. If he was in today’s society, he would have been disgusted at how superficial people are now. Sad.

@truthray2885

11 ай бұрын

My bro has a step son who is about 40 ish, and has never had a good relationship, and when his mother said to him that he'd "meet a nice girl some day", his reply was "Mom, there are no nice girls out there anymore." Now, I don't say I buy that, and I don't know what he prioritizes, but I thought that was pretty sad.

@maggiemconnor

10 ай бұрын

​@truthray2885 I think alot of people feel that way, from both sides. Men feel there's no nice girls/ women. And women feel there's no more nice men. It's sad state of society. I don't buy it as my brother's are all pretty awesome husbands and thier sons are all pretty amazing, same w my sister in laws and my cousins are amazing, great people. I think some families still teach basic good core values, yet far too many children are being influenced by dumb reality TV w values of only materialism.

@williamlevy6964

10 ай бұрын

@@truthray2885 Simp. You have no self respect.

@asktheetruscans9857

10 ай бұрын

​@@maggiemconnorwomen hate nice men these days.

@KyojuroRengoku98

7 ай бұрын

​@@maggiemconnorWomen reject men that would make them queens and go after guys that make them single mothers.

This is how I been feeling for years. I gave up years ago.

@oggy_8688

8 ай бұрын

I am so sorry man!

@Masterofoppurtunity

3 ай бұрын

​@oggy_8688 tbh I believe this saying "some people got it some people dont"

i just dont bother, haven't since i was like 20, ya dont get rejected if ya dont bother. they're absolutally not worth it these days anyway.

@Desertpagan

10 ай бұрын

Good for you! I didn't learn this lesson until it was too late.

@Aminah6623

10 ай бұрын

"You don't get rejected if you don't bother" is the saddest, most self-defeating thought. If you apply that to your entire life, you will be a loser.

@user-vp6cq4sv3d

6 ай бұрын

​@@Aminah6623That's not your problem though is it?

@vladimirmakarov334

5 ай бұрын

​@@Aminah6623how is it being a loser a wise man once said the most dangerous man in the room is the guy that's with his comrades

@andrewevans7992

Ай бұрын

@@Aminah6623why do you care if he does or doesn’t approach them? Wahmen aren’t really worth dealing with

When I was in middle school, my "friends" pumped me up to talk to this girl that I was crushing on. My "best friend" told me she wanted me to talk to after school. I was so nervous, but after school I walked up to her while she was putting things in her locker. When she closed her locker door she saw me standing there. Before I could even say hi she yelled, "Eewww NOOO!". The way the school was designed 25% of the students would have been in this area at the time. After she yelled at me there a brief silence and then a huge roar of laughter. I was a poor kid who avoided attention because I had worn clothes and I would get teased alot. So this was the last thing I needed. Turns out my "best friend" had been teasing the girl about me liking her so day, and it really pissed her off. She told him she didn't like me, but he lied to me... I went home and cried. Up until my early twenties I would never approach a girl. Every time I wanted to talk to an attractive girl, that incident played in my head. The shame I felt. That was the most hurtful moment of my entire life.

@sigurdbergsrud6198

2 жыл бұрын

Well, look at it this way. As bad as that may have been, and as much as it may have hurt, you found out that those “friends” weren’t your friends. They showed their true colors. Imagine if that hadn’t happened, what if you were still friends, and some day, if something happened, and you needed their help, they probably wouldn’t have given a shit, so in a sense you dodged a bullet. For better or worse, our lives are filled with lessons, and those lessons, as hard or easy as they may be, teach us how to deal with shit later in life, and if they don’t, then that’s a lesson too. Life is a game, and a big lesson to help you be the best you possible, in this life or the next. Never give Up, when everything is lost, pick up your heart, avenge defeat, and keep going. The happiest people are the ones who’ve been through the most shit, yet never given up, no matter how Many times they’ve fallen.

