The fakest one in the room was me l True Stories of Addiction

Over 60,000 children in the America are sexually abused on a yearly basis. However, parental sexual abuse is especially unimaginable and horrific. Due to concealment, many cases of parental sexual abuse are never exposed. Adam knows the trauma of parental sexual abuse all too well. Adam was sexually abused by his father from a very young age. It was through surviving and trying to deal with the trauma from the sexual abuse episodes his dad put him through that he turned to alcohol and drugs. Adam feels it was not knowing how to deal with his confusion, anger, and emptiness which led to his drug abuse and alcoholism. Adam started using drugs at 15 years old.
Adam’s parents divorced when he was young, and he had to see his dad every other weekend. That’s when the sexual abuse took place. Adam has vivid memories of making a therapeutic outcry about the sexual abuse he suffered at the hands of his father. He also remembers being interviewed by detectives. But his father was never convicted because his mom didn’t want him to have to go to court and suffer even more.
Adam’s Uncle Joe took him to his first AA meeting when he was 16 years old. Adam has been to 10 rehabs in five years. Adam felt like he had the right to use drugs and alcohol, and he began to play the victim. He wore a mask not letting anyone into his life and heart. All Adam knew was at the end of each day, he was sad. That led Adam to take more drugs so he wouldn’t or couldn’t feel the sadness. Adam has been diagnosed with dissociative identity disorder, bipolar type 1, schizophrenia, depression, and a host of other disorders. But the disorder diagnosis changes depending on what doctor he is seeing and why.
Adam thinks he started making it out of addiction and into recovery by acknowledging it was okay to have weird feelings and not understand if something was wrong with you. Because in the end something is wrong with everyone. In essence, Adam got tired of hurting himself. Adam knew enough to know his pain escalated to unimaginable levels in the second chapter of his life. That’s the chapter that happened when he had to stay with his father during visitations and had to endure parental sexual abuse. It was that very chapter that made him feel, “like trash.”
Adam is a bit confused as to why this time his recovery and rehabilitation ‘took,’ but he’s very grateful it did. Adam’s wise enough to know in the “blink of an eye, he could end up going back into the whole drug thing. But he likes the trajectory he’s on. It’s a beautiful thing.” Adam tries to accept his life now. He understands that just because he is doing the right things doesn’t mean he deserves all the right things happening as a reward. Adam feels he now has some measure of peace because his recovery from alcohol and substances has shown him recovery is always worth it. But you have to want it for it to work.
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  • @jane2978
    @jane29782 жыл бұрын

    I’ve probably seen every documentary or story on addiction that exists on the internet and several times a month I find myself coming back to this video since it’s been uploaded. The way this man describes his story and struggles and articulates the disease of addiction is so spot on and compelling that it truly gives me hope that sobriety is possible. Thank you so much for sharing and I hope that this video is never taken down.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    We will always keep it posted! You got this and can make the cage needed we believe in you!

  • @elenalinan4218
    @elenalinan42184 жыл бұрын

    Wow. These kind of stories make u rethink what you call "problems". Thank you for sharing this

  • @Adejokeokelola
    @Adejokeokelola2 жыл бұрын

    I give it to you Adam, for having the courage to share with us your story. You are really a determined man. Kudos to detox to rehab.

  • @johng69er
    @johng69er4 жыл бұрын

    Very well spoken. Forgive yourself brother you did what you could.

  • @jessicachiasson9661
    @jessicachiasson96613 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your honesty! My entire immediate family is addicted, I lost my brother to a overdose and my son has been in a 5 year battle with opioid. Your story and so many others on here give me hope.

  • @agapegr
    @agapegr4 жыл бұрын

    My heart goes out to all these ppl who suffer with drug addictions.. for some reason they give me strength..

  • @nathaliaarcos1852
    @nathaliaarcos18524 жыл бұрын

    He sounds so smart... bright future ahead my dude 💛

  • @brittaolson6550

    @brittaolson6550

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nathalia Arcos Absolutely...blown away! This guy could do anything.

  • @emmanuelm.d8748
    @emmanuelm.d87484 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been watching these videos non stop.

  • @ashmoore7937
    @ashmoore79373 жыл бұрын

    i relate to him so much. i went 44k into debt by 22 years old from buying drugs. i genuinely did not think i would still be here to pay it back. im so glad i am.

