The Dark Night Of The Soul - Everything You Need To Know To Make It Through

In this video, I talk about the dark night of the soul, including what the dark night of the soul is, signs you're going to through it and how to make it through.
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  • @TomDouce
    @TomDouce2 жыл бұрын

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  • @Nicole-fb6fr

    @Nicole-fb6fr

    2 жыл бұрын

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  • @betseygreenspan5433

    @betseygreenspan5433

    2 жыл бұрын

    What did you do to get through? Did you have a practice to open up to love and light, higher power? Do you have any suggestions?

  • @emilyhall4827

    @emilyhall4827

    Жыл бұрын

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  • @pixiepinkcrystalsrosetta7027
    @pixiepinkcrystalsrosetta70272 жыл бұрын

    I remember during my first extreme dark night of the soul, feeling like a locked suitcase packed FULL of all the sad, negative experiences I had accumulated over my entire lifetime, suddenly popping open as all of those waves of emotions flooded in to be seen, felt, and finally released! It was so intense, I felt I was dying, because I couldn't stop crying and feeling so overwhelmed with fear and other emotions! I DID make it through, after some time, and my whole life changed after releasing the huge burden I'd been carrying for so long. Why are we here? Perhaps to help each other through this process and to carry the light so others can see their way? There's no better purpose than to love, serve, and support each other through our journeys. 🥰

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    What a profound experience and release - you are a such a brave and amazing soul 😇 I agree, it definitely feels like lifetimes of energy being expunged from very deep layers of the soul. And as you beautifully said, once you survive such a thing, that sense of service, love and supporting others through similar journeys becomes the meaningful thing in life.

  • @poulerikhansen7178

    @poulerikhansen7178

    7 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @pixiepinkcrystalsrosetta7027

    @pixiepinkcrystalsrosetta7027

    7 ай бұрын

    @@poulerikhansen7178 Thank you for commenting, as my long forgotten message popped up at just the right moment. I'm currently going through another dark night of the soul and seeing my own words of wisdom and hope is helping me see my way through the difficult time I'm currently having. My sweet son, Daniel has unexpectedly passed away and the grief and sadness this has brought into my life seems unbearable at the moment. It feels as if I'll never stop crying. I know he is in a better place, I just miss him so much! He was such a bright light in my life and it's difficult letting him go. I do find myself longing for home, my real home, and life has lost its meaning. Losing my child is the hardest trial I've ever had to face yet being reminded of my previous journey shows me I will be alright. Thank you. 🙏😇❤️‍🩹

  • @uwamahorochristella1843

    @uwamahorochristella1843

    6 ай бұрын

    Such a beautiful perspective. I appreciate you sharing your experience and kindness 🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @user-nk1rr1bb5i

    @user-nk1rr1bb5i

    4 ай бұрын

    This is what I believe too 😊I've always had the thought somewhere deep in size the question why cant we all just love each other and take care of each other? Why do we have to go to heaven why cant we just stay here on this beautiful earth where I now know for sure I belong,I believe I'm at heavens door and the gates are opening for me,even though my eyes tell me I'm sat on my bed.i hope this makes sense to everyone because it does with me,I was born in the spring of the summer of love and my mum and my auntie used to laugh and call me a hippy,I never knew what they meant back then but I do now and I'm grateful to be one 😊❤❤❤

  • @atasteofhoney7031
    @atasteofhoney7031 Жыл бұрын

    The fear, the sadness, all the trauma coming out, the crying and not knowing how to stop, the feeling that you are dying, the isolation and loneliness, all of this is extremely hard so try to let go and pray to god to help you go through it, nothing is impossible for god ❤

  • @empressboateng7098

    @empressboateng7098

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen🙏🏿😭

  • @pauladeleke4872
    @pauladeleke48722 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your message. It is very encouraging. If you are going through the dark night of the soul, then you were born to be an activist/mystic. You were not born to maintain the system you have always known but build one yourself. It is an ejection and liberation. System of mediocre comfort has spat you out. There is no going back to that. Ever again. I know it hurts -I'm in right now. I pray to God that it passes. Sometimes, I am really aware that is one of the best things that ever happened to me. Stay strong everyone!

