I lost my father when I was five, my sister was nine and my brother was 13. My mother was 36 at the time, spoke almost no English, and was left with a mortgage. In retrospect, we lost a lot of our mother then, too. I have a lot of respect for you having worked through those times and doing your best for your children. I think you can call it a chateau because it is that to you. A woman’s home is her castle, especially after all she’s been through.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Gosh, so much loss in your life. I’m sorry. But knowing loss also means knowing how to live so I hope it has brought that gift to you. Thank you for your comment 😍

I do enjoy your rambling. I feel like I am listening to a good friend tell me about what is going on with her. Sending a hug❤️. I am glad you included the tutorial on art. I am retired and have always wanted to try painting and drawing. I am a gardener and look forward to your plans for the outside of your lovely château. I also like the idea about keeping the hallways white while adding color to some bedrooms. I grew up in an 18th century farmhouse. The bedrooms had the original colors and we always referred to each one by their color. The green room, the pink room, etc

@chateauchronicles

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So glad you enjoyed it! Thank you. And yes I love the idea of naming rooms by color. My dad has a house like that as well. 😍

Your art is lovely and so is your dads chateau drawing! I can’t imagine the depth of pain you have endured over the years. It’s always good to feel it and then release it. It’s the healthy way to heal. Even though it’s not a fun process. You seemed to be balanced with it all. Much love to you and I’m excited to see you back in France. May the days ahead bring you many blessings and divine flow. 🙏

LOVE that’s it’s your Castle/Chateau!!!!! Stick with that!!! Don’t let Negative Nellies steal your dream!❤❤❤

Grief never really ends and the holidays are hard. Give yourself grace. I try to. My husband died five years ago and his birthday was Christmas Day. So I totally relate to it being a hard time. It’s good to see you do art. I paint and craft and it is like therapy for me. Hugs

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Aww. You do understand. Hugs to you too. 🤗🤗🤗

This was my third Christmas as a widow and since I spend Thanksgiving with my son, daughter-in-law and darling granddaughter, I spend Christmas by myself. I don’t have a hard time which surprised me…..probably because I order gifts for myself from Amazon and have plenty of new books to peruse and yarn to knit and crochet. I do not allow myself to linger on what was because that leads to depression for me. Plus we are so lucky to live in the age of FaceTime which is wonderful. I loved watching your latest painting process and since I have lots of supplies, I’m going to give it a try. The first thing that came to mind was to use fabric paints free form on an old sweatshirt. Best wishes to you and the sooner you go to France, the happier you will be, especially with flowers blooming in another month or two. 🌺🌸🌹🪷🍀

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

I love your comment, thank you! Let me know how it goes with the fabric paint. I did it on face masks during covid and they turned out to be pretty cool. 😍

I’m coming!!! Found your YT channel yesterday and have been binging. I’m 52 and lost my 49yo husband this summer from a totally unexpected cancer diagnosis. My 14yo daughter and I just had a deeply emotional holiday season and are daily trying to navigate life. You are so inspirational whether you intend to be or not. The views, the peacefulness, the food, the charm, all of it is wonderful. I’ll continue to follow along and hope to see it someday in person. Best wishes!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Aww, you're so sweet. Thank you. I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Widowhood is a really crappy club to belong to. Be sure to check out campwidow.org. A very helpful resource. Hugs to both you and your daughter. 😊

It’s not just widow brain, it’s divorce brain too.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely! I should just call it "Loss Brain!" 🧠

@mimsay2u

Жыл бұрын

@@chateauchronicles , loss brain, or mom brain -always trying to maintain the balance of our ship. I relate and thank you for sharing.

@lisbethkelsey6622

Жыл бұрын

True, Mimi! Now that my stepsons are older and recently married, we book a night away at a B&B in January so they can still celebrate traditions with their dad's family and new in-laws. We are making new memories ❤️

@karigraham8168

Жыл бұрын

Grief brain - anyone who has suffered tremendous loss might be inclined to have a hard time at the holidays. For me, I lost a son 7 years ago. There is always a sad pallor over the significant days. He was a twin, so his twin’s birthday is always a challenge. Peace to all of us who have chronic grief.

@mimsay2u

Жыл бұрын

@@karigraham8168 I am so sorry Kari. I really didn’t know there was a name for the phenomena but I’m glad there is - grief brain seems to sum it up. I, like many, can only guess at your pain but many of us can deeply relate to it in some way. I think holiday grief is an under studied subject. There are millions who quietly fight off a deep sadness that befalls us during this time. Holiday recovery feels slow and lonely, as it is an inside job. Much respect and compassion to you and yes, like you said, peace to all who know this.

