The Four Commitments: The Choices That Create Your Life

A successful life usually depends on making four major commitments: to a spouse or family, a faith or philosophy, a community, and a vocation. But how do we choose what we will commit to, and how do we execute those commitments? In later years, is it possible to launch a new booster stage with new or additional commitments? (Yes.) This will be another exploration of a life well lived.

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  • @HopeWins777
    @HopeWins7773 жыл бұрын

    Still one of my favorite people on earth whether speaking like this or interpreting politics on PBS with a decency, clarity and kindness that kept me sane for now 4+ years. Bravo, David. A man after God's own heart. Well done ♥️🙏

  • @keithpurtell1213
    @keithpurtell12134 ай бұрын

    David Brooks seems an unlikely hero. I first heard his work on PBS, and was impressed with his nuanced insights and humble delivery. He always seems nervous until the better ideas begin to emerge, and his sincerity emerges right along with them.

  • @EricMHowardII-yh1rn
    @EricMHowardII-yh1rn5 ай бұрын

    David Brooks is opening up his figurative heart wide which is wonderful setting an example that is worth imitating.

  • @elizabethfreer1948
    @elizabethfreer19484 жыл бұрын

    “Am I really serving my highest self?” best question I have heard...”adopt a moral lens” ..the truth lies right there!

  • @likely7063
    @likely70636 жыл бұрын

    Ive been to one of his speeches in vancouver and he was so kind and eager to answer all the questions on and off the floor. A great man he is

  • @HopeWins777

    @HopeWins777

    3 жыл бұрын

    He has developed a reputation that would make any family proud. His humility is striking

  • @pianofever8586
    @pianofever85866 ай бұрын

    I place piles on the carpet too, or on the bed, as I'm organizing my book. Loved hearing that, a kindred spirit.

  • @michaelkraft218
    @michaelkraft2186 ай бұрын

    Mr Brooks and Father Spitzer should appear together as he wondrously weaves and completes Spitzer's Four Levels of Happiness.

  • @elizabethfreer1948
    @elizabethfreer19484 жыл бұрын

    David Brooks raises our conscience thinking..a passion to “get outside ourselves” ..commitment means we are “present” in every moment ..listen but hear..watch but see..

  • @elsasimoes1900
    @elsasimoes19007 жыл бұрын

    wonderful speech,, beautiful and really inspiring. awesome.

  • @pennyburns4425
    @pennyburns44254 жыл бұрын

    This is excellent, so inspiring. I find the language and context of my difficulties in this wonderful talk. Thank you so much.

  • @kristinacesnokova1376
    @kristinacesnokova13766 ай бұрын

    Grateful for the opportunity to listen and grasp some deep meaningful truths that were expressed by the author., and were hidden deep inside of my own consciousness … Will listen again and again to fully get it to my core being

  • @abdulwahidhameed
    @abdulwahidhameed6 ай бұрын

    Thanks for sharing wonderful thoughts so alequantly

  • @catsneni
    @catsneni Жыл бұрын

    Mr. Brooks describes the human heart and is so close, comes so close to the answer he seeks. CS Lewis describes this as a God shaped hole and thus, only God will fill it. Check out Tim Keller (cited by Mr Brooks) and Gospel in Life for a wealth of resources on life’s most vital questions.

  • @madgeMKelly
    @madgeMKelly6 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much For this truly inspiring

  • @virginiaholzer7358
    @virginiaholzer7358Ай бұрын

    Great❤thanks ♥ God bless you ❤ 🙏

  • @JordanCrawfordSF
    @JordanCrawfordSF4 ай бұрын

    He has told these jokes consistently for 7 years at least. Talk about a reliable guy!!

  • @stephanielush9471
    @stephanielush94715 ай бұрын

    Loved it!❤

  • @robertelia2824

    @robertelia2824

    5 ай бұрын

    Now that we know how corrupt the Biden family is would you end your great speech with that ending?

  • @geoffbent2691
    @geoffbent26913 ай бұрын

    Great arguments for making commitments. "Am I really serving my highest good? ..adopt a different lens ...beyond utilitarian thinking..the distant side of unselfishness not on this side.. what is life asking of me?"

  • @diegonayalazo
    @diegonayalazo2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing

  • @brucemah609
    @brucemah6093 ай бұрын

    13:03 ❤

  • @majorharris8194
    @majorharris81943 жыл бұрын

    28:28 marriage question

  • @suhaskhamgaonkar6322
    @suhaskhamgaonkar63223 ай бұрын

    I flew HH the Dalai Lama in first class Pan Am flight FRA-LON during my flying career.

