Telling My Ex The Truth, One Year Later | {THE AND} Chloe & Justin

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Chloe (she/her) and Justin (he/him) broke up after their long distance relationship only allowed to them to see each other for two days at a time. The two tried to make it work, but ultimately decided to break their relationship off because of the distance. Almost a year after their breakup, the exes sat down to discuss their time together, including the their relationship's cute, innocent moments at its start, as well as how one of them decided to stop telling the other about the happy moments in their lives in the end.
We'd like to thank Chloe and Justin for participating openly & vulnerably in our project. We appreciate what they've shared with us and hope you do as well.
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Director | Ashika Kuruvilla
Producer | Mériem Dehbi-Talbot
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Cameras | Ashika Kuruvilla, Mériem Dehbi-Talbot, & Ariel Fahey
Audio | Izumi Marie Rosas
Editor | Rosie Gardel
Special Thanks | Fiona Whitney
With the Participation of | Chloe and Justin
Telling My Ex The Truth, One Year Later | Chloe & Justin
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  • @jasmine111
    @jasmine1113 жыл бұрын

    they seem like such nice people, but he has such a sense of sadness about him :( i hope he’s doing good

  • @NewAge374

    @NewAge374

    3 жыл бұрын

    In this scenario I recognise myself in him. Having this opportunity to sit face-to-face with an ex who still cares about you while so much was left unsaid, it's hard to know what to share. It feels scary to say too much, yet holding back is not helping both to work things out, recognise the non-issues

  • @cestmoi5702

    @cestmoi5702

    3 жыл бұрын

    I hope he’s good too.

  • @rockerchick6168

    @rockerchick6168

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes agreed. He seems to have low self-esteem and she tries to build him up. I think he needs to work on loving himself first, but you can tell he is a very kind person and cares about those around him. I wish they didn’t end this before they were done talking.

  • @JT3TRA_

    @JT3TRA_

    3 жыл бұрын

    He definitely had more to say

  • @YuriDSC

    @YuriDSC

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's what you get when you meet one too many people like her.

  • @bankrolldame
    @bankrolldame3 жыл бұрын

    I think a reason their eyes look so beautiful besides the fact that they are, is because they're looking at each other. we are seeing them recognize each other on a deeper level than regular strangers would

  • @bankrolldame

    @bankrolldame

    3 жыл бұрын

    meaning-if their eyes were portals, we're seeing the portals open when they're usually more guarded

  • @horizon1234510

    @horizon1234510

    3 жыл бұрын

    Said very welll 🙌

  • @heartpursuer

    @heartpursuer

    3 жыл бұрын

    She seemed somewhat detached and more sibling-like in her reflections, which makes sense since she had a head start in the breakup. I agree with those who said she was trying to ease his pain, but with any romantic connection now in her rear view mirror, I'm guessing her objectivity made his sense of loss even more palpable and painful.

  • @shayrai4854

    @shayrai4854

    3 жыл бұрын

    WOOOW I love what you wrote!!! it's sooo true

  • @Rudi_Mentary723

    @Rudi_Mentary723

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love watching the women on this thread just casually glide over the fact that she cheated !! Great work ! 👍👍

  • @lydiajipripal9778
    @lydiajipripal97783 жыл бұрын

    I just imagine how their child would look like if they stayed together because their beauty drops my jaw

  • @neemambeyu6190

    @neemambeyu6190

    3 жыл бұрын

    I know

  • @Bambrough

    @Bambrough

    3 жыл бұрын

    Charles manson before the drug experiments

  • @bellefairydust

    @bellefairydust

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@neemambeyu6190 they look so alike!

  • @karlaoliveira25

    @karlaoliveira25

    3 жыл бұрын

    They give me such Jesus and Mary vibes idk it's weird to think about children

  • @lydiajipripal9778

    @lydiajipripal9778

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@karlaoliveira25 🤣🤣🤣come on

  • @SaharaColeman
    @SaharaColeman3 жыл бұрын

    They both have such beautiful eyes! Both also seem kinda sad in a way too but hell who isn’t these days honestly. There’s a sadness in almost everyone

  • @jambajoby32

    @jambajoby32

    3 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @artanyakang8608

    @artanyakang8608

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow lady. True.

  • @Fatima-rz9vt

    @Fatima-rz9vt

    3 жыл бұрын

    💯💯💯

  • @Rudi_Mentary723

    @Rudi_Mentary723

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love watching the women on this thread just casually glide over the fact that she cheated. Wow !!!

  • @jambajoby32

    @jambajoby32

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Rudi_Mentary723 no one glazed over it, it’s an observation separate to the facts presented in the video

  • @keatonscreations
    @keatonscreations3 жыл бұрын

    “I don’t think that bothers me” He says as he’s literally dying inside (At least I would be)

  • @Indrameiller

    @Indrameiller

    3 жыл бұрын

    No I think he was honest actually

  • @samedersay8864

    @samedersay8864

    3 жыл бұрын

    No he's not.

  • @fiasc0b0x

    @fiasc0b0x

    3 жыл бұрын

    It seems like he's processing what he's just heard.

  • @moonflowers333

    @moonflowers333

    3 жыл бұрын

    just believe what he says :) you don’t know his thoughts and feelings

  • @keatonscreations

    @keatonscreations

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hey people, I was saying it in a joking, hypothetical way, like how I would react if someone said that to me. Not that he actually felt that way.

  • @rocksta201012
    @rocksta2010123 жыл бұрын

    Everyone just skipping over the fact that she cheated and then told him for absolutely no reason besides clearing her own conscious.

  • @hb9018

    @hb9018

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s can be good to tell the truth...it makes you stand in reality.