Your rambling is just like being there with you and sharing a quiet time with a friend who is authentic.I wish you and your loved ones the best going forward on this adventure.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Aww. Thank you! 😊

I love the floor you showed from magazine. I am 77 years old so take my advice. Do what you want no one needs to worry about floor etc except you It’s your chateau 👍 make it your taste

Happy New Year from Texas. I love your rambling videos. It shows how authentic you are. Have a joyful year. 🦋🎨

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! Happy New Year to you as well 🤩

I am a widow of 14 years now. My struggle is trying to keep holidays similar to what there were when my husband was here. Those were the best 7 1/2 years of my life..heaven on earth. It has been a struggle because my siblings have moved on

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

You understand the struggle. Hugs to you! 🤗🤗

“We went to a Viking disco party.”…. As one does! 🙂 My heart goes out to you. I appreciate your authenticity about the Holidays as a widow. Made me think of the quote by Anne Lamott: “You will lose someone you can’t live without,and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly-that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.” ― Anne Lamott

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

I adore Anne Lamott! So wise! 😍

I have been painting in oils since high school and college and I’m in my upper 60’s now. It’s always been my therapy and tranquility. I think your post card series turned out beautiful. You could probably reproduce them and sell them in a box as a set. I’m happy you managed to have a good Christmas and I wish you a very happy, healthy new year. xx

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Lovely idea! 😍

I enjoyed watching the art portion today!!! ❤️🎨. Love watching your journey!

@chateauchronicles

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I'm so glad! I thought it might be boring for people... 🤩

Joy and sorrow interwoven, sure your children will appreciate your balance. It's not easy 💞

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Indeed! Life really... 😊

@Sushi2735

Жыл бұрын

Joy and sorrow interwoven. Thank you, it explains my life. It’s hard being a young widow, or any widow for that matter💗

Great to hear you! You help so many of us during this time of the world, I took care of ex husband who had Covid 12/21, I cooked, gave him supplements, and my family completely shunned me! For caring for him. I did not get sick. Horrible times.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Gosh, I’m so sorry. That sounds heartbreaking. Hugs to you. 🤗

Memories and experiences last more than material gifts. Glad you had a lovely time with your family and hope you can get back to France soon. Lucky that you have a great handyman over there.

I'm a single mom as well so I totally relate. Your hair is beautiful BTW.

Happy New Year, I know how you feel, Dec 24, 2004 I lost my only younger sister during a major snow storm just 12 days after her 46 the Birthday, this year during a snow blizzard on the 23 Rd I was by myself with a nephew in law I woke after just 3 hrs sleep to find he had passed away. He was in critical health due to diabetes. I hold on too my faith in the Lord. Hang in there, love your home.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

So heartbreaking. I’m so sorry for your losses. Best wishes. 🤗

I admire your courage and grace in managing the complexities of your life, whilst supporting your children by creating positive memories. Hugs sister!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! 😊

Wow!! You make artwork look so easy but if I started doing it I would be in a mess.

Perhaps use the chateau as an art outlet. Mix the old with the new and make the chateau your home. You aren’t trying to make a museum. I hope that you find peace and comfort in 2023. Loss is something you never truly get over and as long as you keep their memories alive it in turn gives you joy in some small moment in time. I truly believe that our loved ones look out for us. Love your channel so much! I am Patreon number 8! 😊

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Oh wow! Yay! Thank you and welcome abord! 😍

I love your videos. You are well spoken and entertaining. It’s very interesting watching your life evolve. I am impressed with your “can do,” attitude. You are a woman, to be reckoned with. Thank you for sharing about the loss of your husband. Must have been, and am sure, still is hard. But look at what you are doing and the example you are setting for your loved ones. You Rock!!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

You're so sweet. Thank you! 😊

Love your channel hope you can overcome what your feeling I’m a December 22 baby as well I’m 65 now it’s nice having people you love around

You went through such a terrible loss and although the grieving changes, it never ends. It’s hard work. I’m very sorry for the sadness the holidays bring. We go through that every December also. On a bright note, I LOVED watching your art process. Have been watching KZread artists for several years and I enjoy it so much. Thank you!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Grieving is indeed a lifelong process. Glad you enjoyed the artmaking. 🥰

I just love you, your art, journey, family...!

