Talk about your death while you're still healthy | Michelle Knox
Do you know what you want when you die? Do you know how you want to be remembered? In a candid, heartfelt talk about a subject most of us would rather not discuss, Michelle Knox asks each of us to reflect on our core values around death and share them with our loved ones, so they can make informed decisions without fear of having failed to honor our legacies. "Life would be a lot easier to live if we talked about death now," Knox says. "We need to discuss these issues when we are fit and healthy so we can take the emotion out of it -- and then we can learn not just what is important, but why it's important."
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I may never meet the speaker, but I think that she is thoughtful and awesome. I hope she enjoys her life to its very end.
this talk was very well done she balanced the heavier stuff with some comedy really well placed with important info too, really good job, thanks
I am a hospice nurse and your words are so true. I have been at the bedside of the dying at least 1000 times & so many times the living does not know what the dying want.
@jjjsmith2497
6 жыл бұрын
Shirley Russo And that is what?
@haleestroup2561
6 жыл бұрын
Hospice nurses are angels. the ones who helped us care for my grandfather at the end of his life gave us the support we needed to respect his end of life wishes. Thank you for your work.
I deal with other people's unexpected deaths every day of my life for my job. The one thing that you can be certain of, your death will rarely come how you wish or when you wish. This talk is *so* on the nose for what you need to be thinking about now that you are alive and well.
Amazing and important TED Talk. You get that the Host knows what she is talking about and i really liked listening to her. There are so many things to get complicated when a loved one dies. These complications could easily be avoided if discussed early. The death of a family member or friend should not be harder than it has to be. Thats why i wrote my will at 30, but after this video i will soon add some more things to it...
I’ll be dead in several weeks due to a rare condition...It’s been liberating in that I let those around me what they need to really hear. Dying is True Freedom and not disgusting. Sorry for the lose of your 41 year old colleague.
I agree that talking more about death and our funeral can ease the sadness of the people surrounding us. It is like planning for a event without an exact date. When the day arrives, everyone would not be too shocked and sad as it is already planned and things will go on just as it is expected. It may be scary that not knowing our lives after we die, but when we can still have the power to plan for a comfortable leaving from this world, why not doing it?
Thank you Ted i got nothing else to talk about in my life.
I like this topic
great video. as a recent cancer survivor death is almost all that i think about but i do not fear it. I have faced it and we should all talk about how we want to go and what we want as our last wishes to leave our family in peace. I will go out with a jazz band and a comedian in a beautiful garden.
this is very true. people avoid death in general, in my community, talking about death is as if we are wanting it. although we are only expecting it. its a taboo.
Love TedxTalks !!
There's a place here in Portland that mixes your ashes into a CD and you can have your favorite songs burned on it. I'm thinking of doing that, but might change my mind. I'm a bit young to be thinking deeply about my death.
I like how she makes death feel less scary by talking casually about how people can be buried/her sea sickness.
We may experience dying, but we will never experince death,
@smegmalasagna
6 жыл бұрын
Peter Velzen hits blunt*
I want be buried naturally without a coffin and decay back into the the world I started from, not locked in a box. How am I gonna feed the worms?
@ashvazdanghe
6 жыл бұрын
kircir Hi Muslim funeral is same as you say in your comment
@bagasnino
6 жыл бұрын
True
@beverlyhills1382
6 жыл бұрын
kircir vhhh
@1396animefreak
6 жыл бұрын
In California, there is a memorial home where a natural burial is being made possible. In the UK I know that you're allowed to have a wicker coffin when you're buried, but every state, country and county has their own laws. Look up the regulations in your area and hopefully you should be able to find what you're looking for
If you want more information on how to have a good death, please look at Undertaking L.A and The Order Of The Good Death !
Ok Google, set a reminder...
@akhilp3559
6 жыл бұрын
Fernix lol
Cool.
Nice Talk ...
Well done Shelly! Nailed it 👍🏽😊
❤️❤️
when my grandma died, we ate. because it was thanksgiving
A great man once said, "just throw me in the trash. When you're dead you're dead, who cares?" That's my wish. Throw me in the trash, it doesn't matter.
@localbihexual5954
6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful.
@S2Tubes
6 жыл бұрын
Illegal in most places. Cremation, and then disposal however you like of the ashes should be fine.
@teppi5119
6 жыл бұрын
My dad has held onto a Folgers coffee tin for his ashes. #modestlypricedreceptacle
Our death might seem far off. Yet, there's no guarantee we'll wake up tomorrow. Time to sort it out, instead of leaving it for others. I don't want to be remembered for... "knitting"!
