The 8 passenger kids are going to be writing a memoir like Jennette McCurdy

@majesticmeatwad

2 жыл бұрын

honestly

@BaileyBlurbs

2 жыл бұрын

YUP

@adarhasanchez6038

2 жыл бұрын

And I hope they do and I’ll read it just like Jeanette’s book

@doreshatillmon2769

2 жыл бұрын

I said the same thing and it's gonna be way worse they will get Netflix deals telling their story and they will show clips. It's gonna be so crazy.. smh..

@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed

2 жыл бұрын

yup

“We’re teaching our kids not to be dependent on others” she’s 6. She depends on you. For the bare minimum especially

@scarlett8782

2 жыл бұрын

especially ironic when THEY depend on exploiting their kids for income

@MoOveOver_plz

Жыл бұрын

If anything the parents depend on the kids

@the_blackpotatoe1268

Жыл бұрын

Exactly! She’s a stay at home mom but can’t bring her daughter a lunch to school?

@UrMom-dw5qd

Жыл бұрын

I actually can't imagine someone letting their kid go hungry, I packed my own lunch my whole life but my mom would never punish me like that.

@Isla_09

Жыл бұрын

She was even younger when the video came out..

Ruby is a MONSTER. she is the typical “why don’t my kids visit me😫😫” kind of mom

@billieseyelashes

Жыл бұрын

yep she's lucky if she hears ANYTHING for her kids when they become adults. every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child.

@jarnoronkainen75

11 ай бұрын

1 year later + kids are safe and those ruby + jodi are arrested... ohh.... how right you were ^_^ ... too bad it took this long.

"I didn't bring her lunch and guess what? She NEVER forgot her lunch again." That's because she got the message loud and clear: My mother is NOT someone I can depend on. If something or someone makes me uncomfortable, my mother will find some way to blame me, so best not tell her. Also, helping me is an inconvenience to HER.

@k.ainsword

Жыл бұрын

sound like my mother. that is why I don't like talk to my mom, and eat with her in same table make my food tasteless

@Ijustdidthat

Жыл бұрын

@@k.ainsword hope you reconcile and that your food gets tasteful again 🥰

@kallykat

Жыл бұрын

Those poor babies at Xmas…. The magic being stolen is just so sad… it doesn’t have to cost money to give presents and magic….

@savedmp3

Жыл бұрын

@@Ijustdidthat no, some parents are meant to be left in the dust, especially the ones at hand

@KittyFAN13

Жыл бұрын

@@Ijustdidthat Tell me you didn’t read the room without telling me.

"My kids don't get to eat sometimes, have no friends, or have beds, but that's life!" I really hope these poor kids can escape and get ACTUAL help

@m00n.kitt3n.z00m

2 жыл бұрын

RIGHT? Like, those are your bare minimum requirements as a parent y'all, and you're proudly just depriving them of all of it.

@Ivana_piranha

2 жыл бұрын

I once knew a girl who literally wouldn’t send her children to public school and insisted on home schooling and wouldn’t let them interact other children their own age. They would say, “well they have their family that’s it” when they only saw their family on holidays. I’m not a mother, but I can’t help but feel that isolating your children like that will have long social damages and difficulty making friends.

@karaiakauma3179

2 жыл бұрын

I cannot help but feel these weird family channels are abusive families just concealing themselves by calling themselves "family channels" and broadcasting it... like that hiding among the public stuff

@anomalyahblack1515

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that's life THEY make their kids live...

@JaseekaRawr

2 жыл бұрын

@@0h_hi_mark Yep, same here. I left home at age 16. Couldn't get out of there fast enough. But that led to me staying with an abusive older bf, just to avoid living at home. He pressured me into using drügs, gaining an addiction that I still struggle with today. Life was so unnecessarily rough bc my parents abandoned me. 🥺 Things finally worked out for me, have a loving husband & we have a child together. 🥰🙏🏻 When I first heard about what this fam does to their children, I legit cried! 😭 It's abuse in every sense of the word. Once the children are safe & away from their parents, I'm sure they'll spill all of what happened. Or they'll just want their privacy for the first time in their lives. 😔 My heart aches for those babies. I hope you're ok now, too! I can tell by your comment that you understand the struggle. 🥺 I sincerely hope life is ok for you now & I'm so sorry that your/our parents failed us. It's *not* our fault! Solidarity to you & sorry for the long comment lol. ✊😔❤

as a psychology student SLEEP IS SO IMPORTANT. any “mental health professional” that is saying taking away a bed is a good idea NEVER SEE THAT PERSON AGAIN.

@KssN27

2 жыл бұрын

As a psychiatric nurse practitioner grad student, I endorse this comment.

@frumtheground

2 жыл бұрын

100%. I highly doubt they saw a mental health professional. They probably talked to a church official, or (and I really really hope not) follow advice from people like the Pearl's, authors of "How to Train Up a Child" or similar garbage. Weirdly they don't seem as extreme as the advice you'd read in that book, but it doesn't seem to be too far off.

@nataleewilson9675

2 жыл бұрын

As a 18 year old who has no knowledge about any of this I endorse this comment

@bugmeep

2 жыл бұрын

As a night shift employee and college student i endorse this comment

@00Rav3n00

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. Psychology minor here, when Ruby said the wilderness camp was ran by psychologist and they approve of no beds; I knew immediately that wasn't true. Sleep is the most important thing our bodies need. Sleeping helps us refuel and reset; not being able to sleep comfortably (in a bed) can cause emotional and physical damage to our bodies.