  • @pauladeleke4872

    @pauladeleke4872

    9 ай бұрын

    Thank you everyone who read/liked my comment. The dark night of the soul is no joke. And I am grateful for a community that can encourage us all as we may go through it. Quick update: still kind of in it. But I am not as lost and directionless as when I first began. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. And I know if I can just hang on, my life will change for the better. Main reason I am writing: isn't it nice to have a problem only God can solve? Stereotypical Christian problems arise when we do not believe we can receive anything we pray for. To literally have the faith and integrity in our relationship with God that people play about with but do not show the necessary childlike faith, love, and reverence for His authority. Stereotypical religious problems can be solved or even pretended to be solved by a mind that needs the validation of a contemporary conformed mutual belief. It can be frightening to be aware of the fact that the problem inside and around you does not give you the ability to control it. However, it gives one the most real definition of faith. And I am sure God's solution will always be better than my own. Stay Strong Everyone!

  • @Royalbloodline1990

    @Royalbloodline1990

    3 күн бұрын

    @@pauladeleke4872thank you my Nigerian brother. Your words are uplifting and I hope you are in better spirits. I’m in another dark night and it’s never easy, but at least I know is that I’ll get through this, as I’ve had to go through this several times to learn this same lesson. 😊

  • @aniamfilipiak
    @aniamfilipiak Жыл бұрын

    I’m still going through mine. I keep going in and out of reality, feel like I’m going crazy. I had many episodes where I wanted to end it all too. In and out of hospitals. I keep resisting and trying to control everything but am practicing mindfulness. My ego won’t let go. People are sending me positive energy. I keep seeing deer everywhere. Just last night I texted someone that I don’t have the strength to endure another night but they told me others who have survived it like Carl Jung. Felt spirit guides show up and send me energy. I started printing out notes and putting them everywhere to remind myself I’m not going crazy and it’s all part of the journey. It is the most brutal thing I have ever experienced. I feel like I’m dying emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically. Some days I can barely move. Ego death is a ruthless journey.

  • @opalchrist2985

    @opalchrist2985

    6 ай бұрын

    How are you doing now? Sadly I can totally relate to what you are describing.

  • @opalchrist2985

    @opalchrist2985

    6 ай бұрын

    24/7 hell. No breaks, no sleep. It's brutal. And I don't even get why I would put myself through this. I always felt I could just choose not to go through this pain if I only gave up on my faith. Then again, why would God put me through this? There are so many ways I can think of that this could have been prevented - things totally out of my control, or even ones in my control -> why wasn't I guided to make the right choices. It's not even always that I intentionally decided to make the wrong choice. You know there is such a thing as self-sabotage, but other choices… I wasn't sure, I was scared but I still chose to have faith. So, why?

  • @opalchrist2985

    @opalchrist2985

    6 ай бұрын

    And the worst thing is, I don't even allow myself to acknowledge how bad it is. Because that would mean that this was never supposed to happen. And then I would lose my faith.

  • @opalchrist2985

    @opalchrist2985

    6 ай бұрын

    2 and a half years of this shit. I'm so mad. Apparently things are going to take a turn in about a month. I fully expect shit to be everything I ever wanted. Because I gave that up. I gave it up for my soul.

  • @opalchrist2985

    @opalchrist2985

    6 ай бұрын

    I know I sound crazy.

  • @penfold0077
    @penfold00772 жыл бұрын

    The release and freedom you feel when coming out.. Physically feel it.. Dark energy lifts. And goes.. Dont give up... ❤️❤️Love you all ❤️❤️

  • @GingeRenee
    @GingeRenee2 жыл бұрын

    I didn’t know about what dark night of the soul was until I was almost done with the ego death and I almost killed myself a few times during it. I believe I had an very dark episode and if I didn’t have my two boys I would of definitely ended it. I am so thankful I was able to survive and get to the end of the ego death phase because the awakening is beautiful and so magical!

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing - you're so brave. We're blessed to have you in the physical plane - your presence is benefiting more people than you could ever know ❤️

  • @donna6686
    @donna66862 жыл бұрын

    I've been in it for close to a year and it got worse when my oldest son died in February. Locked in my house alone most days. Sometimes I feel as if I'm hanging on by a thread...when I have felt a sense of hope, it usually disappears after a few hours. Recently I try to give thanks for everything because I saw a video that says that it can help you move out of it faster.

  • @catherinewylie6959

    @catherinewylie6959

    Жыл бұрын

    I sure hope you are feeling better a year later! I am sorry for your loss. I like the idea of gratitude. I look for little things that feel like little gifts to help me along.

  • @donna6686

    @donna6686

    Жыл бұрын

    @@catherinewylie6959 I am! Thank you! Practicing the gratitude and trusting in Jesus by believing in his promises and following his commands has totally turned my life around!

