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@trinity6764

4 жыл бұрын

This totally made my day and it is 101 % a clever observation. 👌👍

@hollyp.8849

4 жыл бұрын

I’m subscribed and I’m still dying. Pls advise

@Mar108108

4 жыл бұрын

Very funny....

@tiffanychan0826

4 жыл бұрын

I will share it to myself cause I have no social life🤦🏻‍♀️

@mcfreezyyaboi8389

4 жыл бұрын

I've literally had a friend text a girl I died because I wanted nothing to do with her. I'm not ashamed

"you'll suddenly realize you have no pictures of yourself" TOTALLY ME

@jodypopovich6228

4 жыл бұрын

Pictures are a pale comparison to the real thing!

@Lalala-of5dp

4 жыл бұрын

same! 😂😂

@rachelciel3330

4 жыл бұрын

That speaks to me. I have a lot of pictures in my phone and laptop. Only two pics are mine. And that's only because I need them if I ever want to apply for a job. Lol.

@MultiFabulous14

4 жыл бұрын

I only have pictures of my dog😭😭

@purplepartytigerd1598

4 жыл бұрын

Totally! And there's barely any photos of me growing up for some reason, too. Any time we're going through family photos and a picture with me in it shows up, everyone's like "oh look, the illusive sister, in her natural habitat!" like I'm a rare species of penguin or something 😂

"First you need to find someone who is willing to date you" Mission failed we'll get em next time

@laurinha2892

3 жыл бұрын

Right? Lmao

@zorawarsingh6795

3 жыл бұрын

WHYYYYYYYYYY WHY MUST YOU HURT ME SO

@93vincentvalentine

3 жыл бұрын

my social life with girls in a nutshell

@Pvt.Conscriptovich

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao

@vongolafamiglia7971

3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha. Welp, good thing I never try to find, she just showed up😁

The funny thing is Frank literally does look like a Calvin Klein model

@LoveBeliefTruth

3 жыл бұрын

You have point here

@zztopz7090

3 жыл бұрын

Was think that exact thought. Dressed like one too.

@Emi_doesnt_like_it

3 жыл бұрын

Yea I thought the same thing when he said that lol

@hanaeve__

3 жыл бұрын

Facts, he’s got the jawline and the hair and the facial hair.

@Domihork

3 жыл бұрын

@@hanaeve__ And the megawatt smile!

Instructions were unclear, I now own a pet armadillo

@behemoth2887

3 жыл бұрын

I tied three time and now I have 3 armadillos, they kinda cute tho

@SamirCCat

3 жыл бұрын

SOO CUUUTE!

@ananya2611

3 жыл бұрын

Lol😂

@skyejacques

3 жыл бұрын

Hahaha 😂

@angelbear_og

3 жыл бұрын

Careful, don't catch leprosy! ^_-

"You will suddenly realize that you have no pictures of yourself". I like taking photos but not of me.

@xero6396

4 жыл бұрын

😂 This is what happened to me when I first joined Facebook. I had to use a group photo of me from when I was seven years old.

@amandas.6500

4 жыл бұрын

All my photos are the cats and nature!

@ashsar2408

4 жыл бұрын

Yes, why muck up a beautiful pic with people.

@fiorellalescano

4 жыл бұрын

@@NoOne-wn9ju That's a good technique, but it doesn't work when you're the smallest one because you'll definitely be at the front. :/

@desireez5740

4 жыл бұрын

Same

I hate dating, why can't we just skip the part and be married.

@laureldsouza

3 жыл бұрын

Come to India 😂😂😂

@yasaswini5200

3 жыл бұрын

@@laureldsouza Exactly...

@keithwallace5277

3 жыл бұрын

come to middle east then

@roshniputhiyarambath5347

3 жыл бұрын

Get yourself adopted by an Indian couple. Bam!! Your wish has come true.

@thelegacyofgaming2928

3 жыл бұрын

Join a religion, this will come true for you. Results (happiness) may vary, but you will definitely be married.

My husband is the Introvert that all other introverts are descended from. We realized, only after we got married, that we never had a first date. Ever. We just.... kinda..... were 'boyfriend girlfriend' one day. He regrets none of his tactics.

@electrapoptart

3 жыл бұрын

wait I want to hear more

@alyx669

3 жыл бұрын

I'm jealous

@rauntche

3 жыл бұрын

Based.

@makeda6530

3 жыл бұрын

Wow, so much power, amazing

@potatwos3149

3 жыл бұрын

HOW

"It's a Herculean task that can make dying alone seem like an appealing option" 😂😂 soo love that

@paul-ye3ut

Жыл бұрын

first comment

Why would I wanna be in a relationship? And lose my 18 year streak? Hahahaha...haha.ha...ahem

@naaitxo

4 жыл бұрын

That's what i call an epic gamer moment.

