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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
04:05 - Neel’s Childhood
08:03 - JJ College of Arts journey
10:50 - How Neel started youtube videos
12:18 - Alumni of JJ College
13:03 - His First Project- Digital AD for youtube
15:59 - How he met Karan S. aka FocusedIndian
17:58 - First youtube channel
21:15 - Doing job as a social media manager
23:35 - Content creation journey during covid
26:13 - Content started to grow
27:23 - Family's reaction on content creation
34:00 - Struggles and achievements of content creators
37:20 - Celebrating success is important
41:41 - Tips to grow on social media
44:35 - How youtube and vlogging works?
46:40 - Family wants this from Neel
49:56 - Marriage and relationship with wife
59:45 - Boys friendship is a therapy
01:02:02 - Brand deals and ethics
01:06:01 - Can content creators become movie stars?
01:08:45 - Relatable content V/S Highly produced content
01:12:35 - How much money can a content creator make?
01:14:47 - Blanko
01:16:33 - Conclusion
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In today’s episode of Figuring Out, we have Neel Salekar in conversation with Raj Shamani. He is a popular content creator on Instagram with over 2.9 Million followers. His content makes millions of people laugh and feel relatable every day. If you have been following Neel for a while then today you will see the candid version of Neel.
In this episode, he shared about his childhood, and how he was always passionate about art and creative things. He then shared about his college days and how those days shaped him and turned him into the person that he is needed to be today. We then discussed his first job, the early days of his career, and how he used to juggle between freelancing, then his job, and content creation for himself. He talked about how he started creating content on Instagram, and how his Instagram grew and then shared tips for everyone who wants to grow their Instagram in 2024. He shared how his life changed after becoming a content creator, his equation with his parents after getting money, fame, and being busy, and his life after marriage.
Towards the end, we talked about the role of friendships, male friendships, and how old friends help us stay connected to our roots. He shared his views if he wants to become an actor, and his plans ahead. We ended with a fun segment of trying out Blanko perfumes. If you enjoyed this podcast then subscribe to our channel for more such interesting podcasts.
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About Raj Shamani
Raj Shamani is an Entrepreneur at heart that explains his expertise in Business Content Creation & Public Speaking. He has delivered 200+ speeches in 26+ countries. Besides that, Raj is also an Angel Investor interested in crazy minds who are creating a sensation in the Fintech, FMCG, & passion economy space.
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  • @ayurvedchikistabyrajivdixi7993
    @ayurvedchikistabyrajivdixi79934 ай бұрын

    Neel म्हणजे आपला माणूस ❤

  • @hitakshipatel3822
    @hitakshipatel38224 ай бұрын

    As a woman,,!! I never realized what a man has to go through !! But this raw and heartfelt podcast with Neel made me understand so many things,,!! @raj shamani,, thanks for this podcast !!!!!

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    It feels great to know that this conversation was helpful, stay tuned for more such amazing conversations 🚀

  • @monilrajput5576

    @monilrajput5576

    3 ай бұрын

    Bf bana nhi kabhi madam ka lagta hai

  • @SP-lb3uq

    @SP-lb3uq

    3 ай бұрын

    ​ L . 😊 .

  • @nirawalia1586
    @nirawalia15864 ай бұрын

    He has explained it so well- wife is nearly a mom…thank you Raj for figuring it out❤

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Always buddy!! Let me know what next you'd like us to figure out 🚀

  • @shreeleshpatil5350

    @shreeleshpatil5350

    4 ай бұрын

    Vivian divine ​@@rajshamani

  • @eighty9

    @eighty9

    4 ай бұрын

    ​@@rajshamaniBring more content Creators

  • @PravinMulik-

    @PravinMulik-

    4 ай бұрын

    @rajshamani Karan sonawane

  • @SalmankhanFanz

    @SalmankhanFanz

    4 ай бұрын

    Cbum has got the best wife in the world

  • @nehakudchadkar30
    @nehakudchadkar304 ай бұрын

    Its literally feels good to know what all things a man has to deal with in their life which are seriously unknown and not many woman take a step forward for all this. Thank you for this conversation.

  • @anshumankilledar3005
    @anshumankilledar30054 ай бұрын

    This is the best podcast I've even seen, extremely heartfelt and warm emotions flowing throughout. He explained it really very well, touched our hearts. Thanks for this podcast!

