Surrender can give us a life we never knew. | Mary Fran Bontempo | TEDxLoyolaUniversityMaryland

The concept of surrender and loss of control are universally viewed as negative. However, if one surrenders to the loss of control, giving the “it” of a situation’s negatives up to the universe, one’s higher power, or simply to time, surrender can offer life-changing opportunities for dynamic growth and change. Mary Fran Bontempo is a speaker, author, and humorist who teaches audiences to control their most powerful influence: Self-Talk. Author of The Woman’s Book of Dirty Words, and Not Ready for Granny Panties-The 11 Commandments for Avoiding Granny Panties, Mary Fran proves small changes in self-talk yield big life changes, allowing individuals to be positive, productive and successful in a rapidly changing world.
A Huffington Post and Thrive Global contributor, and syndicated columnist for multiple online platforms, Mary Fran inspires and motivates readers and listeners to tame the self-talk beast. After thirty years’ experience as owner of a full-service recruiting firm and finding herself in the middle of a perfect life storm-turning 50, a crashing economy, and most devastating, a son battling heroin addiction-Mary Fran created the blog, Not Ready for Granny Panties, evolving as a motivational speaker and program leader. She is also a founder of the business/life podcast, 4 Chicks Chatting. A frequent media guest and speaker, audiences delight in her empowering and entertaining message. Find her at maryfranbontempo.com. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @AMillennialsThirdEye
    @AMillennialsThirdEye7 күн бұрын

    Thank you. This was very helpful and divine timing. I really enjoy this.

  • @ashgmudgal
    @ashgmudgal2 ай бұрын

    Beautiful talk! Every word is well chosen❤

  • @valorcollective22
    @valorcollective22 Жыл бұрын

    Found this at the right time 🙏🏼 thank you God ❤

  • @anuradhamasand6066
    @anuradhamasand60663 жыл бұрын

    This is so well articulated as much as felt and thought out. Veri real& inspiring.

  • @daledottin7548
    @daledottin7548 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this! So needed at this moment in my life. Thank you❤

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this Ted Talk. I appreciate it very much. 🙏

  • @user-pr8oo5hg9d
    @user-pr8oo5hg9d5 ай бұрын

    mmmm.... i gave up.... but no higher power came here, still here in my old office day by day.

  • @saloniuppal
    @saloniuppal5 жыл бұрын

    😊Believe in yourself 😊 Believe in your capacity to do good and great things 😊 Believe that no mountain is so high that you can't climb it😊 Believe that no storm is so great that you can not weather it 😊 For instance 👉A Bird 🐦 sitting a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking because her trust is not on the branch but on it's own wings Always believe in yourself 😊

  • @marykrone5652
    @marykrone56523 жыл бұрын

    beautiful.. let go and let God.

  • @DatingAdviceForMen
    @DatingAdviceForMen Жыл бұрын

    Wow, talk about surrender

  • @SuperSteffie09
    @SuperSteffie095 жыл бұрын

    Wow "do your best and then let it go"

  • @sunithasuresh5070
    @sunithasuresh50702 жыл бұрын

    Great talk

  • @misshall88
    @misshall88 Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @saleenapiano
    @saleenapiano Жыл бұрын

    excellent talk, excellent speaker, very inspiring; i would like to do the same

  • @upgrade1583
    @upgrade15835 жыл бұрын

    did you ever find out why he self medicates

  • @ronniehunsinger9882
    @ronniehunsinger9882 Жыл бұрын

    How are we the only species capable of planning? Does the bird not build a nest for her young? Does the squirrel not pack away nuts for the winter? Maybe man kind is too egotistical, as to think they are the only species with a brain.

  • @opeth51
    @opeth51 Жыл бұрын

    Higher power? The universe? NO. HIS NAME IS JESUS CHRIST! He's the only begotten Son of God the Father who created all things that are seen and unseen. Give God credit. You should be more humble than this. God gives us weaknesses that we may be humble. God resists the proud, and gives grace to the humble.

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