I left everything behind in Louisiana and moved to Northern California. That was the best decision I've made because I finally escaped all the negativity that was around me. Yes I took a leap of faith and it worked out very well for me. I have a very good job and a nice place that's super comfy and cozy to come home to. My state of mind is at the best it has ever been. Yes it is scary to just up and leave everything behind but if you stay positive and focused you will be fine.

@LessonsUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Love it! Thanks for sharing your personal experience, I feel the exact same way right now, I don’t regret it at all, probably the best decision I’ve made this past year. Glad to hear it all worked well for you, sometimes you just gotta take that leap!

@gavin3598

3 жыл бұрын

Hi Chris, thanks for the post. Great to hear that you are doing well. Similar situation here; live in Louisiana and quit job after 14 years. Felt stuck and extremely unhappy. Quit last week and not even a plan. I have some financial leverage, but I just know that I need to get out of La. Had enough here. Single, no kids, not even a dog. Spending my time now seeing where I'd like to go, but it must happen soon. A bit scary, but I have to do this.

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

@@gavin3598 it’s scary but worth it, the more you fear the more you should do it, I truly believe putting yourself in a better environment and surrounding yourself with better people can only position yourself for good things to happen, good luck!

@gavin3598

3 жыл бұрын

@@LessonsUnlocked Thanks for that man! Much appreciated! Trying to stay positive and figure out my next step 🤙

@ron1183

2 жыл бұрын

@cool Chris thanks for sharing and Louisiana is going down.

This video is so inspiring to me because I have really outgrown my home town. There is no growth, no elevation and my life looks nothing how I imagine it should. I’m definitely ready to take that leap! Thanks for sharing your story 😊

@LessonsUnlocked

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching! I’m glad some viewers can connect with my story 😊 good luck!

Today I have a made a decision to leave all people, places and situations which do not serve me. I am in the process of a plan right now. I have made a decision to never speak to any of my family again. I am ready to do so. I am over all of them

@LessonsUnlocked

2 жыл бұрын

That’s how I felt too, I truly wish you all the best and I’m sure everything will come out great for you no matter the outcome, good luck!

Starting over again in my mid 30s. Moving to a new continent, where I have no family or friends and really very nervous. Life tips appreciated 😂

I am doing this soon……. Starting Over with very little and so scared but ready to go

@LessonsUnlocked

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck to you! I truly wish you the best, I have a favorite quote, “Everything you ever wanted is on the other side of fear”, though it’s scary but as long as you focus on yourself one day at a time and tackle life one day at a time, you’ll be ok 😊

@allthingssplendid7375

2 жыл бұрын

@@LessonsUnlocked thank you for the kind words. I am excited about this job. The scary part is if I move alone so hopefully my youngest is moving with me lol

@recklesslove602

5 ай бұрын

Hi would like to know a year on how is it going for you!

Thank you brother for your enlightening testimony. I too would love to move to Texas. I am starting over as a 50 year old separated man. I don’t know where to start. But your video gave me hope. Thank you.

@LessonsUnlocked

2 жыл бұрын

I’m glad it did my friend, thank you for watching and taking the time to leave a comment! Good luck to you, starting over isn’t easy but you’ll get through it, you got this far in life, it doesn’t stop here, keep going and keep pushing 😊

Im moving soon I hear its best to just take a bag of clothing wallet and start all over once in a new state plus it makes it less stressful to move not having to spend on movers packers etc

@LessonsUnlocked

2 жыл бұрын

I pretty much did exactly that, sold everything I had and kept the necessities that can fit in my car and just left. I wanted to be “move ready” at any point in time and stay mobile as I become familiar with the new city. Anything to reduce stress will help as making a life decision to move is already a stressful transition.

Thank you so much for sharing this video! I've been depressed as hell for years living in a 250 square foot apartment, however, I've been "comfortable" and haven't taken action. However, now, I've gotten rid of everything and I'm determined to hit the road, although, I have no idea where I'll go or what I'll but I know I HAVE TO do this or I'll always regret not taking action in my life...thank you again!

@LessonsUnlocked

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for leaving a comment, truly appreciate it! I wish you all the best my friend, life will get better when we start focusing on making positive changes for ourselves, take care and thank you for watching my video!

Thank you for sharing. Really need this. At that point in life where feels like just packing & leaving without any definitive plan.... scary..

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for leaving a comment! What helped me was constantly telling myself, “you survived this far in life, you’ll figure it out”, and entrusting yourself which is a good way to empower yourself and develop mental strength to overcome what we fear to do, also what’s the worse thing that can happen? We can simply go back to where we were...