  • @aidadjem2153

    @aidadjem2153

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@hb9018 yea but in front of the entire internet?

  • @AP-tk2xx

    @AP-tk2xx

    3 жыл бұрын

    Y’all are missing the point. It’s not bad to tell the truth. It’s the fact of her doing it to begin with.

  • @DistortedV12

    @DistortedV12

    3 жыл бұрын

    All girls are the same smh

  • @SntYvsLrnt

    @SntYvsLrnt

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Scott Alder she said she kissed a dude 2 weeks before they broke up

  • @aprilchow-chee5281
    @aprilchow-chee52813 жыл бұрын

    It's always the cheater who's super happy and smiling in your face again

  • @maverickshinethelight211

    @maverickshinethelight211

    2 жыл бұрын

    🤣 this cracked me up

  • @fraiseaumiel9956

    @fraiseaumiel9956

    2 жыл бұрын

    Fr

  • @BBAKER22

    @BBAKER22

    2 жыл бұрын

    PLEASE get the HELP you OBVIOUSLY NEED

  • @Aminus211

    @Aminus211

    2 жыл бұрын

    😂😂

  • @PS3FER0599

    @PS3FER0599

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m afraid you’re wrong. I’m the cheater and I feel bad as hell and you wouldn’t believe how much I regret it. Every case is different. (I was the boyfriend)

  • @emangamal7529
    @emangamal75293 жыл бұрын

    They look like the male/female version of each other!

  • @DistortedV12

    @DistortedV12

    3 жыл бұрын

    Twins

  • @truthseekeralways7050

    @truthseekeralways7050

    3 жыл бұрын

    Eman Gamal Exactly 😁😂

  • @alyssalizette9350

    @alyssalizette9350

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well they always say people tend to go after partners that look like them

  • @reubenseyram7918

    @reubenseyram7918

    3 жыл бұрын

    Emma that's right on!

  • @briannaje5419

    @briannaje5419

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah they look like cousins lol. But they say after being with someone especially for awhile, y'all start to look alike.. but they just look alike lol.

  • @KayraR1221
    @KayraR12213 жыл бұрын

    Should've kept the kiss to herself, no need to hurt him anymore.... that only benefited her conscience

  • @inertia_oudrey7006

    @inertia_oudrey7006

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @edwardheaney3641

    @edwardheaney3641

    3 жыл бұрын

    Better to let him know he was right to break up with her

  • @ibrahim-8332

    @ibrahim-8332

    3 жыл бұрын

    your disgusting

  • @flannel_punk

    @flannel_punk

    3 жыл бұрын

    I find it weird that her cheating isn't being pointed out more. If it was a guy admitting to that, everyone in the comments would burst. But all I see in the comments are "oh she shouldn't have done that" "he's already hurt, why would she need to say that" ya know very light stuff. Interesting to see different reactions to men vs. reactions to women cheating

  • @jaredmiller3352

    @jaredmiller3352

    3 жыл бұрын

    He asked the question...

  • @masters284
    @masters2843 жыл бұрын

    She’s not attracted to him anymore but she cares about him deeply. He’s still in love with her. His depression and emotions turned her off him and made her feel trapped. Both great people.

  • @j.cutrone

    @j.cutrone

    3 жыл бұрын

    You explained it perfectly.

  • @angg4144

    @angg4144

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, I felt that she's not attracted to him anymore. Hence, the "kissing of the otther person"

  • @antoinealez12

    @antoinealez12

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@angg4144 still gross in my eyes. just break up with him. Why hurt him like that. You just don't do that to people you care about

  • @angg4144

    @angg4144

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@antoinealez12 Precisely.

  • @antoinealez12

    @antoinealez12

    3 жыл бұрын

    This is why I don't want to open up. Imagine confiding in your partner about your struggles and then said partner becomes turned off by that and goes off and cheats. Like what the fuck, and women want to know why men don't open up. This is why!!!

  • @jasmingodoymusic
    @jasmingodoymusic3 жыл бұрын

    Wow suddenly everyone is a psychiatrist in the comments. Don’t always have to analyze things. This was a great beautiful vulnerable interview !!

  • @25Alastor

    @25Alastor

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don't have to be a psychiatrist to see what is obviously there. Dude is hurt and she have moved on. That's all im seeing in the comments and I'm pretty sure you agree.

  • @baguetteetcheese4665

    @baguetteetcheese4665

    3 жыл бұрын

    Get them jade!

  • @jasmingodoymusic

    @jasmingodoymusic

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@25Alastor hahahah, yes and "all the comments" are true. you are almighty God who knows everything.

  • @25Alastor

    @25Alastor

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jasmingodoymusic yes true indeed. I just like to help the vision impaired who cant see what is in front of them.

  • @saraxo6448

    @saraxo6448

    3 жыл бұрын

    Some of us like reading people’s comments about this and how others would analyse it in their way. If you don’t like it don’t read the comments

  • @Patty0106
    @Patty01063 жыл бұрын

    I just want to give him the biggest hug.

  • @zainshabir5981

    @zainshabir5981

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me 222

  • @noorah_Abdalla
    @noorah_Abdalla3 жыл бұрын

    that "I still care for you" hits different.

  • @akaKillZoNe
    @akaKillZoNe3 жыл бұрын

    They look at each other like they're in love

  • @KierMailan
    @KierMailan3 жыл бұрын

    She cheated during his low point when she had to choose to either support him in that moment of struggle or leave the relationship because perhaps it was too much rather and she lost attraction. Now either choice would be fair. But she decided to cheat rather, not knowing they would break up two weeks later instead of having the courage to break up there was a breach of trust. I know we all make mistakes and that doesn't mean they don't still care for eachother. But I don't understand why the comments are painting her as a perfect angel... Shit happens but this was a choice she made. And this man should move, he is not over someone who is no longer romantically isn't in him and they are probably both better off without eachother.

