How Can We Get Married Without Flirting? - Tough Questions On Marriage With Omar Suleiman

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00:40 Do you think people can get married without flirting in the stay?
04:29 Isn't it a short time to know a person without flirting?
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  • @TowardsEternity
    @TowardsEternity Жыл бұрын

    00:00 Intro 00:35 Is Omar Suleiman Married? 00:40 Do you think people can get married without flirting in the stay? 04:29 Isn't it a short time to know a person without flirting?

  • @yeasashikder3704

    @yeasashikder3704

    Жыл бұрын

    1st🇸🇦🇸🇦🇸🇦

  • @yeasashikder3704

    @yeasashikder3704

    Жыл бұрын

    🇮🇶🇮🇶🇮🇶

  • @yeasashikder3704

    @yeasashikder3704

    Жыл бұрын

    🇪🇬🇪🇬🇪🇬

  • @farheenkhatoon1309

    @farheenkhatoon1309

    Жыл бұрын

    But nowadays people only look into your financial condition not in your practicing deen.I saw people who is righteous but there 1st priority a rich girl.

  • @samsambarud4376

    @samsambarud4376

    Жыл бұрын

    Ma sha Allah May Allah bless and protect you and your beautiful family, and may ur knowledge of deen be the inspiring for you to be in great place Akhira and may we follow the good of you deen knowledge Aameen Ya Rabbi

  • @naginahussain9736
    @naginahussain9736 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful to hear a husband praise his wife for all the right reasons… ya Allah bless every muslim couple this kind of Love and blessings.

  • @syedmuqeet

    @syedmuqeet

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @zunaidnanabhai8384

    @zunaidnanabhai8384

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen.... INSHALLAH Ameen 🤲❤️

  • @jordanqueen5873

    @jordanqueen5873

    Жыл бұрын

    They praise u to stay at home and act like a dog

  • @tijabokoow7392

    @tijabokoow7392

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @mnvnaah739

    @mnvnaah739

    Жыл бұрын

    Amiiiyn

  • @ghaniyadewi
    @ghaniyadewi Жыл бұрын

    I didn’t date my husband. We met somewhere, he talked to my dad about his intention to marry me. We talked and get to know each other for 5 months before getting married. Never transgress the halal and ahamdulillah we’re happily married now and i never regret anything, alhamdulillah he is the right person and best husband that Allah has sent to me.

  • @hawasabdullahi7745

    @hawasabdullahi7745

    Жыл бұрын

    Machallh allhuma barik sister

  • @ghaniyadewi

    @ghaniyadewi

    Жыл бұрын

    @abdikhalikhussienosman1928 yes exactly. Knowing the boundaries and back to the intention. Barakallaahu fiikum, brother.

  • @ghaniyadewi

    @ghaniyadewi

    Жыл бұрын

    @zaidalikhan1444 wa’alaykumussalam warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Thanks for the question. First of all, of course i put the standard and qualification according to the syariat before knowing each other. Next, we just do our own things and updated sometimes. Never go out together alone. He several times came to my house where i have my parents or we went out with other family member if we want to talk and get to know each other. Mean while i can figure out his attitude and character. I also ask people from his family and circle what kind of person he is. Last but not least, i ask guidance from Allah. That’s what we did, brother. Barakallaahu fiikum.

  • @yen.a847

    @yen.a847

    Жыл бұрын

    SubhanAllah may your life be blessed dear sister and may Allah grant many blessings upon you ❤️

  • @ghaniyadewi

    @ghaniyadewi

    Жыл бұрын

    @@yen.a847 jazaakallaahu khayran.. may Allaah bless you in return.. barakallaahu fiikum..

  • @crystalsounds9542
    @crystalsounds9542 Жыл бұрын

    damn, that part about romance being risky before marriage, i've never heard that before, yet it makes the most sense.

  • @mubashiraswaray4618

    @mubashiraswaray4618

    10 ай бұрын

    Seriously lam amazed ❤

  • @lynic-0091

    @lynic-0091

    25 күн бұрын

    Same here, I look at romance in the western world completely different now. He had a really good point.

  • @FithriyaaniRashidi
    @FithriyaaniRashidi Жыл бұрын

    Notes. Talk to your potential partner : Deen, character , likes & dislikes, priorities, vision of a family, career. Prioritize religion and character. Make decisions with your proper thinking and use full senses. You can get married without flirting. Avoid being alone physically intimate, or speaking romantically.

  • @wajeehazahid_official

    @wajeehazahid_official

    Жыл бұрын

    Summerized the whole message

  • @archerimranecharmig2974

    @archerimranecharmig2974

    Жыл бұрын

    Excellent summary.

