"My wife sends me this stuff. I don't watch it." 😅👌👌👌👌 Priceless.

@saffron1996

7 ай бұрын

accurate af

@angiew2324

7 ай бұрын

I don't blame you, I wouldn't listen to it if I were a man either. I only watch every now & then as a woman because the videos pop up while scrolling through shorts, I'm usually cringing the entire time. 😂 It isn't that it's bad advice, it's more that it's blaming _everything_ on men.

@s0doone343

7 ай бұрын

Not all of these are the best examples, and it's not always blaming men, but bringing awareness to the behavior types in some men that cause some of the most difficulty in relationships. As well as explaining some of the equally as problematic behavioral types in women. These kinds of vids are just meant to bring awareness to both sides of things. They're not a one size fits all. However the content is likely to relate to a lot of relatioships out there and can act as a stepping stone/tool to help them to get to the bottom of their issues. I for one am glad i have a male partner who is willing to watch these kinds of things with me and takes it seriously, who sends them to me as well and engages with me on the topics to better understand each other and make plans on better communication. It's like a whole new world compared to my ex who never wanted to talk to me about anything having to do with our relationship. He'd just get mad and make me feel bad for even bringing up anything at all even though i did so calmly and neutrally to ease into a subject, he'd just explode and threaten to leave the house, so i stayed quiet and unhappy until it was too much. Bottom line, find someone who loves and respects you and is willing to hear your feelings as well as share theirs in return. There is nothing better than feeling connected and growing as a unit😭

@GraciiGram

7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂 for real. He never does.

@Mushroom321-

7 ай бұрын

Right!! &, evidence of a non high emotional intelligence.. ☝️☝️😯 😅

Starting from a deficit 😂 "this a whole day!"😅

@itsonlyliz9023

7 ай бұрын

I'm dying 😂

@user-pz7xl2vz2d

7 ай бұрын

This part made me laugh so much

@cameliaturda6472

7 ай бұрын

​@@itsonlyliz9023😂

@divineenergy9646

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

"did he just curse at me in Spanish?!" *crying* 😭

@heathermartinez2954

5 ай бұрын

That got met too 😂😂

@HereThereClaire

5 ай бұрын

"Hold me back!" 😂

@divineenergy9646

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Lyrielonwind

4 ай бұрын

💃😂

The end 😂😂😂 “where’s your man card I’M GONNA RIP IT UP” ❤Your ability to play with yourself is gold

@sharongarrett4356

5 ай бұрын

Wait, what?!

@laurahosler1771

4 ай бұрын

That was hysterical!!

@alexismeskill5691

2 ай бұрын

This was The. Best. Line!

@sunlix_brownie_boy

2 ай бұрын

the response was even better; “they ripped it up years ago”

I think Jimmy does an amazing job showing the exasperation the rest of us feel at this kind of behavior. I know it is intended to be caricature, but the painful part is that we all know men that fit this caricature. The hobbies may be different (fishing, guns, woodworking, cars, etc. take your pick), but the use of jokes, especially little jabs to poke fun at the person trying to get them to be serious for 5 minutes (or a whole day) is spot on. This is such a good illustration of avoidant behavior, especially when it isn't overtly aggressive (that is saved for when you call them out on it).

@cadenorris4009

7 ай бұрын

As a man, I would feel incredibly disrespected if someone tried to FORCE me to do something like this. Why is it bad that he wants to do his hobbies? I hate videos like this because it always points men out to be the villains. They aren't, they're just men. Not women. We have our own unique way of expressing emotions and vulnerability, and that's perfectly okay. I don't see why we are trying so hard to turn men into women. Obviously if the man never wants to get vulnerable or intimate that's an issue, but let men be men, just like you expect your partner to not try to turn YOU into a man. Dont go into a relationship thinking you can change him.

@MrEmptyKay

7 ай бұрын

@@cadenorris4009 As a man, I think it is a cop-out when emotionally immature men hide behind masculinity to avoid connection with their partners. Real strength is being able to do both.

@crystalducharme939

7 ай бұрын

​@@cadenorris4009That's fine if you never intend to share a life with a woman. Otherwise this mindset in men is what causes women to realize they are better off alone, than to waste a life on a man that refuses to acknowledge the needs of his partner.

@DezMarivette

7 ай бұрын

@@cadenorris4009hobbies have a time and a place, that’s not a bad thing. It’s when people (not just men, women too) hide behind their hobbies that conflict gets bigger. Emotional Intelligence isn’t exclusive to one gender, it’s just shamed out of some people while younger. Channels like this are bite sized tools to help!

@lisafeck1537

7 ай бұрын

​@@cadenorris4009 This guy is hilarious. If you cannot laugh, enjoy, maybe learn something, then you have no sense of humor. It does all sound so feely, and weird, to some women too. You want to be treated as if you have no feelings? You speak angry, must be touching a nerve. Having no feelings is inhuman, useless in a real valued relationship. If you tried any of this stuff he is trying to teach, you will find it is attractive, sexy, fun, makes life richer, run more smoothly, less drama, for both in the relationship.

“Emotional intelligence” is the key to every successful relationship.

@darkcreatureinadarkroom1617

7 ай бұрын

Of any kind, not just romantic relationships.

@Rainxiety

7 ай бұрын

That and communication

@catz5377

6 ай бұрын

And it's sorely lacking in so many men..

