Steven Pressfield: Overcoming Resistance & Why Talent Doesn’t Matter
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Want to stop self-sabotaging and start achieving? Steven Pressfield explains why overcoming resistance is the key to fulfilling your greatest creative potential.
Plus, you’ll hear about Steven’s own creative journey and battles with resistance, the difference between an amateur and a pro, how to get a project started when you’re totally overwhelmed, how to put on your customer hat, and more.
Steven Pressfield is the best-selling author of “The Legend of Bagger Vance,” “Gates of Fire,” “The Afghan Campaign,” and “The Lion’s Gate”; as well as the cult classics on creativity, “The War of Art,” “Turning Pro,” “Do the Work,” “Nobody Wants to Read Your Sh*t,” and “The Artist’s Journey.”
We at Team Forleo love Steven so much and could not be more honored to have him in the studio. This conversation is what every dreamer needs to do their life’s work, no matter how unconventional.
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Ready to overcome Resistance and get to freakin’ work? Use these quick links to catch the highlights: 9:14 - What Resistance actually is - and how to get past it. 14:43 - The difference between an amateur and a pro (hint: it’s in your head!). 22:28 - Want to write a book? Steven’s secret to writing EIGHT bestsellers. 29:02 - How to stop procrastinating and finally start your project. 32:13 - Why every creative needs to master this skill to succeed. 40:45 - The unglamorous part of the artist’s journey. What’s next? Watch this playlist to step up your writing game: kzread.info/head/PLAxUz0wM51b_ee5T4yLaQOFGYszhKzebr
@cynthiabrooks4377
2 жыл бұрын
This interview was inspiring and I wrote down, ‘overcoming resistance is more important than talent’ . That reminds me to just sit down and paint already!
@max337able
Жыл бұрын
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@jeffreytyler7166
7 ай бұрын
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“The ability to overcome self sabotage & doubt is way more important than Any talent.” - Big BIG facts Without consistency our talent means nothing
It is incredibly refreshing to hear about someone who didn't get published until their 50's, and is so humble and knowledgeable. What an inspiration!
When I was at university studying fine art I asked my tutor "whats the difference between an amateur and a professional artist". He said " an an amateur artist paints when he feels inspired, a professional like me has to paint whether he feels like it or not, the galleries are waiting". I would reccomend the War of Art to anyone, it's easy to read and understand, and it's the best book about beating procrastination I have ever read.
@philmehrart
3 жыл бұрын
Epic quote and as a fellow artist I thank you for that
@Shafeek258
Жыл бұрын
What advice did you got from this book to stop procrastination
Marie!!! I cannot tell you how SPOT ON this entire interview as for where I am in my life. Wow! So much juicy goodness in here. Thank you ❤️ I am on day 408 of a self-prescribed daily songwriting/live-streamed challenge, the end goal being 500 days straight. Back when I started (1/1/18), definitely marked the end of my Hero’s Journey and the beginning of me embracing my Songwriting Journey.
Marie dropping gems on us like nobody's business. There are no words to describe how valuable this is. Mr. Pressfield is nothing short of remarkable. Thank you for sharing this with us, Marie!
I love this interview with Steven Pressfield. His quote “Put your ass where your heart wants to be” can surely pull a chair out from under Resistance! Thank you Marie, love your constant reminders that we all go through similar struggles no matter where we’re at in our journey ❤️
@TeamForleo
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Newbie, Isn't Steven's quote great! It does makes you stop and pivot. We are so happy to hear you that you enjoy the reminders. Thank youf for being a part of our community friend. -Antoinette, Team Forleo
What a wonderful man. I could honestly listen to the two of you talk all day. I really appreciate the way you both shared so authentically. It made me feel a lot less isolated about the emotional rabbit-holes I sometimes head down. Thank you for this great episode.
@TeamForleo
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Catriona, Thank you for sharing your feedback with our community. We so loved hearing that you enjoyed the conversation! -Antoinette, Team Forleo
@amysbees6686
Жыл бұрын
You could literally have AS P ok n every week and we'd gain new insights from you both! Great show!
