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One of the things my dad always told me was "when you're embarrassed most of the time it's just in your head, most people don't even give a shit" I guess my dad had more wisdom that I thought.

@dontpraiseme

3 жыл бұрын

this is true. even watching a nervous wreck deliver a clumsy speech in front of class, ur still just sitting there thinking about your turn.

@VioFax

Жыл бұрын

Nobody gives a shit unless they need a distraction from their own embarassment.

"You care a lot less about what people think of you once you realize how little they do."

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! 👌

@kaustik185

Жыл бұрын

is that a mike skinner quote right there ? :D

I totally agree with the first point. Most ppl aren't thinking about you at all, their thinking about what you think about them.

It’s cool to see your transition from full game mode to helping people live better lives on a deeper level.

@fruitkid4759

5 жыл бұрын

Game is life

@theatavist5120

5 жыл бұрын

Because game is downstream from not giving a fuck.

@starvingmosquito8851

5 жыл бұрын

If you see this as a transition then you don't get it right

@panteraforever9411

4 жыл бұрын

DEEP

@silviuandreiiacoban3962

4 жыл бұрын

how can I learn game?

Great video ! 1. No body gives a fuck 2. Disapproval is speculation- who truly knows you but you 3. Caring about disapproval or approval is flawed. Once you get approval you fear losing it again . Dope - be aware of social feedback and act accordingly but don't let approval or disapproval determine your self worth

If there's someone who can really teach how to stop caring about other people then it's you haha gg

@gradius12

5 жыл бұрын

wp

@WWG1WGATRUMPISKING

5 жыл бұрын

Yup he's got that xfacor

@profess1219

3 жыл бұрын

Ya, i need a guy in a gucci hoodie to tell me about not needing outside approval

@Noir0rioN

2 жыл бұрын

@@profess1219 savage

@Kevin-kj5th

10 ай бұрын

@@profess1219😂

I need this right now, I seek outside validation sooo much, and honestly it doesn’t matter! I was a slave to approval but I’ve decided to stop caring!

@VioFax

Жыл бұрын

Ive left so many stupid chat rooms and social circles i used to would have put up with abuse from for years, just for a taste of approval. Its easier to just cut it off and find something else to do. Ive been more productive, and10 times happier just not being in an environment where I was seeking approval but afraid to even speak my mind. To hell with it I ACTUALLY was able to quit once I disconnected from the "network". I have better stuff to do now. I would rather be by myself than be surrounded by soul suckers and shit-lords. And ive been more comfortable finding other social situations that don't require me to sit in my computer all day and stroke peoples ego and pretend not to be bothered by blatant insults and social bullying.

This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZread channel 2 months ago about self development. Now I have 145 subs and almost 75 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

Thanks Julien! I was a SLAVE to the opinions of bosses, girlfriends, and just random people for YEARS! And I never got ahead.

@pantherman8719

Жыл бұрын

How are you now, bro?

Dude...so simple what you said., but you just solved my biggest problem and in less than 20 minutes. I could never thank you enough, for real.

Soo crazy I started telling myself people dont give a fuck about me so I would stop being paranoid! this was like months ago and now its just a little voice that brings confidence to walk down the street haha real talk! Anyways! Hope you guys can see this one day also!!

@GoogleAccount-po1gl

5 жыл бұрын

Yes! Also whispering out loud to yourself things like "why am I giving a fuck? Im not doing anything horrible, so who cares" helps me when I start getting self-conscious or nervous about mundane stuff.

@bdizz19

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly!! It’s awesome too see Julian talking about it now, it’s just showing me we’re all connected. It’s up to us to make the difference 👏👏👏🧐

@midoria772

3 жыл бұрын

But doesn t get to the cause

The second one resonates with me a lot. Paradigm shift right there, no one knows you not even you.

As a person who has lost 60 pounds over the course of the last several months it’s true that it does feel good to get more looks on the street or compliments from friends and family, but what Julien is saying is completely true and it’s something we all need to keep working on. Negative seeming comments and negative feelings can linger in your head but you need to fight through them and feel good about yourself. Work on yourself and take positive feedback but don’t let anyone stifle your journey and don’t waste time on what a friend or stranger said that might have hurt your feelings. It doesn’t really matter in the long run. Take advice but don’t worry about aligning up to anyone else’s goals for their life.