I don’t think the mom realizes that chad is “okay with whatever” because she sent him away for 8 months and is terrified to disagree with his mom and dad or upset them

@faeri_

Жыл бұрын

Weeks, but yes

every child deserves a parent, but not every parent deserves a child ☹️

@shantakidd6230

Жыл бұрын

I kind of hate that saying these days. Because it's like... feel good bs. It might just be my personal experience but nobody, who I know personally (I don't know you so I'm not saying you're like this) but they just say it to get like brownie points and then promptly forget about the problem that made them say it. I lost a small friend group because one of them seemed abusive toward their child, everyone said as much behind the person's back and kind of weakly nudged at it in their presence. Then one day she said to one of our mutual friends that she left her son, who was only 5, to forage for his own food for a weekend because he pissed her off and she needed a break. I can't confirm if that story was true because I heard it from a mutual who heard if from her and didn't hear it myself but that mutual gave a whole blurb about what she thought and capped it off with that statement. So I reported the mom and I guess something happened and the mom was complaining and I told her that she shouldn't be leaving her toddler basically defenseless. The friend who told me the story did not speak up and everyone criticized me for "trying to get her son taken away". I was never invited to hang out with them again but I would have passed if I was. Wow anyway that was a tangent that had nothing to do with you and was only triggered by your statement Sorry 😓

@billieseyelashes

Жыл бұрын

@@shantakidd6230 disagree. i've never heard this statement in other settings than when parents are abusive towards a child. the statement holds super important meaning. it speaks about something that isn't talked enough about, and that is that the voices of kids matter.

I’m pretty sure what they did to Chad actually qualifies as child abuse or neglect. Ruby literally just confessed to it on camera, she could actually get arrested for it

@joshi438

2 жыл бұрын

All it takes is for someone to call it in 🤷🏽‍♀️

@serephita

2 жыл бұрын

YEP. The Mormon cul - woops, church has also been shown to protect pedos :|

@user-kq7wx1rp3u

2 жыл бұрын

@@joshi438 i think ppl have acc called them in but nothing happened

@coll4455

2 жыл бұрын

I’m sure people have called on them before but as far as the police go this isn’t child abuse. The wouldn’t take any action against them unless they could SEE neglect and physical abuse. The most they would say is maybe you should give him back his bed.

@jennifercederholm5973

2 жыл бұрын

i dont think its that serious... i havent had my own room/bed for like 6 years bc of lack of money. sleeping on a bean bag for 6 months isnt that bad

As a licensed psychologist I can guarantee NO TRUE PROFESSIONAL will ever recomend taking away a child's bed as punishment.

@rebeccamarilyn3935

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like LDS sanctioned ‘professionals.’

@simplymonca

2 жыл бұрын

You’re the second specialist in this comment section to say this! Thank you for your input!!!

@loveicecream9947

Жыл бұрын

Hello I just hav some question since you’re a licensed psychologist: why do some moms go so far to discipline their child like taking away the bed, like it seems like a mixture of anger and a delusional perspective that treating someone like this is a good outcome

@NaomiVR

Жыл бұрын

I mean I’m not a licensed psychologist and I figured as much… some parents honestly….

@spacedelle9849

Жыл бұрын

What about their bedroom door BC a few times it was "slammed" and after one time the wind helped to actually slam it, their parent took it off and hid it, no conversations, discussion ect with said child? (To make it all worse, it happened a few week after being raped and still in shock, so it seemed insanely bad to me.)

„ask yourself: why am I upset about how they raise their kids?“ because we have empathy and to be treated like this as a kid is horrible.

Ruby really joined a cult within a cult that’s wild. I am so sad for those kids.

@billieseyelashes

Жыл бұрын

the parents are idiots. i hope the kids break free one day.

@nini_nunez

11 ай бұрын

Oh gosh it was way worse than we thought. They are on their way to being free from her now that she was arrested for CA.

@Sgsgssgsgsgs

10 ай бұрын

Kevin joined the same cult, and was in this all years before they split - they both obeyd Jodis rules :/ and made new ones with her

So Ruby couldn't drive to the school to give her children FOOD but she could drive up there over music she doesn't like? I feel so sorry for the kids in that family. I'm a parent and it hurt my heart to hear how these children are treated.

@tiffanysadlertlc

2 жыл бұрын

Right?

@ellemarie1998

2 жыл бұрын

This is like my mom🥺 it makes me so sad for these kiddos

@m00n.kitt3n.z00m

2 жыл бұрын

Also... They give the kids lunch 2 hours before school is over? I don't know... It's been a while since I was in school, but I'm pretty sure we had lunch way earlier than that. 🤔 The math ain't mathing.

@annalaw3129

2 жыл бұрын

@@m00n.kitt3n.z00m you are correct ! We had two breaks at school one for 40 mins and one for 1.5 hours ( I think it’s roughly that) . Once my mum forgot to pack my lunch and she ran to the school to drop it off! We also had hot lunch day where I couldn’t eat anything available( I’m so allergic to things) and mum would always make me hot food and drop it off fresh so I was included 😩 . Ruby is just a hurt human who never healed and taking it out on their kids

@orlianisdmunoz

2 жыл бұрын

@@m00n.kitt3n.z00m personally here in Puerto Rico we get lunch 2 hours before leaving. It's: lunch 11:30-12:30 Class 12:30-1:20 Another Class 1:20-2:10

The fact that the father said “if you’re triggered by that then you should probably look at yourself” YES bc my parents were also toxic and abusive and I have since cut off my mother out of my life & don’t plan so speak to her again. Don’t be surprised when your kids grow up & don’t need you anymore & don’t want you in their life 🤷🏻‍♀️ you did it to yourself sir.