@pauliecopez2683

2 жыл бұрын

Head up King

@johanebrown1764

2 жыл бұрын

@Serial Killer i understand not having girlfriends but why no friends

@bigdunks4eva

2 жыл бұрын

@Serial Killer get some counseling bro.

@mrromerorobinson1982

2 жыл бұрын

Man fuck that broad... you got me over here crying. Damn bro...I'm sorry that happened to you.love and blessing king

This is how I feel especially now that I'm 27 years old I have just given up. It's not worth it more I will be a single good person that helps others in my life. That's all I can do is wake up everyday being thankful and do the best I can.

@andrewcharlestream6578

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you brother.

@sartajaziz5930

2 жыл бұрын

That's the right approach. Find ways to make other people's lives better , you'll find more fulfillment in that than getting with girls.

@user-fp6rn2km4i

2 жыл бұрын

I'm in the same position.

@joelmeyers451

2 жыл бұрын

Justin, you are MUCH too young to give up! There ARE good women out there, and they are looking for YOU. Just remember that you are good enough! Experience talking here. With PLENTY of pain experienced.

@donbassey1018

2 жыл бұрын

Wow

I asked a woman out today who I've liked for years I got rejected I feel worthless I'm worried ill be alone forever. This is a cold life

@davidmarks4891

3 ай бұрын

I hear you on the rejection part I've been there a few times but maybe it for the best But thru some time things get better but wanted share jesus christ loves you

@MohammadSaud-vo9hd

11 күн бұрын

Are you from Germany bro

@MohammadSaud-vo9hd

11 күн бұрын

Are you from Germany bro

"I had enough pain" True words indeed

"i'm miserable enough as it is" that really hits hard.

@deadlyydude5522

2 жыл бұрын

Huh? He didn’t even say that lol

@godzillaex1288

2 жыл бұрын

@@deadlyydude5522 the next scene is his mother asking him to put on the suit,and he dont want to, but her mom keeps asking, and eventually he said that line.

@biffin1123

2 жыл бұрын

Which movie is this?

@ducatirider7

2 жыл бұрын

@@biffin1123 marty

@biffin1123

2 жыл бұрын

@@ducatirider7 nvm i got it thanks!!

That's why I always call myself a ghost. Always watching, always listening, Always crying and hoping my pain will end. Truth be told I just want to die but I have a lot of unfinished business left. I've given up on my life the least I could do is help people not become like me.

@goldoluwamuyiwa8990

Жыл бұрын

I feel you

@extrolic3047

Жыл бұрын

I understand I’m a loner and I don’t talk anymore

@skeeterclovis7163

Жыл бұрын

Life sucks and life for damn sure isn't fair but it ain't worth it because then they win. Life is shorter than eternity so keep trucking my friend and without crying my own life story and pain trust me when I say I know where y'all coming from. It's relentless but keep your heads up your stronger than you realize and some day the suffering will be worth it all looking back. Christ knows your pain.

@wagner9050

Жыл бұрын

Wanna go rob sum Mexican Cartel Member's hacienda\Fort Knox-fortress w/ me?

@EW-uw7dg

Жыл бұрын

Move away, far away from it all and start over.

That's how most men feel everyday.Just be nice once in awhile would help.

The instant rejection doesn't hurt that much, but when you gather courage, invest time and start hoping you had finally found someone special, and then get brushed off, that hurts, that truly hurts like nothing else. I am going through this recently, and I wish i could give up so that i can be spared the pain.

When you realize men should know their own worth you’ll grow so much.

@BJenno

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Guys think dating a hot girl will get them validation, or a girl dating a hot guy will give them validation. Love today isn’t genuine anymore. You have a too good a thing, and then it all ends.

@xavierbrown6014

2 жыл бұрын

Big Ass Facts!💯

@jdaog

2 жыл бұрын

What is my value..?

@yuko6794

2 жыл бұрын

@@BJenno exactly, no matter who or what you are you don’t need to be proven okay by the world, everyone is okay, everyone should know that they are valid.