  • @silent0141

    @silent0141

    3 жыл бұрын

    Good observation but a little less harsh (thou there reality is harsh specially the guy's )

  • @Sommaa

    @Sommaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    u right

  • @magnusFTS

    @magnusFTS

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thats called women

  • @tracywilliams3309

    @tracywilliams3309

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same shoes

  • @sushilsharma4202

    @sushilsharma4202

    2 жыл бұрын

    My man should get red pilled and should f""k bi5ches day and night.

  • @baguetteetcheese4665
    @baguetteetcheese46653 жыл бұрын

    She is intimidating me through him... the way she kept the eye contact long enough without showing any weird uncomfortable stances. Thats what I wanna look like when am having a conversation with any other human being.

  • @fathibotan2367

    @fathibotan2367

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ikr like I can’t keep eye contact for two seconds 🤷‍♀️I don’t like looking ppl in the eyes I feel like they can see my soul

  • @kunalraturi8260

    @kunalraturi8260

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@fathibotan2367 true

  • @midknight5194

    @midknight5194

    3 жыл бұрын

    She is doing it as a power move, keeping the eye contact and staying in control, unconsciously

  • @angelbrumfield6134

    @angelbrumfield6134

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@midknight5194 or with him, she feels safe giving her the confidence to do so

  • @midknight5194

    @midknight5194

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@angelbrumfield6134 ur defending her im reading her

  • @whitneymiller5139
    @whitneymiller51393 жыл бұрын

    Tbh.. I would have kept the whole “I kissed someone else” thing to myself at this point. You know that dude gonna go home and cry... like what’s the point of telling him that now? Smh

  • @milaf5177

    @milaf5177

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed! What does she gain from sharing this information with him? How does it affect his life. All it's going to do is make him revaluate their entire relationship and make him wonder what else she did. Bad move and she should have just broken up with him instead of cheating while he was depressed. No words.

  • @lawansuksyiemlieh4848

    @lawansuksyiemlieh4848

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @shirleysong4480

    @shirleysong4480

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same. She should've told him as they broke up, or kept it to herself entirely. I don't understand the purpose behind telling him this now, on camera.

  • @MandaLari444

    @MandaLari444

    3 жыл бұрын

    guilt

  • @diamcole

    @diamcole

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MandaLari444 Her problem, ultimately.

  • @juologie6957
    @juologie69573 жыл бұрын

    They’re both so well spoken and expressed themselves on deeper levels. You can tell they were really in tune with each other at some point

  • @1cartix262

    @1cartix262

    3 жыл бұрын

    you wouldn't be saying that if the guy had been the one that cheated

  • @Michael-pe1dh

    @Michael-pe1dh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@1cartix262 exactly. I cannot believe all these bitches are defending this girl. If the guy cheated these bitches will say all men are trash.

  • @Rudi_Mentary723

    @Rudi_Mentary723

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love watching the women on this thread just casually glide over the fact that she cheated. Wow !!!

  • @juologie6957

    @juologie6957

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@1cartix262 nice of you to assume my thought process?

  • @juologie6957

    @juologie6957

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Michael-pe1dh read my comment ???? Did I say anything about cheating or defend it ?? Or you can’t read ???

  • @theladyhelene
    @theladyhelene3 жыл бұрын

    So a bit of background: they met each other on one of those Israeli heritage trips obviously. And then went back home to the States and did long distance which didn’t work out.

  • @supersapphire
    @supersapphire3 жыл бұрын

    "I was lost and you were one of the people that kept me tethered to the world." so beautifully said but also profoundly sad. Glad he kept pushing forward you can tell hes come along way mentally.

  • @Kyonce
    @Kyonce3 жыл бұрын

    He still seems so heartbroken and sad 🥺

  • @kenibell3062
    @kenibell30623 жыл бұрын

    I think his mental health turned her off, and she wouldve felt stuck if they weren't long distance. She doesn't seem to want to get back together, she mentally checked out a long time ago and is living her best life now. They seem to really care about each other, I hope his situation gets better and he gets the help he needs.

  • @alexandromora7890

    @alexandromora7890

    3 жыл бұрын

    This really sucks, honestly. It sucks that a lot of times, people leave when their partner needs them the most. It’s understandable that not everyone can handle a situation in which their partner falls into depression or anxiety; we’re only human, after all. But it’s extremely sad that some people decide to leave instead of staying and fighting with them; instead of supporting them. Supporting your partner through poor mental health should be the bare minimum in a relationship, yet so many people can’t (or choose not to) do it. Again, we’re not perfect and everyone is different. But that’s no excuse for dipping on your significant other like that. If someone is turned off by their partner’s poor mental health, they’re immature and stupid. I said what I said

  • @blancarodriguez1340

    @blancarodriguez1340

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@alexandromora7890 WOW, beautifully written 😭🤍

  • @alexandromora7890

    @alexandromora7890

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@blancarodriguez1340 thank you! Just saying what should honestly be common sense haha. But sadly, too many people nowadays simply can’t handle being decent human beings

  • @droqlet

    @droqlet

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@alexandromora7890 happened to me. I was extremely depressed and it made my past relationship toxic. He wanted to help me through it and stay by my side.. we loved each other deeply but in the end he broke up with me because he felt trapped and also got negatively affected mentally because of my depression and behavior.. Made me even more miserable. Now I’m completely blocked from his life, because I couldn’t let go at first. This happened 4 months ago and I realized now that I don’t wanna get into a new relationship until I "fix" my mental instability and get my shit together.

