Feels like Hemsworth tries SO HARD to make it comfortable for everyone and he just can't catch a break.

@claudioortiz5830

4 жыл бұрын

he's been trying all day and Brie thinks that's an attack, so they fight. she is a sociopath.

@MercurialIris

4 жыл бұрын

Claudio Ortiz are you aware of the definition of “sociopath”?

@br9760

4 жыл бұрын

@@claudioortiz5830 Better term is, toxic. Or combative.

@claudioortiz5830

4 жыл бұрын

@@br9760 not for me

@calirooster411

4 жыл бұрын

A point break?

It's cringy because it's like watching yourself at your worst.

@wtfmario

4 жыл бұрын

Feels, especially when you watch drunk videos of yourself

@krixpop

4 жыл бұрын

me at my worst i'm 10 times better than that overentitled B**** ! ! !

@wtfmario

4 жыл бұрын

krix pop I would still smash though

@krixpop

4 жыл бұрын

@@wtfmario I don't know mate : to each its own ... I would run. The amount of nagging, judgment, etc, from her, would silence even an Apostle of Christ. And really: have you seen her a**, I've heard she used a double for that too , lmao ! She is a very troubled person that will project her insecurities, shortcomings (etc) on the person most close to her (a man, that is) and literally f***up his life. edit: Stay away from crazy !!!

@stopbeinginsecure4786

4 жыл бұрын

BeChickaboom YESSS

imagine being so disliked that they make a video on how to not be like u

@sobbuel

Жыл бұрын

brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

@Lunatheia

Жыл бұрын

Srsly what’s with the spam of the same account posting the same 3 comments under any top comment?

@georgemink1813

Жыл бұрын

Let's imagine further: Who is such an expert on behaviorism that they are even ABLE to tell you how or how not to be "Like" someone else. It occurs to me anyone pontificating like that led their lives attempting to "Be" someone else, rather than simply find and be theirself. What do you think?

@elite7585

Жыл бұрын

i choked

@usef2941

Жыл бұрын

@@terryjune5260 ​ what are you talking about ? Why are you not focusing on the main point of the video ? You’re so offended and triggered just cuz he’s criticizing a female ! This insane go watch another video on the channel maybe it’ll make you feel better, or crawl back to whatever twitter rabbit hole you came from…smh

1. Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation 2. Sarcasm requires a "tell" 3. You should not jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself 4. You should not try to win every moment of banter 5. Handling a compliment / conflict improperly

@Khoalinski69

10 ай бұрын

Thank you

@angeldemonica9087

9 ай бұрын

Those are the points they tried to make. Idk if they all really applied here- I’m not convinced. But it’s great advice all the same 😅

@WeartheGoodSocks

7 ай бұрын

It's really good. Now I can finally articulate why one coworker gets on my nerves sometimes although we get along great, in general. She does #3 quite a lot, turning any casual conversation into a competition. Or if we're in a meeting and the group praises me for something, she immediately tries to turn attention back to herself. Blegh.

@gingerisevil02

7 ай бұрын

Thanks saved me time

@mooshway2000

7 ай бұрын

In psychiatry we call number 1 'hostile attribution bias'.

Constantly redirecting the conversation on yourself makes people not want to talk to you.

@djoakeydoakey1076

5 жыл бұрын

I knew a guy that had an anecdote for fuckkking eveerrryytthingggg. Always had to have a fucking story, jesus.

@freeman7297

5 жыл бұрын

Fr

@jimmysgirl1029

5 жыл бұрын

I want this quote as wall decor at my house

@SunflowersAreCute

5 жыл бұрын

i’m not gonna say any names but meghan mccain knows who she is

@solomonelijah

5 жыл бұрын

OMG THISS

Why do I watch these videos as if I'm some kind of alien trying to assimilate into human culture?