  • @uwamahorochristella1843

    @uwamahorochristella1843

    6 ай бұрын

    Sending you pure unconditional life 🤍🤍🤍

  • @donna6686

    @donna6686

    6 ай бұрын

    @@uwamahorochristella1843 Thank you. God bless you ❤️

  • @positivesoul7264
    @positivesoul7264Ай бұрын

    Don't help anyone going through let them go through it and experience it by their own

  • @TheIntrovertWanderer
    @TheIntrovertWanderer2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. You just confirmed that I am going through the dark night of the soul. I know almost everything that you said but my ego is blocking it. Like I know but I don't believe. I didn't know what's going on with me mentally and emotionally. Physically, I am losing my voice because of my throat problem probably due to muscle tension caused by stress, anxiety, depression. I am surrendering everything to the Universe. I will show up everyday so that I can meet that higher version of me one day. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    💙💙💙 Help is on the way. Keep going.

  • @snoozyq9576
    @snoozyq9576 Жыл бұрын

    I've had worsening depression and anxiety and realised it's another dark night. Uncontrollable sobbing all the time for unknown reasons. Trusting the process

  • @stevenorellano2039
    @stevenorellano20395 ай бұрын

    Yes, all that stuff. Even the thought, "What am I doing here? Because this isn't working out. Nothing's happening."

  • @monikajoynerpugh3860
    @monikajoynerpugh38602 жыл бұрын

    I am presently going through the dark night of the soul. I know this video was sent for me.💕

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending you my love Monika - you've got this ❤️

  • @ScottScorpioSunTarot
    @ScottScorpioSunTarot2 жыл бұрын

    My Mom had Alzheimer's for a very long time, and as she was digressing, I started going through what I believe is The Dark Night of the Soul. It has only gotten worse since she passed last month. It is the hardest thing I have ever been in my life, and I thought everything I learned through my Spiritual Awakening was gone. I have read about this Dark Night before, but when I saw this title, I was like, Oh yeah that is definitely what is happening. Thank you for doing this video, like you said all I can do right now is show up, and knowing that is ok to be enough right now, gives me hope. This is my first time on your channel, and I'm sure I will be back. I love how calm you speak and the vulnerability of relating to the issue, it makes it real and tangible. Liked, subscribed and rang the bell. Thank you again!

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hey Scott, thanks for sharing this with me and for being here. I'm really sorry to hear about your Mom - you're doing an incredible job to be moving through this. I absolutely believe in you - you've got this 💙

  • @PhoenixGoddess4444
    @PhoenixGoddess44442 ай бұрын

    Nothing has resonated more in the reexplaiing of my dark night of the soul!! You hit all of the marks of what I went through and where I am and where I am headed. I’ve heard several things on it. Was written by my soul, I swear Gratitude for your presentation it resonates with me so much that I will be using it to remind myself frequently Much love to you for creating and for being a high vibration

  • @geridomenick3115
    @geridomenick31152 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Tom, this video came to me just when I really needed it. It gave me some much needed insight and hope and I will definitely be listening to it again. It was a reminder that things do get better, and there is always light at the end of dark times. 🙏😌

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad to hear that Geri - yes always, always light. Sending you my love 🥰

  • @j.e.torres7044
    @j.e.torres70442 жыл бұрын

    "Keep showing up to life..." that definitely resonated 🙏 thanks Tom 😊

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome - much love J.E. 🙏☺️

  • @jessicamarydubois4370
    @jessicamarydubois4370 Жыл бұрын

    I've never felt so confused and so alone. I relate to everything you said. I hope it passes soon. I don't know anything anymore and I feel angry. Why are we plonked here and not know why....just left here with so many different belief systems and finding truth is like the biggest head wrecker ever. I'm truly being ripped apart just now and I don't see any end to it.

  • @michaelmacleod9414
    @michaelmacleod94145 ай бұрын

    Thank you for making this!

  • @LivingMyBestLife517
    @LivingMyBestLife5172 жыл бұрын

    Hi! Glad to see you again.

  • @andrewmckay535
    @andrewmckay5352 жыл бұрын

    This is deeply and divenly beautiful Ty .

  • @user-qp1zi8fn4s
    @user-qp1zi8fn4s3 ай бұрын

    Im going threw this for years this video brought me to tears i find it hard to reach out to any 1 it has been easy but when i pray i find peace defly not an easy journey

  • @user-cm3gu8kq3n
    @user-cm3gu8kq3n Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your content, it came to me in perfectly divine timing 🙏

  • @sandra717
    @sandra7172 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! Your words resonate with me with on such a deep level. Recently experiencing another dark night of the soul, somehow ”knowing” that I need to be brave and embrace whatever feelings that will come up in order to release what needs to be released in order to heal. Such a blessing listening to your words and see that we all probably share these experiences, and that we all are connected and can support one another in this process on our journey of life. Thank you! ❤

  • @Zen36977
    @Zen369777 ай бұрын

    Great video brother. Thank you.

