The One and Only Advice I Wished I Knew in My 20s

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In this finale episode, discover how the most turbulent rides often lead to the richest growth. Discover Sylvia’s pivotal moment in her coaching journey, which inspired her to transition from seeking guidance to providing it, and understand the motivations behind starting this powerful podcast - to share transformative insights and foster a community of growth.
We underscore the importance of diverse perspectives and how the right role models can dramatically reshape our paths.
Tune in for a blend of deep insights and uplifting moments, and stay excited for what’s coming next - a teaser of future projects and continuing adventures in self-discovery and communal growth. Join us for this unforgettable close-out, where every messy chapter is a crucial step toward our highest selves.
TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 Intro
00:43 Let’s Talk About Rebirth
02:44 Sylvia’s Experience With Her Coaches
03:19 Sylvia’s First Coachsultant
09:58 Engaging A Trauma Coach
11:40 Coach Number 13
12:04 The Different Types Of Coaching Styles
13:50 Differences Between A Good and Not So Good Coaches
18:20 The Unconventional Life Coach - Dan
20:05 Breathing Fun Into Life Coaching
21:58 Devoid Of Fun And Doing Things Out Of Obligations
22:47 What Does Having Fun Mean?
24:21 Sylvia Pivoting Into Full Time Life Coaching
28:20 A Surprise For You!
29:41 What Tipped Sylvia Over To Being A Life Coach?
33:12 Life Changing Coaching Session That I Thought I Failed
36:34 Are You Really Starting From Zero When You Pivot?
38:13 Sylvia’s Motto In Life Now
38:38 The Sacred Mission Of Being A Life Coach
45:00 How Is Dan And Sylvia Working Together?
48:18 That One Advice To Avoid Pain, Suffering And Missteps
54:32 The Evolution Of Vibrations And Frequency Matching
56:42 A New And Different Perception
01:00:14 Sylvia’s Favourite Role Model Now
01:05:07 Navigating Changes And Divine Timing
01:08:51 Embarking On A New Journey and Challenge
01:11:06 The Juicy Mango Wisdom
01:12:04 This Is What It Means Being Alive
01:13:04 Thank You For Holding Space
01:14:10 Invitation To Join The Dirty Messy Free Community
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CREDITS:
Co-Host - Sylvia Chan / sylsyl.chan
Co-Host - Daniel Lim / litolabs
Producer - Kenji Tan / litolabs | Epic Dialogue / epic.dialogue
Videography & Photography - Michael Goetomo / amerrymayhem
Studio - Apartmentofu / apartmentofu
Flower Décor & Set Styling - Heartwork Design Co / heartwork_co
Wardrobe & Styling - Your Fairy Godmama / yourfgmm
Hair & Makeup - Kat Zhang / katzhangmua
Studio Videography - Keane Tan / kea_n_e
Studio Photography - Hayden Chan / hyydnn
Assisted By - / thelovestudios | / davidlye | / wondurless
Editor - Phoebe Park / eun8eepark
Jarren Lau / jveszx
Audio - Yongsu Lee, Kyoungchan Won, Seonghee Han, Jihoon Kim

Пікірлер: 29

  • @Missy_Ai
    @Missy_AiАй бұрын

    Honestly when I watched SC's interview by XX years ago, the first thing that came to my mind was "This woman so poor thing, gotten herself in such a traumatizing situation. Hope she will stay strong and move on".

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for being here through my ups and downs!

  • @dy8277
    @dy8277Ай бұрын

    Hi Sylvia, it's wonderful that you have undergone this transformation into a more enlightened person. However, I was hoping that you would have talked about workplace abuse and toxicity since you have a very rare perspective when it comes to this issue. It is reasonable to believe that many people cancelled you because you represented experiences that they have had in toxic workplaces. I do feel that it is unfair for one person to take on the "sins" of other toxic bosses and that is unfortunate. What advice do you have for people stuck in toxic workplaces and what can bosses do to create a good working environment?

