Because I want to be a better husband, I am watching this. It's a hard pill but I want to please God

@jackjames2

Ай бұрын

The idea of loving the wife is to please God and obey his orders and nothing else 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

So powerful. I've been distant to my wife. I felt unappreciated. I need to stop with expectations and love my wife unconditionally. Thank you our relationship need this.

@cor6broo

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you, I needed this Word This Morning, but your commit was an added Blessing from above! Headed to 24yrs of marriage and I was starting to point a finger. Grace be to God,it points at me. The word unconstitutional brought me back to point of it all, Ephesians 5:25-28. Thank you for speaking your heart, it was a seasoned Word after a Dynamic Message.

@antoniocurryoldchannel9747

3 жыл бұрын

That's how I felt. The part that gave me hope is that God will reward me. This is a hard practice

@jackjames2

Ай бұрын

What do you get by loving someone unconditionaly something which only God can do. God haven't given the ability to humans to Love Unconditionaly all love is based on conditions♥️♥️♥️

@MNIGN56

7 күн бұрын

Unconditional love is tough when you are a slave, have tontake the blame even if you are in right standing, always have to appease, bear her cross while bearing the entire family's as well. Have to be perfect when everyone else can screw up yet when you point it out, you are judging. Marriage for men is a no win situation only to make everyone around you, including GOD happy. The question lies: what about you? Me? We don't matter, just a vessel for GOD'S glory.

You can never go wrong with Tony Evans - I have followed him for 30 years - he is a man of God!!

This was so beautiful and made me cry at the end. Reminds me of the way my husband loves me, I'm so blessed he is in my life.

@SippenSomeTea

Жыл бұрын

I pray my children can leave comments like this. God bless your relationship praying it continues.

"A womans greatest need is love, a man's greatest need is respect". This phrase really got me.

@arejay9835

4 жыл бұрын

Read the book “Love & Respect” by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. A must-read for both husbands and wives. It really opened my eyes to what these two terms look like in everyday life.

@agag4866

4 жыл бұрын

Be more like Jesus, keep the commands and guaranteed you'll know how to Love your wife.

@1885173

4 жыл бұрын

Very interesting book, I just brought that book yesterday. Proverbs 11:27”He who seeks good finds goodwill, but evil comes to him who searches for it”

@endtimes9212

4 жыл бұрын

@@arejay9835 were can i get this book?

@garymatos2177

3 жыл бұрын

A phrase I would say to every couple in the world

Excellent teaching....praying that ALL husbands who claim Christ as their Savior will actively listen and receive this message.

@bobbycooksr54

2 ай бұрын

Amen they gotten comfortable what Society's shows and others tell how Black marriages are Causes they are the ones who did not honor God ALMIGHTY Structures for his Marriages so yes they will, going to baddddd mouth Black marriages but wanted see others races are worsts but will talk good about that!!!! 😢😢

I'm so thankful for this. I wish the church focused on teaching men to be good husbands as much as they focused on teaching women to be good wives.

@dorethaanderson9111

5 жыл бұрын

Addie B I agree.

@MessiWorldEntertainment

4 жыл бұрын

Amen

@Acts4Twelve

4 жыл бұрын

Really? I'm actually glad to that goes on because everywhere I'm at it's reversed.

@lorebay2593

4 жыл бұрын

Yes indeed! Many men have no understanding of the concept of God, him following God to be able to lead a wife and family. If a woman, a godly woman is willing to submit it is not a bad thing if the man submits to his Lord. He will treat you right and he can have a peaceful home.

@brookewilson9799

4 жыл бұрын

Addie B aman they need this in church

God bless you Tony. A p31 wife is the greatest gift a man can receive while on earth. Agape love is being Christ like. Conform yourself to be more like Christ daily. You married God's daughter you are now God's son in law. Your greatest Joy daily will be found in making your "father in law" happy.