@MeowPictures

5 жыл бұрын

LOL

@metasprite5648

5 жыл бұрын

Or an AI trying to understand human kind

@mark0183

5 жыл бұрын

So you become a likeable alien

@skyz3ra

5 жыл бұрын

It's to understand psychology in x context

@jacobreid7077

5 жыл бұрын

Hello fellow humanoid’s

I hate how complicated human interaction is.

@Anwelei

7 ай бұрын

SAME HERE! I have always been so lost interacting with people.

@HankTheTank23

6 ай бұрын

Life would be kind of boring if it was simple.

@cahidijoyoraharjo7833

5 ай бұрын

@@HankTheTank23 True, it would feel like talking to robots.

@vice2versa

5 ай бұрын

​@@HankTheTank23 maybe to you but to other people who arent as fortunate as you seem to be it would make gor less painful social interactions.

@HankTheTank23

5 ай бұрын

@@vice2versa I apologize if I came across as being insensitive to those who struggle with social interactions. That was not at all my intention. I enjoy talking to people, but I frequently find myself in situations where I don’t know what to say or do. That’s part of learning, growing up, and what makes life fun. From my perspective, if you could reliably predict exactly how someone would react to everything you said or did, life would be pretty boring. Nothing would be funny, and there would be no such thing as suspense or mystery. There’s a reason why (until perhaps recently with the advent of ChatGPT) automated chat bots have never been a substitute for real human connection and conversation. That’s just my perspective, but I understand where you are coming from.

I didn't quite understand why everybody didn't like her till watching this, and now it makes SO MUCH SENSE.

@nomoskarramin637

10 ай бұрын

For one, her character felt like a token character. Came outta nowhere, and somehow OP than others. And second, her acting felt mediocre at best. Endgame would've been better if they defeated the villain without a "new powerful ally".

@FreedomAndJustice4All

10 ай бұрын

Idk much about this lady but just bc said she did her own stunts bc she "thought that's what everyone did", that wasn't praising herself at all. In fact I believe assuming she was gloating is assuming negative intent.

@nomanejane5766

10 ай бұрын

​@@nomoskarramin637so u didn't like the movie, so u take it out on the actor? 🤡

@ramonew7815

10 ай бұрын

Hate tends to make people defensive, which then feeds itself when you're interpreting ambiguous situations in a negative way. Couple with the fact that you have someone (in this case, Don Cheadle) actually being hostile and to her it probably justifies her defensiveness. Then someone like Chris who seemingly has it all is being somewhat patronizing but fairly sincere on the other side. Not defending her actions really, but there are reasons to everything.

@ramonew7815

10 ай бұрын

@@FreedomAndJustice4All true, but that's what most people are going to conclude since Chris was actively putting himself down to give praise to his stunt doubles, and Brie challenged him on the whole notion.

I feel like a sim gaining a charisma skill after watching this

@sussanachen4928

4 жыл бұрын

Hahahahahahahah RT

@unicee514

4 жыл бұрын

That is literally me

@mckennacal_pencil

4 жыл бұрын

I’m dead !!!!!

@enigma9909

4 жыл бұрын

Most relatable comment

@consolemainnoob8102

4 жыл бұрын

Bro--- gotta use hacks next time

I've met people who read an insult into everything. It must be hell living inside their heads.

@artygunnar

4 жыл бұрын

it is, they need help

@darrylgibson3575

4 жыл бұрын

What about inside our heads when dealing with someone like that ?

@krableja2517

4 жыл бұрын

It is, the thing is those people probably had someone who was real close to them who would always criticize them for everything which makes it natural for them to see everything as an attack on them.

@mogaman28

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, feminism does that to people.

@glitterdragon9197

4 жыл бұрын

It could be bc they’ve had so many people give them backhanded compliments in the past. I used to be like Brie, rude defensive and bitchy bc I used to have childhood “friends” that would lowkey mock me so I became tense

I know of somebody like Brie. God, it's exhausting and drains my energy just having a conversation with her. I would compliment her works and she is triggered for no apparent reason. As the conversation goes on, it almost feels like I was walking on eggshells. She thinks every single thing I say is like a personal attack on her. I wish to never have any conversations with her anymore. I'm tired.