@millermanhal

6 ай бұрын

I just keep my b in line. Be a man.

@dianalynn6247

6 ай бұрын

for both partners

“It appears we will be starting from a deficit.” Has me rolling😂

I am in awe of this man. He's doing the lords work. I will pray that your message goes far and wide Sir.

@babsbaba2518

3 ай бұрын

yes..he does..for real!😄

In this and in everything else, again and again: they're not incapable of acting right, they're unwilling to.

@dawndeleon8009

7 ай бұрын

Yes, these kind of men think being a good husband is being a simp.

@everydaytwiceonsundays4498

7 ай бұрын

@@dawndeleon8009 I know, right? I'm pretty close to deciding that a guy being called a simp is a green flag 😅

@Galactic_Ninja_Couple_0000

7 ай бұрын

I love the simps of the world ❤ they deserve the best women ❤

@Shawnee_Rose

7 ай бұрын

​@GalacticNinja_0000 Men who use words like simp treat the best women like dirt and end up middle-aged, bitter, and divorced because she finally met a man who doesn't. Meanwhile, he tells all his either also divorced and/or perpetually single or unhappily married friends how terrible women are and that he should've seen it coming because she was sooooo greedy and ungrateful after taking part of the house that she faithfully kept up, believing she could or should rely on him and that it would have become a home, only to eventually wisen up that all men ACTUALLY don't act like that. Having respect and consideration for your partner is not being a "simp" and does not and should not involve not having those things for yourself. Men shaming the good men out there as "simps" are only hurting the quality of the pool as a whole and inevitably hurting the men who fall for it. This isn't having a backbone. It's having insecurity.

@Galactic_Ninja_Couple_0000

7 ай бұрын

@@Shawnee_Rose Yes exactly my point

And this is why it’s good to have female friends growing up and as a young adult. You learn this stuff without even trying before you really need it most.

@realtalk4994

7 ай бұрын

Lol yeah right.

@hypnopompicfool985

7 ай бұрын

Depends on the crowd, I had friends who were girls when I was younger and all they taught me how to do was gossip and start drama. XD Then again my first ex GF was the one who taught me about trust and respect but she also convinced me to leave my whole friend group cause she believed strongly against people being able to change, then she dumped me later on when she wasn't able to conceptualize the different struggles I was going through with undiagnosed disorders. Lol. Buuut and idk if this counts but my fiance who is a guy but he's also nonbinary, he taught me boundaries and stayed with me while we both go through therapy and learn to be better people and more understanding of everyone. I think it's good we all start understanding each other as people and acknowledging the gender social expectations and how they teach men to hide all of their feelings except anger and teach women they have "too many" feelings when they talk about the unfairness of it all. If we start to see each other as all people though we stop objectifying females and start seeing each other as equals deserving of respect and understanding, then I feel things would be a lot better cause when It's become so much easier for me to empathise since I have done those thibgs.

@xtinkerbellax3

7 ай бұрын

You can always tell when men never socialized with women post puberty/grade school.

@Kelly_Ben

7 ай бұрын

​@@xtinkerbellax3when they lose their minds over anything to do with menstruation?? 😂😂

@claracatlady9844

7 ай бұрын

Yeah, it’s why I date guys with sisters or single moms. Same effect

An all day fishing session honestly sounds like a valid option to teach that type of stuff during the down time waiting for a catch

@OatmealTheCrazy

6 ай бұрын

I was gonna say this, seems like a great scenario for counseling.

@jackmanleblanc2518

6 ай бұрын

@@OatmealTheCrazy It's the way it should be done honestly. Men and women are different. Don't try to teach a man something the same way you would teach a woman. If one approach is consistently not working then maybe the problem isn't necessarily the men being coached, but the approach itself? I'm not sure why people like the poster of this short can't seem to understand such a simple concept.

@t00862

5 ай бұрын

you're not supposed to talk that time

@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet

5 ай бұрын

@@jackmanleblanc2518 SMH. PEOPLE are different. There are over 8 billion people in the world and I'm sure not all Men of one Region would think like all Men of another Region would. Same goes for Women. In more populated, dense area, feminine males and more masculine females exist. In more rural zones, more traditional roles take favor. In Scientific and Mathematical Fields, for example, we could've give a rats ass what vessel you have so as long as you have the mindset for Learning and Refining / Contributing in the Field of Study you're pursuing. I DO, however, agree that the SAME APPROACH may not work Per Person. There are SEVERAL Learning Styles as there are Teaching Styles. In more dense, populated areas, it is expected for a Teacher to be more Well-Rounded, regardless of their preferred Teaching Style to Student's Learning Style.

@rosaliabolo1962

5 ай бұрын

True. People are different. Teaching approach can vary to help out too. Though it makes me wonder... maybe, just maybe the topic is not considered important for a classroom section like say one maths topic, or a class on financial management. And in case this is coming from an uncertainty perspective ( I don't get what these people are yapping about), I will like to assure that EI is seriously not a big deal... or scary (as I finally realised). Just enlightening. Helped me understand why I react in certain ways and how to manage from there on 😊

Ok, this was priceless. I have no idea how you ended up in my feed, but I’m sold.

“Where’s your man card? I’m gunna ripe it up!!”

