The Disappearance of Maddi Kingsbury | Full Episode
When a young Minnesota mother goes missing, her sister turns to TikTok for help. "48 Hours" correspondent Peter Van Sant reports. Watch more full episodes of "48 Hours" on Pluto TV.
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@okotbryan2011
Ай бұрын
👍 absolutely
@adriansanders1702
Ай бұрын
Absolutely TRUE 👍 PEACE ✌️ ☮️ 🕊
@MandiMomOf8Channel
Ай бұрын
Love 48 Hours 💯
@RamkishoreSinghRajput-md1nq
Ай бұрын
@@MandiMomOf8Channel😊
@RamkishoreSinghRajput-md1nq
Ай бұрын
😊😅
Adam’s sister is delusional.
@sharonmickey
Ай бұрын
I posted the same thing.... total denial. :(
@lowee333able
Ай бұрын
150% delusional at that
@confidentminaj
Ай бұрын
Right I can’t believe she was seeing someone’s behind my brother back The brother:(abusive) 🫠
@drewbranch7700
Ай бұрын
@@confidentminajexactly!
@erikaxchristine
Ай бұрын
I knew it when she kept making him the “victim”. Disgusting
Never tell an abuser what your intentions are. Leaving quietly will save your life. Rip Maddi.❤
@alglavic8475
Ай бұрын
@@user-zj7tu1gi3q It doesn't matter,she didn't deserve to be murdered.
@n.g.l.
Ай бұрын
Right! For them that’s a loss of control and that makes them more dangerous.
@monicarenee7949
Ай бұрын
@@user-zj7tu1gi3q were they even together? They weren’t married so that’s not adultery anyway. Seems more of a roommate situation and she wanted to see other people. Regardless no reason to take her away from their kids.
@alglavic8475
Ай бұрын
@@MMAMike22 women just need to get in line so the guy in their life doesn't end up killing them. You do realise that men don't own women and vice versa. That guy was never normal.
@plasticjesus444
Ай бұрын
@@MMAMike22what a disgusting thing to say
Missing woman + scratches on the husband's face + blatant threats = you've found the killer.
@ailyyang5982
22 күн бұрын
People make blatant threats all of the time.
@sarahwolfe3692
21 күн бұрын
@@ailyyang5982yeah but when you combine that with a missing spouse and injuries on the spouse that’s still around…
@willo7734
19 күн бұрын
Yeah it definitely doesn’t take Sherlock Holmes to piece together this mind-tickler.
@trumpgirl1018
8 күн бұрын
totally, I mean there is nothing that is coincidental when it comes to these disappearances and murders. So tragic these women weren't able to get away and do so safely...
“We were treated like we were delusional.” I WONDER WHY
@misspacino4081
13 күн бұрын
Exactly!!! 👏 👏 👏
The sister being “shocked to hear Maddie was dating Spencer behind her brothers back” hits a nerve with me - ok, how “shocked” were you when you found out your brother had abused Maddie, and killed the mother of his children??
@aparnarajesh
Ай бұрын
i feel sorry for spencer and megan and but adam's family are still delusional
@tranquility9325
Ай бұрын
@@aparnarajesh they really are severely delusional. I guess him slapping her in the face on a video call and threatening to make her like Gabby Petito is normal to them😮
@Laurah88
Ай бұрын
This!!!
@79Bobola
Ай бұрын
THANK YOU! It reminded me of Chris Watt’s mother when they interviewed her, she spent the whole fricken interview bashing Shannan, and I’m like, so you’re fine with your golden boy strangling her and your grandchildren??? Victim blaming at it’s ugliest tbh.
@estherdmartinez1346
Ай бұрын
@79Bobola she even had strong supporters doing it on the internet too it was disgusting I had to moved on from all that
His sister so proud that he MANNED up, he went and got a JOB, he LET Maddie finish college...then loses his job during Covid and never bothers to get another one, the kids go to daycare, and he contributes a big fat nothing to the household.
@sonquatsch8585
Ай бұрын
yeah they are completely delusional. and they know it. which means they are just tryna protect.
@bln8285
Ай бұрын
+1. she was doing clinical research at mayo clinic and working on advanced degrees? he didn't "let" her finish studying, he was hoping for a meal ticket
@scroogemcduckrich9705
Ай бұрын
imagine kids going to daycare when a parent doesn’t work my wife would drop kick me
@christinap-c
Ай бұрын
But never married Maddie. Such a man.
@rachaelobryan2411
Ай бұрын
Right, like any of that was an excuse to harm her! I doubt she told him to quit school.
His sister is so cringe! "He allowed her to continue her education." Say WHAT?? Girl, you need to keep that trap of yours shut. "He manned up." The hell he did! He used her as a meal ticket and a punching bag. When a violent relationship ends, get as far away from him as possible and DO NOT COMMUNICATE WITH THE MONSTER! You simply MUST make a clean break.
HE KILLED HER!!! The fact that his family is supporting him!!! So sorry Maddi, may you RIP 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Adam’s sister is the WORST!!! “He let her get her degree” LET. Just shows how terrible is family is.
@rethabilenxumalo9742
Ай бұрын
That part! She's a monster just like her brother😒
@mmeettwwoo
Ай бұрын
Adams family.