  • @najwaabidin9573

    @najwaabidin9573

    10 ай бұрын

    Mantep kak. Noted

  • @ikyamelia15
    @ikyamelia15 Жыл бұрын

    In my dream, I wish I can get married with taaruf way. So that why I never do some relationship before married. In sya allah, Allah will guide me to find my future husband. Aamiin

  • @yasminibrahim2915

    @yasminibrahim2915

    Жыл бұрын

    Amiiin

  • @sakkeerhusain3049

    @sakkeerhusain3049

    Жыл бұрын

    Did you get husband

  • @ikyamelia15

    @ikyamelia15

    Жыл бұрын

    Not yet

  • @pgrestar845

    @pgrestar845

    Жыл бұрын

    May allah show you a good boy and mercy on u amn

  • @sakkeerhusain3049

    @sakkeerhusain3049

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ikyamelia15 yes

  • @imane-julieberger-pineault1200
    @imane-julieberger-pineault1200 Жыл бұрын

    I am Canadian revert and I am married my husband 2 week after meeting him we met only 3 or 4 time with someone beside and it was a blessing...

  • @NieR6991

    @NieR6991

    Жыл бұрын

    So glad to hear that! May Allah grant you long healthy life

  • @ademkedir3232

    @ademkedir3232

    Ай бұрын

    😮 mashallah 😊❤

  • @Suffia_00
    @Suffia_00 Жыл бұрын

    I am really impressed by the way he explained this topic very logically and guided the viewers with very beautiful concept and teachings of islam.

  • @mekdelawittariku7211
    @mekdelawittariku7211 Жыл бұрын

    what a wonderful message.I'm actually not Muslim but i really agree with your point of view where ppl don't have to be wanted bc of their physical apperance and what actually matters when it comes to marrage

  • @RedaReda-vl9ff

    @RedaReda-vl9ff

    Жыл бұрын

    Islam is beauthiful my friend,i hope you become muslim my friend,have a good day/night and take care of you and your family,peace.

  • @randmh3643

    @randmh3643

    Жыл бұрын

    Become a muslim friend! :) god is only one 1⃣

  • @RedaReda-vl9ff

    @RedaReda-vl9ff

    Жыл бұрын

    @@randmh3643 so happy for you my brother/sister,i hope happinness and peace for you and your family

  • @mekdelawittariku7211

    @mekdelawittariku7211

    Жыл бұрын

    @@randmh3643 I'm a proud chrstian what i loved is his personal idea which is marriage not else and thank you for your advice

  • @thepeacefulreligion1678

    @thepeacefulreligion1678

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mekdelawittariku7211 Brother /sister I would like you to become Muslim how do you see?

  • @astghferseb724
    @astghferseb724 Жыл бұрын

    What led you into Hell Fire? They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an 74:42-43) 🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers 🌹

  • @064_umaradabansari4

    @064_umaradabansari4

    Жыл бұрын

    ❣️

  • @zimap

    @zimap

    11 ай бұрын

    tysm

  • @yousefeldewik3027
    @yousefeldewik3027 Жыл бұрын

    I like what he says " Just because people don't post pictures of there marriage they are not haply married" this is something private between the husband and wife. I don't have to please other people so they can think I'm happily married, may they don't like to share these photos.

  • @littleriri

    @littleriri

    2 ай бұрын

    Very true. If someone has a great blessing in their life (i.e. a happy blessed marriage), they'll most likely do everything they can to protect it from the evil eye and to enjoy it privately with all the benefits of Allah's blessings. True happiness is when you enjoy a thing privately and nobody else (that doesn't matter) knows about it. My most happiest times in life were because I kept things very private and limited to my close circle of loved ones. Social media makes it easy to acquire nazr

  • @Alhamdullilah101
    @Alhamdullilah1017 ай бұрын

    It is risky to be romantic b4 marriage b/c u then u don't see the flaws in ur partner u want the to be perfect. This line hit my head. 100000% FACT

  • @zahraf_householdhub

    @zahraf_householdhub

    4 ай бұрын

    I’m a living example of this and I can say sheikh is so right. May Allah guide us right

  • @usamuslimvt
    @usamuslimvt Жыл бұрын

    Alhumdulillah thank you for posting this! I've been frightened of marriage. Too much damage in my past...too much hurt. I don't want to go through all that again. But I know Allah (SWT) does not like us to remain single. I like the approach explained here. Find someone whose deen is in line with my own and whose iman is strong. JazakAllah to Omar Suleiyman, all his family, and to all my brothers and sisters in Islam!

  • @lilylove01

    @lilylove01

    Жыл бұрын

    Wa yaka!

