Stop Worrying About Your Future Husband | Nouman Ali Khan

Stop having anexiety who's going to marry me, when am i going to married. Whe you live a purposeful life, the good people purpose will come to your life. You won't have to look for that spouse, that spouse will look for you, you have to just become purposeful. The purpose of marriage in islam is for both genders to provide company for each other, to love one another, and live in peace and tranquility to the commandments of Allah. (#nikkah #marriage #islamicvideo)
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  • @Noblelessons
    @Noblelessons5 ай бұрын

    The Biggest Misconceptions About Marriage in Islam Watch here > kzread.info/dash/bejne/g6CptKWQlL3gkbQ.html

  • @asmaajamac7369

    @asmaajamac7369

    5 ай бұрын

    Lo

  • @arshiairfan3935

    @arshiairfan3935

    3 ай бұрын

    Insha'allah

  • @mamerh

    @mamerh

    3 ай бұрын

    May Allah grant us all our dua

  • @kaleemahmad8089

    @kaleemahmad8089

    Ай бұрын

    Inshallah

  • @jadeworldvlog6923
    @jadeworldvlog6923 Жыл бұрын

    I'm 42yrs old sister not married,please pray for me to get married and have kids in shaa Allah

  • @googleuser1721

    @googleuser1721

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah help you and your kids.

  • @sameena3162

    @sameena3162

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't worry sister, Insha Allah you will blessed with good spouse and children. Aameen

  • @alikhansahab8356

    @alikhansahab8356

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @gulafshanbegum2013

    @gulafshanbegum2013

    Жыл бұрын

    InshaAllah...... Allah gives you best partner soon🤲

  • @hawa_im

    @hawa_im

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah grant you a good husband who will make your life happier soon inshaAllah. Amin..

  • @lannaalisyafitri1605
    @lannaalisyafitri1605 Жыл бұрын

    I'm gonna be 25 this month, people around me, friends and family are getting married.. and i started to feel the rush to get married too.. just this evening after pray maghrib i made dua about spouse, then i opened yt and this video showed up and i clicked immediately bcs of the title triggered me so much🤣 ig Allah just gave me guidance through this video to calm down and to improve myself first.. sigh... i have a lot of homework

  • @cabdixeedho4205

    @cabdixeedho4205

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish you a good husband, and lots happiness.

  • @shelbyfaaron739

    @shelbyfaaron739

    Жыл бұрын

    that makes two of us, sister. May Allah bless us with the perfect spouse at the perfect time, and meanwhile, let's work hard on that homework haha

  • @AhmedAli-fr8kr

    @AhmedAli-fr8kr

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes. Allah is always with us. Don't worry ☺️☺️☺️

  • @abz4674

    @abz4674

    Жыл бұрын

    Same! I am 28 and I'm feeling like it's o behind. 😭

  • @checkmattee222

    @checkmattee222

    Жыл бұрын

    @@abz4674 I'm 28 too and lately I've been so stressed about this but I thank Allah for bringing me across this video. May Allah grant us good spouses 😊

  • @nabie2980
    @nabie2980 Жыл бұрын

    I have a cousin, 44 years old, single. She doesnt worry, probably still waiting. Then I have a friend, by the time reached 40, she became worried, she prayed tahajjud, she asked God for a spouse. Fortunately, Her wish was granted and now happily married. Sometimes you have to worry in order for you to ask Allah for help and guidance. Not everybody is destined to have a spouse.

  • @fardosaadan5963

    @fardosaadan5963

    Жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah

  • @noufshahi8946

    @noufshahi8946

    Жыл бұрын

    He said young woman

  • @checkmattee222

    @checkmattee222

    Жыл бұрын

    @@noufshahi8946 by "young woman" he meant single women.

  • @snapchat___

    @snapchat___

    Жыл бұрын

    Dear Sister/ bro. With age girl's ability to become a mother declines.

  • @antelope5699

    @antelope5699

    6 ай бұрын

    ⁠​⁠@@snapchat___who are you? God? So many young women are equally infertile. “Allah knows what every female bears and what increases and decreases in the wombs. And with Him everything is determined with precision” (13:8). Allah, not you, not science, not the doctors so please don’t speak on matters to dishearten people

  • @itratnadeem9139
    @itratnadeem9139 Жыл бұрын

    I dont know why I was thinking about future husband all day and then at night when I opened KZread this video came in front of me. Wallahi this is a sign from Allah LOL I was not expecting such likes anyways thanks 😍😂😂

  • @nighatbhat1849

    @nighatbhat1849

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here

  • @ayeyokoris4810

    @ayeyokoris4810

    Жыл бұрын

    Same wallahi subhanallah🤭

  • @mujahidhasan118

    @mujahidhasan118

    Жыл бұрын

    Ayo As A 22 Old Muslim Boy (Almost 100Kg Fat)😂. I Have To Lose My Weight As Soon As Possible. Soon I Have To Hit The Gym And Shredded My Self. I'm Worried About My Future Wife. Don't Know What's Gonna Happen. Now Days Its Really Hard To Find Traditional Women (A Wify Material). Its Like Finding A Lost Needle In Sahara Desert.😩

  • @cabdixeedho4205

    @cabdixeedho4205

    Жыл бұрын

    masha alah you're a nice person I wish you a briliant year ahead.

  • @itratnadeem9139

    @itratnadeem9139

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mujahidhasan118 lol😂😂 don't worry because it is useless. The name of our spouse is already written.

