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Stop Living In Your Past! ᴴᴰ ┇ #Ego ┇ by Ustadh Hamza Tzortzis ┇ TDR Production ┇
Assalaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakaathuhu
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Speaker: Ustadh Hamza Tzortzis
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Stop Living In Your Past! ᴴᴰ - Ustadh Hamza Tzortzis ┇ TDR Production ┇
You live in a drama. We need to start living in reality. What do I mean by this? Our drama, brothers and sisters and friends, is our previous experiences, our limited perspectives, ideas, interactions with others and we take all of that and we super impose it on to reality, on to the present. We are always living in the past from that perspective because we are so attached, our egos become so attached to, 'but he did that before' and 'she's always been like that!' etc. etc... And you superimpose that onto reality. So as if we have three filing cabinets in life - the filing cabinet of the past, the filing cabinet of the present, and the filing cabinet of the future and we take the files from the past and we are always putting it into the future, so we are never living the present and our whole life and the rest of our life is just one big retake of our past. This is ridiculous! This drama and reality is not the same thing. And the reason we think it is the same thing is because of the ego. When we reflect upon the Quran, Sura Baqara, Chapter 2, verse 30, we can really derive this knowledge. Allah says to the angels. He announces that He is gonna send down a vicegerent on earth and the angels reply, 'are you gonna send someone down to create bloodshed, calamity while we sing Your praises?' What does Allah say, 'I know that which you do not know.' Ibn Kathir, the classical commentator, essentially says that, 'God has a totality of wisdom and knowledge, we have its particular.' God has the picture, we have the pixel. So, this should really teach us about our own lives! Are we gonna live in our own drama, our limited experiences? Just like what the angels said! 'Before Adam, before this man you are gonna send down this vicegerent on earth, there was bloodshed! So therefore, what are you going to do now, is going to be the same.' But Allah says, 'Don't think like this! Don't be like this! Don't be in a state of being that you are always living on your own ego.' Your own interpretation of the past! Your limited experiences of the past, super imposing on everybody else, on yourself, your family and the entire world! This is why you are living a circle! Your whole life is a one big circle. But Allah says, He knows that which we don't!
So if we truly rely on Allah and His wisdom and we understand that my previous experiences just like the angels, my previous understanding, my limited ideas, thoughts and perspectives are not reality and I can't super impose them on the present, or on the future all the time because they are not reality. I rely on God's wisdom and plan. Then it creates a new realm of possibility for us to do what we can to interact with others in a positive way and the past is just the past, meaningless! Absolutely meaningless from this perspective! So just by reflecting on one small verse in the Quran, it enables you to have a new realm of possibilities with other people. So divorce your drama from reality! It's meaningless! Be a black canvas and connect with people in ways that they should be connected with. Not via the lenses and prism of your limited experiences and perspectives.
I hope this helps.
Assalaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah

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  • @johnnyespalahento2431
    @johnnyespalahento243110 жыл бұрын

    I know it might sound silly, and there are people who are surviving tough times, but being a teenager is not easy, and you guys helped me alot.

  • @outofthebox3653

    @outofthebox3653

    5 жыл бұрын

    Are you Muslim

  • @hammidghafoor5967
    @hammidghafoor596710 жыл бұрын

    Yes its natural to be hurt by an upsetting past...but slowly it's good to learn from the past. After all its part of being human to be hurt. And ask Allah for help and we will find a no better helper and Allah is with the patient.

  • @ameenaattallah5396
    @ameenaattallah539610 жыл бұрын

    Stop living in the past! Stop living in pain!!!

  • @ahsantasleembutt1667
    @ahsantasleembutt16677 жыл бұрын

    Allah u Akbar!!! May Allah help me forget my past and help me actually live the life in the present and for the future. Ameen May Allah grant me and the ummah good in the dunya and grant me and the ummah good in the akhirah and protect me and the ummah from the fire ( jahanum). Ameen

  • @sunnyrose6601

    @sunnyrose6601

    7 жыл бұрын

    Ahsan ButtP Amiin Yaa Allah!