  • @HalimaSadia-uy6jr

    @HalimaSadia-uy6jr

    10 ай бұрын

    Yes inshallah 👏

  • @Souhaylariff
    @Souhaylariff Жыл бұрын

    Love the last part of the advice. So logical yet heartwarming to hear. Makes total sense.

  • @shireen3822
    @shireen3822 Жыл бұрын

    Lets share rewards ✨ 1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah 3. La ilaha illaAllah 4. Allahu Akbar 5. Astagfirullah wa'atubu ilaihi 6. SubhanAllahi wabi Hamdihi SubhanAllahil Adheem it's only going to take a few seconds! Please recite!

  • @gulkhan8437
    @gulkhan8437 Жыл бұрын

    This is the most I ve seen him smile! Alhamdolillah

  • @d.vittore4489
    @d.vittore4489 Жыл бұрын

    I'm 44 years old, man, and I'm afraid to die alone. The social isolation due to Corona virus affected me too much.... Before I was studying medicine (2018) and need to stop to care my father that was illness, thus I nowadays has my ears the social stereotypes and threatened limited life where when we die at 40 are considered young but if live are considered old. It's sadness, hurt . May Allah bless me and others that are at the same situation to find out a blessed wife. insha'Allah ❣️ From Brazil

  • @sacdiyoupdy

    @sacdiyoupdy

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameeen

  • @FatihYldz93

    @FatihYldz93

    Жыл бұрын

    Olá, irmão. Sou da Turquia e falo português. A gente tem que saber que o destino já é definido pra todos nós. Só que a gente tem que fazer algo pra encontrá-lo, fazer esforço para ser muçulmanos melhores. O medo de morrer sozinho é normal mas Allah nos vai ajudar inshaAllah. A gente tem que seguir rezando e ter esperança. Um abraço!

  • @TheRawring2000s

    @TheRawring2000s

    Жыл бұрын

    Man I feel bad for you. The covid 19 punishment wasn't meant for the Guys but the girls... :/

  • @Emsyaz

    @Emsyaz

    11 ай бұрын

    Find girls from Malaysia and Indonesia.

  • @hazarkayona

    @hazarkayona

    17 күн бұрын

    The other day I heard a story of a woman who got married in her 70s -i think- , to the love of her life mashaallah! Allah will give you whatever you ask him for.

  • @csontostereziaanett7782
    @csontostereziaanett7782 Жыл бұрын

    My husband is a muslim and I am a Christian.But we are doing very well.But this is an eye opening discussion about marriage.Again.Always love to listen the words of Dr Imam Omar Suleiman.

  • @loverfreind4273

    @loverfreind4273

    Жыл бұрын

    Awak kena masuk Islam juga kalau tidak perkahwinan kamu tidak sah disebabkan berbeza agama..this is important tidak bermain

  • @dowlayabdulrahman

    @dowlayabdulrahman

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@loverfreind4273 muslim men are allowed to marry Christian and Jews

  • @1Loveneverends

    @1Loveneverends

    Жыл бұрын

    @@loverfreind4273 Not true. Muslim men can marry people of the book, Al Kitab, know your deen akhi.

  • @arifalmalaibari4021

    @arifalmalaibari4021

    Жыл бұрын

    Study Islam .. inshaallaah u shall accept it

  • @palwashadurrani4551

    @palwashadurrani4551

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@1Loveneverendsno muslim men cant marry pls understand christians dont worship Allah so they are not believers they worship jesus so anyone who worships anyone other than Allah are not believers

  • @Yeldakasi22
    @Yeldakasi22 Жыл бұрын

    Keeping things pravite about your relation is very good and you can save your happily married life from evil eyes

  • @naemacali4685

    @naemacali4685

    Жыл бұрын

    in your life u have to keep things privately there are evil eyes in this not everyone will be happy what u are blessed with

  • @naemacali4685

    @naemacali4685

    Жыл бұрын

    exactly

  • @064_umaradabansari4

    @064_umaradabansari4

    Жыл бұрын

    True

  • @Emine070582
    @Emine070582 Жыл бұрын

    I wished that many brothers and sisters would think and act the way our prophet (pbuh) told us to do. Unfortunately, they dont...

  • @sadqyyarasoolallah6300

    @sadqyyarasoolallah6300

    Жыл бұрын

    write peace be upon him

  • @ShipMyPants

    @ShipMyPants

    Жыл бұрын

    @@sadqyyarasoolallah6300 they did. pbuh = peace be upon him

  • @sadqyyarasoolallah6300

    @sadqyyarasoolallah6300

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ShipMyPants ? who did

  • @muhammadisaac07

    @muhammadisaac07

    Жыл бұрын

    Sad truth

  • @zamharyanwar

    @zamharyanwar

    Жыл бұрын

    May Allah SWT strengthen our iman. Aamiin.