I read war of art so many times, even translated it in my native language for those who do not understand English. I feel like of they read this at a younger age, it will change their life. Thank you so much Sir Pressfield
@kayaeki
3 жыл бұрын
thank you for translating it to your language! Youve done such an amazing job, Im proud of you!
Overcoming resistance is far more important then talent! ❤ I needed to remember that. Thank you!
Thank you for bringing Steven again on your show, Marie, he's brilliant! The most important things I got out of this episode: 1. Must read all his books 2. The phases of the creative work 3. The grinding 4. The muse will eventually come if I keep working I kind of knew these things, but I got a huge validation (hint hint) in this episode. Thanks a lot, Llyane
I am writing my first romance-murder mystery and am 25,000 words in. He is right about the inner voices that will tell you even to throw the work out even. The two definitions of resistance he gave were very helpful--the resistance that helps creative process, and the one that doesn't. Also, my life has changed dramatically so I think I am in the pro stage but having to balance that with get it out there. I have two small books out there now, and have finished work on a writing with power sentence book that I am going to put up for sale. Thank you for a few ah-ah moments. I am starting the grind of getting the work out there. Thank you for your insights on the authors journey. During the first novelette for kids, I had a note above my desk that said "Sit bum in chair." lol
“Just sit down and get to it, the muse will come” love that
Simply learning that the "resistance" will always be there no matter who you are and what stage in life you're in is already empowering. ♡
Thank you for this recording, Marie, I listened to this interview with Mr Pressfield after listening to another interview with him (played yours with auto play). Yours included an invite to write a comment (the other did not). It truly felt like he was (and you were) speaking directly to me. I think I share something very similar in experience. It took him 30 years to get his break. I've been at what I've been doing for over 35 years (but still haven't gotten my break, but working on it),. Hearing that touched me and made my soul smile. I'm a writer/illustrator of my own graphic novels, with the intent to have them adapted into tv/film projects (almost a standard business model today). It's been a looooong road, but hopefully the law of averages will soon be on my side. Listening to this came at a very poignant time and feel I can identify with him in many ways. It was very, very encouraging. Thank you again, Marie Forleo. I've listened to your youtube videos many times. What you're doing is great. Cheers from Canada. Bob.
Aside from the genius wisdom shared in this episode, one thing I always appreciate is how Marie and her guest interact in such a respectful and curious way, really discussing ideas and sharing their experiences on both sides. it's so great to watch. this level of professionalism and passion combined. that's why I love this show.
YASSS to managing emotions, expectations, etc. Self-discipline is the real skill to develop. It was (is 😆) the hardest thing for me, but practicing and mastering it has been the key to my success in every area of life - business, marriage, health, all of it.
Steven Pressfield's "Turning Pro" interview with you was an eye-opening perspective for me. I chose to turn pro and not show up as lazy-ass Salma who does things when she feels like it, but as a professional who's invested in her brand and is accountable to her audience. Can't wait to dive into this episode!
I love how Marie illustrated how unglamorous the journey can be. People don’t get to see that side, but it’s a HUGE part of the process. Thanks Marie!
I 100% agree with his statement about writers' workshops! And with Marie's comments that you need a person you can trust who *knows* you.
I am in my head so much that, when it comes to planning out a new project, I overthink it to the point of inactivity. I will get so detailed that it overwhelms me and I end up paralyzed. The point that the entire outline of a novel fits onto a standard size piece of paper really hit me. Instead of trying to work out every tiny detail, taking more of a bird's-eye view of the project and "boiling it down to the essentials" allows me to see it at a size that I believe I can accomplish. Great insight!
@EzeICE
Жыл бұрын
Try Starting in the Middle. Lol 😆 🤣 😂 😹. Ok ok I know, bad joke.
Wow his reading part! Outstanding! The biggest insight as a late off the heros journey musician, is how to be a pro and that can mean different things at different phases. Right now it means piano and vocals EVERY DAY. Self discipline is my now PROductivity. Mastering my craft. Thank you Marie and Steve.
You guys always kick my butt! Love you two so so much 💕🌴
@keillanhadden798
5 жыл бұрын
Hey Liah!!
Marie, Marie! I'm not even 20 minutes in and I'm hearing so many nuggets of wisdom. Wow! This one will be on repeat!