You don't have to explain yourself Abby. Grief knows no timeline. Love knows no bounds. Breathe through the breathlessness. Honouring your heart is the way forward. Now, looking at the Chateau, fun is in order for sure! She's been neglected and now she's in the hands of love. You will reignite the flame of beauty within her soul. Cheers from Canada🇨🇦

I’m so very grateful to you, for sharing your journey, and being so open about your grief. Your advice about experiences, is spot on. Just prior to the pandemic I was able to have a holiday in Seattle, the motherland for me ❤ and it was the best holiday of these hellish 4 years. You are a survivor and such an inspiration for those of us navigating the waters of grief…

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad. Thank you for saying so! 😍

The videos get better each time you post them. Good for you.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Oh yay! Thank you! Its been a very steep learning curve! 🥹

I loved how you went ‘wee’ as you moved the roller thingy around the paintings. Bet you didn’t even know you were doing it - you were just in the moment having fun - made me smile.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Haha! I didn't notice that I'd done that! Lol!

I Love seeing you do your Art! Very inspiring! I haven't painted in nearly 25 years and have been thinking about getting back at it! This video was a sign!. Haha! Thank You!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Go for it! It was definitely a sign! Ha! 😊

Happy New Year Abby! Grief is hard to process during the holidays especially! I lost my dad back in 1999. Too young. I miss him every single day. My mom now lives with us. She has Alzheimer’s! They call it the long goodbye for a reason. You are right. All loss is hard. God Bless! Looking forward to 2023 and lots more great vlogs. I don’t care where you vlog from. They are always interesting.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I'm sorry for your losses. 🤗🤗

Abby, your art work is lovely.

This. .... trying to be festive ....alone ....I often leave the tree up .... until it quits snowing. My neighbors are used to that now. And every year I swear I'm going to just run away to somewhere warm ...and every year it just doesn't happen. You chateau story is ....motivational. Thank you for sharing.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

😍

Yes, Happy New Year! I'm glad you find ways to make the holidays good for you and your family. Getting out and doing things has you in the present and planning for the chateau has you looking to the future. The memories will always be with you and that is as it should be. FYI, you did much more than I did! 😊

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I get pretty Zoomie! But I also spent a lot of time on the couch binge watching Netflix! 😅

Your videos and sharing your life experience is so moving… Seattle/Puget Sound is a special place for a cozy January and I wish you a great month of planning your travels. LOVE your art tutorials and lovely watercolors!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! 😊

Lovely work on your cards. Hugs for the time over Christmas xx

After watching all of the chateau videos, you have grown so much, you are interesting and this venture has sparked my interest you have learned how to capture an audience, thanks for your candid veiws, and you are so sweet, Happy New Year!!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

You are very sweet. I had no idea I was actually "capturing" an audience! Yay! 😊

One day at a time right? Wishing you a new year filled with good health, joy, love and magical moments...amid all the rest . Hugs from Montreal!

Wishing you a blessed and prosperous new year 🎉🎊🥳🎆😍😘 Holidays are hard when you have loss a loved one. Love creating experiences as memories last longer. Love your art and agree about selling your art as postcards. Bonne annee ❤😍😘

Happy 2023! I’m looking forward to your return to France. I enjoyed watching you make art. I haven’t done it in so long and you’ve inspired me. ❤

I just found your channel 2 days ago and have been binge watching them. Just watched this last one in this series. I've enjoyed watching you on your journey and throughout the whole time watching these I kept saying to myself how proud your husband would have been! You are allowing so many into your world, even though every now and then I see a glimpse of how uncomfortable you are in front of the camera. That will change with time. I'm here to thank you for this wonderful series and can't wait to see the rest of the story! Keep on keeping on!❤

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your kind comment. Yes, I do feel pretty awkward in front of the camera, but I am slowly getting more used to it I think. Thanks for watching! 😊

I loved watching you create your art it has inspired me to have a go at something different

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Wonderful! That was my hope! 😍

You are an inspiring woman, keep strong cause that’s what our loved ones want for us. The sun keeps shining to tell us to keep waking up and living our best lives❤

I know exactly what you mean. I was a widow age 34 with a young daughter too. It stays hard. Good for you having family, but everybody lives his own life and yours will be forever the life with the hole in. I am sure you know what I mean. Wish you all the best...