  • @volkanates959
    @volkanates959 Жыл бұрын

    MasaALLAH brothers. It is very heartwarming seeing how muslim brothers from different parts of the world and different nationalities are so well connected and working together to bring the dawah forward and trying to get the consent of ALLAH swt

  • @iyiitsruhiiiyi4530
    @iyiitsruhiiiyi4530 Жыл бұрын

    It's so beautiful 🥺 a husband is praising his wife MashaALLAH 🥺🤲🏻 May ALLAH grant me and all of us also these kind of happiness Alhamdulillah 🥺 Ameen Allahumma ameen 🥺❤️😭

  • @064_umaradabansari4

    @064_umaradabansari4

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @Amatullah.574

    @Amatullah.574

    15 күн бұрын

    That should not be unexpected.

  • @Hauwraa
    @Hauwraa Жыл бұрын

    I love the way he answered this question

  • @BarkleyBrixton
    @BarkleyBrixton Жыл бұрын

    When I have a crush on someone, I became extremely shy, I can't look, I can't speak, I can't walk in the same direction, I can't think properly, need to calm down but I'm recovering from it and try to talk to myself "Astaghfirullah calm down, be shy but be normal" I'm just a cute cat who keeps running away, but now Alhamdulillah at least I can smile and then leave. Is just a crush but I wasn't sure about taking that person in my life because I want to feel peaceful and happy with my spouse, I'm putting my trust in Allah has a better plan for me because I don't feel about this person is the right for me even though I like this individual.

  • @Emsyaz

    @Emsyaz

    11 ай бұрын

    How old are you sis? Where are you from? Are married already to that guy?

  • @csgaiao33
    @csgaiao33 Жыл бұрын

    i got married without flirting and im not even religious. There's something called friendship. That's how you get to know someone...

  • @jordanqueen5873

    @jordanqueen5873

    Жыл бұрын

    Ofcoarse a man and a women can be friends. Female logic

  • @csgaiao33

    @csgaiao33

    Жыл бұрын

    @@jordanqueen5873 I am best friends with my wife. If you can't be jokes on you pal...

  • @kfdini3171

    @kfdini3171

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @Emsyaz

    @Emsyaz

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@csgaiao33 after marriage? Yes you should be best friends with your wife. But before marriage? Nope. Thats ridiculous

  • @tasnimqurashi1245
    @tasnimqurashi1245 Жыл бұрын

    That is sooo true! I never never thought I was going to get married quickly Until I decided to do it with good intentions for Allah and stop wasting time. I don’t regret.

  • @khadujifuad9360

    @khadujifuad9360

    Жыл бұрын

    How dd u do? Wat dd u do?

  • @tasnimqurashi1245

    @tasnimqurashi1245

    Жыл бұрын

    @@khadujifuad9360 I loved someone a long time ~7 years and I realised he was bad and I didn’t want to marry him anymore. (He had a lot of excuses etc). I stopped praying for a while maybe one year and I used to have more and more sayi’at subhanallah… things I never thought would happen to me. I never felt good until I started to pray again and stop staying with girls that have no deen because they don’t even care about what’s right and what’s wrong. I focused on myself and I asked Allah sincerely to find a way to escape from people (even my very strict father) who make me feel bad but in the right way. A few days later I met a revert man, I could notice he has fear of Allah, he was better than me. I told myself this is a sign. The second time I saw him was at home with my family even when I didn’t decide if I accept him or not. That was his will, to be completely honest in front of my father. He came every day for one month with a new gift and he used to give me so much attention… I woke up one day and I made istikharah, I told myself he has deen and akhlaq and looks sure about his decision. What do I want more?? At this time honestly I didn’t care about feelings or love , all I know is that I felt at ease, with someone sincere, who’s ready to do everything for his wife (that’s akhlaq) and he made me feel special and we could speak about deen together, become better together. We spoke about all of it. I woke up one month later I told my mum I want him to be my husband and she didn’t believe, one week later a sheikh married us, one month later we did it officially and That’s it. If you are with someone who listens, who apologizes, and RESPECT you, has fear of Allah, it’ll be a good marriage my sister. Maybe the best thing to do is to prepare all the important questions, Allah will show you if he’s sincere or not.

  • @alisonelaa6742

    @alisonelaa6742

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tasnimqurashi1245 What is his nationality/ ethnicity?

  • @tasnimqurashi1245

    @tasnimqurashi1245

    Жыл бұрын

    @@alisonelaa6742 he’s from Chili and Iraq. He’s a revert. We’re both Swiss too.

