1) Make everyone feel important and that they matter 2) Be a team player 3) Create lieutenants: encouragement 4) Solicit and accept feedback 5) Empathy 6) Celebrate other people’s wins 7) Create belief 8) Don’t deny reality

@nicklopez8004

2 жыл бұрын

i watched this video cause i was curious how many of these i had, i had some of them, but others i definitely need to improve on, the problem is i need to figure out where

@matthewsigurdson1321

2 жыл бұрын

@@solomonasine I'm able to do all that with a relationship with Jesus Christ. He washed the feet of His disciples. He was the perfect leader and taught us to love our community and to do it together. So yes I believe their is that option to work as a team and have that mindset for the greater good .

@bubblerose292

2 жыл бұрын

@@matthewsigurdson1321 yup

@limo9402

2 жыл бұрын

I have all these traits

@ronnykazadi352

2 жыл бұрын

On some youtube channels they would call these traits signs of being beta male 😂

The fact that you can watch literal hours of content for free on incredibly beneficial life skills is kinda mind blowing, thank you for making content

@briansmith1760

10 ай бұрын

I keep trying to get my wife n daughter to watch. I keep telling the....the amount of life lessons in that show is incredible

@jess_n_atx

6 ай бұрын

With 6mil+ subs, Hes well compensated

@Omegatonboom

3 ай бұрын

When I was a kid I had to go to the library to get content. I had to go to a place to improve my knowledge.

@joshuaeickmeier916

3 ай бұрын

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

@frederick6618

3 ай бұрын

💯

*“You’ll watch an entire Netflix series even when the first episodes are slow just because someone told you that ‘it gets better’, but what if you looked at your goals like that and watched your life get better instead?”* Love from a small channel💙

@englishwithmiranda

2 жыл бұрын

Love it!

@tomothy527

2 жыл бұрын

That's deep

@hmutandadzi

2 жыл бұрын

Deep

@divitkumar77

2 жыл бұрын

Great perspective!

@mdh6977

2 жыл бұрын

yes!!! have not watched but you are spot on... 🍻

This should be a seminar for upper management EVERYWHERE

@NeziesStories

2 жыл бұрын

I’m thinking of working in HR and I’ll definitely be utilizing these techniques 😎👍

@Daria-Kurilko

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

@solomonasine

2 жыл бұрын

This is beside the point. Do you think that humanity can break from this ever-increasing singularity mindset, festered primarily by social media, to a place where we value relationships and care about community? Love from Home of Influence Channel

@ba8ygir1

2 жыл бұрын

@@solomonasine I do believe that we as human beings are capable. One of the most basic of principles that we were taught as children was that we should treat people the way we ourselves want to be treated.

@s-ternichols

2 жыл бұрын

It should...Perhaps I could become a public speaker and get paid 6 figures for each seminar...hmmmm....thanks. lol

"A leader must be humble but not passive; quiet but not silent." ~ Jocko Willink 💪🏻🚀

@aaroncummins7379

2 жыл бұрын

Check

@GrowthMindsetChannel

2 жыл бұрын

@@aaroncummins7379 😊

@TonyMoze

2 жыл бұрын

This ☝️

@s-ternichols

2 жыл бұрын

I love Jocko...great quote. Thanks.

@nicklopez8004

2 жыл бұрын

yea exactly, i see this for myself when thinking about my past experiences

Making everyone feel like they matter is one of the best qualities a leader can have! Not just a leader, but for anyone. It can really make a person´s day when you acknowledge them(Especially if theyre shy) and it´s one of the kindest gestures imo

@Superhero-Motivation

2 жыл бұрын

@Max M Thanks🤩

@emilioperez6435

2 жыл бұрын

Making everyone feel like they matter even if they don't just to cover your tracks to swindle the people that got something u want from them this could be one of the laws of power from Robert Greene's book.