  • @sonic-od3fb
    @sonic-od3fb Жыл бұрын

    Without even joking, this video feels like a Godsent SUBHANALLAH. I'm in the situation of wondering those EXACT same words as the brother stated. "Who's gonna marry me?" "When am I gonna get married?" "When is the Qadr of Allah gonna come?" And after watching the video and the advice the brother gave to us sisters, ALHAMDULLILAH I feel SO MUCH CALMER and reassured that inshaAllah that I will find the right spouse! I'm just gonna do my part as a Muslim and things will get more clearer when the time is right! 😍 Allahu AKBAR for this video and may Allah SubhanawatAllah reward the brother for this video amin 🥰 (Thank you SO MUCH for all the likes and comments! Never realized that my comment was so relatable 😆 I was only sharing my thoughts and view on the video and how I felt sooo reassured about my future Spouse 🙂 But I'm glad it's helping everyone else! ❤)

  • @beryllium42

    @beryllium42

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @arfasha1266

    @arfasha1266

    Жыл бұрын

    Same with me.. These things were going on in my mind and the moment I opened KZread, this video appeared first as a guidance from Allah. Feels better now Alhamdulillah🙂

  • @sonic-od3fb

    @sonic-od3fb

    Жыл бұрын

    @@arfasha1266 Alhamdullilah I'm so happy to hear that 😁 I know how you feel sister. May Allah SubhanawatAllah give us the right spouses amin ☺️

  • @dharslinbanu3343

    @dharslinbanu3343

    Жыл бұрын

    Same here sister

  • @arfasha1266

    @arfasha1266

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sonic-od3fb Ameen😇

  • @foziabutt674
    @foziabutt674 Жыл бұрын

    I got 42, and stopped worrying! It is really in Allah's almighty hands, and now I am practicing tawakkul♥️ May Allah swt bless all muslims with right spouses, ameen.

  • @fardosaadan5963

    @fardosaadan5963

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @nehafatima7647

    @nehafatima7647

    8 ай бұрын

    Summa ameen❤

  • @GHURABA_DUNYA

    @GHURABA_DUNYA

    7 ай бұрын

    Ameen Assalamalaikum due to hurry and laziness in internet revolution, we dont pay much attention to english rules. but atleast we should be cautious about Islamic principles. So please write, Allah - not allah Qur'an - not quran Muhammad - not muhammed peace be upon him/SallAllahu alaihi wa sallam - not pbuh/saws Allah Subhanahuwa Ta'Ala- not swt Its not about sin and haram but about respect towards our Rabb!

  • @Shinobu2506.

    @Shinobu2506.

    7 ай бұрын

    Amin❤

  • @user-qs9hg8ho3c

    @user-qs9hg8ho3c

    6 ай бұрын

    Aameen

  • @worldofislam4022
    @worldofislam4022 Жыл бұрын

    There is a girl named kadeeja . She have been went through a lots of struggles and now she is struggling to get married please pray for her to get married happily .Because dua has the power to change anything .

  • @areejshams3253

    @areejshams3253

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @fatimasayed2459

    @fatimasayed2459

    9 ай бұрын

    Aameen

  • @user-sz3oq6ie9u

    @user-sz3oq6ie9u

    6 ай бұрын

    Darood Nazar e Kram perhyn Ya Rehmatul Alamin Sallalahu Alaika wasalum Huzoor Nazre Kram farmayn mujh pr

  • @khadeejaaaaa1119

    @khadeejaaaaa1119

    6 ай бұрын

    Kadeeeja my name also😭🤌

  • @its_her444

    @its_her444

    5 ай бұрын

    may allah grant her a righteous spouse

  • @mubashshiratasnimmahmud3431
    @mubashshiratasnimmahmud3431 Жыл бұрын

    I’m a 29 years old sister from Bangladesh. I would like to be married, but it is being difficult for me to find a good spouse. Please everyone pray for me

  • @politicalnewswithriyad2855

    @politicalnewswithriyad2855

    8 ай бұрын

    are you studying in university..?? if not then why you don’t get married early… you should need to understand a men never want to marry a girl if her age passed 25 ++

  • @user-sz3oq6ie9u

    @user-sz3oq6ie9u

    6 ай бұрын

    Darood Nazar e Kram perhyn Ya Rehmatul Alamin Sallalahu Alaika wasalum Huzoor Nazre Kram farmayn mujh pr

  • @Acholajanatsiraj

    @Acholajanatsiraj

    6 ай бұрын

    May u be answered by the the name of Allah

  • @rabiyarahman8147

    @rabiyarahman8147

    6 ай бұрын

    ⁠@@politicalnewswithriyad2855who is the man !!! How can you say this

  • @nurinuri7389

    @nurinuri7389

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@politicalnewswithriyad2855 my aunt get married at 50, and I have friends married happily at 30+, Allah knows what is the best time, and you the one spreading lies, and making woman feel hopeless in the mercy of Allah, shame on you

  • @splash6133
    @splash6133 Жыл бұрын

    Even as a young Muslim man I found this very beneficial, جَزَاكَ اللّٰه خيرًا

  • @MaddieFishblob
    @MaddieFishblob Жыл бұрын

    As a 19 yr old, I rlly have been stressing abt finding a partner 😆 I want to get married but the thought of trying hard to find the perfect person often filled me with anxiety & dread. So to hear him say the process of meeting the right person will come naturally, and the objective is *peace and calm* in ur life - never looked at it from that perspective before and it rlly helps ❤️ thanks

  • @yasminflower5140

    @yasminflower5140

    Жыл бұрын

    You're still young , don't worry ,the right person will come inshallah. Use this time to know yourself and your worth and also to spend time with your parents, this will not come back 💕

  • @mujahidhasan118

    @mujahidhasan118

    Жыл бұрын

    Ayo As A 22 Old Muslim Boy (Almost 100Kg Fat). I Have To Lose My Weight As Soon As Possible. Soon I Have To Hit The Gym And Shredded My Self. I'm Worried About My Future Wife. Don't Know What's Gonna Happen. Now Days Its Really Hard To Find Traditional Women (A Wify Material). Its Like Finding A Lost Needle In Sahara Desert.