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    If there's ample requests, I would be happy to not just share stories but actual tangible and concrete solutions via a masterclass in our upcoming community! It's been an eye opening process for me learning through it for 12 months with a professional HR coach!

  • @kirtanacchums
    @kirtanacchumsАй бұрын

    Thank you for this amazing podcast !!

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    Our pleasure! ❤️ If you've found this helpful, you can consider our upcoming community adventures on www.dirtymessyfree.com ✨️

  • @jhjanice8918
    @jhjanice8918Ай бұрын

    This episode is so relatable. I love listening to what others have to say and their stories. I enjoy doing it for my family and friends even tho I am not paid for it. I can totally relate to what Sylvia and Dan is saying. I thought it is a weird ME thing but this episode gave me relief that this is just that I haven't found my community. 😊

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    You are already loved by the right people ❤️

  • @rainbow-yj6dp
    @rainbow-yj6dp14 күн бұрын

    Sylvia is the best! always supporting u ! looking forward to more videos!

  • @kikkobaby
    @kikkobabyАй бұрын

    Dear Dan and Sylvia, I want to extend my heartfelt gratitude for your collaborative effort in bringing forth this beautiful project and partnership! This episode exudes such light-heartedness and wholesomeness, serving as a delightful transition to the journey ahead. xoxo!

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    Our pleasure to be here with a fellow kindred soul ✨️

  • @jocelynggogogo
    @jocelynggogogoАй бұрын

    Sad that it’s the last episode but excited that it’s gonna be the next part of the journey to impact more people! And also honoured to already have benefited from your coaching before DMF!!

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    We love you SO MUCH ❤️

  • @andreang3531
    @andreang3531Ай бұрын

    I need more episodes!! Idky but it’s so soothing listening to your content 😄😄

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    Awwww, so glad that we resonate 🥰💕

  • @evanlau8
    @evanlau8Ай бұрын

    msian fan here! keep up the great work

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you I miss Malaysia! 😊

  • @jamesjuze
    @jamesjuzeАй бұрын

    Awesome sharing once again. When the student is ready, the coach will appear. Thanks for pointing out that we cant just have one single role model but we need multiple people who excel in different part of theirs so we can have the best of all worlds. Its such a simple yet powerful way to look at this and looks like I really need to go back to hitting the books.

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    Absolutely! So many teachers to learn from 🥰

  • @GraceChai-bg5no
    @GraceChai-bg5noАй бұрын

    Jiayou you both! Continue to inspire and be inspired :)

  • @DirtyMessyFree

    @DirtyMessyFree

    Ай бұрын

    Thank you for being uplifting!

  • @dojc6526
    @dojc6526Ай бұрын

    why the view get lesser n lesser.... i think need better content or bigger drama. why not get both side of the story, what they gain/learn from it and how to better manage toxic situation. invite the casts, the staffs, the 3rd parties(xmm) and the partner in crime to share. i think this channel need more subs n views.

  • @dojc6526

    @dojc6526

    Ай бұрын

    please dont get all upset like previously. i looking at it from a CC pov. production of such content need to pay for crews & equipments so the account need to be balance . cannot be naive about where the money is going right. unless you guys got sponser lah.

  • @kelvinkwok5305

    @kelvinkwok5305

    27 күн бұрын

    Because the public only wants the tea. The tea was never really spilled and these 2 are really just not entertaining podcaster.

  • @dojc6526

    @dojc6526

    27 күн бұрын

    @@kelvinkwok5305 is not easy to run a channel . i hope all parties n viewers learn lesson from this. And hopefully this will be the end and both move on . stop milking from this drama. there bigger fish to catch.

  • @jamesjuze
    @jamesjuzeАй бұрын

    Lai Liao. Your instastory put wrong timing 😂

  • @merrychase9744

    @merrychase9744

    Ай бұрын

    last episode 🥲

  • @jamesjuze

    @jamesjuze

    Ай бұрын

    @@merrychase9744 and new beginnings. ;)

  • @sushiliciousx1232
    @sushiliciousx123223 күн бұрын

    is it just me or the wayy they talk is damn dramatic and damn cringe pls

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