@RaquelGarcia-gb9pu
Ай бұрын
Systemic
@MsSonali1980
Ай бұрын
The constant "He never would hurt her" made me so angry. Like, woman, he did hurt her, he hit her, he choked her, he threatened her with killing her, your argument is false. She doesn't even acknowledge that he was a violent partner. And get me lost, with the two sides of the story devil's advocatery. If they deep inside know that he killed her, they also think she provoked it. What utter despicable beings that whole family is.
@pettykittyfam
Ай бұрын
"Let" yep I've been in controlling relationships & they come from controlling families. Absolutely disgusting His sister is delusional. I normally give grace but shes insufferable!
Police: "The first 24 hours are the most crucial in an investigation". Police: "You'll need to wait 24 hours before we do anything". More flawless logic from our finest.
@michelleMYHELL5244
Ай бұрын
That is changing in most states thank GOd
@adriennem7927
Ай бұрын
Atleast you don't have to wait for cops to search. They are gonna be in same position, where do we start from.
@TamiraHines-gd5ti
Ай бұрын
Exactly my thoughts each time I watch these stories pertaining to missing persons smh like something has to change!!! Especially for kids 13and under they should not have to be missing for 24hrs,not at all!!
@sprinkdesign7170
Ай бұрын
Not the case in the UK thankfully.
@jimwednt1229
Ай бұрын
Yeah that old system needs to change with the times. The average American nowadays has a phone and can call and check around for where their missing friend or family member is in minutes and determine if the person is really missing. Where as decades ago people were not nearly as connected and checking with friends and family took almost all day and the person would be found safe at a friend's house asleep or something. Thats why there was the 24 hour rule. Police resources were "wasted" by worried parents whose kids were just late getting home. Most of the time!
My ex fiancé violently attacked me one evening, slamming me to the ground on my face and held me down screaming at me at the top of his lungs, keeping my phone away from me, wouldn't let me get up, leave his sight or leave the house etc. He had NEVER before even raised his voice to me, he was wonderful, I loved him deeply, my family loved him, we all trusted him completely and had known him almost 20 years. I could have let it go, after all I had felt partially responsible for pushing him too far that night and it could have been chocked up to a "one time thing" but I knew deep down I HAD TO LEAVE. That broke my heart but I knew the statistics and now I was truly terrified and traumatized. So, I played it cool with him but told my therapist, friends and family, found an apartment, packed up and left the following week during the day while he was at work. We cannot mess around when it comes to things like this. It's hard to leave the one you love and the life you built but when they lay violent hands on you, it has to be GAME OVER, the *first time* , period! This is the ultimate "deal breaker". Stay safe. Not just the ladies either, men are vulnerable to DV too and it can and does escalate quickly. Life is too precious and too short. 🙏🏼🩵🙏🏼
@GM-ue8xc
Ай бұрын
So glad you are safe! You’re brave for leaving! Did he ever try to find you?
@jessiec4128
Ай бұрын
So sorry you had to experience such horrible treatment. I hope you are doing much better today.
@mistersniffer6838
Ай бұрын
Well, if he never even raised his voice and you pushed him, you destroyed a perfectly good relationship!!
@Thecaptain666
Ай бұрын
@@mistersniffer6838 What a ridiculous thing to say. You obviously have very different standards of behaviour to the vast majority of right-thinking people. You need to have a good, long look in the mirror…
@mistersniffer6838
Ай бұрын
@@Thecaptain666 - Okay, sherlock, if he never even so much as raised his voice, why now? Thats something OUT of character. Other people/things make you go out of character, you just dont "go" out of character. I bet she was cheeeting and didnt want to tell us the whole story!!
Telling a guy who chokes and beats you that you’re leaving him for another guy is probably not the best move.
@Bese2
Ай бұрын
I mean why? Why would you💔
@OsceolaNola7
Ай бұрын
She cheated
@herowrex9937
Ай бұрын
@@OsceolaNola7no she didn’t they made it seem like but she didn’t Ik Spenser personally
@Alphacentauri819
Ай бұрын
@@OsceolaNola7that’s like stating one variable of a very involved dimensional analysis equation…one variable doesn’t say much. Learn to be able to consider life has way more complexity than a dualistic and limited mindset.
@rhondadavis1483
Ай бұрын
@@herowrex9937Spencer literally admits it in the video.
The first time your partner lays his or her hand you, let that be a warning and leave.
@veganbutcherhackepeter
Ай бұрын
The abuse usually starts before this and that's when you grab your stuff and the kids and leave.
@sonquatsch8585
Ай бұрын
esp. like that. unbelievable. i don't care what the reason. hands on you ,time to go.
@teemo2mill
Ай бұрын
It's not that simple which is why so many women are murdered. They say the most dangerous time is when you tell your partner ur leaving so never tell them. But like I said it really is not that simple.
@mya200014
Ай бұрын
The sad thing is there is a woman right now watching this story who is choosing to ignore the signs and will land up in some precarious situations as well.
@chaddobson7056
Ай бұрын
Exactly!
It would be nice to see one episode where the killers family just accepts the fact that their family member is a psychopath.
@NefariousEvildoer
Ай бұрын
Unfortunately, it's easier to live in that river in Egypt than to face the fact your relative is a murderer.
@moonstar7775
Ай бұрын
It follows the same thought that everyone goes to heaven when they die. So far, I have never read an obituary stating that someone went straight to haides!
@michaelmastro9382
Ай бұрын
@@NefariousEvildoerwhat can of evil are you doing......are you in a 48 hours video?