  • @cabdixeedho4205

    @cabdixeedho4205

    Жыл бұрын

    you are so yaung i hope you good luck

  • @lizzie6565

    @lizzie6565

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg I’m 19 as well. I have also been worrying about finding a good husband. I want to be somewhat traditional. Not entirely though I’m still very ambitious regarding my career. Unfortunately I was trapped in Andrew tates world for a while and got so scared that a good man wouldn’t want a successful woman :( My goal is to be a good wife though.❤ Hopefully god helps me out

  • @yasminflower5140

    @yasminflower5140

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mujahidhasan118 are you husband material ? Allah will you give you exactly what you deserve don't worry..... Righteous wife for the RIGHTEOUS husband

  • @Nisa0206
    @Nisa0206 Жыл бұрын

    All my Muslim brothers and sisters May Allah bless you with righteous and good spouse and kids who will benefit you in this world and hereafter too Allahumma Ameen 💖

  • @fardosaadan5963

    @fardosaadan5963

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen ya rabb🤲🤲🤲

  • @yusniatiyusni1503

    @yusniatiyusni1503

    Жыл бұрын

    Aamiinn

  • @roksanashirmin3573
    @roksanashirmin3573 Жыл бұрын

    I am 36 year's woman, not married, please everyone, prayer for me, to get married please, my mother's, father's, younger brother is gone, now I am waiting for my marriage, I am totally alone, my tension.... Everyone pray for me

  • @jawwad4020

    @jawwad4020

    Жыл бұрын

    Try a Muslim dating site such as muzz?

  • @wheelfan100

    @wheelfan100

    Жыл бұрын

    Try lowering your natural hypergamy go for someone poorer etc don't go after the top guys. Make the first move

  • @wheelfan100

    @wheelfan100

    Жыл бұрын

    Also watch weath waffles

  • @harujong-il6059

    @harujong-il6059

    Жыл бұрын

    @@wheelfan100that’s the worst advice you can give a woman. Just because she’s getting older doesn’t mean that she should lower her standards. Financial security is very important to women and most divorces occur due to financial issues

  • @sanshe311

    @sanshe311

    3 ай бұрын

    May Allah grant your Duas with best and grant you good spouse.

  • @za761
    @za761 Жыл бұрын

    53 and never had been married, never had boyfriends, I just follow the flow of my life. srudied, having a descent job, able to be at my parent's service, I do travel as and when I have the opportunity, went for hajj at my early 40s...I was ok all the while, but lately felt like a 'vacuum' in my life...thought of adopting a kid...hmm I don't know..I have been performing istiqarah for Allah's guidance

  • @xoismat8350

    @xoismat8350

    Жыл бұрын

    Mashallah! I worry for my Aunt because she isn't married but this gave me hope. I'll advice her to find her purpose

  • @mujahidhasan118

    @mujahidhasan118

    Жыл бұрын

    Ayo As A 22 Old Muslim Boy (Almost 100Kg Fat)😂. I Have To Lose My Weight As Soon As Possible. Soon I Have To Hit The Gym And Shredded My Self. I'm Worried About My Future Wife. Don't Know What's Gonna Happen. Now Days Its Really Hard To Find Traditional Women (A Wify Material). Its Like Finding A Lost Needle In Sahara Desert.😩

  • @somenamae

    @somenamae

    Жыл бұрын

    Al-Salam Alaykum, dear. I ask Allah to fulfill your needs and strengthen you and guide you to what is best for you in this life and in the eternal life. And I pray to Allah that He rewards you in both lives for your good deeds and sabr. 💕 I would also like to tell you that adoption is not permissible in Islam; therefore, you cannot perform istiqarah on it. However, looking after an orphan is allowed and even encouraged as reported in this Hadith: Sahl bin Sa'd (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: *Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "I will be like this in Jannah with the person who takes care of an orphan". Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) raised his forefinger and middle finger by way of illustration.* [Al- Bukhari]. وعن سهل بن سعيد رضي الله عنه‏:‏ قال رسول صلى الله عليه وسلم‏:‏ ‏ "‏ أنا وكافل اليتيم في الجنة هكذا‏"‏ وأشار بالسبابة والوسطى، وفرج بينهما‏.‏ ‏(‏‏(‏رواه البخاري‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏ Reference : Riyad as-Salihin 262 In-book reference : Introduction, Hadith 262 Sister, may Allah provide for you from where you do not expect. 💗 {And whoever fears Allah - He will make for him a way out ◉ And will provide for him from where he does not expect. And whoever relies upon Allah - then He is sufficient for him. Indeed, Allah will accomplish His purpose. Allah has already set for everything a [decreed] extent.} (Surah Al-Talaq, 2&3)

  • @halimaabdulla4865

    @halimaabdulla4865

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah grant you a spouse that will help you get to Jannah Ameen

  • @nurhayatiramli636

    @nurhayatiramli636

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't worry..Allah knows best, you will be blessed,..Inshallah.

  • @nafisanehar742
    @nafisanehar742 Жыл бұрын

    When u whole heartly trust Allah there's nothing to worry 💗

  • @amreenrajput4080
    @amreenrajput4080 Жыл бұрын

    Girls focus on ur purpose.... that's it.....the good partner is in the hands of Allah ..just pray for urselves ...... U will have a partner with whom u will be calm....انشاءاللہ

  • @silverstar2191

    @silverstar2191

    Жыл бұрын

    What he meant by saying, Focus on your purpose? Can you clarify please

  • @amreenrajput4080

    @amreenrajput4080

    Жыл бұрын

    @@silverstar2191 the purpose of muslim is to live a life of complete submission to Allah............we here to live a life that Allah wants us to live that's why he has given us the guidance of prophet muhammad SAW......so that we can become a good human being n this will help us in this duniya as well as in akhirah.......... we are here to make our akhirah good by our good deeds.......