I'm so glad the journey isn't cute.... Because those of us who haven't put ourselves out there yet but are in the way think it had to look perfect and powerful... Thank you for showing us it's always a journey no matter where you are
🙌🏼Excellent idea to trust your own self-validation, says Steven Pressfield! The quotes are invaluable, and thank you Marie & Steve, for sharing so much of your own struggles and disciplines to be the Pro that you are! 💖
It's lovely to watch on screen how Steven Pressfield appreciated about the whole space Marie have created over time ( by beating resistance) ☺️💚 Thanks for uploading this wonderful gift Marie.
At around the 14:40 mark, when Mr. P talks about how the villainy of Resistance gives meaning to the creator, it reminds me of that powerful line from Starship Troopers: "Something given has no value." And it's true! We must earn it, by the sweat of our brow, the blood of our wounds, and the screaming of our souls. Love watching these interviews. Mr. P changed my life with his writing. I thank God for him all the time.
You can do what you want if you just work. It's all up to you, just rearrange, commit, drive forward. Follow your crazy hearter's heart.
Can't wait to read his books and re-watch this episode. As a writer, I relate to all of this. I've taken so many pearls of wisdom from this so far 1. Trust yourself 2. Get some people you trust 3. Break through the Resistance by taking action 4. Leave the ego behind 5. Turning Pro means doing what others won't (consistency, action, learning) 6. Figure out what gift you have to give (as Marie says, we all have one) Thank you so much for sharing these gems with us. P.S. Love Fangirl Marie ;)
The biggest insight I'm taking away from this conversation is that the artists journey comes AFTER the hero's journey. I'm 24 & I don't feel like I've been through the hero's journey. That of course, could be resistance talking. I can put this into action right now by getting into contact with the friend who's journey inspires me most & asking him what I should do next
Steven is a super human. His works changed my life.
I am currently in “The Messy Middle” of my first novel and have read almost everything from Steve. Like he said at the end, Marie’s superb interview technique helped pull it out of him in ways I hadn’t understood before. This is the first time I have seen Marie in action and I was duly impressed. Thank you.
@marieforleo
5 жыл бұрын
We're so glad you enjoyed this episode, Brendon! Good luck on your novel. We're rooting for you! - Team Forleo
Thank you Marie for this video, this is the second one with Steven Pressfield that I've seen on your channel, the 1st one was years back, and I must say, people like me who are inspired by Seteven's books or the one's who will be inspired by his books in future are going to find goldmines in these video interviews you've done, you ask the best questions, I've watched almost all the videos of him on the internet but these are the ones which provide real value. Thank you for the amazing content you've been putting out for years!
You're so right! Small victories, especially when such minor goals feel so inaccessible, are valid and important. Take and celebrate baby steps in the direction of larger goals and be kind to ourselves. After all, breaking down and rejoicing in the accumulative small components which comprise larger goals can be a critical component toward achieving them
Hi Marie. I just listened to you in your interview with writer Steven Pressfield, which was delightful. As a visual artist and writer, I enjoyed the conversation " Overcoming Resistance and Why Talent Doesn't Mater". Steven and you reminded me about why it is so important to self-validation, gratification, my own journey, and the paths of resistance which are not always predictable. The message Steven spoke about "Are you a Pro? or an Amateur?" was profound. I still need to be patient and consider the resistance from the world around me. Interestingly, I find the issues in this conversation give me some appreciation for where I am now. I have only been writing memoirs for the past four years that speak about my personal journey. I will take the knowledge and understanding both you and Steven have brought forward in this interview and bring what I consider to be my gift. Now, as an international visual artist, I am taking my step forward while collaborating with another writer by establishing poetry with the paintings I've created. This has been a journey for both my friend and me. I have been inspired by You, and Steven, who is a wonderful writer, and a Pro.
@TeamForleo
Жыл бұрын
Hi Clyde! We're thrilled you enjoyed this episode :) While it may have been a long journey, we see how far you've come. That's a huge accomplishment! We're cheering you on while you take those next steps in collaborating on the poems for your paintings. Way to go! - Monauar, Team Forleo
What a gentle man... brilliant! I'm so thrilled to have watched this and i'm just ordering the War of Art!!!