  • @juventusfansinceronaldolef5702

    @juventusfansinceronaldolef5702

    6 жыл бұрын

    Ahsan ButtP Aameen

  • @ultrapowerlevel

    @ultrapowerlevel

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @mfmf1278

    @mfmf1278

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @riasb
    @riasb7 жыл бұрын

    This is so relevant to anxiety and depression.May Allah bless you immensely for sharing the reminder above ^ oh may Allah forgive us all and grant us deeper understanding. ameen.

  • @lubnaafreen6040

    @lubnaafreen6040

    6 жыл бұрын

    Gawdessxo Aameen

  • @ultrapowerlevel

    @ultrapowerlevel

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ameen

  • @abdullahalmasum240

    @abdullahalmasum240

    5 жыл бұрын

    Same here. I always think about past how good I was in my past life. Its because of my anxiety.

  • @AH-ky7xb
    @AH-ky7xb10 жыл бұрын

    Salaam Alaikum, I agree with the speaker that we should try to forget our past and move on, but to say that it is meaningless would be insulting to those who have had bad pasts. He is basically saying to one that was abused, or harmed, or to whom injustice was caused that it was meaningless. A person can learn from his past and use what he has learned to better his future. But, for one to forcefully forget his bad past would simply make that person a non-human. It has to come willingly, the person has to learn to let go either by forgiving the wrong that was done to him, or simply not remembering it.

  • @iffatiqbal483

    @iffatiqbal483

    4 жыл бұрын

    I agree totally

  • @JoffreyB

    @JoffreyB

    4 жыл бұрын

    "but to say that it is meaningless would be insulting" you should listen carefully what he said. He said "absolutely meaningless FROM THAT PERSPECTIVE". From the perspective of interacting with people, from the perspective of moving on in life and looking only forward, not back. As-salamu alaykum

  • @shazmukh6894

    @shazmukh6894

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@JoffreyB Alhamdulillah

  • @alendyasin
    @alendyasin10 жыл бұрын

    OMG THIS IS THE BEST THING I'VE EVER HEARD IN MY LIFE!

  • @shagaffaridi1530
    @shagaffaridi15303 жыл бұрын

    اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ الْعَفْوَ وَالْعَافِيَةَ فِي الدُّنْيَا وَالآخِرَةِ Allahumma inni as’alukal-‘afwa wal-‘afiyah fid-dunya wal-akhirah " O Allah, I ask You for forgiveness and well-being in this world and in the Hereafter "

  • @sajtbutt
    @sajtbutt10 жыл бұрын

    Allah Hu Akbar

  • @clanaoaarmyofallah2557
    @clanaoaarmyofallah25575 жыл бұрын

    I need to let go of my past i had a few truamatic experiences as a teenager growing up that really effected me and i just been letting it hold me back and mess with my head. but ive been doing better i just think i need to speak to a therapist about it to help me truly move on from it.. May allah make it easy for me and everyon one else Ameen.

  • @yasinrahmati7750
    @yasinrahmati77505 жыл бұрын

    I have difficualties moving on from the past, from a very spescial divorce, where i didnt get any sort of closure or reasons, just a sielent treatment. Im left thinking and thinking ruining my life. I keep blaming myself, then the other part. Its so draining emotionally. I have alot of regrets, of what i should have done and what shouldnt. :(. Seems like this feeling and thinking never gonna end. Appriciate similliar experiences and tips for help. Make dua.

  • @qazzaq7059
    @qazzaq705910 жыл бұрын

    Allaah hu akbar so tru so real May Allaah grant us and accpet us and give us strenght courage to follow and let go of our ego. Allaah huma ameen

  • @sanaqadeer7183
    @sanaqadeer718310 жыл бұрын

    Thank you brother Hamza!