  • @mayaxox1584
    @mayaxox15844 жыл бұрын

    i dont know why but this one made me cry because i feel the exact same way and i live with the guilt of hurting others every single day

  • @brittaolson6550

    @brittaolson6550

    4 жыл бұрын

    maya xox Me too. This speaker affected me like no one I’ve heard from in a long time.

  • @mayaxox1584

    @mayaxox1584

    4 жыл бұрын

    Britta Olson exactly. everything was from the heart and so real

  • @dublinsfaircity

    @dublinsfaircity

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yes me too. I'm pretty much rock bottom now. This guy is 100% real. Wise words.

  • @ayobamiadeola8857
    @ayobamiadeola88572 жыл бұрын

    He is so real. He is not deceiving himself at all. I love your honesty.

  • @prosperousp6047
    @prosperousp60473 жыл бұрын

    I love the determination in your voice. You are really a strong man, I am happy for you that you came out of this despite all.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    He’s is very brave !!!

  • @oseghalevictory4981
    @oseghalevictory49812 жыл бұрын

    What an inspirational story, what you call problem can be a piece of cake when you listen to other people's story. I respect you for sharing and using this to encourage others.

  • @obaladedamilola2432
    @obaladedamilola24323 жыл бұрын

    Their is nothing worse than living with the guilt of hurting others. It's a heavy weight to carry. One just need to forgive himself and move on. When I listen to addiction stories like this, my eyes well up..What an experience

  • @BrandonConnolly_
    @BrandonConnolly_4 жыл бұрын

    Yo this hit home for me with the putting up a mask and not letting people in. Glad to see I’m not alone. I want to change

  • @adamodonnell7615

    @adamodonnell7615

    4 жыл бұрын

    Prophet hey man my names Adam that’s my story feel free to reach out 4806897807

  • @BrandonConnolly_

    @BrandonConnolly_

    4 жыл бұрын

    Adam Odonnell you’re the one in the video?

  • @adamodonnell7615

    @adamodonnell7615

    4 жыл бұрын

    Prophet yes

  • @lorysan2670

    @lorysan2670

    4 жыл бұрын

    Adam Odonnell so proud of you on being so honest and open and helping others! You mention a lot of “demons” and “battles” and want to tell you you’re right. Sorry you had shitty people around you that caused so much torment in your life. But it’s also a good thing because you wouldn’t be who you are without it. And it allows you to help others who are stuck, and see no way out. I want to encourage you because I see a huge purpose on your life! I want to encourage you to seek out Jesus! Although it might sound silly or cliche but it’s true. We are in a spiritual battle and we do not battle flesh and blood but in the spiritual world. Satan and his minions are real but so is God and Jesus. And Jesus is stronger and undefeated. Please watch video on other people’s testimonies on how Jesus saved them. I watched for a while and he saved me too. He wants to save you too and loves you more than you know. And he’s the only one that can truly make up for the loss’ caused by the enemy. You deserve to get it restored and more! He is waiting for you to call unto him and accept him in your life...and it will be better than you ever thought! Blessings brother!

  • @knowtechwithaman7254
    @knowtechwithaman72543 жыл бұрын

    Dishonesty is a brutal thing in the path of recovery too. A person who is dishonest to himself is considered one of the greatest sins in the world.

  • @sunshinekomaransky3426
    @sunshinekomaransky34264 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story! You are so strong!

  • @chinocamron8284
    @chinocamron82844 жыл бұрын

    Adam, Thank You for sharing.... you have a beautiful soul and spoke with true integrity. I’m very fortunate to have met you... Love you my amazing “True Friend” LBR!

  • @sundayadeyemi9900
    @sundayadeyemi99002 жыл бұрын

    Your story is very breath taking. Thank you for sharing your story . It's already a healing for many people

  • @er1ns
    @er1ns4 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your story Adam. You have come so far and are the true meaning of strength. Keeping you in my thoughts and sending positive vibes to remain sober, strong and intelligent. Keep working towards good and good will come to you. All the best.

  • @sobiyeolufemi1230
    @sobiyeolufemi12302 жыл бұрын

    Truly , self awareness and identity is a necessary attainment for every individual that will develop into healthy and socially responsible persons. I salute you for your courage and résilience.

