Chanel…As a woman, it’s disheartening to hear you say that the man needs to address the emotional needs of the woman to prevent her from dragging the kids into the situation. So we break up and I need to entertain your foolishness so you don’t emotionally abuse our children? That is a true sign that the man needs to be out of that situation. Vindictive narcissistic emotionally immature behavior hurts the child and the man can’t raise his child and partner too. The woman needs a therapist not a boyfriend or husband.

@VeeKayGreenerGrass

7 ай бұрын

I agree. The necessity of a therapist can be negotiated into the prenaup too in the event of a break-up for several months or a couple of years. We really don't think about what the end of a relationship does to the psyche.

@deemayoli

7 ай бұрын

YES!!!

@tanyaw1441

6 ай бұрын

This LADY SOUNDS CRAZY!!!

@tanyaw1441

6 ай бұрын

Is she in a relationship with kids?

@checkmeoutmusic2024

4 ай бұрын

I definitely agree with you because when we look at this entire situation, usually the man that has been done wrong by the woman still won't talk bad about the mother but we in a place where even if a woman is totally wrong, it's ok for her to involve the kids in her dis function just because she is a woman.. salute to you for speaking and communicating as a real woman..we need more sisters like you in our community..

I’m watching this from overseas . Stephen is such a great soul. God bless his wife ! When you find a good wife you find a good life !!!!!! Great to see an honest man !

@mzznewyork5406

Ай бұрын

Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏

Really love this interview . Such a blessing . Love the transparency

I remember that story on his first about to be marriage, its how I even know of Steven he was on ig live telling young guys getting married to be careful of who they get with, it was sad because on the live you can tell he wanted that women to be his wife but with her betrayal and her supporters like the pastor she wanted to marry them that didn’t believe in prenups had him walk away from that marriage, saddest love story you ever want to hear

This was an amazing show.. God continue to bless theses families.

OMG, so powerful. Thank you all for sharing. ❤❤❤

This was a great conversation. I enjoyed the dialogue so much the video was over in no time. That’s how you know the content is good.

This was a great podcast. More men and especially fathers need to see this. It will truly help a lot of people. To God be the glory 🙏

Self care is so important

Josh, you are a great soul and a great dad ! Always supporting you .

WOW At what he said I made mistakes and I’m not running away from it . Growth

Josh is absolutely correct, when it comes to the children.

@msmamamiaintx

2 ай бұрын

Absolutely! When she said I am a woman...I felt he was thinking what he said, don't take that out on the children! They deserve to live a normal life as much as possible unless its an unhealthy & unsafe situation.

Bravo!

My Birthday twin..love him..great interview

This interview touch my heart 💜 and it gave me perspective.

@mzznewyork5406

Ай бұрын

Never talk your kid's against their father , never

From the trial and error ❤❤❤❤ that’s brilliant

Something I don't understand about prenaups: Is it that the woman cannot negotiate for securing her own life? Do they enter these relationships thinking they have nothing to offer these wealthy men? Women need to know their power, get a lawyer to negotiate your side of the prenaup. That's the whole point of an agreement.

@jgamble482

7 ай бұрын

A woman can acquire an attorney to carve out set asides, requirements and stipulations that are in her favor. Whether the man wants to aquiesce is a different thing. Conversley, most men who REQUIRE a prenup do so to protect themselves and their interest ONLY. It's a contractual "My Way Or The Highway" for lots of men. So when a woman does come back with additions, modifications, requirements, set asides, and stipulations, they see it as the woman being gready. When in fact she's not, she's looking out for her best interest because what's not going to happen is her getting used, abused and tossed aside like a rag at his whim and not have to compensate her accordinly. Especially if he's approaching marriage from the stand point of his wife to be not working outside of the home. Checking his story against hers, there's gaps and things left out of his story making her look like the bad guy. She posted her side accompanied by reciepts detailing how things went down from her perspective. After the weighing the two, her side seems more close to the truth than his. According to her, her attorney contacted his 2 weeks before the wedding reiterating that she wasn't going to sign the prenup. So when the wedding day came, she was presented with another prenup. He pressured her to sign the prenup over and over again to the point that she finally agreed to sign it, but only after adding her stipulations and requirements. He was presented with the prenup with her stipulations handwritten in on his, including her signature, but he refused to sign it. She said that she wasn't about to just sign it without knowing what was it in so she added her stipulations because he wasn't about to live her and their children homeless and destitute like he has done in the past.

@VeeKayGreenerGrass

7 ай бұрын

@@jgamble482 now that makes sense. Thank you for clarifying. I appreciate your taking the time to type all that.

@jgamble482

7 ай бұрын

@@VeeKayGreenerGrass No Worries Sis!!!

Most men choose women based off looks (a trophy girlfriend/wife) not how they are as a whole so that’s why you end up with situation like these.

So often, it’s about what she can do for you…..

@windex-2887

7 ай бұрын

That's what I said smh! When he asked him about his wife character traits, he only mentioned what she did for him, nothing about her character.....

👋🏽 I Am Him ….We be there for so many others ,but who is gonna be there for us …😮‍💨🙌🏽🧐🤨😔

Y’all see accountability? LoL I do not, at all. He’s happy he made the mistakes bcuz it made him who he is today, even though it broke a lot of ppl - ok. He takes accountability BUT throws mud on his first kids mother and works down the line to the rest of em. There is much more to this interview that has me side eyeing dude

@joystokes2475

7 ай бұрын

Interesting Hurt people hurt people

@VeeKayGreenerGrass

7 ай бұрын

It's the default setting for being human. Accountability is the exception.