@devemiller5929

2 жыл бұрын

God's "Son-in-Law"???!! Granted, she is God's daughter, but I am, also, already God's son. I think it's just semantics, but your statement seems a little weird and anti-male. Trust me, if we have the misfortune of going to Hell, it will be 50/50 male/female

@bernimiranda4424

2 жыл бұрын

Hallelujah 🙏🙏

@tresfielder3148

Жыл бұрын

A (good) wife is the greatest gift a man can receive while on earth. Not just any wife. Conversely speaking, a "bad" wife is the worst gift a man can receive while on earth.

@theanc316ientone

Жыл бұрын

Wrong, a good wife is the greatest gift a man can receive.

@theanc316ientone

Жыл бұрын

​@Très Fielder agreed. But the only thing I would change is that regardless of the wife, I have to agree with Tony, that we as husbands must show agope love.

I am blessed to have found this before I propose. Very helpful knowledge. Now I can love her the right way from the start!

Wow I'm so thankful for this Word. I'm gonna apply this starting right now!!!! I'm gonna be the Kingdom man that God intended for me to be. Thanks so much for sharing !!!!

@nakettajoseph5045

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@sabrinaaaron7084

5 жыл бұрын

Amen

@SippenSomeTea

Жыл бұрын

God bless you

As a man, this message is a BLESSING especially at 28:00 mark.

I don't ever feel loved. I feel used and abused though. I don't know why I stay. I cry every day from his rude comments and behavior. Thank you for defining what a husband should be as I have never known that. He doesn't believe in God and criticizes me for loving God and reading Bible and going to church. That was my first mistake- marrying someone who hates God.

@jordynwhite7021

2 жыл бұрын

PUSH: pray until something happens.

@jenab3560

2 жыл бұрын

Im sorry . I hope things get better for you. I was married to someone like that several years back. He had absolutely no regard for my feelings or sensitivity as a result I couldn't open upto him. He criticized everything about me. He dint pray or anything. He dint think it was cool enough for him. And felt he wss justified in watching porn and expecting me to be like that. Basically when a man does not know God, he will just find ways to crush a woman's spirit so she can't do well in her marriage at all. Now by God's grace I have found a God fearing man. He has shown me what it is to feel safe and loved, and accepted as I am. I pray your situation changes .

@dell74877

Жыл бұрын

@@jenab3560 if your husband still alive and your are married to another man while he liveth you are living in adultery... You are to reconcile or to remain single (biblically)..... While in this situation you should commit yourself to God and prayer of course

@SippenSomeTea

Жыл бұрын

I too married without God. I thought it was a union under God but he did not. I'm still married with 3 kids. Praying to see God's Plan

@hearnoevilspeaknoevil

Жыл бұрын

Precious sister I’m praying for you!

Awesome message. This guy has spent some time in his bible and with God

The most wise man will love his woman like what you teach, he will be the most beneficial winner eventually.

Now I understand why the world pushes the term "love n marry your best friend" its exact opposite of what God says now I get it thanks.

May Tony's Wife Sister Evans RIP.

@bobbycooksr54

2 ай бұрын

Glory Glory Definitely I believe she Are!! 😊😊

God save my marriage 🙏🏾 this is some real game from the Kingdom and I have strayed away from the foundation.

He is teaching like Jesus straight from the gospel, it's so wonderful to have this man of God to teach me and to learn from him!

I'm crying over here. I've been trying to say this for years.

@agag4866

4 жыл бұрын

Love Jesus more and more. 1st Love. Nothing comes in between or nobody is more important than him. That's Love. He wants to be 1st before Anything.