  • @lincabe321

    @lincabe321

    3 жыл бұрын

    She literally cheated on him lol

  • @jairusbryant3229
    @jairusbryant32293 жыл бұрын

    I love how no one is pointing out that she cheated. I just hope you guys keep that same energy when a man does the same thing.

  • @zay7665

    @zay7665

    3 жыл бұрын

    So many people pointed it out

  • @animezae

    @animezae

    3 жыл бұрын

    That’s not the focus of the video lol y’all are weird

  • @pb9400

    @pb9400

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@zay7665 so far I've counted only 4 people out of over 200+ comments and they all seem to be the men. Why aren't you girls calling her out for cheating? Oh wait thats right because it is ok for a woman to hurt a man but if a man hurts a woman then no. Would you even have made that comment if it was the man who cheated and someone aaked why isn't anyone calling him out for cheating? You would have said something along the lines of "Yeah he is trash "

  • @pb9400

    @pb9400

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@animezae what is the focus of the video?

  • @okidokiyowyow356

    @okidokiyowyow356

    3 жыл бұрын

    Girls are okay to cheat if she is pretty. /S

  • @bradenvincent6964
    @bradenvincent69643 жыл бұрын

    I feel so much empathy for him and so much resentment towards her

  • @Saral_Lekhi
    @Saral_Lekhi3 жыл бұрын

    It's hard to be left. He is stuck. She moved on. It haunts us...why was I not enough....unless you realize there is no answer and freedom is when it doesn't even matter as a question. Just move. On. Move. She moved first. You can now. It is simpler than we think.

  • @jadedubreuil284

    @jadedubreuil284

    3 жыл бұрын

    it's harder said than done when you really love someone

  • @Saral_Lekhi

    @Saral_Lekhi

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@jadedubreuil284 - been there. Thought that. Said that. But it's only your ego. It's telling you, like a bad script writer and bad director of a pathetic movie, that u have to keep acting (ACTING) sad and heart broken. That there is no other role to be played in this stage and game of life. Watch your thoughts and one moment will come, and you will catch it..you will catch that you are daily , millions of times repeating a script to yourself about how you "must" feel about things in your life. I am not saying try positive thinking..but do try to catch the script direction and change it up. The day you realize that you are the one in control u will be free in about a second. Even in this case, the girl and guy are both good souls. But she told herself first, it won't work. I shall leave. And she started acting like that including making out with another man. He is still stuck with an old script. I like her so much. We can make it work...it was so special. BETWEEN two people, Unless BOTH want to make it work it's pointless! This universe has abundance. Don't close yourself. He is a nice looking guy. He looks better smiling rather than looking down in hurt. He is being a martyr in his head ..he could just be free and happy. Wish he gets there.

  • @numbernine3436

    @numbernine3436

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Saral_Lekhi light bulb moment. Thank you

  • @ifeanyisamuel9140

    @ifeanyisamuel9140

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Saral_Lekhi wow thanks

  • @starkkane6227

    @starkkane6227

    2 жыл бұрын

    A good learning moment Thanks

  • @l.a7657
    @l.a76573 жыл бұрын

    his eyes speak so much it’s crazy. he seems like a genuine person. 🥺😞

  • @sarahnegron1314
    @sarahnegron13143 жыл бұрын

    This was actually a really healing video for me to watch. It helped me think about how I would answer these questions if I saw my ex boyfriend who I haven’t seen in a year and a half, and I’ve realized how much I’ve grown and how I’m now at peace with the ending of our relationship. Like she said, everything happens for a reason

  • @Vladimir_protein007

    @Vladimir_protein007

    3 жыл бұрын

    So you cheated on him?

  • @sarahnegron1314

    @sarahnegron1314

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Vladimir_protein007 No he left me for another girl actually :))

  • @chellefell1331

    @chellefell1331

    3 жыл бұрын

    yesss... I often think about that as well...

  • @jazizq

    @jazizq

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sarahnegron1314 same & i agree w everything you said

  • @gabrieltroiano1430
    @gabrieltroiano14303 жыл бұрын

    I can feel the pain this guy feels and it’s heartbreaking

  • @ALBERTO1guzman
    @ALBERTO1guzman3 жыл бұрын

    It’s weird cuz he’s the universe & she’s Mother Nature, I can’t really describe it more than that.

  • @gabbym333

    @gabbym333

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well, he does looks like depictions of Jesus. And he has a kind soul.

  • @breeismyname1

    @breeismyname1

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@gabbym333 jesus isn’t a white man love

  • @AZRN928

    @AZRN928

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@breeismyname1 what nationality do you think the guy in this video is?

  • @ninasimone9984

    @ninasimone9984

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beautifully said

  • @stivib5937

    @stivib5937

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@breeismyname1 he was middle eastern most likely like palestinians now

  • @abdou8953
    @abdou89532 жыл бұрын

    Bro, I feel like he's about to cry, manz is hurt deeply, hope he's doing OK but her, she's for the streets for sure😪

  • @sashshay4715
    @sashshay47153 жыл бұрын

    I think he started to talking as if he wanted another try and then got hit with the secret 😞😢

  • @flannel_punk

    @flannel_punk

    3 жыл бұрын

    I find it weird that her cheating isn't being pointed out more. If it was a guy admitting to that, everyone in the comments would burst. But all I see in the comments are "oh she shouldn't have done that" "he's already hurt, why would she need to say that" ya know very light stuff. Interesting to see different reactions to men vs. reactions to women cheating

  • @eddiy335
    @eddiy3353 жыл бұрын

    I find it very interesting how people don't have the same energy for people who cheat. All these kind understanding comments would be nonexistent if the man was unfaithful when she was at a low point in her life. Hypocrisy at its finest.

