Great stuff!! As a busy dad trying to provide and coming from an unstable upbringing I always feel like I"m totally clueless. These kinds of talks do help.

@brentschmitmeyer5227

2 жыл бұрын

Hey Father Jason love that your trying. It's amazing to hear someone like you trying as hard as it must be. I'm sure your Father in heaven is looking down on you ✨️ and so proud of you. Just so as you are and down what you can. Hope and keep getting back to there is always hope in a God that made you for this life 🙏

True Discipline is about giving good example and being Honest and Humble. We are human and so not perfect - we all make mistakes.

I will always remember my father apologizing for giving me a punishment for something which my brother did. It taught me that everyone makes mistakes even adults, you have to apologize to other person no matter how old they are. Now I am my Dad with my own children.

When a person needs a therapist just to talk about the day to day we have lost the art of friendship.

@alonelyshrub

2 жыл бұрын

While there is merit in your statement, the point of a therapist is to be a non-biased uninvolved perspective who is trained in observable, psychological trends among humanity, that can help us process more complex and complicated situations in our life. Friends are part of our support system, but there are things that they don't know how to address that therapists specialize in.

@brendamyc3057

2 жыл бұрын

There are things Saints specialize in that therapists will never understand.

Too many good thoughts!! *"Refusing to apologize is what's undermining your authority."* Being a leader doesn't mean you need perfection. The best leaders will not only accept criticism, but *invite* critcism, because they want to know how to become the best leader possible. If you refuse to acknowledge your wrongs as a leader or refuse to listen to *any* ideas others have, you're denying yourself and limiting yourself the means to improve and are only setting yourself up for failure. Lead by example. If you lead with humility, people will follow you out of humility. They'll emulate you, so do the good things yourself that you want to pass on.

@boguslav9502

2 жыл бұрын

I find the best leaders constantly ask guided and very intense questions that are limited in scope and seek to really elevate and involve their team whatever it may be. These leaders not only know their team inside and out, but have their trust, and genuinely can make the best decisions for all of them. But these arent wishy washy questions "what would you like to do?" no its for example "how much more can you tolerate and still be able to do XYZ" for example.

Dr. Breuninger has a soft, kind voice.. He listens intently.. Then he gives a soft answer that is so strong, that it just knocks your shoes off!

Awesome advice on parenting but applied to all relationships! 🙏 🙌 😇

Our relationship with God is a mirror image of our relationships with our spouses and kids. If I am not right with God, I won’t be right with my kids and that includes practicing the virtue of humility and love enables humility at the end of the day. As a dad, find going for confession regularly and staying in the state of grace enables me to be better in my relationships with my family. It’s definitely easier to forgive and ask for forgiveness when one is in a state of grace. We love because He loved us first!

I'm a workplace leader and a father, and both mean being willing and able to apologize, admitting when you're wrong, and modelling what to do when you're wrong.

I’m scared of being a father. That I’m not manly enough because I didn’t feel like that was modelled by my father very well on what it means to be a man, and I don’t want my son to be confused about that, but I am just struggling with that myself... My parents didn’t teach me very well when it came to sexuality and I think I ended up becoming curious and learning about it from my “friends” who corrupted me and taught me a very worldly view of sexuality and now I am trying to unlearn it all.... I need God’s help, because I keep to turning to porn, although U know it’s so wrong... I am genuinely afraid my eternal salvation is in question because of it... I cannot get to confession because I work 6 days a week- I have a job working in healthcare and I see patients dying all the time and it weighs heavily on me... I feel like the only way I can get to heaven is to show my patients the most mercy, because I can only hope can will have mercy on me when my time to die comes.... I don’t want to die. I want to live and my legacy to live on through my children. I don’t want to be a bad father and die alone.... I want loving sons and children who can be proud of me one day for being a loving father.... if the Bible is true and that love covers a multitude of sins, I can only hope that showing my patients the Mercy of God will be the thing which gives me the strength to p e day love Christ as He Des sees... Omy Jesus, you know I am truly sorry for my sins, and I hope you know how much I truly love you. I know you don’t love sin and I don’t love it either but for some reason i have not been able to defeat this... please come and have mercy on me. I’m done trying to conquer this in my own strength a d only you can save me... please help me live out Mercy like I’ve never done before. Amen

@maealberto9445

2 жыл бұрын

You need to make time for confession brother. Use a sick day, call the Catholic priest hospital chaplain, make an appointment with a parish priest…do whatever it takes. Jesus is waiting. Your salvation depends on it. God bless.

@sitbunnynow

2 жыл бұрын

Most priests will make an appointment for confession if you email them!

If you do a wrong to your children, like loosing your patients with them, you should apologize. You should not apologize for patenting your children! Your kids aren't gonna like your parenting, that's Ok, your not supposed to be their friend!

I would disagree that a relationship can always be repaired. My own father proves that with me. There is no amount of repentance that I think could ever rebuild our trust or relationship. I would celebrate his repentance and conversion to the Christian faith, but not with him. I would never trust him with myself or my family, never again. Not because I don't forgive him (I have) or that I hold a grudge (I don't) he has just proven to me that there is little he won't lie about if it means getting what he wants and one of the things he has always wanted was to hurt me. One of the last times I saw him he even told me he basically told me he would kill me if he felt he could get away with it. Nope, that relationship can definitely never be repaired in this life. Then again, it never existed in the first place apart from the relationship any hostage has with their abusive captor.

Nope, not every parent.

Naievě socially-engineered parents won't succeed with that application with socially-engineered children.

The belt is a child's best friend

@JP2GiannaT

2 жыл бұрын

I mean yeah, when they have really skinny hips...I can't keep jeans up on my kid any other way.

@paynedv

2 жыл бұрын

@@JP2GiannaT, Proverbs 23:12-14 [12]Let thy heart apply itself to instruction and thy ears to words of knowledge. [13]Withhold not correction from a child: for if thou strike him with the rod, he shall not die. [14]Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell

@JP2GiannaT

2 жыл бұрын

What does any of that have to do with wardrobe malfunctions?