@m.alexander5355
Ай бұрын
Remember they don't know that person. Suspicious sometimes but people are definitely different per relationship. Accepting that was another part of them good or bad is key. No one Is all they seem in my life exerperince
@barbieblue3336
Ай бұрын
Yes
Her best friend breaking down on her porch made me break down 😭 such a heartbreaking story of a beautiful young woman
@charinecarty1147
10 күн бұрын
I jus cried out so hard with her!
@emilycombest7814
10 күн бұрын
Me too. That cry caught me off guard. Such genuine love for her best friend.
@susanbob8285
Күн бұрын
It was heart shattering. My eyes instantly filled with tears when I heard that
--Adam chokes Maddie, slaps her, and threatens her life --Adam's sister: "My brother would never do anything to harm Maddi." You can't make this level of delusion up.
@SteveDrenser
29 күн бұрын
hes innocent homie was set up by spenser
@TheSpiritRoom23
26 күн бұрын
@@SteveDrenseru must be just as delusional…
To everyone, please never tell your spouse that you are leaving him. Do it quietly and make sure you find a place to stay where you know he can't find you.
@thelords3394
Ай бұрын
Particularly if he’s violent.
@lanabuehrer5616
Ай бұрын
That’s bull crap! Majority are not violent .
@MMMmyshawarma
Ай бұрын
@@lanabuehrer5616 Think you need to run, now.
@Ana_17319
Ай бұрын
But they can become violent in a split second. @@lanabuehrer5616
@stee8345
Ай бұрын
Crazy thing is--they weren't even married. He must have had some sort of supernatural hold on her...
Ladies you don’t tell people you’re leaving because it’s the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship, you just leave
@moonie9000
Ай бұрын
If you're in an abusive relationship then leave. Don't cheat and then leave. Just leave. Cheating on an abuser is absolutely dumb - just get the f out of there.
@sunshine1221
Ай бұрын
@@moonie9000in this case, I think it was the new relationship that gave her the strength and courage to leave the unhealthy relationship.
@moonie9000
Ай бұрын
@@sunshine1221 she couldn't have been that scared of him if she was gonna cheat. Just leave.
@kayblinky
Ай бұрын
@@moonie9000you don’t know that though. You don’t know how a lot of these situations work.
@talex1625
Ай бұрын
@sunshine1221 in this case, it was the new relationship that likely got her killed.
Its a good thing that the two childrens went to the care of Maddie's parents and not to the narcissists family.
I think it is wonderful when one sees communities coming out to help the Police and family when searching for missing members.
@trixi1608
Ай бұрын
It's hardly ever effective though.
@melodyjanes9141
7 күн бұрын
Yeah but it's more terrible her own husband killed her. No good can make up for one evil
"He would never harm Maddie" Lady, he literally hit her in the face while she facetimed. He wasn't even trying to hide it
@RB01.10
Ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly. Does she have amnesia or something that she would forget about his violent history?
@adriennem7927
Ай бұрын
It's not about his sister! They all knew at poor maddys family, EVERYONE. They continued to let her stay with him.. I would have made her. You gonna go around, " if I'm gone, Adam did it" you should take the help handed. And as a mom , I would have made her come home, for the sake of her babies and me..
@FidgetyGuy
Ай бұрын
Adam is evil. Maddie was evil. The sisters and friends are evil. The parents are evil. Are there any good people in this story?
@sunshine1221
Ай бұрын
👏👏👏I totally agree. Parents should take their daughters away from such abusers and not allow them to return. Sometimes you have to move to another city so that the person doesn’t find you.@@adriennem7927
@lillyyoung9644
Ай бұрын
Exactly my thoughts!
There isn’t a woman on this planet who would think GP’s case is a joke… It’s a threat.
@okotbryan2011
Ай бұрын
The GP case is nothing to joke about, Adam meant to recreate one of his own and did lie it was a joke
@sonquatsch8585
Ай бұрын
there isn't a sane human that would think the gp case was a joke.
@traviscoates6878
Ай бұрын
I've heard many funny jokes in regards to the GP case ...Enter Shane Gillis
@elefent4642
Ай бұрын
what is gp?
@christinap-c
Ай бұрын
@@traviscoates6878But he’s not funny.
The mistake was her telling him about the other man. Should have kept that to herself and gotten out.
These lawyers who defended a murderer will have bad luck for the rest of their days
His siblings are disgusting. How can you defend someone who literally threatened to make someone end up like GP? 😡
@sonquatsch8585
Ай бұрын
thank u.
@nbaoldgirl
Ай бұрын
And also try to shift blame back on to Spencer. They are bad news like their brother.
@BlackGirlLovesAnime6
Ай бұрын
They’re pick mes that’s what they do. This is the final boss form of a pick me that’s why they should get all the shame they can get
@OutWestRedDirt
Ай бұрын
Very creepy family.
@moonstar7775
Ай бұрын
Delusion to it's max degree!
"You'll adjust"....What a pos!
@Nikki_with_the_blikki
Ай бұрын
RIGHT!? 37:36 _"We were treated like we were delusional. He would never harm Maddi"_ That's because y'all are delusional! That text - "you'll adjust" alone confirms that yes, he would harm her🤦🏾♀️ c'mon!
@einienj3281
Ай бұрын
@@Nikki_with_the_blikki Exactly. "You'll adjust -to being abused in front of the children"...that is some sick sh*t ..