  • @shufflegaming714
    @shufflegaming7143 жыл бұрын

    These are the best and true stories of addiction,After getting addicted with anything people realised that this is not the good thing.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @samueladetunji4284
    @samueladetunji42842 жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful story shared! I'm happy he was able to recover despite how tough his challenge was. Really inspiring...

  • @qosimshittu8326
    @qosimshittu83263 жыл бұрын

    What we call a masterpiece, he has faced something worth to regard as a problem, my heart wishes for you the best in every moment of your life, don't look back cox God is with you.

  • @orejokooluwafemi2634
    @orejokooluwafemi26343 жыл бұрын

    Wow. So touching. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for listening

  • @user-Nicole.Corona408
    @user-Nicole.Corona4083 жыл бұрын

    Poor child Hope his doing good !!! I pray for him to have True happiness and love 💕!!!

  • @Breehaan
    @Breehaan4 жыл бұрын

    Best one I've watched

  • @benfemi9691
    @benfemi96913 жыл бұрын

    That was a phase you felt you had to go through. It’s pretty cool you eventually saw the light. Keep soaring.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes it was!

  • @niyialagbe9713
    @niyialagbe97132 жыл бұрын

    I love this man. Very truthful and knows what he wants. You gat to forgive. Forgiveness reduces so many peoples pain and agony.

  • @aremugoke7679
    @aremugoke76793 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing this.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your welcomer Aremu!

  • @JuanRamirez-un1xn
    @JuanRamirez-un1xn3 жыл бұрын

    Inspiring story...you had every excuse to keep using, you choose healing and peace. Seems like a simple choice, can't believe how hard it is... I have to remember the outcome next time I feel like giving up.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Juan! Yes is a inspiring story, that´s why we make this videos to inspire, watch it anytime you needed! Remember here you have a community.

  • @olayinkapeter5866
    @olayinkapeter58663 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this. It will surely give hope to the hopeless especially those who don't know how to come out of addiction.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    You are so welcome

  • @ayokunleemmanuel7255
    @ayokunleemmanuel72552 жыл бұрын

    This is great story. Am glad he's able to share

  • @gladysa5700
    @gladysa57003 жыл бұрын

    Wow! what a story, things do happen. It is our ability to get out of it that matters. I don't know where you got the strength from but it is quite courageous of you.

  • @michellerjackson5776
    @michellerjackson57764 жыл бұрын

    I wish you peace and love, sir. 🙏

  • @leegeean2097
    @leegeean20973 жыл бұрын

    I just wish you live a good life after overcoming all of it. Thanks for sharing a wonderful story.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @vh8765
    @vh87654 жыл бұрын

    Keep up the good fight, Adam. You seem like a wonderful person. Many people are very proud of you.

  • @brittaolson6550
    @brittaolson65504 жыл бұрын

    I absolutely love his questioning of the “you’re not unique” message. Our uniqueness is very important and special. I guess the positive message is, “You’re not unique in how drugs effect you. You are not the rare addict who will be able to use successfully.” I guess that’s what I get from it, but I 100% agree it can be overdone. Very profound introspection about becoming the monster we are afraid of, and being haunted by our mistakes. I hope for success in recovery for this wise young man. I hope for success in recovery for me, as well. I’m still fairly new to it (again). Sometimes I question whether it can we ever end, But none of us should ever stop trying because we’re worth it, and we are unique and irreplaceable. And I just want him to know that I’ve been through horrific abuse also. It’s incredible to be able to survive AND have that empathic perspective that if you had it that bad, someone else had it worse. The world needs you, man, and you deserve to be a big part of it. Edit: I also have Bipolar and Dissociative Disorder (and PTSD). I think we really have had the same kind of life! (But never exactly).

  • @rohit_raj-it-2nd_yr-a-287
    @rohit_raj-it-2nd_yr-a-2873 жыл бұрын

    Very sad true story of America. Thanks for sharing such stories. Good luck man.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    My pleasure

  • @DrBAddictionRecovery
    @DrBAddictionRecovery4 жыл бұрын

    Hey detox to rehab, love you channel! Thank you for sharing these stories and providing hope to people in and seeking recovery! I would love to work with you on a video some day!

  • @lafamilia2310
    @lafamilia23103 жыл бұрын

    Each of us have our own problem. I am happy that he is able to come out of his share and he was able to pull through. Keep it up and may the force be with you.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well said!