@SaraAnderson
5 жыл бұрын
Me too! I loved all the nuggets of wisdom here.
The most significant insight I'm taking away from this conversation is that I am a pro of things I love to do the most. I care less about when the is an end. I keep working and showing up for what really matters in this lifetime. Following my heart instate of listening to my head all the time. I can write for 25 mins per day without a single day off; and without judgment. I don't care what I am going write, I. do it because I love it!
War Of Art is a great book to fight the resistance and start doing. Thank you Marie for interview. Awesome 👍
@dopplegangerdavid
5 жыл бұрын
If you were really fighting it then you probably wouldnt be here.
I seriously just found an app that would wake me up with this video as my alarm. I'm going to keep re-listening until this is in my DNA! Steven Pressfield and Marie are my absolute faves, thanks for this!
The biggest takeaway for me as a writer, is that even you and Mr Pressfield encounter resistance and the ‘grind’ yourselves. What you’ve both achieved despite it is inspiring in itself.
@TeamForleo
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Harry, Yes! We all struggle in life both professionally and personally but having persistence to push through the resistance we encounter brings so many gifts. Thank you for our sharing your insight with us, Harry. -Antoinette, Team Forleo
"Scheduling work time" and "showing up consistently" were the words I needed to hear. You guys are SO AFFIRMING and ENCOURAGING?! Thanks!
Steven Pressfield is full of gifts and beauty. My biggest insight is about talking to myself as a pro instead of an amateur. I am writing my first book and have been working on a novel. There are so many times I question if I'm good enough etc. This conversation really helped me understand how common this way of thinking is, and that we all have the power within ourselves to move through resistance. And I am going to begin by writing on a more regular basis starting with each morning. Rituals make our lives! X
I just love him. His strong, kind, light and warm. Thanks Marie X
@TeamForleo
7 ай бұрын
We do, too. Thank YOU for watching. So grateful you're here. xoxo
I have long admired Pressfield and love his work. Thank you for having him on the show! And Marie, thank you for what you do. For your insightful questions and comments, the "Demystifying" you do. I watch and listen, and find strain melting away from around my heart, and tension releasing from my mind; it gives me a sense of Oh, ok, it is work, but it is the right kind of work, and I'm not doing it wrong. I CAN move forward. And, I have to share, since watching your keynote I regularly repeat to myself, "Everything is figureoutable". It helps. Again, thank you. So much appreciation for you!
I love the flow they have together, they are both so respectful towards each other, it's beautiful!
Steven Pressfield is pure gold. If he wrote, you need to read it.
Thanks for having him on, Marie!! Steven is one of my favorites of all time!
Mine is having to know everything. Over studying and researching before I can get started, convincing myself i could have done it better but never arriving at that place of self approval. And the worse form is the roadblock the stop sign. A book I heard about from a guest on Oprah show called the war of art by Steven pressfield he explains that every time we try some new endeavour professionally or even a new diet or that new fitness regime etc we come against resistance. He said at the end of the day the only thing he asks himself isn’t did he do good enough, did he write enough or could he have done better. He said the only thing he asked himself is did he overcome resistance. This was fire for me. The war of art is a great read and a help for anyone experiencing this. Just my humble opinion but I loved it. He didn’t publish his first book until he was in his 50’s because of self doubt.
@TeamForleo
Жыл бұрын
War of Art is such a great book! Steven is great and every book he puts out gets better and better. Thanks so much for sharing your favorite of his with us :) We love the "Did I overcome resistance" question! - Monauar, Team Forleo
Watched this to remind me of Steven Pressfield's 'War of Art' and LOVED this conversation SOOOOOOO much. THANK YOU for helping me get my mojo back!
I love how you guys are kickin it casual in your jeans for this interview! And thank you Marie, I wasn’t familiar with Steven but I already love him. 💛
@jamilynn322
5 жыл бұрын
Steven's awesome - if you want his books, I highly recommend getting the Audible version of "Do the Work" - he reads it himself and it's amazing to listen to the emotion he puts into it.
I came late but I'm sure you just saved my life through this video, Marie, Steve. Bless you.
What a gem Steve is! Thank you for opening our eyes and hearts to this great man! Marie - you’re so good at interviewing and getting down to the point!