I did this in December ‘23. From MD to FL. No regrets so far.

@LessonsUnlocked

3 ай бұрын

Awesome! That's great to hear!

@jeffroberts743

Ай бұрын

What part of Florida did you move to? I'm about to do the same thing!! Did you have a job before or did you find one after you moved?

Thanks for your video, I have moved many times in the US and abroad. I used to live in Texas and i loved it there. I was somewhat lonely too, and what really helped me was getting involved in the community... i joined the choir at a large church, and the people just made feel welcome. It was great. I hope you find a community that makes you feel like family.

Great to see some footage of your new place!

I am at the same place you were. I have been here before. I was in a job I hated and was harming my health. I finally threw my old life in the fire and started over. Now I am back into a new situation where I am once again not happy. And just like last time I am going to down size most of what I own so I can get back to my minimalist roots. I feel free when I don't have hardly any possessions. The more stuff I own the more trapped I feel. I am at the cross roads where I can't continue my life style because I am simply not happy with it. I appreciate your openness about your situation.

I feel like you're talking to me. Thank you for sharing. I would love to continue following your journey.

Came accross this video while looking for answers. I feel the same way and i want to move to another place away from where i am now but i’m undecided coz of my family who will be left behind especially my old parents. Wish i could do what you did and I hope you’re settling okay and happier now.

@LessonsUnlocked

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment! I’ve definitely improved my quality of life, there’s no doubt there. I completely understand your struggle, I went through the same thing with regards to my parents, fortunately I got them to move near me after they visited me and experienced the new life I’ve built, they’ve also improved their quality of life as a result, I know everyone’s situation is different and hope you find your answer. Just keep in mind, nothing is permanent, you can always go back to your old life, it’s always an option. Best of luck!

Thanks for sharing 🙂 I’m moving from North Carolina to Colorado in the same way and the same reasons. Also have worked remotely for the past several years. Cheers to courage and change 🥂

Thanks so much for sharing this I’ve felt the same way and ready to make a move. I too am feeling stuck and need a change. Glad I can’t across this video

@LessonsUnlocked

7 ай бұрын

You’re very welcome, I appreciate you watching my video 🙏🏻, good luck to you!

thank for the advice.

@LessonsUnlocked

2 жыл бұрын

I’m glad you found the video helpful! Thanks for watching! 🙏

This is excellent, good for you!! It sounds like it was a great choice for you. I’m making the same move in two months - lived my whole life in NJ and Central NY, moving down to Knoxville, TN and don’t know a single soul. Pumped about a new start 😊

@LessonsUnlocked

Жыл бұрын

Awesome! Excited for you! 😊 it was definitely a great choice for me, no regrets! Good luck to you!

I feel you in the core.

I’m in a similar situation as well. I’m currently living in bentonville Arkansas with my parents. The city of Walmart HQ. Not happy where I’m at, getting depressed and feeling nothing is progressing. Need to move on and not be stuck in a rut. I want to move to Texas ironically. The factor hinder me is my financial situation. Of course the pandemic makes things difficult as well. I hope I’m able to move to Texas eventually.

I love what you said about positioning yourself for luck. I am 22, just graduated college, broke in a "professional" job that does not pay as much as I would like, and want to go somewhere new.

@LessonsUnlocked

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment Haley, I truly hope things turn around for you and that good things will come your way, you’re just at the beginning of your career, I was dead broke when I graduated so there’s a lot of room for growth, take the opportunity to try new things or new places when you can, it’s the best time to explore at your age

I totally get it... I have worked remotely for almost 15 yrs... while most now are just experiencing it I have alway known what is like but that REMOTE work you don't realize how you almost become recluse ... I am moving I am actually leaving Houston,TX my house, what little friends I had, everything I have known for the past almost 20 years (when I moved to Houston) so now I am moving to Chicago... a different vibe yes winters but I am ready..funny I asked myself WTH are you leaving... I thought...I just need change. My home is almost paid off if I chose to come back I can but as for now I am OUT! Best wishes to you!

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for leaving comment and sharing your story, I really like Chicago, I spent many years working there despite my hate for cold winters but it really is a great midwest city, good luck to you! 😊

my change wasnt that big as in i didnt move to a new city but i did switch jobs and it did make a huge diference in my life. i'm much happier and i'm not stressed anymore. i love to learn new things and i just wasnt able anymore to do that at my old job. so now at my new job i can start learning again and have fun doing it. unlike most people i cant work from home because i work in a garden center so this career switch was a huge deal for me. but i'm very glad that i did it.

@LessonsUnlocked

Жыл бұрын

Love it! Thanks for sharing!