@Nicole-dg5re

4 жыл бұрын

I'm almost on my 20 year streak I won't break it sorry

@xero6396

4 жыл бұрын

That's really funny. 😆😆😆

@samantaluna3870

4 жыл бұрын

Try 33 *smile*.

@johntshorter

4 жыл бұрын

25 years and counting lol

Dating - It’s worse than a job interview

@skyblazeeterno

4 жыл бұрын

Dating and capitalism are the two most disappointing aspects of life

@jacob_massengale

4 жыл бұрын

I'd say they're tied for worst

@Kneightt

4 жыл бұрын

It's like a job interview that you actually have to be honest for

@jacob_massengale

4 жыл бұрын

@@Kneightt why wouldn't you be honest at a job interview?

@Kneightt

4 жыл бұрын

@@jacob_massengale Because I'm not actually qualified for any job.

"you suddenly realize you have no pictures of yourself" thank God. I'm less weird than I thaught

@strawberryshortgirl2637

3 жыл бұрын

Yah barely got any too fam

@alpha_jasperflair1097

3 жыл бұрын

Same i never really post myself and take pictures of myself ever but i only get forced because of school and my MOTHER

@marlene670

3 жыл бұрын

@@alpha_jasperflair1097 same!!!!

@renabarbie7886

3 жыл бұрын

Omg I thought I was the only one

@thanhvinhnguyento7069

3 жыл бұрын

You're not alone

"Don't ghost them" That goes against everything I stand for.

@joex1084

3 жыл бұрын

I know it's a bad habit, but it's so hard not to.

@missmadhatter1467

3 жыл бұрын

I find it so much more draining to push myself to interact further or try to come up with something to break things off smoothly XD I will fade away back into the dark corner I came from

@joex1084

3 жыл бұрын

@@missmadhatter1467 Like Homer with the hedge xD

@whatshisnamegain1

3 жыл бұрын

@@missmadhatter1467 Honestly, some people did this to me and it can be hurtful in some cases. But since the other person is ghosting me they just take the easy way out because they just don't want to be confronted with someone being hurt. But it would be much easier and less painful actually to just end things politely. I don't think that being honest and writing a last message where you say that it didn't work out has something to do with being an introvert or not. Not doing it is just a coward move.

@deannascorner8112

3 жыл бұрын

I was so bad for this in my youth... all those poor guys...

Me: 1 min after date: went pretty well 5 min after : i made a few mistakes 10 min after: absolutely everything i said was unintelligent and ridiculous 15 min after: i acted totally embarassing, he will never call again and he hated rvery minute of the date 20 min after: he hates me wholeheartedly, will tell the whole world how awkward and crazy i am 25 min after: i will leave the country, change my name, become an eremit and live under a rock for the rest of my undeserved life! Edit: Eremit, german=hermit (sry english is not my 1st language, but now at least you know what you want to be in 2 languages😉)...and thanks for all the likes🥺☺!!!

@gildedphoenix

4 жыл бұрын

IxTP daing aftermath explored

@skyblazeeterno

4 жыл бұрын

Don't worry everyone makes mistakes

@justgoogling

4 жыл бұрын

Knuddel katze LOL so acxurate! 😂😢

@appdataprozent2537

4 жыл бұрын

@@skyblazeeterno but not everybody has to frantically count them 😂

@knuddelkatze452

4 жыл бұрын

@@appdataprozent2537 Exactly!!!!

“Oh I just remembered, I took a vow of celibacy. Ah.” Maaay have actually used this one..

@ShaniTheBurningTree

4 жыл бұрын

I did. Worked great

@art-ificialblon-die7013

4 жыл бұрын

I am desperately in love with you

@art-ificialblon-die7013

4 жыл бұрын

ha ha lol just kidding but what kind of wedding cake do you prefer?

@timothydao2416

4 жыл бұрын

I cant respect people that lie like that.

@eljaykayaye1186

4 жыл бұрын

@@timothydao2416 yes, Tell the truth: I Don't feel compatible and will not see you again. I'd advise you to look elsewhere. It's not personal. Go fly hither and yon. Be free little bird, find your paradise. Adieu

"I had a great time, but unfortunately, I cannot see you again as I am now deceased and no longer of this world."

@zahararay5611

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

“Dating is hard for introverts what with the talking to people and all” LMAOOOOOOO BIG FACTS

Honestly, I'm just hoping that out of the like two days I leave the house in a year some exstraverted guy will find me and take a liking to me then drag me into a unwanted friendship with him. but over time I fall in love with him and he falls in love with me too. then we live happyliy ever after.

