The Dark Side of Your Emotional Needs: Safety

Feeling safe and secure is one of our primal emotional needs. At its deepest level, the drive for safety and security is really the drive for survival itself.
In this second video in my series on the dark side of your emotional needs I'll talk about where the need for safety comes from and the effects of an excessive drive for safety, which can range from flashbacks and panic attacks to depression.
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Пікірлер: 31

  • @mildredhighcock7333
    @mildredhighcock7333 Жыл бұрын

    this hits hard with me - I am not embracing life - I am merely surviving

  • @alataha1115
    @alataha11153 жыл бұрын

    Most competent balanced therapist I have found, very insightful, honest and non judgemental

  • @halah.2073
    @halah.2073 Жыл бұрын

    I feel like I get transferred to a world of calm and peace when I listen to you.

  • @gekiryudojo

    @gekiryudojo

    Жыл бұрын

    You are Seeking safety me thinks!

  • @syzygy4365

    @syzygy4365

    6 ай бұрын

    Same. just what I needed today.

  • @ranamerez8392
    @ranamerez83922 жыл бұрын

    i am a practician and your videos help me a lot to understand myself and my clients thank you for these free information.

  • @hassanz96
    @hassanz963 жыл бұрын

    The analogy of the thirsty man drinking fuel, instead of water, was really deep. Thank You very much.

  • @nickpandya5368
    @nickpandya53684 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for putting often complex psychodynamic theoretical concepts in everyday language stay safe and well

  • @duaajust4450
    @duaajust445010 ай бұрын

    This is a treasure of information.

  • @beneditamontenegro1404
    @beneditamontenegro14043 жыл бұрын

    Waiting for the rest of human primal needs x)

  • @ebolds4918
    @ebolds49183 жыл бұрын

    Great insight into the human condition

  • @iw9338
    @iw93383 жыл бұрын

    sounds like my siblings. Thanks very much.

  • @GUIRADE95
    @GUIRADE95 Жыл бұрын

    I remember the times when I was in London, the branch office was located in one of the most exclusive áreas. We all knew what was coming, and as today we weren't wrong.

  • @alanhehe4508
    @alanhehe45084 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this knowledge, especially in these crazy times.

  • @Musalchemy
    @Musalchemy4 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely brilliant video, thank you so much for sharing this information/wisdom !

  • @GUIRADE95
    @GUIRADE95 Жыл бұрын

    I was raised in my teens in the USA, and educated on a very specific area of engineering by my stepfather, an American/German. He was one of the greatest engineers in what it did. I followed he's steps but I change to another area of expertise. Life was hard, very hard trough my years. Can't complain. I did and had what most humans only can dream of. Like I said in my previous comment, I'm waiting for the right time to rise again. I have a lot to give and ways to help. Will see what comes first.

  • @gekiryudojo
    @gekiryudojo Жыл бұрын

    Thank you.

  • @lifeisbeautiful7047
    @lifeisbeautiful7047 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much

  • @saeedsobhani4213
    @saeedsobhani42134 жыл бұрын

    Thanks mark, your psychology Chanel and your advice is the most accurate and professional advice I can ask for.

  • @Amada__
    @Amada__3 жыл бұрын

    What an amazing video!!!!

  • @lwjunior2
    @lwjunior22 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant video. What are the techniques that can be used to increase safety?

  • @snoopy1965
    @snoopy19654 жыл бұрын

    Mark, thank you for helping me. God love and blessings. You also have beautiful blue eyes.

  • @jacquelinepuga8315
    @jacquelinepuga83154 жыл бұрын

    Great stuff!

  • @annajaworska3627
    @annajaworska36272 жыл бұрын

    I am so relieved watching your videos and getting much better understanding of my deep unconscious needs. i am getting more angry for trusting my ex therapist for years, week by week. thank you for sharing your knowledge.

  • @luciesupstairs
    @luciesupstairs3 жыл бұрын

    thank you!

  • @ignatiusequality9239
    @ignatiusequality92392 жыл бұрын

    Your description of cults fits religions also

  • @fionam3735
    @fionam37354 жыл бұрын

    How can we meet our needs safely?

  • @Ayesha_F
    @Ayesha_F Жыл бұрын

    * cough * Organised Religion * cough *

  • @bradleyriddell4745
    @bradleyriddell47454 жыл бұрын

    Fairly obvious stuff Mark

  • @bradleyriddell4745
    @bradleyriddell47454 жыл бұрын

    Is banality the new profundity?