That’s what i am planning to do. I am paying off my debt and trying to get my degree as soon as possible. I just cant wait to leave NYC and move out west.

@mauricefuqua9375

4 жыл бұрын

Crazy im trying to move out east to NY

My name is Michael. You have a Good mind set. I always tell people if you aren't satisfied doing what your doubf or where your at, then why do you continue to do it. I did the same thing, I moved to Japan for 3 years and just recently got back. People believe that they're just stuck with what they're doing and they can't make a change but that's the hardest decision is deciding to change and then just doing it and it's so awesome that to see and hear your story. I also have a question about your FBA Journey as well and I would love for you to get back to me if possible and I also live in Texas so if you have any questions just let me know Lol

I lost everything and now I'm just trying to figure out how to start over

@abelduliep

Жыл бұрын

I’m in the same situation. May God help us

I'm starting a new life by myself soon in another city I've never been before. I'm saving for it now and only taking a few things with me in my suitcase

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

Life is a journey, all the best and good luck to you! 😊

@cakepudding3220

3 жыл бұрын

Lessons Unlocked Thank you x

@Luis_diaz309

3 жыл бұрын

Samee I’m about to leave everything behind🙏🏼

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

Taking the first step is always the hardest, good luck to you!

Oh My God, I just sold my home in Sonoma and moved to Tennessee. I hated the property taxes in California. I'm struggling because no friends or family here. Where to go from here? I did the same thing but I'm 67 and don't work. Miss that.

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

What helped me initially is to find volunteering opportunities, or look up local Facebook groups or community events depending on your neighborhood, basically any opportunities to throw yourself out there to meet people, those are a few options to start with but it can be difficult with the pandemic situation and how comfortable people are with meeting in person but before all this craziness these methods helped me get started, best of luck and thanks for taking the time to leave a comment!

Hey Tom - I’m contemplating a move too. Where did you live before?

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

I used to live in Ohio, as you can imagine, it’s a massive difference living in the south and being in a bigger city, but no state income tax was the icing on the cake 😊

Thanks for the video. I'm getting ready to move from WI to New Mexico, and to grow and evolve, and this video helped ease my anxiety of the discomforts that I know are coming. However, I know the long term gains of the move will far outweigh the short term discomforts.

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

I’m glad to hear my video helped ease some anxiety, I have no doubt the short term pain will just be a blip on the map once you fully transition, I’m sure you’ll look back and realize it’s not that bad as it did for me, good luck!

@ianwilliams6505

3 жыл бұрын

I’m moving to Wisconsin from Texas to escape my toxic household is wisconsin bad?

@rickblasing1237

3 жыл бұрын

@@ianwilliams6505 It's not bad. Every place has its pros and cons. I love it here but I've spent most of my life here and need a change. Good luck!

How's it going in Texas? I'm thinking about moving down myself.. how do you feel after all this time has passed?

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

No regrets! It was the best decision I've ever made, far more opportunities for me and my network expanded, made a lot of friends along the way too, a lot more sun light which helps my mood, I really can't complain, life is good for me 😊

So happy to have found this video. I know this is a long shot as this video is many years old but.....when you moved how did you get rid of all your stuff and what did you move with. I am moving again to a different state, and I don't want to move "stuff" again. What do people who move with nothing actually take with them? So brave of you to be able to just start fresh in a whole new place. How have things worked out and are you still in Dallas?

@LessonsUnlocked

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching my video! 🙏🏻 Great question, I basically narrowed down to only the essentials and I got rid of everything slowly. I made a pile of things that were a definite no, a pile for maybe, and a pile of essentials. From there I either donated, gave away or sold. It wasn’t easy as I accumulated quite a bit over 13 years at the time living in my house. I then look at my essentials and figure out what fits in my car and from there I lived a minimalistic lifestyle since to keep my life simple. I made myself “move ready” and stayed mobile while being in Dallas. But yes, I’m still here and I never regretted my decision, my quality of life is 100x better since the move 😊.

@user-hw9vf4pl9s

2 ай бұрын

@@LessonsUnlocked Thank you for replying...this is what I am trying to do as well its easy with the non-essentials but when I'm looking what I still "might" need or want it's a bit more complicated. Did you put anything in storage for later? I am so happy life is better in Texas for you!

@LessonsUnlocked

2 ай бұрын

Yes, temporarily I moved the questionable stuff into storage and once I found a place to settle I revisited to determine what I really need to do with it. I figure there’s no rush, life transitions don’t happen overnight or that often so why rush it ya know? That’s how I approached it at least. I even left stuff at a friends or family place instead of paying for storage.