@mielthesquid6536

11 ай бұрын

leave, far away

@leiea2000

10 ай бұрын

I know someone like this and she is exhausting too. I have minimized my interactions with her over time. Her insecurities are pretty obvious when you engage her and she comes across like a victim most times. I have complimented her before and she actually negated and shot down the whole compliment. She does exactly what this video suggests NOT to do.

@beauli5011

10 ай бұрын

this could be a sign of depression. When I start seeing ill intent in people's comments I know my mental health needs attention

@LethalByChoice

9 ай бұрын

It really is exhausting and its no wonder why her co-stars don't like her. Brie Larson can't handle fame very well and its obvious that she isn't very well socialized.

@jeremy4375

9 ай бұрын

She reminds me of that female terminator from Sarah Connor Chronicles. Like, she's been sent back through time to singlehandedly destroy all that was fun...

I think most of us do not do any of things Brie does when we are happy and confident, and in our element. Problems begin when we are anxious and trying to be someone that we aren't.

@heatherrogers548

2 ай бұрын

Good point.

I feel really bad for chris h. in that interview because you can tell how he's trying to telepathically tell brie to calm down but she doesn't get it edit: this is the most likes ive ever gotten on a comment omds-

@khumanthemhelga7928

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly. He's like 'Girl, for your own good, STOP'

@pin2peen972

5 жыл бұрын

Titi Hilda I'm the 666th liker, hail satan

@natsukilovestobake4427

5 жыл бұрын

bAkA Congrats dude! I saw the 666 likes :D

@frederickrueger7861

5 жыл бұрын

What if she telepathically got it and just didn't want to.. who knows what went on between those two before..

@elgurideparana2796

5 жыл бұрын

@@frederickrueger7861 she became a feminist that happened

"Be like Chris" "Evans, Hemsworth or Pratt?" "Yes."

@maddie10173

5 жыл бұрын

Or Pine;)

@megadeth1818

5 жыл бұрын

"Chan"

@steveduvell907

5 жыл бұрын

@@megadeth1818 No... Please no. One is enough

@smitemus

5 жыл бұрын

Redfield. The biggest Chris.

@Robdee999

5 жыл бұрын

Benoit?

The older I get, the more grateful I am that I grew up with a family who made sure I knew how to be kind and understanding in all social situations. This video really made me have so much more appreciation for Hemsworth and Pratt because it really highlighted their kindness, even in scenarios when I would had been bothered. Thank you for the video!

She comes off SO insecure. There's a point where you can be insecure while still being able to interact with others without projecting, however, all she seems to be doing is victimizing herself, and roping others into feeding her insecurity. It's not only her as a person, it comes out in her characters as well, especially Captain Marvel.

@aishaalamoudi599

10 ай бұрын

She's an Oscar Winner, the only woman leading her own action film making over a billion.... she cleared the mantel very early on. She's not the one whos insecure. what interests me is how depressing is it to live in a world were the so called men in our society get hurt so deeply by Brie Larson's words that one time, and continue to this day bitching and moaning about it..... here it is, the men crisis; bitching about this to no end. A real man wouldn't care....this video and the response to it perfectly captures my point.

@420rollinup3

9 ай бұрын

​@@aishaalamoudi599hold this L

@avril.227

9 ай бұрын

@@aishaalamoudi599 What?? Are we watching the same video? I like almost everyone at first but she is unfortunately very off putting.

@sathira_anuk5179

7 ай бұрын

​@@aishaalamoudi599nah she's terrible 😅

@s.a.8548

7 ай бұрын

@@aishaalamoudi599Come on she’s just doing too much. There’s thousands of leading ladies who are extremely charismatic

How not to be Brie Larson: Stop acting like you're better than everyone while you're trying to be funny. No one likes that.