@samfinnell6070

2 жыл бұрын

The dad legit trying to gaslight us into thinking their shitty behavior is somehow commentary on other people and not a flaw in his "omnipotent" parenting 🤣

@artsynewbie1818

2 жыл бұрын

SIS SAME I’ve cut off my entire family except my brother, it’s so difficult but it’s so much easier to just be without them…

@cheycheyfriend247

2 жыл бұрын

@Michelle Cline uh… not always. You’re forgetting triggers that are responses to trauma.

@meganharison3742

2 жыл бұрын

THIS! Yes IM sensitive to this because I was abused and neglected as a child.

@capchir8736

2 жыл бұрын

@@artsynewbie1818 same!! I only talk to my brother! My dad passed away in January & shit just went downhill from there. I moved halfway across the country to get away from it all. I’m sorry you’re going through it too ❤️‍🩹

My mom has always said she has a bed for me. I am 22 yrs old. I moved out when I was 18, hours away. I have been financially fine. To know that I can always go back to my BED at home is so secure and reassuring.

i GASPED when I heard they sent their eldest son to a wilderness camp. I’m not American but I have heard of stories on tiktok from the survivors of those kind of camps and the horrible abuse the children there go through. I can’t believe those kinds of camps are legal, no child deserves to be abused like that

Lol take it from me, who was raised by a Ruby: Her oldest went to a school far away to get away from them, the son is mostl likely doing the same - so now Ruby is doubling down and getting stricter towards her younger children while they're still impressionable so they can be exactly who she wants. She's probably going to paint one of the oldest siblings out to be "the bad child" and turn the younger ones against them for not falling in line with her insanity. Edit: Some of you don't know how to think outside of the box but I'm clearly talking from exp. It may not exactly align like that in this context, but regardless of what is canon and whats not, we all know Ruby WISHES she were farther away.

@schooldude1000

2 жыл бұрын

It's probably going to be Chad that she paints as the villain. It's sad and it just shows how dangerous having a parent like Ruby can be. I hope these children all find peace.

@asunnylife.2233

2 жыл бұрын

Shari actually had a scholarship to a college out of state/further away, but chose to stay in BYU, where her dad works.

@lsun5322

2 жыл бұрын

Sheri goes to BYU, where Kevin teaches. It’s less than 30mins away from their house.

@serephita

2 жыл бұрын

if she's at BYU then she's still under the thumb of not only her parents but also their church. BYU is a well known Mormon school. Also since her dad works there, she probably does get a discount on tuition and being an instate student would mean lower tuition as well.

@cheycheyfriend247

2 жыл бұрын

@@lsun5322 okay?

CPS failed these kids. Everyone around these kids are failing them. They’re terrible parents. She drove an hour to the school to cry about a song but not to feed her child. Ruby is a narcissist. Why would you try to ruin everything fun for your kids. Literally she stops them from doing anything they enjoy.

@LAHDL

Жыл бұрын

Cps 80% dumb 20% smart Not to offend anyone who works for cps I'm just saying my harmless opinion thank you.

@octogonSmuggler

Жыл бұрын

CPS fails most kids. They focus on the family unit and lot of kids end up back in the abusive situation again and again. 80% or so of kids come out injured or dead. It's honestly disgusting.

@samg873

Жыл бұрын

@@LAHDL are you sure it's not 100% dumb 0% smart? My dad's druggie nephew got his son taken cause he's a meth head. It's been 5 years and cps is still giving him chances to clean up. He's shown many times drugs are more important than his son. Two months into trying to get him back cps wanted another piss test he said "no I gave you enough piss tests" omg I wanted to rip him a new one but he'd also tell on me to my dad cause my dad was blind to the truth about him back then

@baygoesmoo

Жыл бұрын

CPS has failed everyone. they claim to always be a helping hand but they've faild me and my friends.

@day_dreamer9316

Жыл бұрын

Totally missed that! How is it too inconvenient to drop off lunch but perfectly fine to go complain about a clean version of a song. Shows exactly where her priorities are and why the kids have no friends

she just got arrested for aggravated child abuse. kids were found tied up, malnourished and suffering from open wounds because of the ropes. I’m happy the kids are free at last, but the fact that it was all documented makes it worse. the severe abuse could’ve been stopped years ago.

I'm confused by the fact that they want to teach their kids about "real life" by mandating that they remember their lunches...but then they panic when a principal allows a clean version of a pop song into their lives? You can't pick and choose which part of the real world you want them exposed to. That's not how it works.

I love how she’s crying about the principal introducing the kids to the “world”, but then does toxic things to her kids to “prepare them for the real world”.

@kab9706

2 жыл бұрын

Exactlyy. The hypocrisy. She uses every excuse to treat her kids like sh*t, but then turns around and acts like she's morally above everybody. Nah, these parents are exploitive and abusive

@shewolfinubaka

2 жыл бұрын

Literally the comments on some of their videos got turned off by KZread because child predators were commenting explicit sexual stuff

@samg873

Жыл бұрын

@@shewolfinubaka ew

"Not having a bed isn't psychologically damaging" She says as she continues to sleep in a fucking bed, never willing to live the way she forces her son to live

@AdaHazard

Жыл бұрын

Right? That's the grossest thing because clearly they think they are worthy of humanity than their own kids. Would they give up their beds? Would they give up everything???? When they say it's totally fine for their kids to suffer? Somehow I fucking doubt it. What sick, sick people.

@billieseyelashes

Жыл бұрын

horrid.

Imagine being six years old and learning "the hard way" that if you ever make a miniscule mistake, your own parents won't lift a finger to help you because they (the child) should have known better.