@quinnyc123

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, you matter ;)

@Superhero-Motivation

2 жыл бұрын

@@quinnyc123 Thanks King! You as well :)

@Izanagioomikami

2 жыл бұрын

I never understood it. When I ask someone how they are, I'm actually interested by the answer. I don't get why people even ask this if they don't care.

"woaaah Why you screaming at us, Nate? We're right heeere" That moment made me laugh out loud with some tears on the side 😂 This show is perfect! You'll cry laughing and cry crying

@Markone99

2 жыл бұрын

@Ramani Durvasula no... I don't think I will

@muletamanbr

2 жыл бұрын

What is the name of this show?

@solomonasine

2 жыл бұрын

This is beside the point. Do you think that humanity can break from this ever-increasing singularity mindset, festered primarily by social media, to a place where we value relationships and care about community? Love from Home of Influence Channel

@Markone99

2 жыл бұрын

@@muletamanbr Ted Lasso One of the best shows I've ever seen, 10/10

@muletamanbr

2 жыл бұрын

@@Markone99 I will see

We need classes like this in high school. Having charisma is equally as important as learning art or maths.

@hkr667

2 жыл бұрын

You have parent for this. They are your teachers of life. Schools already have a job to do. Fixing what your parents lack ain't it.

@magicmonster6877

2 жыл бұрын

Some parents have no idea how to instill leadership skills to their kids. Look at the kids when your out and about.

@_chapternumberone_8782

2 жыл бұрын

@@hkr667 i don’t agree. A schools job is to educate children into their adulthood about important skills. math is indeed an important skill but so is leadership. Because some adults weren’t taught this, many of them have a hard time to teach their children or don’t even know how important this subjects are which are shown in this channel

@MrCTruck

7 ай бұрын

@@hkr667bingo

@Nunayabzns

6 ай бұрын

It will never matter how your high your school marks are, your college/uni degree, your career/job, or your pay, if nobody likes you;) “Status” means nothing if you have nobody to enjoy that type of success with, nor anyone to show it off to

I’d like to personally give an award to the people who commented “first” to commemorate their stupendous achievement If you’re interested, I do BREAKDOWNS of MARVEL and Star Wars (if you’re not interested, just ignore this and have a great day:)

@doublepiedavid8908

2 жыл бұрын

Haha first

@vinuzo9548

2 жыл бұрын

@@doublepiedavid8908 second

@TholozanGamingGoodTime

2 жыл бұрын

And their stupendous leadership

@benozzy003

2 жыл бұрын

Proud loser of the race 4th

@AlexsaurusRex

2 жыл бұрын

About time

That thing about "there is an attractive person but I'm not confident enough to talk to them" did in fact strike a nerve.

"This is a bo Schadenfreude zone" is my favorite line of the show, and it genuinely changed the way I approach the world. I have been actively trying not to delight in ANYONE'S misfortune since that line.

Id like to add the ability to take credit for your mistakes as a leader. When something goes wrong being verbal about your short comings and how you intend on doing better. Accidents go both ways, if someone messes up on a project or a move it's important to be able to recognize whether or not you might have had a hand in that because you hadnt prepared them enough.

Just wanted to say that the second i watched the show i knew charisma was gonna post a vid on him. SO CHARISMAIC

As a person that just had a promotion to leading a small team in something I'm extremely passionate about this video was honestly one of the best videos to help reinforce I'm doing what's right and I'm confident in my path

@ErwinJ7

Жыл бұрын

That’s great! I recently got into a supervisory position a little over a year ago. Using this video definitely helps in creating a positive environment. It’s maintaining the environment and dealing with peoples personalities that can be difficult. I run a small team of 7 guys. And you will be tested. Stay strong and don’t let them get the best of you.

So glad you covered Ted Lasso!! He’s super positive, but it’s grounded in great leadership techniques and communication skills!

really glad this channel made a video centered around this amazing show. i cannot stop recommending it to everyone i speak to.