@Marlaina
Ай бұрын
But it was all a joke.....seems to be the go to excuse
@sonquatsch8585
Ай бұрын
total violent narc. couldn't pull his weight and took it out on her.
@paramilitarypandemic7098
Ай бұрын
She did adjust
I wish my cousin got this kind of coverage. Jojo Boswell was leaving owatonna Mn on foot making her way back to Minneapolis and the only sighting of her was in a Home Depot surveillance footage a man comes up to her talks for a bit then they walk off she never made it home. It’s been nearly 18-19yrs
@Fallenlyrics218
Ай бұрын
I believe Because she is indigenous she barely got a dismal 1 min clip on local news. You don’t everrrrrrr see huge media coverage of any missing Indigenous/Native Americans, she did get another small clip or mention on the issue of missing and murdered indigenous women. She was only 19 just shy of 20. I pray for all misssing people and children to come home safe or remains be found for closure for us families who sit day after day year after decade after decade of wondering who what why.
@dabsallday9938
Ай бұрын
I wish too! I do remember hearing about this ONCE 😢 Try reaching out to Podcasts! Get her story out there again!
@foxywhitetip7387
Ай бұрын
That’s what happens when you’re indigenous.
His sister is absolutely delusional. Adam is totally guilty
Adam's siblings are horrible. ESPECIALLY the sister. As a WOMAN, to sit and defend someone who "jokes" about Gabby case that is a suspect to murdering his GF.. absolutely atrocious. She's absolutely lost her mind.
@elorah-sh1oz
Ай бұрын
I as a woman can never defend a cheater
@solidway
Ай бұрын
@@elorah-sh1ozthink a minute. think deep and hard about your values as a human being and then come back and tell us if you really think that this is an appropriate comment in this situation
@elorah-sh1oz
Ай бұрын
@@solidway you can't break someone's trust and your marriage and not expect consequences.
@Dontcomeformepeople
Ай бұрын
@@elorah-sh1ozthey weren’t married.
@RB01.10
Ай бұрын
Add to the fact his “joke” wasn’t even that. Sounded like a direct threat. Saying one is “joking” after getting in trouble for saying something they shouldn’t is simply a cop out and a cover.
If the sister is any indication this guy was coddled and praised for doing the basics in life
@barbieblue3336
Ай бұрын
"So proud of him" 👍🤥👌 😡
@jamesbowman6925
Ай бұрын
As a kid, he was probably rewarded with a trip to Toy-R-Us every time he wiped his own ---.
@herewegokids7
Ай бұрын
Much like Chris Watts
@jacquiesbrood
Ай бұрын
Well said
10 minutes in and I say her husband did it as he said ‘find the amazing mother of my kids’. Saying ‘find the mother of my kids’ on Facebook, not my wife is depersonalising her/distancing her from him, he knows she’s already gone as there’s no emotion attached, if he cared and was genuinely concerned he’d have said please my beautiful wife I am devastated or something like that
Looking that man in the face telling him, "I am cheating on you, leaving you for your frat brother and taking the children" is dangerous.
It makes me so mad that in this day and age police departments are still lying to people saying they can’t file a missing persons report until the person has been missing for 24 hours.
@llamamama2910
Ай бұрын
Take it to the local news, the police commissioner, the mayor, the governor if they won’t file a report!!!
@giancarlocrumps7564
Ай бұрын
Because actually MOST missing people show up Blame the people that wasted the police time
@scroogemcduckrich9705
Ай бұрын
it’s like we pay them to disrespect us. some are so lazy
@gardensofthegods
Ай бұрын
Usually family and friends know their loved one and know when something's wrong if the person has always been consistent about contacting them or being there when they say they're going to be there ... and this is why some people don't want to wait 24 hours because they just know something is wrong and for that person to not contact them or show up is totally unlike them
@andreweston233
Ай бұрын
Makes no sense. More time less likely the person will survive
Telling your girl she’ll end up like Gabby Petito then being shocked when she leaves you is crazy
@teresah4972
Ай бұрын
No kidding! What a sick-o to even ‘joke’ about that! It’s horrible any way you look at it. A joke, a threat. Either is awful!
@herewegokids7
Ай бұрын
*so shocking* that she didnt have the wherewithal to leave his abusive a** without the support of a 3rd party (another man)
@RB01.10
Ай бұрын
@@teresah4972That’s not even a “joke” (where was the punchline) and more like a direct threat. I’ve seen many times someone get arrested for saying something they shouldn’t (such as a threat) and then they try and cover themselves and downplay it by saying “it was a joke”.
@ashleyspells-hayes5539
Ай бұрын
@herewegokids7 um... she was the bread winner. She made plenty of money, she didn't need the other guy.
@herewegokids7
Ай бұрын
@@ashleyspells-hayes5539 i wasnt talking about money
I cried watching this video. I hope and pray that she’ll be in peace and that justice will prevail. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Keep the secret of dating somebody else while living with another man who is the father of your children is very dangerous.
“You’ll adjust” makes my blood boil… smh
@emic621
Ай бұрын
Same!
