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@sciencecorner4690

5 жыл бұрын

Your videos are always a milestone to me ,gentleman! Keep moving. Your videos are always meaningful and always I find where I was wrong since now. Highly appreciated Antonio!

@afroqbnoyque3512

5 жыл бұрын

Real Men Real Style... Dos pulgares arriba broki!

Your son is extremely blessed to have a father like you.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

+Books 4 A Better Life :)

@isaacfullalove7146

4 жыл бұрын

Soo true

I am suffering from being too considerate, I do things and treat people well but then sometimes I realize that I don't get the same treatment, that's correct they really don't care.

@shelan7058

6 жыл бұрын

johnjay tan Yup same

@Sursion

6 жыл бұрын

Same here dude. I'm always bending over backwards to help out a friend in need, or going out of my way to make them feel better about themselves. And all people ever do is take advantage of that, and never reciprocate it. I've cut out a lot of people in my life recently because I realized they're just not good people...

@user-xr5sc7qf1x

6 жыл бұрын

damnn thats true

@LuciasJourney

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@Derplanwagen

5 жыл бұрын

Youre not suffering from being too considerate, but from being too dependent on how others treat you. Go for what you think is right in life, no matter if others do whats right or not. You doing the right thing in life should not be dependent on others, youre the captain

My secret is confidence. I know who I am, what I stand for and why I do the things that I do. No one has questioned my choices for quite a while now and I really like that.

@KisKano5

7 жыл бұрын

And how do I become a confident man like you are ? seriously I have a shitty job a shitty life overall .... I want a change, but dont know what kind of change.

@e39lwd

7 жыл бұрын

My journey started one year ago. I dressed like a kid, didn't understand style or grooming. I wasn't happy with my body either. I started working out and I threw away almost everything in my closet, I used a part of my savings to redo my wardrobe. I started educating myself mostly through Antonio and Alpha M. and it was showing quickly. If you can't do the radical wardrobe swap start small, build a classic wardrobe piece by piece then start experimenting to find your own style. I'm sorry there's no one tip to confidence and like Antonio and Alpha M. say "It's a journey, not a destination." I hope this helps you.

@ExecutionStyleInc

7 жыл бұрын

Tip: Figure out who you are, figure out if it's who you wannabe. If Not work towards that goal. Own up everything about you, your face, style. People can try and talk shit but if you straight up accept yourself their talking isn't gonna do shit.

@tgwoolshire

7 жыл бұрын

Mathieu Mclean you come across like a girl

@MAXIMUS.503

7 жыл бұрын

Turko MDF Do things that builds confidence believe in yourself know that you can do things just like any other person and YOU CAN throughout life you have to try to be brave

People that mind, don't matter and people that matter, don't mind

its true, because when you are confident in who you are others will gravitate. And if they don't, you are still YOU...

@mstwelvedeadlycyns

6 жыл бұрын

Will White good point

Define your own happiness.... !!!!!!!! There is nothing more important...

@marymcdaniel4243

5 жыл бұрын

Yea I dont really care what others think unless it's my job or family other than that I really dont care

IN A NUTSHELL: "You wouldn't care what people think about you if you realized how seldom they do." ...and: "Don't compare your insides to other people's outsides."

Yes exactly like we are not alone and more people then we realize are going through the same things in life.

I'm all about getting my life together so at this point in life, I really don't care what people think of me because I've done more than enough of that already...

@charlie-flower-child4949

5 жыл бұрын

Too true!

As someone said:" only God can judge me ". Thank you for this video

@abdulwaduudahmed2768

6 жыл бұрын

Ryan B 2pac

@raizim2753

6 жыл бұрын

Even he doesn’t judge you🙏🏾

@hbkjnhbjk1598

6 жыл бұрын

Ouss 94 that should scare you

@daudaslam7871

6 жыл бұрын

ExplodingGarbage then goodbye

@rainriso

5 жыл бұрын

Ouss 94 it's it's a song from fast and furious Only God can judge me now

Here in Atlanta where I live, I notice most ppl who have a luxury car and sitting at the red light have an intense, worried look on their face in which a person with a Camry or Civic doesn't have . Makes you wonder all the stress they have in order to financially support all that imagery of illusions of wealth.

I care too much of people think about me :(, I'm just 22

@LuciasJourney

5 жыл бұрын

Couldn’t relate more

@williswayne1876

5 жыл бұрын

Me too that always followed me my whole life.