@delle3955

3 жыл бұрын

Amen

I thank God and you for uploading this content, almost 2 years ago I watched this video and came to understand how a Christian is supposed to love his wife, at that time my marriage was hanging by a thread, my wife wanted to leave I was a Christian and she was not, after watching this video I meditated on the word of God and ask God to help me love my wife as he loved the Church. A few month ago she repented and became a Christian, now we both follow Jesus. If you are going through tough time in your marriage, just try to apply what the Bible says and pray for your spouse and put it in the hands of God ❤

Everyday do and say something special. Also, make it a priority to spend quality time together. Show them that they are important to you. 👏🏾🙌🏾 Yes and amen 🥰

@bradlybean7986

Жыл бұрын

Thank you this helped me

Prayers needed for saving my marriage thank you God bless

@dorothywatson8278

4 жыл бұрын

kimbow1988 I need those prayers too. In court for divorce proceedings 16th of January. Only God can intervene at this point

@ericahardaway1161

4 жыл бұрын

@@upgradedbygod1225 do you hold prayer times

@cor6broo

4 жыл бұрын

Done

@peacefult2491

3 жыл бұрын

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@SippenSomeTea

Жыл бұрын

How's it going?

1 pamper ur wife w/o strings 2 stop being predictable 3 give her room 4 alone time 4 💗 her with your words 24/7

*_Father, You supply all our needs according to Your riches in Christ. I’m amazed that you care about us enough to meet our daily concerns and to notice every detail of our lives. Even the hairs of our heads are numbered because You take care of Your children_* 👉👸👴👈

I don't know of a better preacher.

@bobbycooksr54

2 ай бұрын

There is not many but yes He is one of them.

A wife also needs respect. When a husband's is betraying the wife behind her back and then playing innocent to her is the most predictable thing. Loving another women with his words, but not his wife. True story. "Good teaching." The wife tuition always ends up the truth. The wife is hurting left unloved because the husband's attention is towards other women. However, he doesn't want to sign divorce papers. Thank God! FOR Tony Evans.

"Loving Only Your Woman is to keep to Honor your Word."🌹🌻

In the name of Jesus I say thank you for this message

@sstee1314

6 жыл бұрын

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@sstee1314

6 жыл бұрын

Pole p

Tony evans got that kingdom game. Amen for those words of wisdom!

so true....I really need help and I pray God gives me patience to wait on growth and my wife the same

Thank you for letting God use you Dr. Evans

Through Dr. Tony Evans teaching's on this subject, for years I walked in false love (lust). I've been getting stripped of this world's (on the block) view. I thank GOD that I'm learning now and I'm not in His covenant with a ignorance of True Biblical love.

Now, I see why woman are looking or needing love from a man. And in return, we will give respect to the man.

I wish I had followed this understanding a long time ago

@agag4866

4 жыл бұрын

Start now for the rest of your days. God bless you.

@earleansmith8608

2 жыл бұрын

Never to late you still have Breath in you God bless you and your family

@bobbycooksr54

6 ай бұрын

Refreshing is the key More what was taught in your households like what examples pops showed how he treated and still treats your mom

Dr. Evans thanks for sharing the word. Knowledge and wisdom is needed in this area.

Great sermon Pastor I pray I get a husband who loves the Lord will be able to love me the way Christ loves his church,that he'll be able to pray for me and cover and protect me and his family. I'll be is everything building him up and encouraging him and respecting him. We could be and example to ours kids and young people 👏🏿👏🏿🥰

When a man love his wife GOD'S way it brings heaven into history and it makes all the difference in the world. 🌹☺️

PRAYERS NEEDED

There's many ways but only one right way, "GOD'S WAY." ☺️🌹

Expectations are the worst. I have noticed even when I have expectations of my husband that it always turns out bad. Nobody can read someone's mind so why do we expect our spouses to do that? Communication is so important. A man needs respect and a woman needs love. God help us all to be kingdom men and kingdom women. May our marriages honor and glorify you. May they show the world your beautiful light and love. Help us all to be doers of the word and not just hearers of the word. In Jesus' Name, Amen. 🙏

@delle3955

3 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

Ephesians 5:20-33 is a great one

I am so glad that I heard this because in my family, the women do not respect their husbands; that explains why they are all divorced and alone. I want to be married only once and I want to respect my husband if I should ever get married.