I laughed so hard when he said "no Roy signed that one" 😂 😂 😂 😂

Valuable stuff. I see these as things that you can do but there's one thing you must have and that is courage. People need to know that you'll stand for what's right even if it means losing your job, they need to know you'll (figuratively if you're not in the army) die for them if needed. That you have their best interest at heart. You know this, you'll obey someone if they have authority over you, but you won't follow them unless you know he has your back.

This is the best leadership lecture I’ve heard. And I’ve been looking. Thank you.

I needed this video a good 3 months ago! Started a team lead position in my company and was very much overwhelmed by the many aspects of leadership. This video broke down so many of my trouble areas and helped me to identify and start working on them. Thanks Ben! You and Charley are an amazing inspiration for myself both on KZread and the Pod!

@williedesmond8201

2 жыл бұрын

It shows some people get high positions that they dont really deserve.

@markostertag1101

2 жыл бұрын

The best books I’ve found on leadership that truly gave me direction were by Jocko Willink. Extreme Ownership and the sequel. Fun to read and fantastic info. Best of luck!

@rustyhowe3907

Жыл бұрын

@@williedesmond8201 Everyone starts somewhere, as long as there is effort then there is success little by little. No effort = don't deserve it.

@williedesmond8201

Жыл бұрын

@@rustyhowe3907 well obviously effort of any kind will bring success ,sitting still gets you nowhere unless you know people in places that help you .

@rustyhowe3907

Жыл бұрын

@@williedesmond8201 In which case it's quite possible (and easily so) to lose that position when the life raft of contacts recede with time. Best to give 100% each time you do something, now *you* control you and can weather the outside forces that bring you luck or downfall.

I really can’t believe all this content is for FREE. These videos are so well thought out and in depth, I get caught in a rabbit hole and watch so many in one sitting every single time. 😭🤣

This has a lot of points from the great read "how to win friends and influence people". Was quite nice to see it in action via video, albeit a tad exaggerated for the show lol

@uwaheed2002

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed. I was thinking about Carnegie’s #1 principle. Make the other person feel important haha

@s-ternichols

2 жыл бұрын

Check out Covey's 7 Habits of an Effective Leader. Better yet, download free pdf of 7 Habits of a Leader and teach children how to become leaders starting as soon as possible. Teach it to adults. Free and great tool.

@LyfSukz

2 жыл бұрын

Cool, i actually have that book, but i still have to read it lol.

One of the best thing have done this year is subscribing to this channel!!! Thank you so much

This is great. And 90 percent of it is about removing ego. Such a big step in all facets of life.

I'm so happy you made a video about him!! Ever since I started watching the show, I've said, "Man, I want to be like that guy!" It's nice to see a breakdown

@DunkelheitVZ

2 жыл бұрын

This is the one TV show that wants me to be a better person and at the same time brightens my day, everytime I see it.

@wolfhawk1999

2 жыл бұрын

@@DunkelheitVZ 💯

imma pull a ted lasso here and thank you, sincerely, for all of these videos. They really do help, and I'm learning so much!!!!

This is awesome I appreciate it from all the example of leadership this is my favorite because of how simple honest and direct to the point. I'm learning so much. This makes me truly believe that I could be a great leader.

As of Monday I start a leadership role at my work. Its my first managerial role and morale is at an all time low! This video came at exactly right time 🙂

@rdln4313

2 жыл бұрын

Hey man ! How was your first week ? Did you manage to make morale a bit better ?

@JakeRayTM

Жыл бұрын

I am also interested in hearing about your experience Liam. How are things going?

Bold of you to assume we have 5 close friends

Excellent video. Thank you for articulating incredible leadership behavior, qualities and instructions in a clear and very enjoyable way. Great leadership starts with self leadership, which starts with self awareness. Asking yourself questions as you present them with deep reflection will change your life. It’s a very meaningful process.

Great video on one of my all-time favorite shows, I recommend it to everyone for the incredible lessons.