  • @RebHep
    @RebHep8 ай бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your message :)

  • @poulerikhansen7178
    @poulerikhansen7178 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, I resonate so much with this 🙏🥰

  • @naomikehat
    @naomikehat2 жыл бұрын

    Wonderful talk. Thank you!

  • @betseygreenspan5433
    @betseygreenspan54332 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I am going "through" and I love this. Keep sharing❤️

  • @Needy_nic
    @Needy_nic2 жыл бұрын

    This was so beautiful, thank you for sharing your truth in such a peaceful and soothing manor.

  • @poulerikhansen7178
    @poulerikhansen7178 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much, Tom,telling your experience in this down to earth way,it really resonates deeply in me❤🙏

  • @coryrussum9286
    @coryrussum9286 Жыл бұрын

    Very Detailed~Accurate~and Powerful! Thank You 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @swr2777
    @swr27772 жыл бұрын

    As always, Tom, you speak profound Truth. Thank you for this beautifully timed and eloquent message. 💙

  • @seaofplatitudes780
    @seaofplatitudes7809 ай бұрын

    Thank you. It did me much good to hear your talk.

  • @arzumardalieva3874
    @arzumardalieva38744 ай бұрын

    This is what I needed! Thank you 🙏🏻 Blessings 💜

  • @mithasoe
    @mithasoe2 жыл бұрын

    I haven't watched your videos for a long time, but today, I was drawn to this. you describe what I've been through for the past 4-5 months. it's a hell of journey, for sure. I feel like it's coming to an end, because I feel much better for the past few days, but who knows. thank you, Tom 🙏🏼

  • @phaneron

    @phaneron

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same!! 💜

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for revisiting my channel Mitha - you're always welcome here 😊 And so happy to hear you're entering back into the light.

  • @julievanvleck9824
    @julievanvleck98242 ай бұрын

    You explained this wonderfully

  • @joelblakely5268
    @joelblakely52682 жыл бұрын

    Really beautifully expressed. I have been in this for most of the last 5 years. I will get through it though and I believe I am becoming a better, more authentic version of myself.

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's it Joel - proud of you man. Keep going ❤️

  • @awakeningactivations9633
    @awakeningactivations963311 ай бұрын

    This is very helpful! I have a hard time not beating myself up in these phases, thanks for the video!

  • @rainbowgirljules
    @rainbowgirljules Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video, Tom. You've described exactly what I'm going through at present, and I'm very grateful for your insight. We have to feel it to heal it. Bless you. ❤‍🩹 🙏

  • @annelizabeth9872
    @annelizabeth98728 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video to give me a sense of peace during another sleepless night.

  • @shellyvogel6157
    @shellyvogel6157 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤ I’m certain you have helped so many souls. God bless you

  • @sophialagonikos700
    @sophialagonikos700 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you Tom. I’m simply existing at the moment. You’re video has put everything I needed to hear in words - it’s helped stay grounded in the midst of one of the worst days of my dark night of the soul journey. Thank you for the reminders of the why and what’s on the other side ❤

  • @HenryPedia
    @HenryPedia Жыл бұрын

    This is a great video. You explained this in depth. I really appreciate and thank you Tom. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Juju4you
    @Juju4you2 жыл бұрын

    I so needed to hear this message, as I'm going through another dark night of the soul. Your message has been super encouraging to me. I can feel the love, hope to move through this through your words. You have been a God send to me this evening. 🙏 💖😇

  • @lonnyerb8059
    @lonnyerb8059 Жыл бұрын

    Lots of wisdom! Thank you

  • @lehlohonolohlongwane2914
    @lehlohonolohlongwane29149 ай бұрын

    I could listen to your voice the whole day and night 😊

  • @Ty44444
    @Ty44444 Жыл бұрын

    This is one of the very best videos covering the dark night. Huge thanks for supporting everyone getting through it. Very helpful to know we’re not alone I related a lot to this.

  • @douglasglotzbach9715
    @douglasglotzbach97154 ай бұрын

    Thank ypi for your message and work. Be well

  • @luckystar2841
    @luckystar2841 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks, Tom! This is the best description of the Dark Night process I’ve watched. Incredibly helpful. You’ve really captured it. I’m still in it and really needed to hear this. You certainly are a beacon and helped me enormously. Blessings to you and the community!