@KerioFive

4 жыл бұрын

aminthemar I thought thats how you get people to like you? 😒🙃

@Matthew-ob7vb

4 жыл бұрын

Right she's not perfect for LA

@kikilocket

4 жыл бұрын

aminthemar unless your name is RDJ

@AnonYMouse-ky4sg

4 жыл бұрын

K S Yeah a lot of people can get away with that kind of sarcasm, but it doesn’t work when people are being primed to dislike you already as they will just take it as you being serious.

@reevewitherington4759

4 жыл бұрын

aminthemar just realised I do this thx 👍

The whole interaction with Chris Hemsworth about stunts and strength is so cringey.

@snoox27

4 жыл бұрын

Feminism ruins women

@WhatJuliaLoves

4 жыл бұрын

I just recently read this online: Because I‘m a feminist, people often ask me, if I hate men and I answer that it’s the opposite - because I‘m a feminist men hate me ^^

@Eduardo14698

4 жыл бұрын

@@WhatJuliaLoves Well, if man(in general)hate feminism there is a reason why, its a good idea to try to understand our side as well. Maybe man hate feminism because the movement dont care about man and only wants to put women on top of us and not on the same level.

@yungamurai

4 жыл бұрын

@@WhatJuliaLoves If you're not a nagging, insufferable man-hating feminist then it's fine but if you're the kind like Brie where you read offense into everything and project your gaping inferiority complex into all aspects of life, yeah I probably would hate you.

@lordofebony816

4 жыл бұрын

B 27 Emoji man bad.

I'd say that she is deeply insecure. The reason she did so well with Craig's interviews, I think, is because he is so charismatic himself and was always charming to his guests. His aim i think was to make them feel as comfortable and secure as possible, relaxing them and getting them to drop their defences, buttering them up a bit, thus getting the very best interviews out of them. It really shows in his awesome interview with Harrison Ford.

@mikerandom1959

Жыл бұрын

People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

@mikerandom1959

Жыл бұрын

brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

@mikerandom1959

Жыл бұрын

I've noticed this channel only talks about how men have charisma, i mean use women's example too? You mostly show bad examples of them. And why tf is everything supposed to be about how to become a chick magnet? In this vid, unfortunately Chris hemsworth was in the wrong, not brie as much. He interrupts her as she tries to complete what she wanted to say and then insults her…pretty biased of you

@jamesbrice6619

Жыл бұрын

@@mikerandom1959 she's a c..t🤣😅😆😂

@Commander_Shepard.

Жыл бұрын

​@@mikerandom1959 lol

So happy I found this channel. One of the things that truly separates successful people from non successful people is all about social interactions. The master of social interaction will advance above more qualified people every time.

@EdgeSanityGaming

Жыл бұрын

Sadly, that's true.

@milliesaysokboomer

Жыл бұрын

this is only true when everyone is in the same social class

@Rog.Tiks._

9 ай бұрын

I respect your opinion but, out of curiosity, why is that fact SAD to you?

@dazzle4708

8 ай бұрын

@@Rog.Tiks._If you have a stroke, do you want to be attended by the doc who can make the boss chuckle, or the one who was top of his Harvard med class?

@j3nnacat

7 ай бұрын

Definitely not always true. This is also a very abliest way to look at this. People who are neurodivergent (autism especially) are usually VERY bad at reading social cues but people with autism can still be successful. You don’t have to be charismatic to be successful

The titles look like clickbait, but they aren’t What sorcery is this

@jadenn.hernandez7784

4 жыл бұрын

Carazy123 m a g i c

@ShinyPotato77

4 жыл бұрын

This is Clickbait,but its the good clickbait cuz it delivers

@iyankku

4 жыл бұрын

That's what I appreciate about the channel, it feels like he actually cares y'know!