  • @caribanna1865

    @caribanna1865

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I don’t get it either

  • @asdvvvvf5381

    @asdvvvvf5381

    3 жыл бұрын

    No I'm not sympathetic to it at all. A cheater is a cheater. It was shitty of her

  • @elikyaa

    @elikyaa

    3 жыл бұрын

    Since when are men more vilified for cheating than women?

  • @fionagallagherapologist5968

    @fionagallagherapologist5968

    3 жыл бұрын

    i don't think there is a double standard :/ cheaters are shitty no matter what they identify as

  • @lavieenrose5334

    @lavieenrose5334

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly, like the energy isn't equal at all. I remember a similar video where the guy cheated and people went after him leaving hate comments and they had to do another video addressing the hate he got.

  • @jonaswolterstorff3460
    @jonaswolterstorff34603 жыл бұрын

    This reminds me of how it is possible to have space in your heart for someone, love even, for someone that you know should not have been, while at the same time feeling connected to them. Ambiguity tolerance at its finest.

  • @mckenziemyers8706

    @mckenziemyers8706

    3 жыл бұрын

    damn that was beautiful.

  • @numbernine3436

    @numbernine3436

    3 жыл бұрын

    Reminds me of myself & my estranged husband. We love one another but realize it just can't be. Neither has the guts to divorce the other. We have an unconditional platonic love based friendship were we talk almost every day about nothing. If I need anything he's there & vice versa. For a hundred reasons we just can't be together nor can we completely cut the other one loose.

  • @wanaforever6957
    @wanaforever69573 жыл бұрын

    I know y’all just didn’t end this video like that😂 But seriously. If couples communicated like this. There would be long lasting relationships. Communication & comprehension is the key.

  • @pooshpoosh9232

    @pooshpoosh9232

    3 жыл бұрын

    but most couples have an underlying competition

  • @Stayfocused99

    @Stayfocused99

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pooshpoosh9232 which is fucking weird

  • @josephsherby

    @josephsherby

    Жыл бұрын

    To be fair, much of the reason they are able to communicate like this is because their relationship is over. The stakes are different now.

  • @ISEEKSPACE
    @ISEEKSPACE3 жыл бұрын

    He's in pain. He eminates the hurt of whatever he's internalizing so completey. His expression hurts to watch. She is very disconnected from him at this point. She's elevated. There was a connection there but its shattered now. The question at the 6:20 mark confirms this.

  • @pwner4once

    @pwner4once

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for pointing this out. While it definitely made the video less wholesome, it certainly paints a clearer picture of their relationship. It’s a bit heart breaking imo

  • @crazybiscut

    @crazybiscut

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its ok she will feel it later

  • @KevinSmith-xt8xr

    @KevinSmith-xt8xr

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@crazybiscut 10x's more too

  • @tonylopez9032
    @tonylopez90323 жыл бұрын

    reading the comments, you wouldn't know that she cheated on him. lol . gonna casually let it slide..ok

  • @asmauzurmi7547

    @asmauzurmi7547

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol right!!

  • @aminemokhtari6534

    @aminemokhtari6534

    3 жыл бұрын

    if he cheated on her the comments would be abusing him rn

  • @triligyblood

    @triligyblood

    3 жыл бұрын

    Kissing someone else isn’t cheating

  • @aminemokhtari6534

    @aminemokhtari6534

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@triligyblood bro what??

  • @TaelurAlexis

    @TaelurAlexis

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@aminemokhtari6534 on god lmfao 🤣 repeating the same shit

  • @ilhuicatlamatini
    @ilhuicatlamatini3 жыл бұрын

    Wow, can’t believe y’all captured this moment. That first time seeing each other again after a breakup. It’s always so weird and often painful for at least one, which in this case was him, and she was ok cuz she had definitely moved on. I hope he finds the person truly meant for him! Hell, I wish it for everyone, including myself.

  • @dang9313
    @dang93133 жыл бұрын

    The dude is so sweet. I loved when she said you're so loved. Wow, wish ma ex would tell me that. Feels so warm

  • @heyjinx5567
    @heyjinx55672 жыл бұрын

    "I haven't been validated like that in a long time" shit, the broke me dude 😭

  • @crabbypatty10fefrefe
    @crabbypatty10fefrefe3 жыл бұрын

    There's no such thing as " I kissed someone else" There's ALWAYS more.

  • @jezzalinko7879

    @jezzalinko7879

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can confirm this is true Happened twice Not happening again I’m out

  • @siyanelisatomose2368

    @siyanelisatomose2368

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jezzalinko7879 That is a bit unfair

  • @BBAKER22

    @BBAKER22

    2 жыл бұрын

    LMAO....You're CLUELESS

  • @neilshinde8641

    @neilshinde8641

    2 жыл бұрын

    I was in terms with my ex of getting back together, in the meanwhile going out with other people was mutually decided. She had sex with a guy and told me it was "momentary and I was drunk". of course I was hurt, but of course. it's what we had mutually decided. Later, I got to have sex with a hot girl and I feel much better. LOL

  • @dakweenlyrics409

    @dakweenlyrics409

    2 жыл бұрын

    I kissed my friend on a game of truth or dare, there was nothing there tho 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @lisalee2885
    @lisalee28853 жыл бұрын

    He deserves a truly honest mate....she hid so much and cheated.

