hi! single black woman in her 30’s here and this is the kind of life lessons i have been missing out on. father passed pretty young and we never got to have these talks. thanks for putting the messages out there.

@galadrielwoods2332

2 күн бұрын

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I love what you said about how women lost sight of what they are because men lost sight of it. I'm a millenial homeschooling mom of three boys with another boy on the way. I thank God I have a traditional husband, chivalrous and honorable. He is a kind of man you rarely see today. He treats me very well; as described in the Bible as a man should treat his wife. I do my very best to treat him as a wife should treat her husband. Sometimes I see these channels with men asking for a trad. Wife and I have often thought I am able to be me because my husband is who he is. When I met him I was a modern teenager girl, a latchkey kid raised on tv screens and modern culture, lost like any other. To keep with your analogy, he saw a nugget being treated as a doorstop and he picked me up and started treating me right. So now we are going on 15 happy years together and God willing we will have four sons soon.

@MC-ze8wj

Ай бұрын

Edit; to be clear we were both 18 when we met.

@anibaldtc7228

Ай бұрын

Yours is truly an inspiring story. May God bless you and your family for many, many more years

@thossi09

Ай бұрын

A lot of those boys wishing for a "tradwife" don't realise that means they have to be a "tradhusband". And that's where a lot of guys fall short. In a way, it's like wishing for a PhD while also thinking university is a waste of time.

@virginiacreager4331

Ай бұрын

This has me in tears 😭🧡, what a beautiful story.

@ourforsurelife3334

4 күн бұрын

Oh my gosh, your story sounds almost identical to mine!!!!! 🩷🩷🩷🩷

I’m a 24 year old single mother who’s been struggling with my value. Thank you so much for saying these things, I needed to hear it. God bless.

when you said "some of you rascals go out and keep your mothers awake at night crying over you" something just hit my soul and i just stared at the screen thinking of the love of my mom and how sometimes i hurt her like that.. your videos are amazing man and you are helping me alot become a better person, thank you for this from the deepest part of my heart.

@sandasturner9529

Ай бұрын

I keep my parents awake at night too while I'm home in my laboratory!!! 😄😌😈😈😈😈😈 I love lightning bolts and sparks!! And creating new stuff!

@sandasturner9529

Ай бұрын

But my parents know I'm not evil or a lawbreaker. I have no record, except the streak I have for almost hurting myself multiple times.

@81wladar

Ай бұрын

​@@sandasturner9529why do you think we care?

@sovietonion9542

Ай бұрын

@@81wladarhe was just sharing his experiences on the topic

@pierogipierogipierogi

Ай бұрын

​@@81wladarstfu some of us humans do care

I was at the laundromat the other day. I had my arms full of laundry. This man was in front of me and he intentionally let the door close in front of me. I thought, that man is messed up! Out of respect and consideration, I open doors for others and would never let a door close on someone, including that guy.

@sundown6748

2 күн бұрын

Just think, he’s probably some weak loser watching red pill videos 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@BugsyB1979

2 күн бұрын

He probably didn't want to offend you if you were a crazy feminist!

So excited for my wife to be a mother in August. First baby over here

@landz2154

Ай бұрын

Congratulations!!! ❤

@landz2154

Ай бұрын

Congratulations!!❤

@heiketheangel546

16 күн бұрын

All the best for y‘all ❤

@hunter702lv

16 күн бұрын

Thanks guys!

I've never been offended by anything you've said Dwayne. I'm a woman, and not traditional per se, but I always appreciate your wisdom. I think your views are pretty fair and balanced.

@izzy9441

Ай бұрын

Amen!

@LMFAO5001

Ай бұрын

I respect that you watched all the way through I don’t agree with Dwayne on everything either but the wisdom is there. As long as you are a good person to the people around you the rest don’t matter.

@HowellQ

Ай бұрын

@@LMFAO5001 I don't agree with all his points either (as a man) but that doesn't mean I'm not going to listen to his points of view.