  • @XX-rh3my

    @XX-rh3my

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tasnimqurashi1245 You talk only about yourself how you met him, like how he was kind to you , how he has akhlak, how he gave you a gift every time he visited you. But what about you? What did you do? Did you benefit him too? Because you only talk about yourself how you benefited from him.

  • @ibelogy
    @ibelogy Жыл бұрын

    You shouldnt get married without talking but you can get married without flirting

  • @saudakhan9543
    @saudakhan9543 Жыл бұрын

    Tysm for sharing these videos. These are very very helpful in clearing our misconceptions. We really need to get educated on these topics. Love your channel. I've learned sm from ur videos. May Allah give you more amd more success

  • @Ana-rb7ws
    @Ana-rb7ws Жыл бұрын

    SUCH an important topic! Jazak Allahu khair for posting!

  • @ferhanaismail5203
    @ferhanaismail5203 Жыл бұрын

    May we all be blessed with a pious partner

  • @user-li5fo3bl3q

    @user-li5fo3bl3q

    Жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @bricoyassin8711

    @bricoyassin8711

    10 ай бұрын

    Amen

  • @mubashiraswaray4618

    @mubashiraswaray4618

    10 ай бұрын

    Aameen

  • @AdnanKhan-xq4kh

    @AdnanKhan-xq4kh

    8 ай бұрын

    Ameen

  • @shafeenazratnani3387
    @shafeenazratnani3387 Жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah may Allah reward you for your insights, yr knowledge and the clear and simple way that you explain everything so beautifully

  • @ashahotchere5218
    @ashahotchere52187 ай бұрын

    Mashaa Allah thanks for sharing this powerful message May Allah reward you

  • @mtnayam
    @mtnayam Жыл бұрын

    MashaAllah Jazakallahu Khairan this really helped me a lot thankyou

  • @naeangold
    @naeangold7 ай бұрын

    Remember folks... Love is perspectical. Time passes, things happened and then your love interest will change. Love isnt the necessary thing in marriage. Marriage is a contract to live together and making a family. Love can be grown later. And dont ever worry, youll have plenty of times to grow that love bud. Marriage will bound you for the rest of your life, longer than any relationship in your past. All you have to do is just keep it growing and create more bonds with your partner and tadaah, its love

  • @muhmuhsini005
    @muhmuhsini005 Жыл бұрын

    What a wonderful message from Shaikh Omar Sulaiman. May Allah bless you. You are doing a great job for the Ummah.

  • @MuhammadTariq-ke4zu
    @MuhammadTariq-ke4zu Жыл бұрын

    Maa'sha'Allah 🌹 Allah bless u & ur abode as well all couples Ameen 🤲

  • @moussadiakhate9022
    @moussadiakhate9022 Жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah Allah is the wisest I just reflected why Allah would want us not to flirt and get emotional before marriage because it will lead to not see any flaws of your partner and end up surprised at the d which is the leading cause of a lot of divorces nowadays mas sha Allah

  • @fildzah2602
    @fildzah2602 Жыл бұрын

    This video came in perfect timing where I am just tasked to write my marriage CV. Masha Allah 😀✨

  • @hadiali4619

    @hadiali4619

    Жыл бұрын

    Best of luck 😅

  • @shariqusoof5649

    @shariqusoof5649

    Жыл бұрын

    Marriage CV? I’ve never heard of this how does it work? Where do you post it?

  • @statetechguru4804

    @statetechguru4804

    Жыл бұрын

    @@shariqusoof5649 it's common to prepare Marriage CV/biodata in Pak/Indian/Bangla Muslims.... you send it to the other party directly or indirectly... or you post on marriage related whatsapp/Facebook groups....

  • @Emsyaz

    @Emsyaz

    11 ай бұрын

    ​@@statetechguru4804 yikes, I'd feel uncomfortable doing that. Its making marriage too formal and transactional

  • @statetechguru4804

    @statetechguru4804

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Emsyaz I think its the best thing.... when you talk and ask the Girl or a Guy stuff like what does your dad do ? or whats girl's height, age, qualifications, job ? family background ? most often they lie or give vague responses.... they try to cat fish if you dont make it formal... it has to be formal, it has to be written, factual information you would be accountable for so people will write the truth... I think you are in a LaLa Land, you would end marrying a person who is only pretty on the outside (sometimes even that is not the case with all the makeup, they would deceive you in broad day light)...