  • @catherinewylie6959
    @catherinewylie6959 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this. I've been having dark nights of the soul my entire life. I just feel like I am always in the wrong situations, not doing enough, can't handle enough - feeling existentially alone. And yet there is a feeling that something is going to get me to the other side of this. I am glad KZread has all these videos. About time I got some direction trough this stuff!

  • @user-nk1rr1bb5i
    @user-nk1rr1bb5i4 ай бұрын

    I got to a point where i knew i couldn't carry on the way i was my behaviour was awful to say the very least but i disnt know how to make myself stop,ive hurt so many people that i truly care about because i believed what my ego told me 90% of the time,i love them all i love you all so i love myself there's nothing to forgive and there's nothing to regret because i truly know myself and i never thought I'd say it but i actually do love myself we all need to love ourselves and each other, all they truly is is love and light 😊❤❤❤ thank you to all because all is god.

  • @tracypattin3746
    @tracypattin37465 ай бұрын

    Thank you Tom. Your insights are powerful and so helpful. I often feel like I'm a visitor to the planet walking around on the margins looking in. But then a powerful surge of peaceful energy overcomes me. The fog is lifting. Clarity is starting to prevail.

  • @user-lj5fq4jx4d
    @user-lj5fq4jx4d7 ай бұрын

    MOST ACCURATE CONTENT

  • @sammalekzai7798
    @sammalekzai77988 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your great video, it was very helpful at a very low point in my life. It give me a hope to hold on and keep moving. God bless❤

  • @blackbird7514
    @blackbird75142 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Tom, so insightful as usual! this helps a lot ,youre truly so gifted 🌟🌟

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Monique - you're so kind. it was so nice to speak to you the other week too ❤️

  • @wp1769
    @wp17692 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much Tom, much needed and helped me a lot during this difficult time, much love .

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're so very welcome. Sending you my love back. Keep on keeping on ❤️

  • @perlauae
    @perlauae8 ай бұрын

    Thank you, Tom! Your video has really helped me as I go through my dark night... not my first, probably not my last, but I am encouraged by you! Thank you and Bless you!

  • @MarcoTMagno
    @MarcoTMagno2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. I am a wreck right now and It truly helps to know someone else has been through DNOS and is alive and serene.

  • @empressboateng7098
    @empressboateng7098 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks bro,seriously it hurts so bad😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @jackwilliams6686
    @jackwilliams66866 ай бұрын

    Hey Tom. I really do wonder if I will ever come out of mine, but I come back to your video here often, to keep that flame of hope lit.

  • @dkl2282
    @dkl22822 жыл бұрын

    This video is so important Tom, thank you.

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you my friend 🙏😇

  • @RebHep
    @RebHep8 ай бұрын

    I appreciate you sharing these thoughts of 'going home.' I've had some of these thoughts recently ad they have been confsing because it's not something I've ever felt before. Glad to know this may be part of the journey ad it will pass.

  • @MoA-lu8tu
    @MoA-lu8tu8 ай бұрын

    Hey Tom. I couldn't have picked a better video for this topic. Just your calming nature, gave me so much comfort. I was glued to the screen from start to finish. I really needed this video today, so Thank you! I just took a selfie of myself like you did & I look forward to the day I'll look back at the pic & say I made it through!

  • @margaritadonoso8830
    @margaritadonoso8830 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this, I´ve been looking for info and everybody talks about it as a "it will be done " or as if it was easy to go through, like step by step program but I don´t feel it like that at all. For the first time I realize this is when people kill them selves, it can get really hard and I dont understand why it has to be like that, I really whish everyone reading this you can go through this shit fast and to be able to survive. It has been a really nightmare and I don´t think anyone deserve this crap

  • @kpeez_29
    @kpeez_29 Жыл бұрын

    love this video bro

  • @charlotteuren
    @charlotteuren2 жыл бұрын

    Hey Tom been following u for ages and love your videos. This is another really insightful video which resonates. P.s You are looking awesome and have a real positive energy thing going on xx

  • @poulerikhansen7178
    @poulerikhansen7178 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing,makes so much sense. Feel like I have been in this for almost 3,5years now,need hope from outside . But the upside is that I get a lot of positive synchonicities. But have had so many symptoms that I can count it,thank you again

  • @VictoriaMarch13
    @VictoriaMarch132 жыл бұрын

    Divine timing and synchronicities 👌🏼 amazing ❤️❤️

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    ❤️🥰

  • @GodsChildTM
    @GodsChildTM24 күн бұрын

    Wow! I just found your video and you hit the mark 100% of my past two years. Going to check out your other videos now. Thank you for posting this.❤