@citiestoash

Ай бұрын

You’re better off than most. Many people think you can only get along with somebody if you have views that directly mirror your own. Which ofc isn’t true. It’s narcissistic to think that way really. I don’t have always agree with Dewayne. But that’s okay. I don’t have to. Nor would he have to agree with all mine should we be sitting down having a cigar. Still think this man is incredible and I’d love to have that cigar with him regardless haha

@Trippy814official

Ай бұрын

People dance around the subject of Trans and lady boys but he summed it up pretty well I've always thought of it that way. I agree with everything this man says I'd vote him into presidency 😂

Your wife gotta be VERY lucky to have such a wise & thought filled husband 😭

"Ladies, quit trying to be a man you're better than that and you'll naught be better than that by becoming what they are, you only become better than that by becoming what they cannot be." This right here stopped me in my tracks and I think it really must be said more. Great video.

@pld-wc7gf

Күн бұрын

Most women are just trying to survive.

Well said! I am a mother of 4 and I take great pride and care in raising my children. I do believe taking the mother from the home is what is wrong with society. A mother is not meant to work outside of the home…her focus should be on her family. It’s either a career or motherhood…you cannot do both well and whole-heartedly. Women are responsible for choosing the next generation, we have a very important role and I believe women need to step up and demand their rightful roles back!

@myme8208

3 күн бұрын

The career or motherhood never was a thing until few hundred years ago. Alot of women were Queens and mothers, were scientists and mothers, just like a father was. The problem is the weak men who leave women when they have children. My mother was a stay at home mom and some still didn't want to have any relationship when we grew up and some girls I grew up with their mothers worked and they married at 18 or 20 and have healthy relationships with their mothers. Women being hyper focused on their children's lives when those children are teens or young adults is the result of mothers whose world rotates around the children's lives and I hated seeing that from my mom. At some point in life those kids will leave and it's that constant need they got that shakled us children to them even as adults. I hope you do realize that and find something you love to do when your children get to school. Nothing is wrong with that either.

I'm divorced. I'm almost crying. Thank you for speaking truth. Many of us ladies feel seen and validated by your words.

Thanks Dwayne. I'm a mother of 3 little boys and my husband always treasures me . I think it takes a good man to let a woman live up to her potential. I never wanted kids until I met my husband and being around a real man who saw potential in me really changed my life so much for the better. I was really lost before I met him. Sometimes I still struggle to understand what he sees in me, so this video really hit home about how men see women. Thanks so much again, it's a wonderful and much needed message.

I’m a third generation feminist and hearing you say women are a treasure, mothers are a treasure has tears running down my face 😭🧡. I believe that’s true feminism and I wish our society and the world believed that as well. That’s not treating women “equal” by expecting them to leave their infants to jump right back into their careers. I’m a post partum doula and watching what women go through physically emotionally and spiritually to deny their healing bodies and detach from their babies is absolutely soul wrenching. But what’s worse is seeing the pain of the babies. The crying and distress of these infants has my heart in pieces every time. It’s a cruel and ruthless system that is completely toxic to mama, child and the whole family.

@kenandrieling5885

Ай бұрын

You need to drop the feminist title

@jordanjewel2773

Ай бұрын

@@kenandrieling5885 you need to chill.

I’m a man that recently got divorced and this is something I needed to hear. I put a little too much blame on her for walking away but I let those things blind me of the mistakes I made. I still don’t think she should have but I need to put that aside and I need to be better. Thanks Dwayne.

I can agree with everthing you say except for holding a door open for a man. I spent many years as a truck driver. Most everyone at truckstops held the door for each other, in spite of an OKC police detective describing truckstops as a 'den of rattlesnakes'. He based his view on a few, rather than most. Acts of courtesy and friendliness are appreciated by most, even people who have a lot of problems in their life.

@jewellcarpenter6764

Ай бұрын

But it is a den of rattlesnakes...