  • @monabrown101
    @monabrown101 Жыл бұрын

    Wow....even tho I am Christian, God used this to bless me. I %1000000 agree with this man. I believe God is a God of peace. If my future husband doesn't make me feel at peace around him, he is not the one. God bless you.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😇😇😇

  • @mujahidhasan118

    @mujahidhasan118

    Жыл бұрын

    Ayo As A 22 Old Muslim Boy (Almost 100Kg Fat)😂. I Have To Lose My Weight As Soon As Possible. Soon I Have To Hit The Gym And Shredded My Self. I'm Worried About My Future Wife. Don't Know What's Gonna Happen. Now Days Its Really Hard To Find Traditional Women (A Wify Material). Its Like Finding A Lost Needle In Sahara Desert.😩

  • @Mochi-re8cv

    @Mochi-re8cv

    8 ай бұрын

    @@mujahidhasan118 wify material 💀

  • @diahfitriani3944
    @diahfitriani3944 Жыл бұрын

    I'm 30 soon, and still single. somehow that exact question haunted me, because in my culture, I'm already late for "ideal" age for married. our society put pressure to it. and it made me anxious sometimes. but qadarullah this video comes at the right moment. it reminds me why I should be grateful that my life is fine with or without spouse... it reminds me why I'm still single is waiting to be together with someone who would give me peace. someone who made me safe, reminds me of home. home that'll protect me, surround me with assurance, accepted me for who I am

  • @webiplus

    @webiplus

    Жыл бұрын

    You are not late for marriage. You are still young enough to bear children and I'm sure strong enough to build a family.

  • @diahfitriani3944

    @diahfitriani3944

    Жыл бұрын

    @@webiplus thank you for your kind words 😁

  • @mahamkhan7365

    @mahamkhan7365

    Жыл бұрын

    @@diahfitriani3944 my cousin gets married at the age of 30 and she is pregnant. So don't worry. May Allah bless you with a good life partner.

  • @user-sz3oq6ie9u

    @user-sz3oq6ie9u

    6 ай бұрын

    Darood Nazar e Kram perhyn Ya Rehmatul Alamin Sallalahu Alaika wasalum Huzoor Nazre Kram farmayn mujh pr

  • @IronMan-nu3rb

    @IronMan-nu3rb

    5 ай бұрын

    What were u doing in 20s??

  • @syedafatima2839
    @syedafatima2839 Жыл бұрын

    I want to get married but my life is stuck in different things when I see everyone I know getting married my heart panics tears automatically roll down from my eyes . I want someone to be around me to talk and share my life with family is family but how much could someone bother them midnight or at anytime they feel sad or depressed . I think that’s y we have a partner so that we can share sorrow and happiness I pray the next year till I watch this video I will be married inshallah if allah Wills and is good for me .. till then I pray for everyone who feels like me and kindly keep in prayers sisters !

  • @user-sz3oq6ie9u

    @user-sz3oq6ie9u

    6 ай бұрын

    Darood Nazar e Kram perhyn Ya Rehmatul Alamin Sallalahu Alaika wasalum Huzoor Nazre Kram farmayn mujh pr

  • @AamnaK-fq1ki

    @AamnaK-fq1ki

    6 ай бұрын

    Allah is with you sister. Just be patient and whoever is in your naseeb will come at their destined time. Remember when there is no one to share your problems, you can always raise your hands and speak of Allah directly

  • @IronMan-nu3rb

    @IronMan-nu3rb

    5 ай бұрын

    It's almost going to be an year since you commented. Did u marry?🙂

  • @anikasiddiquebristy9331

    @anikasiddiquebristy9331

    2 ай бұрын

    Same here sister!

  • @halolizaa
    @halolizaa Жыл бұрын

    I'm 37 years old, also still not married yet,, pray for me too.. 🙂

  • @AmitKumar-xx9pl

    @AmitKumar-xx9pl

    Жыл бұрын

    Why

  • @nurulilmarsah

    @nurulilmarsah

    Жыл бұрын

    May allah blease we are ,, because i feel what are u feel

  • @halolizaa

    @halolizaa

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nurulilmarsah Hope Allah gives the best for us,, amiinnn

  • @nurulilmarsah

    @nurulilmarsah

    Жыл бұрын

    @@halolizaa can i know where do u from?

  • @jawwad4020

    @jawwad4020

    Жыл бұрын

    @@AmitKumar-xx9pl I think one should make their efforts as well. Imagine if we stayed at home and not went to work and only prayed that Allah give me dinner. No we are supposed to work and Allah will give barakat. My prayers for OP 🙏

  • @eminurshouse
    @eminurshouse Жыл бұрын

    First we should find peace in our souls. Then our partner will find us or we will find them ❤️

  • @MA-2020

    @MA-2020

    Жыл бұрын

    ✔️✔️✔️

  • @cii_faa
    @cii_faa Жыл бұрын

    Im 32 year old and all people always say what is your looking for? And don't much choose... This is the answer for all your question and what i looking for... Hope Allah give me this type of spouse for me who give me peace... Aamiin

  • @cabdixeedho4205

    @cabdixeedho4205

    Жыл бұрын

    Although they're very wrong, but I think It's motivational question🤣🤣

  • @suhilaelnagar7426
    @suhilaelnagar7426 Жыл бұрын

    I just want to marry a Man that I feel with him Peace ❤

  • @Hellofellowhuman212
    @Hellofellowhuman212 Жыл бұрын

    Wow I'm amazed how this video popped up when I most needed it! Studying medicine abroad sure creates lots of dilemmas within oneself when you know you're spending most of your youth studying in a foreign country with very low chances to find suitable future partner.