Thanks for teaching the Word of God without sugarcoating. I have really grateful.

Dr. Evans your messages of God’s Word is so fine; you should have a daily television talk show. Today’s world need the straight-up about Godly living.

Although I’ve heard this message, probably a few times now, THIS TIME FEELS LIKE I WAS ACTUALLY ON TRIAL!! The LORD just finally revealed to me who my wife truly is, and just how amazing of a woman she is. I had given up on her, I’d come to be convinced that she was the most selfish, ungrateful, and at some point, the most evil person in my life. But God has actually awoken my soul to be obedient to my spirit now. I finally see things in light of the Gospel’s truth. I had to screen record it when he said “it took you FIVE YEARS to make this mess!” 😂😂 that’s how long I’ve not been her husband! Not an agape husband, at least. We’re fairly young, but we’ve been together almost 11 years. Married for 5, going on 6 in July.

@SippenSomeTea

Жыл бұрын

God bless you for seeing her. Praying she will be able accept your love just know if it took 5 years to make the mess it might take double to fix it. I'm sure she is worth it. Praying for you

So grateful for his messages. I appreciate being able to hear a good biblical message whenever I want! I enjoy his humor 🙂 too.

This is what I need to hear to help me get through very tough days because at the end of the day It makes me happy knowing I’ll always love my woman❤️

Amen! Doctor !! I agape my wife. Even tho she doesn’t respect me I’ll love her through it and god will help her. Thanks god

@patrickbakulumpagi9309

5 ай бұрын

God with a “G”. … not “g”

This word blessed my soul! I’m sending this to my husband. And praying he nourishes every word.

Thanks Dr. Evans

what a blessed message.

Amen! We must submit to The Lord and to one another!

Dr. Tony Evans, "I can appreciate those words, Husbands LOVE (AGAPE) your wives," and your insightfulness makes the difference between AGAPE LOVE and sexual desire love is soo life changing for me.

I unconditionally love my wife no matter how she behaves. I just pray for her. I trust that God will make the proper corrections and healing to her soul. My problem is seriously complicated because I believe she is a narcissist.

@larrynavanavasr5818

2 жыл бұрын

Can't be a narcissist and be a believer . Total surrender

I needed this! Thank you Rev.

Thank you...ive only listen a couple a minutes...and God uses you for greatness of His Kingdom..These worlds you speak hurt and heal at the same time..As a women ive hurt men in my life because i dont know how to ask for respect like aGodly women

Very powerful and eye and heart opening word. Helped change my heart towards my wife and I think about agape and how to show it to my wife. Thank you Jesus for opening up my wall against my wife with this sermon.

On time. thanks Dr Evans

This is so relevant for majority of marriages today, including mine. I listened to both the men and women instructed videos to better understand my role. Thank you for bringing these points back to the forefront of my mind.

GOD Almighty best be with brother Tony Evans Best Blessings an amazing grace be poured out upon you an all now an always!!❤ All in Jesus Christ Holy mighty name! Our Black living savior!!🎉

thanks for the good word cause am lacking in my marriage. it is a mind and eye opener.

needed to hear this!

Yes that's right!!

Loving your woman GOD'S WAY ☺️🌹

Amen Preacher of God. Thank You brother

So I "just happened" to watch this last night. I wanted to cry at the end because I have been the woman with the "serpent's tongue" and I believe I pushed away the man that God put in my life due to the "lack of respect" or honoring my "lord". Now that I know better, I can/will do better for the next one and be an example for my son as to what a "godly" woman is and how he's to be treated, and for my daughter to NOT follow my footsteps but to also know how a "godly" man is to treat her and she treat him in return. I pray that God would bless all those have the blessing to be married and for those with a desire to be married. Thank you Pastor Evans, I always enjoy your teaching and I pray for your life, family, and ministry.

Awesome message!