@michaelgarrity6090

Ай бұрын

As a man, I hold doors open for other men and other men have held doors for me. I think that's just being good and decent to other people. It would be rude if I just let a door slam in the face of a man or anyone walking behind me. I think if its at all possible, we need to be kind to our fellow human beings. Especially today when its a yime that far too many people seem to enjoy being nasty to others. I fight against that carrying on as best I can.

@ruck27

Ай бұрын

As a Canadian, we just always hold the door open for whomever.

@thomasprieto2073

Ай бұрын

I agree but I’d like to think he didn’t mean how that statement came across. I think he meant to say he doesn’t hold the door open for a man for the same reason that he holds the door open for women(because they’re treasure and therefore must be respected).

@DryCreekWranglerSchool

Ай бұрын

@thomasprieto2073 you are correct, sir. That is exactly how I meant it. I haven’t corrected anybody on this statement because I felt like it was obvious enough that it didn’t need to be addressed. I think enough people have watched my videos that they should understand that I am not impolite or courteous.

Raw, beautiful words. I grew up with an abusive, nasty father but a strong, loving mother. He's been out my life for well over a decade and even though I've known a good, honourable step dad for as many years I feel myself struggling to stabilise and become a good man myself. As hard as it is for me, I owe so much to my mother, to this day, for escaping my dad and giving me a chance of finding myself.

@eileenhavern77

Ай бұрын

You will be ok Charlie 😊

@CrozierCrow

Ай бұрын

I've been through the same thing and through my late teens and early 20s was terrified that I'd turn out the same way, cried over it, couldn't bear the thought that I as a person with my own mind could go down similar paths from what I witnessed. Logically I hated it, but further down I could feel it. Took me a lot more years of knowing people to know it's something I would never do. The fact you're thinking about it clearly, and that you've counted your blessings shows me you have nothing to worry about. The world will love you if you struggle through adversity and still smile at the world with open arms. I don't need to have faith, I know you're gonna be alright.

No need to apologize for speaking truth and wisdom, Dwayne. I am a single female who did not marry and have children--always thought I would be a wife and mother; but life has a way of not going as planned. My parents were wonderful people who loved and respected each other and who loved and raised my brother and I as best they could, often through sacrifice. I miss both of them and hardly a day goes by that I don't wish I could spend time with them, ask for advice, etc. I feel sadness for the many, many fractured families in our culture. Keep speaking to that need.... ❤

@canyonsand

Ай бұрын

Marrying and having children does not make you any less of a treasure than you already are as a woman who embraces her womanhood.

@sandasturner9529

Ай бұрын

​​@@canyonsand real talk, although I'd have to give it some thought, ya know, think up a game plan about how Imma be able to support (or help support) extra people if ya catch my drift. Ya know prepare to be more, "responsible".

@shatakshipandey8014

Ай бұрын

Hope you get to experience your dreams.

My father was a stern Southern man. Wasn't a preacher. He was a brick layer, who knarled his hands up in the Chicago cold to make sure I had food, shelter, and clothing. A hard man. Not a tender man. He loves us. But dreams, existentialism, careers, all that stuff doesn't supercede surviving. He grew up poor with 10 brothers and sisters, and a dad who likes to drink and hobo in trains. It's taken me half of my adult life to understand the cut of man I've been dealing with. He's mellowed out, I'm still growing up. Mom has always been there as the buffer. After watching me get cut out of a car at an intersection. After running off to the Navy, and worrying her to death learning how to fly helicopters. She is a Saint. Nothing less.

I am listening to this with my baby sleeping next to me. THANK YOU! I am smiling and tearing up at everything that you say. Thank you!

Wow, as a woman I loved hearing this. But also as a woman I feel the same way about my husband. His roll in providing for and protection in this crazy age is a huge burden on him. I’m proud of my husband.

@jillianminton8506

2 күн бұрын

What’s he protecting ya from ?

@winterwoodcottage3657

2 күн бұрын

@@jillianminton8506 The list of ways he loves , honors, cherishes, provides for and protects our family is to numerous to put here. But I can assure you that women who live alone can be targets for a lot of sickos. His presence is enough to deter many.