I’m a teacher and if one of my kids was told to go hungry by their parent, I would A) feed them and B) report to CPS. That’s abusive. There are better consequences. You could bring a sandwich and apple. You could set up a payment for a lunch at school. You could say that you would help them pack their backpack for a few weeks while they learn to be responsible

@kath3832

11 ай бұрын

I got my daughter to pack her own lunch when she was 8, I would be with her to help or prompt her with it, and if she refused to pack it, then the 'consequence' was that I would pack it for her so she may not have the exact things she wanted in it. Her expectations and consequences are insane!! If I was a teacher then I would report them too!!

@gusgrizzel8397

4 ай бұрын

She did that on purpose, to enjoy her kid's suffering. It's not that she didn't realize what she could do.

The dad saying that them abusing they’re kids only seems bad to you because YOU probably got abused is ridiculous. I literally had the most perfect childhood, which is WHY I can see how bad their behavior is

@Aina138

2 жыл бұрын

Dude didn't even hesitate to say it. i had the worst childhood and i'm glad someone that had the opposite agrees they are sh*tty parents

@00Rav3n00

2 жыл бұрын

Fr. I wouldn't say my childhood was perfect (I dealt with a lot of psychological abuse from various family members), but I would take my family over those two anyday. IMO, Kevin and Ruby might have come from similar (ish) upbringings and they don't see anything wrong, because it's been normalized to them. Thankfully, their kids seem to realize the issue and are getting as far away as possible.

@erinntay

2 жыл бұрын

COMMON SENSE tells us that it’s Bad Parenting🥴🥴🥴

@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed

2 жыл бұрын

Right. my parents would never 😂

@amy2771

Жыл бұрын

Genuinely same.. I can still see child abuse here…

Funny that she drove the whole 45 minutes to her kids' school to complain about a song but not to feed them

@grylltheonion

2 жыл бұрын

They are terrible parents.

@scarlett8782

2 жыл бұрын

then she exposed herself by vlogging both refusing to take her preschooler a lunch and driving to the school to complain about nothing because she's a complete smooth brain. clearly, her priority is control, not care. her kids are going to absolutely despise her when they grow up, and she'll die alone and hated, as she should.

"It's a way to teach our children how to live responsibly.. rather than dependent upon somebody else to always take care of them".... THAT'S LITERALLY YOUR JOB. That baby is SIX. This really should count as child neglect.

The Christmas thing is really getting to me... They take away their gift and then call their own love a gift. Those poor children are going to start believing that the love of their parents can also be taken away easily. Parental love isn't a gift, it's a duty

@annahappen7036

Жыл бұрын

Not to mention these kids are learning a very perverse version of love.

I noticed in Ruby's debut video was the 'Karen haircut' and considering her attitude she basically kept it in spirit.

@solala1312

2 жыл бұрын

thought the same! 💀

@orlianisdmunoz

2 жыл бұрын

I literally had the same thought 💀

@WithBailey

2 жыл бұрын

Lmao, I literally laughed out loud when I saw the Karen cut

@audreyfocant

2 жыл бұрын

hahaha same!!!

@lauryniti1807

2 жыл бұрын

i was thinking the same thing

As a teacher, I am so angry with family channels. They always humiliate their children for views and it could lead to school bullying in the future. There is a 50% chance their classmates will find their family channels and they will see their most embarrassing moments where it can possibly lead to bullying until they graduate high school. This is so sad and I can't stand it anymore. Edit: thank you everyone for the likes! I really appreciate it!

@samfinnell6070

2 жыл бұрын

Same here! The only way they "teach" their children is through trauma and neglect yet somehow have the audacity to give advice on parenting.

@jedimasterspidermad5173

2 жыл бұрын

@@samfinnell6070 I mean there should always be consequences for their actions but those are not appropriate consequences. An appropriate one would be like losing technology for about 2-3 days or something.

@tiffanysadlertlc

2 жыл бұрын

Same here!!

@xpumpernickelx2260

2 жыл бұрын

I am also a teacher and I 100% agree

@samfinnell6070

2 жыл бұрын

@@jedimasterspidermad5173 Agreed! Discipline isn't necessarily a bad thing nor is their abuse even "discipline" it's just being horrible!

The number of times me or my coworkers have forgotten our lunch because, well, we have human brains. But this child is supposed to never forget? 🤦‍♀️

i love that ruby punishes chad so much that he’s literally just like “yeah i’m horrible” to the camera cus he’s just done😭😭

honestly what scares me more is that they STOPPED vlogging. she stopped vlogging because of the cps visit. who KNOWS what shes been doing to them

@Babyspice39

2 жыл бұрын

I never thought about this. This is scary!

@simplymonca

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! The only silver lining was that their monstrosities were documented!

@WillieManga

Жыл бұрын

I wish they arrested her so that everything would stop.

@caketropolis

Жыл бұрын

Seriously, this is so scary because their kids admit that they literally have no friends or a anyone else to rely on or reach out to and the parents are clearly abusive. They're just not filming the abuse while CPS was hovering around so there wont be current evidence

@kath3832

11 ай бұрын

You were right, because they've now been arrested for child abuse, after one of the kids escaped... Malnourished, duct tape on wrists and ankles and wounds from being tied up etc

A lot of people say that Asian moms are the most authoritarian when it comes to raising their children- and I can attest to this- but imagine being raised by Ruby and Kevin. 😭 _”Strict parents make sneaky kids.”_

@sisterstrange78

2 жыл бұрын

This is a whole different level. I grew up in the church, and it was a stricter upbringing for sure, but this is a gross misrepresentation of family life in the church. A complete abuse and embarrassing use of power.

@fairlysleepy

2 жыл бұрын

This feels a cult ngl

@nonamenoname1133

2 жыл бұрын

Same boat, but I reckon religious authoritarianism is a little more multiplicative. I've never been told that I was such a bad Asian I was going to hell.