@arpitthakur45

2 жыл бұрын

@@jdaog nothing...no one cares if someone exists or not...a 100 billion people have lived and died

I've had plenty of male friends in my life that have been beyond heartbreak. One of which dedicated years to a woman and her kids, just to get called a piece of shite and told he didn't give a rats asss about her or her kids. And everyone he knew had believed her over him. Poor dude never did anything but care. I don't think people realize how cold women can really be.

@vicmorrison8128

2 жыл бұрын

I get reminded how empty a woman can be whenever I listen to a woman being interviewed at a tRump rally, or worst yet, those being interviewed at the Capitol on Jan 6th. It's there , looking right at you, pure emptiness, pure void.

@punkask3619

2 жыл бұрын

@@vicmorrison8128 what a weird comment...you are a beta male

@jarrekhurdle1744

2 жыл бұрын

He sounds like a good dude, you should swoop him up instead of just being friends...I mean if he's that great and it sounds like he is.. Or are you out there chasing so e asshole you're trying to fix?

@asifhossain8363

2 жыл бұрын

@@punkask3619 ur comment kinda says you're one as well

@asifhossain8363

2 жыл бұрын

@@jarrekhurdle1744 none of ur business what she does lmao

That acting is next level. I didn’t think about it being acting until the second time through. I’ve got real respect for people who throw themselves into their role. They basically become the person.

I have never been in a relationship with a girl in the 28 years of my life. The only intimacy i had were some casual hookups which doesn't feel the same way as having someone who cares for u throughout

Nah today's society would call him an incel and a loser for expressing what he feels like that. That's why you only have conversations little this with your mom 😔

@bloopy6166

2 жыл бұрын

You would be an incel if you’re talking about your inability to get laid. That’s literally the definition of an incel. People claim that all incels are bad when that really isn’t the case.

@jxynothere

2 жыл бұрын

Incels aren’t guys with feelings. Incels are guys that hate all women just because they’ve been rejected a couple times.

@lookwhatudid5095

2 жыл бұрын

@@jxynothere that's is kinda what was in the video bro...

@HavenarcBlogspotJcK

2 жыл бұрын

@@jxynothere man dont over complicate the meaning. Its just mean involuntarily celibate. An incel doesnt have to hate women. We feel like these are disgusting people because people uses incel as an insult. Incel is the state you're in, not the things you feel.

@marcusgarvey630

2 жыл бұрын

@@lookwhatudid5095 real men get back up no matter how hard life hits you, you learn your lesson you do better, and you find someone better, some man just dont have what it takes to get going when the going gets tough

The pain of this truth is deep. Dont live on others feelings. Live for yourself outside yourself and you will never be alone.

@squirrelthegamer8483

2 жыл бұрын

“Live for yourself outside yourself and you will never be alone.” I’m sorry but that doesn’t make any sense.

@yek105

2 жыл бұрын

@@squirrelthegamer8483 Its not really the same interpretation but still somewhat relevant to what he said: “I’d rather be alone than to be with someone that makes me feel alone” Some people will only treat you as their friend for their own convenience on when they need to. Because individuals out there put up a facade just to belong to a circle of friends even if that’s not who they really are despite the shitty treatment they receive.

@bladerubber

2 жыл бұрын

@@squirrelthegamer8483 no it doesn't does it. I mean the clip says enough....why add to it...why try to " make it alright "... pretend a bad thing is a good thing...? Sure get past it but no one needs the nonsense that its a good thing to have been rejected by women their whole life!

@arnoldj.samson5795

2 жыл бұрын

what

Ernest Borgnine was a master actor. A true genius of the silver screen. RIP Sir, you are missed.

Most people are Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed. Loneliness is difficult, but you're better off alone. Devalue others' opinions and start valuing yourself. Be nice to others, but better to yourself. Become the right kind of person, and you'll attract the right kind of friends.