@abayomimarshall6425

5 жыл бұрын

@@LuciasJourney how

@maryawa18

5 жыл бұрын

Me too,and I'm just 14

@williswayne1876

5 жыл бұрын

Mary Awa I wish I can be 14 again and tried the best I can. But you have time so try your best to not let anything get to you.

Thank you. So to stop thinking what others think, realize people really dont care about me so why should I care what they think and they too have there own issues.

I only have one social media- and I only use it to stay in touch with people- I don't even go and view their content, thats how I do it- and I don't even have time, I have so much on my plate.

@davidgreenee7895

5 жыл бұрын

Same. I think it’s a waste of time and pointless to watch people’s snapchat stories. Like I don’t care if you if you’re a eating a pb&j sandwich!!! LoL

Thank you very much for your advices! That video helped me a lot, and I'm actually the typical guy who thinks too much about what people think about me and I've always felt uncomfortable for this

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

As humans, we are conditioned to think this way but there are ways that you can get around constantly worrying about this.

Great video! Too many people are concerned about other feelings about them.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

+MxdAzn 9 Agreed. Especially people who compare themselves to other people.

Yes! Stop caring what others think and wear that BOW TIE!!!

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly! :D

Those who mind don't matter, those who matter don't mind.

You won't stop care about what other think of you until you stop care and think about other people The other thing you should take into consideration is that their opinion is not valid or above your own as other people are not that important or above you in noway

Well, since I am 18 right now, what makes me happy is that I graduated on time, I get to buy things online independently now, I can enlist in the military right now if I wanted to, I can live on my own, being able to save up for my dream bike to be my first bike (1968 Triumph Bonneville T120R), and being able to save up for my dream truck to be my first truck (1968 Ford F-100 Ranger Trim Crew Cab), as well as being able to get a job to save up for my dream truck and motorcycle.

I remember that someone posted that getting others talk about themselves is a psychological trick in to making them like talking with you. I have always done it mostly on accident because I am a curious person, but the fact that you mention it and so accurately describe what happens shows that you know what you are talking about. Subscribed~

@diogeneslantern18

7 жыл бұрын

This is a well utilised strategy. Both Dale Carnegie and Napoleon Hill go into detail about this.

"you're looking for someone 's else dream." One of the best videos so far. Thanks Antonio.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Anas.

Just want to thank you Antonio. Been in a pretty dark place the last few weeks, this video made me put some things into perspective. Much love!

True......what you say is soooo true. Be thankful be thankful be thankful of what you already have!!! Many people dont even have the old slippers you are wearing....

Amazing video, very inspirational.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching Kassin.

@autopilot7353

7 жыл бұрын

I'm just 13 but kind of helps I geuss

@Turboman-kx7cc

6 жыл бұрын

This video was retarded.

You're frickin spot on in this video, and it means so much more coming from the guy who creates confidence in his audience. I think realizing that nobody actually cares about you helps build confidence that you can actually project how you want to be remembered on people (maybe you could comment on that). Thanks so much. I watch your videos and take them to heart.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

People who matter to you care but what you shouldn't let people dictate how you should live your life.

I couldn't decide if I should text the girl I recently met and really liked! This video made me think "Why not? What could possibly happen?". So you're video already helped me! Thanks Antonio! Just in time!

@HerrMeier007

7 жыл бұрын

What should I tell? We've texted for the last few hours and will probably meet each other soon! Nothing special, but I'm glad this video gave me the balls to do it!

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly! It wouldn't hurt to try.

This has been the biggest problem in my life. Luckily I managed to fix it. It's so true that people are way busier with themselves. I learned that when I thought I completely embarrassed myself and I'd never recover, and then I found out that no-one even remembered. That moment changed my life. I haven't cared about the things other people think since. I'm here for myself, and if anyone wants to tag along with me that's awesome, but it's not the main goal.

Antonio you should have been a psychologist! You realize people are paying $180 an hour to their therapists to get advice like this?

@huemisstiburgund9414

7 жыл бұрын

It's not him that is talented. It's psychologists that are useless thieves.

@catalyst3713

7 жыл бұрын

* psychiatrist

@huemisstiburgund9414

7 жыл бұрын

Both, but psychologists aren't scientists at all.