  • @harshitsaxena3064
    @harshitsaxena30644 ай бұрын

    Thanks Raj bhai for coming up with content which may not go viral but is need of the hour. Respect 100%

  • @ananyavartak5549
    @ananyavartak55494 ай бұрын

    Raj shamani....i am indian origin American, i got to know your channel through the modi Ji event. Neel said, amezing things about his own emotional journey through mother and wife.

  • @santoshdevde9996
    @santoshdevde99964 ай бұрын

    These emotions shared by Neel is not only for content creators,, its for all working men..

  • @saloni357
    @saloni3573 ай бұрын

    Men want their wives to be like a mom to them while they act like a child mostly who need to be fed, entertained, pampered and run errands for them -_- Seriously don't put your mom or your wife on any exhausting pedestals and just treat her like a human who can experience tiredness or basic emotions. Ughh I hate it when some men say that they want their wife to look after them like a mom would. No, that's different, a wife and a mom are different, and so that's not possible. Some people also say that women like it if their husband provides for them or protects them like a father would. I mean wow. I get it, if you grew up seeing your parents have a happy married life and so you know what the difference between a healthy and toxic relationship would be. That's great, you had an amazing childhood and most likely you would have healthy relationships in the future as well. But that's not the case for everyone, some of us grew up seeing one parent being abusive to another or both to each other. Or even parents being neglectful/abusive to their own children. In such a scenario, you wanna go for the familiar and not the healthy. And thus you end up in toxic relationships, you grow up with the wrong idea of love or stay in unhappy marriages or have really low standards in romance and affection. Doing romantic gestures(like acts of service or quality time) for each other is great, although. And most definitely even ideal. But a parent is always different than a partner. Always. There are a 1000 emotions and thoughts that you can speak to your partner but not to your parent, and vice a versa. Exaggerating healthy behaviours to a level where you put your spouse/partner on a greatly exhausting pedestal and then expecting them to treat you like a little baby and also act like a mom/dad to you seems very weird and creepy to me. Grow up! Just my two cents, the rest of the podcast was great. Thank you, Raj, Neel and team. (I can see that Neel and his wife hopefully have a mutual understanding over 'the wife being the second mom' (though i don't agree with it at all) but this comment is for the young people watching this podcast so that they don't take any wrong lessons.

  • @rohanthorat3337
    @rohanthorat33374 ай бұрын

    I've watched sooo many podcasts of raj and other creators with big eminent personalities, but this 1:00:48 - 1:00:55 part. This segment man, this hit soooo hard. I've been lost and drifted away from my own identity soo many times but only when I am with my friends, I come back to my true self. This will forever be my mantra, if I ever get lost. Thank you so much Neel bhau!

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Friends keep you rooted always 🔥💪

  • @rohanthorat3337

    @rohanthorat3337

    4 ай бұрын

    @@rajshamani yessir! Love you raj bhai for this gold content!

  • @srinibasprusty7788

    @srinibasprusty7788

    4 ай бұрын

    Plz invite Code With Harry ​@@rajshamani

  • @justAravind
    @justAravind4 ай бұрын

    Natural and raw and the connection.. mast jabardast❤ Aap se tum tak aur tere se aap tak😅

  • @vinayakaagrawal
    @vinayakaagrawal4 ай бұрын

    wow.. splendid. what a person he is. I have never seen a man discuss these personal stuff on camera. Like I could not do it even with my closest friend.

  • @sumitbeloshe1201
    @sumitbeloshe12014 ай бұрын

    True emotions and connected feeling throughout to the thoughts he shared

  • @paramashivamkonar3893
    @paramashivamkonar38933 ай бұрын

    Bhava hasat hasat yevda kiti kahi ghosta bollas yaar! Hats off to the way you handle all of this without showing it up on your face!

  • @supritsonar3686
    @supritsonar36863 ай бұрын

    Literally seeing the face behind that man's smile that what he is facing in his life!!!!

  • @yogeshjadhav1976
    @yogeshjadhav19764 ай бұрын

    Neel bhava tu direct hrudayat jatos ❤❤❤

  • @amitainapure4736
    @amitainapure47363 ай бұрын

    This is exactly whats going in my life glad he opened up so much on your podcast. Thanks raj and neel for making this podcast thankyou.