"The girls made me feel like I was a bug" that seriously rings even more true today with online "dating". So many better options than you, why would they bother? As a man, you have to sell yourself like a car salesman. I hope to meet someone in person one day, I've pretty much quit dating apps. I encourage other men to do the same, it eats up way more time than you think trying to get acknowledged or trying to get someone interested. You & your time are worth so much more than that. It may feel lonely, but it builds you up.

@JmoEnt777

2 жыл бұрын

Real spit 💯

@voodoobebop6281

2 жыл бұрын

Damn right bro. They don’t want us, we don’t need them. We all have to get back to being normal humans before we can start loving other humans.

@oldarthurmorgan6319

2 жыл бұрын

Especially in a world where girls have Onlyfans and very high standards for men

@dr0n3droid

2 жыл бұрын

The point is not to "get someone interested" you have to show interest. Stop trying to sell yourself, just be yourself.

@IamGruntonHGH

2 жыл бұрын

Dude, tf you talking about? I'm an overweight idiot and I match about twice a day. You have to actually be appealing to people.

God dam, people could write back in the day.

@narlywaves2371

2 жыл бұрын

Yes..old movies have the greatest lines.

@karimhussein3610

2 жыл бұрын

In fairness, when you look back at old movies or older editions of anything in general, only the iconic ones will stand the test of time. Those are the only ones constantly replayed decades after & eventually people will forget the 90% of rubbish made in the olden days in the same way future generations will forget the crap made today yet praise the few gems of our time.

@ce5890

2 жыл бұрын

Oh God can you imagine this dialogue making it to screen these days ? No chance

@marcdumont2275

2 жыл бұрын

@@ce5890 You're watching the wrong movies then

Such sad, yet so very true words he has spoken here.🥺😞💔 I can genuinely empathize with his words, which has my heart feeling an immense, deep pain - for me, it’s like in high school, being the loner I was, and still am; I always felt I was bothering everyone anytime I tried conversing with anyone. So eventually, I just stopped trying.🤷🏻‍♀️🕊️💛

"It's a huge thing for me and I don't want to put it against you cuz ur an amazing person and a good man, just know that please. I'm sorry, it's just very hard for me." That's what she texted.

Kids these days keep saying old movies and TV shows had cheesy lines and dialogues, but the facts is a lot of it have more IRL lessons in life even the comedy's.

@22uv

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@gkrees9509

2 жыл бұрын

I ain't ever heard kids say that 💀 sounds like you're just projecting

@sanfordwhatley3916

2 жыл бұрын

@@gkrees9509 lmao facts

@zafiruzoma6234

2 жыл бұрын

@@gkrees9509 ikr🤣🤣🤣

@zafiruzoma6234

2 жыл бұрын

Bro you sure you didn't just assume that I heard no one talking like that 😂

All of that playful "Eewww" and staring and giggling really gets to guys. But the minute we hit a glow-up we are supposed to forget those hurt feelings. Now we are seemed desirable for some odd reason. I love my wife for loving me as me. And I love her for her. Plain and simple.

@chris7285

2 жыл бұрын

The giggling is what really got me traumatized. I remember back in grade school some kid would bully me in class and everywhere. Well the one thing I remember the most and the one thing that really messed me up was the giggling of bystanders who watched me get humiliated by my bully. I’ve kind of healed since then but to this day my heart rate goes up whenever I hear women giggling. 97% of the time they’re not laughing at me. I just have to remind myself that I’m not the center of the universe and that helps me relax.

@jessicaj8564

2 жыл бұрын

@@chris7285 that sucks. Kids can be really cruel

@Muneeb08

2 жыл бұрын

100% percent agree. Those subtle things like “eeewww”, whispering about you behind your back, can really hurt someone and definitely annoyed me.