  • @weshill222
    @weshill2228 ай бұрын

    Incredible video thank you

  • @TheUIATarot
    @TheUIATarot2 жыл бұрын

    Tom, I can’t explain how much you’ve changed my perspectives on things, especially this week which has been challenging to say the least. I’ve been binge watching your videos on my daily walks and have been so inspired. Thank you for all you do and sending you love ❤️⭐️

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much Abigail - that means so much. I checked out your channel too. So proud of you for putting yourself out there to share your gifts and insights with the world. Keep going. Sending my love and blessing back to you ❤️😇

  • @carolynmaden4518
    @carolynmaden45189 ай бұрын

    Thank you hugely for this post! I am experiencing all of this. I am really absorbing the whole journey. I am loving purging my ego, although it is painful and horrible. Everything feels like it will end, how bad can it get? I want to give up....the tips are amazing! Everyone in my life is concerned i am depressed, but i know I'm not. Its really useful to know we are not alone ❤🙏🏻

  • @patb8961
    @patb89612 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Tom. Very well said. I love your videos. 🙏

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Pat - really appreciate you watching. Sending my love 😇

  • @FeeFeeRN
    @FeeFeeRN4 ай бұрын

    This is the first one of your videos I watched. Thank you for the bottom of my heart, Tim. I’m going through a really hard time and feel like I’m being crushed under the weight of it right now. It really does feel like there’s no light at the end of my tunnel but at least I have a sliver of hope now that maybe this dark fog will lift for me too. I liked and subscribed. Best wishes. You have a beautiful soul. Chris

  • @samanthamariah7625
    @samanthamariah7625 Жыл бұрын

    This was helpful for me at this time. I realize that I’ve had many Dark Night’s of the Soul but each time I run away and let the ego take back over. I’m approaching this different this time and am looking at what I’m needing to learn about myself …and I think that my ego likes to hate me and keep me stuck in that so I can’t move forward and have love for all. I’m realizing they hating myself is no better than hating other people. True Love for ourselves is a pre-requisite for having true love for all that is and so I’m concentrating on loving myself first and then I can love others with oneness.

  • @prodbdro111
    @prodbdro111 Жыл бұрын

    never felt so bad wow its deep depths of pain. reassure me it will pass.

  • @isabands
    @isabands2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your complete vulnerability, compassion & gentle kindness to help us through our dark night of the soul. Much love 🙏 God bless 😇

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome Bella 🥰 thank you so much for your kind words. Much Love and Blessing to you too!

  • @kapaip4656
    @kapaip46563 ай бұрын

    Alongside the beauty delivered vid, peoples comments on here really helped in the dark moment.

  • @orshaharorna.shahar8921
    @orshaharorna.shahar8921 Жыл бұрын

    It's amazing how such a young person can put such precise words on this painful and difficult experience. I'm 62 years old, I've been through this death several times in my life and I've been in it again for over a year. With all the spiritual tools I have accumulated and the spiritual path I follow, it is still unbearably difficult at times. Thanks.

  • @leigh4077
    @leigh40772 жыл бұрын

    Just this morning during my prayer time I asked what is happening to me as I didnt understand. Thank you Tom for this video, it answered all of questions and gave me new hope. ❤️

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    All my Love - very happy to hear this ☺️❤️

  • @uwamahorochristella1843
    @uwamahorochristella18436 ай бұрын

    Thank you very much Tom for this helpful content 🤍

  • @Crystals222
    @Crystals2225 ай бұрын

    Thanks Tom just came across this as im going through my second DNOTS feeling like im stuck in the dark tunnel all my traumas I thought Id healed coming back up to be healed again I keep breaking down and have had to get a sick note hoping this passes soon ❤

  • @tajamulislam3879
    @tajamulislam3879Ай бұрын

    Going through my dark night of the soul and everything feels divine.. I trust Almighty Allah to my fullest ❤️ I can relate to 90 percent of what you said. And a synchronicity offcourse ✌️

  • @patticarlisisolomon5659
    @patticarlisisolomon56596 ай бұрын

    Thank you now and years from now.