@mtnewt1
Ай бұрын
Yea, they're gonna have to hunt real hard for a good change of venue cuz I know everyone is ready to drag and convict this monster! Sounds to me like her body was so messed up all they could put was homicidal violence smh
@TheBlackMadonna222
Ай бұрын
Her response was everything tho
@fromthegetgo4981
Ай бұрын
Genuinely so evil
@OsceolaNola7
Ай бұрын
You’ll adjust
I have a 31 year old stepdaughter. When I discovered that her former boyfriend was being verbally abusive and threatened her, I confronted him and said that I wasn't afraid of jail. To watch his back. She finished the relationship and he left her alone. Please, families. Get involved and show these cowards the same medicine. They always retreat. If Maddie was my daughter, he was the one being missed.
@celestialstar8115
Ай бұрын
Yes families need to help. But if the victim isn’t willing to help themselves the family cannot do anything. Victims would rather have their ego satisfied than care for their safety.
@sunshine1221
Ай бұрын
You are so great!
@perfectlyimperfect7373
Ай бұрын
Good for you! I was 37 when I stayed at my parents’ while obtaining a RO and getting the sheriff’s to escort my abusive ex out of the house. I’m forever grateful to my family for their efforts in keeping me safe during that scary time in my life.
@jimvacuum
Ай бұрын
And If your step daughter lied Because we know people don't ever lie (sarcasm),If i were on your jury I'd vote to convict you
@christychristy5951
Ай бұрын
Good for you! I was 27 when I left my husband of 3 years. We had a 3 year old. Was pressured to marry him because of the pregnancy. He was emotionally abusive but he started becoming physically abusive 2 years into marriage. I plotted my escape, woke up after a nasty fight where I was forced to lock myself in our guest bedroom because he physically stopped me from leaving the home to go to my parents and yanked our toddler from my arms injuring her. I made up my mind that night I would leave him the next morning after he left for work. I didn't tell him or my parents (for fear they would accidentally tell him) where I moved for months. Drove around the city until I found an apartment that would give me a key that day. Left with nothing but what would fit into my car. Filed for divorce and waited the mandatory 6 months required by court. Celebrated my freedom and safety once I realized he "moved" on. It only took him a few months to find a new girlfriend. I do think I saved my life. He continues to be abusive. He is divorced again. Unlike some abusive men he openly proclaims to be a Narcissistic megalomaniac. He wrote an entire online blog about his self destructive personality. However he denies ever abusing me.
Telling your financially dependent abusive boyfriend you have another boyfriend is wild. 🤦🏽♀️
@littlegirllost2654
19 күн бұрын
She was trying to hurt him like he hurt her, I get it, but not the right thing to do. I was in an abusive relationship and he almost killed me. I had him arrested
@beepbopboop7727
9 күн бұрын
Honestly such a stupid reckless thing to do.
just knowing that my mother had to tell family and friends the same message, “if anything happens to me (her bf at the time) did it. i would never leave my kids” breaks my heart. she luckily made it out alive but it absolutely destroyed her life. her identity was stolen, she got beat regularly, he would also lay hands on me and my siblings and he put me and my sibling in extremely dangerous situations. still now years later we feel like we have to watch our backs for him because law enforcement did absolutely nothing to help ever.
Narcissist don’t want you but at the same time don’t want to see you happy with someone else. The denial of his siblings is ridiculous 😢 RIP beautiful…
@JAnKl17
Ай бұрын
Absolutely 😢
@tnannylynn8221
Ай бұрын
💯 the truth
@waninigichuki1732
Ай бұрын
So true. For them to say when they heard of the break-up, that they felt like they'd lost a sister is such an 'about me' thing to say - people retain relationships and you'd both still have been an aunt & uncle to the kids.
@stfuplsok
Ай бұрын
Narcissists* don't
@fenris6051
Ай бұрын
Not much beauty in being unfaithful... but of course modern women now applaud that kind of behavior
"..she was alive when i left her.." - every man that kills a woman they know and were the last one alone with.
Im from across the river and helped in the search for her. There were SO many people that came together to help. Busses upon busses. Its a very sad situation, but the love shown for her from the community was beautiful. I hope her family felt the love and support from everyone.
people, when you call the police, tell them the person has been missing for 24 hours so you don't have to wait
FYI: Dear Adam’s family; Cadaver dogs are specifically trained to sniff out human decomposition not animal or etc.
@melb1215
Ай бұрын
Right! 😂
@religiohominilupus5259
Ай бұрын
True; however, they don't always get it right.
@guerralg63
Ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯 😅
@StofStuiver
Ай бұрын
Thats not true. Cadaver dogs also alert on dead animals, even if solely trained on human remains.
@cali.girllivinnnevada8
Ай бұрын
@@StofStuiver no they don’t.
When your family tells you to get out, you get out.
@RB01.10
Ай бұрын
And don’t tell the abuser you’re leaving. It will just set them off.
@saminabibi2015
Ай бұрын
How absolutely heartbreaking
So sad...what a tragic loss for her children, sister, parents and friends.
Another stark warning about a man, a husband, being dependent upon his wife. He was "forced "to quit school, while Maddi continued her education getting her Bachelors. However, Adam should have gone back to school, and treated Maddi with respect and kindness. My heart ❤️ goes out to Maddi's family.
The husband family is in utterly denial.
@everlynevins
Ай бұрын
They're just as obnoxious as Cindy Watts. It's not even denial. They know he did it; they're too arrogant to admit blame.
@KATYMCGINN
Ай бұрын
JUST TO CLARIFY. MADDI DID NOT MARRY ADAM. BUT YES, HIS FAMILY IS VERY DELUSIONAL! 😒
@gardensofthegods
Ай бұрын
You can also tell his family was raised weird
@deevillarreal9475
Ай бұрын
There sick !!!!