@PinkPanther45518

2 жыл бұрын

@@chris7285 Same. Just I felt the same way too. It hurts. You try to be kind but people still put you down despite what you tried to do. The giggling and laughing behind you're back doesn't hurt so much until you find out it's happening in the first place. Then it feels like a boulder. I had the same too. It hurt to know those 8 though I could trust those I thought were friends were not at all. That hurt the most. There comes a point where you have to stop chasing people who want nothing to do with you. If they don't realize their mistake in time don't welcome them back. A relationship of any kind is a two way street. If they are you're friends who wholly expect you always to be there and always giving to them, while giving nothing in return. Leave them there. It will only hurt you the most later on. Those who truly care about you will do their best to be in you're life, no matter how hard life gets for them and you. Same goes for you, do the best you can to stay in the lives of those who matter most to you. You might not realize how much you need them till you lose them. Advice from someone who's gone down this road at such a young tender age. Learned real quick. Don't allow yourself to be in so much pain and frustration at something easily avoidable with the right tools and information. I wish you the best!☺️👍💖🌺🌸🌷

@oota4421

2 жыл бұрын

Stg

As someone who has brothers and hopes to have sons, this hurts to hear. I can see the good in the men in my life but other people will never be able to appreciate their beautiful souls and reject them before they can utter a single word.

This video speaks some truth very loudly!

This is a great movie, "Marty." Ernest Borgnine, the actor you see in the clip won the Academy award for best actor, 1955.

@parisbeech2180

2 жыл бұрын

He was amazing actor

@donnag.126

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, it is a great movie! 🍿💯

@parisbeech2180

2 жыл бұрын

@@donnag.126 classic

@nacure360

2 жыл бұрын

He also plays mermaid man

@VxW2020

2 жыл бұрын

That's Mermaid Man!?

It's better to be single rather than ending up with some one who's unable to give you love and happiness ...it's a lesson I learnt the hard way ...✌️

@MP-ut6eb

2 жыл бұрын

I Know right brother.... relationship sucks, because both parts don't show their cards soon enough, they do so in the relationship.

@akshchaudhary381

2 жыл бұрын

It's fckin* truth guys 😪

@auralay2497

2 жыл бұрын

@@MP-ut6eb Cause that would be stupid and put one in a position to be used and abused? Showing all of ones cards is never a good idea. That's why most people fail at relationships and end up in situationships instead...

@wallcderand6774

2 жыл бұрын

Yes⁰

@Aa-Sadam

2 жыл бұрын

Fresh and fit podcast, rollo tomassi, rich cooper.

If she don't tell she likes me more than a friend, without asking, I will not say anything. I am not looking for any signs of attraction or choosing signals. I am not reading her mind. These women are cowards and narcissists. Rejecting a man gives them a high. I don't hate them, I just don't like what they do.

@Donenow96

Жыл бұрын

“Rejecting a man gives them a high” so true 🙏🏾🙌🏾

@gaia7240

6 күн бұрын

The coward here is you, you are acting like a snake, grow the balls to say what you feel for fuck sake

I remember watching him growing up 🥰as we got older..with him having white hair as an older actor. He was always a good actor,to me.

RIP Ernest Borgnine. We miss you.

@wagner9050

Жыл бұрын

Amen !

@thabastards1st

Жыл бұрын

omg you knew who he was.

@wagner9050

Жыл бұрын

@@thabastards1st Bcuz Eye'm an Olde Fart.

@pershingii2424

Жыл бұрын

The movie is "Marney" 1955

@matijagusel322

Жыл бұрын

​@@pershingii2424 you mean Marty?

I love this movie. It’s called ‘Marty’. PS it has a happy ending.

@RoryStockton

2 жыл бұрын

It has a good ending? :( That's enough to make a grown man cry.

@angels356

2 жыл бұрын

Thank goodness for that 👍

@lauriesusan

2 жыл бұрын

@@gabriela4229 it’s on Amazon Prime right now 😁

@Purple9721.

2 жыл бұрын

Oh thank god 😭😂

@BruceWayne-fs8ty

2 жыл бұрын

@@RoryStockton A happy ending unlike in life

"No one is your companion but your shadow."

I could listen to this on repeat because of how relatable it is, every word of it is true, actually how I feel. I’m not able to say it as short and easy as this guys is.