@bupegasus

7 жыл бұрын

And what makes you say this? There is quite a good argument for psychology being a science. It sounds to me like it's your standards more so than any factual premise. P.S. I'm going to go ahead and stop you in advance from saying "they just tell us what we already know" because there's a lot of support for hindsight bias.

@HAL900032

7 жыл бұрын

shelleyinthecity I think its just going to the simplest logical answer...if theres a doubt, theres no doubt. always.

That last tip!I can not tell you how much i appreciate that last tip.

This is the type of motivational talk I've been needing. Thank you and this deserves a sub.

Great video. Always having to live based on other peoples expectations is no way to live. Have thing you like and make you happy. So many people fall on a trap of having to keep up with the joneses or even with their own peers. BTW I was in a wedding once where I didnt know anyone, I went stag and it was a nighmare. I felt so uncomfortable, no one talked to me ugh, thank god for the open bar and cigarettes LOL.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Find things to be grateful for.

I couldn’t thank you enough Antonio for your words of wisdom.

An admirable concept, the statement of which needs to be updated. Far, far too many people have taken it to mean that manners are unnecessary or that they don't need to be concerned with other people's feelings and sensibilities. If you love your twenty year old pick-up truck, screw what other's think. If you're considering showing up at your employer's black tie event aggressively under dressed, be damn well concerned about what others will think. Restatement: Don't worry about what other's think as long as you are doing nothing wrong.

I know that when my dark Eye Eco goggles are off, people do stare. My eyelids are stitched due to the problems my eyes had. They had ulcers and corneal abrasions. Due to the dryness, stitching the eyelids became the way to go, and I'm grateful for these stitches. Maybe I enjoy making a gawker feel uncomfortable, because it seems like typically, I'm not the one with the problem. It's the other guy. OK. So maybe I also do avoid being in photos without my goggles, but I have willingly recorded myself on KZread without goggles or sunglasses.

Wow man Fantastic video! I love how you pick up real topics and put it on video I mean that's just legit thinking that people don't have these days.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

I totally agree with you that gratitude create more and more to be grateful about.

We live in a very selfish world. So you definetly have a point about this. First thoughts that runs through peoples minds about you, will always be just preassumptions. Very good & proper channel you have with practical advice! i come by here now and then when i see you in the news feed, & know i will find good stuff that can build you up!

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

:)

Thank God for youtube. If you use it the right way, Thank you for this video man I’ve suffered for years about what people care.

Thank you so much! I will definately rewatch it later!

THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!! A MUST WATCH!!!!! THIS VIDEO WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR THE BETTER. LIFE IS SHORT AND EACH DAY IS A GIFT!!!! THANKS FOR SHARING AND I LEARNED SO MUCH!!!

One of the best videos i ever watched Antonio...u sure have wisdom...GOLDEN

thank you very much dude there are a lot of malicious neighbors I have that likes to talk behind my back and they're so passive aggressive that they talked just loud enough for me to hear and listening to you really helped me not give a damn of what their opinion are on me because they're not close enough for me to care so thank you a lot for this video

I'm 21 years old and I've been dealing with this problem for almost my entire life. It blocks my growth, limits my freedom, etc. Recently I've started going out of my bubble and give care less about other's opinion. It makes me feel great and free. and thanks for this video, I gain even more confidence.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Awesome! Keep it up.

i hate to point out Antonio . . . . but the Collar!!

@leukota

7 жыл бұрын

He doesn't give a damn what you think

@faridmahnad4985

7 жыл бұрын

LOL,yeah totally planned!!

@HAL900032

7 жыл бұрын

farid mahnad that collar need love

Great Content Thank You Rmrs Other ppl don't care about you. Let them talk. They only care about themselves. Stop compare. You ddunno what they went thro. Be grateful Define ur own happiness.

Thank you Antonio for a great video. It's good to have someone confirm these thoughts for us and talk about such an important subject.

Well said!!! Tell them what's up Antonio!! Haha I sent this to my brother that's been having a hard time with this issue. God bless you for helping others.

Thank you so much for the video!! It’s so simple yet so helpful! :D

Doesn't matter what people who don't even know you, think of you..... Only you know who you truly are.

Antonio, this is one of your better videos! I just wanted to say you have great perspective and it's awesome to know that there are people out there like you that speak truth.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Appreciate it - thanks!

This is great. Made my day. Thank you.

Great inspiration Antonio. Thanks-za-lot!