  • @1989leaxy
    @1989leaxy3 жыл бұрын

    My only question: how do they find these people? They have no contact for a year and all of a sudden they sit in one room? 😅

  • @welikelethabo

    @welikelethabo

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lol me too

  • @Beanieboom

    @Beanieboom

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can sign uo

  • @genevieveadiegwu2587

    @genevieveadiegwu2587

    3 жыл бұрын

    Social media?

  • @barbieon07

    @barbieon07

    3 жыл бұрын

    people apply

  • @martasielska

    @martasielska

    3 жыл бұрын

    Feel the same lol

  • @joeyisho5370
    @joeyisho53702 жыл бұрын

    He's an incredibly honest and transparent person with his feelings. As a man who lives the same way, he sincerely cared about her and still does. He also seems deeply at struggle with some emotional stuff. I hope this dude is doing well and that he loves himself because he's got a lot to offer someone. We need to support one another as human beings.

  • @SpisUchmich
    @SpisUchmich3 жыл бұрын

    So touched by this... I'm still moved from the way she told him what she doesn't want him to forget

  • @MLLKLKLKLK
    @MLLKLKLKLK2 жыл бұрын

    This guy deserves better, he has a good soul.

  • @Alpha_apex
    @Alpha_apex3 жыл бұрын

    I love how she got offended when he said she was easy. But she cheated the last 2 weeks lmao

  • @fx9935

    @fx9935

    3 жыл бұрын

    they say easy come easy go lol

  • @MarianaSilva-kh4io
    @MarianaSilva-kh4io2 жыл бұрын

    This relationship has such a tragic feeling to it, you know? Like in the literary sense, Romeo and Juliet style.

  • @j.m.8558

    @j.m.8558

    2 жыл бұрын

    Romeo and Juliet died for each other. This bitch cheated on a good dude at his lowest point. I think it’s fair to say you’re comparing apples to bowling balls here.

  • @BADDGRLWRLD
    @BADDGRLWRLD3 жыл бұрын

    They have so much love for each other you can feel it. She’s over it and he still loves her and wants to be with her but his depression and anxiety drained her and held her back. She at the time was hurt by it but now she knows they’re better at a distance. He still is battling with hisself and she doesn’t want anything to do with it. They love each other but they are on two different parts of life

  • @siddharthsharma9451

    @siddharthsharma9451

    3 жыл бұрын

    Dude.. You don't cheat on someone when they are at their lowest.. You need to grow up and know the meaning of loce

  • @tandilezweni2853
    @tandilezweni28532 жыл бұрын

    "I've been waiting for this question...I feel like, this isn't much of a big a deal...2 weeks before we broke up I kissed someone else..." and THAT...THAT hurt my feelings. Gosh! 💔

  • @abdiloly7322

    @abdiloly7322

    2 жыл бұрын

    That statement was rough..she's fucking disgusting, wish the guy would have put her in her place and stormed out..

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV3 жыл бұрын

    It's always nice to see exes who can have these kind of conversations openly and deeply.

  • @irise6661
    @irise66613 жыл бұрын

    so sweet and genuine how they look at each other, justin especially seems so fond. it's sweet to see

  • @afrooba
    @afrooba3 жыл бұрын

    What a great and vulnerable conversation. They obviously care about each other and that is so mature and sweet.

  • @ohthatsjan5166
    @ohthatsjan51663 жыл бұрын

    this is so beautiful. ugh i feel his pain bc i feel the same way he felt when he just knew it was time to end

  • @sarahgrahl746
    @sarahgrahl7463 жыл бұрын

    This conversation helped me think of my own personal conversations with my ex I would like to have. :( it was so healing to watch y'all be so vulnerable & brave. Thank you for sharing!!

  • @Eirud
    @Eirud3 жыл бұрын

    "I believe everything happens for a reason." Like me cheating on you at your lowest point in life. The balls to say that after her actions and the choices she made just fully clarifies for me that she's not a good person. Hopefully she truly sees what she did and what she had said in this interview and sees how fucked she is. Hopefully she becomes a good person some day.

  • @fx9935

    @fx9935

    3 жыл бұрын

    nah she wont lol she got some daddy issues and he dodged the bullet. imagine if this guy married her that would have been a nightmare

  • @livingwriter9834

    @livingwriter9834

    2 жыл бұрын

    Kyle... Nooooooooopooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooopoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo she for the street

  • @youdontknowme3318

    @youdontknowme3318

    2 жыл бұрын

    She for the streeeeetsssssss nowwwwww

  • @Mcgif21
    @Mcgif212 жыл бұрын

    To see such genuine love between two people who have gone their separate ways is sad, but it also really touched my heart.

  • @fionajensen2952
    @fionajensen29523 жыл бұрын

    I love this guy! He seems so sincere, loving, and patient.

  • @cfalmanza
    @cfalmanza3 жыл бұрын

    That was amazing to watch! Healing is so necessary but so many of us minimize healing and thus we carry unnecessary stuff. Congratulations to these two for having the courage to show up for each other even though they had so much hurt between them. ❤️🙏🏻👌🏼

  • @lucyrosenx5791
    @lucyrosenx57913 жыл бұрын

    This might be one of my favourite pairings ever. They both moved me so deeply. Beautiful souls, both of them and I hope they find happiness.

  • @Rudi_Mentary723

    @Rudi_Mentary723

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love how every women I see on this thread just casually glides over the fact that she cheated!! Great going !!

  • @flannel_punk

    @flannel_punk

    3 жыл бұрын

    I find it weird that her cheating isn't being pointed out more. If it was a guy admitting to that, everyone in the comments would burst. But all I see in the comments are "oh she shouldn't have done that" "he's already hurt, why would she need to say that" ya know very light stuff. Interesting to see different reactions to men vs. reactions to women cheating

  • @StefanMilosevski

    @StefanMilosevski

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nah, she doesn't have a beautiful soul. No one does that what she did to their significant other. I hope he finds happiness.

