Stupid Reasons It's "Wrong" to Ship Characters (r/FanFiction)

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Sometimes people don't like what other people ship. And sometimes their reasons for why those ships are problematic are a little strange...
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  • @cutelilscrafty
    @cutelilscrafty Жыл бұрын

    I once got told it was lesbophobic to ship a canonically bisexual woman with a man.

  • @MalachiWadas

    @MalachiWadas

    Жыл бұрын

    Gold-star lesbians be like…

  • @yumerepaint8287

    @yumerepaint8287

    Жыл бұрын

    what the fuck

  • @Hyzentley

    @Hyzentley

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah, saw that so often to. Spop fandom is infamously biphobic...

  • @zorapianist

    @zorapianist

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Hyzentley Spop?

  • @Nightingale0666

    @Nightingale0666

    Жыл бұрын

    Bisexual woman here, you ship that bi woman with that man

  • @Nobody_Special310
    @Nobody_Special310 Жыл бұрын

    The stupidest reason I heard was that he was a skater boy and she said, "See you later, boy." People change as they grow up, y'know?

  • @gummirwl

    @gummirwl

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @TheDanishGuyReviews

    @TheDanishGuyReviews

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for reminding me of my age.

  • @bonbon-

    @bonbon-

    Жыл бұрын

    really a stupid reason, why would someone say that? :/ 😭✋

  • @Jade_West2010

    @Jade_West2010

    Жыл бұрын

    Maybe he wasn't good enough for her?

  • @JayTohab

    @JayTohab

    Жыл бұрын

    Not to mention, it was largely a peer-pressure problem. She really just needed better friends, and he could still be that for her.

  • @royalblanket
    @royalblanket Жыл бұрын

    I was called a pedophile for shipping two teenagers. While I was a teenager. And the entire plot of the original series was one of those teenagers being in love with someone Also that shipping a lesbian ship was fetishizing lesbians. After hearing that, I had to break the news to my lesbian friend who shipped it that she was fetishizing herself

  • @sadmac356

    @sadmac356

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah that's put me off of _entire series_ before because there's just no winning with people

  • @chaoscitrus

    @chaoscitrus

    Жыл бұрын

    People seriously need to stop throwing those words around

  • @Jumpingonpaws

    @Jumpingonpaws

    11 ай бұрын

    Please tell me you didn’t actually-

  • @1989v9

    @1989v9

    10 ай бұрын

    @@Jumpingonpaws didnt what?

  • @Jumpingonpaws

    @Jumpingonpaws

    10 ай бұрын

    @@1989v9 didn't say that someone was fetishizing herself

  • @gerstein03
    @gerstein03 Жыл бұрын

    "I couldn't ship a ship because one of the characters died" Now that's just a skill issue

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    what’s the point of fan fiction again? what if the character who died loved the other dearly? am i not allowed to think how their relationship would go if the dead character was alive? dammit people these days.

  • @6Shots_ofEspresso

    @6Shots_ofEspresso

    Жыл бұрын

    i mean, (major spoilers for mha) i lowkey shipped shirakumo and midnight and both of them are dead(ish) now, so i win?

  • @lovelysakurapetalsyt

    @lovelysakurapetalsyt

    11 ай бұрын

    Yeah, like what do they think the point of fanfics are?? It's to make stuff that's not canon!

  • @lovelysakurapetalsyt

    @lovelysakurapetalsyt

    11 ай бұрын

    @@6Shots_ofEspressoYes, afterlife ship

  • @Sunflower_petal

    @Sunflower_petal

    10 ай бұрын

    valgrace shippers (including me) are just in a little denial

  • @SuriOokami
    @SuriOokami Жыл бұрын

    “Shipping this male character with any girl is inherently homophobic.” The character has no canon sexuality, it’s not even a part of his story at all.

  • @hyalophora

    @hyalophora

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, sounds about right. I've seen people called lesbophobic for shipping a confirmed bisexual girl with a dude. Even when the sexuality is confirmed, it won't stop them.

  • @princeapoopoo5787

    @princeapoopoo5787

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hyalophora Oh lord as a bi woman I HATE that.

  • @FennekinBraixen

    @FennekinBraixen

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hyalophora I cant believe people keep forgetting that *bi* sexuals can date more than one gender. Thats literally the point! Edit: spelling

  • @mewtuwa

    @mewtuwa

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hyalophora Classic bi-erasure.

  • @glasscier

    @glasscier

    Жыл бұрын

    love it when people start passing their headcanons as actual canon, and then attack people who disagree

  • @epickittymonster4435
    @epickittymonster4435 Жыл бұрын

    I remember seeing someone on Tumblr saying self shipping was bad and problematic because the canon characters couldn't consent to dating your self insert. My sibling in Christ, THEY DON'T FLIP FLOPPING EXIST!

  • @nessyness5447

    @nessyness5447

    Жыл бұрын

    Wtf, that's wild XD

  • @anerrorhasoccurred8727

    @anerrorhasoccurred8727

    Жыл бұрын

    Characters also can’t “consent” to being murdered in several horrifying ways but they’re still gonna be 💀

  • @darkacadpresenceinblood

    @darkacadpresenceinblood

    Жыл бұрын

    it's times like this when i just wanna throw the whole internet away, wtf do you mean you should ask FICTIONAL CHARACTERS for consent now😭 plus that technically means fictional characters should never do anything at all because you're forcing them to do it by writing it so let's just cancel fiction lmao

  • @grellsutcliffe8265

    @grellsutcliffe8265

    Жыл бұрын

    Oof I've had way too many people say that to me, it's weird how many people don't grasp the concept of "this is fiction therefore anything goes" I mean besides the clearly illegal things but thats more law related

  • @annaviedoux9028

    @annaviedoux9028

    Жыл бұрын

    Speaking as a self-shipper, damn this means I have to ask permission from my OCs to make them suffer then

  • @alyssamay9237
    @alyssamay9237 Жыл бұрын

    My sibling was told they couldn't ship childhood-friends-to-lovers because "that's basically incest"

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    ????????????? *dysfunctions and can’t even come up with a response.*

  • @trappedfan5206

    @trappedfan5206

    Жыл бұрын

    Been there so many times I'm just ignoring them at this point, not even trying to prove anything

  • @digitaltailsmon4096

    @digitaltailsmon4096

    11 ай бұрын

    You heard this before? I have never heard anyone say that especially since friends to lovers is such a love trope. Sorry you had to deal with it so much!

  • @alyssamay9237

    @alyssamay9237

    11 ай бұрын

    @@digitaltailsmon4096 Not me, my brother. And yeah, it sucks because that's his favorite trope

  • @digitaltailsmon4096

    @digitaltailsmon4096

    11 ай бұрын

    @@alyssamay9237 It really does! Sorry I read it wrong though

  • @SecretIdentityStudio
    @SecretIdentityStudio11 ай бұрын

    "They're childhood friends, that's basically incest" was one. And anything that claims that an age gap between adults is just as creepy as it would be with kids. I'm sorry, 27 and 22 is not the same as 17 and 12.

  • @Dusted-Luck

    @Dusted-Luck

    9 ай бұрын

    I feel like once you hit 25 or over, you can date whoever the fuck you want as long as in that point they’re older than you. If you hit 18, you can date who you want as long as the person isn’t too old as that could just be grooming. E.g. 18 and 65. Remember that you still are immature and dumb just turned into an adult (I’m not specifically talking to you just making my point). So in short, they’re stupid and 27 and 22 is fine. Though I wonder what the ship is.

  • @user-tw3rh9po4t

    @user-tw3rh9po4t

    9 ай бұрын

    Remember people: Brother-in-arms and being literally brothers are not mutually inclusive.

  • @BaconNuke

    @BaconNuke

    8 ай бұрын

    The childhood friends one... somewhat fits with the 2014 Flash show... like who thought Barry and Iris should be raised as almost siblings and was like "yeah they should eventually bang" like I get in the comics get together but 9 times out of 10 if two people are raised as siblings, they aren't gonna think of each other in *that way* yeah know?

  • @ChrissaTodd

    @ChrissaTodd

    8 ай бұрын

    @@BaconNuke that's why i have a true issue shipping the brady bunch step siblings, like yeah they are not blood related, but they did actually acknowledge both parents as mom and dad, and the siblings as their siblings, but when life with Derek was just Derek and Casey met at 15 and didn't even want to be step siblings, that's different, and i see the tension, until the parents ended up having a baby together once they have a joint sibling it seemed weird.

  • @Poland4life

    @Poland4life

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@Dusted-Luck not really 25. for example, my mom married my dad when she was 18 and he was 30 and they've been married for 20 years with no major relationship problems. instead of avoiding anything that could possibly be bad, learn to recognise what is bad.

  • @GrandCorsair
    @GrandCorsair Жыл бұрын

    I really hate the size difference argument. It implies being short makes them childlike which is a real fuck you to short people. The amount of times I've had people patronize me because I'm short is fucking annoying

  • @Amy_the_Lizard

    @Amy_the_Lizard

    Жыл бұрын

    I still get offered children's menus because I am short and not very busty, even though I typically dress maturely and have way curvier hips than the typical 11 year old. I'm 22, so I now make a point of ordering an alcoholic drink when it happens.

  • @door-chan

    @door-chan

    Жыл бұрын

    Right, they even said "because the character is shorter than 5'8" which isn't really that uncommon amongst adults in most parts of the world, I'm 5'6", 17, and won't keep growing more, guess I'll forever be a child even if I'm taller than the average adult woman, even though I'm literally an adult next year, and my boyfriend will be a pdf file for being 6' even though I AM OLDER by 5 months

  • @Frickerdoodle

    @Frickerdoodle

    Жыл бұрын

    There is like a 6 inch difference between the average heights of men and women in REAL LIFE. Is every straight couple pedophilic now?

  • @frogonalilypad

    @frogonalilypad

    Жыл бұрын

    i'm 5'2, guess i can't date anyone 😔

  • @ameliasellers6396

    @ameliasellers6396

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah I honestly really hate being not taken seriously because I'm 5'4 and afab. Like just for those two reasons alone. It's ridiculous.

  • @cocobeebunnied7371
    @cocobeebunnied7371 Жыл бұрын

    “ she only doesn’t like men because of her trama so she shouldn’t really date a girl” on a ship that tbh had plenty of problems, didn’t expect that to be what someone had a problem with

  • @eacup3667

    @eacup3667

    Жыл бұрын

    Tenko Chabashira?

  • @Anonymous_Gambito

    @Anonymous_Gambito

    Жыл бұрын

    I don't know how that applies to the character, but this sounds really close to actual homophobic rethoric that's used towards real people

  • @eacup3667

    @eacup3667

    Жыл бұрын

    @The Legendary Arceus ive heard her master gaslit her into thinking men are disgusting, though i cant remember much, since i kinda left the fandom

  • @eacup3667

    @eacup3667

    Жыл бұрын

    @The Legendary Arceus Dunno

  • @DayDreamingWriters

    @DayDreamingWriters

    Жыл бұрын

    @The Legendary Arceus Gaslight is a part of trauma so..Maybe it can be counted as trauma

  • @wolfiegirlxox
    @wolfiegirlxox Жыл бұрын

    When I was younger and really into shipping someone said my ship was bad because "it was cringe". I asked him how, he said "because it is". It has been two years since this convo, I have discovered that he considers all ships he doesn't ship cringe.

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    goddamn im sorry for ya.

  • @comradewindowsill4253

    @comradewindowsill4253

    Жыл бұрын

    is he... 14? that's some classic 14 year old behavior tbh

  • @autisticbaconenjoyer

    @autisticbaconenjoyer

    Жыл бұрын

    @@comradewindowsill4253 oh god im turning fourteen soon dont say that i dont wanna act like that-

  • @FlurryPie0

    @FlurryPie0

    11 ай бұрын

    @@autisticbaconenjoyer It’s your fate

  • @autisticbaconenjoyer

    @autisticbaconenjoyer

    11 ай бұрын

    @@FlurryPie0 NOOO CANT I CHANGE IT?? HSIABCBSNA

  • @claire.1623
    @claire.1623 Жыл бұрын

    pretty late to this but " YOU CANT SHIP THEM THEY'RE COOKIES " most funniest take i've ever seen

  • @glam4663

    @glam4663

    Жыл бұрын

    Proceeds to package them up

  • @youreasimp5232

    @youreasimp5232

    Жыл бұрын

    HAHAHA, WOW. What a dumb reason oml. Hmm which were they though? I'm assuming you're talking abt crk cuz that's the only cookie fandom I know of lol

  • @Halloweenish

    @Halloweenish

    Жыл бұрын

    Laughs in Katya

  • @coriakacoron5851

    @coriakacoron5851

    Жыл бұрын

    cookie run series?

  • @hamstersareswag

    @hamstersareswag

    Жыл бұрын

    @@coriakacoron5851 i'm assuming so, i don't think there's many other series with cookies as characters, that i can think of atleast

  • @toxicsugarart2103
    @toxicsugarart2103 Жыл бұрын

    Can’t get over that “because one was ugly” omg. Catch that guy bursting into the church objecting at my wedding.