"Take the time to understand what motivates someone..." Incredible video - thanks for sharing!! 🔥

I'd love to see a video on Ted's positive attitude. Great info on leadership! Ted lasso is a charisma gold mine

@solomonasine

2 жыл бұрын

This is beside the point. Do you think that humanity can break from this ever-increasing singularity mindset, festered primarily by social media, to a place where we value relationships and care about community? Love from Home of Influence Channel

@JEby77

2 жыл бұрын

@@solomonasine I believe it can, but I think its difficult with our culture encouraging a worldview where care of one's self is placed above the care of others. Especially difficult in a society that tries to stifle out religion, which is one of the last areas where true community exists.

"Be curious, not judgemental" so perfectly summarizes many of the qualities that make Ted an exceptional leader. For example, when a member of the team is not doing well or is acting out he takes the time to understand why before passing judgement.

I need to watch Ted Lasso now🤩 Wow. I loved every minute of this valuable info.

Such helpful, true insight and information! Thank you!

I did a huge mistake at work not too long ago. We hired this beautiful girl, and even though I'd never try to make something happen, I gave her slightly more attention than the rest of my staff. It was unconscious, but people start making subtle hints that they thought I really liked her. Don't know if it was because of jealousy for attention, but I had to take a step back and really think about how little things matter, and it really changed my perspective and personal biased. I never discriminate, but personal bias is hard to overcome. Great video as always.

I love this! I’ve already shared it with my co-worker’s

Brilliant advice. Exactly what I promote and encourage.

I master all these traits. I’ve always preached about the us and not the me. We are all one. Be honest and empathic! ♥️

This video is so instructive and so helpful. Thanks a lot

Halfway through this video I had to turn it off, because I'm so interested that now I want to watch Ted Lasso without any spoilers. Thanks for the upload!

I really love your channel but it would be enormously helpful to see more videos on female examples as well! Charisma is a genderless trait and sometimes the things you teach can be applied to any gender but I think sometimes it can definitely play out differently depending on what gender you are performing. For example, the video on 'Ways To Create Attraction' using GOT example was largely catered towards males pursuing females. The video on 'How To Confidently Flirt With Anyone' again was analysing a male way of flirting and I think if it was on female flirting it would've been different. The reason why it's important to have videos on female examples is so we can visualise the trait playing out. Please don't forget a lot of females are socially awkward as well

@nukesakuji

2 жыл бұрын

There's been a lot more male focused analysis, so fair request tbh. Also, it would be a pretty nice video too since I know guys would love it more if women made the first move. We kinda don't know how when it's usually guys who do it first.

@taylordavidson3116

2 жыл бұрын

@@nukesakuji Yea good point! Guys could also definitely benefit from females learning how to flirt more effectively. Maybe would be cool to have a female expert on COC Team

@attorney_rosa

2 жыл бұрын

Actually, there are some videos of COC that covers women. My favourites are the emilia clarke and margaery tyrell ones. You should watch them

@origami83

2 жыл бұрын

Wow really contradicting yourself there. 'charisma is genderless' but still you want female examples. So it is gender specific then?

@first2summit

9 ай бұрын

@@origami83 It's about representation and not just seeing videos of men as leaders. It does a number of things like women watching such videos and identifying with the those persons and helps men in recognizing women as leaders too.

Great compilation of ideas, thank you! Mostly well-known stuff, but sometimes reframing ideas and giving great examples is what makes the difference.

@solomonasine

2 жыл бұрын

This is beside the point. Do you think that humanity can break from this ever-increasing singularity mindset, festered primarily by social media, to a place where we value relationships and care about community? Love from Home of Influence Channel

One of the channels best videos. Great job

Great strategy in this video. Using movie scenes with cool and attractive characters to engage us for motivation.

2:10 - 100% can confirm. Used to work with a guy who'd always ask how you are, and while you were answering, would cut you off to ask you for whatever he wanted, usually for you to do his job, or switch shifts. (also, he only worked Saturday, and Sunday which were half-days)

This video taught me so much about what my boss has been trying to do for awhile now for everyone

0:19 Actually Ted Lasso is tentatively based on Terry Smith’s ownership of Chester City in the early 2000’s. So technically not “pure fiction”.