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Right back at you! Many hugs... 🤗

Sending you big big hugs Abby, Christmas time is a very hard one for many of us. I try to stay positive but yes there are some sad days and I can so relate. All I can say is keep focusing on the good in your life, the chateau and your family. Hugs to you and Chloe. 💞💞💞

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Indeed! Thanks for your comment! ☺️

You do want you want with your home , it's yours, and like you said there are lots of rooms to experiment and do different things with ❣️🥰

I totally agree with you that creating experiences helps with the sadness that tries to overwhelm us at certain times. Your day in the snow looked and sounded wonderful.....building new memories. Thinking of you here in Australia....looking forward to following your experiences and I am sure a few escapades in 2023. Loving watching your painting tutorial.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! 😊

Happy New Year Abby! I hope 2023 and your very own Chateau journey contributes greatly to your healing and regaining true happiness. Your bravery is an inspiration to us all! Loved the art demo and the news that you may be going back to France early.

I absolutely love your videos. Thank for sharing. Loved your cards, so easy and effortless. Listening to your ramblings feels so restful to me. I quilt as your ramble. I myself am a widow, and feel your pain. It has been almost 23 years but sometimes everything comes back, and you have to reflect. Abby, thank you. Such pleasure viewing your renovations! Thoughts and prayers!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your sweet comment... 😊

It’s lovely you made the art for your patreons.

Bonne Année. Have a wonderful new year in Seattle and at your château. Greetings from Germany.

Looking forward to seeing your renovations on your CHATEAU!!! Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉

I vote (as though you asked 😊) for going back to France and then returning to San Fransisco when it’s time! The firehouse vlogs have been fun! Thanks for including that. Also loved seeing your painting process! I enjoy art on a strictly hobby basis, so it was great to watch you work! Thanks for sharing!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for voting! Lol! Glad you enjoyed!

Happy 2023, Abby 🎉 So wonderful you enjoyed your Seattle and Canadian Christmas family and friends, and you got home a tree, wow! Great that you are preparing for the Château return - it is going to be amazing! Your ‘keep at it’ approach and patience, and creative spirit is marvellous-enjoy every moment!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Aww. Thanks so much for the kind comment ☺️

Love watching your videos. The chateau adventures and your art. Also would love to see the rest of your firehouse, so sorry for the loss of your husband, will always be in your heart. Enjoy the new year and the joy the chateau is bringing ! Look forward to the next video

It seems it will never get any better, but look at you. I’m encouraged, so thank you!😊

Happy new year!! 🥳🎊🎉 I saw your painting of Puy Vidal on Julia and Carolinas vlog!! It was beautiful 🥰🥰🥰 so very talented❤❤❤ I love painting with mostly with oils but I have to say I'm loving watercolours. ❤❤❤❤❤ You are allowed to have those moments of sadness when you've lost a loved one no matter the years that have passed. My late father once told me never try to bury that feeling and just to let it be, if it brings tears then it brings tears. He said to me to think of that moment as you and your lost love reconnecting again through a moment in time that was once shared when they were here in person. ❤❤❤ I thought I'd share that thought with you ❤❤❤ Another great vlog and I love your idea of going back to fance!!! And going back to the USA when its time for the meeting ❤❤🎉🎊 much hugs to you, belated merry Christmas and happy new year!!! 🥳🎊🎉

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Many thanks! Happy New Year to you as well! 😍

I am in awe of what you are doing and also what you’ve accomplished . So glad I found your channel. Love listening to your daily chronicles! Thank you so much!!!! Your new home is lovely and the antique shops are amazing. I’ve always loved France . 💕

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! 😊

I enjoyed this video so much. I thought the art was fascinating and so inspiring, thank you. So excited for you to get back to France and see the next chapter of your life at the ' Chateau' ❤️

Loved watching the art making! Thanks for sharing ❤

God Bless you and Protect you from heartache 🙏 you are inspirational!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Thank you for the art lesson WOW👌, inspiring, just the thing for snowy cabin fever over on our side….glad you made it home in the floods! And a joyful new year to you 🥂

Big hugs ❤ Happy and wonderful things are ahead ! 😊

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Same to you! 😍

Thanks for the insight into your art. I want to start painting, and I believe I may finally have the guts to try! Hope 2023 brings good things🙂

Don't be so hard on yourself! You have labelled yourself as a widowed, single mom. You are so much more. I think the key to coping with this difficult time of the year, is to make it different. You cannot recreate the past. Next Christmas will be so different!! You'll be in situ in your Château!!!! Wonderful. Stay strong and keep rambling! See, now I'm rambling!!!!! 😁

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Haha! Rambling is contagious! Thanks for your inspiration 😍

Bonne Année 2023 Abby. Santé-Bonheur !

Yes! Share the inspiration board!

YES!!!! Tape off is THE best part!!!! Great way to ease into the canvas, board, or whatever...