  • @0gammag0

    @0gammag0

    Жыл бұрын

    Barricade the doors.

  • @suspicious_snake756

    @suspicious_snake756

    Жыл бұрын

    Hire security and wear a mask

  • @myenglishisbadpleasecorrec5446

    @myenglishisbadpleasecorrec5446

    Жыл бұрын

    Shrek plot?

  • @alpyki2588

    @alpyki2588

    Жыл бұрын

    I know of at least one large fandom that if that one person was exposed to it, they'd have an stroke and die. Because everyone is shipped with the ugly character. There are no exceptions.

  • @grablemon3691

    @grablemon3691

    Жыл бұрын

    @@alpyki2588 what is this fandom?

  • @blueraspberry9285
    @blueraspberry9285 Жыл бұрын

    Fun game: guess the pairing based on why these people were told they couldn't ship them

  • @popplejam2128

    @popplejam2128

    Жыл бұрын

    SleepCinema’s ship is an Ace Attorney ship with Phoenix Wright and not Edgeworth. Probably Maya or Mia, but not Iris because the evidence claim wouldn’t make sense. And as a Wrightworth shipper, they’re not homophobic for not shipping it, i just get annoyed when people say it doesn’t make sense, or that we’re just “making it gay when it’s not”. THE ACTUAL GAME CREATORS SHIP IT. Plus a lot of implications, which are all compiled in an ao3 essay by sophie_inthesky. I don’t want people to ship it, i just want my ship to be respected.

  • @heelturn2

    @heelturn2

    Жыл бұрын

    3:16 how much do u wanna bet this one was a danganronpa shipper 💀💀

  • @ii.sxlary8742

    @ii.sxlary8742

    Жыл бұрын

    @@heelturn2 Could be BNHA too tbh

  • @celiajames464

    @celiajames464

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm pretty sure 2:39 is tokyo ghoul Character A is probs touka, B is probs Kaneki and the other 2 mentioned are probably kirishima and hide Tbh I think they're sorta misrepresenting it,, like I literally ship touka and kaneki but she didn't *just* shout at him once or whatever the whole time they knew eachother at the beginning of the story she would,, like, exclusively shout at him and scare him

  • @user-pr6qk5ss3w

    @user-pr6qk5ss3w

    Жыл бұрын

    @@celiajames464 Yeah, the cannibalism thing was a giant giveaway. I'm also guessing C is also Tsukiyama.

  • @IntrinsicallySomnia
    @IntrinsicallySomnia Жыл бұрын

    People need to understand that shipping isn't automatically synonymous with sexualising. People also need to understand that shipping is meant to be a fun fandom activity. It's not about what is and isn't canon.

  • @TheBritishDragong

    @TheBritishDragong

    8 ай бұрын

    OH MY GOD, YES

  • @thelovelybunny9012

    @thelovelybunny9012

    8 ай бұрын

    Yeah, shipping isn't automatically "I want to see them sleep together". It's mostly "I want to see them hold hands" or "I want to see them comfort eachother in hard times" or even just "I want to see them spend time together and interact".

  • @AD-dg3zz

    @AD-dg3zz

    8 ай бұрын

    Shipping also doesn't necessarily mean, "I believe this pairing *should* be canon." Yeah, there are some unhinged individuals who can't separate their personal feelings from the real story, but all in all, the whole point of it is just to have fun with hypotheticals.

  • @ohahmystical2976

    @ohahmystical2976

    7 ай бұрын

    I got told I couldn’t ship two characters because they were small kids (like 6-8) Yeah, which is why I only wanted it to be cute childhood crushes kids would have in kindergarten and stuff like that but they assumed I was sexualising them. Like, No, the only person sexualising the children is you

  • @AramatiPaz

    @AramatiPaz

    7 ай бұрын

    Said it all

  • @Gabriel-xo2kl
    @Gabriel-xo2kl Жыл бұрын

    I once had a friend who told me that I was in the wrong for shipping two characters because apparently, one of them was already in love with another character of the story. The story. Who was a story I wrote. The characters. Who are my characters. Apparently, I don’t know how to ship my own characters.

  • @ceeford9919

    @ceeford9919

    Жыл бұрын

    ....question, if you don't mind me asking where they like original characters? If so then the absurdity knows no bounds.

  • @Gabriel-xo2kl

    @Gabriel-xo2kl

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ceeford9919 Yes, original characters from an original story. I was talking to an artist friend of mine to ask her if she accepted to help me make this into a comic and so, because of that, some friends of this artist friend knew the story and read it. And one of them told me that A x T shouldn’t be together because A x E have way more chemistry.

  • @ceeford9919

    @ceeford9919

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Gabriel-xo2kl good lord. There goes brain cells. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @curlybrace314
    @curlybrace314 Жыл бұрын

    I have a deep and abiding respect for people who ship characters that aren't even in the same franchise. Absolute power move, 5/5. And as a bonus it seems to break the brains of ship-shamers.

  • @Xx_Oleander_xX

    @Xx_Oleander_xX

    Жыл бұрын

    After reading this comment I could really use a wish right now...

  • @VikkiVibe

    @VikkiVibe

    Жыл бұрын

    ....Someone tell me why my first thought for a crossover ship was a teenage Shroud from the DreamSMP with a teenage Eri from Boku No Hero Academia.

  • @inalamire

    @inalamire

    Жыл бұрын

    sonic.exe x duolingo

  • @VikkiVibe

    @VikkiVibe

    Жыл бұрын

    @@inalamire ABSOLUTELY NOT, PEPPA IS FOUR AND SONIC.EXE IS.... I DON'T EVEN WANNA KNOW

  • @inalamire

    @inalamire

    Жыл бұрын

    @@VikkiVibe oh ok mb, let me look for a better pair

  • @AmySay
    @AmySay Жыл бұрын

    The “You can’t ship them because they’re both girls” one is just… straight up genuine homophobia. No two ways about it.

  • @naluzoniro

    @naluzoniro

    Жыл бұрын

    could be a very naive kid/teen, about to discover a whole new world

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    @@naluzoniro or just some 13 year old who heard “sigmas” saying that shipping is cringe.

  • @compostxp

    @compostxp

    Жыл бұрын

    There are people who are just dense and can't comprehend same-sex relationships. I told this guy I had a girlfriend and he said, "Huh? Are you a boy?" and he proceeded to get more confused after I told him I was a girl.

  • @eeng17

    @eeng17

    10 ай бұрын

    Also Lams, from Hamilton.

  • @YoCelKreSunt

    @YoCelKreSunt

    10 ай бұрын

    Or being a MLM shipper and all the captain obviouses be like "he not gay he marries a woman in cAnOn" Bi people: am I a joke to you?

  • @AyakaShimizu
    @AyakaShimizu Жыл бұрын

    "She's short and therefore minor coded" is already bad but then her same height TWIN brother being with the same character(s) is completely fine because being male somehow makes him old enough

  • @SoulFlames.

    @SoulFlames.

    Жыл бұрын

    Let me guess, genshin fandom? Specifically with any hetero ship involving lumine

  • @hodgeelmwood8677

    @hodgeelmwood8677

    Жыл бұрын

    The "minor coding" thing is ridiculous. Is the character, in canon, 18 or over? Then it doesn't matter if they're short because they aren't a minor! People are nuts.

  • @kaiyodei

    @kaiyodei

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hodgeelmwood8677 aren't people upset over that woman character with the big boobs who looks like a child?

  • @kizana6506

    @kizana6506

    Жыл бұрын

    @@SoulFlames. Genshin fandom when lumine and xiao have the same chemistry as aether and xiao (The dynamic stays the same, it doesn’t matter which of the twins you’re playing as 😱) /sarcasm

  • @CrowsILike

    @CrowsILike

    11 ай бұрын

    "Short = minor coded" always amuses me because I reached my adult height when I was 12-13 (180 cm/5'11). Does that mean I was adult coded?

  • @Starsy.
    @Starsy. Жыл бұрын

    Not a reason why I shouldn’t ship them, but instead why I should- “He has a crush on her! That means you should ship them!” He likes her, indeed. But he is also incredibly dim-witted and unable to tell when he’s being manipulated. She enjoys using him to do her bidding. Sorry man, I don’t care if he likes her. I’m not putting him into that, I’m putting him to someone who will treat him correctly.

  • @hlhlhlhlhl8064

    @hlhlhlhlhl8064

    10 ай бұрын

    Ballad of songbirds and snakes moment

  • @youreasimp5232

    @youreasimp5232

    10 ай бұрын

    Chainsaw man moment

  • @LawIietFan

    @LawIietFan

    9 ай бұрын

    Chainsaw man 😭

  • @CinqAssocSouthSect5DonQuixote

    @CinqAssocSouthSect5DonQuixote

    9 ай бұрын

    the coffin of andy and leyley but theres more pressing issues

  • @nebulae-

    @nebulae-

    6 ай бұрын

    This is literally Denji and Makima

  • @angiewinchester3384
    @angiewinchester3384 Жыл бұрын

    Someone told me on Reddit that shipping non-canon canons is 'toxic' because its not 'real'. I told them that nothing in fiction is real, even the canon.

  • @pintrovert

    @pintrovert

    Жыл бұрын

    EXACTLY I hate the internet like let me ship what I want it doesn’t mean I like it irl 😭

  • @astraesl9547

    @astraesl9547

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pintrovert Just wanna say, I aint into shipping at all, but even I, the densest man alive, who barely knows shit about that concept and doesn't get it, understand that this is a way for people to express their creativity via fanfics, art and such.

  • @pintrovert

    @pintrovert

    Жыл бұрын

    @@astraesl9547 exactly!!

  • @Marliemac

    @Marliemac

    Жыл бұрын

    They even go as far as using the original translation to prove one ship is the true canon while the other ship is called straightwashed.

  • @astraesl9547

    @astraesl9547

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Marliemac Tf is straightwashed

  • @cat_mintfur513
    @cat_mintfur513 Жыл бұрын

    I was told that a ship between 23 and 28yearolds is p**dophilic because we had one flashbacks in the show where the first character was around 15. Apparently people in relationships don't have childhood and just spawn in the world being already 18

  • @Day-wx8ro

    @Day-wx8ro

    Жыл бұрын

    Someone i argued with deada$$ convinced a ship of 17 x 18 y/o is p**dophilic, i never lost words so bad i chose to stopped replying. Well on fair note, few others jumped in to ridiculed her on my stead. Sadly tho it appears ALOT of chronically online ppl have the same mindset.

  • @damienearl8302

    @damienearl8302

    Жыл бұрын

    That's...so strange, because the only other explanation is "Well, they had a flashback to when they were fifteen, so the relationship started when they were fifteen!" Which like...no-

  • @vaishnavisingh9244

    @vaishnavisingh9244

    Жыл бұрын

    This is the only reason I am scared to suggest one of my favorite fanfic to people since the characters have an age gap. Because you know how every relationship in real life is with two people perfectly the same age, no conflict. They adopt a kid who somehow looks like both of them because why not, and then live to the perfect age of 100 and die holding hands at the same time. One is cinamon roll and other have leather jackets and crap sarcasm as defense mechanism.

  • @ifujoshiiweeb8991

    @ifujoshiiweeb8991

    Жыл бұрын

    Are you talking about yuri on ice?? I was shocked to see people calling victor a p*do.🤦

  • @peachesandcream22

    @peachesandcream22

    Жыл бұрын

    I've heard that writing 17 yo dating 20 yo is somehow "predatory" and "pedophilic" like... Cmon, the character has only 1 year to become 18 and the other character is not automatically adult, they're also inexperienced (I'm 21 btw). And why do they think the relationship means sex? Lol haters sexualise characters even more than fic writers XD

  • @just_a_cabbage7756
    @just_a_cabbage77566 ай бұрын

    "I see them more as siblings" great, I don't. They are neither siblings nor a couple, so my ship is as valid your headcannon.

  • @sn0wcake

    @sn0wcake

    5 ай бұрын

    yeah oh my god its annoying when people say this also "THEYRE JUST FRIENDS!!!" is something people seem to scream at your face a lot...whats the point of fanfiction again?

  • @Bookytowel

    @Bookytowel

    3 ай бұрын

    Yeah! People in the Owl House fandom hate Luz x Hunter because they have a sibling dynamic... Okay, it's a DYNAMIC, what's your point?! I don't ship them personally, but I'd be fine if they became canon. You guys seem like you're going to start a riot. If you come across someone who ships two characters you see more as friends/siblings, please respect their choice. Unless it's literal incest. That's not okay.

  • @sn0wcake

    @sn0wcake

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Bookytowel luz and hunter are literally adopted siblings though iirc.

  • @Bookytowel

    @Bookytowel

    3 ай бұрын

    @@sn0wcake No, that's just fanon. (Warning: spoilers for The Owl House) Yes, the entirety of the Hexside squad stays with Luz while trapped in the human realm, but by that logic Amity and Luz would be adoptive siblings too. And in the finale when other characters reunite with their parents, Hunter is instead depicted reuniting with Darius. He also has a closer bond with Darius than with Camila, and in the timeskip epilogue, he's not shown inside Luz's house and is instead shown later on in the Demon Realm, while Camila, Luz's mother, and Vee, Luz's adoptive sister, are shown in the house. While Luz does tell Hunter that he's 'family now,' she could have easily meant it in a way that he's one of her close friends, thus a member of her chosen family. TL;DR: While Hunter and Luz COULD be adopted siblings, this is only fanon and there's more evidence suggesting that Hunter was adopted by Darius.