  • @jelloq
    @jelloq Жыл бұрын

    The way talks about his wife is so beautiful MashaAllah

  • @mustafahalitbulbul1262
    @mustafahalitbulbul1262 Жыл бұрын

    It is very nice to see Imam Omar Suleiman :)

  • @cafeanthropos1416
    @cafeanthropos1416 Жыл бұрын

    Fabulous..i am widow and i must want to share my experience about searching for life partner for 2nd time. I am 100 percnt agreed with whatever Omar Suleiman said.... really people are so rough and nonsense while talking on phonecalls even i cant share what kind of conversations they do as they are hunting for proposals....i yet pray to ALMIGHTY to guide and help me finding the right spouse.. requesting dua whoever is here..

  • @Emsyaz

    @Emsyaz

    11 ай бұрын

    What do you mean people are rough on phonecalls?

  • @sushiew

    @sushiew

    10 ай бұрын

    May Allah he grant you a pious husband

  • @aichaaicgq4650
    @aichaaicgq4650 Жыл бұрын

    May Allah grant you all good spouses, including my own children. And may Allah make you blessing for each other in this world and hereafter. Ameen

  • @samia6888

    @samia6888

    5 ай бұрын

    Ameen.

  • @bellokhaeerat
    @bellokhaeerat Жыл бұрын

    This was very insightful. Thanks so much for sharing.

  • @pokerpoker4865
    @pokerpoker4865 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for subtitles! Keep going!

  • @TheGoalkeeper7
    @TheGoalkeeper76 ай бұрын

    I am amazed by the way he explained this topic and all the praiser to his wife, MasAllah!

  • @highlyfocusedmostefficient4942
    @highlyfocusedmostefficient4942 Жыл бұрын

    2:30 flirting or going romantic before marriage is risky like you want that only and perfect blindly

  • @muhammadumarsotvoldiev8768
    @muhammadumarsotvoldiev87686 ай бұрын

    Thank you for your work! May Allah be pleased with you!

  • @DaleEfti
    @DaleEfti Жыл бұрын

    One of my favorite scholars 😊

  • @khalifamusa1481
    @khalifamusa1481 Жыл бұрын

    Masha ALLAH Alhamdulillah. May Allah SWT bless your marriage

  • @souidisaiouad9469
    @souidisaiouad9469 Жыл бұрын

    God bless you and all the mindful people of the right path of Islam

  • @oktav1086
    @oktav10864 ай бұрын

    Dating is not a guarantee that you'll marry a good partner. I don't date with my husband, only talks by phone to get to know his personality in one month. But Alhamdulillah, he is the best husband ❤❤❤ Let verything is in Allah's hands, if you have a good partner and good intention to built relationship,may it last forever

  • @missttyy162

    @missttyy162

    2 күн бұрын

    You are so lucky Masha Allah. May Allah keep both of you blessed

  • @linguafranca7834
    @linguafranca7834 Жыл бұрын

    True. May Allah help us in these critical matters.

  • @User_not_found25
    @User_not_found259 ай бұрын

    Very beautifully explained video!❤

  • @RisageYT
    @RisageYT Жыл бұрын

    1:37 honestly this is amazing,I hope to be like this one day in sha allah

  • @alialibaba1985
    @alialibaba1985 Жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah That's a beautiful story May Ya Allah protect and guide your family entirely and us all, Ameen

  • @ia6410
    @ia6410 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you soo much for posting this video. We liked it.

  • @chernorsadukabia1585
    @chernorsadukabia158510 ай бұрын

    Alhamdulillah May Allah bless us with good spouse 🙌

  • @littlebreez7527
    @littlebreez7527 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. It helps me a lot ☺️

  • @esraaal-rashed3936
    @esraaal-rashed3936 Жыл бұрын

    The part of your judgement getting clouded is on point

  • @ilhamyemen7577
    @ilhamyemen75774 ай бұрын

    May Allah bless your wife sheikh Omar and your family and enter them into the highest rank of paradise. May you enter with them to paradise from whichever door you choose. I love you all for sake of Allah. May Allah protect and strengthen your marriage and make your home always full of love, laughter and peace 🤲🏽🌸 I pray for everyone watching this video the same as well. Continue to work on bettering your marriage and do justice by your family and may Allah bring ease, peace and much happiness to you all in your home 🤲🏽🌸 Say Amiiin.

  • @cutecupcake6870
    @cutecupcake6870 Жыл бұрын

    Ok a guys family is going to come to see me in few days And today this is in my recommendation SubahAllah

  • @tahorahabib9158
    @tahorahabib9158 Жыл бұрын

    ماشاءالله جزاکم الله خیرا و بارک الله فیکم🌹

  • @Homeostasis81
    @Homeostasis81 Жыл бұрын

    Beautifully explained. Such a realist approach MashAllah

  • @mohammedarasi
    @mohammedarasi2 ай бұрын

    Unbeleivably pleasant to hear from such wise people, Masha'a Allah!