@FreakyFeline88

4 жыл бұрын

I know right haha

@SuperIvysaur

4 жыл бұрын

"is that like a personal attack or something?"

damn im gonna come out of quarantine with a whole new personality

@feedstacker

4 жыл бұрын

LOL

@kala-adaidakariopusunju6809

4 жыл бұрын

@@feedstacker lol you been binge watching Charisma on Command?

@SNTMLI

4 жыл бұрын

as you should

@liii3622

4 жыл бұрын

and a pshycology degree

@x0aei

4 жыл бұрын

@@liii3622 INDEED HSHHS

"If a literal interpretation of your sarcasm would make you look like a jerk, try again" is great advise

Simply put, don't let your emotions take over everytime, learn to sit back and enjoy the show until it's your time to perform, clap for others and clap for yourself.

@JimDandy-rn4vd

9 күн бұрын

It's called passive aggression .

she is trying to be funny but ends up being rude.. classic mistake of insecure ppl

@AverageAlien

3 жыл бұрын

either that or americans don't understand sarcasm

@cliffordbenenati7373

3 жыл бұрын

@@AverageAlien I'm american, I understand it perfectly, and love it 😂

@peterparameter1125

3 жыл бұрын

Maybe, but no reason for all the incel hate

@jkad1363

3 жыл бұрын

@@cliffordbenenati7373 no you're not American and you don't understand sarcasm,.. 🙌👏Boom bruned💥

@cliffordbenenati7373

3 жыл бұрын

@@jkad1363 "I'm american and understand sarcasm" "No you don't" Sounds like a meme lmbo

The best thing about Chris Hemsworth is that he isn't even mad that Brie is attacking him, he only gets mad when she attacks other people

@enayatchoudhury5431

4 жыл бұрын

He's such a good man

@wrestlinganime4life288

4 жыл бұрын

God of Thunder

@lindai6988

4 жыл бұрын

Brie wasn't attacking Chris lol. Do you Americans not know what banter is?

@darthvader566

4 жыл бұрын

@@lindai6988 most don't, they get offended over everything

@lindai6988

4 жыл бұрын

Darth Vader it seems so

This is why it's so important to understand that someone's perception of you is a reflection of them. Someone that chooses not to like you is the same thing as someone thinking they are better than you. That person probably has little to no self awareness, and will go through their life believing that they don't have any flaws. Which ultimately means they will go thorough life not understanding that they are self sabotaging all of their relationships. And instead of considering that they are part of their own misery, they will consistently place all of the blame for their own failures on other people.

@SGWV

Жыл бұрын

this comment is a hot-take meta response lmao. it's not only a criticism of the actress, but it's a criticism of the public response to her, the interviews after the fact, this KZread video itself ("5 Awful Habits That Make People Think You’re Low Status"... bruh), and all the commenters who are convinced they're "higher status" - well done 👍

@hanswoast7

Жыл бұрын

Good point. That is a great description. I think this can be seen as being insecure, delusional and denying/projecting your (usually negative) feelings to others. Reminds me a lot of emotionally immature / narcissistic people which are often feeling insecure but want to hide it.

@ImNotaRussianBot

Жыл бұрын

This perfectly describes the vulnerable narcissist (as opposed to the other type, the grandiose narcissist)- it's the eternal journey to victimhood. Nothing, I mean NOTHING is ever their fault even though they self-sabotoge their entire life in every aspect either through inaction or action. Another really obvious thing they all do is project something they are doing as they accuse you or some glaring character flaw they have. For example, if they are demanding something (money, a favor, stuff) and you refuse, they will to accuse you of being selfish. It's such a cliche that it's like that Reddit list of phrases a cheater uses when caught. These folks are often twice, thrice divorced and all their exes are "crazy' and/or "evil". It never occurs to them that the common denominator in all of the failed marriages was them. They also have burned every conceivable bridge on their personal life with friends and family and end up alone and bitter because "everyone has abandoned them" (it never occurs to them why- even though they have been told over and over again why). This is why it's a red flag when you meet a seemingly nice and normal person who offhandedly (and sometimes repeatedly) mentions that everyone always leaves them/all their friends left. ✅ Low contact/no contact adult kids. ✅No friends. ✅Colleagues who despise and tolerate them. ✅Unfortunate subordinates that acquire a life-time of trauma from them. ✅Neighbors that barely tolerate them due to them using the local police to intimidate/harass/control. They often are the fuel of juicy gossip of the "nasty old man" or "crazy old lady" of the neighborhood in their old age. They tend (not always, but there is a pattern) to become hoarders (junk and/or animals)- this is due to their perceived abandonment issues. They die alone, surrounded by piles of crap, and their family reluctantly deals with their funeral/possessions/residence.