@honeybear5792

2 жыл бұрын

@@fairlysleepy exactly what I was thinking. they use the same words over and over again and when their mind seems to go blank they use those words to refresh it.

@karaiakauma3179

2 жыл бұрын

@@honeybear5792 @Adi exactly what I was thinking!! She's giving off mad cult leader behavior and vibes

The fact that she’s hell bent on making sure they’re just hungry is mind blowing to me. You can’t think and concentrate on an empty stomach. If my daughter were to forget her lunch she at least has the option to get something from the cafeteria and I would never tell her that she HAS to neglect that and just be hungry. What a wacko.

"It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men."

As a person who grew up with strict, crazy parents like this. I can guarantee one of them if not all will go off the rails. This is what pushes your children to resent you.

@Asyamariemeredith

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah… sometimes if its bad enough? The parents will go so far off the rails they’ll commit acts of violence

@abbygaletirado2091

Жыл бұрын

oh fr I knew a parent literally exactly like this and when my friend got kicked out she went fucking crazy I love her but it took 3 years for her to calm down and to live her life normally

i’m sorry “iTs a rEfLeCtIoN oN yOu” yeah, as a survivor of child abuse, i recognise it when i see it babe. horrible parenting and moral. i wish those parents the worst, and the kids (the victims) the best in life.

@sourgreendolly7685

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. And no, my experience being an abused child is not a reflection of ME. The fact that they said that, says it all.

@kab9706

2 жыл бұрын

Right? He tried to deflect responsibility completely. They chose to over-share their family's life and then can't accept criticism for their shitty authoritarian parenting.

@TheZinger14

2 жыл бұрын

His statement on that made me sick. Both of them are gross narcissists

Let’s be honest the only reason he said “it’s fine” is because he wants the world to know how he’s treated, which is poorly he honestly is treated the worst out of everyone. I’m honestly surprised Ruby didn’t cut that part herself out still tho even tho Chad said not too, she has a habit of not caring what her kids say

My mom listened to professionals when I was younger and it made our relationship worse. They told her to take my door, clothes and other weird things that made the whole situation worse. Just because “professionals” tell you to do it, think about it first

i’m ready for all family channels to go away. these parents leeching off their children when they (the kids) don’t want to be involved is extremely inappropriate. they don’t even realize the risks of showing their kids on the internet.

@Pamela-yx9os

2 жыл бұрын

not to mention how the kids probably don't get a single cent and probably won't

@clairewillow6475

2 жыл бұрын

@@Pamela-yx9os let’s hope some of these ppl put money aside for their kids education

@fairlysleepy

2 жыл бұрын

it never will go away because people know being a youtuber makes so much money especially kids oriented content. in 10 years from now there are gonna be so many kids messed up bc of family channels, just like tv stars that got famous since they were a child 🙁

@samfinnell6070

2 жыл бұрын

They don't even bother to even consider the risks as long as they can continue the cycle of abuse and exploitation

" Be masters of yourselves, don't depend on others!" Say the adults making their fucking money of ruining their kids childhood and privacy to the world, yet screw the 6 year old who forgot to pack his lunch. Sounds legit.

@samfinnell6070

2 жыл бұрын

They're also acting like their child isn't their responsibility, really puts the abuse into perspective...

I can’t even imagine how Chad felt when his parents sent him off. The abuse those kids endured. 😭💔 so glad the older ones moved out and got away from their parents.

If this is what they are sharing to the world, imagine what they aren’t sharing

Also note that Chad isn't even sure if that is the exact reason he lost his bed. My father use to shut the power off in my room and I would no idea why and no clue for how long. I would just have to guess. Parents have to remember they are raising PEOPLE. Not children, people. Bad parenting does get erased once a person turns 18. Also " the principle of truth" sounds just as creepy as "keep sweet".

@rebeccawinn4465

2 жыл бұрын

i was just thinking that about “the principle of truth” sounding like “keep sweet”. makes me feel ill.

@samfinnell6070

2 жыл бұрын

Their version of truth is delusional ramblings on Facebook like sis that's not how facts work but go off 🤣

@JaseekaRawr

2 жыл бұрын

That was the worst, not knowing what you did wrong! 😭 My parents took my door off it's hinges, among many, many other violating things. So sorry you went through that. I'm personally always checking myself now bc I have a 1 year old, I don't ever want to be my mother. I always remind myself that my son is a separate person, if that makes sense lol. Narcissistic parents always consider you like you're just an extension of them, it's so fkn weird dude. *They* & *their* feelings are only ever considered or valid. They take away your sense of self, which has insane consequences. Still trying to undo all that was done to me by my parents. All I know is that I will *never, ever* abandon my son, like my mother did to me. They at least taught us what *not* to do, ya know? 😐 I wish you healing!!! What happened to you was not right, necessary *or* justified. It's not your fault. Solidarity to you, Taylor! ✊😔❤

@Beelzebubby91

2 жыл бұрын

19:26 “the gift of truth” also sounds weird 😂😂 what a lovely Christmas present lmaoo

It's interesting that Chad shows no remorse regarding cheating on tests and getting kicked out of school. How do they expect their kids to understand right from wrong if they don't show them? You can't just jump from action to punishment, you have to actually explain why their action was wrong!

@ashlieghdeeble9112

2 жыл бұрын

He's sheltered from a lot and probably was angry for so long that he just gave up may not care now. Very sad advice they can reverse this crazy thelarents did and hope it isn't too late

@RiverLovegood

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashlieghdeeble9112 I agree in the sense that it seems like he just gave up. I had super strict parents as well and eventually I learned nothing I did would live up to their expectations of me so I gave up and stopped caring. I’m getting a similar vibe from him tbh

@giareeves4240

2 жыл бұрын

It was him stuttering for a minute or more while trying to explain why he had his bed taken away… he legit didn’t know why

She even had de oficial Karen haircut 💀

As a parent, I think these channels need heavy regulation. It's mainly the vlogs that are the issue that don't allow these child internet celebrities a break. Their life becomes a constant cycle of recording.