  • @itsmefmd3791
    @itsmefmd37913 жыл бұрын

    This comes in a right time alhamdulilah

  • @yasi352
    @yasi35210 жыл бұрын

    الماضي ذهب، والمؤمَّـل غيب، ولك الساعة التي أنت فيها

  • @haroonshoney
    @haroonshoney10 жыл бұрын

    Very well said

  • @muminascollection1192
    @muminascollection119210 жыл бұрын

    Mashaa_Allaah! Jazakallaahu_Khair!!

  • @khanshamairfan214
    @khanshamairfan2147 жыл бұрын

    jazakAllah o khair

  • @sabaahatali
    @sabaahatali10 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for the lovely post...

  • @zapy422
    @zapy4226 жыл бұрын

    Al hamdoulilah Jazzakhala khairan

  • @Usrabella808
    @Usrabella8088 жыл бұрын

    Needed this... Allah showed me this.

  • @sanazahid8255
    @sanazahid82558 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallah

  • @syedadarakshan1242
    @syedadarakshan12425 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah khayr.💚

  • @mohdzuslaini8595
    @mohdzuslaini85958 жыл бұрын

    Jazakallahhu khaiaran

  • @shehbazsyed1526
    @shehbazsyed152610 жыл бұрын

    Always live ur life as if u are a student..Always curious to learn new things...Always humble...And respect the life which Allah Subhana wa Taala has given u...Dont waste it..

  • @athousandtearzs
    @athousandtearzs8 жыл бұрын

    So helpful thank you❤️

  • @zibajafari9798
    @zibajafari979810 жыл бұрын

    Wooow, beautiful! #SubhanAllah ❤️

  • @nurhafizah4153
    @nurhafizah415310 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah, thankyou for helping me.

  • @sgerianda
    @sgerianda9 жыл бұрын

    oh, yes, it helps big time, thank you for these words :)

  • @triwidiatmoko8359
    @triwidiatmoko83594 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah, it just emerged in my recommendation when i needed it so badly

  • @syedmuzammil5636
    @syedmuzammil56367 жыл бұрын

    maa shaa Allah

  • @nagmanalvi468
    @nagmanalvi4688 жыл бұрын

    asalam Wallekum brother thank you very much this video had helped me to over come my sadness thank you so much

  • @sshsawdah
    @sshsawdah9 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah!!

  • @imranshaik9960
    @imranshaik99604 жыл бұрын

    Well said..... May Allah bless U

  • @idriseric2764
    @idriseric27648 жыл бұрын

    it surely helps n I pray that will start living present. Inshallah

  • @TheSyafiqahAkemi
    @TheSyafiqahAkemi10 жыл бұрын

    I really find a lot of benefit from watching this video (: thank you for this wonderful reminder and videos that u upload to KZread, Alhamdullilah a lot of us muslims has learned good things from this channel (: Assalamualaikum

  • @mytinyw0rld
    @mytinyw0rld7 жыл бұрын

    We should try to help and support each other with affection in tough times. May Allah have mercy upon all of us!!!

  • @GuitarPassion1995
    @GuitarPassion199510 жыл бұрын

    Jazzak Allah Khairan! I really benefited from this and hope the Ummah can benefit from this. May Allah increase your team with blessings for this.

  • @theabderrahim1982
    @theabderrahim198210 жыл бұрын

    Alhamdulillah for this advice, jazakallah khair brother hamza, ameen

  • @bim1537
    @bim153710 жыл бұрын

    Very wonderful hikmah from the interpretation, brother... jazakallah, jazakallahu khair..