Loved the art class. You’ve given me ideas!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Yay!! 😍

Beautiful home! Love your art too!

No way am I skipping this! Happy New Year's. Loved the painting how clever. I lost my husband too. Love your video's!

Happy New year from Melbourne where we have just had a spell of hot weather in the 30's, it was horrible. Best wishes for 23😊👩‍💼

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Stay cool 😎

Easy watching and results are lovely. Happiest of New Year’s ❤

Grief is a strange thing really. We lost my dad almost 5 years ago and his birthday is right around Thanksgiving. Every year I feel like we are forgetting something and realizing we aren’t celebrating his birthday. Then my sorrow clothes lines me every time. I can’t even imagine what you and your family has gone through.

I also loved the individual cards you painted. Your very talented and that was thoughtful , instead of an ordinary store bought card.

What a beautiful family in every way I can think of! Thanks so much for sharing it all - I enjoy you and am inspired by all you are doing. Love and best wishes for 2023 - I look forward to seeing it! - Susan

Love the paintings for the patreons and your father's drawing, as well! Happy New Year!

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and content! I think its wonderful you have your patreon and shared your art on there!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Great video! I am inspired! You make it seem so "do-able"🎨

Glad to see your sweet face. Your Christmas tree looks lovely. That New Years Eve party looks like a lot of fun. I don't know if you have given a tour of your firehouse, but I'd love to see one. If you're up for that and need an idea for a video. I like the idea of doing both white and traditional colors in the château. Why not? And I really really enjoyed the art class. That was fun and those turned out really cool. I homeschool my youngest son and we love doing art projects. I think this would be a fun way to make some unique pieces. Thanks for sharing. Merry Christmas and a very merry new year to you and your family.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I do hope you try some art making. It's super fun! 🤩

I love seeing you again! I do not think you ramble. I enjoyed this very much. Sorry the sadness creeped in on your holiday. You have a lovely family. Really enjoyed seeing your art. Excited to see you get back to the chateau!

Happy New Year! Sorry you're feeling blue for the holidays. I would feel that same way. Thanks for the art lesson. It was fun.

This was absolutely wonderful. I felt like I was hanging out with you. I loved the art. They all turned out beautifully. Keep up the good work. You are finding your KZread voice.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Yay! Thanks so much! 😊

Greetings and Happy New Year 🎉, Since I am the opposite of you ( super hyper), I find that you help me a lot to sit still and be calm. From one artist to an another, I really enjoy watching you create. It is such a beautiful unique out come each time. Merci.

Love the art, it was so much fun to see your process.

Sorry for your loss, Happy New Year ❤

Great art project! Your Dad’s drawing is lovely!

Awe so sorry about the Christmas holiday and remembering your Dearly departed hubby. Love your channel & cant wait to see you go back to the Chateau. 💖💖💖

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much! 😊

Happy new year Abby love from Australia 🇦🇺. Hope it's a good year for you xxx

Thank you for this vlog……from one widow to another

Happy New Year to you, and may 2023 be full of fun and exciting adventures in and around your Chateau. Love you art xx

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Best for 2023 to you as well! 🥳

Loved your art lesson. I’m inspired now to try myself. Thank you!

I lost my father 3 weeks before Christmas 12 years ago and I struggled with celebrating so much that year but I kept moving for the sake of my children. Then 3 years after that my ex-husband took his own life sometime over the holidays. He was suffering from severe mental illness and was estranged from family and friends so he wasn't discovered until the 2nd week of January. Christmas is a painful time for my family. We keep celebrations quiet and small. I try and talk about their dad with my kids so that they feel like they can know him better. I tell funny stories and talk about things he liked and disliked. It helps keep them connected. I am loving your videos. I would never have the courage to do what your doing, but I did move 1000 miles away from my home in the Midwest to make a new life for myself. Best wishes for the new year!

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry for your losses. You clearly understand and like all widowed people I know, have tons of courage by making a new life for yourself. Lots of hugs coming your way! ❤️‍🩹🤗🤗🤗

Happy New Year! I enjoyed the art tutorial! Thank you for sharing.

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Cheers!

Your art is gorgeous! It is lovely to see the creation process.

thx for the video... wishing you & your kids a very blessed 2023💖 you've inspired me to break out my paint and have a go with em.... I've had the in my closet for exactly a year they are the pouring ones so next week I will begin thx again

@chateauchronicles

Жыл бұрын

Awesome! That was the idea! Let me know how it goes! 😍

Congratulations on your patrons 🙂 enjoyed watching the art come to life

I love the art!!