My Momma gave birth to me in 1963...she was a 32 yr old unwed Mother....I'm thankful every day that she went through those tough times and had me. She left us 4 yrs ago and I miss her so much. ⚘

@ZagelMedia

Ай бұрын

Sorry for your loss. I hope you are doin' okay ♥

@SophieKopf

Ай бұрын

God bless you! ❤

Well, my heroes have always been cowboys, and they still are it seems... My husband died with the co vid in 2020, and my horse died in January this year. I had them both for about 25 years. I miss them both everyday. Life is heartbreaking sometimes. My husband use to buy me birthday cards and mother's day cards and sign them, "with love, Fatty Boy." Fatty was my horse. My heart hurts.

@elainesgroi1709

Ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your losses. They both "carry" us in different ways. Wishing you healing and "the peace that transcends all thought".

This is one of the best monologues I’ve ever listened to.

@ruck27

Ай бұрын

Everyone should watch this video

@moniquemyers2770

Ай бұрын

Thank you so much for being a warm caring voice for all of us women and mothers! What a loving kind father and husband you must be. ❤🕊💙 🇺🇸

It felt nice to hear that Women was the first Gift from God and Jesus was the second.. thanks for that.

My mother has been a blessing to me since I was born; I’m 57 now; having experienced/suffered a stroke that left me half paralyzed (at 52 years old); my mom checks in on me almost daily and always offers something to comfort me regardless of anything. I am grateful and blessed to have a wonderful mother. Great video Dewayne!

@stephenwhittier6439

Ай бұрын

Thanks, Dewayne, I am 76 years old on my third wife and I treat her like a queen that she is. My mom was my aunt. I am very thankful for the women in my life!

You said "I have regrets in the way I have raised my children". With the context you said that, I believe a lot more sons and daughters are in dire need to hear those words from their parents. I am not saying all those (including yours) wher raised in a wrong way. But hearing the words, "I regret my actions" could have a strong healing affect.

Thank-you Dwayne from an "old fashioned" woman. Your kind words put a tear in my eye😢. Our world desperately needs more men like you. God Bless!

I don't know what's more heart melting, the wisdom from this video, or the amazing, supportive, open minded community you have built. I have been watching your stuff for probably 2 years now, and the community you have gathered here is just immaculate. Just proves that if you are who you truly are, and always speak your mind freely your going to get the people that relate to what you think and what you truly believe in. As a young man I express my greatest appreciations for you being here when I was in a desperate need for advice.

I had no choice but to become the mother, father, the husband, the brother. Every men in my life, starting with my father failed me. Now in days, as a mother of three, a nurse, a member of the military, I find myself feeling hopeless, I attempted to be the wife, the feminine, and I ended up having to pick myself off the floor and becoming the men I needed. I don’t think there will ever be any men I can respect. I carry to much resentment, pain, and fear that a men would hurt me again. So I take the role of both. My children are now 23 /18/ 3 my two oldest joined the military and I am beyond thankful for them. They are amazing humans, so I feel accomplished and think I did a good job with whatever I was given. But I understand your message. Thanks for your wise words.

@danatwigg4660

Күн бұрын

I think you are an amazing woman. The truth is, it is very womanly, to take it all on, take the male duties, and make sure the kids are alright. Congratulations. I don’t know what men are going to do. Lots of them, want women to be more like men, because it’s easier for them.

as a career woman, who is also a christian and not a feminist, i agree with everything he says. “old school” values are beautiful and being a home maker and mother and taking care of the home and animals is beautiful and in another life i woulda chosen differently. Happy Mothers Day everyone ❤

I wish Mama a Happy Mother's Day! My family went out to eat to celebrate.

This one almost had me cryin.. close to home for me, ya know. Lord's using you to stir hearts, Dewayne. Holy Spirit's movin.