  • @sn0wcake

    @sn0wcake

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Bookytowel isnt hunter referred to as a noceda at some point though? cause i think i remember seeing one of his names listed as hunter noceda on toh wiki but i might be misremembering something. or maybe it was someone editing something untrue onto the wiki or maybe my brain just completely made that up lol. but i swear i've seen him referred to as hunter noceda somewhere like the wiki, or maybe a toh staff member called him that or something... i mean ig either way it just rubs me the wrong way personally to ship a character canonically in a wlw relationship with a man. no hate to anyone who ships lunter or anything but idk. it just reminds me of the whole "oh you just haven't found the right man yet" rhetoric. but that's probably mostly my personal bias tbh. again no hate (unless they do turn out to canonically be siblings in which case lunter shippers go away :3)

  • @captainzyler2540
    @captainzyler2540 Жыл бұрын

    had a friend get mad that I shipped Daisy and Peach from the Super Mario Franchise...she thought it was incest. Common mistake, they aren't actually related but she still insisted it was incest even after googling the truth

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    i prefer mareach and luiasy but peach and daisy definitely aren’t sisters, im pretty sure it’s a fact by now.

  • @sayethvexus8332

    @sayethvexus8332

    Жыл бұрын

    Even if they were related, when has a little issue like incest ever stopped royalty anyway?

  • @negligible_reality

    @negligible_reality

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sayethvexus8332 the Hapsburgs are QUAKING RN 😭😭😭

  • @FlurryPie0

    @FlurryPie0

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sayethvexus8332😂

  • @CrowsILike

    @CrowsILike

    11 ай бұрын

    I've seen so many ships get accused of being incest or "like incest", and only once were A and B actually related... And even then they weren't as "sibling-like" as the protesters acted since 1. they didn't find out they were siblings until one of them was dead, and 2. A was an manipulative asshole to B. Related to the above, in several cases the characters being related would actually make their canon interactions MORE problematic than if they were a couple. Not that there's anything wrong with that, I just find it amusing when people don't consider the full implications of their arguments.

  • @jadeann8401
    @jadeann8401 Жыл бұрын

    I too have ran into fans not liking a ship because they want the character for themselves. It wasn't just one fan it was several.

  • @freakda96

    @freakda96

    Жыл бұрын

    That's extremely pathetic and sad. Those people must have such idealistic adn unrrealistic views of relationships that they might never find a person in real life

  • @veracaide1373

    @veracaide1373

    Жыл бұрын

    I mean there are some characters i don’t want to be shipped because i kinda want rhem to myself??? Not because i wanna date them instead but like i prefer them on their own?? Idk how to describe it. Like i won’t get upset at people for shipping them i just enjoy them more on their own and adding a partner kinda takes some of the fun away for me. Nevermind this isn’t the same at all.

  • @pieofchart

    @pieofchart

    Жыл бұрын

    I feel like the 'Character x MC' ship in visual novels is popular because of this

  • @mimisezlol

    @mimisezlol

    Жыл бұрын

    A large quantity of Chinese Zhongli fans in the genshin Fandom hated the character's implied love interest for this very reason

  • @sourdrop

    @sourdrop

    Жыл бұрын

    As a person who has multiple painfully obvious self-insert OCs for multiple fandoms just to ship them with characters in said fandom, saying that a ship is bad because it interferes with your personal fannon is dumb.

  • @chuuyaapocalypse3263
    @chuuyaapocalypse3263 Жыл бұрын

    The stupidiest reason I was told not to ship two characters was by my sister and it was "You can't ship these two, you already ship them both with other characters!". Then I had to explain to her what's multishipping

  • @datawolf39

    @datawolf39

    Жыл бұрын

    I've never been told that, but I get it cause sometimes characters just pair well together. (To simplify it for myself though i mostly just polyship when I can) I hope there comes a time where she starts shipping someone with more than one person and you just look at her and you both remember the moment you had to explain multishiping.

  • @bananaxoonana8131

    @bananaxoonana8131

    Жыл бұрын

    ngl i made it a rule for myself to not ship characters with other characters that ive shipped or are canonically together But why do other ppl need to follow that rule if they dont wanna

  • @gabrielabatista6016

    @gabrielabatista6016

    Жыл бұрын

    Ok, I'm rolling with laughter here. Like, serial multishipper here; as long as it's not an OTP, I WILL ship a character with more than one person; heck, I might even try to find some fics of it in a poli ship if they have a canonical partner that I happen to like. Like, maaan that's a stupid reason. It's like, why am I gonna limit myself to just chocolate chip cookies when there are many other delicious flavours?

  • @mitacestalia7532

    @mitacestalia7532

    Жыл бұрын

    We have that one character who we ship with everyone

  • @thecommanderplays5651

    @thecommanderplays5651

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gabrielabatista6016 Same here xD There are too many good parings in stories, and this is pretty much the whole point of a Fandom xD

  • @KSTARYU
    @KSTARYU Жыл бұрын

    "They have depression" haves been used to invalidate a few ships, and that they "should get therapy first" everyone can have depression but that does not mean they can't be in a healthy and stable relationship, I find it cute if they fight their struggles to live a cozy happy life together -I'm saying as someone with attempted S word

  • @KSTARYU

    @KSTARYU

    Жыл бұрын

    I can respect that being someone's reason to dislike a ship but like hell you can tell me I can't keep shipping them

  • @chaoscitrus
    @chaoscitrus Жыл бұрын

    Pinterest comments are repulsive. Someone said “they’re minors” under a drawing of Kyoko Sakura and Sayaka Miki holding hands. Ah yes, as we all know, you can’t be in romantic relationships until you are the age of consent because dating someone automatically means sexual things. I feel like people that say these things have never been to school.

  • @wrightcember

    @wrightcember

    9 ай бұрын

    thats how you know someone reads too much smut lol

  • @sn0wcake

    @sn0wcake

    9 ай бұрын

    HELP ARENT THEY LITERALLY CANON

  • @ArbitraryOutcome

    @ArbitraryOutcome

    9 ай бұрын

    It's also a sign of projection of their own sexuality and/or fetishization, usually.

  • @actualgoblin

    @actualgoblin

    8 ай бұрын

    noooo but fr why is this so common

  • @euniesthebaws_freepalestine

    @euniesthebaws_freepalestine

    7 ай бұрын

    Yeah, whenever I go to Pinterest to look at JoJo's fanart there's always some clod talking about how "THEY'RE MINORS NOOOO"

  • @aquaabouttogetfunky
    @aquaabouttogetfunky Жыл бұрын

    Was told by a twitter person that I couldn’t ship two characters because one was 100 years older than the other and they hc the other character to be underage. Also something about being bordering beastiality....It was Sidon x Link. Sidon and Link are both adults and Sidon is a humanoid with fish qualities 💀

  • @winglessbat

    @winglessbat

    Жыл бұрын

    i mean, link is underage in some of the games but i think in the game in which Sidon appears he is over 18 so bruh.

  • @lilmissmilesyt9363

    @lilmissmilesyt9363

    Жыл бұрын

    Also it has been shown Zoras change differently. Sidon was a child when he first met link, then after 100 years he is now an adult. Heck even Mipha fell in love with link when he became an adult, she knew him ever since he was a child to

  • @screamingbean7509

    @screamingbean7509

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh I heard that weird argument before, I ship them two, but like they’re both adults in the game sooo why would it matter? Heck, it’s canon that Sidon’s sister even wanted to marry Link at some point (and hinted that they do in Age of Calamity). Then again you said it was a Twitter person so I’m not to surprised 🫤

  • @aquaabouttogetfunky

    @aquaabouttogetfunky

    Жыл бұрын

    @@winglessbat like BOTW Link apart of the Adult Link category. Like I would get being rightfully mad if I shipped the ww or oot kid links with an adult but like, BOTW Link definitely like 18-20.

  • @aquaabouttogetfunky

    @aquaabouttogetfunky

    Жыл бұрын

    @@screamingbean7509 Tell me about it. Like they see the exact same thing with straight ships and don't say anything but it's suddenly problematic when it's mlm related.

  • @snowflakeserpert6834
    @snowflakeserpert6834 Жыл бұрын

    "You own both of them!" That. That was the reason. I was shipping two of my OCs and was called "borderline narcissistic" because they "both shared pieces of my personality."

  • @ray4613

    @ray4613

    Жыл бұрын

    im surprised they didnt say they were siblings

  • @potatosack7492

    @potatosack7492

    Жыл бұрын

    Did they never hear about creative writing 💀

  • @regigigaslover6541

    @regigigaslover6541

    Жыл бұрын

    this is the most extremely online thing I have ever heard oh my god

  • @Yohannai

    @Yohannai

    Жыл бұрын

    Hahahah omg, how do they think people write romance books? I don't mean to be offensive. Like, I can see if they don't understand that having an OC is literally just having a character you've invented and can use creatively and its just an internet name for that - it took me a while to understand when I first heard the term - but like, that's a stretch all the same.

  • @snowflakeserpert6834

    @snowflakeserpert6834

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Yohannai They knew full well what OCs are, they have a lot of their own

  • @AdjectiveEQ
    @AdjectiveEQ Жыл бұрын

    Someone said a ship I wrote a fic about was incest because “I headcanon them as brothers” They never interacted in canon💀

  • @comicallylargerodent9155

    @comicallylargerodent9155

    5 ай бұрын

    honestly, the amount of ppl in the fnaf dca fandom that scream bloody murder when people dont headcanon sun and moon as siblings is wild my guy

  • @Eeppydeepy

    @Eeppydeepy

    3 ай бұрын

    Was it voltron?

  • @JadaCondes

    @JadaCondes

    16 күн бұрын

    @@comicallylargerodent9155 I've seen people hate on the ship almost any comment section in pinterest when I was just looking through cute drawings of Sun and Moon all lovey dovey to each other. People keep saying they are brothers... If I remember correctly, someone have mentioned Scott is okay to ship them.

  • @shigarakitherat6483
    @shigarakitherat6483 Жыл бұрын

    "He could be his DAD! Thats basically pedophelia!" They were 25 and 30 respectively.

  • @whatthefridge1o1

    @whatthefridge1o1

    7 ай бұрын

    Ah yes, the five year old deadbeat

  • @soyjoyy

    @soyjoyy

    6 ай бұрын

    Ped0philia is implying a 5 year old could be a father💀

  • @GloryofGore666

    @GloryofGore666

    5 ай бұрын

    That would imply the existence of a 5 year old father which is infinitely more concerning lmao

  • @user-qt9ek3us6i

    @user-qt9ek3us6i

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@GloryofGore666technically probably has happened though 😢

  • @tsifirakiehl4250

    @tsifirakiehl4250

    3 ай бұрын

    @user-qt9ek3us6i The youngest known biological parent did give birth at 5 years old. Look up Lina Medina if you want a really sad true story.

  • @azzyd3lta853
    @azzyd3lta853 Жыл бұрын

    "She's supposed to be miss perfect! She can't be gay!" I was shipping Lumity. Luz X Amity They literally kissed

  • @exyzt9877

    @exyzt9877

    Жыл бұрын

    it's literally fucking canon. Like, they outright refer to eachother as partners, and have partner moments. The fuck were they on about? also, little miss perfect being secretly gay is such a used trope that it's literally fucking cliche, is lumity really much of a stretch?

  • @LilienNacht

    @LilienNacht

    Жыл бұрын

    Implying that being Gay is an Imperfection in a world where there is no Homohobia

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    me who is bi : i wasn't perfect before realising anyways lmfao

  • @falcon_arkaig

    @falcon_arkaig

    Жыл бұрын

    Doesn't Amity literally call Luz "my Luz" when she was protecting them? Weird how people think "perfect girls" can't be lesbians.

  • @elliotmusgrove5468

    @elliotmusgrove5468

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LilienNacht Yeah, belos literally became emperor because of this. And the magic, and the lack of xenophobia, and the lack of ableism and the lack of….

  • @LeviCerise
    @LeviCerise Жыл бұрын

    "The age gap creates a power imbalance and that makes it toxic, basically grooming" - the characters were 25 and 28. I swear people learn these terms on tiktok and youtube and just run with it

  • @thelovelybunny9012

    @thelovelybunny9012

    8 ай бұрын

    Okay I can kind of see that if the characters where say, 20 and 50 or something, but a three year difference???? That's nothing when you're an adult lol

  • @AramatiPaz

    @AramatiPaz

    7 ай бұрын

    I've see someone saying incest is bad because there's power imbalance. Although in reality there's lots of kid-parent and niece-uncle in fandom it's often just siblings or cousins. Wtf power balance?