  • @amberc2839
    @amberc28394 жыл бұрын

    Wishing you all the best brother. Keep your spirit strong. One day at a time. Beautiful soul. Shout out to ANON by the way.

  • @adedosuliamon151
    @adedosuliamon1512 жыл бұрын

    This is an Inspiring experience shared. No matter the Problem,we should deal with it and we shall overcome it.

  • @adesojiogunbade7771
    @adesojiogunbade77713 жыл бұрын

    Because something was a wrong with people doesn't mean it must with you. This true story touched me.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well said Adesoji!!

  • @mellowapocalypse
    @mellowapocalypse4 жыл бұрын

    dudes gonna be an awesome dad

  • @Tjeerd2010
    @Tjeerd20104 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your story, you are not unique in the sense of being an addict, its called putting things in perspective

  • @okesamueladebare4573
    @okesamueladebare45733 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing your true life story for others to learn just forgive and forget about it and give yourself inner peace

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Your welcome !!

  • @sudhanshukumar9041
    @sudhanshukumar90413 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing this video . This is so amazing . I like so much. Thanks detox to rehab.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @ditc2108
    @ditc21084 жыл бұрын

    thanks 4 sharing

  • @faxpax32
    @faxpax322 жыл бұрын

    His story is a very interesting one. Many people will be blessed after watching this video

  • @barb7124
    @barb71244 жыл бұрын

    This hits home. Some people I love have gone through similar family problems and I am trying to support them as best I can....with my limited knowledge of course.

  • @yanti6923
    @yanti69233 жыл бұрын

    Family is very important for the future of every children. That's way we should always keep happiness in our family. But sometimes we can't avoid things that happen just like adam's story. Lucky that he can recover.

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well said!!

  • @MemoryPallace
    @MemoryPallace4 жыл бұрын

    Bless you brother pain and love is universal and no one can kill the soul if you hear a voice of comfort it is the lord trust in him.

  • @babalolaabel540
    @babalolaabel5402 жыл бұрын

    Adam was dieing within due to the evil action of the father. The mother that ought to have stood in gap also was no where to be found. This is a great lesson for both young and old alike.

  • @MitchellWinning
    @MitchellWinning4 жыл бұрын

    Love you man, that's some beautiful mind you have.

  • @louiedangelo3843
    @louiedangelo3843 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you brother hope all is well today.🙏

  • @rlopsyd2213
    @rlopsyd22134 жыл бұрын

    he’s so sad :( omg

  • @azuarachel2491
    @azuarachel24913 жыл бұрын

    Interesting story and I really hope you learn to move on from it totally even though it might not happen all of a sudden. I hope others can learn from your story as well

  • @caseyrichards9905
    @caseyrichards99054 жыл бұрын

    I've been watching these videos all day I'm going through recovery and they're really helping me get through it

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    4 жыл бұрын

    casey richards we’re so glad to hear that man!

  • @AnneLien1987
    @AnneLien19874 жыл бұрын

    This was 'till now the best one. Felt everything he said.

  • @ghostcin4277
    @ghostcin42774 жыл бұрын

    "The things that I went through as a child were very demonic very dark". As I got older I couldn't understand why the need to use drugs and my self destructive behaviour. But then as time went on I realized that I was ashamed of the things I've done in the past but honestly I learned to love myself and to let those things go because there's nothing I can do about them anymore only what's happening today and things to come. And with that I started to release myself from the chains I had put on myself. It starts by wanting to be a better person because if you're comfortable with who you are that's who you stay as but I wasnt. Then you have to really want it and make a yes or no decision. It pays off I like the way I live now I am able to hold relationships. It was dark but I am out and ready to live life. Good luck buddy you seem to know what the problem was. Sometimes the hardest thing to fight is yourself.

  • @nurjanah7661
    @nurjanah76613 жыл бұрын

    This guy telling who one is the fakest and I think he honestly about hisself I like people with honesty

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    We too!!

  • @PATRICKRIDGETV
    @PATRICKRIDGETV4 жыл бұрын

    powerful story, i just started telling mine on here and these help me! #sobriety

  • @gemini3392
    @gemini33924 жыл бұрын

    Very impressive guy!