@jodilynn2017

7 ай бұрын

I had the very same thought!!!🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

@raraavis7782

7 ай бұрын

I laughed so hard at this 😂

@daniel_supreme

7 ай бұрын

He then said "it was ripped up years ago"

@amyocrowley5907

7 ай бұрын

I know I thought the same thing, hilarious!

@pip6602

6 ай бұрын

This man, is MORE MAN than any living man that I know!!!

Did he just curse at me in Spanish? Hold me back! 😂 Too good 👍

@sharongarrett4356

5 ай бұрын

And the buddy actually tries to do it!

"we bout to catch ourselves some bass!"😂😂😂 Jimmy you are a national treasure honey

Nice to hear a mature, descent, caring, compasionat man that actually cares for women, relationships, manners, kindness ect... God bless

@iwillrest4155

6 ай бұрын

Yes! ❤ So refreshing!

@ithinkiknowme6450

4 ай бұрын

Absolutely 💯

😂😂😂😂😂 I am a woman and I want to attend just to see the outcome.😂😂😂

@chromicapop4595

7 ай бұрын

Me too then get tacos

@darkcreatureinadarkroom1617

7 ай бұрын

I'll bring the popcorn! 🍿😂

@shadymccoy7

7 ай бұрын

I'll bring the sodas

@Suffi0903

7 ай бұрын

Same here. I'll bring ice cream 😂

@cheezykrafts8134

7 ай бұрын

In the Male Emotional Day Seminar, there will be a full wall one way mirror for the partners of the participants along with catering so as not to miss their partners' MEDS progress.

Not a man, but all of a sudden your videos are coming across my feed and have to say, thank you for making them. Cycles must break in each generation, and I appreciate you being such a strong soul and explaining to the world just the basics, love, understanding and compassion, is what it’s all about! Much peace to you, and happiness in your day🕊️🩵

@brendanbudniak2261

7 ай бұрын

Nah this stuff is a load of crap

@cocoabo3470

7 ай бұрын

​@@brendanbudniak2261it really isn't when you listen to how many people complain about their relationships being awful because neither side is willing to communicate. These videos are important to and have helped others as a wake-up call, even if they don't apply to you and your relationships.

@wordzmyth

7 ай бұрын

Yeah I hope the guys who have been spammed with the serious version of this man philosophy get some of this too. Also. Hi Brendan. So have you seen any other shorts of his?

@Koisuni

7 ай бұрын

@@brendanbudniak2261uh oh someones not emotionally intelligent

@brendanbudniak2261

7 ай бұрын

@@Koisuni you aren't?

"I shoulda gone to church!" is the funniest single line of the year.

😂😂😂😂 so true. You have a gift for normalizing relating to us with humor. Thank you.

I wish classes like this were mandatory for men. Sex ed isn’t enough, we all need a relationships and communication class

@cadenorris4009

7 ай бұрын

And who is going to enforce it?

@jd6331

7 ай бұрын

Yesss 🙌

@oskargrankall4551

7 ай бұрын

“For men” Your part of the problem

@spankeyfish

7 ай бұрын

For women too.

@jd6331

7 ай бұрын

@@spankeyfish ya everyone needs it

"You look mighty pretty in them wigs" 😂

@nikanejemison8790

25 күн бұрын

😂😂

I am down on the ground still laughing…this is priceless Jimmy!

Long overdue. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.

As a woman that grew up in Kentucky…….THANK YOU!!! Those are the most annoying and boring “men” in the world, but they truly believe that’s all there is. 🤦🏼‍♀️ It was rough going until I discovered the outside world. 😂

@CristianFelipeSanchezArias

5 ай бұрын

Cheers 🥂

@HeyCPP

4 ай бұрын

BBN!!! ❤❤❤

@lisetteem588

3 ай бұрын

there is more to life than a merry car. yes ive been there, but only to hawaii and LA. dont think i will go back.

His wife has got to be the happiest/ most secure woman on earth.

@MrSophire

6 ай бұрын

Five dollars says his wife is cheating on him. He is the “nice” guy.

@eshbena

6 ай бұрын

@@MrSophire Wow. You need to let go of the expectation that women will love you without you having to do any of the work in the relationship.

@MrSophire

6 ай бұрын

@@eshbena I am not a lesbian, I know women, He is a Nice guy which most woman say they want but turn around and cheat on them, I do expect men to work on their relationships but this is what women think they want,

@ZeroNumerous

6 ай бұрын

@@eshbena You need to get out of the expectation that women will love you.

@Ashbringer36

6 ай бұрын

20 bucks says he never checks her when she’s out of line and as a result dosen’t respect hi m and as a result he’s in the stage of marriage where the mans spirit gets borken until he’s nothing but a yes man.