  • @ABCM70
    @ABCM704 ай бұрын

  • @kerrydwyer580
    @kerrydwyer5804 ай бұрын

    wow.

  • @joanwatterson7386
    @joanwatterson73863 жыл бұрын

    Bob Woodford new book

  • @brandonleroux6059
    @brandonleroux60593 ай бұрын

    ...to our spouse (yes I promise to never fuck another) or family (yes I will do for you what you dont do for me - accept me as I am), our vocation (As if companies value loyalty), our community (couldnt care really) and our faith (no faith, only hopelessness).

  • @151mcx
    @151mcx6 ай бұрын

    I wish more republicans were like this guy. Seems like a "republican" I'd like to be around. I call myself a Democrat ... but I'm also an Atheist ... So, I'm more of a third party or maybe a independent. I've watched the Brooks and Capehart show on PBS for awhile, and often wondered how a republican can continue to talk on a Leftist new channel ... Maybe over time, the bias of speaking on democrat dominate news station may persuade a republican to bend left?

  • @MsSabeehak
    @MsSabeehak3 ай бұрын

    I thought of VP the same Very modest & kind & understanding But now very disappointed

  • @majorharris8194
    @majorharris81943 жыл бұрын

    33:50 community wwneo

  • @marshallnoel2045
    @marshallnoel20454 ай бұрын

    His view of then VP Biden shock me.

  • @tracyclark7560
    @tracyclark75606 ай бұрын

    loud enough to hear

  • @MB-xq3ol
    @MB-xq3ol3 ай бұрын

    where is his wedding ring

  • @guddokaur5578
    @guddokaur55786 ай бұрын

    Sorry. I just checked and David brook is not trump supporter . Thank goodness . I was going to loose my faith in human race . I am glad I checked .

  • @majorharris8194
    @majorharris81943 жыл бұрын

    Hushed 37:00

  • @nurlatifahmohdnor8939
    @nurlatifahmohdnor89394 ай бұрын

    boast = ber-|me-gah - me-gah proud = ber-|bang-ga

  • @nurlatifahmohdnor8939

    @nurlatifahmohdnor8939

    4 ай бұрын

    1. 2. 3. 4. 5. Page 702 Lord Provost = n the provost of one of the five major Scottish cities.

  • @laurat.4791
    @laurat.47914 ай бұрын

    🤍🤍🤍

  • @xyzllii
    @xyzllii3 ай бұрын

    How WRONG this glib man is about narcissism. . He makes the huge error of mistaking vanity, and exaggerated self worth for narcissism. Two hugely different things. Narcissism is a personality disorder, whereby the person lacks empathy, lies at the flick of a coin, and is destructive and malevolent...etc.

  • @julzee111
    @julzee1116 ай бұрын

    Trying to develop your soul? Don’t waste your time

  • @420blackbirds8
    @420blackbirds84 жыл бұрын

    David Brooks on PBS this week after the 4th of July call trump a "GENIUS" for building his policy attacking liberal and by David so call standard, This is his core value of conservative doctrine, Trump is a genius conservative. Go watch him bullshit again and again! Look up the characteristics of a psychopath. He is very good a lying. ..

  • @guddokaur5578

    @guddokaur5578

    6 ай бұрын

    So disappointed to read that he supports trump . Trump has ruined America’s Name I can’t believe this man supports trump . I was going to buy his book now I will investigate about him before spending my money .

  • @151mcx

    @151mcx

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@guddokaur5578 Brooks is a "never trumper" ...

  • @yogee0007
    @yogee00074 жыл бұрын

    This man speaks a lot of genius content but lacks that attention grabbing conviction and tone ,may be I would read his thoughts and listen less

  • @pratibhasinghal748

    @pratibhasinghal748

    4 жыл бұрын

    I personally appreciate the neutral tone and lack passionate conviction! Otherwise , his personal bias will show and invite criticism and dilute the message..

  • @HopeWins777

    @HopeWins777

    3 жыл бұрын

    For everything there is a season and a time for every purpose under heaven. Maybe you have collected to give out for someone else to receive. Keep on the lookout. It's not always about our own mission, but it's always about our mission!

  • @apk2039
    @apk20393 ай бұрын

    Good points, for sure….lost me, though when he described what a great guy Joe Biden is…sure snowed Brooks

  • @tee4468
    @tee44684 ай бұрын

    He’s an amazing person because he changed. He went from conservative (Republican, not a Trumper) to this heartful amazing giver of love and appreciation to others.