I’ve always believed women are special and to be appreciated greatly. Your words are right on today. Couldn’t say it better. Happy Mother’s Day to all mothers!

"Dwayne's feeling scratchy today" made me laugh harder than I expected lol. Thank you my brother in Christ always for your incredible wisdom ❤

@ruck27

Ай бұрын

I enjoy Dewaynes scratchy subjects

"But, you're the type of people who get offended all the time at anything and if you don't have something directly in front of ya to get offended at, you'll make something up. So, I'm just gonna let you know in advance I don't care. Ok? Let's just make it easy, I don't care." 😁❤ Love the honesty, Dewayne!! Preach it, Brother! And I'd have no issue showing this entire video to my 18 yr old daughter and 13 yr old son.

As a Mother of 2, I approve this entire message. 👍❤️💙

Live pretty far from where I grew up and drove 12 hours on Friday to spend the weekend with my mom. Drivin back another 12 tomorrow (had to push mothers day a day ahead hahaha). Tells you everything you need to know about how much respect ive got for her. Dad walked out when the 4 of us kids were young and She sacrificed so much for our family for years and is the best role model, the embodiment of how to be a parent, and has the most character of anyone ive ever met in my life. If you're readin this give your momma a call and tell her ya love her

@Thankful305

Ай бұрын

Wow!! This comment is incredible! Your mom is very blessed for you to drive that far just for her special day ❤

This is one of my favorite videos so far & I’ve seen almost all of them. My 12 year old son watches your videos after homeschool each day. I think he’s going to be a better man one day because of it. There’s nothing in this video that is even remotely inappropriate or incorrect. Thank you for using your platform to spread truth and wisdom. We need more of that in this world. God bless you and your family. I hope your wife has a special day. She is a treasure.

Absolutely spot on message Brother! Woman and Mothers are treasures! Best line in the entire video because it’s so true. Blessings to you wife, your Mom and all the Mothers out there! We need you!

What I appreciate about you is how my 14 and 16 year old girls love all of the wisdom in your videos. Thank you for the example and for appreciating the women in your life. What a blessing you and momma are.

Good to be here Dewayne, god bless you and your family.

Just starting into the video, but love hearing the meadow lark in the background.

I'm a woman and I loved this video. It made me feel special and valued. Thank you 🥰

I lost my father last year and my grandpa is long gone. I appreciate your videos reminding me of the words I often heard that I don’t get to hear anymore. Honestly, truly it keeps me strong hearing another good man telling me this. Thank you!

It’s sad to see how dewayne now approaches his teachings out of anger and some sort of self protection against haters rather than good old man’s advice, as it was in the beginning. I’ve been following you since the 10k and I appreciate you and your wisdom. I learned a lot and am still learning. I just don’t wanna learn how not to do, I wanna learn how TO do, looking at your example. Ima 23 yo man, I hope that my generation people doesn’t misinterpret that. Thank you and all the blessings your way!

@Matthew-00

Ай бұрын

A lot of people on the internet are extremely cruel and hateful, especially to people like Dewayne who speak directly from the heart; they hate that because they have no heart or wisdom to speak from themselves. They are misguided and lost, and we should pity them. I understand that you might think his teachings are 'out of anger' but I can assure you that the reality is the opposite. This entire video is overflowing with righteous anger purely out of love for the women in his life, and that's something our society desperately needs. If you learn anything from this video, it should be that.

@kupewataaka6917

4 күн бұрын

I believe in telling you what not to do, you are being told, what to do. Kind of like a parent or a Grand Pa, sometimes they reprimand you.

Couldn’t agree more Dewayne! I had a man who used me as that door stop. Never once considered I’m still the same value as I was before I married him. Thank you!!

Wow! Beautifully spoken and thank you so much, Sir, for this encouragement! As a lady, I was very blessed hearing this. God bless you!🙏🏻

UC Berserkly 😂 nothing like some more cowboy wisdom today, that's a treasure too.