I love this guy. He is truly amazing ❤❤❤ We are lucky to have smart and intelligent people like him. ❤❤❤ I am grateful for all the videos he is making, as he is doing it to help others. ❤❤❤

Honestly both genders can learn from this, men have different ways of communicating - it's important for guys to have emotional intelligence and empathy but women need to learn not to treat their partners like burdens when they try to reach out and be vulnerable

@WanitaLund

7 ай бұрын

There's a reason why we call it a partnership. Both sides have a responsibility to their partners and both sides are responsible. Marriage isn't easy, it's work

@PrajnaIsPrajna-exceptPrajna

7 ай бұрын

@@WanitaLundYeah and men aren’t afforded the luxury, it’s been so long since I’ve last cried; if I did so, I know that I’d be shamed for it and that would be remembered for years to come, I can’t be angry, or say how I feel for much the same way. It isn’t good for me either but I’m entirely lost to where I’d even start. Don’t ever raise your kids like I was

@WanitaLund

7 ай бұрын

@@PrajnaIsPrajna-exceptPrajna I recommend journalling, it'll help you express your emotions safely and let you process them in your own time. It's a good thing to want to change. I'm rooting for you! You can do it, everyone deserves the freedom to express themselves and to be vulnerable with a loved one

@psychicbyinternet

6 ай бұрын

@@WanitaLund Definitely agree, journalling is great for letting out your emotions. I do 3 pages or 30 min. of just stream of consciousness writing where I write whatever comes to mind even if it's something like "my butt itches" and it's very good for clearing your mind.

@liesareeasytospot99

5 ай бұрын

You don't want a man who gushes or cries in front of you, and you can't fix the way men think because the way men think is what builds and creates civilization.

You’re SO good at switching characters!! Excellent job on this one 🎉

@alex_blue5802

7 ай бұрын

No one can convince me that they are played by the same guy.

@a.b.2850

7 ай бұрын

@@alex_blue5802 hea really good, I get fooled too! The more vids he makes, the better he gets!! 😂

This is Netflix level writing! 😂

@Oddasshe5000

7 ай бұрын

He’s better than Netflix! 😂

@alex_blue5802

7 ай бұрын

Six seasons and a movie please!

@brendanbudniak2261

7 ай бұрын

100% agree. This is definitely as bad as Netflix writing

@Moraca101

7 ай бұрын

As a person who grew up with this shit and worse, I appreciate him calling these kinds of men out. If you havent had someone make jokes that are thinly veiled insults and threats only to eventually drop the act once they realize youre still pushing, I hope you never have to. These are the type of people that made me carry a tazer inside my own home cause they snap at a moment's notice. The worst kind of jackass-in-the-box.

@ZerdsJames

6 ай бұрын

Thats a compliment lmao

Thank you Jimmy for all that your are doing. You give me hope for our society and our relationship with not only our partner but anyone else for that matter. I see you as this Waymaker or frontiersmen, because you are paving the way for men to truly find a safe place to heal. You are literally creating the space for men to feel safe in their feelings. You are amazing. So from the mother of a young man and the aunt of an adolescent man, I thank you for paving the way for them.

Priceless, hilarious and appreciate you explaining what women need ❤

“No that’s someone else” had me DYING

@kr0wn.aSSaSSin

6 ай бұрын

Same 😂😂 lmaoo

“I shoulda went to church.” 🤣

@olive4naito

5 ай бұрын

From the looks of it he already did. 😅

@AdrianColley

4 ай бұрын

That's my new favourite bad review line.

@3Soliman

4 ай бұрын

hhhhhhh that made me laugh

“ where’s your man card ? I’m gonna rip it up ! .” 🤣😂 yep spot on the typical response !

He impersonated typical men so well

Oh my gracious the accuracy 😂

lol so subtle too with the “tell your wives that all her money went to waste” I dig it

@destructorzz7197

6 ай бұрын

All her money? You mean all his money, the money he worked hard to bring in.

@susieqbrown

5 ай бұрын

perfect example of why these videos exist.@@destructorzz7197

@Chelleme

5 ай бұрын

​@destructorzz7197 that is the point. He's wasting his own money. The money she put on a credit card and he will have to pay at the end of the month.

😂🤣😂 These short clips just keep getting funnier. Great job, Jimmy!

I LOVE this! U crack me up! BEST PSYCHOLOGY EVER!

I'm an old lady, not married, and I wish my man could have seen things like this back in the day. Loved the guy. Left him. He could have been a good man. My life and my daughter's would have been much better.

@user-nf3pe6mq2i

2 ай бұрын

The "he could have been a good man" part hit so hard. It's the unwillingness that just kills me.

Start from a deficit for sure !! 🤣🤣 As soon as Adam blamed Eve the deficit began !!

@julier.1902

7 ай бұрын

I agree fully with that! What a wimp he was.

@DG-nk5nv

7 ай бұрын

I've always said that! Eve offered him the apple ... she didn't threaten him, she didn't force him ... He knew he wasn't supposed to take it. Yet he, like a child, deflected blame. They both broke the rules! OWN IT!

@rdb4996

7 ай бұрын

Oop 😂

@sonja_rademacher

7 ай бұрын

​@@DG-nk5nvSounds like a story I once heard, about a virus and a so called vaccine😂

@BIBLE-a-s-m-r

7 ай бұрын

lol

Just FYI, the importance of emotional intelligence doesn't negate the importance of fishing or guns.

@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet

5 ай бұрын

Why not both? I mean there's a lot of downtime in fishing. He could talk to them then. Guns though? Loud noises, can't hear other things, not great... except for after a good session!

This is so on point!! Sad.. and funny 😂 Men Are EXACTLY Like This...😂😂

This is the best video I have ever watched on this topic!! Forget Dr. Phil!!!! I'm still laughing!!! At loud!! These are the "men" that never grew up, they are boys and are shocked that women have expectations!! Their mommas must have made these boys the kings of the house, could never do anything wrong, totally got cuddled!! and catered too!! All they had to do was breath, be a boy and ask for all their needs being met. Years later, they know nothing about relationships!!!