@ImNotTellingYou-ht8uq

4 жыл бұрын

Beanie Baby wait I wrote a basically identical comment to this and only saw your comment until after. Are we the same person? ‘I really just want to conveniently meet someone perfect for me become friends then both realise we want to be together then skip to marriage.’ I need an extrovert because I’m tired of having to talk to cashiers and waiters.

@hannahmayhorn5466

4 жыл бұрын

It happened to me! :D My hubby is an ESFJ and I'm an INFP

@KatPickles

4 жыл бұрын

I have read that it's really good for an introvert to be with an extrovert but honestly I think I am scared of extroverts! They're just so... extroverted. I wish you luck on the two days of the year you leave the house! May your prince E sweep you off your feet.

@howtubeable

4 жыл бұрын

The voice of experience here: The extravert who "finds you" will most likely be a manipulator.

@marliesvdlangemheen

4 жыл бұрын

@@KatPickles You're right! Extroverts truly are extroverted.. Being in a relationship with one scares me too.. I don't want to end up doing social group activities and such just because I have these weird feelings for someone. Na-aah...

INFJ female. Met my husband at a wake (funeral gathered). Said nothing to each other that night. Married 13 years plus 4 years dating. It happens swiftly people.

@LolaSebastian

4 жыл бұрын

Goals tbh.

@roy.shrestha

4 жыл бұрын

I am an INFJ and this is goals ❤️

@ThePlutonian

4 жыл бұрын

*proper

@justgoogling

4 жыл бұрын

😍👍

@cynthianovakthompson9726

4 жыл бұрын

Just curious, how did it go from being at a wake and not speaking that night to a first date?

First date at a cemetary: Me making an awkward joke: "heheh This one's yours..." I wonder why I never heard from her again

@vrcxdc3623

3 жыл бұрын

I genially laughed at this

@ananya2611

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@ananya2611

3 жыл бұрын

@@vrcxdc3623 so did I

@ahso7473

3 жыл бұрын

I don't understand

@comradeyoshinski1963

3 жыл бұрын

First time I kissed my ex was in our second date where I invited him to the cemetery. Then it became our meet up point.

The worst is when you’re an introvert dating an extrovert. When you go out together they want to stay until 2 am but you’re already tired of socializing by 10 pm. And on the rare occasion you feel like going out, they dont want to.

10/10 will watch again as soon as I recover from this personal attack

“Instead, have a friend text them...” I thought the point was that we have no friends

@heatherbryant4197

4 жыл бұрын

A "friend" (wink wink)

@TokioTE

4 жыл бұрын

@@heatherbryant4197 ahh I get you (wink)

@uprisingsun9105

4 жыл бұрын

Go for a sibling in that scenario maybe

@hackedagain3421

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂👍

@angelaawuor3080

3 жыл бұрын

@@heatherbryant4197 😂😂

Me: I want to be in a romantic relationship with this person. After 1 hour texting, me: Suddenly I feel like literally terrified to be in an any kind of relationship. Let's make an excuse and hide in under the blanket forever.

“Indulge in the illusion of tons of potential matches” truer words never spoken

At this point, I'm not even afraid of dying alone (INFP).

@yonathanrakau1783

4 жыл бұрын

Good

@phoenixrobinson1509

4 жыл бұрын

Me too ! (INFJ)

@rosalinesmoon

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah it's better than trying to fit in and forcing yourself for something that you are not (INFJ)

@allyamv

4 жыл бұрын

Same, I've pretty much come to terms with it 🙂 (INFJ)

@HeeSungyeol

4 жыл бұрын

Huge INFP Energy

"Coffee gives me explosive diarrhea, so I must depart" I do not know why I love that line so much.

@lunacele6276

3 жыл бұрын

Best part😂

@ghihbgyu

3 жыл бұрын

It's classy AND awkward :P

"You might consider going in for the kiss..." ...and then remember you don't know how to because you've never kissed anyone

You're telling me that I can't just daydream about our life together ? - An INFP

I heard from a trusted source that armadillos are migrating further and further north, it was bound to happen eventually

@cierahayes

4 жыл бұрын

LOL! 😄

@KobokoFitness

4 жыл бұрын

omg this got me 🤣🤣🤣

@jonahlevi3178

4 жыл бұрын

going vegan is the single smallest thing that has the single biggest impact on environmental #govegantoday

@steveshears890

4 жыл бұрын

whywhynot please drive carefully and watchout for those poor Babies . They're at our mercy

@ecchinacea

4 жыл бұрын

@@steveshears890 I live in Sweden so they are pretty safe from me ^^

"I'm desperately in love with you. Haha! Just kidding but seriously, what wedding cake do you prefer?" HAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!! So true. -_-

@ruisenor8993

3 жыл бұрын

Me

@continuousself-improvement1879

3 жыл бұрын

I would say, "but would you prefer our first child to be a boy or a girl? Amelia is such a cute name, methinks." Then quietly slink back into the dark corner I usually reside in and not show up again until a few months have passed.