AS a mother you brought tears to my eyes❤️🥰

"Just smashing into one wall after another" underrated. So many silent. I do understood your opinion on womanhood. I wish you peace Dewayne.

Thank you Dwayne. As a woman and a mother and grandmother we need a real man like you!

AMEN! You earned a new subscriber today! As a REAL WOMAN and MOTHER, we need you men to stand up for us, so we can stay in our feminine roles! God bless you and your family! God bless your wife! She sounds like a Saint and God's gift to you for being such an amazing man. ❤ God bless her and your children and grandchildren and all of your generations to come. 🙏

What a beautiful video, Dwayne, Set to the music of a meadowlark. Thank you for the beautiful gift.

I just broke in my praying knees, and your message came up next. May God continue to bless you, and may you continue to share the true message. You my unknown friend, are a blessing in our lives.

Call a spade a spade thank you sir your the best

I am so blessed by your message. You see women and motherhood and recognize all the dirty details and all the hardships- you see the value and the vulnerability of women and respect them highly. Men have been so ignorant to all of these things and have lost sight. I myself, through the stress of raising four kids and the chaos of the world around me, have begun to lose sight of these things myself. You have taken a bold stand in position of a man protecting women. You’ve lifted my spirits and motivated me to remember the values that I’m called by God to bring to my kids and my home and I’m going to go back to those roots before I slip away too far. Thank you for taking the time to speak these things!

Thanks for being YOU!! Heartfelt message!! Happy Mother's Day to the Mothers in your life!!

You sir are what embodies what a true gentleman should be.

I was thinking of you folks as i came up 25 and then 90 this morning and passed Sheridan. Great video, Sir!! I wish you all the best this season!!!!

I am a regular here. I did not want to watch this just because of the climate we are in today. But I have not missed one, so with a little extra time on my hands I got to it a week late. It is one of the best videos you have posted, really. And with every “scratchy” comment it just got better; there was nothing scratchy about it from my old male’s perspective. Hold fast man, and woman!

God Bless you, Dwayne! You’re a National Treasure to the ones that truly understand the meaning and significance behind your videos. I’ve been watching for years, commenting when I felt the need; here I just want to give thanks. Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and viewpoints. You’ve helped me understand more about myself and life than most other people I’ve come across on this earth, and for that I thank you. Take Care

Thank you for this. Lip quivering and teary eyed. Sincerely, Mama of 3

Never offended. Please continue speaking your heart 🙏

Thank you for your blunt honestly. Not enough people these days express it. Great talking points. And thank you for being scratchy, the world needs to hear it once in a while. Like you said we are as a society unbalanced. It makes my head spin. Wishing Mama a Happy Mothers Day! And to all the other Moms out there, thank you and Happy Mother's Day!!

@red_d0g767

Ай бұрын

I implore you to watch the whole video: How Conservatives Created (And Cancelled) Gender by Alexander Aliva

Thank you Dwayne for saying this. It's sad so many men have forgotten that we weren't put on this earth to be kicked around like a dog, walked over or abused (verbally, mentally or emotionally). You described my husband (the knuckle head, etc.) to a T. He's been mostly the bread winner (which he seems to resents) while I worked on & off, but raised our 4 kid's & one of his kid's. He needs ALL the attention. 30 yrs, feeling special important or what have you was never a thing. My mom & I never got along for the majority of my life. But I've always tried to do my best at making her day special. Failed some. For me, tomorrow is just another day. Hopefully it'll be as beautiful as today was. Then I came be outside working after seeing my folk's. Happy Mother's day to Momma & to Memaw. I hope they both get pampered on their special day. 🙏🥰

AMEN, & AMEN. What a message brother ! Thank you for always sharing your heart AND for the reminder of the specialness of our mothers. Make tomorrow special for your wife ( and daughters) love ya and as always look forward to the next video.

Thank you! I needed this reminder of who I am. My Dsddy taught me how I am supposed to be treated but I’ve let that slip.