@user-nf3pe6mq2i

2 ай бұрын

Yep. And they'll run right back to mama when you leave their asses and she'll make em worse.

I would love to send this to some of my therapy clients.

@FoidsRtrashmisogynyisgigabased

6 ай бұрын

Of course you would. Therapy is a misandrist scam

"did he just curse at me in Spanish?" 😂

You're doing great. Wear wigs to share if you want. Good to hear both sides. People can be so shallow. The content is so valuable!

This man is hilarious even when speaking the truth in love!! 👍🏾👏🏽😂😂😂

Fishing and guns nailed it 😆

@chromicapop4595

7 ай бұрын

The blue collar comedy tour confirmed fishing

Hysterical. Thanks for the laugh. Usually, these make me sad cause I don't know how to get my husband to listen. This is great!

Oh my gosh. This is golden. 😂😂😂 so many iconic lines. No need to post quotes. Just need to rewatch the whole dang thing. BUTTTTT.... i love the part of... "Did i forget that i died and this is hell?" "Should have went to church" 💀 As a Christian, this was hilarious. 😂😂😂

“where’s your man card, I’m gonna rip it up!” needs an award and I will be using it (with credit) 😅

"thats not a real word" 😂😂😂😂😂

@HereComesKarma

7 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 ikr!

For someone so emotionally intelligent he doesn’t really seem to understand how condescending this is to men

I fucking love you! Thank you for being You and Spreading and Sharing The Love So we all can be the best we can be!! ❤❤

How does this guy not have his own show? 😂❤🎉

When i found my now husband one of the first vulnerable conversations we had was about a cronic condition i have that will eventually put me in a wheelchair full time. Like 3 weeks in it was getting more serious than i was expecting and i was like basically if youre going to run away i need you to do it now and not 3 months from now when i let myself get attached. His response to the whole thing was "shit. Im so sorry. Can i help? Are there things to do about it?" And the answer was no and i wasnt looking for solitions but he actually gave a fuck and that was more than i was expecting. Kept him. Worth it. Turns out queer men are more sensitive XD

@psychicbyinternet

6 ай бұрын

That's so sad that you were expecting him to run. Apparently that's really common with conservative husbands. It's awful. I'm glad he came through.

@kitcat-xn1mn

6 ай бұрын

@@psychicbyinternet conservative?

@OatmealTheCrazy

6 ай бұрын

​@@kitcat-xn1mn Yeah, (cishet, mostly?) men very commonly leave relations when their partner falls ill, at least far moreso than vise versa. It's a very known thing for cancer especially.

@kitcat-xn1mn

6 ай бұрын

@@OatmealTheCrazy the way I read the comment initially sounded like the commenter was trying to imply my husband is conservative and I was like "I mean were gay.." XD But no I fully expected him to bolt and I'm really happy he didn't.

@Emma-Maze

5 ай бұрын

​@@kitcat-xn1mnI'm glad your partner is caring. Wishing you good luck and lots of strength adjusting to your disability love 💛🌈

This is hilarious! You are so funny!! 😂😂😂 “from the looks of it we are starting from a deficit” yup…that’s what we have to work with. 😂

He started & finished with the word "listen".

This is possibly the best one I've seen. I laughed so hard. @Jimmy, your acting is fantastic!

LLLOOOOVEEEE YOUR CONTENT. Such a gem!

@mochagoddess7386

7 ай бұрын

😂😅

“Oooo so pretty” “Hold me back” “You’re charging me for this?!” I love this guy, this is hilarious.

Kudos! Finally, a talented man who can shed light on this epidemic of neglect of acknowledging feelings, validation and how it really affects people - especially in relationships, but these people are also even confused and empty when they are alone

This feel like an Everybody Loves Raymond skit! Oh Debra, the bar was so low it didn’t exist anymore, I feel you!!

😂😂😂this is the best thing I've seen all day

“Hold me back” 😂 dead 😂

You really do look pretty in that auburn wig, it really makes your blue eyes stand out. not even joking.

"you dont need anymore guns" "are you even a man" bruuuuh😂😂😂 👌🏿 hilarious

@ivankalash2696

6 ай бұрын

Depending on a given situation, anyone might need another gun. Everything else he brings up makes sense otherwise.

This was easily your funniest one yet! Keep it up!! 😂😂

Flashbacks to me trying to tell my ex that when I'm venting about something I'm looking for validation and not a solution, and then having to explain to him was validation is (he never remembered)

"Where is your man card? I'm gonna rip it up!!" I laughed so hard I coughed

OMG!!! Jimmy you are outdoing yourself!!! I am rolling on the floor laughing!!! You are so precious OMG!!!! Too CUTE 🤣💗

You are good!! I wonder what the ratio of amount of self-help and learning women do to have better relationships is compared to men? Honestly I am so curious. Cuz every woman I know wants to improve her relationship and has listened to at least one thing read one book done something, if not 100s! Dear God please help us even things out we want great sex & relationships with people we love!!

@crystalducharme939

7 ай бұрын

This!!!!

@crystalducharme939

7 ай бұрын

Been working on myself, healing codependence , stored past trauma... for almost 5 years now. Waiting to see my roomate, I mean " husband?" , to do the same.