The war of art is without a doubt one of the best books ever written
The most important add-on to this amazing conversation: HAVE FUN. Enjoy the ride! Work is a continuum and if you love what you do, work is fun and challenging. It's up to you!
Thank you both for this! I've been struggling with resistance and having you both go back and forth and expose all of resistance's strategies is super helpful
This was like a big motivational hug - thank you Marie & Steven xxx
Aw man! What a gent and champ Steven is. Such a great interview. Excellent questions, and listening to Steve is such soul food. Man should have a podcast!
One of my favorites now ❤️ One of my favorite parts was when you guys talked about “never arriving” and that resistance would always be there - and to not take that as a sign to stop.
I am sure the muse is looking at me right now, proud that I have taken the time to watch this precious video, Marie. I feel free to be stupid, cause I am reeaaaally stupid and proud of it. I have a crazy passionate heart that can´t wait to recognize an opportunity to give my gift to all of you ( I mean all of you in the world). Love this state I am in, after this wonderful video. Thanks a lot
I'm so excited for this interview 🙌 Wow that was fantastic!!! I will be purchasing several of his books. As usual Marie you provided us with a great interview. Thank you 👍
I always seem to stumble on these videos at just the right time- thank you
What a humble person! Loved his book WAR OF ART and will read many more books written by him.❤️
What a gift from Marie today. I absolutely have to agree. Steven Pressfield is my favorite author, and the game changer, "The War of Art" is my favorite kick-ass book of all time. It is so wonderful to get to see the real man in person. Whole heartfelt "Thank You" to the both of you!
How can you not like Steven that's beyond me. Great show...
I don't know if you Marie are going to read this but: It's the First Time watching any of your videos and I found GOLD. This interview is what I was craving for without knowing it. Thanks and keep the GREAT work :)
Amazing. Discovered Pressfield through Seth and just loved this interview. In particular I thought the conversation around 35:00 was super important. Getting into your audience's point of view isn't just important; it's the whole thing. I train this skill, which psychologists call perspective-taking, to people in so many different fields, and I'm finding it especially hits home for healthcare professionals these days. "Patient experience" is getting a lot of attention. But really, it's all the same thing. Whether you're a marketer, a writer, or a nurse: treat people how they wish to be treated, and do that be bridging the gap between your perspective and theirs. As always, a huge fan, Marie.
Marie, you are a true inspiration. May God bless you with more and more success & happiness in life.
LOOOOOOVED LOVEEEED this interview, at last a no BS conversation about "doing what you love and never work a day in your life"
Had an hour of free time and wished I had a one hour movie to watch 🍿 and then... I remembered it’s Tuesday ♥️🥳
I love this episode! I literally stopped it and started writing down ideas about my project. They just came out. This episode not just inspires me but leads me to take action right away. So thank you Marie. This is awesome. And you introduce me Steven's work so definently I'm going to read his books. So much love as always for you and a huge thanks.
Marie this episode came at the exact time when I’m about to embark on a 90 day project that will catapult my business and I believe change my life. Thank you for all you do!
I got the war of art yesterday. I take forever to do anything. I've got tons of other books I jump back and forth from. I've never ran through a book faster than the war on art. I finished it this morning and i really liked it.
Marie, thank you for being one of my inspirations, on daily basis for the last three months.I knew Steven as a writer-when a book of his gets in my hands I just dive in- till the very last page. I met him as a mentor, share his WISDOM and just loved it. For me, that came to the right time,I struggle with changing my habits from the ''amateur'' stage to the ''pro'' one.I'ts nice to know that others faced the same challenges and overcame them.
Gosh Marie! Thank you for being you! The affirmation that you provide to those of us who do not fit the mold. You are appreciated.
Marie, you are one of the main people who inspire me every day to keep doing what I love, which is working for myself 😊❤️ thank you for inspiring my channel!
@Enrico_Fusai_Counselor
5 жыл бұрын
I just had a look at it and I can tell you're doing incredible! Keep going, stay focused, consistent and always bring good value to the table: you'll make it big! XO
@mouadibnjabal5360
5 жыл бұрын
Bella❤
I most value the honest snippets you both shared from your real lived experience. What the creative process really looks like. Grinding through and doing the work. It gives hope. There is so much focus on presenting a final perfect project, and not enough on what it takes to produce it. And if we truly want to motivate and guide people, we need to show them our struggles and failures too. Thanks for your fantastic show!