  • @jyjaeskz

    @jyjaeskz

    7 ай бұрын

    ​@@AramatiPazThat is exactly the reason incest is bad tho, why would incest be bad if not that? Sibling incest included

  • @HiBuddyyyyyy
    @HiBuddyyyyyy Жыл бұрын

    The teens being shipped = pedophilia one bothers me a lot because people seem to imply that the older one will always be the one taking advantage of the younger one when people can be abused by people younger than them. Especially if there’s only like one or two years difference. Also there is a separate word for being attracted to teens, pedophilia is the word for being attracted to preteen children.

  • @Nightpain-CHM

    @Nightpain-CHM

    11 ай бұрын

    I was in a high school relationship with another girl who was a couple of months younger than me. She was toxic and controlling and tried to tell me how to dress and would accuse me of cheating on her if I didn't talk to her on the phone for hours a day on the weekends. But hey, I guess I'm a pedo and the abuser even though we were both minors because I was going to turn 17 sooner. /s There's a whole bunch of other reasons why accusing every relationship with an age gap of being pedophilia is wrong, but you have a good point about the age difference not being the only possible power differential in a relationship. In an abusive relationship, the younger one could be the abuser. It isn't always "oh there's an age difference, so the older one is abusive". This is really a grade school way of looking at things too. In school, most of your friends will be people in the same grade or a grade up/below, because that's who you interact with. In real life, you'll have coworkers and friends with broader age groups.

  • @jyjaeskz

    @jyjaeskz

    7 ай бұрын

    Ephebophilia?

  • @snackbasket1214
    @snackbasket1214 Жыл бұрын

    The "sibling-coded" and "siblings live in the same house" logic is pretty funny to me. I can imagine these were kids who did not have the talk and tried to infer on what it means to be related on their own.

  • @TheBritishDragong

    @TheBritishDragong

    6 ай бұрын

    The fact that my favourite ship is canon friends-to-lovers between two characters who have lived together for years 💀 are there really people who would call this incest?? 😭

  • @gravetiger9333

    @gravetiger9333

    6 ай бұрын

    They also seem to forget the rare 'actually adopted siblings who fall in love and get married' couples that exist irl. I should know. My best friend growing up was a kid of one of these couples

  • @ordinarylittlebastard3248
    @ordinarylittlebastard3248 Жыл бұрын

    "They live in the same house and thus are siblings" Yeah, say that to Star and Marco

  • @insertunoroginalnamehere6189

    @insertunoroginalnamehere6189

    Жыл бұрын

    Oooohhh people are gonna be madddddd

  • @comradewindowsill4253

    @comradewindowsill4253

    Жыл бұрын

    lol do this persons parents not live in the same house or do they just assume they're the product of inbreeding

  • @Tyranitar.

    @Tyranitar.

    Жыл бұрын

    say that to… _checks notes_ most people in a relationship?

  • @reallifezuzu

    @reallifezuzu

    11 ай бұрын

    me when I acquire a new sibling after I move into university:

  • @oceantears

    @oceantears

    11 ай бұрын

    me when I have a sleepover with my friends and we’re in the same house: I guess we’re all family now

  • @itspienoon7883
    @itspienoon7883 Жыл бұрын

    I think people tend to forget that shipping used to be fun, like it's just plain silly fun and shouldn't be taken seriously

  • @not-so-obvious_autism777

    @not-so-obvious_autism777

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly bro

  • @Elystelle_

    @Elystelle_

    Жыл бұрын

    Preach!

  • @matthewmcbride778

    @matthewmcbride778

    Жыл бұрын

    @@not-so-obvious_autism777 basically what if two people who would kill each other end up in a relationship ?? That seems quite fun to think of

  • @not-so-obvious_autism777

    @not-so-obvious_autism777

    Жыл бұрын

    @@matthewmcbride778 YESSS

  • @candiedblue3507

    @candiedblue3507

    Жыл бұрын

    *fucking THANK YOU.*

  • @jamesblake5215
    @jamesblake5215 Жыл бұрын

    "You can't ship this because you're projecting your weird fantasies on to these characters" As if the same people who say this are not doing the exact same thing.

  • @chellcarter7684
    @chellcarter7684 Жыл бұрын

    I once saw someone saying it was racist to ship these two white characters with each other because it meant you must be intentionally ignoring these other two characters (both non-white) whom you could be focusing on shipping instead. The funniest part? The two ships had completely different dynamics *and* most people who shipped the two white dudes together *also* shipped the two other dudes together.

  • @CrowsILike

    @CrowsILike

    11 ай бұрын

    Was it Star Wars? This sounds like the ships my friends had in that fandom.

  • @gummirwl
    @gummirwl Жыл бұрын

    One time someone told me I can't ship them because it's inherently abusive when there was nothing abusive about their relationship 💀💀

  • @kittykittybangbang9367

    @kittykittybangbang9367

    Жыл бұрын

    Who are the characters and what franchise are they from? EDIT: Say what was the ship or you made the story up.

  • @elizabethsharp9556

    @elizabethsharp9556

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes, who are they?

  • @I.LOVE.FERRETS

    @I.LOVE.FERRETS

    Жыл бұрын

    what was the ship?

  • @derpzones

    @derpzones

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kittykittybangbang9367 give them time to reply bro

  • @lanac5793

    @lanac5793

    Жыл бұрын

    Mmhmmm no that's sus

  • @YourManMichael
    @YourManMichael Жыл бұрын

    For me, it was someone INSISTING that the two characters were brothers when they literally weren't. They've never thought of eachother as brothers, nor been referred to as brothers, but instead as best friends and family (one of the characters calls literally every single one of his friends for his family, it's straight up a trait of his). They have the same last name, but only because they took the name of the orphanage they were both in together. Also the ship is semi-canon. One of the characters has told the other that he loves him. While there has been A LOT of hints that the other guy returns the feelings.

  • @spaceoddities1652

    @spaceoddities1652

    Жыл бұрын

    the way i know you are talking about seraph of the end because i've had this fight multiple times

  • @rainix3354

    @rainix3354

    Жыл бұрын

    @@spaceoddities1652 Sames!! People are so crazy sometimes

  • @naja2414

    @naja2414

    Жыл бұрын

    this is why i switched to gureshin

  • @barelyrayssa9808

    @barelyrayssa9808

    Жыл бұрын

    I was part of a very obscure ship from an rpg. People were always bombarding us with the "THEY CONSIDER EACH OTHER SIBLINGS, STOP BEING DISGUSTING." And would get mad when we wouldn't ship one of them with another one of the characters. I was one of the first people to post fics for this couple. After a while, one of them died an horrible death, the other got aged like 30 years in 40 seconds, and the player wrote a letter that called the other one "man of my life" and the other player said that it could've happened had they both made it out alive, pretty much validating it. It's one of the most accepted ships in the fandom by now I think.

  • @Amy_the_Lizard

    @Amy_the_Lizard

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah yes. "Seraph of the End," the series I infamously both enjoy and feel kinda queer baited by, and thus everyone on my friend's D&D server gets to hear all about it in the most convoluted way possible because I want to vent my frustration but don't want to give spoilers...

  • @piesoup
    @piesoup Жыл бұрын

    I swear some people think any conflict ever happen in fanfiction = Toxic Relationship no matter how minor it is. Once I saw a group of kids on tumblr cyberbully someone because their fic are toxic(it just class different. And family drama). And I click on their ao3 profile to see what kind of fic they would approve and saw their works and bookmarks are just a bunch of fluff slice-of-life kind of story that everyone loves everyone and everything happy and smiles and laughs and it just all their friends who given kudos and commenting. I never give a fuck when someone said the word 'toxic' ever since. It will never be enough for these people.

  • @Nightpain-CHM

    @Nightpain-CHM

    11 ай бұрын

    They are so against toxicity that they loop around to being toxic. They cyberbullied another real human being for writing fictional tropes they didn't like. Even if the fic had been full on messed up relationship, dead dove do not eat, it would never be ok to harass someone for it. I like a wide-range of genres, including fluff. I also like dark-fluff (I promise it's a thing) and sometimes fic where the character(s) are legit toxic.

  • @jyjaeskz

    @jyjaeskz

    7 ай бұрын

    People say toxic because they don't want to give actual reasons why something is "bad" in their opinion. Even they know it's not that bad and people will immediately disagree with them, and they won't have anything to say back.

  • @svrvphimprod

    @svrvphimprod

    5 ай бұрын

    A plot without conflict isn't a plot, and you need to approach stories based on their own established logical consisticy rather than the logic and ethics of our own real world. Most good crime dramas, for instance wouldn't work by that logic because we wouldn't root for, say, the mafia in real life I feel like the reason a lot of TV dramas feel lackluster is because the conflict isn't interesting or entertaining. I think the reason I (and a lot of people) found Yellowstone so dreadfully boring is because it's hard to care about conflict between and two unlikable characters like Beth and Jamie because I don't really care which one comes out on top

  • @em5522
    @em5522 Жыл бұрын

    The "they're not from the same universe/franchise" or "they barely/never interacted" is one that definitely gets me. Yeah, that's why fanfiction exists. Seriously, no one has to like a ship, but trying to convince others that they're "wrong" for liking one is such a weird mindset to get into (esp when the real reason is that they're being homophobic or they don't like the ship and just hate that others do).

  • @ariaslack

    @ariaslack

    3 ай бұрын

    Imma be fr: I ship Convict from Pico and Ryoba from Yandere Simulator 1980's mode. SO SUE ME IF YOU WISH, MY SHIP STANDS!

  • @Peter-xw2py
    @Peter-xw2py Жыл бұрын

    I remember someone said only mental-ill lonely people would ship characters because they are treating people like props for their own desires. This is fiction.

  • @vickypedia1308

    @vickypedia1308

    Жыл бұрын

    I have read fics by authors that mentioned getting married or going on a hiatus to have a child

  • @Nakia11798

    @Nakia11798

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope they never read or watch any romance stories.

  • @Sandstimes

    @Sandstimes

    Жыл бұрын

    They have to be trying to lack self awareness to this extent lol

  • @lost_spacebunny2769

    @lost_spacebunny2769

    Жыл бұрын

    Who said that? Does the person have a background in psychology? Fr can't believe some people are so dumb. They don't know what fiction is, do they?

  • @not-so-obvious_autism777

    @not-so-obvious_autism777

    Жыл бұрын

    *”See that toxic person? Aaand we’re walkin’ the other way! Walk. The other. Way.”*

  • @amaiodayaka8926
    @amaiodayaka8926 Жыл бұрын

    " It's not straight, so don't ship it" "It's not gay, so don't ship it" Can't belive, that I heard both. Like what, I get that preferences exist and stuff, but how does that forbid me from my ships? T-T

  • @ablancer3582

    @ablancer3582

    Жыл бұрын

    “It’s not gay, so don’t ship it” sounds like something a dream stan alt girl would furiously type in between sips of monster energy

  • @marjorinestotch9723

    @marjorinestotch9723

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ablancer3582 as someone still in the dsmp fandom after 2 years, that's sadly accurate

  • @miryamcasas2803

    @miryamcasas2803

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, once a girl told me that I can't make gay shipps bc that characters are straight in canon and you can only do LGBT+ fanfics with LGBT+ canon characters bc it's a good representation. And then she told me human brain can't distinguish between realty and fiction, so I blocked her

  • @Dracomata

    @Dracomata

    Жыл бұрын

    I mean I tend not to do straight ships. I don't know if I have any (off the top of my head), I just know that I am seeing far more gay shipping material from the cannon that straight shipping material. Doesn't mean I don't have the straight ships or that I refuse to ship them, I just find more gay chemistry. But demanding people not ship something due to the ship's sexuality ain't cool.

  • @Space0fox

    @Space0fox

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anonymousfire4345 WHAT. As bisexual person I struggle a LOT to find cute bisexual characters because people always make them homosexual or asexual...

  • @theownerofthisaccount2521
    @theownerofthisaccount2521 Жыл бұрын

    “He’s traumatized! So it’s wrong to ship” It was about HunterxWillow

  • @insertunoroginalnamehere6189

    @insertunoroginalnamehere6189

    Жыл бұрын

    I've seen that one! I don't see why its wrong to sh traumatized characters..? Like hunter seems genuinely happier around willow and willow is one of the first people to be in his character development (i think i haven't watched TOH since summer)

  • @Anaea

    @Anaea

    Жыл бұрын

    talking to people and forming bonds is healthy for you though????? people with trauma dont heal by closing themselves off if the funny indie games i played ever taught me

  • @A_Krix

    @A_Krix

    Жыл бұрын

    The hate for Huntlow is something I never understood, like its not toxic in any way either or illegal (there were also those who hate it because its "straight" 😐)

  • @AtrenchcoatfullofWASPS

    @AtrenchcoatfullofWASPS

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@A_Krix I don't personally ship Huntow, I tried to get into it but couldn't but I do think that they deserve each other 😊

  • @ceeford9919

    @ceeford9919

    Жыл бұрын

    Eh, I personally don't ship huntlow. True, they had some cute moments and I can see the appeal. But I never got invested into it.