@Xaforn

3 жыл бұрын

Yup happens like clockwork....

@panlis6243

3 жыл бұрын

As an INFP I feel offended by how accurate that part was

Do they have introvert dating sites? If so we need assistants to do the dating and tell us how it went. ISFP here

"For Men, you will get about one match for every 300 profiles that you like, and that is if you are a Calvin Klein model." Sounds about right.

Yeahhh, installed a dating app for the first time 2 months ago. About 20 "likes" later I uninstalled it and went back to hiding in my bedroom the rest of the week.

@SheriSoltes

3 жыл бұрын

Ditto

@hatvielehobbies

3 жыл бұрын

Ditto. To much attention. My inner introvert started panicking.

@continuousself-improvement1879

3 жыл бұрын

Living life in the fast lane, eh?

@christopherellis2663

3 жыл бұрын

Bravo! Who needs that stuff?

INFJ here. My INTJ hubby suffered for 5 long months as he pretended to like people and parties just to have an excuse to invite me over pretty much every day. I was pretty successful at avoiding those. Then he simply confessed to my best friend how much he was into me and how sad he was that I was never around. 1st kiss was a week later and all pretexts of social extroversion were promptly and permanently cancelled. Sweet relief. This year marks 20 years, 3 countries, and 2 kids later 😁

@kimberlycuthbert2510

3 жыл бұрын

That is to precious for words.

@quirogatnonerrat3214

Жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

“If you haven’t given up by now it’s time to write something about yourself for your profile” me: gives up then

My friend is super extroverted. She met a guy she liked at a party and they started texting afterwards. He’s super introverted and never made a move. She got annoyed that he never made a move and one day told him that he was her boyfriend. He said “ok.” They’ve been going strong for two years!

@angelaawuor3080

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂wow

@omiquewilliams8632

Жыл бұрын

I wish I could do this!

I came here not for a dating guide. I came here to see FJ with a wig on.

@rosalinesmoon

4 жыл бұрын

Lmao I thought I'm the only one 😂 That wig is Lit 🔥

@rosalinesmoon

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr!! He is 😂🔥

@TheFren

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@lk6789

4 жыл бұрын

Yup, me too, not a pretty site.

@SheriSoltes

3 жыл бұрын

And the eyelash batting. Le femme fatale!

INFJ here it was so stressful signing up on a dating app I uninstalled it immediately and just hope I'll bump into someone in a library or a cafe that would understand me through my awkwardness😒

@Lauren-rq4xt

3 жыл бұрын

I'm 100% with you there

@yazajag

3 жыл бұрын

Same here, also INFJ(INTJ ) I erased Plenty of Fish, forgot about Match and never even bothered trying Tinder or Bumble. Had anxiety just reading qnd responding to messages lol.

@Lauren-rq4xt

3 жыл бұрын

@@yazajag Me too

@Xaforn

3 жыл бұрын

They didn’t work for me it was an absolute nightmare especially after a narcissist abusive marriage. I found my gem on a free chat site 😆 just ran into them.

@7996AD

3 жыл бұрын

@@Xaforn Would you mind if I ask what chat site your are referring to?

I thought I was just weird for not having any pictures of myself XD. Apparently I'm not alone lmao

Oh man, only FJ could say “racism isn’t so bad” in the manner he does and induce choking laughter.

Please make a video about socializing with introverts (introvert-introvert).

@flm7174

4 жыл бұрын

oohh yes please

@olivia_foskey

4 жыл бұрын

Yessss please!!

@olivia_foskey

4 жыл бұрын

Yessss please!!

@MoonsEssentials

4 жыл бұрын

YESSSS

@badcreations9527

4 жыл бұрын

6 months later he did...Congrats!

Lmao the pic in front of the toilet 😂👏🏻

@melissaphillis7247

4 жыл бұрын

IKR! Loved it!

A very fulfilled introvert here, I'ld rather stay home and watch Frank James videos than go anywhere😁

It's even worse as a male introvert, because women will never approach you and wait for you to make the move, but when you get the chance, it's way too nerve-wracking and they think something is wrong with you. Sad times. 😔😔😔😔

@4dscdriver

3 жыл бұрын

💯 Facts!

@alittleinfppanda

2 жыл бұрын

I have messaged some guys, even though I'm a huge introvert. I've learned to do it because I'm getting old and trying to be more proactive about what I want in life.

You lost me at "leaving the house," there are too many people out there.