Wow! there are a few assholes here in the comments, but I really liked the talk ;)
@AvgJane19
6 жыл бұрын
Kay Nabay ted has a very.... interesting..audience. Many of them are backwards trolls
@BN1145017
6 жыл бұрын
TheSwoleBroscientist Scientist? That can be true in no world😂 I'm not fat but being fat isn't as bad as being an idiot like you, boy.
@abara5678
6 жыл бұрын
So whos the chubby in the Picture then?
Im currently a healthy 17 year old. Is that too early to think about death? Like a lot??
@Iamjocelynsilva
6 жыл бұрын
Jacob Bellmore I think the earlier you think about it the better. You'll soon learn to accept it then you can focus on just living your life ❤️
@jamalachylen6238
6 жыл бұрын
Soyla Queers I’m also 17 and I haven’t accepted it yet, keeps me up at night with anxiety attacks
the only thing stupider I have heard (besides youtube comments) are the things people said to me or others when some one passed away. Aren't you happy she is with God and can walk? -- from my brothers, mother-in-law regarding the passing of my paraplegic sister. Get better Jeff and you will be playing poker again in no time. -- said to my unconscious brother-in-law on his death bed in hospice by my wifes clueless aunt.
@wandayonder9772
6 жыл бұрын
Everyone has their own expression of grief. Someone will always be offended by something someone says around the time of death. The grieving are overly sensitive and look for somewhere or someone to direct their anger toward.
@ObsessionoftheMonth
6 жыл бұрын
no, neither of these people were grieving they are both morons.
@abara5678
6 жыл бұрын
^^^exactly!
Who to talk it with that wont make me sound crazy???
I talk about my death every day lol
Dun dun dunnnnn
I want my dead body to be used in a distasteful prank
There's a good reason why humans don't want to die, are loath to talk about their death and grieve when other humans die - death is unnatural to humans (and happily will not be here much longer).
Well, i know what i should do now :)) go to the table and make a plane for my death :)))
Omae wa mou shinderiu
@akhilp3559
6 жыл бұрын
David Selimovic lol
Live Forever or Die Trying! www.reddit.com/r/longevity/
I want to be cremated into a sculpture of knuckles dabbing
leave my carcass on a ants nest
I want to be cremated. With vanilla flavored double cream.
Turkish language pls...
She said death like a gila monster looking at your toe. Does she know somebody has been cremated had their ashes loaded in the fireworks and then shot into the air blown up?
@Nephilim0
6 жыл бұрын
Jeff Bingaman Hunter S. Thompson was, thanks to Johnny Depp.
First like
*BITE ZA DUSTO*
Healthy... the irony
@grizzlymanverneteil4443
6 жыл бұрын
Lol this guy gets it.
Take that title out of context and it has got to be one of the most depressing pieces of advice ever.
croak
Come one TED, with a title like that and the woman in the thumbnail you are writing all the troll comments for us.
@grizzlymanverneteil4443
6 жыл бұрын
pete knicks yeah, that makes the trolling super easy. I'm not sure you are getting my point lol.
@AvgJane19
6 жыл бұрын
Grizzlyman MeinTeil I'm genuinely befuddled, what about this combo inspires this bullshit
@grizzlymanverneteil4443
6 жыл бұрын
AvgJane19 i·ron·ic īˈränik adjective synonyms:sarcastic, sardonic, cynical, mocking, satirical, caustic, wry happening in the opposite way to what is expected, and typically causing wry amusement because of this.
@AvgJane19
6 жыл бұрын
Grizzlyman MeinTeil ...you've explained nothing
@00poopmonster
6 жыл бұрын
How
(Sahih International) Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your [full] compensation on the Day of Resurrection. So he who is drawn away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise has attained [his desire]. And what is the life of this world except the enjoyment of delusion. -Sura Aal-E-Imran, Ayah 185
@YY4Me133
6 жыл бұрын
Ha-ha-ha-ha.
@shoebrahman7307
6 жыл бұрын
(Sahih International) But you took them in mockery to the point that they made you forget My remembrance, and you used to laugh at them. -Sura Al-Mu'minun, Ayah 110
@YY4Me133
6 жыл бұрын
Oh, well, that makes it all real. NOT!
It's already a bit late for you, perhaps you should have done this ted talk sooner.
@alfredo_jr7914
6 жыл бұрын
rpatto92 dam
@AvgJane19
6 жыл бұрын
rpatto92 confused.
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