@user-hw9vf4pl9s

2 ай бұрын

@@LessonsUnlocked I appreciate your reply thank you. Be blessed!

@LessonsUnlocked

2 ай бұрын

@@user-hw9vf4pl9s You’re welcome, good luck!

Can you make a video on how you made friends or meet/met people since its been a year?

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, I was thinking of doing an update video on the move, unfortunately I've been busy dealing with some injuries and been recovering but I'll do my best to make a video!

@LLastRose

3 жыл бұрын

@@LessonsUnlocked I am sorry to hear of your injuries! Sending you love and healing from Canada! May you Get well soon 💕

what part of texas? I'm here now, would be interested to meeting up and learning from you if possible.

@LessonsUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Considering the situation with the coronavirus, I'll be more open to meeting up virtually 😊 - stay healthy and be safe!

Where in TX did you move? I’m planning to move to Houston in the next year or so, would like your input on the pros & cons

@LessonsUnlocked

3 жыл бұрын

I’m in Dallas, it really depends on what you’re looking for as most of my industry work experience applies to the Dallas market as I’ve done work here in the past. I wanted to be where the opportunities are aligned to what I’m doing for my business as well as be in an environment that supports the type of lifestyle I’m looking for. My needs are different so it’s really hard to say without knowing what your priorities are, I would recommend making a list of what’s important to you first and then begin comparing locations. Good luck!

@SCSC-qz7rr

2 жыл бұрын

@Brennan Martini thank you so much for the great information!

..everything ..and everyone

What part of Texas? I’m moving to Austin tomorrow from New Jersey

@LessonsUnlocked

2 жыл бұрын

Dallas 😊 It’s going to be a night and day difference been Jersey and Austin lol good luck with the move!

Can some one share how an Asian like me at age 47, willing to take a leap of faith to start life afresh in USA, Texas. What jobs are available where there's a shortage now.

Fancy apartment

Texas is great although the property taxes are high. Lots of big cities and plenty of businesses. I have always said if you can't make it in Texas, you can't make it anywhere.

@LessonsUnlocked

Жыл бұрын

I totally agree! Having businesses all around helps create opportunities and is the environment I’m looking for, it’s definitely thriving here. I can deal with property taxes compared to other tax heavy states that are far worse 😊, thanks for leaving a comment!

When doing amazon fba did u end up losing money or breaking even?

@LessonsUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the comment! I was above break-even for awhile until the major hiccup with my supplier forced me to liquidate everything so I lost some margin there. It's not something you can ever predict...an unforeseen event like that made me realize how vulnerable you can be when you rely on one supplier, it was just bad luck for me as I was building sales velocity too...

Hi Tom, I’d really like to chat with you about Amazon FBA through Nine University. Is there a way to reach you directly?

@stozov2

4 жыл бұрын

Nine U is scam gtfo here

Next time allow it to be sooner (15yrs way too long) Sir. Nice Video.

@LessonsUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your comment, yes, I've learned a hard lesson, better late than never though!

@mauricefuqua9375

4 жыл бұрын

@@LessonsUnlocked yes it is as long as you move forward happy for you👍👍

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You sound like someone who worked in Public Accounting (i.e. The Big 4)...they will work you to the ground especially in Assurance and Consulting. Glad you made it out of your career and that your business is going...

@LessonsUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

AfriAsian yep, I used to work for the Big 4 but I was in their consulting practice in IT in Financial services, prior to the Big 4 I spent a decade working for a large IT global consulting company...looking back, the amount of personal sacrifices was not worth it...thanks for the comment!

@reliablemaid

4 жыл бұрын

@@LessonsUnlocked I used to work for the Big 4 too in Assurance (Atlanta). Left in 2016 and "work-life balance" has been amazing! Also just started Amazon FBA. Wishing you all the best😊.

@LessonsUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

AfriAsian Awesome! I feel the same, work life has never been better! Wish you the all the best too!

How did you get past your fear of change?

@LessonsUnlocked

2 жыл бұрын

Hi Eve, what helped me was having the right support system with specific friends and trusting in myself that I’ll figure things out once I made the leap (which I did), and reminding myself what’s the worse that can happen? I simply go back to where I was before. I also asked myself constantly will I regret not doing it and if the answer is yes, I’m committed to doing it. I don’t want to live with regrets anymore. So that helped me gain the confidence to just do it and figure it out along the way, after the initial leap it got easier. I got comfortable being uncomfortable and it led to a much happier life for me. Growth comes with pain so there’s no way around it, it was certainly not easy but totally worth it in my opinion as I’m so much happier now and do not regret it.