@margochanning6868
Ай бұрын
They know the truth. They are liars at best.
A few minutes in, the fact that the guy picked up the kids and went to his parents an hour away...not home...is already suspicious. Why would anyone do that, if they didn't already know Maddie would not be coming home?
@brittneyjake2010
Ай бұрын
I said the same thing....
@softlifejasmine
Ай бұрын
Right!!
@livingitup9647
Ай бұрын
Exactly! I was surprised they didn't mention that suspicious behavior in this video.
@AvXstudio
Ай бұрын
That was i thought
@user-jm6ol7qc7n
Ай бұрын
I was just about to say the same thing 😢
Imagine being someone's "friend" and witnessing that friend get abused live on video chat and you dont contact the authorities ... Imagine waiting til shes dead to mention it or any of the death threats or the fact she literally said "if anything happens, he did it" to anyone.
I’ve since learned to never, under any circumstances tell that man you’ve been sleeping with you’re leaving, let alone you’re seeing another lover. I’m sorry 😢 Maddie didn’t listen to her gut.
Adam stood up and found a job at the age of 20+ ! Wow , such an accomplishment 🎉
@dsmusicbird
Ай бұрын
Lol
@johndeer9968
Ай бұрын
He also lost his job during covid and the pandemic happened like two years before this took place
@kimpayton727
Ай бұрын
@@johndeer9968right, and i forget but had he found a job since covid or just depending on Maddie to take care of the bills seeing as he ALLOWED her to finish college. Such a scumbag!! I hope and pray her gets the maximum sentence!! RIP Maddie❤
@nikiahandy4403
Ай бұрын
Right lol
@RevLeigh55
Ай бұрын
@@kimpayton727To be fair, that quote didn’t seem to mean Maddi needed permission to go to school. The intention was to say she was able to go back to school with his help with the kids.
Adam, I have a feeling “you’ll adjust” to life in prison. RIP Maddi. 🙏
@jenna-a-gogo
Ай бұрын
Best comment here! 💯
@einienj3281
Ай бұрын
I hope he doesn't and struggles with it every day..
@alleynejoelle
Ай бұрын
🏆Best comment
@Wisdom24-7
Ай бұрын
Adam I know what you are going through that's why I started dating overseas didn't want to end up where you are I'm praying for you
@einienj3281
Ай бұрын
@@Wisdom24-7 So you went over seas, bc you couldn't get one woman in your country to like you? I can see why..
"You'll adjust." Oh HELL no.
So very sad for the children 😔
The family of the killer “ WE WERE TREATED LIKE WE WERE DELUSIONAL “ ….: because yall are
@L.D.Intheditch
Ай бұрын
They are worse than delusional. They are complicit enablers.
@irism4101
Ай бұрын
A dead raccoon 😆😆🤡 nice try
@nirmaleva
12 күн бұрын
@@irism4101 I know right? Cadaver dogs are highly trained and know the difference between human and animal smells
Siblings are oblivious that their brother is a murderer
@llamamama2910
Ай бұрын
Chosen ignorance
@Fakegrape7777
Ай бұрын
No, they know, they’re just trying to protect him. They sleep well at night telling themselves lies about their brother.
@brooklyn8760
Ай бұрын
Nah, they’re well aware.
@armsproposedlegislation
Ай бұрын
No their not in denial, they knew he was dangerous
It’s not gutsy it’s foolish to admit you are leaving to a violent person.
Thank you for making this! Justice for Maddi. Been here since the beginning, wish it could have been a different outcome
His sister and brother are delusional and the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.
Adam’s sister: “He would never do such a thing” Yet Adam texts Maddie: “you’ll adjust” (to being hit in front of our children). Wonder what she thinks about that text?
@DollishDes
Ай бұрын
Right?! I really wanted to see what she had to say after that too! omfg the delusion 🤡
@chantelletrembath3345
Ай бұрын
Me too 👍
@pearls7272
Ай бұрын
That text was truly unhinged
@philippamediwake1235
Ай бұрын
Not hit. Adam had her pinned down with his hands around her throat!
@eh-i1841
Ай бұрын
She’ll have her own delusional spin,on it.
"When someone shows you their true colors, believe them" --Adam did it. Duh.....
Why would she stay in that house with the abuser after breaking up with him? ! I’m so tired of seeing woman losing their life so easily!
Don’t tolerate abuse in your life or the lives of others
At the point of leaving an abusive relationship, remember, it is the most dangerous time for the abused person. RIP Maddie
Police need to start investigating immediately. They don’t need to wait. If people turn up while you’re looking that’s ok.
Joking about Gabby Petito? Naah from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. That was a huge red flag💔
@margaretwhittaker2291
Ай бұрын
yes, I OFTEN THINK OF THAT SCRIPTURE
@EmilyLovesYeshua
Ай бұрын
Me too
Never ever tell your abusive narcissistic spouse that you're leaving them or that you're seeing someone else, just make your plans silently while planning your exit and don't even share your address or contact.
Why did they give these two siblings a platform, it’s truly offensive and disgusting😡😡
this is maddening bc she did nothing to protect herself and now two children are without their mom
@fandommisfit
23 күн бұрын
Nice victim blaming
I WISH young ladies would stop telling these abusive men their plans to leave them. MOVE IN SILENCE!!!!
@ultimatums1
Ай бұрын
Jodi Arias says hi.