@INTJenny

4 жыл бұрын

Thank god for quarantine 😂

I love taking walks in cemeteries, finally some validation of normalcy! 😂

@destree6348

4 жыл бұрын

Star Stuff i find it so grounding and peaceful

@thankgodicanrite

4 жыл бұрын

Destry Ann Heiser me too!! And they all have unique energy 💫

@destree6348

4 жыл бұрын

Star Stuff They really do. I feel like I fit in more there than at the like movies or anywhere actually lol

@nikvret9544

3 жыл бұрын

LOL me too , I never told this before , I thought is very creepy or actually it is

@RubyDaLynx

3 жыл бұрын

I don't do that, but I understand if those areas are more peaceful to take a walk. After all, the purpose of walks is to relax, so more power to you

"for women, if you are even remotely approaching anything resembling a reasonable facsimile of attractiveness... you will receive tons of likes and messages without even trying" hahaha lmao! so true!

I'm glad to see that there are people who share same problems with me and that we are not alone in this. This guy is so cool and one of few youtubers who actually understands us.

" Coffee gives me EXPLOSIVE diarrhea, so I must depart."..Hahaha. 😂😂

".......I took a vow of celibacy." This will now be an excuse to get out of a date, which has never, and will never, happen.

@pencils7351

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@zxumwmki3604

3 жыл бұрын

One day i said hi to a nice charismatic-looking latina girl in a museum, the interaction turned into an improvised date we spent the whole evening together, and at some point when i ask her about the ring she's wearing and she drops it on me that she took a vow of chastity at her church 😅 I found this properly hilarious Especially as this was one of the coolest and hottest dates ever, we were amazing meaningful conversation and bonding with an overtly sexy sexy vibe to it, At the end of the night i looked her body up and down told her 'you know though, if i took you against your will, ... technically that wouldn't be a violation of your chastity story' and then that's how her vow died in short order 🤣

"You will suddenly realize that your don't have no pictures of yourself" THAT'S SO TRUUUUUUUUUUE

Honestly a date in cemetery has been my dream date for as long as I can remember

@Xaforn

3 жыл бұрын

And maybe come across Shuck

i was finding this introverted character cute up until the kiss moment...Dinning alone is lovely by the way, better than awkwardly dinning with someone.

@suzihoude

4 жыл бұрын

I hate eating out alone... ESFJ waitstaff everywhere, asking if you’re okay or if you want company... overcompensating by making extra trips to your table to check in...

@naaitxo

4 жыл бұрын

@@suzihoude oh they wouldn't do that where i live so there's the difference haha

@aliciashanks5239

4 жыл бұрын

@@suzihoude seriously? Wow, that's weird!

@skyblazeeterno

4 жыл бұрын

Got to agree there but sadly people feel they have to do it among other things with one or more other people

@Optimystik

4 жыл бұрын

@TANG WEI SHUN - who cares what people think? I've eaten alone many a time and I don't even think I saw one pity glance anyway. Better to be in no company than bad company.

The ILLUSION of tons of potential matches....I felt that. 😂

@lunastariaspiritdiva8662

4 жыл бұрын

As an INFJ, 99% of those matches only want me because I'm a girl, they'd pick any girl... *sigh*

@RosethornJMF

4 жыл бұрын

@@lunastariaspiritdiva8662 Exactly

@gabikralj94

3 жыл бұрын

Consider it a hobby of some sorts. Like catching Pokemons - gotta catch them all xD

@LoveBeliefTruth

3 жыл бұрын

Lunastaria SpiritDiva well, that’s the situation of all females, not depending their personality

@LoveBeliefTruth

3 жыл бұрын

brown bird some might have had the whole town, actually

“Don’t message me unless...” listen that’s so relatable

I can totally relate to this. The last picture of myself I have was taken one year and a half ago by a friend who was visiting, and I've never used dating apps, because yes, dying along seems a lot more appealing than meet a zillion predators or desperate men online.

Honestly, filling the 'About me' section is the hardest thing for me, takes two hours and 6 drafts to come up with a sentence

@ericm.3791

3 жыл бұрын

When I’m on that section of the dating app, it takes me that long to type, “ummm.”

Haha. I’m just starting to date and found this hilarious. As an introvert why can’t my person just show up on my doorstep? All the meaningless socializing is exhausting. Lol

@MsWill813

3 жыл бұрын

If you are a woman you can.

@thelegacyofgaming2928

3 жыл бұрын

@@MsWill813 She is. Most introverts here who find happiness are women lol. How difficult it is for us guys since women don't approach :$

@astoldbynickgerr

3 жыл бұрын

Taina Williams am woman. cannot.