@jayjones9225

5 жыл бұрын

Haha yeah I was a fatty and nothing wrong with that

@zunicougar8829

5 жыл бұрын

Amen. I seesaw on my weight but I swore when I was stoned that I lost a few pounds in my head. That was after I added chlorella to my milkshake from the orange julius at the food court.

@VoidDweller86

2 жыл бұрын

@@jayjones9225 The magnitude enigma of self hatred can be a very deep thing, I am just speaking for myself.

@gojisandhu

Жыл бұрын

Congrats with the weight loss!

Great feedback on TMA this week congrats man. And great vid! -Tyler

@IPoopOnYouEveryLastOneOfYou

5 жыл бұрын

Great comment! -Tyler

@timotkrax

5 жыл бұрын

-Tyler😂😂😂

@IPoopOnYouEveryLastOneOfYou

5 жыл бұрын

Amazing tag. -Tyler

@IPoopOnYouEveryLastOneOfYou

5 жыл бұрын

-Tyler -Tyler

@shanesound2007

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao

heard this inhibition comes from thousands of years of living in small hunter gather groups when everyone knew everyone and this trait stays with us to this day that these complete strangers are within our circle and within the group you must behave.

Father J you are the best! Keep crushing it! You are a blessing to our times!

I'm profoundly in gratitude with you Julian 😭

@JulienHimself

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Glad this was so helpful! 🙏🙏

how i stopped caring - do and say the most absurd things until other people's opinions about you don't phase you anymore, BAM you become happier

@Nelson-lh2bk

Жыл бұрын

Is that why you hide behind the drawing of a girl?

The things we hate about other people tend to be the things our parents railed on us about. We internalize those things as negative even though they're just opinions. This means those people you hate are like you except they haven't been taught to hate that part of themselves. They hate completely different parts of themselves and judge other types of people.

bro the end part with the movement is awesome. a consciiusness raising and freeing group i loe what u did here i was so waiting for people to put out positive visions. love it keep going this way

Julien, you are such a gift to me, from me and....Jk. but everyone around me is grateful for your vids, talks, motivation, and guidance! Everything I've seen so far, really aligns and resonates with me!!! 😁👥🙋✨💞

LOL, his outfit encompasses so many genres. It's a smorgasbord of style. Hit em with it all Julien

The book, the subtle art of not giving a fuck has the concept of getting comfortable being uncomfortable... THIS concept seems to relate to this video! Awesome video Julien!

How much videos should people make about this topic for people to stop caring?

@kingsidorak

5 жыл бұрын

Father J cares. Pray to Father J.

@timtrocke

5 жыл бұрын

Here’s something new kzread.info/dash/bejne/eYugubOQkbfKhdo.html

Wow, very liberating. I felt free from tip #2

@JkComedy444

2 жыл бұрын

I know I just read it on the comment above all three things but the second thing really hit me like I only know myself nobody else does and me knowing myself matters to me many people most likely don’t know themself doesn’t matter to me though just matters what I know I am good and bad qualities just like everyone else that’s all

I’ve watched this so many times. I love this message.

@AlanNafarrete

5 жыл бұрын

KarolynAndrea turn up

@galacticfanatic1912

2 жыл бұрын

hmm nice view

@ricardotostes4638

9 ай бұрын

He is clener. Show man. Stand up COMEDY!

@ricardotostes4638

9 ай бұрын

You are full of IT!!! Julian!!!!

Julien is like the social god of our time

Everybody is a narcissist.

@CommandoMaster

5 жыл бұрын

People's judgements on you is just their perspective of themselves onto you.

@releasethefrogs

5 жыл бұрын

Narcissism is technically, if you want to get totally 100% truthful and exact, which definitely doesn't hurt, the LITERAL INABILITY to perceive anyone or anything as being important in your reality except oneself. Like there are people who actually don't have that ability. So not everyone is a narcissist. Just trained to be self-absorbed. Hope you take this comment in the friendly way its intended.

@AndyPoons

5 жыл бұрын

@@releasethefrogs narcissism is on the rise and taking a strong effect on western people. Social media is partly to blame for sure. But it's also a sort of evolutionary adaptation to society. True full blown narcissists are suffering from trauma which then leads to them displacing it into others and making them feel their pain. All in all stay the fuck away from them, you cannot help them and LSD is a great way to have an ego death if you yourself feel you care too much or have an inflated ego and feel very self absorbed. Hope that helps

Thankyou so much . Thankyou soch much u r amazing . I was so depressed of my life . I thaught every thing wrong in my life is cause of me but no its not like that .