@mica4977

7 ай бұрын

I'd be curious how much functional help boys & men have at their disposal throughout their lives compared to girls and women. I hear guys aren't much for talking their emotions/troubles out in order to process them, so more physical activities with proper mentors they can learn from & mimic healthy relationship from sounds better for them. Tho are such side activities even funded & available for them?

@wolfofthewest8019

6 ай бұрын

Considering most women are emotionally immature, have no real control over their emotions, and are completely incapable of empathizing with men, I would say women have a lot more to learn. Women's problem is they all want to fix their relationships, but almost no women want to consider the possibility that the common factor in their unhappy relationships is them, not *literally everything else in the world.*

For most men, including me, being vulnerable with a significant other is almost impossible, because 9 outa 10 times, your vulnerability is either used against you, will be told to deal with it and man up, or the significant other will not be as attracted to you anymore. I've had multiple instances of this with my past relationships. After I started being vulnerable with only my close friends and my therapist, I started to not have any more issues. It's easier said than done. I'm currently in a relationship and I'm happy and they are happy.

@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet

5 ай бұрын

This can happen to either gender. Some people want to be vulnerable and loved ...and some other people have toxic AF unspoken expectations about you. Either way, I'm glad you got out of those past relationships. Glad you got out of it before it drained anymore of your time. Time is precious, we only get so much of it on this World, so it must be used with much love and will or at least accepting contentment. Take care, and may you stay happy.

@rydandraco2260

5 ай бұрын

Thank you, and I wish the same sentiment towards you!@@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet

Omg this is so incredibly on point it’s painful

When you know a guy is successfully married and giving advice to people. He knows something.

@chromicapop4595

7 ай бұрын

I’ve known guys at college who were baby crazy and cheaters making excuses you’d be surprised

@spook6394

7 ай бұрын

@@chromicapop4595the guy actually cheated on his wife, he’s got it in his bio lol

@oOIIIMIIIOo

6 ай бұрын

It seems he learned from the hard way, because he wanted to.

The people that think men don't know how to be vulnerable are the same people who drag that shit back up the moment they get upset.

@FundyisleLegacy

7 ай бұрын

Exactly right

@jenhari3432

6 ай бұрын

It's hard to talk about something that's resisted and discouraged from talking about, when upset that brings an opportunity to talk about it, or one has simply then had enough and won't be quiet about it anymore.

@ZeroNumerous

6 ай бұрын

@@jenhari3432 You're absolutely right. It is incredibly hard to talk about how every woman who has to coax vulnerability out of her man will then turn around and stab him with those very same vulnerabilities. Wild how women who are actually empathetic and understanding find vulnerable men everywhere, but self-assured harpies only ever seem to find the closed off types. But no one wants to talk about that.

@jenhari3432

6 ай бұрын

@@ZeroNumerous I guess I misunderstood the comment, I see that now, sorry for assuming something else 😂 He meant that women who drag what they've talked about while being vulnerable up in a fight. Yeah, that is an underhanded narcissistic tactic for sure, I agree! I don't know why I thought he meant things that they needed to talk about that he did once while being vulnerable, about how she's being neglected somehow, I guess I reacted out of my trauma. I know all to well how it feels to have my emotions and needs ignored unfortunately, though it could be worse I always see that, but as a kid, especially, it's tough.

Yess! What a great pitch!! 😂 He captured the emotional spectrum and responses so well! 👏🏻👏🏻

Impeccable editing! Timing is so on point!

Spouses only deserve to have their feelings validated if they also validate the feelings and hobbies (like fishing) of their spouse in return. It's a 2-way street and nobody is talking about how little genuine compassion and empathy men get in society, but instead focus on how little they give, such as in your channel.

@MrHnnnnnnnngh

7 ай бұрын

Yep, and thats his target audience. No accountability.

@Ellman1231

6 ай бұрын

Tons of people are talking about this, & the damage that this lack of compassion does to young boys & men. They just might not be in the social circles you run in, or get mentioned in the hobbies you follow or the media you watch. One possible reason being that it's an uncomfortable topic, & many of the people in these circles/spaces aren't willing to talk about something this uncomfortable knowing a lot of guys will tune out, walk away, or stop watching. A question that comes up for me with other guys when this topic comes up is, do you want to be more vulnerable with the women in your life & for them to give you that compassion when you are, or do you not want to be vulnerable with them, & for them to be perfectly OK with that?

@wolfofthewest8019

6 ай бұрын

@@Ellman1231 I don't find any value in being "vulnerable," which to me just seems to mean living in your bad emotions and not dealing with them. Whenever I see people being "vulnerable" my first thought is that they lack any sort of emotional control, and my second thought is that they're manipulating me. The only people I want to talk about my problems with are the people who are causing my problems and the people who can help solve my problem. And frankly, my problems tend to be of the "toilet keeps backing up" variety, and I'd rather discuss the issue with a plumber than a woman who just wants to know how a backed-up toilet makes me feel.

