RED FLAG. When a disagreement or misunderstanding happens, they turn into your enemy. Even if they apologize about it. ⛳🥵

@susanparkes5096

3 ай бұрын

My red flags are 1. They've cheated on a partner in the past. 2. They can't string a sentence together in messages. 3. They never use words of more than two syllable or understand you if you do. 4. They declare they're falling in love with you within the first couple of dates.

red flag....how about the guy who never stops talking about themselves and never ask you anything

@MrLIgerzero14

3 ай бұрын

Pre ordered

@random19911004

3 ай бұрын

Isn’t that Chad that you girls all love lol

@richardcooke1153

3 ай бұрын

That’s a red flag parade

@dianabilichenko3544

3 ай бұрын

Yes, I totaly disregarded.. 😢

@Vj9516

3 ай бұрын

Omg yessss, this is a huge one!!!!

Mr Hussey always looks as if he really, really loves this and his energy is filled with so much vitality. Beautiful energy around him and coming from his.

Hi from Australia 🇦🇺 I just pre-ordered your book. Can’t wait to read it. Two years after a heartbreaking abusive decade long relationship I went on a date last week. He was amazing, we connected quickly, our banter was fun and enjoyed each other’s company but 14 days on, no more. Im not upset he was upfront and Im glad of this. Will keep going as we need to do, but I wish I could meet a nice man again soon. Till then I will keep working on me. Thanks for all you do Matt. ⭐️

@debdanes8513

3 ай бұрын

Me too Australian and can't wait for my book to arrive 🎉

Missed live chat. Enjoying now

🎉🎉🎉 here from the middle of Middle East Crisis.. focusing on red flags is my concern 😂😂

I love that you are doing LIVES now!!!!! AWESOME!!!!!

Hey Matthew Greetings from Nigeria Your teachings has really taught me a lot

Phenomenal help thru a tough time, thank you!

Best coach ever!

Red flags? So bad at seeing them while I'm in love. Always finding excuses for my parter,even if it hurts me. Then when I feel like they dont invest much in relationship,I am angry,so after breakup I become the "bad guy" and "manipulator". So sad how true love is hard to find in our era. Everything is a lie.

So glad you talked about inconsistency and how they can't have the genre of music that you associate them with.

I totally adore your outlook !

Thank you for existing

All my exes have been literally unfaithful ! I just give too much. I’ve learned so much from you Matthew. Not putting up with anything like that at all!

What can I say … just love you! ❤

38:00 That analogy is amazing.

Have to get this book!

I love using the we'll see comment. Because it allows you to take things more simply.

Crocs have a time a place. Around the house or garden etc... but out on a date or work? Hard no 😂😂Lol

Picked up my book last week 🇨🇦

I just confirmed a relationship as of last night Aus time!!! Thank you, thank you!!!

My recent breakup, he wasn't manipulative with love bombing, but the second things got real, he freaked out, shut down, and when I asked him about it, he left.

Enjoy New York ❤

And about the book, sorry what's is different on this from the first one?? Tku for the croks show it made my train travel lighter❤

Attention is not intention. ❤

Love 💕 you!!!!!

That's what I heard from my 14 y.o. yesterday. Crocs are supposed to be in vogue this summer (at least for teens). My jaw just dropped..😮

If I had preordered it a few months ago and already have access to love life course... Is there anything I am missing that I am I gaining access to? So excited by the way!

A month into dating my ex I’d still say things like “if we’re still together, sure!” when he wanted to make plans for the future. He finally said “do you think I’m going somewhere or something??” I said I didn’t want to fall too fast or get ahead of myself, and my last couple relationships only lasted 3-4 months. Sure enough a month and a half, maybe 2 months later he ended things (supposedly because he wants kids and doesn’t believe me when I say I do too). I called him out on saying he wasn’t going anywhere when I was trying to protect myself, and then there he goes….

Hello from Canada!

Biggest red flag I experienced was controlling behavior.

Glad it's a Hard back!😂

Ordered 2!

Preorder!

Greetings from Laredo, Texas

Pre-ordered Kindle

Hi Matt. Augusta Western Australia.

Preorder

Hello from Mexico!

Lack of respect

No crocs 😂😂

Hey Matthew Greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪

@maeveclarke2622

3 ай бұрын

Another greeting from ireland

Playing, hope and Beeing stupid. And they don't want to loose your love like a fantasy. They can't be real.

"I'm a nice guy" *gives his housekey to you after 2 weeks/months of knowing you... could be an abuse trap once you move your stuff in* *drinks every day, doesn't claim to be an alcoholic* *unkind comments toward other women/unkind to any other stranger... people crossing the street, service workers, etc*

@cyndigooch1162

3 ай бұрын

He's either a delusional person, or outright lied, because he's clearly not "nice" (I don't like that word anyway) and has red flags galore! 🙁

I just ordered

It's like socks with sandals 😂

Hei Matthew. Love from Kjersti. Norway

Hi from Nashville

My narscissist ex husband love bombed me with in days of meeting me.... Took me on a 2 week trip across the country, within a few days after coming back he talked me into quitting my job to move in with him( he is a Uber wealthy man and promised to take care of me) everything was wonderful until two weeks after I married him ... Then the other shoe dropped😢

O-m-g - you just made me understand love bombing Matthew- I didn't like this guy, my friends and I met these guys when we were teens... he then introduced me to his family as his gf & I almost cried. I took him aside & asked what he was doing & he said he wanted to be with me...may I tell you he was the most dangerous person I ever encountered? Big time stalker...he had that mindset, if iI can't have you Noone can! Had to get police, courts, name changes, moves...yes - that bad' for decades...