  • @naimaabdullahi6272

    @naimaabdullahi6272

    Жыл бұрын

    Sameee May Allah SWT take care of our affairs ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

  • @Hellofellowhuman212

    @Hellofellowhuman212

    Жыл бұрын

    @@naimaabdullahi6272 Aminnn🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @blue.Nina426

    @blue.Nina426

    Жыл бұрын

    Mashallah sister. Focus on your medecine studies. You are a futur doctor inshallah, Allah will give you what you want later inshAllah

  • @joyfulj1663

    @joyfulj1663

    Жыл бұрын

    Allah can send you someone by a way you couldn't imagine in that foreign country. Make sincere duaa everyday

  • @blue.Nina426

    @blue.Nina426

    Жыл бұрын

    @@paralleluniverse298 shut up. I SY what I want. The most important thing is to be independent. Not your case ? I don’t care

  • @rm7250
    @rm7250 Жыл бұрын

    I’m 26 and unmarried pls make dua for me in sha Allah Rahima that Allah swt give me a righteous spouse and make it easy

  • @alishaansari8795
    @alishaansari8795 Жыл бұрын

    Me bhot stress me thi Esa lag raha hai ye video Allah ke zariye mujh tak pohochi Alhamdolillahh 💙💙💕

  • @AmitKumar-xx9pl

    @AmitKumar-xx9pl

    Жыл бұрын

    Aur ab

  • @soulserenity2503
    @soulserenity2503 Жыл бұрын

    SubhanAllah, Allah sent this video to me at the perfect time like He’s answering me

  • @mzmalik9445
    @mzmalik9445 Жыл бұрын

    It's very difficult to identify the temper and attitude of a person in arranged marriage when that person poses nice to others. All depends on only qadr.

  • @sadianamel7141
    @sadianamel7141 Жыл бұрын

    Allah is the best planner, may Allah Pak bless all of us the righteous path... ameen, sum Amen

  • @anamwani4497
    @anamwani4497 Жыл бұрын

    I desperately needed this...

  • @sonic-od3fb

    @sonic-od3fb

    Жыл бұрын

    You and me both omg 😳

  • @farmanfatima5858
    @farmanfatima5858 Жыл бұрын

    Obviously correct sir 💯💯✨👌 may allah give the good& religious spouse to every man & women ....Aameen

  • @kendraandre6670
    @kendraandre6670 Жыл бұрын

    As a Muslim that is living in a society of people expecting you to get married after university made me quite worried about if I will get married but then this video came through to me, thank you.

  • @user-of3mj2sz7z
    @user-of3mj2sz7z Жыл бұрын

    Whenever I'm stressed,this man comes & make me happy 💙

  • @putriwildaninasution7816
    @putriwildaninasution7816 Жыл бұрын

    Suddenly this video comes up while i open youtube, is this a sign for advise? Masha Allah❤

  • @elizabethshittu3275
    @elizabethshittu3275 Жыл бұрын

    This is so true. Whether Allah wills marriage for you or not, the only way to be happy in this life is to be purposeful. If you are not, you will not attract anyone good in your life.

  • @silverstar2191

    @silverstar2191

    Жыл бұрын

    What did he mean by saying, focus on being purposeful? Can you clarify for me please Jazak Allahu Khairan

  • @Adelina24244

    @Adelina24244

    5 ай бұрын

    @@silverstar2191what is your purpose in this life to worship Allah and to obey his commands. Find out why Allah brought you into this world without purpose is the cause of many suicides. Have goals and dreams and focus on yourself

  • @roshnitasnim2757
    @roshnitasnim2757 Жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulilah, i was literally having anxiety about getting married and this video comes in. Alhamdulilah💚

  • @aayatkhan3232

    @aayatkhan3232

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @rodaisa7274
    @rodaisa7274 Жыл бұрын

    Such a coincidence that I just saw this SubhanAllah literally all I do is think about my future husband and wanting to get married soon I need to relax and understand Allah is the best of planners

  • @libriansana8562
    @libriansana8562 Жыл бұрын

    Girls think like that cuz they get worried... Mostly cuz of our parents cuz they are worried more than anyone... Unknown fears start to develop ws we age... May ALLAH help us ameen

  • @elencapote9454
    @elencapote9454 Жыл бұрын

    I needed this words today ! This man is amazing, the way he speak, he is sweet, authentic, for sure he is close to Allah He is funny also, lol

  • @KadiatouKeita410
    @KadiatouKeita410 Жыл бұрын

    This video is so helpful, subhanallah. Let's leave with purpose, and the right spouse will find us inshaAllah.

  • @Habail786
    @Habail786 Жыл бұрын

    I am 37 years old n unmarried. Please pray for me

  • @coffeegirl6076

    @coffeegirl6076

    Жыл бұрын

    Inshaallah Allah will bless you with everything you wanted here and Jannah sister.

  • @inspiringmuslim
    @inspiringmuslim Жыл бұрын

    may Allah grant as righteous spouse and children .Ameen

  • @amazing.crafts
    @amazing.crafts Жыл бұрын

    I am going through this right now and got my answer AlhamdulilALLAH.... ❤️

  • @Butterfly-ys9uv
    @Butterfly-ys9uv Жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah, Allah saved me from a mismatch 🙂and I cried and thought Allah could have made me my match😐 at first it looked so!

  • @adijahidi1215
    @adijahidi1215 Жыл бұрын

    Yaa UStadhi don't warry Allah give you jannah MashaAllah

  • @Dr.Abrahamkhan
    @Dr.Abrahamkhan Жыл бұрын

    May Allah save us from sins and give us women with good character. AMEEN ❤️💖 And give to women a good character men. AMEEN ❤️ No doubt Allah said in QURAN AND WE HAVE MADE THE BEST PAIRS( COUPLE) FOR YOU 💕💖💖❤️❤️

  • @bigmax5780
    @bigmax5780 Жыл бұрын

    This is EXACTLY what i was worried about 😭 ya Allah youtube can read my mind

  • @waytoguidance

    @waytoguidance

    Жыл бұрын

    youtube is nothing I think its ALLAH Who made you watch something beneficial 😊

  • @farheenbukhari1129

    @farheenbukhari1129

    Жыл бұрын

    @@waytoguidance Indeed It is Allah

  • @jawwad4020

    @jawwad4020

    Жыл бұрын

    @@waytoguidance It's literally the KZread algorithm written by people that is making these suggestions. It is my understanding that it is disrespectful to compare artificial intelligence to Allah swt.- that would be shirk.