I love “scratchy”! Beautifully said, Dwayne. You make me want to be a better woman☺️

I had discovered your channel years ago, but never took the time to listen to all of your content till just the last few weeks. Your wisdom and world views have helped me through an extremely difficult time in my life and have already shaped me into a better person. Thank you for everything.

I had a wonderful mom, I had a wonderful husband and your words spoke to my heart. I lost that sweet man last year but I know he felt the same as you do. He had a wonderful mom too. I always appreciate when a man opens a door for me. Never looked at like why are you doing that I can do it. This world we live in has lost so much of the values that we grew up with. I have 6 children and I hope I have raised them to understand being their mother has been a gift and I hope they learn to appreciate what motherhood means. I did not work outside the home , my mom did not. I had a wonderful husband who appreciated me and never took for granted what a hard job it was. Thank you for these words you have spoke from your heart and they are true words. So many people have lost their way. Thank you for not being afraid to speak your mine. This mother really appreciated hearing it.

@MarleyKlay

Ай бұрын

I’m so sorry for your loss, God bless you ❤❤

@lvnnlvnlife3290

Ай бұрын

@@MarleyKlay ❤

Hugs to you & Momma from Texas!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂God bless you & all of your family for all the wisdom you both give in every single video!!!

Amen Dwayne! Tomorrow will be the 19th mothers day without her. She was truly amazing mother and women and nurse. Keep speaking the truth. Wishing your wife a wonderful Mothers day. God Bless

Thank you. From a mother who happens to also be an attorney.

I really appreciate how you make your videos. They're the perfect companion for enjoying a cigar alone in the office while reflecting on life experiences. Keep up the great work!

Exactly Dwayne I’m right there with your brother🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👍👍👍 wishing your mom and your wife a happy Mother’s Day🌺🌺🌺

"All that I am, and all that I hope to be, I owe to my angel mother." -Abraham Lincoln I can't perfectly echo this sentiment without oversight, but I think I know what Honest Abe was drivin' at. This is probably one of the best expositions I have ever heard concerning the roles of motherhood, femininity, and women. I'm amazed how the women in my life seem so inherently grounded. They're natural homemakers; grounded, forgiving, content, submissive, and self-respecting. Myself, on the other hand... I'm often restless, stubborn, angry, proud, foolish, and bent toward chaos and destruction. I'm learning to let more of that go and replace it with the fulfillment of being a competent caretaker and provider. My wife certainly mothered me a fair bit and consequently enabled a lot of my adolescent behavior, but we are growing together and becoming more balanced as a couple. The last two weeks, I've forgiven myself for a lot of things, set new boundaries, and am learning to channel my anger strategically. I have way more respect for myself than I've ever had. Thank you for this beautiful video honoring the women in our lives who never gave up on us.

Totally agree. Happy Monther's Day everyone! Wish my Mom was alive to tell her how much I love her and appreciate what she did for me. Hope someday I'll get to do that.

@jewellcarpenter6764

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Not if your mom says u f***** up, in the wrong context...

Sir, your advice is something I've listened for a very long time. Keep it up, its refreshing to hear the words of another bloke who is on the right path.

This might be your best video you've ever produced Dwayne, and God Bless you and your Wife for the content and wisdom you deliver us all. Thankyou

Thanks for spreading a good word today. Mothers are a chunk of gold. I loved my babies so much I just cannot describe it, and it was so fun to raise them up and show them this life & this earth. Two best things that ever happened.

@virginiacreager4331

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It truly is the best and the hardest!! 🥹🧡

Dewayne, I think the Holy Spirit really does work through you to speak to us. Your videos have brought me so much wisdom. Thank you for sharing your advice and experience with us.