@gaston7414

2 жыл бұрын

Look at ur name and profile pic. It might have something to do with it

@Ethan-yo3yg

2 жыл бұрын

@@gaston7414 what are saying

@zuvayxd

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ethan-yo3yg he’s talking about your humor and likings just do whatever you feel is right for you people will judge you no matter who you are

@Ethan-yo3yg

2 жыл бұрын

@@zuvayxdnobody in real life knows or cares about the name of my KZread account. Not only that but it has nothing to do with my personality or humor. It’s just a username…

@dr0n3droid

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ethan-yo3yg Your username says so much about you. Insight into who you think you are.

Watching this just made me delete my dating apps. This is exactly how I feel rn. Geez

@christarlex3236

2 жыл бұрын

there will always be a woman who likes you the way you are..you know dude I used to have this huge insecurity about what every guy in the room thought of me no cap..but honestly, you only need 1 good person to like you you can always try new things, stay strong

@drleo6409

2 жыл бұрын

Accepting rejection and not being bothered by by it can be a real blessing. Life with even the best woman may very well not be as good as one might “imagine”. A peaceful life is hard to beat.

@christarlex3236

2 жыл бұрын

@@drleo6409 indeed, exploring life with the gender you're attracted to is usually very much more enjoyable than doing so alone..but it's never easy to find the one you can actually get along with

@qualjusmagalgus7744

2 жыл бұрын

@@drleo6409 i mean cant really do that when you have rsd 😔

@christarlex3236

2 жыл бұрын

@@mich5698 we all hate ourselves sometimes, try to avoid the negative self talk and give yourself some love

You are a gifted being and if a woman don’t want to be in your life! She just don’t deserve you! Work on yourself always. Love yourself first!

As someone who’s lived like a hermit for the past 15 years, I know these feelings all too well.

These are the things that guys really feel but are expected to keep it to themselves. He is self aware and tired of trying. It's good that he has a mum to talk to about it

@kouzaris579

2 жыл бұрын

I've found I'm much happier not trying with it and instead focusing on my passions and my future. The right one will come along some time! I'm genuinely so much happier than I was during my relationship

@mournfulslasher940

2 жыл бұрын

For real man, it's the whole world when you got a mom to talk to about these things, if you got one talk to her every chance you get, tell her everything, they care, I miss mine.

This legit made me choke up because I couldn’t have said it any better. As men, we’re put through unnecessary pain with the attitude our feelings don’t matter. Gentlemen, you’re all kings. I’m sure we’ve all been hurt real bad by a certain woman we thought was special, but don’t let that determine your self worth. We’ll get through it together brothers. Chins up

@hawaiigirl8089

2 жыл бұрын

Of course your feelings matter! That’s not it at all. You know women get rejected, insulted etc feel bad by men too! What type of woman are you reaching for that you get rejected constantly?? Perhaps 🤔 you are not looking for realistic or, healthy women. Good manners, a witty joke, quick smile go far with the Nicer women.

@JustWilson

2 жыл бұрын

🤜🤛

@rileymcneese6625

2 жыл бұрын

Don't focus on women they suck

@bishopcross7921

2 жыл бұрын

Dude actually kind of reminds me of a bug

@rashilrichaards6850

2 жыл бұрын

@@hawaiigirl8089 being rejected isn't the problem. Being made fun of or insulted by women who reject you is the problem. A simple no is enough, but they have to let you know that they're 'out of your league'

Just got that today and no matter how much it happens, it still hurts

Already faced that fact, ain’t tryna get hurt more than necessary even though it hurts my mom seeing me alone

I’m that dude. Feels good to see something real. Makes me feel heard watching this. No self pity, just feeling a reflection of my present truth

@fimanu

2 жыл бұрын

Ok, but I'm not sure I believe your picture then, u look like ur the one doing the rejecting, but ok, if u say so.

@takeofftrackcoach

2 жыл бұрын

@@fimanu thank you for that. I know women feel the same way as well. We do reject but we also get rejected.