@kath3832

11 ай бұрын

Exactly! And the profits should be automatically divided up and put into trust funds for the children by law. The parents shouldn't be able to walk away with all the money they make off these kids!!

I had parents like this, like I didn't get a birthday one year because I "misbehaved." It's cruel.

@conniearcher96

2 жыл бұрын

My mum cancelled my 7th birthday party after I’d already invited all my friends

@datartisttho1987

2 жыл бұрын

@@conniearcher96 Literally what I had to do too. My gifts got sent back, my friends were told to not come by her, and I just had to sit in my room all day and stare at the wall.

@rachel._003

2 жыл бұрын

Same here one time I took 20$ in change from my step mom and on my birthday my grandparents gave me 80$ and she took all of the money saying that it’s from what I stole. I was going on 11. I never really got any presents from my dad or his side of the family and it still upsets me to this day

@ceemc859

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry ❤️❤️ I hope you're flourishing now

She talks about pop culture, and then tries to make her family go viral and become pop culture

this aged well

Growing up LDS in Utah I knew FAR too many kids who had horrific parents and were raised in this kind of toxic environment. It always seemed to be the more wealthy families too…

"My kid won't forget their lunch anymore!" -- yeah, how about knowing your kid now knows what it's like not to be able to rely on their parent for basic essentials like EATING? Heartless. Absolutely heartless.

i’m really loving the more long form commentary style videos :)

@derrickjuinor

2 жыл бұрын

Me too

@stargirl_niaa

2 жыл бұрын

YES!!

@luxursunsets

2 жыл бұрын

YES please keep this up im begging

@m00n.kitt3n.z00m

2 жыл бұрын

PLUS ONE

That part where she is like “I’m not here for my daughter’s comfort, I’m not here to make her comfortable.” What?!

that's so scary. I was SUCH a forgetful child, I forgot things all the time and had breakdowns about how bad my memory was. If I'd had a mother like that, I would have been beyond traumatized.

I'm a teacher and I have had parents like her and it's awful. She's just irrationally upset about something so miniscule.

@ForeverSweetx3

2 жыл бұрын

Call CPS

@Lolalolo1996

Жыл бұрын

Hell, I'm a paraprofessional and I get parents like this when it comes to my sped students. I work with 3rd graders and most of the time the students are more reasonable then their parents

I'm surprised that family channels are still a thing...

@jedimasterspidermad5173

2 жыл бұрын

They shouldn't but people are dumb enough to give these family channels views.

@missbieber1211

2 жыл бұрын

Not for long

@hyxcks4914

2 жыл бұрын

they are dying out their views and plumiting

@change_my_mind9891

2 жыл бұрын

@@missbieber1211 i hope so!

@angelapatino9582

2 жыл бұрын

I sure hope they go away. It's so awful and unregulated. As a parent I have to explain how bad it is for the children and why they are not allowed to watch Ryan's world. Now that these kid channels are on Hulu it is so much harder to avoid

When I was in 6th grade, Tipsy by J-Kwon was really popular. My teacher wanted to get all of us more excited to learn, so she paired us off in groups and told us to re-write a popular song and make it about a class subject. Our song went "Everybody class learnin' math now" - yeah, it was cringey but it was fun and got us more involved in the lessons. It was such a reach for to come to the conclusion with the song/ tik tok dance. It's a fun idea, let them be kids, but thats not what it's even about for these two. These parents come across as so controlling and exploitative

So, the cult they were born into wasn't culty enough for them, so they found a cultier cult to join and promote. Those poor kids.

Tea Spill is the only channel I like for gossip. Specially her comments, she says the good, the bad, what could be better comments about the videos or channel she is covering.

@ElizaSimmer

2 жыл бұрын

Plus she’s got a great voice for it!

@myblacktears0921

2 жыл бұрын

@@ElizaSimmer yes! That too 👍🏼🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

@Brettpopscorn

2 жыл бұрын

She’s so much better than Anna Oop

@lemonsoda3689

2 жыл бұрын

Tea spill > anna oop

@Brettpopscorn

2 жыл бұрын

@@lemonsoda3689 FR

Reminder that this awful abusive behavior is what they're willing to show publicly, and things are always worse privately

The way the kids constantly defend their parents and keep insisting it’s there fault it’s just showing how control the parents really are, if you condition victims to be obedient and that they are constantly to blame then its your fault.

I really hope these children get helped. I feel so bad for her daughter that forgot lunch :,( I couldn’t imagine letting my own blood starve even if their school is 40 mins away.

@alexlancaster45

9 ай бұрын

Ruby got arrested for child abuse

One thing is sleeping on the floor bc you’re CAMPING another thing is being FORCED to sleep on the floor because your bed was REMOVED as a consequence.

@wilhelminajackson650

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Beds aren’t a “privilege” they are a need

As someone who is a psychology minor and who is also in therapy, a mental health specialist would NEVER advise a parent to take away their children's belongings because of behaviors. And if they are, then that isn't a mental health specialist. In what world is it right to take away your children's belongings because of behavioral issues? It would be understanding if it was for a SAFETY reason, but not because they're "acting" out.

@ashlieghdeeble9112

2 жыл бұрын

True and I've only heard video games or phones but not once hae I heardbedroom doors, beds etc.

@mimijansen3262

2 жыл бұрын

My questions as a mother is then, what do you do? You're not allowed to punish for bad behaviours? Because you're not allowed to hit, take stuff away or give time out. What do you do? It's a genuine question, since I see how many non parent have all kinds of opinoins on how to raise kids. (I'm not saying these are good parents, don't know them, have never heard of them before.)