Thank you for this critically important message.🏆

at work we do something similar as the blind spot feedback, we call it 360 degrees feedback, where we tell other colleagues in some kind of team building session what your "blind spots" , but also what we do like about the other..

Don't deny reality should be #1! This is a great list thanks

Amazing video thanks for the information

Oh wow, you have 5.8 million subscribers already? Congratulations!! I remember this site with only 500k. Love your content!

One of your best videos ever. Thank you.

you’ve helped me so much much love ❤️

This helped as always, thank ya, mate 🥂💝

I love this. I only came here because I've never seen Ted Lasso and wanted to understand what it was about but I've loved the analysis on what makes good leaders. One point though. Point 5 on leaders having empathy. I've worked with some real narcissistic, pathological, self-obsessed monsters (and I'm a corporate exec). Real empathy is hard to find amongst amongst would-be or current leaders

There's a great list in A Passion for Excellence that compares good leaders to bad leaders. I read it almost 40 years ago and it's still just as useful.

Great video and thanks for introducing Ted Lasso - great show! Apple TV should give you a cut.

One of the best videos i’ve seen! Fantastic!

Dude.. there are so many "NUGGETS" of wisdom in your post here.. I took a lot of notes.. I'm not a doctor but I did 'play one on TV'. Thanks my friend for posting this.. - DMAX motion sim

I'm 18 this year. Head boy at my school, captain of my cricket team & vice of football and I've been with this channel for almost 4 years from the very first video I found. I believe everyone needs Charisma on Command in their life. Regardless of how perfect you feel or believe you are. There's just something about it.

@t.m.g3357

2 жыл бұрын

Pathetic

My father was a senior USAF guy and has a lot of these characteristics.

Awesome video, great narration. Thank you

Thoughtful video and masterfully done.

Now I know what to watch next. Thanks!

You are the best !!! Thanks for this content

Ok. I just finished the Ted Lasso series. Let me tell you this. It has so many life lessons. Quotes. Statements. Character development. And it’s NOT PREDICTABLE. I promise you you swear it’s going one way and they pull an original game of thrones on you, not the last season (for many others they didn’t enjoy the last like 3 seasons). But back to my point. Ted Lasso. This character is everything I envision in a leader. I even copied the charisma Ted is so great at in an important briefing today. With the use of his nature amongst a few other external factors having more charisma made me knock the presentation out of the park. This isn’t my words. It’s theirs. So yes. Take these points to heart. Use them. I promise you they work. You’ll feel uncomfortable but trust me push through it.

This is so relatable bro I'm a natural leader myself and this is so accurate

Be data driven and pivot direction when needed is a Lean Startup philosophy. It's all about learning!

Thank you so much for this. I would not normally watch something like this, as, I truly hate football. Ted Lasso is brilliant, funny, and just so enriching. I’m sitting laughing and crying it’s so good.

Confidence is everything!

Thank you Ben!

“Trent Crimm: The Independent” - Trent Crimm

Great video! I have been loving watching Ted Lasso, and I agree that he can teach us so much about leadership. Just a note for future videos, though--where are the women leaders in this video? (Besides Rebecca from the show, of course). I really like this video and will happily share it with others because I think the points are excellent, I'm so glad this show has given us a really positive portrayal of male leadership in the form of Ted, and I genuinely like all the clips that you have included and how it was edited. I was just really surprised after I finished watching that you only included examples of men in leadership in this vid--it seems like a blind spot in regards to how women are also in these roles in fiction and in real life. That said, please keep putting out solid content, and I totally agree with the other commenters saying that more leaders should be required to watch this!

@tylerricci9445

2 жыл бұрын

Just curious which female characters from Ted lasso did you want to see more of in this video for their leadership roles? There are great characters but Rebecca is really the only female leader in the show

@michelledutton305

2 жыл бұрын

@@tylerricci9445 Hi! I agree with you that Rebecca is the prime example of female leadership from this show. I meant in the clips that drew from other movies and television shows, I would have liked to see more examples of female leaders in addition to the male leaders that we see. Hope that makes sense!