  • @sakuraesther6309

    @sakuraesther6309

    2 жыл бұрын

    As a woman I disagreee with yo3

  • @dnd1007
    @dnd10073 жыл бұрын

    When she said their relationship was all just saving one another seats on the bus...so touching.

  • @amandac3372
    @amandac33723 жыл бұрын

    I want to give Justin the biggest hug ever

  • @infinitespiral6758
    @infinitespiral67583 жыл бұрын

    "You were pretty easy, though-" ... "To be in a relationship with."

  • @shashankgm2533

    @shashankgm2533

    3 жыл бұрын

    That was deep

  • @lolagain5944
    @lolagain59443 жыл бұрын

    justin makes me believe in good humans he has that vibe and i love him 😔 when he said it made his lip quiver 😖 i want to give him a hug he’s so beautiful grrrr 😢

  • @starheartskull15
    @starheartskull153 жыл бұрын

    UGH that hurt so bad when she said it. I feel horrible for him

  • @mrskaylaatkinson
    @mrskaylaatkinson3 жыл бұрын

    We Need a part 2, this can’t be the end.

  • @kylewallace1558
    @kylewallace15583 жыл бұрын

    Damn, these two individuals really seemed like they truly knew and loved each other so deeply. I understand that the long-distance definitely took its toll on the relationship, but it's just so crazy and sad to see two people who seem to complement each other fall apart like that.

  • @ambershae8730
    @ambershae87303 жыл бұрын

    The genuine warmth that comes from each of them. Individually and together... makes me believe there are still good humans in this world. Ones whom love deeply and freely. I wish I could hug them both ❤️

  • @giselaraphael
    @giselaraphael3 жыл бұрын

    They seem beautiful as a couple. Some love is still unfinished. I wish they had a second chance a serious commitment.

  • @aprillinares8063
    @aprillinares80632 жыл бұрын

    I think that these are the relationships that were just meant to happen and then end. You learn something. Like an experience. Something that makes you stronger for the future. It’s bitter sweet on why or how it ended but every time you look back you get that nostalgia and then it goes away as fast as it happened.

  • @clotilderoesch5405
    @clotilderoesch54053 жыл бұрын

    this is such a pure interview

  • @PlainJaneWay
    @PlainJaneWay3 жыл бұрын

    The emotional part of being in a relationship is a good and a bad thing.. We love it so much and when it doesn’t work out the hurt and pain of heartbreak still lingers on 🥺

  • @makedajones2387

    @makedajones2387

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m so broken up by this video. I just know this pain so well.

  • @milaf5177
    @milaf51773 жыл бұрын

    I find it odd how nobody is pointing out the fact that she told him that she cheated. Mind you this is while he was depressed. This little bit of information is going to make him scritinise every part of their relationship that he might have valued and treasured, only for him to think when and how and why. If somebody were physically sick it DOES NOT give you the right to cheat so what makes depression any different. Why not just communicate with him and break up? Words fail me...

  • @whitneymiller5139

    @whitneymiller5139

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well she made a mistake which we all do. But she should not have told him at this point! She doesn’t care about how that info is going to affect him, that was kinda evil of her

  • @stephenburt3978

    @stephenburt3978

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@whitneymiller5139 yes

  • @whitneymiller5139

    @whitneymiller5139

    3 жыл бұрын

    @The Honest Truth okay? Your point? We all do fucked up shit in life.

  • @marcusscottbalahari7198

    @marcusscottbalahari7198

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@whitneymiller5139 I hate when people attribute very deliberate things and reduce it down to a mistake. It was a choice. She didn't slip on some ice and fall face first on a guys lips.

  • @whitneymiller5139

    @whitneymiller5139

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@marcusscottbalahari7198 you’re taking the word “mistake” too literally. If you regret something it’s considered a mistake. I’m not justifying what she did. Cheating is an intentional betrayal but that doesn’t mean it wasn’t a human mistake that anyone can (intentionally) make. Let people learn and live. She didn’t kill anyone

  • @carlocarlo7601
    @carlocarlo76012 жыл бұрын

    Thai conversation made me cry. They are both so good at talking, they Are respectful and loving, I feel like this relationship was very emotional

  • @bocameron4507
    @bocameron45073 жыл бұрын

    I’ve never been validated like that in a long time! Wow very articulate

  • @alyelotesiful
    @alyelotesiful2 жыл бұрын

    it is painful to see such conversations but also so beautiful. i am crying

  • @sarahdubois5985
    @sarahdubois59853 жыл бұрын

    This had so much love and so much sadness it almost hurt to watch I hope they’re both well

  • @g0gentle
    @g0gentle2 жыл бұрын

    I love how camera position catches all bits of emotions. It looks as humans don`t have that in real life or we too focused on something else while conversing

  • @simini1837
    @simini18373 жыл бұрын

    Hope they both find happiness, health and contentment in their life!

  • @numbernine3436
    @numbernine34363 жыл бұрын

    There are so many couples like this. Two people can truly love one another on the deepest level but for a million different reasons they can't make it work. I've seen older couples who I can tell are one anothers right arm. Watching them communicate is so effortless & easy. I always remind myself the difference in that couple & other couples is they didn't give up. They rode out the hard storms and are now growing old with their best friend. Those couples are an endangered species. These days we give up too easy. We all deserve a love like that. Very few of us will ever see it.🤍

  • @cynthia06rubio
    @cynthia06rubio3 жыл бұрын

    I hope he is doing ok. I can tell he is hurting so much and not just having to do with her but more so from his own internal battles. He seems like an old soul who is just the sweetest. Validate yourself sweetie, you are everything and more. I hope everyone knows that, not just him. Depression is a dark place in our mind, be nice to people and always listen to others even if you dont want to

  • @misseyyyy
    @misseyyyy3 жыл бұрын

    2 beautiful souls. I hope they receive love and abundance beyond what they can imagine.