@MsWill813

3 жыл бұрын

@@thelegacyofgaming2928 My bf is a gamer and an introvert but he managed to write to me online. Almost ten years ago :)

@MsWill813

3 жыл бұрын

@@astoldbynickgerr You probably demand some quality :D

I absolutely LOVE your Introvert’s Survival Guide series! You mug for the camera like nobody’s business. Your writing is hillaire. Poor Armadillos. So ends their migration. And I totally would date him. That gray cardigan! Raaaarrrrr! 💖

I downloaded a dating app and talking to new people is so frightening and small talk so awful, it sometimes takes me days to answer

INFJ here, first dates are awesome. Even if it goes nowhere, the prior text conversations weed out people who’s company I wouldn’t enjoy so every date is an amazing conversation and a new friend. My real struggle is anxiety from overthinking and getting attached too quick. INFJ habits of overthinking, finding patterns, and always looking at the long term.

@shorewall

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it's like, after all our screening to even go on the date, we are dealing with people we wouldn't mind marrying. :D So it's tough to keep distant. It's like, if I thought you were good enough for all the hassle of a first date, most likely I want to marry you. :D

@taylorjade6918

4 жыл бұрын

It's true! If I don't see a possibility of marriage, I don't keep a relationship. So many don't get it. If you know you don't work and you continue to keep them around anyway, that's leading them on. Count me out! 🙅

@thepokemonmaster1907

4 жыл бұрын

I relate so much to that

@taylorjade6918

4 жыл бұрын

@M W It's true. I've tended to get in trouble by not having a "reason" and staying longer. Not anymore. That reason should be enough.

@graciefirebaugh

4 жыл бұрын

Taylor Jade the “INFJ door slam” haha

This is one of those videos where you laugh because it's funny, and then cry because its also relatable.. Conflicting emotions! On another note: that warm blond really suits your skin tone :D Oka bya!

@tenthousanddaysofgratitude

4 жыл бұрын

Indiana Chicken Right?

@justgoogling

4 жыл бұрын

Haha

@xero6396

4 жыл бұрын

I think it's a rose blonde but I could be wrong. 🙃

@qu0thraven

4 жыл бұрын

It might just be me but I thought laughing and crying kind of go hand in hand. XD

i'm gonna die alone. - an INFJ

@kaelynashton06

3 жыл бұрын

as a fellow infj, i felt this

@joshuafriday2883

3 жыл бұрын

Same here. You're not alone

@geniusprime9795

2 жыл бұрын

INFJ here. Dying alone doesn't seem that bad tbh :/

“You’ll realize you have no pictures if yourself” that one was a little too true

"Let me tell you why all your religious beliefs are wrong," and "racism isn't that bad," etc....these sound like things an INTJ would say. INFJ may think all kinds of controversy, but probably not say out loud on a first date

@StarClay666

4 жыл бұрын

As an INTJ, I can confirm that it sounds like something I would say on a date, but what is a date anyway? Is dating just a myth, I can't know cuz I am INTJ, we don't get dates!

@timothydao2416

4 жыл бұрын

Unless when it comes to feminism because I dont want to waste my time trying to date that kind of person.

@shorewall

4 жыл бұрын

INFJ here, I once got into a rant with someone in medical school that I thought science was overrated...on the first date. :D There wasn't a second. I don't know why I thought that was a good idea. I think I made an offhand comment, and then I felt like I had to justify it to not look like a fool. Good job. :D

@cynthianovakthompson9726

4 жыл бұрын

@@StarClay666 hey what is the INTJ's most compatible type, supposedly? I once dated an INTJ, and while it didn't work out long term, I still hold him in a special place in my heart. We would have really great in depth conversations. I'm INFJ

@daisy3869

4 жыл бұрын

@@timothydao2416 That's just called being close minded, my friend. You have to be to think cringey man haters on tumblr represent the entire movement of feminism, including its scholars and all its third world activists. Yikes.

INTP here. Our dating style can be summed up like this. Way back in the 2000s I lived and worked in D.C. as a barista and part-time web developer, because obviously my goal in life was to become a cliche, but also, hey, free coffee. One day the most physically beautiful man I had ever seen came in, which already made me nervous, but I decided I was an adult and could definitely take his order, probably, so I turned to him and asked what he would like, and instead of responding to my question he just stared directly into my eyes for what seemed like three hellish hours, but was more likely a couple of seconds, then finally gave me his coffee order (STILL making direct eye contact), in a gorgeous Italian accent. By this point you’re probably waiting for some meet cute ending, but that’s not how INTPs do things. I had never been happier to get someone their coffee just so I could break eye contact with him. I was starting to panic, but was talking myself down, telling myself I just had to give him his coffee and he would go, but no. I gave him his coffee and he asked me for directions to a museum, and began making eye contact again. This time he was even smiling. What kind of monster does that? I somehow manage to give him directions, and because I chatter incessantly when I get nervous I start telling him how it’s one of my favorite museums, in an apparent attempt to build a verbal wall between us, and when I finish he says “you have the most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen. Would you like to come to the museum with me?” And, because I am one smooth lady who knows how to catch a man, I squealed out the beginnings of a scream, then ran into the back room.