  • @waytoguidance

    @waytoguidance

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jawwad4020 Algorithm can recommend Islamic content but to be THAT specific.. like you find the exact thing you look for.. ALLAH can do anything سبحان اللہ And no one is comparing some technology with the Most High Astaghfirullah

  • @waytoguidance

    @waytoguidance

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jawwad4020 it has happened to me too I was struggling with alot of depression and just as I opened this app I saw a video specifically about Surah Duha in front of me.. to this day I thank ALLAH I saw that video.. it gives me strength by the mercy of ALLAH

  • @labulabuland
    @labulabuland Жыл бұрын

    30 y.o. Have tokophobia. Never been married. Please pray for me. ✅watched

  • @ishfaqahmad5800
    @ishfaqahmad5800 Жыл бұрын

    Every word you spoke out are just absolutely mind blowing

  • @shootingstar1111
    @shootingstar1111 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!! Nouman sir, may Allah fulfill every wishes of yours and keep you in peace 🤲💖

  • @beinghuman4583
    @beinghuman4583 Жыл бұрын

    💖A VERY TRUE MESSAGE MY DEAREST BROTHER 💖☝️

  • @zaheenkhilji8826
    @zaheenkhilji8826 Жыл бұрын

    Allhumdullillah....the most needed thing for me 😭😍❣️

  • @sarahja-db9jt
    @sarahja-db9jt6 ай бұрын

    Salem sisters Make this doùa : rabbi innī limā anzalta ilayya min khayrin faqīr (Qur’an 28 : 24 )

  • @suhana5645
    @suhana56456 ай бұрын

    Iam 25year old.. I was worried but now after watching this video I got motivated very much.. Thank u

  • @othe_punya
    @othe_punya Жыл бұрын

    I’m trying to convince myself noy to worry about what’s going on in my life because Allah SWT knows what best for me

  • @sisterfahima
    @sisterfahima Жыл бұрын

    I really needed this, جزاك الله خيرا

  • @nikendhanitya5323
    @nikendhanitya53235 ай бұрын

    30 and im worried that im still single and never had any boyfriend. Please pray for me, brother and sister. Hope Allah will let me have my spose in this dunya. I want to have kids :”)

  • @duhakhan7738

    @duhakhan7738

    2 ай бұрын

    Yes sister🥺😓

  • @mizuki_mitsuru4482
    @mizuki_mitsuru4482 Жыл бұрын

    Pov: you feel called out just from the headline subhanallah🌹

  • @sonic-od3fb

    @sonic-od3fb

    Жыл бұрын

    I did feel that way not gonna lie lol 😆

  • @raze6869
    @raze6869 Жыл бұрын

    I feel really down. My family don’t show me love, and I need someone to lean my shoulder on. I feel loneliest. I can’t even focus on my ambitions, my life is full of anxiety; our house is always chaotic. I just wanna run free

  • @IqraIqra-pc8oj

    @IqraIqra-pc8oj

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @minamoorie4746

    @minamoorie4746

    Жыл бұрын

    @@IqraIqra-pc8oj you're a strong person for admitting this. Have patience and pray Allah will give you your freedom

  • @IqraIqra-pc8oj

    @IqraIqra-pc8oj

    Жыл бұрын

    @@minamoorie4746 thank u

  • @coffeegirl6076

    @coffeegirl6076

    Жыл бұрын

    We should create a support group for sisters like us. Sending love to you whoever you are sister. May Allah ease everything for you.

  • @jawwad4020

    @jawwad4020

    Жыл бұрын

    May you find the strength sister!

  • @alexanderv7702
    @alexanderv7702 Жыл бұрын

    These words are beyond wise: listen and apply!

  • @bellokhaeerat
    @bellokhaeerat Жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah Jazakumullahu Khairan for sharing this amazing video. May Allah grant us spouses who will be the coolness of our eyes(Ameen).

  • @onlyyoutube6824
    @onlyyoutube6824 Жыл бұрын

    I WAS REALLY IN NEED OF THIS VIDEO. THANK YOU 💝

  • @theempireofLuxury
    @theempireofLuxury6 ай бұрын

    I am saving it and going to watch it again again.. beacuse it need it very much.. because love is not everything. May Allah grant us spouses who give us peace ..

  • @zainabkazmi131
    @zainabkazmi131 Жыл бұрын

    It’s not us it’s our parents who brings the topic of marraige again n again. They have made this the only purpose of life.

  • @farzanamunni8947

    @farzanamunni8947

    Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely right..

  • @user-sx6cy8bn4n

    @user-sx6cy8bn4n

    Жыл бұрын

    But marriage is a shield

  • @henna5850

    @henna5850

    Жыл бұрын

    Then feel lucky.

  • @farzanamunni8947

    @farzanamunni8947

    Жыл бұрын

    i didn't say that,, i'm not a feminist.. When a girl won't marry society alwyz mock her...but what she can do?? It's in her hand??

  • @heartstar4332

    @heartstar4332

    Жыл бұрын

    @@farzanamunni8947 agreed😢

  • @mehfoozasajid6273
    @mehfoozasajid6273 Жыл бұрын

    This was much needed. My sister was getting anxious almost to the point of being depressed 😔 about who would marry her. In our society there are mostly arranged marriages and the man's side(his mother and sisters) mostly if not always demand a fair coloured girl. But anything below fair is unacceptable.

  • @waytoguidance

    @waytoguidance

    Жыл бұрын

    I have found that when you really do put trust in ALLAH.. and leave the evil and prohibited things for only HIS sake.. then ALLAH really does give you something much better.. but the main thing is you have to sincere from heart with ALLAH first

  • @waytoguidance

    @waytoguidance

    Жыл бұрын

    Also my advice is please don't give your sister in marriage to such people who prioritise other qualities of her and not her religion.. These aunties would only want to show the girl and her beauty off to their extended family which might contain non mahram men.. Big no !

