Very Victorian. This advice might actually be helpful for some people with social anxiety as well. It gives structure and focus to what could otherwise become a stressful situation dealing with a group.

@AngeniPretty

4 ай бұрын

I hope it helps people!! I struggle with social situations still, but practice and coping mechanisms make it easier for sure!

The sitting rules sound like how they thought us how to sit for an interview in that one class in highschool, there was even a bit about having your palms down on your legs if you get sweaty hands so you’re not seen wiping your hands when getting up to shake hands at the end

@AngeniPretty

5 ай бұрын

Wow! That's a great tip haha.

According to classic manner guidelines that I know of, you're supposed to sit straight and basically not use the back of your chair, yes. It also makes sense when you put your bag behind you on the seat of the chair, which you should do instead of putting it on the ground or table (unless there is a better place for it, of course). I also once saw a video explaining that you're supposed to stir your tea back and forth instead of in circles, to avoid the spoon clinking against the cup. Overall, I totally agree with you: It's always good to be considerate of others, but don't forget to have fun!

@AngeniPretty

5 ай бұрын

Ohh those are all helpful tips tbh!!

This guide is actually very helpful for socializing lol!!❤❤

@AngeniPretty

5 ай бұрын

Aww yay! I'm so glad you found it helpful

Fun video. Often at buffets the venue requires a new plate every time due to health and safety laws. ☕️

@AngeniPretty

6 ай бұрын

Ohh that's good to know!! Thank you!!

I was also invited and it’ll also be my first time in Lolita! Also, the video was actually a little helpful since I’ve never attended a tea party!

@AngeniPretty

5 ай бұрын

Yayy!! Target audience found haha

Great video! I don't see many lolita videos about etiquette at tea parties or events.

@AngeniPretty

6 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching! I thought it was pretty a underrepresented topic too!

this was a cute video! looking forward to the fashion week vlog :)

@AngeniPretty

6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!!

Such a great video!! Looking forward to the NYC video!

@AngeniPretty

6 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching!! I'll try to have that out quickly

Your blouse is so pretty! I like the bib yoke thing that's going on.

@AngeniPretty

3 ай бұрын

Thank you!!

I just found your channel and as a fellow lolita I am immediately obsessed, this was so entertaining, it really made my night!! I subscribed so fast haha, I've really been needing more lolita creators on my youtube feed. Your Usakumya sewing video also made me want to finally try my hand at my own old school Usakumya! ❤️ I hope you keep making videos in the future too!

@AngeniPretty

3 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!! Comments like this are what keeps me going tbh

I remember on my first tea party i asked for some srcambled eggs and coffee and i got sooo much hate for my choice 😂

Thank you for sharing the spirit of Gothic Lolita :)

@AngeniPretty

3 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching!!

thanks to you i know Baby is gonna be on new york fashion week!!! i'm gonna try and view the stream on the day of if i can, but i'll look forward to your video about it :D

@AngeniPretty

5 ай бұрын

I hope you're able to!! If not I'll do my best to recap!!

omg ur house looks so beautiful!!! do u think that you would ever be open to doing a house tour?!!!

That was such a nice video

@AngeniPretty

6 ай бұрын

I'm so happy you enjoyed it!

All these years I've been sitting wrong at tea parties! Luckily so has everyone else so no-one noticed :)

@AngeniPretty

6 ай бұрын

me too >.< I would have to focus non stop to sit up straight like that haha

Congratulations!!!! I'll be eagerly awaiting that video ~

@AngeniPretty

6 ай бұрын

Thank you soo much!! I'll try to get it edited and posted right away!

Sitting so far away from the back of the chair seems so uncomfortable to me, but I guess it looks cute! Congrats again on the ticket and I look forward to the vlog!!

@AngeniPretty

6 ай бұрын

I totally agree!! I don't think it improved the look that much either haha Thank you so much!! I'm hoping I can do the event justice!!

@nephee7359

6 ай бұрын

i guess its more about "sitting elegant" 😅 you're more likely to sink down if you lean into the chair, this would look more slouchy and that's the thing you are supposed to avoid i mean, i will sit more straight up, if i sit a bit away from the back of the chair tbh 😅 but yes, it is uncomfortable 😂

where is the first clip from? introducing the shinjuku store

@AngeniPretty

3 ай бұрын

It's from Lifestyle of goth-loli girls & Mana Sama interview!

Honestly I wanted to go the New York Fashion show. But couldn't due certain circumstances also question? Since New York is hosting BTSSB Fashion week. Do you need to wear BTSSB Lolita products only? Or could I wear other Lolita brands and accessories to go to the Lolita Fashion in New York? 🤔

@AngeniPretty

5 ай бұрын

There was no requirement for this specific show to wear any lolita items. It tends to vary from show to show though!

this is very late, but what dress where you wearing in this please? It's lovely

@AngeniPretty

3 ай бұрын

Its BABY's Chelsea JSK! Not sure which year though

Not sitting back in the chair is a weird one to me.

@AngeniPretty

5 ай бұрын

Honestly same haha, I think my posture would be more easily maintained using the chair

😣 promo sm