  • @localsgoaway5047
    @localsgoaway5047 Жыл бұрын

    I've been told it's weird to ship children when I was said a throwaway comment about Byler.. Let me clarify a few things: I myself was around fourteen at the time, which was similar to the age they were, and shipping two or more characters isn't inherently sexual so there's nothing wrong with it. It's not like I was fantasizing two thirteen year olds having sex, I just thought the two could be cute as a middle school couple, if you know what I mean. Literally none of my ships are sexual, I'm a sexually repulsed asexual and to me people are sort of like barbie dolls, they have no genitals, but apparently because I used the word ship it's "weird because they're children" Bestie, what? Anyway yeah, just wanted to rant a bit 🙃

  • @NiennaFan1

    @NiennaFan1

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah like and even if you did fantasize about characters having sex with each other, it's a lot better I think for a 14 year old to idolize relationships between teenagers than for a 14 year old to idolize relationships between adults and then think that if they are in a relationship they should behave the same way as adults in a relationship (or think that they aren't attractive because they need to look like adults to be attractive when they are literally still growing)

  • @definitelynotsiri4058

    @definitelynotsiri4058

    Жыл бұрын

    People who think it’s inherently weird to ship children are just homophobic 99% of the time change my mind

  • @hq1122

    @hq1122

    Жыл бұрын

    Perhaps unrelated but I'm so happy to finally find someone who also sees people like barbie dolls

  • @gracetehrani5282

    @gracetehrani5282

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm a similar way with Byler (i'm also ace)! It's never sexual, I just think they'd look cute together

  • @norM_ystical

    @norM_ystical

    Жыл бұрын

    People keep on assuming shit, and like, out of nowhere. Sometimes they avoid logic altogether, just relying on instant emotional responses. Kids literally do that irl. Hell, they probably even like a minor x minor ship themselves, but don't say anything cuz it's canon. Going off on a ramble here, but, it just reminds me of something that bothered me... Alright, so, for context, Big City Greens. If more context is needed, there was like this one Valentine's episode and the protag (he's 10 years old, FYI) Cricket fell in love with some chick Gabriella or whatever SO ANYWAY. On some Googoe search thing, I think I found one article conplaining about that. Probably some LGBTQ person who was frustrated by "heteronormative/allocentric" stuff. Anyway, I remember little (might go back to it lol;;) but one thing I noticed is that the writer, at least once, used the word "libido" to refer to his attraction. Libido. That means LUST. If you forgot, he is FCKING TEN YEARS OLD. If THAT isn't weird and creepy and kinda gross, I don't know WHAT is.

  • @cyanity1017
    @cyanity1017 Жыл бұрын

    One I remember was "they're by the same creator so they're basically siblings!" The characters weren't even from the same series, it was Balan and Nights. Wanna know the ironic part? The same person who said that shipped lance and balan, who are from the same series and canonically related to eachother [ lance created balan and they're commonly refered to as brothers both by the fandom and some official sources ]

  • @eacup3667

    @eacup3667

    Жыл бұрын

    also heard this happened with error sans and fresh sans, same creator yet not related

  • @cyanity1017

    @cyanity1017

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eacup3667 yea I also remember seeing a lot of posts about that one

  • @runeanonymous9760

    @runeanonymous9760

    Жыл бұрын

    @@eacup3667 I mean if you follow the “clones are like twins! Gross!” thing and apply that, then I guess there’s Logic of them being the same person from different worlds being incest-y (there was a whole Loki drama there), but while a clone is like a twin, an alternate you is *literally you* and also it’s imaginary? Clone fucking shouldn’t be mainstream, it’s not something that should be out there in the world at large, at least not depicted positively, but incest-y stuff should still exist, just not easily accessible

  • @kadencrafter78

    @kadencrafter78

    Жыл бұрын

    There's a Balan Wonderland fandom?

  • @NothingOfNoteToSeeHere

    @NothingOfNoteToSeeHere

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kadencrafter78 Apparently...

  • @oop5488
    @oop5488 Жыл бұрын

    4:41 the dude was just mad that someone like Luigi could pull bitches better than him

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    lol

  • @not-so-obvious_autism777

    @not-so-obvious_autism777

    Жыл бұрын

    LMAOOO L BOZO

  • @Bubble_is_here

    @Bubble_is_here

    Жыл бұрын

    I was thinking man was a really dedicated Luigi x Bowser shipper

  • @Painfulldarksoul

    @Painfulldarksoul

    Жыл бұрын

    Or he was mad, because of the reverse. Cause someone like Daisy could pull high level bitches like Luigi.

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Bubble_is_here 🤓 then doesn’t that mean that his ship is not scientifically accurate, since men to men intercourse don’t make children. 🤓 (im so sorry i had to crack that joke.)

  • @tsifirakiehl4250
    @tsifirakiehl4250 Жыл бұрын

    I once got told I couldn’t ship two characters because because one of them was supposedly 20 and the other 14, despite the fact that neither one had a canonically confirmed age, and they looked about the same age and acted with similar levels of maturity-and if anything, the supposedly 20-year-old one acted a bit more childish!

  • @tsifirakiehl4250

    @tsifirakiehl4250

    9 ай бұрын

    It was N and the protagonist of Pokémon Black and White.

  • @mikaasav1193

    @mikaasav1193

    9 ай бұрын

    Is this Kaito and Len? Are Len and Kaito’s ages confirmed? 🤔 (edit) Oh nevermind, but I’m not gonna delete my comment

  • @treehouseoffun1242

    @treehouseoffun1242

    9 ай бұрын

    @@tsifirakiehl4250Which one? Hilbert, Hilda, Rosa, or Nate?

  • @tsifirakiehl4250

    @tsifirakiehl4250

    9 ай бұрын

    @treehouseoffun1242 I usually prefer not to use the canon names, but Hilda.

  • @svt1388

    @svt1388

    8 ай бұрын

    collei and sucrose from Genshin naybe?

  • @copycat5637
    @copycat5637 Жыл бұрын

    actually this colleague called me a fetishist because i only had homosexual ships and i was "sexualizing gay people" (i'm bi and non-binary she was straight and cis and spent 24 hours on twitter)

  • @StarGarnet03

    @StarGarnet03

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah.... one of THOSE people...

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    we need to put fetishist on the top shelf until these babies learn how to use the word correctly. and no you’re not a fetishist, you’re a fujoshi. (i just wanna say that “fujoshi” means “girl who likes bl content” idk the gender neutral term for it.)

  • @StarGarnet03

    @StarGarnet03

    Жыл бұрын

    @nichole. I thought the term fujoshi was supposed to be derogatory /genq

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    @@StarGarnet03 fortunately that’s not the case.

  • @StarGarnet03

    @StarGarnet03

    Жыл бұрын

    @nichole. ah good. I genuinely thought that it only referred to straight women EXCLUSIVELY consuming bl and yaoi

  • @Anonymous_Gambito
    @Anonymous_Gambito Жыл бұрын

    Stupid shit I've heard over the years: - People claiming that ships with a 2/3 year age gap were p*d*ph*lia - People claiming that characters who weren't in any way related were actually "sibling coded" and so shipping them was creepy

  • @zacktherandomweirdo

    @zacktherandomweirdo

    Жыл бұрын

    Ah ... me with N and Touya/Touko from Pokemon ... Yeah people keep insinsting that Touya is 14 despite his mother telling him at the start of the game that he will be an adult soon and desprite the fact that Tcheren and Bianca, his friends of the same age, get jobs two years later in pokemon Black and White 2 Ps: Touya/Touko are the names of the player characters from pokemon Black and White

  • @door-chan

    @door-chan

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zacktherandomweirdo Yeah the BW protagonists are probably like 16, the oldest pokémon protagonists, and N is likely the same age too tbh

  • @zacktherandomweirdo

    @zacktherandomweirdo

    Жыл бұрын

    @@door-chan No N is actually 18 and the scene we see when loading the game (the coronation) was probably some form of birthday

  • @door-chan

    @door-chan

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zacktherandomweirdo Oh, I didn't know that , thought he was the same age as the protagonists. Though the coronation being done to someone who is underage doesn't seem very farfetched for the pokémon world to me, where 11 year olds beat crime organizations and become champions of their whole region. I think it makes sense that people would think it's weird to ship a 16 year old with an 18 year old, though. The 2/3 year age gap of the original comment might be referring to 2/3 years for characters who are over 18 anyway, which doesn't make sense but a lot of people don't like in real or fictional couples

  • @anerrorhasoccurred8727

    @anerrorhasoccurred8727

    Жыл бұрын

    @@door-chan the X and Y protagonists are anywhere from 15 to 18, too. Serena is younger in the anime but her game counterpart is essentially a whole different character anyway.

  • @solarcupid2583
    @solarcupid2583 Жыл бұрын

    The people who say two characters with same eyes/hair are sibling coded must never find out about POC. What do you MEAN there's who races of people with the same eye and/or hair color as each other and AREN'T related??? Also my sister literally has different hair and eyes from me so the idea that all siblings HAVE to have one of those the same is very much wrong

  • @angiewinchester3384

    @angiewinchester3384

    Жыл бұрын

    I once saw a comment on TikTok about a real life couple of color that they were 'participating in incest because they look alike'. The only thing they had in common in appearance is that they were Black.

  • @DayDreamingWriters

    @DayDreamingWriters

    Жыл бұрын

    As someone who is in Gacha Comnunity(On facebook, since in here im kind of burned out). I second this too much.

  • @hi.241

    @hi.241

    Жыл бұрын

    Im betting they come from the gacha community

  • @ZKP314

    @ZKP314

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hi.241 …it took me a second to realize that this wasn’t talking about Gacha games (FGO, Azur Lane, Blue Archive, etc.)

  • @anerrorhasoccurred8727

    @anerrorhasoccurred8727

    Жыл бұрын

    Never tell them about the Fate franchise where a lot of the characters are basically recolours 😭

  • @uj.official
    @uj.official Жыл бұрын

    Was told I wasn't allowed to ship two characters because they both.... later .... died...? It was at this moment that I realised that a surprising majority of readers were NOT aware that I could set a fic in a time prior to a certain key event.

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    if you ever make a fanfic of your ship make them marry eachother in heaven.

  • @uj.official

    @uj.official

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sevenpenceLOLZ **Begins taking notes**

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    @@uj.official lmao.

  • @astralcat9469

    @astralcat9469

    6 ай бұрын

    charmuro

  • @RikkiJk
    @RikkiJk Жыл бұрын

    "the age gap is too big it doesn't work!" My brother in christ one of these characters is 450 years old and the other is several thousand. They're both immortal. I don't think anybody cares after 100 years. Also this same person was violently shipping the several-thousand-year old immortal character with a 16 year old human being. 💀 What was that about age gaps again? She's gonna die and leave him broken, at least the two immortals will stay with each other for life

  • @Winter_Symphony

    @Winter_Symphony

    7 ай бұрын

    I am so sorry for commenting this, but hold on, how is a mortal 16-year-old better than a 450-year-old immortal being?! Do people in your Fandom have brains?

  • @atanvardecunambiel8917

    @atanvardecunambiel8917

    6 ай бұрын

    I have heard people advocate against Mayfly-December Romances like Say'ri (normal human woman) x Tiki (a dragon religious figure who spent decades of her childhood with a notable historical figure millennia ago) for similar reasons. This dialogue sums it up. Say'ri: I fear my lifetime is but a few short days compared to yours. Would you still have me, knowing that I cannot stay for long? Tiki: Without a moment's hesitation. I am used to loss. Do not deprive me from the joy of ever HAVING.

  • @Winter_Symphony

    @Winter_Symphony

    6 ай бұрын

    @@atanvardecunambiel8917 As an Fire Emblem fan, this reference made my day 😃

  • @bloc9339
    @bloc9339 Жыл бұрын

    "This ship doesn't make sense" Mhm. That's why it's called a crackship, I literally said multiple times that it was a crackship, I just thought certain interactions would be cute and wholesome, and even said in the tags "you can interpret this as platonic or romantic, I don't care." To this day I'm confused as to how someone thought I would listen to them saying it didn't make sense when I'm the one shipping Kaminari and Todoroki because one is a pikachu and the other looks like a pokeball.

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    lmfaooo

  • @marjorinestotch9723

    @marjorinestotch9723

    Жыл бұрын

    Kaminari is canonically related to Pikachu change my mind

  • @Art3m1s07

    @Art3m1s07

    Жыл бұрын

    may i add to that: kirishima as geodude

  • @marjorinestotch9723

    @marjorinestotch9723

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Art3m1s07 Yes

  • @DRAMATICJELLYBEAN

    @DRAMATICJELLYBEAN

    Жыл бұрын

    Ok but the reasoning behind the Todoroki and Kaminari ship is f-cking hilarious 😂

  • @chaoscat1446
    @chaoscat1446 Жыл бұрын

    fans telling other fans that they shouldn't ship something cuz they've never interacted in canon is stupid. I mean I don't personally ship characters that have never met canonically, but why should I care if someone else does? Good for them if they do honestly

  • @midnight_blue_moon

    @midnight_blue_moon

    Жыл бұрын

    I kinda just feel bad for those people cause they don't actually get real content, they always gotta make it

  • @mimsilvernote

    @mimsilvernote

    Жыл бұрын

    Do people no longer remember the grip Rise of The Brave Tangled Guardians had on the Internet in the mid 2010s? How popular of a ship Jelsa was? How MordiTwi saw a brief increase in popularity in 2021?