  • @mehfoozasajid6273

    @mehfoozasajid6273

    Жыл бұрын

    @@waytoguidance Highly appreciate your advice but the problem is these aunties don't really care if the you are religious or not or have any other qualities apart from being beautiful according to their standards.

  • @waytoguidance

    @waytoguidance

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mehfoozasajid6273 Then be happy they are out of your life themselves 🙂

  • @yasminflower5140

    @yasminflower5140

    Жыл бұрын

    Tell your sister that she is beautiful and they don't deserve her, tell her that Allah is preventing her to be with such horrible people. Instead she can use this time to study her deen and maybe learn some skill that will truly help her

  • @user-kp9ch3hx8o
    @user-kp9ch3hx8o7 ай бұрын

    I am 16 years old, and have been thinking about that

  • @faseetube801
    @faseetube8016 ай бұрын

    Consoled my heart when I was having the same doubt and being purposeful, Alhamdulillah ❤

  • @syee797
    @syee797 Жыл бұрын

    that's what I am thinking now. pressure from people around me make me sad.

  • @cutecupcake6870
    @cutecupcake6870 Жыл бұрын

    I am a Muslim girl I am not really worried about my marriage right now But few days ago a proposal came for me and my parents got so worked up... Allah knows why 🤣🤣🤣 And I asked them to calm down.

  • @bocjagne2878

    @bocjagne2878

    Жыл бұрын

    Lol! I would have thought that was good, wasn't it?

  • @liv16851

    @liv16851

    Жыл бұрын

    But, do you want to get married?

  • @zaheenkhilji8826

    @zaheenkhilji8826

    Жыл бұрын

    Exact happened with me😂😂

  • @mujahidhasan118

    @mujahidhasan118

    Жыл бұрын

    Ayo As A 22 Old Muslim Boy (Almost 100Kg Fat)😂. I Have To Lose My Weight As Soon As Possible. Soon I Have To Hit The Gym And Shredded My Self. I'm Worried About My Future Wife. Don't Know What's Gonna Happen. Now Days Its Really Hard To Find Traditional Women (A Wify Material). Its Like Finding A Lost Needle In Sahara Desert.😩

  • @Mochi-re8cv

    @Mochi-re8cv

    8 ай бұрын

    😂😂😂😂😂 nooooo

  • @i.c5084
    @i.c5084 Жыл бұрын

    I like this video. Congrats guys. I am a christian from romania ✌🏻🇹🇩❤️❤️❤️ God bless us all!❤️🤗❤️❤️

  • @i.c5084

    @i.c5084

    6 ай бұрын

    No...they have dark blue..@@omn968

  • @hamnyangii
    @hamnyangii Жыл бұрын

    This question has been on my mind for at least three years now

  • @shaq100
    @shaq100 Жыл бұрын

    Absolutely beautiful message! 💫💫

  • @Hecanburninhell
    @Hecanburninhell Жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah link to full lecture please❤😭

  • @shamilamuhammed3008
    @shamilamuhammed30088 ай бұрын

    May Allah bless us with the best spouse.. Aameen💔..

  • @douhabenzimoun3674
    @douhabenzimoun3674 Жыл бұрын

    I WAS LITERALLY SAYING THAT LIKE QUESTIONING MY FUTURE RELATIONSHIP

  • @ibni450
    @ibni450 Жыл бұрын

    Greate messages for Us 😍

  • @nailaquadir2022
    @nailaquadir2022 Жыл бұрын

    Happy to hear the lecture as a mother too.

  • @sophiajacks8447
    @sophiajacks8447 Жыл бұрын

    Im a christian buh I really loved this video.. thank you ❤️

  • @labanekalimat
    @labanekalimat Жыл бұрын

    What i need at this moment an Allah send this to me alhamdoulillah

  • @foziamaqbool9405
    @foziamaqbool9405 Жыл бұрын

    Proud to be a Muslim

  • @Sheart-qs6mm
    @Sheart-qs6mm Жыл бұрын

    Im divorced 5 yrs ago, and still want a good marriage to a good spouse and a good father for my daughter. Im anxious and dont want my marriage to end the same as the last one (sorry for the purpose of covering our past i cant tell why) and thinking who would marry a widow like me, also the news and socmed kept showing abt how a lot of marriage is wrecked and i then got worried abt it, my parents also traumatized and didnt allow me to remarried, but deep down i still want and hope to.. this came from Allah and i have teary eyes watching it.. May Allah ease all the worry and anxiousness from all of us and grant us all good spouses, good family that together wants to get closer to Allah everyday and do a lot of good deeds for mankind.. Aameen.

  • @nescasta1950

    @nescasta1950

    Жыл бұрын

    A cousin of mine got married twice and it still didn't work out now after 12 yrs she had a third marriage but its love marriage MashAllah MashAllah InshAllah when the time is right and Allah g knows it he will send someone your way meanwhile keep working on yourself and making a role model of yourself because that cousin did this , she studied more degrees , learnt even many more new skills

  • @coffeegirl6076

    @coffeegirl6076

    Жыл бұрын

    Dont worry sister, I am here praying for you. I have seen someone like you in my life who is closer to me, so I know the pain of yours. Allah will ease everything for you sister. He is the most Just. He will let miracles happen in unexpected ways sister. I doa for you the best.

  • @grahamthomas9319

    @grahamthomas9319

    Жыл бұрын

    Fix yourself first otherwise you get the same. You cannot change what you don’t own.

  • @cabdixeedho4205

    @cabdixeedho4205

    Жыл бұрын

    قدر الله وما شاء فعل لا تقنط من رحمة الله لان ستلقى في حياتك الدنيا مشاكل ومصائب فلابد ان تؤمن بالقدر خيره وشره. I wish all of you a successful year ahead.

  • @cabdixeedho4205

    @cabdixeedho4205

    Жыл бұрын

    @@nescasta1950 Great story, thanks for sharing💞

  • @izzagafoor6355
    @izzagafoor6355 Жыл бұрын

    Itna khoobsorat deen hai. Hr bat sikha raha hai.