@xandermin

2 жыл бұрын

@@mimijansen3262 Finding the cause of the behaviour & creating an open line of communication between you & your child is the most important step IMO. Personally, I'm not against punishments as a whole, but when you take a child's things away, it can create a sense of material insecurity. I think giving extra chores is a better punishment in the long term cos doing chores sucks, but it's not gonna make the kid feel isolated or trapped in the same way as fx. grounding them will.

@blsmcherry789

2 жыл бұрын

They probably only listened to the ones that would tell them what they want. In other words, validate and justify their abuse and unfair lessons.

@sourgreendolly7685

2 жыл бұрын

Not the good ones, but let’s not pretend there aren’t abusive people in the field.

Im loving these long form videos! I love to hear you go in depth into stuff, especially when it's so important and sensitive like 8 Passengers

My Dad always drove my lunch into town when I forgot it. I feel so lucky reading all of these stories of childhood abuse. I just want to give you all hugs!❤️

My daughter is in first grade and 2.5 weeks into her school year and has lost three water bottles and a lunch box equaling close to $90 in value. I'm so sick to my stomach thinking of my child not having lunch. Ruby is a psycho narcissist.

@jlgunn922

2 жыл бұрын

Right?! She’s SIX!! not only did she refuse to bring food, she said she HOPES THAT NO ONE SHARES FOOD WITH HER. what on freaking earth. I am working to teach my kids to be responsible, but not via starvation tactics.

@EmmazingGal

2 жыл бұрын

A child missing lunch which is one meal of the day is not going to die. Yes they will be hungry until their next meal but they will be ok. If a parent was working and couldn't leave their job I understand them not bringing their child food. But the fact that Ruby is a stay at home mom and has time too do that, and chose not too is concerning (especially if thishappens alot). Also in my opiniom a child who is in school should be taught how to pack their lunch and backpack but it is the parent's responsibility to check it to make sure that they have everything. Children can be independent little beings with proper oversight from their parent. Perhaps Ruby was trying the methods of natural consequences.

@jlgunn922

2 жыл бұрын

@@EmmazingGal - No, they are not going to die. But first of all, she is 6 - WAY too early to have the sole responsibility of managing her own school lunch. Second, actively hoping the nobody shares their food with your child so they are starving as much as possible in order to learn the lesson as harshly as possible, is a straight up abusive mentality. No wonder she is giving the gift of “love” to this same daughter for Christmas, she is clearly withholding it the rest of the year.

@EmmazingGal

2 жыл бұрын

@@jlgunn922 I agree it is awful for a parents to wish ill upon their child and allow that to happen

@hoorayitsjackie6166

2 жыл бұрын

Why would you buy a $90 lunch box at all let alone for a kindergartner?

It's really sad to know that their children don't get the healthy emotional stimulation from their parents. Imagine feeling like ants under a microscope since birth, these people are SICK!

I’m dealing with cps right now. I got emergency placement of an 11 year old. But for his privacy that’s all I’ll say. After a few months cps was going to send him back but I still had concerns. The house was infested with roaches and bedbugs he was sleeping on a cot in the living room next to the women who had custody. I had to provide clothes shoes everything. Cps didn’t give me shit for money clothes toys food nithing. The response I got was as long as there is a pillow and blanket on the floor it’s ok. I filed for custody and received temporary custody we will go back at the end of august for permanent custody. I thought they had to have a bedroom but they don’t. CRAZY

I had the flu and pneumonia at the same time. I was absolutely miserable and I don’t even recall the first week of being sick. The last thing on my mom’s mind was recording me.

Chad came back from that program completely different. He seemed totally broken. My heart breaks for these children.

The way chad behaves on all the vlogs tells me he is in a last resort trying to ruin them for her. "I cheated on a test, i don't have friends, I don't have a bed..." by saying this he knows it not only reflects bad on him, but also on her. She always reacts a bit flustered when he acts imperfect. He hopes if he continues doing this she stops filming him... which she unfortunatly doesnt.

Honestly treating your kids like this leads to so many problems, (drug use, violent behavior, mental health issues, acting out sexually, and so much more) you can tell the kids are exhausted mentally. It’s really sad I can only imagine the behind the scenes. It seems so fake and rehearsed

I was raised in a Mormon household and I am SO glad that my parents are nothing like them with how they raised me and my brother. Watching this I felt sick, I’m glad the oldest was able to move out and I hope that the rest of the kids as they grow up will have a little more control over their life ❤

he lost his bedroom over a prank that literally hurt nobody? yeah so his brother cried; he'll be over it in 1 hour. that's what kids do. my brother did worse pranks on me as children and I would feel terrible if my parents punished him that severely.

I feel Turning 18 and going to college in that family must be paradise for the kids. They actually get to met new people and start their own life for once without their mother around them.

@paulaa5866

11 ай бұрын

you actually read the future

The fact that she gave him the option to leave taking his bedroom away out of the video tells me she knows it's wrong. If "mental health professionals" are providing them with this sick advice, I'd seek new providers.

i love the length of this video! it really helps for people like me that don't know anything about this family.

I don't believe any of Kevin's words. They are so scary as parents.

My mom did Anasazi when she was a teenager before the internet, before you could leave reviews. She almost died. My family is also Mormon, and they seem to think these camps are the answer to their children’s anger, outbursts, “drug” addictions, and so on. These camps cause major trauma and the parents will truly never know how deep it can go

@jbaby6331

Жыл бұрын

Did anyone stop to think why is my child using drugs?, and why is my kid so angry?. Kids aren’t born with these feelings and behaviors. It’s cause and effect, so instead of doing some investigating and talking to your kids you send them to complete strangers, in the woods, and you pay for it. That’s great

@KarlMarxFanClub

Жыл бұрын

My family are Mormons too. That’s why we haven’t spoken in 5 years. Those people are intolerant religious hypocrites. Disgusting people.