Thank you for your direct words. I really appreciate how grounded you are and help us to be. With much around us telling us we "need to change because this that and the other (we aren't good enough as ourselves)", your channel is a breath of fresh air that is NEEDED, WELCOMED and WANTED.💚

Thank You Dwayne for making me feel like the treasure I am. The Treasure/golden nugget I’ve never felt I am but strived to be, hoped to be. From this day forward as a mother and divorcee I am going to shine. I watch all your content and love your words of wisdom, you’re realistic approach and raw reality and truth, and this is the first time of commenting. So from Hereford, UK Thank You again for your openness and speaking what many in todays pc community won’t. And to Momma ⭐️

Sir, well said. I am a 33 year old man who works every day to provide for my family. My beautiful wife stays home to raise our children and care for the animals on our farm homestead. This is the way life was meant to be. Men and woman are so different. Dads and moms are so different. it’s supposed to be that way. I will always embrace that.

@pld-wc7gf

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If something happens to you does your wife have enough professional skill to make enough money be able to provide for herself and the children?

God bless you, Mr. Noel. You inspire me to be a better man, and I'm sure your wise words inspire many others as well. Thank you, and I wish Mrs. Noel a very happy Mothers Day 🙏🏼❤️‍🔥✝️💪🏼

Thank you Dewayne my Momma was a giant treasure of joy she is in my heart every day. I am grateful you were able to share your time with us today.

God Bless you Dewayne! So beautifully said. I used to be a feminist but returned back to Christ, got married, and had our first child almost two years ago. Glory to God for the perfect order He has created.

I like the look Dwayne! Thanks for all your videos they help me grow 🤟🏽❤️

Dwayne, you are a treasure! Thank you for this. This will be my first mother's day without my Momma and my Grandma. Its been a rough year. Luckily I have my sweet teenage sons who are growing into real, good men, to help me through.

My husband and I BOTH appreciate your wise message(s)! You are creating a legacy of truth and wisdom which will be of immeasurable worth for future husbands/fathers and wives/mothers! What you provide is urgently needed at this critical moment in time. Thank you so much for what you are doing!

This one is very resonant with me for sure. We share similar life experiences apparently. I heard something a while back that sums it up. "We often get wise too late and old too soon." Some are blessed to begin to get wise a little faster. It's usually brought on by some tough life experiences. I too had a career in law enforcement. Sadly, my children and wife had to experience what you described. Sort fuse but not abusive. As you said those words I know you were trying to make listeners understand your comment. I heard it once and felt it deeply. I made the hard decision to leave that career a little early but I'm at peace with it knowing that my family (specifically my grandchildren) will hopefully get to see a gentler more patient version of me. You keep up the great work sharing the knowledge you have gained, possibly, earlier than some people have.

Omg that bird in the background is soo cute!

100% support those comments…til’ my last dying breath.

Amen, Amen, Amen. Thank you Dewayne. I'm sharing this with my daughter who is a young FABULOUS mother of 2.

Please keep up with Truthful videos like this Dwayne. People need to hear truth like this and you have a helluva platform for all to hear.

Great video Dewayne..I'm a 5th generation Ky mountain man myself. You hit the nail on the head on this topic. It's a disgrace toward men and even worse toward women..Women are the glue that holds the family together.. They nurture the family and the man provides protection and provides.One dosen't work without the other. Just my 2 cents..I'm 53 and I'll hold the door open for women and certain people.Ive noticed more and more that if you have manners it surprises most people.But I will not change my ways.I will not hold the door for men at or around my age unless they are disabled either.Ive never felt the need too.Just the way I was brought up.

Very impactful. Thanks Dwayne

Wow am I glad this was recommended to me! My husband and I are expecting our first baby girl this October and it’s sent me into a tailspin! We both come from feminist/matriarchal households. Mine is still abusive so I took a step back. (Personality disorder with my mom.) The deeper that I’ve gotten into my faith, the more I realize that God’s design is perfect. We sure aren’t. I don’t have to force my daughter into dresses, but rather teach her self-respect so she can laugh in the face of any boy that doesn’t treat her like her dad will, an angel. Subscribed! Keep it up.

Thank you. I have been feeling very low and you made me feel like I should be appreciated and respected. And to expect that. Thsnks

Agree 100% society has turned upside down