@Lynnleemattos

7 ай бұрын

Exactly

@AnthonyCWilkerson

7 ай бұрын

The purpose of the conversation is to help those in similar situations men and women. He is Taking accountability. He has to be able to speak his perspective. It's hard speaking about a negative situation without some of the negative coming out.

@misterdad

4 ай бұрын

Who hurt you lol

Great interview… but it still shows that the sisterhood will never eat their own… that said, brothers pls marry before they even considering having children.. the fact he still had one with the one who didn’t sign the prenup …. you reap what you sow

Parents have to learn that their job is to make the child's relationship with the other parent a strong relationship also. They not only hurt the other parent they hurt the child more.

@deemayoli

7 ай бұрын

Facts!!!!!

@kj7682

4 ай бұрын

No, they are responsible for not impeding on their relationship with the other parent. It’s the parents job to make the relationship with the child strong

Its sad that we keep acting like its more important for the woman to be coddle even over the children just because her feelings were hurt, even though we know we dont do the same things for the father that a woman has hurt and majority of the times the father wont even say anything about what the mother has done to him, even if its the truth, it will still be looked at as bashing..

The child always comes first! To be a great parent you put child’s needs above your own. The pain you feel from a break up or divorce should not affect the child’s relationship with their father or mother.

@jall8210

3 ай бұрын

If you don't take care of yourself you can't take care of nobody else...

Great to see this men fight for their kids. Some women are…… smh

“I have 7 kids by 5 different women”…. Lord, the red pill community would tear him apart if he were a woman w/ the same story- no matter the reason, or predisposition that lead to that outcome. Bottom line would be you’re used up and should be tossed away. No Grace, no redemption, no opportunity of growth. You’re FINISHED in this life- NEXT. But thank God for Grace, for a chance to become a better, more informed and wise person… for seeing the wrong and correcting to the best of one’s ability and giving God the wheel to do the rest. Unfortunately, I don’t see repentance of this guy. I see “yes I did that BUT…” and that’s the lack of accountability

@NativeRedbone77

7 ай бұрын

Yes ma'am, all of this ❤

@VeeKayGreenerGrass

7 ай бұрын

The detriment to themselves and the community that Poor sperm management causes, needs to be a lesson all boys learn. It can be a coming of age ceremony that the Black men in the community can create as a new tradition.

I wanted to give dude credit but all Im hearing is arrogance. Bc he pays some bills he thinks he doesn't have to own any of his behavior. U have 5 different baby mothers, 2 wives under ur belt...And strained relationships with some of ur kids. But nothing is ur fault?? Ur a good man, says you!

26:26 it shouldn’t matter.

Don’t ever say I’m about to start “BARKING” … that’s extremely R U D E

This man pouring out his soul and she sitting here talking about why he dont care about how women feel when they break up. She should've just been quiet

Shes blatantly avoiding holding these women accountable for their fucked up actions

She’s wrong 1000%, there’s never a justification for involving the children, not to any extant, for example, to tell a child, he don’t want us no more over and over again cause he don’t want you, hurts that child in the long run, you will rob a child relationships, opportunities, other people that could be fruitful in that child’s life and development, that’s the ultimate act of selfishness. You will change the trajectory of a child’s life in the name of payback. That’s shit evil not matter how she slices it!!!!!

Shoutout to you, Josh, for holding it together. Next, DROP THIS BROAD! How dare you use your co-host for his network of notable guests and invite them on just to justify parental alienation due to "hurt feelings". Do your work to get that hurt out of your heart so that it doesn't ooze out onto your guests... #bitterbm

Why have so many kids tho? Between these two men, I’m counting 14+ kids. This is ridiculous! You cannot properly father and parent this many kids across that many women. Now they want to be father of the year. This is kinda gross.

After I saw the race of his wife, I stopped watching!😂🤦🏽‍♀️🙄 🤷🏽‍♀️

@jgamble482

7 ай бұрын

He's gone on record stating that he would NEVER date a Black Woman or marry one because of what 3 of his 'Baby Momma's' put him through. No Accountability. But, he did keep his word about not being with another Black Woman for all that's worth.

@Lynnleemattos

7 ай бұрын

@@jgamble482 😂 he really said that?!😂 if he only knew it’s just what he attracts. Most black woman are wonderful. Shows what he really thinks bout his mom & sisters 🙄

@Wormanatti

4 ай бұрын

As a man who is married to a black woman 16 yrs, together 20 who has never dated or touched an other. Y'all act like this generation of black women are easy to deal with really. Many black women today want everything but offer little to nothing. Y'all be the same people who want a man to carry the financial load. But in the next breath bxtch & moan about making him a plate because it's view as subservient in this wack ass culture. Everything he describes about his wife is clear to us men, why he married her. If my wife unfortunately passed I wouldn't probably be with another black woman. I'm not finding another her in this time. In this day you have to find who aligns with your vision & purpose. Sometimes that's going to be outside your race. I would prefer we had more black healthy relationship & marriages. I'm pro black as they come you won't find many of brothers that can say they never dealt with women in any way outside of their own.

@michellejessey8654

2 ай бұрын

What race is she?

Chanel pretty much is saying the whole interview it’s always the man’s fault no matter what

Why is he buying his mom a house? Why don’t she have her own man?

@mzznewyork5406

Ай бұрын

If you was rich would you buy you mom a house 🏠 ? waiting ✋️ 🤔 QUESTION ANSWERED

This was an amazing show.. God continue to bless theses families.