@billieseyelashes

Жыл бұрын

gosh i'm sorry she went through that. it is a horrible thing that things like that exist.

As a mom of four boys, two in elementary it’s my responsibility as their mother to make sure I teach them how to pack lunch but I ALWAYS check to make sure that they have their lunch. I don’t care how far away the school is. I will Uber eats them food before I allow my babies to be hungry.

i like the longer video format, it was nice to see you cover a full story like this

My parents raised me this same exact way. I would never do this type of parenting to my own kid. I was responsible for packing and remembering my lunch for school. If I forgot it I wouldn’t eat all day and I would get in trouble when I got home. I was only in like 2nd grade when this was happening. I feel like maybe by middle school this would be okay but no 6/7 year old is going to remember to pack and bring a lunch to school every single day. I also wasn’t allowed to have a phone until I graduated. Nowadays teens rely on phones to have friendships and keep friends during the summer break and everything. It was super hard not being able to see my friends out of school then having to find new friends every new school year. Some parenting is just too strict and once I graduated and went to college I sucked up as much freedom as I could.

@samfinnell6070

2 жыл бұрын

I'm really sorry to hear that it must have been incredibly difficult, you def didn't deserve any of that

@Beelzebubby91

2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with a kid that young needing help packing a lunch sometimes. I was a dumb 5 year old sometimes. We got tiny milk cartons at school with our lunch but I couldn’t finish mine one day. So I decided to put it in my lunch kit to save it for later at home. Needless to say, it spilled all over my backpack. Little kids have little brains and they can’t remember stuff like that all the time 😂

This whole thing seems like a cult. Like the way Ruby switches up so quickly and does those things where the kids have to suffer for the consequences they do? Girl it is not parenting and your kids will leave you alone when they are older. Also I like the longer video essay style videos!! Really nice

@samfinnell6070

2 жыл бұрын

I legit hope those parents never see any of their children again once they're old enough or CPS removes them.

@msSweeTae

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly and it makes me sick that they call themselves Christians while acting like this.

@staceyshere

2 жыл бұрын

I mean they’re Mormon 💁🏾‍♀️

@sophia5601

Жыл бұрын

@@staceyshere thats not an excuse

@staceyshere

Жыл бұрын

@@sophia5601 you’re right. It’s an explanation.

Love the detail that went into this video! I knew they were bad but the comparison and content that you provided was amazing!

This was a very good video btw. I love occasional deep dives into topics. Good work! Thank you for researching and showing us this.

Drives 45 minutes to cry to the principle but not to feed her 6 year old lunch she missed

@ForeverSweetx3

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly

Honestly the fact that it took this long for their channel to go under after all the shit theyve done is so disappointing they shouldve been gone years ago

You hit the nail on the head, girl! Just subscribed ✌🏼💓

Just putting this here since I worked in the mental health department in health insurance: Wilderness programs are NOT covered by health insurance and not recommended since there has been no credible data sources that show that these programs have any positive therapeutic impacts. Parents mostly send their kids to these programs because they don’t know how to handle them and the programs take them for any reasons (such as marijuana use, limited alcohol exposure **not abuse** etc.) it’s lazy parenting and creates HOSTILE relationships in family dynamics. They can’t control their oldest son and they don’t like that. He’ll leave their home and hopefully their lives ASAP

Ruby: "if you're living under MY house that I provided, you will do so under my rules." Also Ruby: *exploits children on the internet to purchase said house*

The way Ruby replies to people on the Facebook group, you need a translator to understand what the heck she’s talking about. Principle this, truth that, division…. Like what in sweet damn is she on???

@ashlieghdeeble9112

2 жыл бұрын

She SPEAKS TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH... lol it's scary though and sounds how cults speak

@natalias374

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashlieghdeeble9112 she's a mormon so no surprise she sounds like she's in a cult

@change_my_mind9891

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashlieghdeeble9112 it is a cult

@Cupidssatan

2 жыл бұрын

@@ashlieghdeeble9112 she makes truth sound complicated when it’s such a simple principle

@Cupidssatan

2 жыл бұрын

@@change_my_mind9891 agreed it 100% is

“chad needs to develop some basic maturity and skills’ isn’t that the parents job to teach? I just dont understand those camps

Something we can really take from this is how resilient Chad is, to go through all that and still be that happy and still himself is pretty cool

@CandyLover556

Жыл бұрын

he is so strong, he is clearly the "rebellious" one who has his own personality and his parents dont like it. i hope he is able to get out of the family and cuts off any communication with his parents asap.

Ruby crying over a song is actually really funny

@suzettecraig1811

2 жыл бұрын

IKR, like lady, chill.

@helenemuscagorry244

Жыл бұрын

funny how she drive 45 min for a song but not to feed her child

Girl I love these new style of videos ❤️❤️❤️

Such a great episode! Love the length

My husband was sent to many "wilderness camps" he says the only thing the counselors are there for is make sure the kids don't die. And they're pretty bad at that too. Many of them are abusive and take pleasure in harassing, tormenting, and pushing kids/teens to their limits. One camp, I think one specific officer, forced them to exercise naked at 3AM, the people and those places are Sick.

@nefarious_seraph13

2 жыл бұрын

Holy shit was that guy a pedophile

@oreomayonnaise69

Жыл бұрын

Thats horrible!! Im so sorry your husband had to go through that.