@sabrinaa9768

2 жыл бұрын

Wow... probably I would have done the same thing. I love how you wrote this tho

@qwadratix

Жыл бұрын

Almost certainly a serial killer who dates victims that he knows have no social connections who might report them missing too soon.

@sweetsushanna-ahh

11 ай бұрын

@@qwadratixwhy are you spoiling my vision of her being happy ever after 😅.

@sweetsushanna-ahh

11 ай бұрын

Did he ever come back? 😊

@lilystanleylowe

11 ай бұрын

@@sweetsushanna-ahh unfortunately, or given how great I am at flirting, no.

I could watch this over and over and never get tired of it.

And people thinking you're shy, because they're not interesting and you don't want to leave because you're trying to avoid drama

FJ, I swear you could go pro. The new Seinfeld but you'd be playing all the characters. Great work! Thanks for all the fun.

@jodypopovich6228

4 жыл бұрын

Go pro! Go pro!!

@stephaniemitchell8509

4 жыл бұрын

INTP, I have the same fantasy. xD

That wig do be lookin fresh tho. Melania who?! 💁🏼‍♀️ Lady FJ’s gonna have no problem finding her partner in crumb. This turned out so well! You kill me with all the little details/expressions - those selfies and that totally not awkward kiss! 😂

@mariafilar3077

4 жыл бұрын

Holly N an armadillo mascot is sounding like an idea i can get behind for this series 🤔

@hollyp.8849

4 жыл бұрын

Maria Filar That’d look good on some merch! 😂

@purplepartytigerd1598

4 жыл бұрын

He started doing the kiss right as I started reading this 😂😂😂

your humor is just so amazing

Thank you for this! This is content I really needed. As an introvert who is attracted to introverts this stuff is so relatable.

Ha ha ha! "Cemetery". I personally have always loved going to cemeteries and walking around reading headstones. I think about the lives they might have had and wonder what they died from. Super funny video Frank, it's nice to have something to laugh out loud to first thing in the morning. :)

@jodypopovich6228

4 жыл бұрын

It's a great place to connect. Oh yeah, to the "living ones" too.

@TheWaterlily2012

4 жыл бұрын

@@jodypopovich6228 True :)

@skyblazeeterno

4 жыл бұрын

Kind if sad to see gravestones of children though

@domedweller4202

4 жыл бұрын

Yes I find peace there, and I always think of the amount of angels that are present.

@christinemacdonald5938

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, cemeteries are interesting. The last time I was at one with some of my family members, we found one group of tombstones where we were able to figure out how old one women was when her parents, sister, first child, and husband died, respectively. Kinda sad, but interesting how much info we could glean about her life just by some names and dates.

I'm an INFJ and my husband is ENTP, and we actually met online playing video games when we were teenagers! I avoided the whole dating thing to the max and was successful lol

This is the best skit I have ever seen. It touched my heart, revealed my feelings, and also perhaps, slightly made me laugh. haha.

Giggling, this is hilarious! Armadillos everywhere thank you for the notoriety.

Finally, a video I can show to my family to make them understand why I'll die alone!

The "kissing part" was so awkward. But somehow I just love it! 😂 I hope this is the beginning of more chapters for the introvert's guide survival. This and the previous one are amazing.

@desireez5740

4 жыл бұрын

His goal was definitely just that, to stew discomfort. Lol

@desireez5740

4 жыл бұрын

@Nessa Nessaness 😆 eh, who knows maybe when he was younger, but for the purposes of the video he seemed to do some editing to accentuate the moment.😁

@fiorellalescano

4 жыл бұрын

@@desireez5740 Yeah, and he nailed it! :)

@desireez5740

4 жыл бұрын

@Nessa Ne oh yeah, he wanted us to feel the pain. 😉

@AK-jt7kh

4 жыл бұрын

@Nessa Ne No way. Not with his level of empathy. I bet he's a great kisser.

Man, this hits so close to home and I don’t know whether to laugh or cry😂

I got an ad from urmytype with Frank James in it, that's smart advertising I watched the entire thing not realizing it wasnt part of the video

"Looking for a partner in crumb" same

"Upon creating your profile, you will suddenly realise that you have no pictures of yourself" Amen, sister FJ. Amen.

This is pure comedy for introverts. PURE!!!