  • @freshcupofangst

    @freshcupofangst

    Жыл бұрын

    Comments like that just make me ship my favorite "never met in canon" OT3 ship even harder tbh

  • @freshcupofangst

    @freshcupofangst

    Жыл бұрын

    @@midnight_blue_moon on the plus side, canon can't hurt us :)

  • @DayDreamingWriters

    @DayDreamingWriters

    Жыл бұрын

    I mean, this is my reason to not ship certain characters(For me it could feel out of the place) But did I use this reason to degrate someones opinion? No, since I know some people like ship between Character A and B, even they didnt have interaction between each other

  • @Violets_and_Madness
    @Violets_and_Madness Жыл бұрын

    I ship a character who is 31 with someone who is 29. I was told the relationship is pedophilic in nature because the first digit of their age didn't match

  • @StarGarnet03

    @StarGarnet03

    Жыл бұрын

    By their logic a 10 year old and a 19 year old would not be pedo

  • @ionlymakeeditsuzu631

    @ionlymakeeditsuzu631

    7 күн бұрын

    Some of these are fucking mind boggling

  • @clodolcmidnights837
    @clodolcmidnights837 Жыл бұрын

    Daisy x Luigi (laisy, as I call it): *exists* Yotato5’s classmate, apparently: NOT SCIENTIFICALLY POSSIBLE!

  • @KxTKx

    @KxTKx

    Жыл бұрын

    Yea, like he'd heard about the mario universe on some discovery channel I- 💀

  • @imjustasconfusedasyou
    @imjustasconfusedasyou Жыл бұрын

    “they have no interactions with eachother” that has literally never stopped me and it never will. idc

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    Irl we can end up with people we didn't think we would end up meeting anyways. So what's their point about they never interacted? Anyone interacts with others unless we say hello.... lol

  • @standard-carrier-wo-chan

    @standard-carrier-wo-chan

    Жыл бұрын

    "they have no interactions with each other" I mean, isn't that why I'm writing the fanfic? To have them... I dunno, _interact with each other?!?!_

  • @Nightpain-CHM

    @Nightpain-CHM

    11 ай бұрын

    Android 17/Yamcha FTW (don't judge me).

  • @curetapwater5604
    @curetapwater5604 Жыл бұрын

    I'll never be over "Luigi/Daisy is scientifically inaccurate."

  • @villagerminecraft464

    @villagerminecraft464

    8 ай бұрын

    Everyone knows the only scientific approved luigi ship is with waluigi. everything else has been deemed scientifically incorect

  • @rjai5003

    @rjai5003

    7 ай бұрын

    Commenter: “I like Luigi+Daisy” Classmate: “NOT SCIENTIFICALLY POSSIBLE!!”

  • @omgman5745

    @omgman5745

    12 күн бұрын

    I think they meant that "women don't like men who are afraid of things because of evolution" yeah because the nervous man and the outgoing woman aren't a common pairing.

  • @hylianevalink
    @hylianevalink Жыл бұрын

    I've felt the "sibling coded" one. I'm a Zelda x Link shipper for BotW, someone told me it's wrong to ship them because they look like siblings ...What? I mean if there was really a sibling coded relationship it would be Link and Mipha since I really think Link would see Mipha more like a big sister than a love interest since he met her when he was 4 and grew up with her while Mipha barely aged because Zora morphology. Yet I don't sh!t on Mipha x Link shippers.

  • @cutedragongirl7575

    @cutedragongirl7575

    10 ай бұрын

    Honestly I see Zelda and Link as siblings but I’m never gonna harass people over shipping them bc it’s literally not confirmed so it would be silly to do so (not to mention starting an argument on the internet is a useless endeavour lol)

  • @NYCTOSEE

    @NYCTOSEE

    9 ай бұрын

    Zelda x Link shipper since the first game (80s baby) & THIS IS THE WORST ONE. The amount of “sibling coded” excuses are just… way too many. Also completely agree with the Mipha one. Not to mention these chronically online losers can cry about it technically being grooming. And Mipha x Link is about the 2nd most popular ship.

  • @hylianevalink

    @hylianevalink

    9 ай бұрын

    @@NYCTOSEE let's not talk about those that ship Sidon and Link when the two games are very clear they are BEST FRIENDS but I guess two men can't look at each others unless they're gay. Not to mention Sidon has a wife in TotK and the shippers were like "NOOOOO HATE HATE AHTE HER GRRRR SIDON IS GAY BC HE GAY CODED GRRGRGRRRR GRGRR But it's okay bc he has two hands so he can still be with Link :3c"

  • @NYCTOSEE

    @NYCTOSEE

    8 ай бұрын

    @@hylianevalink …..Ew. Wow. That’s really sad actually. It very much gives MAJOR fujoshi to me.

  • @NormallyACat
    @NormallyACat10 ай бұрын

    Someone once told me “you cant ship them, their colour pallets dont match!”

  • @bnhalemon7098

    @bnhalemon7098

    6 ай бұрын

    Of the whole video and all the comments, this is it, this is the only valid reason you can’t ship two characters/j

  • @destiny_moon115

    @destiny_moon115

    3 ай бұрын

    This is officially the most stupid reason why you can't ship two characters. Also what ship is this?

  • @roxanamariastoica2534

    @roxanamariastoica2534

    3 ай бұрын

    It's the biggest piece of dog shit that I've ever heard The Rock

  • @AlstenE18

    @AlstenE18

    26 күн бұрын

    "your ship has to abide by basic colour theory else it's invalid!!1!!" /j

  • @biggizmo5771
    @biggizmo5771 Жыл бұрын

    I really hate the whole mentality of “ i’m going to be annoying to people who ship a certain ship, because this other ship *I like* is more likely to happen in cannon” or just generally treating people who don’t ship the same things as you do as an adversary. It’s very immature and frustrating. I haven’t seen it much since I was in my early teens. But that might just be because I’m hanging around in different circles than I used to. Lol

  • @schabowy6149

    @schabowy6149

    Жыл бұрын

    Thissss

  • @schabowy6149

    @schabowy6149

    Жыл бұрын

    They can’t understand that sometimes it’s about potential chemistry two characters could have and possible interesting interactions

  • @chocolatwo4504

    @chocolatwo4504

    Жыл бұрын

    Yess, i hate ship wars, a lot of people hate on my ship because of that reason and harass people who ship that certain ship:/

  • @denjidenji9162

    @denjidenji9162

    Жыл бұрын

    It's still very much a thing in certain places. It just now has evolved to those same people placing themselves on a high horse thinking that the other ship is somehow morally wrong in any way possible. They will twist and bend to find any posible reason that it's wrong that you ship that and that the only "morally good" ship with those characters is their own. I've seen it so many times,,,

  • @electroflame6188

    @electroflame6188

    Жыл бұрын

    @@denjidenji9162 What you're describing has been a thing for decades at this point. It's definitely not new.

  • @LucyDMusic
    @LucyDMusic Жыл бұрын

    Weirdest I've heard is that "other people who like this ship are toxic so you must be toxic too". Like no.....I just like cheese scientist man with billionaire man. It is not that deep. Enthusiasts of ANY ship can be toxic, even if the ship itself isn't!

  • @caramocii

    @caramocii

    Жыл бұрын

    i dont know which fandom this is about but 'cheese scientist' has me curious please explain

  • @saltysunflowersugar7826

    @saltysunflowersugar7826

    Жыл бұрын

    @@caramocii the "Chees Scientist" is Dr. Two brains from Word Girl, and the "billionaire man" is Mr. Big from the same show

  • @caramocii

    @caramocii

    Жыл бұрын

    @@saltysunflowersugar7826 ohh cool i'll check it out! tysm!

  • @elsanzo

    @elsanzo

    Жыл бұрын

    Me 2. When I ship something always appears the stupid that says "the fandom is toxic so you're toxic and your ship too" and bro, that doesn't make sense.

  • @ellarose7114

    @ellarose7114

    Жыл бұрын

    WORD GIRL ??

  • @SailorSaturn1994
    @SailorSaturn199411 ай бұрын

    honestly at this point it should be "idgaf what you ship just tag it so I can blacklist it"

  • @yikesforever7611
    @yikesforever7611 Жыл бұрын

    It's not really a fanfiction ship but I got told not to ship two characters because one used to abuse the other before having a very very long redemption with the other helping them over many many many years, still got told that it was an abusive ship even with the redemption arc I made the characters, you'd think I'd know if it was still abusive after all the work I put into redeeming them

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    why did i first think of mario x riba from MTMB.

  • @paigestubbs9718

    @paigestubbs9718

    Жыл бұрын

    spuffy?

  • @nara9404

    @nara9404

    3 ай бұрын

    Can I maybe have the link to the story?

  • @barbaramarianadeassuncaofr9210
    @barbaramarianadeassuncaofr9210 Жыл бұрын

    I think to me it's the "you can't ship these characters because they're kids!". Like, doesn't kids have crushes too? And specially when it's a comedic romance between the two and they both have feelings for each other. Thinking "oh, these kids look very cute together! I hope they can stay together in the future" is not the same as sexualizing them or being a pedo!!

  • @itspienoon7883

    @itspienoon7883

    Жыл бұрын

    This is reminding me of a certain counterpoint on TikTok where Anya and Damian (two characters from Spy x Family) are constantly shipped together because they're girl and boy, but something like Killua and Gon (Hunter x Hunter) being shipped is wrong because they're boy and boy, despite being much older and more mature to understand love than the two 5 year olds

  • @bananaxoonana8131

    @bananaxoonana8131

    Жыл бұрын

    @@itspienoon7883 i like that ppl age anya and damien up when they ship them and animate them in a relationship tbh

  • @alaskabane5340

    @alaskabane5340

    Жыл бұрын

    @@itspienoon7883 holy hell, I remember an artist was given literal death threats over this. I hate people so much, they had no problems with these eleven-year-old straight-up unliving people but have problem when people ship them.

  • @zalybrainlessgenius503

    @zalybrainlessgenius503

    Жыл бұрын

    You can't deny there are some people who get creepy with child ships. It depends

  • @alaskabane5340

    @alaskabane5340

    Жыл бұрын

    @@zalybrainlessgenius503 as long as there is no sexual stuff involved, I don't understand the problem

  • @a.r.tivadar
    @a.r.tivadar Жыл бұрын

    “The age gap is too big!” about Hannibal and Will….. yeah, that’s the biggest problem with these cannibal murderers…… The Age Difference……

  • @uwutwt1451

    @uwutwt1451

    Жыл бұрын

    If you also go look for their actual ages in the show you won't find shit bc it was never specified, so your only option are the actors ages, and their age gap ain't even that much.

  • @a.r.tivadar

    @a.r.tivadar

    Жыл бұрын

    @@uwutwt1451 EXACTLY

  • @CGFillertext

    @CGFillertext

    Жыл бұрын

    One time someone told me I shouldn’t ship Otto Octavius x Norman Osborn (movie versions) because their ages ‘aren’t confirmed’

  • @mkg2124

    @mkg2124

    Жыл бұрын

    I also have some ships with age gaps where they are both killers and I'm like.... it's not real and if it was I think there are bigger crimes to care about here.

  • @one_smol_duck

    @one_smol_duck

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah, obviously the real problem with that ship is them both being cannibals means they're sibling-coded.

  • @Alleyoop1-7Fanfiction
    @Alleyoop1-7Fanfiction Жыл бұрын

    “They live in the same house, and thus are sisters” uh oh I should tell my husband we gotta break up 😂😂😂

  • @Elaineonyt
    @Elaineonyt Жыл бұрын

    Because “they’re all straight” 😭😭😭 GIRL THEIR SEXUALITIES WERE NEVER CONFIRMED

  • @negligible_reality

    @negligible_reality

    Жыл бұрын

    even if they were all confirmed to be straight... who cares??? the point of fanfic is taking what was established in canon and running with it. death of the author, baby!!! you wanna ship 2 characters that are canonically straight and put them in a gay relationship? go for it! i swear the people that limit themselves to strictly following canon like that are so boring, and are really obnoxious and annoying when they INSIST that everyone else in fandom spaces do the same thing. one of my favorite things about fandom and fanfiction is diverging from canon, people who say doing that sorta thing isn't valid are just haters tbh.

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    @@negligible_reality i like going with the canon but i don’t just tell others not to do so. i even have a few headcanons (not necessarily about sexualities) but they are very few. just let people make their own headcanons and imagine what they wanna imagine, it’s fine.

  • @Malefiw

    @Malefiw

    Жыл бұрын

    @@negligible_reality what??😭 so I can just take a canon gay character and ship them with someone of the opposite gender and it'd be fine?