@Victoria-kl7su
Ай бұрын
I think in some cases they say it when they don’t actually want to leave them , they want them to change, they haven’t yet accepted they will never change and that they are in real danger, once they get to the point to really really wanting to leave or realising things have got dangerous, then hopefully they just leave and hopefully it is not too late. Most people ignore many signs and red flags until they hit breaking point. In this case, it’s got to an affair and telling him of it -she should have been long gone before the affair - narcissists don’t want you but they won’t knowingly ‘allow’ you to leave them for someone else
@Daaaanielle
Ай бұрын
They need to stop protecting these men. I mean every single time, it’s he was abusing her but she didn’t want to hurt him. Or get him arrested. Like how dumb can you be?
@ultimatums1
Ай бұрын
@@Daaaanielle Jodi Arias sends her regards to you.
@hardwired8084
Ай бұрын
AND don't add a boyfriend cuz. it acts like gas on already outta control flame!!!
Sister says that her brother would never harm Maddie? Do you have any idea how traumatic being choked by the father of your children is like!??? That is past Harm!
@RB01.10
Ай бұрын
Exactly! It’s like they conveniently forget his violent history.
@user-kf4zh5qm8z
Ай бұрын
Speaking of the Racoon his dad was supposed to have cleaned up, where is it,? Was it buried. They can easily prove it, if it's the truth.
@beverlybalius9303
Ай бұрын
Still no reason for cheating on him…
@dsmusicbird
Ай бұрын
@@beverlybalius9303 Obviously you’ve never been in her type of situation. I understand how you feel about that. There’s much more that you don’t understand.
@ABC-ed8cg
Ай бұрын
@beverlybalius9303.. so she’s expected to stay in a faithful relationship with an abuser??
Ballsy to not only cheat on an abuser, but then to tell them about it. That’s an exercise in poor judgment even on a great day.. I do not understand people’s lack of caution in what people are capable of..
Bless them. The video doorbell footage really gets you in the heart. Deepest condolences to all concerned.
To Everyone (men & women): Please do not ever take any threats lightly. It’s not a joke. Get out! Your life depends on it. Any discomfort & heartbreak felt from leaving is nothing compared to losing your life & possibly the lives of the children you may have.
@TH-hy9kr
Ай бұрын
Agreed and thank you for acknowledging that violence against intimate partners is not isolated to women, nor isolated to straight relationships.
@charlotted6247
Ай бұрын
And it's never a joke. That's not a joking matter😢😢😢
@Pippi-Longstocking
Ай бұрын
Agreed. And remember that leaving is THE most dangerous time.
@StofStuiver
Ай бұрын
Oh get real. There are a billion threats made every day.
@mypud4068
Ай бұрын
@@charlotted6247lol it's NEVER a joke, ew
Adam’s siblings DEFENDING A COLD BLOODED, LAZY, VILE MAN makes them genuinely atrocious!!!
@L.D.Intheditch
Ай бұрын
Hope they never get partners,or have children to abuse. They are just like him.
@JoanTarpley-hx9sh
Ай бұрын
I don't know what they thought the end result would be with their blathering and cringe statements, but they certainly did not earn any points for themselves OR their vile brother!
Oh. Maddie's friend crying on the ring camera broke me 😢
The sisters TikTok are so annoying! Like it’s some sort of show/Game.
BEWARE: There is no law that says police have to wait 24hrs before looking for a missing person. NO LAW! Although, it might be that stations protocol, that doesn't matter. If you are ever in this type of a situation, which I hope never happens, you tell the police you want to speak with the head of missing persons and point out that there is no law prohibiting police to wait any amount of time. You fight for your loved one. No matter who you have to fight. The first few hours are crucial. Be an advocate. Please.
The fact that the killer's siblings are trying to deflect blame to Spencer, says more about the crazy family that Frabels grew up in. What nuts we share the earth with.
@dianabehr3169
Ай бұрын
Exactly! His siblings are not right in the head either
@SteveDrenser
29 күн бұрын
might been spenser homie we dont know
All these people stood by and kept these secrets, damn shame
Im glad they got him, my sister was murdered by her husband in 2000 but the judge let him go not because there wasn't enough evidence as there was plenty, it's because of the police ties of his family. Joyce Douglas - Coulier was missing for a month before she was found on the Coulier property
It makes my blood boil when family defends murderers, when they know they're guilty.
@cat_lover007
Ай бұрын
Almost all the time... including Chris Watts' delusional fam. It makes me sick!!
@MMAMike22
Ай бұрын
What about women that are lying cheaters? Do they make your blood boil too?
@thegoatudontknow
Ай бұрын
theres no proof he did it at all
@jackieacheson4928
Ай бұрын
@@thegoatudontknow except for the proof.
The mayor was almost getting emotional when he basically said he was proud of Maddy and also saw her as a child. What a good mayor.
@Faunaviolet
Ай бұрын
We love him here in Winona!
Such a heartbreaking case 💔 my heart goes out to her family!!
nearly broke out in tears when they showed her best friend finding out shes gone. i can only imagine the pain she felt and continues to deal with, i hope they find peace
When you find yourself having the "if anything happens to me, so and so did it" conversation, that means you need to get out of that relationship immediately ; carefully and quietly ofcourse ....that's your inner most survival instinct that knows better than even you at that moment, that you are in danger...
48 hours is one of the most informative investigative shows on KZread. And hopefully they get awards and recognition for it.