  • @cmg2437
    @cmg24373 жыл бұрын

    Its fantastic you spoke out, but life goes on dear, you need to move on too. What happened has happened. You can't kill yourself over it, everyone has flaws.

  • @olivermueses6231
    @olivermueses62314 жыл бұрын

    Wow I felt this too much

  • @cristina6657
    @cristina66574 жыл бұрын

    I hope you get your son back.

  • @emeryjones4325
    @emeryjones43254 жыл бұрын

    So good looking. Good luck man

  • @jimbomorison1930
    @jimbomorison19304 жыл бұрын

    dam 6dogs been on some real shit

  • @Patricia-uk3hv
    @Patricia-uk3hv3 жыл бұрын

    The sexual abuse really did take a toll on him. It definitely played a part in his addiction as a way to escape.

  • @oyesorooluwabukola3054
    @oyesorooluwabukola30543 жыл бұрын

    I feel your pain, but you just have to let go and let God heal you. Forgive yourself and stay strong.

  • @JustinFaiLz
    @JustinFaiLz4 жыл бұрын

    sick shirt

  • @jessekewagshken5339
    @jessekewagshken53394 жыл бұрын

    is this guy in phoenix??? i feel like i seen him in a few meetings

  • @ericfuens3081
    @ericfuens30814 жыл бұрын

    I'm I tears I felt his story. I fell in love with him I feel like he does at times

  • @cristina6657
    @cristina66574 жыл бұрын

    8:16 that something is trauma

  • @user-Nicole.Corona408
    @user-Nicole.Corona4084 жыл бұрын

    Is it true that when a person Starts using weed that would lead them to other drugs because I seen almost all the videos and all of them always say they started with weed ? Because weed is considered a drug

  • @hellbentholland1008

    @hellbentholland1008

    2 жыл бұрын

    False. I have friends that have tried weed and did that but nothing else ever. Didnt even drink much. If ya take a dude like me, weed wasnt what made me end up where I am, it was alcohol. Alcohol for many years got progressively worse and led me to do other things that I never would have started doing had I not been drunk as hell with lowered inhibitions to go against or say no to doing "harder drugs" or other risky stuff.

  • @jayrichard3481
    @jayrichard34813 жыл бұрын

    My man has a really dope shirt tho....

  • @hellbentholland1008
    @hellbentholland10082 жыл бұрын

    🙌

  • @Detoxtorehabcenter

    @Detoxtorehabcenter

    2 жыл бұрын

    Keep going!!

  • @niks-do7vx
    @niks-do7vx4 жыл бұрын

    Relate

  • @hvacwonders7081
    @hvacwonders70813 жыл бұрын

    that was so me

  • @AirborneAnt
    @AirborneAnt3 жыл бұрын

    Wow....@4:44 that’s some real shyt...

  • @yulnikita
    @yulnikita4 жыл бұрын

    6:08 - 6:15 heavy!

  • @user-fs2zt4tk6q
    @user-fs2zt4tk6q4 жыл бұрын

    can someone pls provide the time in the video where he says 'The fakest one in the room was me' i cant find it

  • @gemini3392

    @gemini3392

    4 жыл бұрын

    At 11:11

  • @Minita2229

    @Minita2229

    4 жыл бұрын

    11:09-11:12

  • @ravemasterharu
    @ravemasterharu3 жыл бұрын

    That suppose to be safe haven that drugs provide does not last!!! However at times people fell to drugs due to circumstances. I am no supporter of people like these but I can at least understand what drove someone to be this way. What counts is how you get back up, Cliche yes but you got no choice.

  • @Maurice-jf2me
    @Maurice-jf2me2 жыл бұрын

    You have realized a whole lot now. You just have to move on by forgiving yourself. it will be better

  • @folorunshoseun6876
    @folorunshoseun68762 жыл бұрын

    I want to use this medium to felicitate with Adam for his recovery. I pray it is permanent in Jesus name.

  • @alyssalopez223
    @alyssalopez2234 жыл бұрын

    What’s his Instagram

  • @luckylady123100
    @luckylady1231004 жыл бұрын

    Therapy helps.

  • @mellopez4443
    @mellopez44434 жыл бұрын

    😞

  • @georgegeorgesmith8665
    @georgegeorgesmith86654 жыл бұрын

    This guys hot