  • @whalesharkcoolness

    @whalesharkcoolness

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Malefiw yeah kinda. thats what fanwork is, not everyone has to like it but you can do whatever you want

  • @norM_ystical

    @norM_ystical

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@sevenpenceLOLZ Not exactly relevant, but I feel like adding my thoughts, so fck it ig. I don't really do headcanons; at least, I don't pull them out of nowhere. I like to go by canon, too. Which is why my headcanons are based off of canon stuff. A liiittle frustrating only having like, 2-3 autistic headcanons and one LGBTQ off the top of my head (Aromantic bisexual ^^ I originally was more vague about it, but eventually I just said screw it ig lol), but... idk, that's just me, I guess??;; Maybe related to autism...? Having to write essays genuinely physically hurts (WHOLE other story, just take my word for it for now), and it may be due to not knowing where in the damned hell to start; maybe that's similar? HHH... Crud, okay, it seems there must be a LOT I could ramble on, regarding "shipping/fandom/??? styles" whatever that's to be called

  • @ama-the-weeb
    @ama-the-weeb Жыл бұрын

    note: it is perfectly fine to not like a ship bc the two characters have never interacted it is *not* fine to then tell people that said ship is invalid and they can't ship it there are ships i like that i never understood bc they never interacted but i still love the fanfics of them just let people ship what they want/write what they want, as long as they're not hurting anyone over it, its fine

  • @Quazex

    @Quazex

    Жыл бұрын

    Big agree, honestly this applies to literally every ship.

  • @damienearl8302

    @damienearl8302

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@Quazex Well, with exceptions for morality purposes, but...yeah, personal grievances shouldn't influence what people enjoy

  • @Quazex

    @Quazex

    Жыл бұрын

    @@damienearl8302 No, when I said every I meant every, with the only exceptions being certain rpf ships which do actually affect real people negatively.

  • @damienearl8302

    @damienearl8302

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Quazex Aight!

  • @Chorsanoidka

    @Chorsanoidka

    Жыл бұрын

    yeah, honestly. like, I hate ships that ship a child and an adult or two close relatives, so I'm not going to read fanfics about them or interact with people who ship them. but does that mean that I'm going to harass these people for their ship? of course not.

  • @elliotnutella8044
    @elliotnutella8044 Жыл бұрын

    "It's 2 boys." I didn't even ship the characters just didn't think it was offensive, and this person disagreed.

  • @xx-hw2hr

    @xx-hw2hr

    Жыл бұрын

    Thats just homophobia

  • @forgottenvivreto8229

    @forgottenvivreto8229

    Жыл бұрын

    Ho mo pho bi a

  • @not-so-obvious_autism777

    @not-so-obvious_autism777

    Жыл бұрын

    Any amount of homophobia is too much for the world of today. Like, get with the program and stop having such a toxic medieval mindset *The Gay’s Here To Stay And It Ain’t Goin’ Away* so deal with it

  • @elliotnutella8044

    @elliotnutella8044

    Жыл бұрын

    @@not-so-obvious_autism777 true dat

  • @mhgb1333

    @mhgb1333

    Жыл бұрын

    1:01 - They only know that homophobia is something that relates to gay. Stupid people.

  • @pluffering6661
    @pluffering6661 Жыл бұрын

    Man. Shipping is such a mess. I mean, if you stumble across a ship you find problematic just ...don't interact with it? And move on with your day? So much easier.

  • @demy1393

    @demy1393

    Жыл бұрын

    Someone will screeshot this and harass you under proshipping acusations

  • @R0ttenT33thxyz

    @R0ttenT33thxyz

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish more people saw this honestly.

  • @StarGarnet03

    @StarGarnet03

    Жыл бұрын

    I personally find child/adult shipping repulsive. But guess what I do? I block and ignore. Interacting with them is only gonna exaust me in the end

  • @sadmac356

    @sadmac356

    Жыл бұрын

    This! It's okay to not like things, just *don't be a dick about it*

  • @tsifirakiehl4250

    @tsifirakiehl4250

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly! There are a lot of ships I find really gross, so when I see people shipping them, I just block them or filter the ship tag and move on. I know I won’t be able to convert their shipping preferences, and starting a fight would just upset both of us. Plus, just because someone has different ideas than me about which fictional characters should kiss doesn’t make them a bad person.

  • @KSTARYU
    @KSTARYU Жыл бұрын

    I have seen people HARRASS and send DEATH THREATS over ships because "They don't know each other" 1. Both are adults 2. Just because they haven't interacted doesn't mean its a invalid ship

  • @ceeford9919

    @ceeford9919

    Жыл бұрын

    I've seen fans send death threats too. But the strange thing is that the toxic fans were mostly attacking any ship that involved them with their dorky friend who has golden retriever energy. Not the ship that they were in direct competition with and had a 50-50% chance of being canon.

  • @ankanand

    @ankanand

    2 күн бұрын

    Kataangers to the Zutarans. I’m a Kataanger but I’m not crazy!

  • @nightshifterVHS
    @nightshifterVHS Жыл бұрын

    "they're sibling coded! you can't ship them" the ship are not related; they've kissed multiple times and also slept together. they canonically get married and grow old together?? i don't know wtf they were talking about "we need more healthy male friendships!" about a ship between two boys. the friendship was unhealthy BEFORE they eventually communicated and became friends again "this ship is toxic because one character has anger issues" when they talked about their problems and the other character forgave him (he doesn't even have anger issues, he got mad at her like twice throughout the whole series) "this character has trauma and should go to therapy" like people with trauma can't be in healthy relationships?

  • @forgottenvivreto8229

    @forgottenvivreto8229

    Жыл бұрын

    Bkdk?

  • @taithedie

    @taithedie

    Жыл бұрын

    THE SECOND ONE ANNOYS ME SO MUCH 💀

  • @itspienoon7883

    @itspienoon7883

    Жыл бұрын

    "Sorry Kelly, we can't be together... I have crippling depression!"

  • @jayIG

    @jayIG

    Жыл бұрын

    @Ritsuka Fujimaru "Sorry, SUNNY, but you're depressed! Can't date you anymore!"

  • @erinjackson8119

    @erinjackson8119

    Жыл бұрын

    Those last two

  • @mayaclawn3986
    @mayaclawn3986 Жыл бұрын

    Personal favorites: 1. One of the characters has terminal illnesses (later recovers from them because of lore reasons) which meant he was... Not sane enough to have a relationship?? 2. On a rarepair that I created, was told I shouldn't ship them cause they never had canon interaction and one of them was a dick to the other's brother once. Also because one of them killed people. This is in a show set in a war following a bunch of soldiers, they've _all_ killed people. The _medic_ has killed people, both accidentally and intentionally

  • @phahlastname8321

    @phahlastname8321

    Жыл бұрын

    MEDIC

  • @FlurryPie0

    @FlurryPie0

    Жыл бұрын

    Imagine being close to death and then the medic kills you 💀

  • @yumerepaint8287

    @yumerepaint8287

    Жыл бұрын

    one of the characters in my otp literally died from chronic illness. If a character died at some point should that mean that we stop shipping that character? Like tell me that shipping him with his close best friend wouldn't be heart-wrenching and angsty as hell. And even so, I've read au's where one of the characters was a ghost and the other was very much alive like- 🤷‍♂️ sbekejdosnskdn

  • @bernddasbrot1297

    @bernddasbrot1297

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@phahlastname8321 Jawohl

  • @comradewindowsill4253

    @comradewindowsill4253

    Жыл бұрын

    the FMA fndom cannot ship like 89% of the cast I guess, like half of the main characters are war criminals lmao

  • @ReesesBees
    @ReesesBees Жыл бұрын

    "I don't want you people to ship these two characters together because I ship myself with one of them". GOD. I knew someone who was like that, and she got mad AT ME for doing an RP with someone else, with a character she shipped herself with. Tried telling her that "it could be an alternate universe, where Character never met you". Still got mad at me for it. Glad I ended that friendship.

  • @Fefe65800
    @Fefe65800 Жыл бұрын

    Someone once harassed me and called me a proshipper for shipping two characters that they considered "siblings". 1, they were 2 robots that were made by the same person, 2 they have never interacted in canon, at all. 3, I don't even ship them, I just told that person to not harass people who do ship them.

  • @bogwife7942

    @bogwife7942

    9 ай бұрын

    always wild when people are harassed for the extreme opinion of *checks notes* being against harassment....

  • @TheBritishDragong

    @TheBritishDragong

    8 ай бұрын

    The Wubboxes? I’ve had a similar experience with those that I’d… rather not talk about

  • @localsatanist

    @localsatanist

    5 ай бұрын

    Detroit become human?

  • @politemenace5781
    @politemenace5781 Жыл бұрын

    1:18 my point exactly. has that person never seen people date in school? it's highly possible you're going to date someone from your own year. 1:23 also YES. My favourite ships might consist of two (or more) of the sweetest, kindest, most generous people you've ever seen, who help each other grow and make beautiful things together, or two (or more) murderous psychopaths who bring out the worst in each other. It's not about morality, that's what real life is for. Shipping for me is about all the tension, the angst, the pining, the drama, the "us against the world" shenanigans. I want people who are desperately in love or obsessed with one another, I don't care if it's murder.

  • @runeanonymous9760

    @runeanonymous9760

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s wild bc normally these people call any age difference pedophilia

  • @genericbro2440

    @genericbro2440

    Жыл бұрын

    BRO. YES. I absolutely HATE whenever people are like "Ummm... Your ship is literally toxic and abusive so ur glamourizing harmful relationships and are inherently a bad person❤️" HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF DRAMAS OR CHARACTER STUDIES It's especially frustrating for me since I like exploring potential romantic dynamics and character development between those who canonically don't like eachother/have messy feelings about one another. There's a HUGE amount of people in all fandoms who just won't have any of this shit because "uwu gotta protect the smol bean!!!1!1!1!1"

  • @politemenace5781

    @politemenace5781

    Жыл бұрын

    @@genericbro2440 yes! it's so frustrating. like, I understand if somebody only wants to consume content that is fluff and happiness, I want that too sometimes. But they can't shame me for also wanting to see people being messy, people behaving badly, with or without the potential to improve, or even just assholes who absolutely deserve each other fall in love. I think the key here is to know what you're consuming. As long as you know that this is ok only in fiction and should in no way affect how you treat a partner or what you look for in a relationship irl, then there's no problem and those people need to chill

  • @genericbro2440

    @genericbro2440

    Жыл бұрын

    @@politemenace5781 it's also kinda hilarious because most of the time the "precious innocent wittle bean" is like a balding, gruff middle aged man LMFAO

  • @_PlaceHolderForNow_

    @_PlaceHolderForNow_

    Жыл бұрын

    Many of the fans of Hannigram thank you. Me being one. They make death art.

  • @melodicaheart415
    @melodicaheart415 Жыл бұрын

    I heard “every human being is no further than the 54th cousin” as a way to say shipping two female characters was incest, bc the human race is inherently incest unless they’re straight

  • @Konpekikaminari

    @Konpekikaminari

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you proceeded to call the International Olympic Committee because that here is a potential gold medalist in mental gymnastics

  • @AnonAnom9949

    @AnonAnom9949

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Konpekikaminari You deserve a gold medal in best replies

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    ikrrrr, we are all related after all, only by a 0.00000....% percent. Glad to date my ex halfhalfhalfhalf(x500 times) brother then

  • @Dracomata

    @Dracomata

    Жыл бұрын

    What the genuine fuck? How is it not incest if its straight? By that logic its still incest, and worse cause there is a baby potentially... but like being 54th cousin... that's... you are barely related at that point. Do they think incest IS ok if its straight? Cause that is what is sounds like, and I feel fear.

  • @imtootired7623

    @imtootired7623

    Жыл бұрын

    People really be finding any and every excuse they can to be homophobic, I can't with some straight people. Ffs, Sharon they DON'T EXIST 😭😭

  • @starREI_jumii
    @starREI_jumii Жыл бұрын

    The dumbest one i saw was: Shipping this male character with a female character was homophobic because said male character also had supposed 'chemistry' with another male character... looking at you, saiouma shippers

  • @Suzziixoxo
    @Suzziixoxo Жыл бұрын

    “Character A has a wife” They have 3 of them. Im sure they wouldn’t mind having another spouse.

  • @LaurenGreer-ck5wm

    @LaurenGreer-ck5wm

    7 ай бұрын

    Tengen?

  • @atanvardecunambiel8917

    @atanvardecunambiel8917

    6 ай бұрын

    Rex?

  • @arambles1

    @arambles1

    12 күн бұрын

    Rex xenoblade reference?????

  • @GloomyFish
    @GloomyFish Жыл бұрын

    I remember someone saying a ship was bad because both characters were teenagers... kinda says more about the person saying that than the ship idk

  • @Nakia11798

    @Nakia11798

    Жыл бұрын

    Seems like a common experience. Idk why these fucks think all ships are based around being sexylually attracted to the characters involved.

  • @aquabluerose7734

    @aquabluerose7734

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh that's weird for sure. Did they just think that characters needed to be adults to be shipped? Or did they 🤢 want the ship to be between a teen and an adult?🤢🤮

  • @FlowersOfIcetor

    @FlowersOfIcetor

    Жыл бұрын

    @@aquabluerose7734 they wanted a ship with a teen and a child, clearly 🤢

  • @louc.6735

    @louc.6735

    Жыл бұрын

    Eh it's personal preference but I don't like reading romance between teens lol. It's the reason I don't read YA much anymore. I'd rather read about characters my own age or older.