@Jedstop
Ай бұрын
You know it’s a TV program right? It’s just been uploaded to you tube.
@redrumhum
Ай бұрын
😂@@Jedstop
@TawnyC_
Ай бұрын
🏆 Here you go 48 hours, here's your KZread award.
@gardensofthegods
Ай бұрын
Yes they are well presented but the times I investigated and did more research and looked at other shows and documentaries then I realized sometimes they would leave out some information that I felt was really important and I would wonder why they didn't mention that in the show
@jwil2414
Ай бұрын
@@gardensofthegodsThey do that to slant the viewer in the direction they want.
Hey thanks for getting us out there there is not much press in Minnesota uploaded at all which was really discouraging so we appreciate you getting her name out there... as one of the many women who have been in her position knowing it could have been me breaks my heart and I want to encourage your family because at least you believed her. Most of my family and friends were behind him in many ways. So give yourself some credit and relieve yourself of some guilt. I think I understand what she was thinking and while she had a sense there could have been danger there was such a familiarity with him that it doesn't really sink in not totally also having children with the perpetrator and release it extremely difficult and they have a power over you that is really hard to describe even if you have grown to hate your abuser there is many times some kind of feeling of obligation to them. And because she had cheated on him I imagine she had some guilt and unfortunately that guilt worked against her. She found safety in the arms of another man as did I not long after I had left my ex. It's crazy making living with somebody like that so I just pray for the family members and for the man who stepped in and stole her heart obviously it wasn't an ideal situation but it likely was the thing that was going to save her and at least you gave her some good memories and the much needed love she deserved
I'm so sorry for Spencer. I hope he'll be able to find love again in his life.
If Adam finds some of the non-consensual aspects of prison life to be a bit taxing, I can only say, "You'll adjust."
@AskAlex1999
Ай бұрын
Nice!
@awesomebeautiful8782
Ай бұрын
That's really gross and you should never joke about it. I don't care what crime somebody committed, sexual violence is not an acceptable part of the punishment.
@w.thiller7822
Ай бұрын
?
@foxywhitetip7387
Ай бұрын
@awesomebeautiful that’s why am eye for an eye is better
NEVER EVER tell someone you're leaving, kids or no kids. Just have a plan and go!
@thomasgentry6201
Ай бұрын
May want to leave out the Affair?
“He had the job up until he got laid off during COVID” Covid started in 2020 that means he was unemployed for at least 2 years 😂. What a miserable loser
I just cried listening to this. RIP Maddie,such a very sad outcome, and your 2 beautiful children. A beautiful, kind,honest person 😢
Mothers, for the sake of your children, yourselves, and the family that loves you, don't ignore abuse. How many stories do people need to hear 😢
@FidgetyGuy
Ай бұрын
In my research, I have seen 1000 of these stories. The victims and family members will continue to ignore the signs (e.g. short index finger ratio, hairy body, poor vision, poor impulse control, etc.) of unstable people. These characteristics apply to both evil men and women.
@ultimatums1
Ай бұрын
Jodi Arias says hi.
@FidgetyGuy
Ай бұрын
@@ultimatums1 Jodi Arias was indeed an alpha female. That is why she did what she did. No impulse control.
@ultimatums1
Ай бұрын
@@FidgetyGuy "Alpha female" 😂 that's called a psychopath, not "alpha".
This dude's siblings seem to be totally in denial. Their childhood home must have been so full of normalized violence for them to defend their brother even after he told the mother of his children that she'd end up like Gabby Petito if she wasn't careful. Poor Madi. This is why it's important to have protected sex, too. If she hadn't gotten pregnant, she may not have felt obligated to stay with the man who abused and ultimately murdered her, for the sake of her child. She could've left Adam for Spencer and been in a much healthier, happier relationship. Now those kids are motherless and practically fatherless too, if he ends up serving time for his violence as he should. What a completely avoidable tragedy caused by an emotionally immature man-child. May she rest in peace and may her family find strength and closure.
@gardensofthegods
Ай бұрын
They look like they were raised weird ... his sister said he let her go to college😂 . Crazy stuff like that
@bleeknee28
Ай бұрын
I know a few families like that, it's like a family full of narcissists, it's scary
@Alyssa-rf1fi
Ай бұрын
@@gardensofthegods you're right, I caught that, too! And the first thing she said was "he manned up" because he didn't leave her when she got pregnant.... 🙄🤮
@gardensofthegods
Ай бұрын
@@Alyssa-rf1fi yes I responded to and now I see that my comment disappeared . Yes I agree with you they said a lot of weird stuff and you can tell they grew up in a family where they don't see women as equals and I don't think they really liked his girlfriend very much .
@priscillayoga4040
Ай бұрын
Sometimes accidental pregnancy happens. My sister had an IUD when she got pregnant! And she was also told by doctors that she would never be able to get pregnant, but she used birth control just in case anyway. So when she did get pregnant, she did end up keeping the baby as it was truly a miracle!
Winona County PD need to drop that 24 hour delay. It has been proven to be more a hindrance with missing persons cases and can be the difference between life and death.
As someone who has been through domestic violence, there's a red flag others don't see. Maddie graduating college and going for her masters. A sociopathic narcissist despises their partner getting better, or growing in any way. Also, her boyfriend lost his job during covid while she's still getting better. This is unknowningly a dangerous time as she continues to better herself.