  • @cindyyurdana8607
    @cindyyurdana86075 ай бұрын

    You really helped me here. Your voice is so soothing. I’m in the state of lashing out! I’ve watched many videos and yours is the best. God led me to you, for sure! Ok, I’ll start again tomorrow. This is the first time I feel like I can make it! You have great tips. Yours is a great gift to humanity! Thank you so much!💙💥🙏🙏😁❗️

  • @Starstorm111
    @Starstorm1113 ай бұрын

    A painful an beautiful liberating experience.. body pain, crying, understanding, rage, commotion, repressed memories from childhood, need to leave many relationships family/friends.. need for silence and silence. It’s scary some days, it’s painful physically and emotionally.. it’s so lonely.. emotional.. I cry just thinking about my mentaly sick mother life, I can only imagine a kid becoming a narcissist cause of lack of love and I feel so much pain for her and her choices, all of my family’s childhoods that made them who they are.. even myself.. feel pain for the ignorance of us humans, our neurotic society, feel the pain for the wars happening and our human condition of banality and cruelty.. I don’t know.. too much going on inside, it feels all very emotional and painful but .. liberating , like fresh air and a fresh forest.. but wow. Thankyou for your words and dedication. The best for you

  • @MuzikAficionado
    @MuzikAficionado2 жыл бұрын

    This is such an enlightening and soothing experience that your are providing to people. A young guy who is such a sage has a great purpose in life to spread love and light of God to others. God protects His believers while strengthening them with experiences that test them in order for them to reach a higher wavelength of understanding life and its actual purpose, which is to learn about, accept and be content in submitting to His Divine Decree by gracing and living His Gift of Life in a befitting manner by serving God and His Creation.

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much - so beautifully said ❤️

  • @siobhanparsonage2312
    @siobhanparsonage2312 Жыл бұрын

    ❤thank you for sharing this! I’m going through it and am feeling hopeless with dark thoughts and begging God to take me. I’ve lost everything and everyone and feel so alone and am barely hanging on. Your video has shed light on why I’m going through this but I need help and support to get through it. How do I find someone like you to guide me and encourage me? I’ve never heard this from any of the many therapists I’ve seen over the years. My biggest challenge is that I have no money to spend on therapy. I’ve lost everything and am currently homeless due to severe physical and mental illness (depression & anxiety). I am currently staying in a shelter. I’ve surrendered to my Higher Power, become extremely humble and am trying to have faith I’ll survive and hopefully thrive after my dark night of the soul. It’s very difficult doing this all alone. 😢

  • @BuddyLuv

    @BuddyLuv

    2 күн бұрын

    I couldn't help but notice that comments made before and after yours were either responded to or liked by Tom but yours was overlooked by him. I'm thinking that had something to do with you mentioning that you need help but have no money. I want you to know that I heard you and that you're not alone. His oversight may have made you feel even more hopeless but maybe that's part of what your Divine process was to entail. Speaking for myself and as someone who doesn't have a budget to seek help from those who profit from our desperation, just continue to explore what is readily available to you and then look within. If all this Divinity is true, then you'll find your way out through those means alone - just don't give up. What's meant for you will present itself - liberation of the soul isn't reserved for only those who can financially afford it. Consider that the experience of the dark night of the soul is not a recent event plaguing humanity, it's been around since time began (or so) ... before the advent of psychology, life coaches, social media, and courses to take. Those people got through it and so will you and so will I. Keep going.

  • @TorahChama
    @TorahChama Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, thank you, thank you. I am in the midst of one and its sooo tiring. Last night I just couldnt see beyond the darkness..

  • @janecrossley3153
    @janecrossley31532 жыл бұрын

    You popped up again with such perfect timing and just the right words Tom. Thank you and love from over here England.

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Much Love from Australia Jane - thank you and I'm so glad it helped 😇

  • @janecrossley3153

    @janecrossley3153

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TomDouce So lovely to hear from you Tom! Your beautiful heart emoji ❤️ has been like a beacon over a very challenging couple of days .. every time I glanced at it, it put me right back on track .. and your kind message has given me strength for the weekend! I love that, as the nutters in charge seem to be bent on accelerated climate catastrophe forays into world war three and the like, there are networks of peace and sanity being created across the globe. You are REALLY talented at what you do and have helped and reoriented me many times through a long and difficult 'dark night'. So, thank you sooooo much, a big 'stay strong and hang in there' to all your viewers, and love from a very rainy UK (I bet it's lovely in beautiful Australia! ) Xxx

  • @chrisberry9017

    @chrisberry9017

    Жыл бұрын

    @@janecrossley3153 Thank you for your very kind message Jane. I was led to this channel, and Tom’s words certainly spoke to me. The present is pretty bleak from a personal perspective. I’m just trying to take one day at a time. Sometimes it gets to the point of managing a minute at a time. You may well have experienced something similar.