  • @Bhavishya302
    @Bhavishya3024 ай бұрын

    Ye banda special hai, one of the real n relatable conversation

  • @shilparedkar3135
    @shilparedkar31354 ай бұрын

    Loved it ❣️❣️ Highly Pure Podcast. 👍🏻

  • @AlizayNajaf
    @AlizayNajaf4 ай бұрын

    Great job .

  • @Growwithfinancee
    @Growwithfinancee4 ай бұрын

    Neel bhai.. दिलवाला माणूस.. आपला माणूस

  • @amichawada9437
    @amichawada94374 ай бұрын

    So Thankful for this amazing podcast ❤❤❤

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Glad ❤

  • @Supercarboyhindi
    @Supercarboyhindi4 ай бұрын

    Khatarnak tha 😊😊😊

  • @TheKraftco
    @TheKraftco4 ай бұрын

    Waah apna bhai agaya ❤❤

  • @dhruvikhe997
    @dhruvikhe9974 ай бұрын

    Great conversation always love your podcast keep making.....

  • @Nairvarun14
    @Nairvarun144 ай бұрын

    great conversation man! Neel was so authentic and real 👌😎

  • @Anmol18
    @Anmol184 ай бұрын

    Always inspiring ❤bhai

  • @ikiraw21
    @ikiraw214 ай бұрын

    Very good content to understand male psyche. Very well put by both! Thanks.

  • @sahiljoshi6727
    @sahiljoshi67274 ай бұрын

    I always decide to watch your podcast in parts and end up finishing in one go. Thank you for these amazing conversations it's a new way of learning>>>>>>>>>>>>

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Buddy 🔥, let me know which guest should we invite next? 🚀

  • @Mr_Perfect_2002

    @Mr_Perfect_2002

    3 ай бұрын

    🫠 somewhere we loose our senses and importance of time when we are watching such content!!😢😅😂

  • @atharvgoyal7163
    @atharvgoyal71634 ай бұрын

    RAJ SIR you are my future competition......

  • @HarshGoyal-xr9lw

    @HarshGoyal-xr9lw

    4 ай бұрын

    Right

  • @Graxx1906

    @Graxx1906

    4 ай бұрын

    aur tu mera

  • @sandeepkumarchaubey7609
    @sandeepkumarchaubey76094 ай бұрын

    Raj bhaiya what a podcasts yrr thankyou ❤

  • @Yaj012
    @Yaj0122 ай бұрын

    Sir, it was one of the deepest conversations I have ever heard. I especially loved the depth of the topics you discussed, particularly the ones about mothers and wives. Please keep bringing us such engaging conversations. God bless you and your family.

  • @RenecLewis
    @RenecLewis4 ай бұрын

    Bro the intro to this video got me hooked ! Totally worth the time

  • @loukikfegade4531
    @loukikfegade45314 ай бұрын

    Genuine personality...neel

  • @riksinff4051
    @riksinff40514 ай бұрын

    hey raj i just love you man and your content is really appreciable keep doing such works.

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks alot buddy, will keep delivering amazing content 🔥🚀

  • @riksinff4051

    @riksinff4051

    4 ай бұрын

    @@rajshamani most wlcm brother ♥

  • @Sonalinikose_
    @Sonalinikose_4 ай бұрын

    I watched this podcast completely, thank you for this podcast, got to learn a lot...

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed it! 💪

  • @omkarshigwan9529
    @omkarshigwan95294 ай бұрын

    Simply Amazing 💗

  • @mayurpilavare
    @mayurpilavare4 ай бұрын

    From 55 mins I started feeling the same what Neel said! We’re quite similar bro 😎

  • @siddhantkaushal620
    @siddhantkaushal6204 ай бұрын

    Thanks for rhe podcast so reality based. And relatable.

  • @vatsal_vfx_guy008
    @vatsal_vfx_guy0084 ай бұрын

    40:30 Hard relate Neel bhaii... lots of love. ❤

  • @vikaspandey3750
    @vikaspandey37504 ай бұрын

    Your podcasts are so helpful and look very geniune.

  • @annybitsian08
    @annybitsian083 ай бұрын

    Great stuff by Neel!! Totally relatable

  • @nikitalunkad5555
    @nikitalunkad55554 ай бұрын

    What a conversation guys 💯🔥🔥

  • @akashpat6109
    @akashpat61092 ай бұрын

    When he says wife is second mom. It shows childhood neglect and abandonment issues from his mother.