@Ellman1231

6 ай бұрын

@@wolfofthewest8019 Thanks for replying and clarifying where you're coming from. I'd like to offer a different angle on what being "vulnerable" in a healthy way means, which is being real, authentic about who you are, what you want, what you feel, and what you're capable of. It is NOT flailing around emotionally, lashing out, or using others as an excuse to avoid expressing or handling their emotions responsibly. I'd also add that this concept of vulnerability disagrees with the idea that emotional control=I push away any negative emotion I have and never let anyone know about it. Me telling you I feel a certain negative emotion today or right now doesn't mean I'm not dealing with it, it just lets you know where I'm at. The statement you used about the backed-up toilet is actually a pretty decent example of vulnerability. When there's a problem, you're generally going to better in general if the talking you do about it is based on fixing it ASAP, and just processing the problem itself with someone who can't help you fix it will probably lead to you stressed, frustrated, impatient, etc (I'm guessing here based on what you wrote). Just adding those feeling words is often gonna help a woman in your life be on the same page with you. Don't wanna use the touchy-feely emotion words? That's fine, it might sound like this instead: "You know, honey, I get that you want to have a conversation right now, but until I can get ahold of a good plumber to fix this stupid toilet it's gonna be hard for me to give you my full attention." No over-processing or wallowing in emotions here. Just being real about where you're at in this moment, and what you're able or willing to give the other person. We can also use your suspicion about vulnerability being manipulation. If I'm really practicing this kind of vulnerability, I might actually say something like, "You know, I'm so fucking pissed off right now, the story I'm telling myself is that the only way to get what I really want out of you is to basically trick you into doing it." The other person might be upset or disappointed, and that can suck sometimes. Practicing vulnerability requires being brave enough and confident enough that you can handle whatever comes out of it. You don't have to practice it with every person you know. In fact, there are some unhealthy people that it'd a bad idea to be vulnerable around at all, because they will use your vulnerability to hurt/manipulate YOU. But what Jimmy here is making the case for is that practicing it with the people you care the most about is going to make those relationships better and actually get you what you want more often.

@wolfofthewest8019

6 ай бұрын

@@Ellman1231 "I'd like to offer a different angle on what being "vulnerable" in a healthy way means, which is being real, authentic about who you are, what you want, what you feel, and what you're capable of." Okay, well, that sounds fine and is basically how I live my life...but I am constantly accused of being toxically stoic and being incapable of showing vulnerability, while all the men who are cited to me as examples of men who are capable of vulnerability are emotional messes whose lives are in a constant state of disaster. So I don't get it.

I love all the characters you play. You’re really good!!

Can one of these types of influencers talk about both sides? I see a few of his shorts, but they are all focused on what men can change (which is great), but I would also like to better understand my husband and his need. It's a two way partnership.

@yvonnemartinas1922

4 ай бұрын

he does talk to both sides. just maybe not as much as youd like.

When you said I'm gonna rip it up I laughed so hard. Will there be a fishing break 😂😂😂

I am married to à Finnish person, and they have nationaly a problem on expressing feeling as they don't have words for it but how it look from the outside. And I am French, so there is a massive cultural difference. An example of understands, foe him, I have 2 emotional status panic or ok ... and when I "panic," meaning I am frustrated, angry, sad, or annoyed... then I am a monster in the relationship. When I ask him why he is angry, he is act surprised because for him, he is not because he is sitting on a sofa and not behaving as the most violent, angry behaviour. Or when I ask him how he fell or if he is ok (when clearly there is something wrong as he is stressed), it is highly highly disrespectful especially if there is someone else around. I wish that my husband understands that he is suffering still from burnout and depression. He understands the concept, he manage people, and he'll help them all to be better, but when it come to himself, he refuse to see he is not well, angry, or wrong. And as much as he helps everyone, I take everything on my shoulder in the relationship because he does not have the emotional maturity to understand how to argue maturely and reparing relationships. He is in denial of his own action. So how to teach emotional intelligence, show him movies or series with good exemple ...

@berguaFuture

7 ай бұрын

It sounds like my Danish husband. 😢

@viktoriavichkutkina9147

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. This is common also for Eastern European guys

@suvireijo

7 ай бұрын

As finnish woman I can relate. Arguing in finnish relationship happens with silent treatment. Ask him to take a walk after giving him the topic to argument before he leaves. He is ready to talk after one-two hours. Our finnish men call this to dog treatment, because women kick them out the house to have "ulkoruokinta"(meaning eating outside). So hopefully this helps for future fights. Also if he is originally from small town, in Finland we help our communities as small town folk. Better to have 1st argument right away about just that he isn't giving himself free time as he is always jumping to help others. That way you get him change by baby steps. Finnish people value alone time. So pointing it out that way you bring him to value himself. After he gets bored of "his time" he might start doing things at home. Or wait a bit longer to have an argument about investing time on the relationship. Then the other thing about his burnout. We have in our culture a habit to go secluded sommer huts/cottages/small houses, so adding weekend vacations just for the two of you could make him start to be more energised. I know as a finnish women we act the same sometimes like our countries men. So this is my way to keep relationship going as same time charging my batteries. Sorry about the workaholic side of our culture. I need other people telling me when I work too much. That's why I love them for it. So being loving and telling him he has gone overboard, (sometimes even repeatedly) is a good thing. I wish you guys luck❤ And if he married you he is a keeper as many finnish men don't like to marry at all, because how the marriage isn't seen important in our culture anymore. So he loves you deeply🥰

@dianefeve9704

7 ай бұрын

@suvireijo Thank you so much for your feedback, it help so much, and now I understand why he feels the need to go for a walk or ignore me for hours. Your kind words are well received 🥰 Where I grew up when we had a fight / argument, we would site down, talk (often laud), take break, start again but at the end we hear each other and had a chance to develop and question why we felling that way. After the fight, we repart the damage done by sometimes hard stuff sayed from both sides, taking accountability of our says and actions, and the bond is greater. So, as you see, those two strategies are not really compatible and hurt both sides. My dad raised me with this say every time we argue, " You are responsible for your anger," but my husband can not get it. As a lot, we bleme what hurt instead to understand why it hurt. I tried to write him a letter yesterday and it kind of work. No blame, no telling what went wrong, just told him that I was stressed anxious because, at the moment, it is stressful for many aspects and using images to describe how it feels physically make him understood and I only ask him to cuddle me at the end as it was only what I was needing. And he did. I feel that direct and verbal approaches make him feel under attack. That way, it is more composed and calm.