  • @anniedagachapeep9947

    @anniedagachapeep9947

    Жыл бұрын

    Ikr, teens can have a romantic releationship, not sexual, but romantic for sure.

  • @jelly_elli
    @jelly_elli Жыл бұрын

    “They’re best friends, nothing more” One, it’s a ship. It doesn’t have to be canon or have evidence. Two, on the evidence side of this ship, they were definitely something more.

  • @anitamihholap5926

    @anitamihholap5926

    Жыл бұрын

    Besides, isn't it much better if you're besties with your SO?

  • @magena120

    @magena120

    Жыл бұрын

    “And they were roommates”

  • @lovepantalone_kaeya

    @lovepantalone_kaeya

    Жыл бұрын

    Mfs be asking for evidence as if they're the FBI of fiction.

  • @jelly_elli

    @jelly_elli

    Жыл бұрын

    @@anitamihholap5926 EXACTLY

  • @jaymer123

    @jaymer123

    Жыл бұрын

    Ace Attorney?

  • @janesullivan692
    @janesullivan692 Жыл бұрын

    I remember seeing someone rant about how it's not okay to ship Lawlight because of the age gap. Like hello? Light is a literal mass murderer?

  • @Nightpain-CHM

    @Nightpain-CHM

    11 ай бұрын

    I don't think it's wrong to ship problematic pairings, because it is fiction, and it doesn't need to be "healthy". Also, messed up relationships happen in real life too. Still, it is funny that the focus here is on the slight age difference, and not Light being a mass murderer. I ship a fictional bioterrorist with one of the protagonists, but I'm sure that the bad thing is that no one in this franchise is the same age, therefore there is probably an age difference. Never mind that nearly all the characters in this franchise are adults. There's like 1 child character who latter appears when she's an adult.

  • @janesullivan692

    @janesullivan692

    14 күн бұрын

    ​@@Nightpain-CHM that's exactly what I was saying! The fact that it's fucked up is the appeal!

  • @lovelysakurapetalsyt
    @lovelysakurapetalsyt11 ай бұрын

    I've been told I can't ship characters because they "don't ever meet". Fanfictions literally exist for a reason. And half the time it's between my ocs and canon characters in fanfictions. People are so weird

  • @msmcwhore-mick
    @msmcwhore-mick Жыл бұрын

    “You can’t ship Character A with character B because character B cLeARlY is in love with character C.” I like shipping the characters because to me I think it’s pretty cute. 💖 And if you don’t like it then fine by me. Edit: wow 😯 I didn’t expect this to get that many like’s.

  • @REDFRLegend

    @REDFRLegend

    Жыл бұрын

    Me to that one guy in the criminal case fandom about why I ship the coroner Nathan with the detective Jones and not with their girlfriends. But honestly, one of the girlfriends is a killer and the other self centered

  • @anthosayssmth

    @anthosayssmth

    Жыл бұрын

    character B has 2 hands tho

  • @msmcwhore-mick

    @msmcwhore-mick

    Жыл бұрын

    @@REDFRLegend i’m sorry but what did you mean “the criminal case fandom”?

  • @REDFRLegend

    @REDFRLegend

    Жыл бұрын

    @@msmcwhore-mick People that are fans of the criminal case games, like me, are part of the fandom. Every show and game has one

  • @REDFRLegend

    @REDFRLegend

    Жыл бұрын

    @@msmcwhore-mick Hunter Killer is a movie, Criminal Case is a series of 8 mobile games where I refuse to accept the first case of the 5th game as canon

  • @michaelfireheart8300
    @michaelfireheart8300 Жыл бұрын

    How is being taller than someone = preying on kids and how is having similar genetics = we are family? Make it make sense, guys.

  • @dltr4730

    @dltr4730

    Жыл бұрын

    Short people apparently don't exist, if u smoll u still growing

  • @queenofyasrabien

    @queenofyasrabien

    Жыл бұрын

    according to their logic the entire human race is incest because we all have human dna, share the same traits that make us human and have similar characteristics and stuff

  • @electroflame6188

    @electroflame6188

    Жыл бұрын

    teenagers seeing moral judgements they don't fully understand and unconsciously selectively applying them to things they don't like, even if that judgement wouldn't apply, because of said lack of understanding

  • @Te3time

    @Te3time

    Жыл бұрын

    I think bc these days you can't just dislike something without saying it's morally wrong so you have to grasp at straws lmao

  • @Kleithu
    @Kleithu Жыл бұрын

    4:34 That classmate is gonna go crazy when they find out about Bowuigi

  • @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072

    @mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072

    19 күн бұрын

    ?

  • @Halloweenish
    @Halloweenish Жыл бұрын

    I was told the ship was bad because one was 14 and the other was 16, Two effing years? REALLY?

  • @mintythedemon1785
    @mintythedemon1785 Жыл бұрын

    One person said they didn’t like my ship because they thought that one of the characters shouldn’t be allowed to date until she’s 30! 🤨

  • @SapphicAshley

    @SapphicAshley

    Жыл бұрын

    was he her dad???

  • @Jade_West2010

    @Jade_West2010

    Жыл бұрын

    I had a shirt like that when I was 5.

  • @pemanilnoob

    @pemanilnoob

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Jade_West2010 are your parents okay?? Those shirts are so gross

  • @Jade_West2010

    @Jade_West2010

    Жыл бұрын

    @@pemanilnoob It was 8 or 9 years ago. They don't like those shirts anymore and I think they got it as a joke lol.

  • @pemanilnoob

    @pemanilnoob

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Jade_West2010 that's a relief

  • @MitsumiUSBMouse
    @MitsumiUSBMouse Жыл бұрын

    Was told I couldn’t ship two characters because “shipping children is wrong.” Grabbed some boxes and tape and did it anyway.

  • @sleepysera

    @sleepysera

    Жыл бұрын

    Got told I'll go to hell once for saying I think the puppy crush Damian has on Anya in Spy x Family is adorable and I wanna write them as teenagers falling in love proper. Because anyone under the age of 18 is apparently not allowed to ever have a crush on another human being and you're a freak if you think about that happening...🙃

  • @AttaLossER

    @AttaLossER

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sleepysera if you end up writing that or have written that already, would you mind dropping the link or fic name for it?

  • @baharklc4920

    @baharklc4920

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly, they're still in the same age range. Can't fathom how ppl are so bothered by ppl shipping eri and kota

  • @MitsumiUSBMouse

    @MitsumiUSBMouse

    Жыл бұрын

    @@baharklc4920 It’s like they don’t think children have crushes. I just think it’s cute to write about children falling in love for the first time and learning how to deal with it. So many fluff opportunities!

  • @not-so-obvious_autism777

    @not-so-obvious_autism777

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes. Children literally have crushes irl (me included). U gonna call an actual kid illegal too?

  • @kitkatkk2543
    @kitkatkk2543 Жыл бұрын

    My best (worst?) one was “You can’t ship X with Z, XY is canon!” Which is bad in and of itself, but… This was a Cookie Run ship. The devs haven’t made any romance canon. And it wasn’t even about SeaMoon or MintCocoa which are semi-canon (The ship in question being Eclair x Maddie when Espressoleine is *so clearly canon*)

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    people who ship XYZ: 🫥

  • @RikkiJk

    @RikkiJk

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh god I know the feeling, Espresseleine pushers can be. Completely insane. Like y'all it's not canon let these two be with someone else if we want🙃

  • @wasifabul2545

    @wasifabul2545

    10 ай бұрын

    The entire Abandoned Empress Fandom is running cause the male lead=🗑️ Second and third Male leads:🏆🏆

  • @monotoneheadphones
    @monotoneheadphones8 ай бұрын

    “You cant ship these two because they’re toxic!” My brother in christ theres an angst tag for a reason.

  • @cosmically4286
    @cosmically4286 Жыл бұрын

    I keep getting called an abuse apologist because I ship an enemies to lover ship 💀 I'm literally a domestic abuse survivor, and so are most of the fans of that ship Honestly I hate how the word "abusive" gets thrown around. Ppl often use it to replace the word "toxic" but it's not the same. Abuse is about power inbalance and having someone literally make your life a living hell because of the control they have over you. Meanwhile enemies to lovers ships the two characters are almost always presented as equals and are seen as equally powerful. So yeah they are toxic (DUH it's ENEMIES to lovers), but it's not abusive. + in fiction a little toxicity is fun to watch, especially if it comes from trauma and gets resolved later. It's like ppl want deep and morally gray character but the second it's darker than two rivals playing against each other in a chess competition it become the antichrist of ships

  • @xd._.28234

    @xd._.28234

    Жыл бұрын

    ikr, rivals mean they go against the other in games, an idea or a situation, but doesn't mean they mistreat each other. For example, my bestie and i have somewhat rivalry sometimes, but we are hella healthy friendship. Abuse would be if one of the two bullied the other and didnt get a redemption or anything like that. In pokemon, ash's companions are rivals of him, and he has a great relationship with them. Example, serena. wdym xDDD

  • @lanfae9353

    @lanfae9353

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah! And enemies to lovers isn't inherently toxic, either. If they're just on two sides of a larger conflict, then you can have two people who are enemies but also respect each other and eventually come to an agreement 🤷 And even if the animosity starts out as more personal, as long as they resolve the conflict before they start being lovers, I wouldn't consider that toxic at all. I also like ones that _are_ a little toxic (like ones where there's not total honesty between them or where they start getting romantically or sexually entangled while still being enemies) but thinking that all enemies to lovers MUST be toxic or abusive overlooks the variety within the trope

  • @lanfae9353

    @lanfae9353

    Жыл бұрын

    I just realized you were probably talking about Catradora from your profile pic, and I have to say, the antis against that ship are so weird. 😒 I just want to shake them and be like "Did you watch the show?? Did you watch the same show I did??" All the people who don't like Catra just... didn't make an effort to understand the message of the show, honestly.

  • @wintergray1221

    @wintergray1221

    Жыл бұрын

    Anti-shippers have no shame. I'm a CSA survivor and I've been called a pedophile for shipping a basically canon pair who happen to have a minor/young-adult age difference. Even better is that the series features a much older, grooming character that the young-adult saves the minor from, and these people still see their relationship as wrong. I really worry about these (I'm assuming) kids who can't distinguish fiction from reality. Or, rather, they don't understand that "problematic" themes can be used positively. -_-

  • @lumr.8726

    @lumr.8726

    Жыл бұрын

    people learn these terms without knowing their nuances and perspectives. not everything is black and white. if they keep telling this and that's toxic/abusive, they will lost their meaning. people are getting way way way too deep in this and not in a good way.

  • @Wwhdduendjdhhfmwosdn
    @Wwhdduendjdhhfmwosdn Жыл бұрын

    I got the “you can’t ship two characters because you’re an adult” as well. Somone called me a pedophile. I was 18, I had it in my bio. The characters were 16 and 17

  • @sevenpenceLOLZ

    @sevenpenceLOLZ

    Жыл бұрын

    goofy ahh reason to not ship characters.

  • @ArbitraryOutcome

    @ArbitraryOutcome

    9 ай бұрын

    A telltale sign of someone projecting their own sexuality onto others.

  • @Imamotherfreakingavocado
    @Imamotherfreakingavocado10 ай бұрын

    There's a ship that's popular in a fandom I'm in, and there's so many people hating on it to the point where they block people for liking it. The problem with the ship? Two year age gap 💀

  • @Imamotherfreakingavocado

    @Imamotherfreakingavocado

    10 ай бұрын

    People also like the bring up the family card, they're not related in any way, one of the characters just likes acting as a responsible 'dad' figure to those younger than him, neither character sees each other as literal family (especially the younger one, he hates when he acts as a dad to him), so that reason is pretty stupid, especially in a game where like so many characters use family roles as metaphors for being close friends Also note: I don't ship this, I just think the hate is absurd

  • @destiny_moon115

    @destiny_moon115

    3 ай бұрын

    @@Imamotherfreakingavocado What ship is it?

  • @Imamotherfreakingavocado

    @Imamotherfreakingavocado

    3 ай бұрын

    @@destiny_moon115 I'm fairly sure I was talking about Reikoga (Rei x Koga from Ensemble Stars)

  • @nara9404

    @nara9404

    3 ай бұрын

    ​@@Imamotherfreakingavocado I love that anime

  • @Lavender-Honey
    @Lavender-Honey11 ай бұрын

    One of my big ships back in 2019 was “toxic” because: • The guy got sa’d and therefore cannot date the girl (the kicker is..he didn’t!!) They were referencing a non canon light novel that I read and guess what, that never happened!! It was a fandom wide headcanon that people never checked as fact. Which was so annoying because I was told I shipped abuse. Which by the way..what?! The girl never did it!! How is that abuse?! • The girl is annoying to him and therefore he doesn’t like her back and it’s abuse. They’ll never be canon is what you’re saying, and yeah agreed but idc. They respect each other and grow as people later on in the series and become friends, it’s plausible at the least. • It’s not gay, you’re homophobic cause the gay ships with both of them are better. People said this to me, the biggest lesbian I know. It baffled me and I laughed aloud every time I’ve ditched Wattpad fanfic writing since then and have had less issues with ships lol

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