Frank I have so enjoyed learning more about myself from your videos and this one totally cracked me up while being educational! You are gifted and my INFJ brother. Thanks for the content!

Someone looks extra cool and attractive with glasses

@savannahwestover2538

3 жыл бұрын

I like to think I look better with glasses

Okay so I’m gonna die alone - it’s confirmed

"You'll suddenly realize you have no pictures of yourself" not me. It wouldn't be a surprise. I know it very well 😅

“If you haven’t given up by now...” Looool - the struggle is real

Died unexpectedly swerving off the road. Hilarious. Frank you pull off being a nerd impeccably. Loved this whole skit. Laughing from beginning to end.❤️

*"Let me tell you why all of your religious beliefs are wrong."*

@lunastariaspiritdiva8662

4 жыл бұрын

INTP did this, haha ... I tell him that feelings, its all about feelings, and yes, I know Intps don't have the same feelings as normal people :=p.

@jstevo1349

3 жыл бұрын

for some reason i cant help but to do that on first dates though. i just feel so strongly about them and if someone doesnt share something close to mine then i dont consider there to be compatibility

@xyzw10

3 жыл бұрын

That's me talking to my extended family. No wonder we don't get along 😂

All of your content helps me a lot. Thank you for your hard work!

The last part is the best!

What about the introvert's guide to extroverts!? 🤩

@eridaeokeefe2345

3 жыл бұрын

I imagine it consists of the phrase, "stay away".

@iampidgeon6923

3 жыл бұрын

If you would like too be adopted by an Extrovert stand in some public place and then look around until you see a person talking too a group of people or perhaps someone that's actively looking for conversation, then wait, they will find you and adopt you as a friend. You cannot unfriend them, you are now there friend whether you like it or not.

@fders938

3 жыл бұрын

1. Avoid at all costs, they WILL drive you insame

@TestaRosssa_

3 жыл бұрын

@@iampidgeon6923 hahahaha it's nice to read a positive and funny comment about extroverts. I don't know why I feel like I see so many negative ones here. :(

@savannahwestover2538

3 жыл бұрын

@@iampidgeon6923 That’s pretty accurate. My first few days of High School, I was super nervous because I didn’t really have anyone to sit with at lunch. One of my now friends invited me to sit with her and her friends and it was great. Granted, it took me a few weeks to feel comfortable enough to sit with them without asking first but eh, that’s life. A few months in she even told one of her friends that they took me under their wings

The kiss 💋 hahahahaha 🤣 As an INFJ I would have to think forever if I really, would actually kiss just anyone. Not me. Maybe other INFJs would, not me. I’m EXTREMELY SELECTIVE.

@vatsalaykhobragade

3 жыл бұрын

oh my god. i can totally relate to this.

@Xaforn

3 жыл бұрын

Yup absolutely. The thought of touching people is disgusting enough(empath INFJ) but kissing yuck! I’ve only kissed 2 people in my life. First was my ex husband.....but when my partner kissed me for the first time I bout fell over in shock, I didn’t know it would be that fun! 😆

Just brilliant! This is pure gold, man.

I enjoyed meeting this video. You made my day!!

"Cats are clearly superior to dogs" Why us introverts have this thing for cats? I quote~

@gustavonogueira6293

4 жыл бұрын

Actually I preffer dogs

@jodypopovich6228

4 жыл бұрын

Cats have kept their wild side. I think infjs vibe with that.

@xero6396

4 жыл бұрын

My ENTJ husband much prefers cats. My first word as a child was 'cat' even though we never had cats or dogs. I've always been fascinated by animals.

@desireez5740

4 жыл бұрын

For me it's because they're not as up your a$$ all the time nor high maintenance. They're soft, pretty and don't smell. They please my senses in a good way and dogs don't always.

@recoveringsoul755

4 жыл бұрын

Because dogs require you to take them outside at least twice a day. You know out the door, in public. Maybe even to a park where there are other people, and other dogs. Unless you have a back yard, and another dog to keep it company. I actually like dogs too, but lot more work than a cat

Being a INTJ is hard tho.

@deanedwardklein2645

4 жыл бұрын

agreed

@lifa4798

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed.

@unavailablewuxian4923

4 жыл бұрын

Being a walking grammar autocorrect is hard.

@mcfreezyyaboi8389

4 жыл бұрын

It isn't hard. Watch how extroverts approach social situations. Then go out and emulate those action while giving your own intj flair. Intjs are amazing because we can do anything lol. All we need to do is practice something, even casually, for a little bit and we're golden

@amritashirali8351

4 жыл бұрын

Being an INFJ is even worse. 😒

So needed this laugh. That first step is a big one, like actually taking the effort to find someone when you'd rather they fall out of the sky.