  • @zk9695
    @zk96954 жыл бұрын

    wa alaykoum assalaam

  • @habibaisah7386
    @habibaisah738610 жыл бұрын

    Jazakhallahu khair This video reli means alot to me. Its nt dt easy, but Allah (swt) wil help us. Ameen

  • @philipmiller2412
    @philipmiller24129 жыл бұрын

    This is very powerful. I was explaing this exact situation with my wife

  • @TheDailyReminder
    @TheDailyReminder10 жыл бұрын

    Salam All! Click Here To Support The Dawah: www.gofundme.com/The-Daily-Reminder This Video is Created by & for The Daily Reminder If you Like what You See, then Help Us Help You & the Ummah at large by Supporting The Dawah. * This video is Creative Common's (Not Copyrighted) ** No Impermissible Music was used in the production of this video JazakALLAHu Khair, TDR Team.

  • @sunnyrose6601
    @sunnyrose66017 жыл бұрын

    Allahu Akbar!

  • @muslimah_peace1907
    @muslimah_peace19078 жыл бұрын

    it definately helps Jazka Allah

  • @sharjawee
    @sharjawee7 жыл бұрын

    Very profound words. May Allah give all the patience and the Iman to push forward through hardships. Always know that Allah has a plan for you brothers and sisters.

  • @anissofi4517
    @anissofi45176 жыл бұрын

    alhamdulillah it's does help.

  • @sidu
    @sidu10 жыл бұрын

    Brilliant Reminder, we Should certainly take heed from this lecture, and entrust our entire belief in Allah SWT, as he alone knows our true destiny . JazzakAllah brother HAMZA

  • @sunnyrose6601
    @sunnyrose66017 жыл бұрын

    Yaa Allah help us all.

  • @hajersuliamam347
    @hajersuliamam3474 жыл бұрын

    All my past Astergaffirullah and Alhamdulillah for all my presents,

  • @ishmba2348
    @ishmba23488 жыл бұрын

    great

  • @lillydaffodil
    @lillydaffodil10 жыл бұрын

    Such a good reminder. I knew that it's quite hard for me, but i will try my best because i do believe that nothing is easy unless Allah makes it easy on me.The difficulty is based on the level of Divine help. " Nothing is difficult if you seek it through your lord and nothing is easy if you seek it through yourself"

  • @toutenkarthony
    @toutenkarthony8 жыл бұрын

    I ask for your prayer that Allah may grant me the ability to establish this wise advice in my life. May Allah grant you the same, Amen.

  • @hsharker7
    @hsharker710 жыл бұрын

    deep

  • @shehbazsyed1526
    @shehbazsyed152610 жыл бұрын

    Subhanallah....I just love this video...Its a very strong and major part of any teenagers life...They always live in their ego..But my brothers,bcoz of ur ego u will always lose..plz open ur eyes and accept with Happiness whatever Allah subhana wa Taala gives u in ur life...

  • @masitaaswari9032
    @masitaaswari90327 жыл бұрын

    subhanallah.

  • @Mimi-nh6sr
    @Mimi-nh6sr9 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaikum wa rahmarullah and Barakallahu feekum

  • @AbdulWahab-ev2ct
    @AbdulWahab-ev2ct8 жыл бұрын

    ALLAH HU AKBAR !!!

  • @khalidbarukzai634

    @khalidbarukzai634

    8 жыл бұрын

    Brother please check my channel out i upload Islamic videos like Quran recitations, reminders, Nasheeds and more.

  • @MrKingHater
    @MrKingHater10 жыл бұрын

    Super Vortrag :)

  • @kesy4
    @kesy410 жыл бұрын

    Yes bcs past is just a past

  • @TheBinaryProject59
    @TheBinaryProject597 жыл бұрын

    It's not that I have bad memories. It's just that I have strong nostalgia for good memories and times of my childhood. I can't let go of good memories but they upset me it's weird...

  • @Blackwidowraya
    @Blackwidowraya9 жыл бұрын

  • @muslimah_peace1907
    @muslimah_peace19078 жыл бұрын

    amazing

  • @khalidbarukzai634

    @khalidbarukzai634

    8 жыл бұрын

    please check my channel out i upload Islamic videos like Quran recitations, reminders, Nasheeds and more.