This information has literally helped so much. I was starting to think something was wrong with me for not being able to beat the stubborn “resistance”. It’s so good to know this challenge isn’t unique to just me.
Marie you are such an inspiration, I am so motivated to keep working on my KZread channel, my PhD and everything else!! Work hard, work smart 🙌
@sandrathompson7447
5 жыл бұрын
keep going, I love your channel
SO glad I get to be apart of you shining your light! Thank you for this, pressfield is also one of my favorite authors and his new book is being added to the library ASAP! There are so many gems, a re-watch is necessary.
WOW! Resistance,first time anyone has really spoken about,in this way! Thanks
Top 5 author that made a difference in my life - grateful for this interview!
His books have completely changed the way I approach my work. I am forever grateful. I still remember the first time I realized what resistance even was and it happened to be running my life at that point without me even realizing it. Thank you so much for introducing me to his books and sharing this amazing interview!
@TeamForleo
2 жыл бұрын
Hello Paola, Yay! We are so glad you enjoyed the conversation with Steven Pressfield! We are also so excited to hear that you have been following his work. So great learnings to learn! -Antoinette, Team Forleo
This man!!! The War of Art is a constant reference point for me when I write, full of my own notes and highlighted gems. I love his writing style and now I get to see what he's like as a person, and he's delightful. I love his no bullshit approach to creativity. I just adore this interview, thanks to both of you for doing it. As soon as it ended, I bought The Artist's Journey on Audible!
you said it Marie! I think that's Steven Pressfield's gift in a nutshell: he sets your soul at ease! 😌🙏💖
🙏🏻 I just read the “turning PRO” soooo deep 🙏🏻 Thank you for sharing your wisdom 🙏🏻
Thank you for that! Brilliant interview! Full of great tips. Steven is one of those brilliant, inspiring people who also possess the warmth of heart that triggers many positive emotions. Makes me want to hug him!
Thank you for bringing him on!! So grateful he is still at it!
This is such a great interview - Really happy I came across this. Pressfield is extremely relatable and you can tell he made himself great through sheer hustle and determination to the craft. He speaks through his experience of the vulnerability/pain/doubt during the creative process and he's genuine in regards to his advice instead of speaking vague platitudes that other experts preach.
Thank you both for taking the time to share such a wonderful massage.
Absolutely love your work Steven Pressfield!
Mama Marie, this is another winner! So many nuggets from both of you. Love Steven P and you draw out the best in guests because of your personal experience and warmth. THANK YOU!
Very very powerful interview with a humble and brilliant man. I get those voices 24/7. And, let’s face it often the voice is real. It says ‘what do you think you’re doing? Who do you think you are?’ Having some kind of work to pay bills is how I manage. But people like Gauguin or Bukowski just walked out. But they were geniuses and unstoppable
I don't even know what I liked the most!! SO many insights... reaffirming us that even if you do many times it doesn't get any easier... the resistance we all have... put your ass where your heart is... all of the above!!! Thank you, both for the awesome interview!!!
Such a beautiful and inspiring conversation!! Thank you Marie and Steven!!💕🙌🏼
Love that; the last half of one life is "The Artist Journey"! This resonates tremendously. Thankyou! #verygratefull
The idea of separating your life in two parts; one is the heroic journey where you finally figure out you are an artist, and the second part is the less heroic, less glamorous part where you just do the work. This perspective shift has been really helpful. Now let's get to work. Also, treating your artistic work like your day job, amazing advice!
Ever since I read The War of Art back in 2011 (while I was in acting school!) the one thing from the book I've always remembered is about "the Resistance." I need to read it again soon!
This was a remarkable interview, I BAWLED MY EYES OUT AT THE END!!! Thank you so much Marie and Steven 💕
This touched my heart so deeply!! I love you and this gentle soul of a human being. I love the honesty and the cutting the resistance that keeps us from moving forward. Thank you so much for all you share ❤❤❤