@ImNotaRussianBot

Жыл бұрын

The faux superiority always baffles me. One thing I do is when they are on a roll, I ask them where and who gave them their sense of superiority. I repeat it in honest bafflement. And then if they have an answer (they always do), have them break down what EXACTLY they have accomplished (not not accidental birth to the right race, class, genetic appearance, region, culture). It's always nothing. This shakes them up and they get really, REALLY defensive. This makes them hate you but you lose nothing here. Sleep easy.

@MElixirDNB

Жыл бұрын

Lol, no it's that brie is unlikeable because of her attitude, it is not a reflection of the ppl disliking her at all.

This seems like a list of manners/politeness/etiquette that most kids (should) get from their parents, but maybe not everyone gets the same set of instructions. Glad this video is here to fill in those gaps.

@zakosist

10 ай бұрын

I think in modern times there is often not enough time spend together between child and parent. Both parents work and it could be long hours just to get by (that can be the fault of the workplace not paying enough or demanding overtime), in addition children go to kindergarten as toddlers, and then spend a lot of time at school when they get a bit older (education is important, but many things about it could improve), and when kids get home they have to do homework. And the parents may be too exhausted from work in the short time they spend at home. Modern technology also worsens the problem, its easy to just give the kids a smartphone or similar to play on and not give them much direct attention. Kids getting addicted to that technology only worsens the problem again.

Brie Larson when someone asks for an autograph: Do you want to fake my signature or something?

@jeethechamp7458

4 жыл бұрын

Jajajaja

@blueseptember2174

4 жыл бұрын

Omg😂😂

@mochi4654

4 жыл бұрын

😂

@skinnyturtle9335

4 жыл бұрын

Laura Durango hahaha nice one

@yashkalia4767

4 жыл бұрын

Haha

I think she has low self-esteem and may feel like everyone is always attacking her. Her responses definitely seem defensive.

@andrewgust-anderson5612

4 жыл бұрын

Never speak to me again on the Paris consulship AS LONG AS YOU LIVE

@scarlettelisabeth5644

4 жыл бұрын

I’m sure it also comes from years of acting a facing constant criticism weather it’s your looks, what you where, what your opinions are. If people are always judging you it’s easy to understand how someone could develop poor self esteem

@fexbio

4 жыл бұрын

I think she let that "women are oppressed" stuff enter her head. This kind of thing makes one very defensive.

@offminus3911

4 жыл бұрын

Jordan Peterson has addressed multiple times that there is no such thing as self-esteem. It's something particular that she isn't happy about that she takes everywhere, whether it be a thought or a physical/emotional insecurity.

@JanieBee

4 жыл бұрын

Especially since everyone always is attacking her

She doesn’t seem like the type of person to take criticism too well. Says she’s the strong but really comes off looking self-conscious half of the time. Image living with her..