  • @janecrossley3153

    @janecrossley3153

    Жыл бұрын

    @@chrisberry9017 a minute at a time is good Chris, I think the divine always speaks to us one step at a time.👣 Make sure you do something lovely for yourself every single day, however small that thing may be, and know that those small steps start to add up quite quickly. I've also been going through some very challenging times, life felt it as if it had completely turned upside down on almost every front for a while and I could barely envisage a way forward, but I can see things starting to remake themselves again and I know they will for you too .. even more so with the help of Tom's amazing presence and videos to sustain you! Keep the faith. ✨

  • @jonickness5787
    @jonickness57872 жыл бұрын

    Very positive. Thanks

  • @JustinJohnson-sg4sz
    @JustinJohnson-sg4sz6 ай бұрын

    So grateful for this video. Everything you’ve posted here I’ve been experiencing and I thought I was losing my mind. Body aches and have a hard time keeping my mind focused on one thing. Explosion of all of the things I had previously worked through. Nothing makes sense. Nothing has meaning. Thinking about the things I previously wanted does not create excitement. I had a dark night experience before and as long as I stayed still the answer would come eventually. Most of the time that day. This one I have no answers and it’s just a bunch of random ego experiences. All I can do is observe and let go. I get the sense that this is because the things I previously “desired” I have and there are new desires working their way in. I think the biggest challenge is when you start experiencing pieces of what was created in imagination. Followed up by a complete and rapid 180° turn to the undesired. I’ve heard this experience is to maintain faith and it was likened to the State of Elijah (no love). Which comes before the state of Jesus. Thank you

  • @JustinJohnson-sg4sz

    @JustinJohnson-sg4sz

    6 ай бұрын

    And actually, new things that I must have had suppressed for some time. A lot of anger and frustration and some rage in there. It makes me curious why some things are quicker to resolve or release than others. I’ve heard it’s due to length of time of practice. Some things have been there since before I can remember. And don’t really have a memory of when it started. For the ones that were passed on from generation to generation, can those be released quickly I wonder.

  • @rockabillyrevolution
    @rockabillyrevolution2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this video.

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're welcome my friend 🙏

  • @soulfulsara_
    @soulfulsara_2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Tom! Thank you for your words ♥️ I am going through this since 1,5 month back and was wondering does it get deeper eventually? How did you manage everyday life resposibilites/work etc while going through it? Lots of love from Stockholm

  • @charlotteselig6584
    @charlotteselig658417 күн бұрын

    I DONT HAVE A DARK NIGHT BUT LOTS OF ENERGY TINGLE

  • @huliano78
    @huliano782 жыл бұрын

    🙌🏼 PREACH!!!!!!!! 🙏🏼

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Julio - much love 🥰

  • @anaissolotraveler
    @anaissolotraveler2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Tom ! I always love your topic on youtube for all you watch don't loose faith :D you're not alone ;)! One quote stuck in my head since I'm little is "Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.” by Albus Dumbledore because we always make it through even in your "Dark Age" like you said even we don't see the light at the end of the tunnel, we are all meant to be happy all of us! I'm unconditionnaly grateful at 28 years old I wanted to clean my way & healing my mistakes this is the process is to forgive yourself & others, be grateful & transform to love, LOVE YOURSELF & trust universe . Life is like a river, you need to take the flow like water :) Since I understand the "Process" My life is positive I'm attracting so much luck & love on my way even just a smile for an unknown person makes my day :D Thanks a lot Tom for thoses videos. Enjoy your day. Anaïs

  • @TomDouce

    @TomDouce

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're amazing Anaïs - keep spreading that light. I'm so happy your life is going so well. You deserve it 🥰

  • @anaissolotraveler

    @anaissolotraveler

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@TomDouce Thank you so much for thoses words I'm so grateful 🥰 :D Tom keeps to spreading that light too :D Enjoy your week-end :)

  • @stevenorellano2039
    @stevenorellano2039 Жыл бұрын

    I just have silent freak outs in my head. I look calm on the surf, but in my head I'm looking around at everything and think, "What the fuck is this? What the fuck is this?? Why is all this here? There can't possibly be a sensible and logical reason for existence. Do I really need to be here? This has to be a mistake. Great spirit, get me out of here, NOW." Of course no help comes. I'm just stuck here, months away from ruin on every front of my life.

  • @Starstorm111

    @Starstorm111

    Ай бұрын

    Hey! I relate.. how are you doing by the moment? It’s a release to read others similar experiences.. in witch point are you now? I hope better.. I very much lost all meaning and it’s very scary. I have no sense of self nor sense of why am I here? Our background is probably different but it’s a very similar feeling .. absolute despair and the feeling everything is about to fall.. every structure.. like there’s just little structure or very primitive.. I hope things are better for you at least. I’m just going into it deeper now. Spending most of my days alone.. painting, listening podcasts and trying to understand.. or surrender

  • @robinsimonds7116
    @robinsimonds7116 Жыл бұрын

    thank you💗💗💗

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