  • @human6737

    @human6737

    7 жыл бұрын

    I will check out ur channel for i love the Islamic religion and i am Muslim and also u seem desperate so i will help out by looking at ur channel.

  • @luisalbani1204
    @luisalbani12047 жыл бұрын

    o Allah help me

  • @mr_kay6089
    @mr_kay60893 жыл бұрын

    ❤️

  • @hlmj5033
    @hlmj50339 жыл бұрын

    ja der er ingen tid at spilde allau akbar(((((((:::::::

  • @khaledkhan8894
    @khaledkhan889410 жыл бұрын

    great video. Does anybody know the name of the nasheed which starts at 3:00?

  • @msaint2326
    @msaint23269 жыл бұрын

    In reality, we grow up selfish, coveting, and friending..often selfishly. Our ego, ties us to that which we covet, our selves, friends, and families. As we grow, responsibility slowly loosens our selfishness in favor of respect for society such that finally our maturity is driven by our ego, that holds respect for our reality in check. Once you destroy your ego, you destroy your civility, your coveting, your civil stasis. Now at this time you might become a monk, give up cigarettes, hell maybe even sex, but also, you might kill your friends, because everything that ties you to reality is anchored to your ego, that Hamza just destroyed. Hamza has a very specific message and he thinks he is so smart. But we see what he is doing. And it is not going unnoticed. And do not divorce your Drama from your reality. it is what keeps you sane. lol

  • @limabean5675
    @limabean56758 жыл бұрын

    How do you get rid of emotional wounds from the past that always comes when your in the present?

  • @RashidSiddiqui

    @RashidSiddiqui

    8 жыл бұрын

    With forgiveness and compassion

  • @AlgerianFCB

    @AlgerianFCB

    8 жыл бұрын

    it happened to me a lot but just think in the good way ,and try to ignore those bad emotions and seek help from ALLAH

  • @hamzaawan3510

    @hamzaawan3510

    7 жыл бұрын

    Lima bean by remembering and loving someone Who is always worthy for it , Allah Almighty. Make Allah your best friend and put every matter bofore Him, He will help you as He has been helping you since u were clogged in womb.

  • @sunnyrose6601

    @sunnyrose6601

    7 жыл бұрын

    Hamza Awan Well said Mansha Allah Allahu Akbar!

  • @ultrapowerlevel

    @ultrapowerlevel

    5 жыл бұрын

    By relying on the fact that Allah allows everything in your life to happen due to solid reasons. So rely on Him. Theres a lot of Blessings in disguise but we dont understand. I lost a eeally really good job.. and i was sad back then but due to that my city changed and i found other opportunities that were more halal n i was more content with it. Just an example.

  • @mni6716
    @mni67167 жыл бұрын

    how do you forgive and forget trauma caused by others

  • @zahrayavari9164
    @zahrayavari916410 жыл бұрын

    What does the donation go towards?

  • @zainabahsan6353
    @zainabahsan635310 жыл бұрын

    Assalamu alaykum TDR, just wanter to suggest a small correction; in the last sentence the speaker says 'blank' canvas which seems to have been mistakenly transcribed as 'black canvas'. I hope you could make the correction bi 'ithnillah! JazakumAllahu khayran katheera for your endeavours wa feekum baarak. Warmest regards, Wassalam, a grateful sister :)

  • @bareen3276
    @bareen32767 жыл бұрын

    how can you. connect with people when they have hurt you in their past. they come beack into your present and might hurt u again.. Wen it goes same again you really think your past is your future. people who have been through this can relate to me. it's not easy to let of past then.

  • @RaimiIsAwesome
    @RaimiIsAwesome10 жыл бұрын

    0:23 Aiman Azlan is that you?

  • @harihdan92

    @harihdan92

    10 жыл бұрын

    yes he is.