@tmartinez32

2 жыл бұрын

@@takeofftrackcoach brother, your maturity shines through in spades with that response. The quantity doesn't matter in the end. It's the quality that means anything and, brother, I think you are going to be ok in that department.

@pcosta3885

2 жыл бұрын

@@saraeissa4954 gonna be real for a second here. I Hate You. Obviously I don't know you, but the hole philosophy of "stop with the self-pity and make the change you want in the world" only goes so far, especially when it comes to human relationships You can't expect that every one will have a happy ending, some people will never find "the one" for them, most people I would say. Getting in a relationship only gets harder as time goes on, but the pain stays the same. Sometimes, accepting that you will be alone is the best for you, it gives you the "conclusion" for that part of your life and you can go be happy doing other things. Saying "hang on, you will find your mach" is very bad advice, for men and women, because you will never be sure it will happen. PS. Sorry for the bad grammar. PSS. I don't really hate you, it was just a hyperbole

@arnoldj.samson5795

2 жыл бұрын

@@fimanu wow fuck you. You are the best at parties especially when comforting someone.

It's been eons that people forgot how to reject others while not trying to hurt them. The rejection is almost always followed with an insult nowadays.

@FinalHero1

2 жыл бұрын

Even without the insult the failure hurts...

@mafumofu986

2 жыл бұрын

It's not a woman's job to pander to your feelings, suck it up

@CodsaAnimation

2 жыл бұрын

@@mafumofu986 He literally said nowadays, people reject others with an insult. He didn't say to console them or anything. If you ask me out, I'll just say no and done. I ain't consoling you cuz idk who tf you are and I ain't insulting you either because I'm not a dick. Just a simple no.

@gabrielsimerly3101

2 жыл бұрын

I think human empathy is regressing or degrading entirely. Worse is that I feel social media has exacerbated the issue by reducing the perceived value of any one human life. Sad shit my friends.

@razarok3584

2 жыл бұрын

Or false rape accusations, unless they come from a overly conservative country and your some what of a classical liberal "what the few people call fascist"

Those women were EEEEEEEE-VILLLLLLLL!

@vladimirputin4157

4 ай бұрын

*are

@melouromi

23 күн бұрын

Rejecting someone doesn't make you evil though?

@oggyreidmore

23 күн бұрын

@@vladimirputin4157 Every woman he was referring to is now dead. He's now dead. This is all past tense.

@oggyreidmore

23 күн бұрын

​@@melouromi Ernest Borgnine did the voice of Mermaid Man on SpongeBob SquarePants, 44 years after his role in this movie.

@melouromi

23 күн бұрын

@@oggyreidmore That's actually pretty cool

Women and men deserve to be treated equal. That is a fact. It's also a fact that both genders are humans with rights to their feelings and opinions, and what that should entail is rejecting someone kindly and peacefully, without making them feel like a "bug" that should be squashed.

This exactly one of the reasons why simple men turn to hookers. They don't play with your emotions. That's the sad truth.

@ad8128

2 жыл бұрын

And ultimately women are the winners. Get to enjoy sex & also a man's money.

@Alastair_

Жыл бұрын

They're also cheaper than a girlfriend/wife..

@sashauldistuns1571

Жыл бұрын

Technically, they do play with your emotions because they create a space for you to live that fantasy

@amsgh93

Жыл бұрын

In my country they say a whore knows how to find a good man

@wagner9050

Жыл бұрын

@@31witches55 So... you think you're correct/ GOD is wrong? You're N 4 a ride, lady!

I especially resonate with the part where he said: “what women like, I ain’t got”

@user-is7ww7di8j

2 жыл бұрын

@Laura Hackstein LMAFOOOOOO !

@deadreckoning6288

2 жыл бұрын

@Laura Hackstein Its a movie.

@raphaelultimo1425

2 жыл бұрын

@Laura Hackstein how is it that he does not have honestly and integrity?