@quiggyrite

Жыл бұрын

People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

@quiggyrite

Жыл бұрын

this is the problem with people home schooled is that... they have never experience school type bullying the way chris hemsworth and don cheadle are school bullying and dog piling 2 vs 1 on brie larson.....if she had gone to school and face bullying like this she'd deal with it better

@quiggyrite

Жыл бұрын

I saw the Charisma video wher you attacked Brie a long time ago and it really bothered me. I did not see what you saw. I saw the Marvel actor being opening hostile toward her -which I thought was much worse. Why didn't you talk about him? How unprofessional. I kept thinking, "I need to get the computer and defend this poor woman". So months later, I finally do it and what do I see? You, reading comments that are purely hateful. Apparently she had a breakdown? My first impression was that your show was completely mysonistic because you fawn over the male actors and rip on this one women for being a awkward. This video confirms it and (even though I already knew many men hate women) it saddens me that so many men are eager to join in

@quiggyrite

Жыл бұрын

I've noticed this channel only talks about how men have charisma, i mean use women's example too? You mostly show bad examples of them. And why tf is everything supposed to be about how to become a chick magnet? In this vid, unfortunately Chris hemsworth was in the wrong, not brie as much. He interrupts her as she tries to complete what she wanted to say and then insults her…pretty biased of you

@RWEaurelius

Жыл бұрын

@@quiggyrite Its quiet impressive how you make this about gender of all things. Hats off to you

be yourself. trying to be anything else is usually a fail. some people are over the top, some people are shy. love people for how unique they are.

@damenation

9 ай бұрын

How if people don’t like you when you are yourself

Brie sounds like she is always on defense mode.

@chunkbaby7544

4 жыл бұрын

Famous rich feminist actor. The title explains it all

@kennapersonal

4 жыл бұрын

True

@kweku282

4 жыл бұрын

TRUE

@kweku282

4 жыл бұрын

@@chunkbaby7544 EVEN TRUER

@pukljica

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah true..maybe she grew up in codependency with borderline parents wich makes her defende her self all the time even now idk its hard to be around people that takes everything so personal!

She was straight up rude in the interview with Chris hemsworth

@Pinkielover

4 жыл бұрын

lol shes rude period.... even war machine dislikes her

@btCharlie_

4 жыл бұрын

I liked her in Scott Pilgrim, but her takes and composure seem really off since she got with Marvel. Perhaps she was hired as a sort tool for Marvel to show they empower women too? Idk if that's even plausible.

@_Chad_ThunderCock

4 жыл бұрын

Can marvel just replace brie Larson. I just think she causes too much drama. I would be better and most people wouldn't mind the change(If they even notice lol)

@IvoryMane

4 жыл бұрын

Pobrecita maybe she wants to stand out in this sea of famous people by playing quirky but she comes off as too serious and high strung...

@taurusdragon4763

4 жыл бұрын

I agree with you. I think just because Marvel chose her to represent women's power, she thinks she's special or something. Hemsworth was trying to rescue the interview, but she's just too good at destroying it

I find the fifth point especially interesting from a cultural perspective. In some cultures people tend not to accept compliments because they are educated to “stay humble” or even to deny compliments. A typical (yet unfortunate) example is when someone praises a child for his/her academic achievements, parents brush it off as the child “just being lucky”

@Laf631

7 ай бұрын

The example in the video isn't her downplaying a compliment, though; it's her using it as another opportunity to keep the "fight" with Chris going. She says "that's really nice, I'm still stronger than you though." If she had said "that's really nice, but I think you're exaggerating" or something like your example, it would have read completely differently.

I dropped sarcasm completely from my communications with others, even though I mentally still think of sarcastic things. Nothing positive comes from sarcasm and it is too easily identified as just "meanness".

Don Cheadle is just sitting there like "please end this I just wanna go home"

@kaligisee

5 жыл бұрын

Priyank Bhatia lmao and their characters are supposed to get all lovey dovey pretty soon

@kingmuizz708

5 жыл бұрын

Lol

@kingmuizz708

5 жыл бұрын

@@kaligisee ifkr😂

@Jay_Script

5 жыл бұрын

Imagine when they have to kiss? Imagine the passion that will go into it 😂

@LarissaCerqueira

5 жыл бұрын

After doing like 62362783624 interviews, of course he is, who wouldn't?