  • @ayu6237
    @ayu6237 Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful explanation, hope i’ll have chance to knowing someone with this kind of way

  • @NikhatFatimaThisNThat
    @NikhatFatimaThisNThat Жыл бұрын

    I agree..Marriage is a risk.. But trust Allah and make the decision. In sha Allah He will make it easy. But do your homework before making the decision with complete trust in Allah.

  • @muskakhan3278

    @muskakhan3278

    Жыл бұрын

    AlhamdulliAllah i have complete trust in Allah but what is the homework i want to know

  • @mitskiyoursis

    @mitskiyoursis

    Жыл бұрын

    @@muskakhan3278education

  • @sundusjalal7145
    @sundusjalal7145 Жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah khair to the channel for bringing this topic up.....Allah has blessed Shaykh Omar Suleiman with such wisdom Ma shaa Allah. May Allah bless him more. Aameen. I Hope that everyone gets to see this before getting married and eventually benefit from these wise words. In shaa Allah.

  • @ahnafkhan5231
    @ahnafkhan5231 Жыл бұрын

    Such a wholesome video Mashallah!

  • @bpr_gooddoc
    @bpr_gooddocАй бұрын

    This is one of the most eye opening videos of all times, it sheds light on the thing that I feared the most, that without a romantic relationship, without being committed to a person without being married, is it even possible to find the right person to get married? I doubted this no dating rule in Islam, and now I know how Allah (swt) always sees the big picture, another proof that He knows the best and knows what we don’t . SubhanAllah. May we all get righteous spouses. Insha Allah

  • @stwxrgi8195
    @stwxrgi8195 Жыл бұрын

    I have applying this guildelines, but people find me weird. They keep questioning my behaviour, being sceptical, see me in a strange way whenever I avoid to hangout for movie, rejecting flirty words, etc. I do not care, I keep going with this guideline lol But 1 thing that used to make me think twice, it is when my closet friend even worried about me.

  • @niolab7

    @niolab7

    Жыл бұрын

    You are not weird. you can hangout during the day, movies, lunch, art galleries during the day and not at night. You don’t need to justify your beliefs but don’t be harsh with people too. For close friends those that don’t understand you, that’s their life and you have yours. Don’t be discouraged, you’ll get the right person just for you by the grace of God.

  • @stwxrgi8195

    @stwxrgi8195

    Жыл бұрын

    @@niolab7 hangout to a nice place with nonmehram during the day? I know it is normal in society, but Idk why my heart keep rejecting that. Especially when I know that one who ask me for going out is the one who have a 'special' intention..

  • @niolab7

    @niolab7

    Жыл бұрын

    @@stwxrgi8195 to be comfortable always go with a family member and socialize in group functions. Forgive me for prying into your personal life , but would you consider an arranged marriage? In the sense that, get someone’s details, research their family and make sure all their values align with yours and is also looking for a wife. After screening from parents, meet the person physically in a group setting. If you’re interested, keep speaking to them on the phone and set up occasional dates (in groups) until the wedding.

  • @dazaiosamu452

    @dazaiosamu452

    Жыл бұрын

    @@niolab7 simple answer no There is no such thing talking over the phone before marriage

  • @afifahfadiyah2356

    @afifahfadiyah2356

    Жыл бұрын

    You are not weird you are mindful, let them who doesn't have same mindset as you misunderstood you. They can understand when they want. May Allah guide us all ❤

  • @MuhammadTariq-ke4zu
    @MuhammadTariq-ke4zu Жыл бұрын

    Maa'sha'Allah 🌹 JzkAllah Khair 🌹

  • @md.zubaeralrashid
    @md.zubaeralrashid Жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah ✨. ALLAH bless your your family. Also ALLAH bless us to grant us righteous spouse so that we can get closer to ALLAH. ALHAMDULILLAH ✨. ing shaa ALLAH

  • @DrsundasMD
    @DrsundasMD5 ай бұрын

    MashaAllah tabarakallah that is very very beautiful n helpful conversation. Very important things to keep remember before starting a relationship.

  • @kookiesandcream2695
    @kookiesandcream2695 Жыл бұрын

    Few days ago I heard someone (non muslim ) saying that we should use our brain our heart when both considering marriage ,the dopamine and oxytocin effect will go but not your covictions and this goes along with the teachings of islam

  • @Emsyaz

    @Emsyaz

    11 ай бұрын

    Forget about the advice of the kiffar

  • @fizanaaz4295

    @fizanaaz4295

    11 ай бұрын

    @@Emsyaz 9

  • @Ana-xo7if
    @Ana-xo7if Жыл бұрын

    Such a beautiful advice❣️

  • @kiki8278
    @kiki8278 Жыл бұрын

    I dont find religious geeks knowledgeable since most of them become ignorant of actual facts but I respect this person he has his facts straight, this is how people should learn religions.