Great Word

Man,this have really blessed me, My next marriage wi ll be in line with GOD. 🌹❤🌹🍰 Amen

Future Husband Goals!

This is the BEST sermon I've heard on how to understand/love/agape your woman/wife. EVERY man needs to hear this.

Thank You Father for sending your One and Only Son Jesus for us , Thank You Jesus for sending us out with just your Holy Name Jesus , by the power of The Holy Spirit through Jesus , In Jesus Christ Mighty Name Amen Amen Holy Trinity Amen

Finally ..differences told.

Loving your woman GOD'S WAY.🌹

Thank you for taking time to share biblical insights with truth

DATE NIGHT.... THERE IS NOTHING LIKE BEING WITH YOU... preach that Amen 🙏🏽

Well said.

Thank u for the good message Dr. Stay blessed

wonderful message

Amen I listen to this after every conflict with my Reina!

Pastor Tony Evans is Great . His messages are powerfully delivered .. thanks you so much

I definitely needed to hear this perspective on the scriptures. It will help me at the beginning of my marriage and it also help as long as I use it

Thank u Dr. Tony Evans for this message

Amen!

@autunmbreeae

7 жыл бұрын

Jessica Johnson xxx xxx xxx xXxX

Amen. ❤ An Effective WORD. Thank you, Dr. Tony Evans.

Thankful for this word

My wife left me December 20th. Said shes been feeling worthless and sad and cant do this anymore. I now realise how I've been controlling and kept her small. My love was conditional, based on if she loved me. I'm trying my best to give her space as she doesnt want to speak with me She moved and took the kids to her moms. But I also know I need to show that I care and love her no matter what. She had a job interview today and i texted her good luck but no response. I wish i saw this a year ago but then again, it wouldnt have hit home and i most likely wouldnt have changed i thank God for giving me the eyes to see my wrong doings and i pray that she heals and can forgive me. I know she may never fomr back but I just pray that shell come back.

@mahtavaupea1445

3 жыл бұрын

Im praying for 100% marital restoration in Jesus name

@jenab3560

2 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry ..praying for reconciliation

@SippenSomeTea

Жыл бұрын

Praying you find peace and she does too

@fbarkon

Жыл бұрын

What you sent hit home. You not loving her Agape kept her small. It's profound.

@bobbycooksr54

6 ай бұрын

The things is men sees how their pops mistreated and treats their mom's or what male around and don't Trys to changed what they seem and giving the difficult and lies on wives it is their faults Nope Keep on checking your home environment.....

good word

@TheBadye

7 жыл бұрын

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any time powerful word

Thanks for kindom building 🔥🔥🔥

Profound message

I been doing this to my wife for 37 years.. This is how long we been married. She stopped having sex with me 35 years ago when we found out I'm sterile and couldn't give her any natural children. We both got married as virgins. I couldn't wait to get married. I do everything for my wife. I have three retirements. I pay for everything. I do what brother Evans is teaching. I'm starving for her love, intimacy and sex. She's not interested in any of them. Please pray I'll will continue to endure. Thank you

@kimberlyturner820

Жыл бұрын

Wow. You're a good husband and a good man. I hope your wife will see this and start giving you love. I pray God blesses you and your wife.

@SippenSomeTea

Жыл бұрын

Having a barren marriage is hard on a women. I'm not saying anything in particular but 35 yrs is too long!!

@lorebay2593

Жыл бұрын

I cannot believe what I just read, does she even talk with you? If not, y’all need to see a counselor together and come to some solution.

What a teaching word!!

My greatest needs is love and My man's greatest needs is respect. 🧡🌹🧡🎉💥🔥🔥🔥💯

"Loving your Woman GOD'S WAY." 🥰

That is true and I agree the greatest thing for women is love and the greatest thing for a man a husband is respect

This is so beautiful ♥️

Talk that talk!!

Amen another good teaching

This is very much appreciated Pastor Tony, God bless you.