@raphaelultimo1425

2 жыл бұрын

@Laura Hackstein wow. Thank you for your response. What you say makes sense. Peace.

@mystic-edits9646

2 жыл бұрын

@Laura Hackstein that’s basically the Islamic way of getting a significant other, the man talks to the girls father and shows his intentions with the dads daughter

This reminds me of my poor son. He’s 17 and he’s had his heart broken three times. He’s a tall, good looking kid that’s good at sports, but that still didn’t matter. That wasn’t enough to shield him from heartbreak and picking the wrong women that take advantage of his kind heart.

@alexandersibande

Жыл бұрын

Looks are good for first impressions. I believe your son must take a self introspection at his personality. Is he feminine? Is he submissive? Does he compromise his beliefs or certain values and aspects for a woman? There's a lot of accountability We as men must take to understand what led to where we are.

@vishnudevp.s2257

Жыл бұрын

You got bad karma?

@nishantjha4964

5 ай бұрын

If Tall good looking jocks are getting their hearts broken then there's no hope for am average Joe like me

@gaia7240

6 күн бұрын

Sorry but what do you expect from 17 years old? They are kids, they shouldn't even date

This is from the film called 'Marty' (1955). A really good film which hit home on some key points.

@Joy-fo8cs

2 күн бұрын

Thank u

"some stupid woman that I didn't even want to call up" that's the most relatable.

@devincoleman2870

2 жыл бұрын

@@saraeissa4954 he didn’t want to call her because he knew she wouldn’t be into him lol you can’t be so brain dead you couldn’t figure that out…

@bratty2987

2 жыл бұрын

@@devincoleman2870 why call her stupid though. Thats a sign he didnt like her to begin with.

@percdestroyer3071

2 жыл бұрын

@@devincoleman2870 so why would his dumbass call? lmao that’s his fault for that rejection.

@generaluser

2 жыл бұрын

@@bratty2987 he called her stupid in retrospect, after the brush. You can't be so brainless not to get that.

@biffin1123

2 жыл бұрын

@@generaluser "Dodged bullet for the girl" "His fault he got rejected" Seems like the women in the comment section really seem to understand what a guy like that goes through. 🙄

This is how I feel, granted I'm only 26, but it seems no matter what I do or who I'm talking to or dating. It always ends up not being enough, I come in second place or I'm being used to get the attention of another. A man just wants someone to bond with and create memories with.

@kj7682

2 жыл бұрын

Same here bro, I’m a woman

@joshrobeniol1375

2 жыл бұрын

Same. Most women these days have pretty high standards bro.

@donjon123

2 жыл бұрын

Mate if this is happening with every women you date your the common denominator. You need to find what in your personality is repelling the type of woman you want and attracting the woman you don’t want. Also sometimes you might wanna lower your standards.

@tubestick00

2 жыл бұрын

Aim a bit lower. work your way up. You're probably going for superficial girls who are better looking than you... there's really nice girls everywhere. Just aim for a 6.

@mehmesayed4234

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe you're shooting outta your league. If you're ugly, go for an ugly girl. It will hurt your ego but I mean better than nothing right?

He's not a bad looking guy, masculine and even with how he's talking, he's not shaming women or saying anything nasty. Gentle and kind. This is a real man, and I hope in whatever movie this was, he found himself a lady who loves and adores him.

This is one of the most awesome scenes in cinematic history!

A man opening up to his mother about his love life heart pains. I love it

@sweetie9393

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Real life talk! No mother wants to hear this it makes her worry about her son. She becomes protective and will wanna put every girl through the paces so her son don’t get hurt. He just needs to pick girls that are not out of his league. Some men want the cute pink Ferrari when they got the Toyota right here ready to go! 🤷🏽‍♀️

@deseann1591

2 жыл бұрын

I wish I grew up with my mom 💔 I got my aunties and granny tho 💯‼️

@vladimirputin4157

4 ай бұрын

​@@sweetie9393This is simply untrue. The only two characteristics that count in attracting women are your facial asthetics and height.