Wow the TMA clip is EPIC! And video is great as well of course

On a logical standpoint what you say makes sence. Nevertheless it's really hard for me to live out your points. I trying to become aware of them in my everyday life, but that's easier said than done. Thanks for the great video.

Can’t wait for the second month of TM academy. I don’t even do the challenges I just like the videos

Amazing content. I love that I don't matter. Always loved to be the fly on the wall; as long as i don't get swatted against the wall.

Bro from time to time I get into my head. This video is like a cup of cool water waking me up from a dream. My mind wants to play tricks on me. Thanks for clearing up my perspective.

Thank you Julien!

These fears men have will always stifle their true potential…. You picked a good niche to foster the introverts

keep up the good work!

Thank ya'll so much.

Thanks great content I'm enjoying another day As I do everyday It's all good

I'm pretty sure all you guys have been through an Iboga and/or Ayahuasca ceremony. You all look unlocked.

Haha I know Julien from being banned.. Amazing the content you make right, really impressed! You take all the self help advice out there (+ a lot of Jung) and really create it into something comprehensive. I salut you!

Great info - Thanks

You have the best intro.

This is gold. Thanx Julien.

People don't think about you because they are busy thinking about themself.

That Taxi cab James Bond bit was great!!

I am a former marine and i notice everyone. I was trained to do that, that’s what i need to learn to let go.

@supermannnnn

10 ай бұрын

No one cares u were a marine. :p

@supermannnnn

10 ай бұрын

Thanks for your service though

1:27 Actually they do when you're very attractive. I get stares up and down, looked at like a zoo animal, alot of smiles and people follow me, try to talk to me, sit next to me, invade my personal space. I wish noone cared though and i was invisible

This simple frame is surprisingly powerful and liberating. #TaxiCabDriver29

Don't focus on other people's opinions and instead focus on what makes you happy.

Vamoos Rafa!

Haha now heres a fancy way to think about it thanks for helping me solve this problem

some priceless pieces of advice there.. shame only few people will get to this

This is G O L D

9:05 profound

Yo man much respect for droppin that real shit!!!!

9:23 So I don't usually watch RSD videos anymore since you guys deleted virtually all the old vids but I have to say this is so spot on. Today I had a manager/friend at work call me a white knight for criticizing his angry reaction to a girl (employee) who wasn't performing her required duties. White knighting is for r/niceguys and incels but I recognized him calling me a white knight was coming from a place of insecurity because I knew that my manager knew she was into me, and I know that it makes him envious. It annoyed me so much because I knew this perception was flawed as I'm not into her, but I didn't know how to explain this realization until I watched this video.

Does meditation helps in this problem about caring what other people care? Meditatiom what i have heard it reprogram your brain defaulting your lizard brain fight or flight response what other people think what i am doing...

@JulienHimself

5 жыл бұрын

Oh yeah! Check out the meditation I personally do here in TM Academy: transformationmasteryacademy.com

@AndyPoons

5 жыл бұрын

Yes. Meditation can fix just about anything within yourself

@husseinfaiz3397

5 жыл бұрын

Its helps massively, but important you do it with the right mindset.

So good!!!!!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆✔️

@AlanNafarrete

5 жыл бұрын

Ms.FitVegan 🏀🏀🏀

Great content dude

So EPIC!!!!!

Put it on double the speed so that he can get to the point! ❤️

@davecirlclux

5 жыл бұрын

And miss Julian's cool speaking style? No way I watch this shit on slow mow

Now I will do that 5 pushups on street and report back!!

For tip 1 what if you have something that makes you visibly different? I'm blind and use a cane, and I get people watching me all the time. I know because people, on a regular basis, think it's within their rights to grab me without even speaking to me or shout directions to places I may or may not be going to. Guess just focus on the other 2 then?

@rohitdas1669

5 жыл бұрын

But probably 1 minute after that interaction they probably have forgotten about your existence

@bjaxstriker5245

5 жыл бұрын

Rohit Das Haha yeah or at least long term they would, this is true.