  • @SimplyWani

    @SimplyWani

    2 ай бұрын

    Exactly 💯

  • @user-ut8uj1di6s
    @user-ut8uj1di6s4 ай бұрын

    Best podcast lga mujhe ...❤ Sach me ❤

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks bhai ❤

  • @Nishantsinhamonu
    @Nishantsinhamonu4 ай бұрын

    Kitne easy se hi put it …. Everyone should listen what a man go through which a men never express

  • @ShubhamHurkat
    @ShubhamHurkat3 ай бұрын

    Just neel things is a apt channel name for this very real person 😅 Friends are therapy 💯

  • @rohitmehra855
    @rohitmehra8554 ай бұрын

    Raj bhai you are my real hero

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks bhai ❤

  • @shivamdhanetravel
    @shivamdhanetravel4 ай бұрын

    Thanku for this❤😊

  • @Aktrading11
    @Aktrading1117 күн бұрын

    It was so pure podcast ever seen):

  • @ashwin9189
    @ashwin91893 ай бұрын

    Neel was always my favorite now i came to know he is so genuine also both of you are fabulous 😊

  • @gangarrita
    @gangarrita3 ай бұрын

    I enjoyed your podcast same thing with my husband and son is going on so I really enjoyed this podcast thank u so Mach

  • @manasi_araspure
    @manasi_araspure4 ай бұрын

    Neel dada is soooooo much me deepest thoughts he have and how he get into it and Lso hving realizations of it. Wish you get stored on the things and alot of love neel dada and too full OJG❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @adityapandey6943
    @adityapandey69433 ай бұрын

    Raj is legend of podcasts ... His speaking skills😮

  • @omgsvines
    @omgsvines4 ай бұрын

    I really like this podcast very much ❤❤❤ Best video on this channel❤

  • @karan.karega
    @karan.karega4 ай бұрын

    Great episode man💯

  • @shraddhajadhav4165
    @shraddhajadhav41654 ай бұрын

    Best podcast frm the current lot❤

  • @shlife89
    @shlife893 ай бұрын

    नील भावा खूप भारी बोललास…..आणि खरं बोललास😁😁 thank you Raj

  • @chinmayvyas974
    @chinmayvyas9743 ай бұрын

    Very well said/discussed the post marriage life episodes and it's actually true. Here also Neel is relating with everyone 😅.

  • @vikranttemkar221
    @vikranttemkar2213 ай бұрын

    raj this was my first podcast which i heared it to last sec .. please get more content creators

  • @RushiMan
    @RushiMan3 ай бұрын

    I really enjoyed listening this podcast.

  • @ambujkansal
    @ambujkansalАй бұрын

    Thanks a lot!

  • @akhilaburra1353
    @akhilaburra13533 ай бұрын

    Raj bhai ur content is amazing!!!!! Keep inspiring nation!!¡!

  • @milindd-kv5mm
    @milindd-kv5mm3 ай бұрын

    On my fav episode so far baki sab bhi sahi hai but he explained very well abt the manly emotions.........

  • @uditajoshi2159
    @uditajoshi21593 ай бұрын

    Wow! therapy is required.

  • @ashhh7995
    @ashhh79954 ай бұрын

    Raj my bro being kinda mainstream and still being so catchy with your episode i didnt even skip 10 secs of the podcast True art of conversation and you truly making each n every convo interesting

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching bro, stay tuned for some amazing conversations ahead 🙌🔥

  • @Wonderwanderer3003
    @Wonderwanderer30034 ай бұрын

    What a man really wants to express but cannot🙂

  • @Sashankmusic.
    @Sashankmusic.4 ай бұрын

    Ye mast lga ❤️

  • @rajagarwal5523
    @rajagarwal55234 ай бұрын

    Good podcast 👍🏼

  • @venkee515
    @venkee5153 ай бұрын

    मज्जा आली नील तुझं प्रवास जाणून प्रोत्साहन

  • @kartikkartik6521
    @kartikkartik65214 ай бұрын

    Dekte huve time ka pata hi nahi chala nice video ❤

  • @user-rj4oi7dl3y
    @user-rj4oi7dl3y4 ай бұрын

    Raj bhaiya i have completed you all podcast till today i learn lot of a things about Entrepreneurship and much more. also i read build, Don't talk.