Amazing video Antonio! Really great advice, thanks man!

You put in clear words what I have been trying to explain to my friends for a while... simply another spectacular video, thank you!

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Super! Appreciate it.

This video really helped me a lot, cuz I'm the person who also worry about others think of me. Thank you so much Antonio. Your videos help improve and inspire others. Keep it up.

Love this video Antonio! As usual, spot on with actionable tips and examples.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Katrina!

Just followed this KZread channel. And what a great video. Great advice. I agree with everything what was said. Stop caring what others may think. And only care about yourself for once and of course the family.

thankyou Antonio, i give the same advice every day, life is for living fun and joy either in work or home...

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Super!

Fantastic video - each of the three points nailed it. thanks

awesome video! very inspiring. I'm trying to redefining myself and this is what I needed to here!

Excellent video. Thanks very much.

so true! that's what i think about. really good advice.

thats my biggest down fall careing what people think about me comparing myselfs to others this video as helped 👍👍

Wow. This is a very good message told in a very clear and concise way. Good job.

Definitely the most important video you've made Antonio, keep it up and thanks

define your own happiness is so important - people have this mainstream idea of hapiness with a college degree, 9-5 job, a spouse, kids, nice house and nice car, and when i tell someone i don’t want to have kids they think i’m crazy, and i haven’t told my parents yet that i’m not gonna finish school

Amazing video, really appreciate it. I struggle a lot with people's perception of me. This definitely helps!

very solid video, life is all about finding that balance - leaving good impressions & not act like an self-centered person but not overly concerned with other people's opinion

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

I completely agree! Being grateful and doing things that make you happy is important as well.

Thank u very much most needed video for me...I am reading this like my graduation...

I like how you give not only style tips but more importantly you give LIFE tips.

Thank you very much Antonio, for the video it was very helpful.

Oh my gosh!! Very inspirational!

Awesome video, thank you!!

Ty so much. Loved it

I like how you explain yourself. It's a great quality to have

A GREAT message, Antonio!

Thank you. God bless us all😊

Thank you antonio you reminded me some great messages.

I live my life doing what I need to do to be sucessful, how to accomplish my goals and be happy...my time and energy is very valuable and I use it on investing in myself...life is simple and beautiful...good video!😁

Excellent.. True and very thoughtful.

I think all of us knew all that. BUT we needed to hear the words. Thanks for your great work Antonio.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching :)

This is great Antonio, so many men need to hear this (including myself). Growing and finding your own happiness, powerful. Sharing :)

Damn That intro is Awesome

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

+Fatih Demirci Thanks Faith!

@OnlyHerculean

7 жыл бұрын

+G. Ceara That doesn't matter We both know what his intention was But still Thanks

Really excellent info Antonio. Every point you made were valid and were of substance. Since I have subscribed, to me, this has been your best. Very meaningful and purposeful, blessings!!

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

+patch Awesome! Thanks patch.

I'm a woman, but man, Antonio, gotta give it to you, you're amazing at what you do. Great father, great mentor.

Really thinking a lot about people's opinions of you drains your will power and motivation during the day due to the simply using mental power of worry and fault finding. Great video Antonio, I know that years from now u will be in your dream house not giving a damn about what the outside world thinks of u. Keep up the great work

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

Thank you Antonio; great video! Tom from Japan

Thanks so much Antonio

Superb message to every one out there, fantastic video

This video is a lot more than just looks and other peoples opinions. its learning some of the key values to a happy, not giving a crap life. Sadly, a lot of people struggle with these core values and still spread rumours or get into other peoples business.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Exercise gratitude and find things that make you happy.

Awesome video Antonio. It pertains to teenagers in a huge way. Thanks.

Solid advice again, Antonio. Thanks for videos like this that focus on the whole picture.

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Thank you, Antonio. I needed this! I was denied by a female today. It seemed like we had a lot of commonalities, but she didn't want anything to do with me. I'm not hurt by it. I know someone special is out there for me. I know my value. :)

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

That's the spirit!

Amazing video Antonio, thank you for making it.

Thank you so much!

Thanks man...this helps a lot to me....keep uploading tips...good luck...keep moving..

Really useful stuff to take in account. Thanks sir.

What I think about this video well...I think its really on point thanks wonderful suggestions!

@RealMenRealStyle

7 жыл бұрын

Thanks Frank!