@suvireijo

7 ай бұрын

@@dianefeve9704 I understand. Well done with letter❤️ We finnish are some what ackward to share feelings. Specially men, because in ww2 our grandparents lost the war, all of them had trauma and our economy was bad. So staying silent was imbedded in our culture. So children and their children learn the traits of being silent. But if you want cuddles. Start hugging him when he goes to work and comes from work. When you guys wake up, then when you go to sleep. After a year it becomes more natural for any man. And you start getting cuddles out of the blue too😊 Sometimes women need to show how they want them to be treated.

Omg, makes you wanna skip the entire conversation. Been there

🙌🏻 as a woman I have to say thank you so very much, tend to get women and men so accurate on their actions, responses and the demeanor of couples. WITH YOU ON HERE TEACHING MEN AND WOMEN THE RIGHT WAY TO ACT TOWARD EACH OTHER! THE WORLD MAY HAVE A CHANCE AFTER ALL PLEASE KEEP SPREADING YOUR WORD AND YOUR VIDEOS BECAUSE THEY ARE AWESOME JUST RELATIONSHIP UP'S AND DOWNS♥️

These skits are pure Gold🤣🥰

🤣 "where's your man card I'm gonna Rrrip it up!" Xcept I'm having a feeling that someone actually might have said this.

@tamaradavis2276

7 ай бұрын

Said with the same hostility as "you're a feminist, aren't you?"

Oh this is spot…. Brilliant 🤩 ❤️💯💯💯👍🏼. Funny side too .. But soooo spot on Emotional Intelligence.. MEN have them …….. before ever dating a Man make sure he has Emotion intelligence . But small boy in man’s skin don’t .

@pattyofurniture

7 ай бұрын

If I waited for that, I'd probably die waiting. I pass it on as I'm learning it myself. Do you really have so many options that you can make that a deal breaker out of the gate?

@happilydivorced3235

7 ай бұрын

Very frustrating, I know.

@OatmealTheCrazy

6 ай бұрын

​@@pattyofurniture No, you just become comfortable with the "die waiting" option as it's commonly the better one.

@pattyofurniture

6 ай бұрын

@@OatmealTheCrazy that might be true for you but it isn't for me. I love the way good relationships improve the quality of my life.

“This is a whole day,” 😂I am so blessed I somehow managed to find myself in such a relationship predicament that I found you! Your humor has helped me be more gracious with myself and understand my partner better.

"Did I forget that I died?" 💀

Always accurate, Jimmy!!!

People want to be vulnerable. Some just have so many defensive strategies that they are incapable of being vulnerable and some don't even say they want to be vulnerable. But deep down, we all want it. Vulnerability can be thought, everyone can learn it and the best way to try to be vulnerable is with your partner. They know you and they want you to be vulnerable, if they don't react with another defense.

These videos only get better! Great job!! Sooooo valuable!

"I should have went to church" and the way the "student" said it was the best one, IMHO! 🤣

I laughed at this a lot. Do you think that you could make a video about having a partner with autism who has a lot of trouble recognizing and responding to emotions? (Both their own and their partner's)

@julier.1902

7 ай бұрын

My ex is autistic, I believe. But he's always been unwilling to do anything about stuff like this. That much selflessness makes him break out in hives or something.

@seajelly2421

7 ай бұрын

I checked that I hadn't written that comment and forgotten about it. Same boat.

@JenniferJohnson-ub3gt

7 ай бұрын

Me too. It's very difficult.

@Mary-Ann_B_Mabaet

5 ай бұрын

The only easiest way would be to try to express emotions in a very rationalized way, like in the eyes of an INTJ or a Psychologist. I read some people with autism are very exceptional at rationalizing; however, leaving the emotional element behind. Describing the emotion would be easier for some than simply expressing it and expecting them to follow suit. Or coming up with an analogy that would make sense to specific mindsets when spoken rationally. Example: A Shrewd Business Man proudly states he can't feel emotions. You state an analogy: "So, if you had a Presentation to do Tomorrow and all of it was Wiped with no Back Up Data, you wouldn't feel internally intense? Mad? Annoyed? Stressed? If you felt any of these, no matter how repressed and small it might be, even if you immediately took objective in regards to it a moment thereafter, it's still an emotion." Not sure if that helped. If it did, I hope you and your partner can come up with some wonderful rational analogies for each other! Like a bunch of systematic poetry

A FISHING BREAK?😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

"From the looks of it, we're starting from a deficit" broke me...😂😂😂

Ahahahaaa!!!! You've captivated my time on KZread .. 😂 what a blessing to so many.