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks for the support bhai!! 💪

  • @seejay2003
    @seejay20034 ай бұрын

    I rarely comment on videos. But i think Raj you should bring out more of raw content creators like neel.

  • @jdjei-4jdjs
    @jdjei-4jdjs4 ай бұрын

    I love Neils videos ❤

  • @jignasolanki273
    @jignasolanki273Ай бұрын

    Very nice episode

  • @Carworldzz
    @Carworldzz3 ай бұрын

    Raj Sir watched your many of podcasts.. this podcast hits a different level❤❤❤❤🤝both✌️

  • @rushabhd.8349
    @rushabhd.83494 ай бұрын

    Best Podcast 👍

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @iAMxGAMER03
    @iAMxGAMER033 ай бұрын

    Ye episode Maine pura dheka😊😊😊

  • @anuradhakasim3961
    @anuradhakasim39613 ай бұрын

    Wives should listen to this podcast n let him Have his space and be able to be with his friends once in a while . Every relation has a special place never suffocate each other through possessiveness n demand .

  • @aniljaiswal3078
    @aniljaiswal30784 ай бұрын

    Thanks raj Bhai

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Always bhai 🚀

  • @kavitagoyal1180
    @kavitagoyal11804 ай бұрын

    AMBANI ki pre wedding dekh dekh k bor ho gye the isliye mark Zuckerberg ne Instagram Facebook reset maar diya 😂🤣😂🤣😂 Facebook Instagram down 😂😂 aajo bhaiyo behno podcast dekhe😂😂

  • @tskplanet7556
    @tskplanet75564 ай бұрын

    Next lavel❤❤

  • @Veer_tales
    @Veer_tales4 ай бұрын

    The ohh portion speaks volumes of a down to earth middle class family

  • @sumukhchavan639
    @sumukhchavan6394 ай бұрын

    Feeling proud buddy. ❤😊

  • @sanketmaske26
    @sanketmaske264 ай бұрын

    gajab podcast

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Shukriya 🙌

  • @pradipghatani4586
    @pradipghatani45864 ай бұрын

    big fan from NEpal bro .i like your podcast or i can learn many thins in your podcast.

  • @nishantkhabale9531
    @nishantkhabale95314 ай бұрын

    GREAT

  • @abhijeetghogare1732
    @abhijeetghogare17324 ай бұрын

    A man to man talk❤️🔥

  • @dnyaneshmaharao1789
    @dnyaneshmaharao17892 ай бұрын

    नील... मस्त-जबरदस्त

  • @user-pr5ql3ug9c
    @user-pr5ql3ug9c3 ай бұрын

    Amazing neel saheb❤❤❤

  • @diet._panda
    @diet._panda4 ай бұрын

    Shaandar ❤️

  • @us863
    @us8634 ай бұрын

    Just Neel, you are portraying ki man ka itna bada bhoj hai to adjust.. what about the woman.. Most women have to take care of a man who is older than her but she has to take care of him..

  • @yashagarwal9852
    @yashagarwal98524 ай бұрын

    bhai best podcast jin cheejoo ko log baat karne me thoda hestitate karte hain un ko bhi bade hi aache kaha h

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Shukriya bhai, for more such conversations stay tuned🚀

  • @user-yv1yf7jq8z
    @user-yv1yf7jq8z4 ай бұрын

    Love you shamani sir❤❤

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks man ❤

  • @TSG-ADITYA
    @TSG-ADITYA4 ай бұрын

    yo best podcast i watched

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching, stay tuned for more such amazing episodes!! 🙌

  • @ashirvad5137
    @ashirvad51374 ай бұрын

    Bhaiya ek podcast Jisme ki humans kitne bad ho sakte hain wo bataya jaye ❤❤

  • @harishankarshukla836
    @harishankarshukla8364 ай бұрын

    Neel❤

  • @FLMOBILEGOD
    @FLMOBILEGOD4 ай бұрын

    Bhai 4k Me Upload Karo na ❤

  • @Rushikeshkate-ro3mr
    @Rushikeshkate-ro3mr4 ай бұрын

    Amazing real conversation.

  • @rajshamani

    @rajshamani

    4 ай бұрын

    Thanks for watching!

  • @yashdalal3532
    @yashdalal35323 ай бұрын

    Please make video for cooparate people who want to start business but can't able to do it because of time.

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