  • @hamzamalik334
    @hamzamalik33410 жыл бұрын

    Why you need donation??

  • @anumkhankhan7186
    @anumkhankhan71867 жыл бұрын

    yes I'm also that type of person who thinks that I'll always get the worst in life May b I'm wrong I should leave it to Allah(swt) He has already written everything so who the hell am I to assume from my poor intelligence

  • @naimahkhanam

    @naimahkhanam

    6 жыл бұрын

    Anum Khan Khan you should always positive and hopeful because everything is a blessing even hardships, they remove your sins and teach you lessons and get you closer to Allah so try and change your perspective and see this life as a blessing and try be happy 😊

  • @bie5436
    @bie543610 жыл бұрын

    He said blank canvas, not black canvas =)

  • @helenbelen3084
    @helenbelen308410 жыл бұрын

    I'm a bit confused by this message. Isn't it a bit like saying leave your past and the lessons that came with it? Like, forget what you learnt and focus on now, start all over again?

  • @MrJoyride619

    @MrJoyride619

    10 жыл бұрын

    What ive derived from this Video Post is that : Dont let the negative things that happened in ur past make u suspect or fear when u find urself in a similar situation while taking on a new endeavor. Which is to say if u were working on an assignment and while doing so followed all the right steps yet met failure due to maybe an error committed by someone else who was also part of that assignment dont allow the let down by that person effect ur future dealings with newer people,but if u failed in ur assignment because u followed certain wrong steps without being aware that they were wrong and later came to realization what the right steps would have been u sure can carry that lesson for the future. Hope i made some sense.

  • @helenbelen3084

    @helenbelen3084

    10 жыл бұрын

    JazakAllah khair, thanks! That's defo helped me understand more.

  • @SuperLexie77

    @SuperLexie77

    10 жыл бұрын

    Take the lessons you learned from your past so you don't make the same mistakes again but at the same time live your life the way you know is best for you. For example, don't be suspicious of every single person just because one person betrayed you in the past. Take every individual and treat them individually with respect. If you happen to see the signs of disloyalty, then you can decide not to trust this person. I hope this also makes a bit sense to you.

  • @helenbelen3084

    @helenbelen3084

    10 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Alexis Lexie ! Definitely helped.

  • @shininstar101
    @shininstar10110 жыл бұрын

    I love these beneficial reminders! But why are there so many attractive men in all of them! Please only film them from the back. If this video was full of equally attractive women everyone would be making a fuss. Its not fair! Women have a hard time lowering their gaze too!!

  • @raju53
    @raju5310 жыл бұрын

    make sense

  • @zystraz
    @zystraz9 жыл бұрын

    Can somebody tell me who recited at 2:10?

  • @zystraz

    @zystraz

    9 жыл бұрын

    Nevermind, found it.

  • @Capital--K

    @Capital--K

    9 жыл бұрын

    Who was the Bruda reciting the quran on that one lecture?

  • @zystraz

    @zystraz

    9 жыл бұрын

    killa kam You can see it in the video, it says who recited it

  • @faridabanuaslambasha8295
    @faridabanuaslambasha82956 жыл бұрын

    I dislike the voice which comes at first saying "welcome to daily remainder" please remove in every videos

  • @PRIMAL_HUNTER1988
    @PRIMAL_HUNTER19886 жыл бұрын

    YES YES ALAHU AKBAR EXPLODE AN TAKE THEM WITH YOU ahhahahahaha

  • @rohailnasir2430
    @rohailnasir24308 ай бұрын

    Your intepretation of Surah Baqrah is False, the Angels didn't say that there was bloodshed before Adam. The angels said that Adam will cause bloodshed on Earth. Stop misguiding people for your views.

  • @khanshamairfan214
    @khanshamairfan2147 жыл бұрын

    jazakAllah o khair

  • @sabaahatali
    @sabaahatali10 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for the lovely post...

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