  • @saraglt
    @saraglt3 жыл бұрын

    LOVED THEM! One of my favourites episodes and conversations ever!

  • @zzokazzorana
    @zzokazzorana3 жыл бұрын

    Wow, that was such a nice, open and beautiful conversation 😊

  • @rodvincetolosa9386
    @rodvincetolosa93863 жыл бұрын

    Bruh I relate to this dude so much that feeling of emptiness, having someone that tethers you to the world and then they just leave. I hope he's doing good.

  • @AlambushaShukla
    @AlambushaShukla2 жыл бұрын

    I feel bad for the guy. Idk how it's gonna affect him trusting the next one. The girl seems more at peace about the breakup.

  • @nellywellyboo2383
    @nellywellyboo23833 жыл бұрын

    theres a deep connect and high emotional connect here...he's still in love and she loves him as a friend you can see the care in her eyes and in the hurt in his...both gorgeous individuals

  • @eddyalonsomoramorales6069

    @eddyalonsomoramorales6069

    8 ай бұрын

    Gorgeous for cheating on him you have fucked defition of love

  • @EOimages
    @EOimages3 жыл бұрын

    This moves me a lot because in a way I'm the same way this guy is, sentimental and a lot of things but we get trapped in our emotions and sadness sometimes... Just broke up 3 months ago and all of those feelings these poeple show are happening to me as well, probably need to talk to my ex. I still believe is gonna work put for the best of them. Beautiful people, very woke and kind souls

  • @Marielukita
    @Marielukita3 жыл бұрын

    I feel them! My ex and I we also broke up because of long distance... and so, yeah for some people it is bad timing and not being the right place.... sometimes you meet the right person, and wrong timing, that’s is what my ex told me. It is still stuck with me, “Bad Timing”😞

  • @TheSkinDeep

    @TheSkinDeep

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing this part of your story with us, Charlie. If you two ever want to discuss it in {THE AND} space, feel free to apply at theskindeep.com/be-on-the-and.

  • @carloskessels5493
    @carloskessels54933 жыл бұрын

    They still have feelings for eachother period.

  • @sakuraesther6309

    @sakuraesther6309

    2 жыл бұрын

    She cheated so it's time to move on

  • @Callmelucky
    @Callmelucky3 жыл бұрын

    he reminds me of me, she reminds me of my ex, I can see he is still hurt by the past even though he moved on.

  • @ReactiveDogDiaries
    @ReactiveDogDiaries3 жыл бұрын

    we love these two, im crying. god bless you both!

  • @chumchibenikikon4189
    @chumchibenikikon41892 жыл бұрын

    I relate to this in so many ways and it's sad. These guys, their eyes speak volume. You can see the love they still have for eachother but timing is everything 😭

  • @eddyalonsomoramorales6069

    @eddyalonsomoramorales6069

    8 ай бұрын

    Un she cheated on him why do you ignore that

  • @nicoleramirez2751
    @nicoleramirez27513 жыл бұрын

    I have the biggest urge to just give him a big hug :( God bless him im hope hes okay🙏❤

  • @thetongueofangels1882
    @thetongueofangels18823 жыл бұрын

    Its crazy how easily cheating is accepted when its from a woman🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @mutailenunshikokola2727

    @mutailenunshikokola2727

    3 жыл бұрын

    Its really so damn crazy, if it was the guy, all hell would have broken loose in the comment section

  • @oreochocolate_lavacake9960

    @oreochocolate_lavacake9960

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I may be a woman but I notice this all the time.

  • @originunknown5812

    @originunknown5812

    3 жыл бұрын

    That's why it's not worth getting in to a relationship.

  • @grimjowjaggerjak

    @grimjowjaggerjak

    3 жыл бұрын

    When it's a women " it was just an entenglement" when it's a dude "kill him by fire !"

  • @tkp97

    @tkp97

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nope. She's trash for doing that. Im not letting anyone get away but it seems like the comment section is more chill. That's terrible.

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm10 ай бұрын

    These videos help us examine our own relationships or what we want from another person. Don't just be with someone for their income or there's a physical attraction. Also don't rush the relationship by sleeping with each other too soon. Let the feelings and the trust grow over time. One or both will think if he or she is willing to jump into bed with me they might do the same with another person. I like someone right now who is so wonderful and I'm giving her lots of time and space to feel the same about me not rush into something then start feeling insecure because we moved too fast.

  • @twizzycoutinho1130
    @twizzycoutinho11303 жыл бұрын

    They look so sweet and beautiful🥺

  • @millicentmo
    @millicentmo2 жыл бұрын

    HE DESERVES BETTER, I HOPE HE HEALS SOON AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE HIM GENUINELY. I'M SENDING LOVE TO ANYONE GOING THROUGH SOMETHING LIKE THIS. YOU WILL BE FINE, I PROMISE. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @cestmoi5702
    @cestmoi57023 жыл бұрын

    Good sir, I pray you learn self love and self validation so that you never feel you are lacking in anything. And that you are a gift to the world with your uniqueness.

  • @prashlen19
    @prashlen192 жыл бұрын

    They both look really beautiful and spoke of their heart, deep and honest.

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