Don’t forget to add the crocks decorations in the holes! He can spell out your name. So romantic! 😂

I tried to order the book, however, Austria is not listed. I wrote to the Team via the link but no reply. I feel a bit distraught.

Hi!!!

I hurt yet also want to find love ❤️

Sry i missed your live.

Nope! Let’s talk about YOURS! 🫵

I've only got 13 percent battery, unlucky for me

Hey Matthew, maybe you could give talks about online dating

I love my Crocs.

Apologies!!

Greetings from south africa

Hi from West Virginia

Hi Mathew, Is it a red flag, when you meet someone on dating and you talk on phone 4 times a day. What if you fall in love, at all sweet things to you.

I want to buy this book so much !! In Russia I will be able to buy it only with OZON platform. ☺️

It's a pity that being genuinely simple to discover someone is considered as a red flag, I don't talk about faking emphatic speech to manipulate someone but just be spontaneous with someone else. As introvert intuitive feeler we can easily connect and merge but it's not welcome in this lost society...

My question: I connected to a man on a dating app, he perused me intensely…we talked for 2 weeks then meet in person for a first date, he brought me flowers and was very nervous! He loved bombed me until we meet! He said something about my small diamond earrings & then asked what kind of car I drove….when I said a nice car he started shutting down ! He told me he drove a Toyota after selling his Mercedes, hmmm?? He seemed to shut down & walked me to my car! He hugged me like a buddy would and did NOT ask me out for a second date! He ghosted me for 4 days and then called me to say there was NO CHEMISTRY!! I said NO PROBLEM, I agree!! I believe he felt he had to “ give me expensive gifts” to date me, whatever! I always say this: Rejection is Gods Protection “ Thank you God! Moving on, NEXT!!

Crocs hahahaha 😂

🤚We don't fall easily in love because we're naive or innocent but bc of childhood neglect or abuse. We never felt loved, hence we're literally starving real love and connection and feelings just come rushing even tho we know this person might be toxic or just not compatible with us. It just happens every time automatically if I may say so. How many can relate to what I said?

Crocks…No red flag. I much as I don’t like the looks… I know a lot of good people who wear them for comfort. Chefs, doctors, nurses, Crew/rowing team, etc…

Boy! My battery is still going!

Greetings from Italy 🇮🇹

Hey good morning

Hi from Australia

Hi Matt

Hi from Montréal Canada from youtube😊

Hi Matthew

Not understanding my issues by my ex therefore he had been shifting his interest to someone he assumed as attractive than me

I am

Have a question about something

They don’t know you enough

I'm a Trinidadian I'm now looking at your program it's very interesting, my husband passed away four years ago I'm looking for a new friend. 6:32

I want some free crocs 😂

I realize this is beside the point but how is it legal for someone to be this ridiculously handsome? Yes, I am being a bit humorous. Matthew is super attractive. I don't doubt some portion of his viewership wants to listen to him just to watch him. *swoon*

Wow! You're so bright, I got nervous that you could see me lol 😅 5:45am at the moment... 🤭 hi, Lorraine @KZread here: big 🚩 is talking sexual right away, talking about Exes only and keep talking bad about Exes- how could every Ex be crazy - there's one common denominator lol 😅 & a guy who calls himself a good catch 😅🤢🤮 who does that?

There are Crock's guys and there are city guys. I love fashion and celebrating every day with new colors and and I like that.. I'm silly😉 But I dated a guy from New York who thought he was a beach bum and would go to Florida every year, and lived in flip-flops and shorts up North winter Spring summer or fall.Just damn gross. Lol! Oh yeah and also a narcicisst..I was banished..chased and then I realized that it wasn't me 🤨

New York is not a good taste of the frontier here

🎉 Ela from South Afrika

Preorder Omg!!! Why didn't I know you when I was a child - I'm a few years older than the beautiful Ms. Barrymore 😢 - this is stuff young girls & women should know....I wasted too much time with the wrong men including my Ex Husband who doesn't show up - I always took the lead 👎He still is like dead wood -I even have referred to him as a zombie 😅...sorry, not sorry 🤭 he's Def Narcissistic, i have seen you & Dr, talk, my Lawyer actually identified that before I understood...but, yes, I'm in my early 50's trying to date with young children...currently in something long distance with 3 past connections trying to make their way back... is it summer fever? 😮😅

Croc hate 🤣

Me

Your a ride mathew !!

Hi

Belittling

40:26 he doesn’t get the redwoods!

I"m here! late

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Youre only allowed to wear crocs if you work hard enough to be too lazy to tie your shoes and youre prone to puddles and spilling on yourself that you resort to strapping yourself into the safety of waterpproof foam cloggs!!

Someone who bashes their ex. Won’t commit, love bombs you then pulls back.

Oh my god sell sell selling this book