@greenli9551

5 жыл бұрын

@@bjaxstriker5245 they would forget you in max 8 hours

@Lavidadeyari

2 жыл бұрын

How could you typed this if you are blind ?

@bjaxstriker5245

2 жыл бұрын

@@Lavidadeyari Voiceover for iPhone. Under settings > accessibility. Or any screen reader on a computer. Edit: Also whatever the Voiceover equivalent is on Android; I don’t own one but plenty do.

Julien rocking that gucci hoodie! Hoping for a great vid

Thank you for the knowledge.

@eddiew2325

7 ай бұрын

Your welcome my friend I love u so much

Nice video short and sweet big time advice

The best way is to quit social media, cause when you don't use it, you naturally just forget about what other people are doing.... Start going on long walks by your self and wow

1. Believing that no one gives a shit about you is a hard mindset for certain people for example like you had mentioned if you’re a celebrity like Brad Pitt people are constantly on your ass and their living is based around what their fans think of them. So it is hard to just be yourself. And in certain culture like African culture is so much based on appearance. When I went there people would constantly make comments about how I dress and wouldn’t even accept me because of it sometimes

ty Guru Julien,have a good day mr! :D

Does anyone know the name of the song used in the intro? Amazing

Great vid dad

6:00 but not all people forget things. Especially not in GOT. After all *"The North remembers!!!"*

Read The Four Agreements

intro song ? sounds amazing

Sick beard bro, you're becoming Tyler :))

Okay, where is my german squad at? Haut mal richtig rein Leute, smash dat Button xD

@ivanbrunaz1871

5 жыл бұрын

Andi Matt Julien ist ne geile Sau!! Haha

@andimatt7232

5 жыл бұрын

so siehts aus :

@andimatt7232

5 жыл бұрын

hihi, yes :D

@juanma6898

5 жыл бұрын

Was geeeht

@RRRanTV

5 жыл бұрын

Father J Amen!

Thank you julien

That intro was gas

healing words

This is fucking fireeee Julien outstanding content

This is easy for him to say, he is wearing Gucci

@michaelrose1927

5 жыл бұрын

Learn how to NGAF about what ppl think while wearing $1000 brand shirt

@gabrielmedina6682

5 жыл бұрын

I thought the same thing too, don't give a f while wearing expensive clothes? Does not compute with me but oh well, I don't care about him too...

@HomemakerDaze

4 жыл бұрын

I'm someone who thinks wearing brands is lame. So wgaf if he's wearing gucci. Everyone has different opinions and thinks diff things are cool.

@PutYoRhymeOn

4 жыл бұрын

True. But for me, I would wear brand things because I know the quality is trustworthy (or at least I hope so) and it does look good. It generally feels good. I wouldn't go out of my way to flex them in front of people or anything but nor would I hide it. If anything, I'd be more conscious of people thinking "that guy's tryna flex, that's lame" so I'd just wear stuff like that for my own pleasure.

Best recommendation video ever! Cool ass style and youtuber

@panteraforever9411

4 жыл бұрын

Grey shadow DITTOED ! #STAYWOKE

Sounds like the beginning of a fight club

Sir you should surely write a book one day

Whats cool is if you do 5 pushups in the middle of the street, you are making other people become more interesting simply because they now have an interesting topic to talk about to somebody else...at least...for 5 seconds max haha

@henrique-3d

5 жыл бұрын

true hahah... such a shitty life ppl have right?

Finally some one without verbal dihorrea.

YOU ARE A FUCKING GENIUS, SIR. SOCIAL GENIUS!

Thanks 🙏

Nice tips brah

Liked the ad at the end of the video even more then the actual video 😂

Thanks Julien

Julien is a true scorpio!

holy shit that was amazing

I like that style

I have a social anxeity and i sweat a lot when i am in school and when i go out i really dont know how to stop that sweating which make me really depressed.If someone know what i should do pls let me know

@AlanNafarrete

5 жыл бұрын

Стефан Ћирковић put yourself out there. Recognize that if you went out there you are still alive. That’s it. No way out but though it

No one really gives a fuck abt someone else( it seems ppl only care when it interferes w their goals -conflict) From my experience: always remember your worth

this intro 100% intj like

Hey! I’m Simon!!

@OlinScharm95

5 жыл бұрын

Simon Luc(a) 🤣