This channel helps me to act mature in a very young age. I've learned a lot from this and helps me to be a better man. Nice contents! Keep it up man!!

@emilioperez6435

2 жыл бұрын

U mean this channel helped u to pretend to be mature at a young age

@josephisaiah7260

2 жыл бұрын

@@emilioperez6435 why whould I pretend? I didn't said that I'm matured, I said to act matured

@emilioperez6435

2 жыл бұрын

Act is the magic word u wasn't really mature just acting.

@josephisaiah7260

2 жыл бұрын

@@emilioperez6435 That's the way to be matured men. How can I call myself mature if I'm not acting like a mature person. It's like a sport. How can I call myself a basketball player if I didn't play basketball. Of course I have to play basketball so I can call myself a basketball player. Did you get my point?

@NeziesStories

2 жыл бұрын

It’s always great to prepare for life’s challenges by constantly educating ourselves! Keep up the great work, Joseph!! 💪

Didn’t think I’d like this show but I really do. It’s a good one.

As the King of Charisma, good video

I've been asked in interviews for seniror operations roles , "how would yo motivate your reports?' My answer is always to promote how the my reports will benefit personally from the mandate.

Best show EVER

This is a great video and commentary on Ted Lasso. The biggest takeaway for me was the part about being selfish. I found myself way too selfish in almost everything. Just being interested in others more will go a long way. I need to work on that for sure.

Thank you for always sharing very meaningful lesson

@solomonasine

2 жыл бұрын

This is beside the point. Do you think that humanity can break from this ever-increasing singularity mindset, festered primarily by social media, to a place where we value relationships and care about community? Love from Home of Influence Channel

“I hope you choke on a Big Mac” I love Roy, and how Ted turned him into a great leader …. Minus the practice session with the string knots promoting battle buddies which the military should use this tactic

To the point and the video is perfection

@solomonasine

2 жыл бұрын

This is beside the point. Do you think that humanity can break from this ever-increasing singularity mindset, festered primarily by social media, to a place where we value relationships and care about community? Love from Home of Influence Channel

Questions for leaders, how do you resist temptation to instruct your team, not listening and talking in condescending tone and/or overpowering the conversations? How many leaders know that’s a sure way to kill the conversation, the relationship, becomes the grinch that causes nightmares/ borderline bully and lastly as a consequence you have to deal with staff attrition?

This video is so good omg. 🔥

The editing for the video is spot on, keep up the incredible work

@solomonasine

2 жыл бұрын

This is beside the point. Do you think that humanity can break from this ever-increasing singularity mindset, festered primarily by social media, to a place where we value relationships and care about community? Love from Home of Influence Channel

At 1:39 there's an excellent point made. I've heard this before and put it into practice years ago. However, it leads to people complaining and unloading. This can be good as it allows them to feel heard. But I feel like it puts me in a position where I feel like I need to help with their problems and make the problems go away. How would you deal with or respond to that? Thanks for all the great videos.

Man, I love your Videos and I would like if someday can you Make A Video about the Characters of the HBO series 'Succession', talk about any aspect that you want. Season 3 is coming so...

Absolutely excellent video.

This is really good!

Thanks for the video

really good video, love Ted Lasso and am a manager myself so lots of things that resonated for me, thanks. Shame about the last 2 minutes tho.. went on a bit long

This was a really good one.

You might have done this already, but as woman in local government, I wonder if you could do a video on the differences in what people perceive as leadership/charisma between men and women? I feel like some of the things attributed to strong leadership in males comes off as “aggressive” or “argumentative” in women. It shouldn’t be that way, but unfortunately in my experience it has been.

As business student these videos are like life blood *slurp* no seriously thank you

This is GOLD!!!!

Leadership is influence 🙏

“Don’t deny reality” is a step missed by so many of the ‘get rich’ people we see today where they take the “fake it until you make it” mantra too far and fail to see the real world.