  • @kanizfatima1377

    @kanizfatima1377

    Жыл бұрын

    I totally get what ur saying ! Too many ignorant so called religious people ! We need people who speak from Quran and uses logic

  • @Emsyaz

    @Emsyaz

    11 ай бұрын

    Perhaps you're talking about followers of false religions. In Islam religiosity and sound reasoning goes hand in hand.

  • @emma5956070
    @emma5956070 Жыл бұрын

    It was so beautiful and gave me the motivation and revived my faith in Allah

  • @064_umaradabansari4

    @064_umaradabansari4

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @12i12iE
    @12i12iE Жыл бұрын

    This is what I searching for, thank you

  • @Md_sadiq_Md
    @Md_sadiq_Md5 ай бұрын

    May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤ Aameen summa Aameen ❤

  • @busyshah
    @busyshah Жыл бұрын

    My question is what do you achieve even after knowing the person during dating. Once you get married, you see a completely different version of them. True that marriage is a risk

  • @muskakhan3278

    @muskakhan3278

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly it is a risk so true

  • @nantegeshanulah7871
    @nantegeshanulah7871 Жыл бұрын

    Asalamualaikum wallahumatullahi wabarakat.Waiting patiently for a Muslim righteous man.may Allah bless all of us. Inshaa Allah

  • @flowergurl0575
    @flowergurl0575 Жыл бұрын

    Such great advice I hope a lot of signals hear this before getting married ❤ In Sha Allah 🤲🏼

  • @064_umaradabansari4

    @064_umaradabansari4

    Жыл бұрын

    *Singles

  • @Khalid-alawad
    @Khalid-alawad7 ай бұрын

    الحمد لله الحمد الله ( ماشاءلله تبارك الله ) الله يوفقك ويوفقك عائلتك

  • @modernmuslim2044
    @modernmuslim2044 Жыл бұрын

    Very straight to the point and clear 6/10

  • @user-ql6mr6do8t
    @user-ql6mr6do8tАй бұрын

    I am a 30-year-old single man who graduated from university Pray for me to marry a good wife

  • @sekoubarkedujabateh9698
    @sekoubarkedujabateh9698 Жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah I am a proud Muslim 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @latifamukhtar20
    @latifamukhtar20 Жыл бұрын

    Masha Allah Thank you Jazakallahu khair

  • @Juteooo
    @Juteooo6 ай бұрын

    Thank you brother Omar.. I admire you, you are wise and calm and humorous. I like listening to your good words. Allah give u success!”

  • @haticesahra
    @haticesahra10 ай бұрын

    It is the best to look for someone who have fear of Allah and have love for Allah. I hope we all can find that kind of people

  • @nabilachowdhury4309
    @nabilachowdhury4309 Жыл бұрын

    why does this guy and mufti menk look like they just landed from heaver in every aspect and then i look like roads with potholes and bad drainage system:'). masha allah tho for their knowledge and the aura that they have and may allah bless us with similar qualities.

  • @NaphysahMori
    @NaphysahMori Жыл бұрын

    May Allah bless your family 😢 immensely sheikh

  • @efendi_styawn
    @efendi_styawn5 ай бұрын

    Barokallohu fiikum from Indonesia 🇲🇨🇵🇸

  • @zainabzuhasarafdeen4873
    @zainabzuhasarafdeen4873 Жыл бұрын

    May Allah arrahman bless Omar Suleiman and his wife and his kids With all love and happiness Aameen aameen yarabbal aalameen

  • @goshbaby8531
    @goshbaby8531 Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful answer Mashallah

  • @dinarnurasyifa3782
    @dinarnurasyifa3782 Жыл бұрын

    what a great answer, thank you for create this video

  • @UmmeLamiaMumu
    @UmmeLamiaMumuАй бұрын

    amin insha"allah i am learned a important thinks jajakhaallah hu khairan

  • @afrinjahan-my2nv
    @afrinjahan-my2nv4 күн бұрын

    May Allah bless you and your family ❤

  • @khaoulasanchez2500
    @khaoulasanchez25003 ай бұрын

    Kheer insha allah 🙏🏻✨

  • @ruqyahforall
    @ruqyahforall Жыл бұрын

    May Allah the Almighty grant the Shaykh goodness in this Dunya and the Akhira Ameen

  • @garderob_bekobod
    @garderob_bekobod Жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for the video!

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