  • @gratefulslaveofallah4433
    @gratefulslaveofallah4433 Жыл бұрын

    Jazakumullahu khairan for important reminder!

  • @lonewanderer_vault101
    @lonewanderer_vault101 Жыл бұрын

    Nice lecture! I'm 19 and not really worried about getting married and all but it's a good reminder if i do start thinking like this in the future.

  • @cabdixeedho4205

    @cabdixeedho4205

    Жыл бұрын

    Masha allah well said 🤣

  • @mahamkhan7365

    @mahamkhan7365

    Жыл бұрын

    You are very young this is not the age of worrying about marriage. Focused on your studies. You will find the right person on the right time in sha Allah

  • @tasanotes

    @tasanotes

    2 ай бұрын

    hi i'm also 19

  • @unknownranger250
    @unknownranger2506 ай бұрын

    I’m 33 and InshaAllah will get married early next year. This is just for the girls out there, when i was in my early 20’s i would worry as everyone around me was getting married.. By Allah’s mercy and grace it is now happening for me at this age, whilst i battled other personal family related problems.. a decade later its happening. Its Allah swt’s Will..

  • @sim_1017
    @sim_1017 Жыл бұрын

    Jazaakallahu khair Ustaad!

  • @Hainayusra
    @Hainayusra Жыл бұрын

    That's nice speech..I'm 34 years old and haven't married yet

  • @linazana1497
    @linazana1497 Жыл бұрын

    Everything he said is right but I do think love should be considered too, you should love them and feel peaceful with them. God didn’t just give us feelings and hearts for no reasons, we’re not robots we should feel love, attraction and everything beautiful with them.

  • @jawwad4020

    @jawwad4020

    Жыл бұрын

    Some will say any feelings are evil if you're not married smh 🙄

  • @darkqueen1277
    @darkqueen1277 Жыл бұрын

    Nowadays , İ really need this type of advice. Thanks a lot

  • @mawahammad8074
    @mawahammad8074 Жыл бұрын

    So beautifull speech and inspired😍 God bless you

  • @dessy844
    @dessy8449 ай бұрын

    I will be 45 next month, insyaAllah And That's the goal for me : Peace , always has been, but it did not work out on my first marriage, i was too young, probably ignorant of what peace in marriage is, insya Allah i know better for my future🙏 tabarakallah

  • @User_pretty67fg-op

    @User_pretty67fg-op

    6 ай бұрын

    If you are from India I can help you InshAllah

  • @assalamualaikum3959
    @assalamualaikum3959 Жыл бұрын

    I don't worry about who will marry me? I only worrg about whether he will respect and whether he will be a nice person and if he will be then will I be deserving of him? But as soon as these worries come to me, a sense of peace came too that no matter what it will be my qismat and only my dua's can make it better, only Allah swt will make it better Alhamdulliah

  • @muskakhan3278

    @muskakhan3278

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly my thoughts that's why I am scared of getting married what if he's not to be what i want of him how would be my life then it worries me a lot Allah help us ameen

  • @cabdixeedho4205

    @cabdixeedho4205

    Жыл бұрын

    I wish you a good husband to joy of life together

  • @muskakhan3278

    @muskakhan3278

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cabdixeedho4205 Ameen thank u same to u if u r not married 😀

  • @cabdixeedho4205

    @cabdixeedho4205

    Жыл бұрын

    @@muskakhan3278 you're very welcome. I'm still single🤣

  • @muskakhan3278

    @muskakhan3278

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cabdixeedho4205 😃let's hope for the best r u a girl

  • @fatoumatajawara6400
    @fatoumatajawara6400 Жыл бұрын

    I feel comfortable after watching this veido 🥰

  • @azharmd9804
    @azharmd9804 Жыл бұрын

    Girls are busy capturing nouman sir rather than listing his lecture

  • @adan4477

    @adan4477

    Жыл бұрын

    U r busy typing comments instead of listening

  • @azharmd9804

    @azharmd9804

    Жыл бұрын

    @adan4477 wow well said🥱🙂

  • @salqauraofficialchannel3192
    @salqauraofficialchannel3192 Жыл бұрын

    Many people asked me the same thing, many mans around you, why dont u pick up one to get marry with?,, simple answer “after getting know each other, I didnt feel any peaceful with them, respectively”,,, peace is important feeling in the hectic life

  • @izzagafoor6355
    @izzagafoor6355 Жыл бұрын

    Thanx for giving such a beautiful bayan. Describing the purpose of marriage in the islam.

  • @fauzianalwoga1002
    @fauzianalwoga1002Ай бұрын

    May we all get good and loving non toxic spouses and children insha Allah ❤❤😢

  • @Hir_zKhan
    @Hir_zKhan3 ай бұрын

    I'm 36 years old woman and never married and I'm so worried about my future. Whenever I find a nice proposal or guy some misfortune happens. Everyone please pray for me 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Aafiya.Officiall

    @Aafiya.Officiall

    3 ай бұрын

    Can you tell me the meaning of this -> Hadith 3959 Sunan an-Nasa'i. You can google it . How can Allah allow men to have intercourse with slaves without marrying them.? ..... A man who already had many wives, still he intercourse with slaves, how can we consider him a prophet or a ideal man? There are many verses like this in Qur'an n hadith.which are against women and kafirs. We need to study our own with actual meanings.

  • @CatsandAnimals213
    @CatsandAnimals213 Жыл бұрын

    Its been 4 years since my uni ended. I have been completely at home. My parents dont let me do anything going out. Only will let go of me when married.

  • @mahamkhan7365

    @mahamkhan7365

    Жыл бұрын

    Read tafseer-e quran pak. May Allah bless you

  • @farzanamunni8947
    @farzanamunni8947 Жыл бұрын

    Please pray for me... May Allah bless me a good spouse in this year...🙂..