Thanos has more supporters than Captain Marvel.

@visionist7

4 жыл бұрын

Thanos has actual charisma

@aspennnnnnnn

4 жыл бұрын

Thanos probably has more supporters than most characters in the MCU, honestly. He's hard not to love.

@micanikko

4 жыл бұрын

I actually was supporting Thanos during her fight with him

@murphie_4559

4 жыл бұрын

Razib Baral JOY I hated captain marvel tbh

@mai.vancon

4 жыл бұрын

Because society loves whether you are good or evil. They hate awkward.

One thing I've noticed about popular, successful people is that they rarely if ever seem to be triggered in public anyway. My guess is they either had stable, loving childhoods or have done trauma work. If you have unresolved trauma certain social things can be massively distressing and will trigger a trauma response, which most people won't understand and will interpret negatively. Brie seems either triggered from past put downs/abuse/bullying or she's trying to be funny and it's falling flat.

@MsMckenzie2011

7 ай бұрын

Yep!

@TheMockingjay74

3 ай бұрын

This hits different 💀

@ukbloke28

21 күн бұрын

Some of them are trained to deal with it, depending on the profession. Also another way to look at it is maybe some of them are successful and popular BECAUSE they don't get triggered.

I I could could time travel back 50 years I’d take this video back with me. Such great insights for self improvement.Much thanks.

*Alternative title for this video:* dude on youtube makes me regret every conversation I've ever had

@sen7826

4 жыл бұрын

Then you're such a mess. (sorry, I had to)

@frankmiller1391

4 жыл бұрын

a mess 😂

@marianagoulart196

4 жыл бұрын

Here I'm trying to remember every interaction I had in the last party I went to discover how much of a jerk I was 😂

@_Gabyo_

4 жыл бұрын

I swear the points about sarcasm and not accepting compliments is me. (I guess the point about calling attention to myself also works here)

@nicolemartinez6440

4 жыл бұрын

@Gabyo Relatable. XD *laughs and proceeds to ugly cry* :’)

The worst part is that Chris gives her so many opportunities to correct herself and she fails to grab hold of any of them

@ImDrizzt

3 жыл бұрын

It's strange that she's struggling with stuff like this, because in the movies I think she is playing her part really well. So she clearly knows how to act, hmmm

@alenciaga21

3 жыл бұрын

@@ImDrizzt maybe she doesn't know how to REact

@violet-trash

3 жыл бұрын

It's like throwing an olive branch into a fire.

@ahnrho

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed. It was very noticeable.

@illarionbykov7401

3 жыл бұрын

@@ImDrizzt what part has she ever played well, in your opinion?

What works for me is flat delivery with a smile at the end. People look over at me with confusion because I'm not sarcastic often, then they see the smile on my face and laugh.

I’m not good at aspects of my job, and yet I keep advancing and the higher ups tell me how much they like me and how well I get along with my supervisors and peers.

Gosh, I feel bad for Chris. Just look at his face. He's just trying to save the interview whilst she thinks it's a competition

@leeniraukola5168

4 жыл бұрын

Samuel F Exactly what I thought

@gabreiliusgen4519

4 жыл бұрын

which Chris?

@irvanwiguna7415

4 жыл бұрын

@@gabreiliusgen4519 yes

@BabeRuthXX

4 жыл бұрын

Ikr and he's not the most outgoing or talkative of the cast so I can't imagine how awkward he must have felt trying to put out that garbage fire :/

@samuelf7163

4 жыл бұрын

@@gabreiliusgen4519 maybe Chris Hemsworth but idk

Damn so this is what insecurity looks like on the outside👀

@winterblommetjie

4 жыл бұрын

So cringey

@chichi77tim

4 жыл бұрын

@John J Lucas Do you came out from the same cringey reddit page, like clones? How does It feels to share everyone the same one brain cell? 😂

@leobryant1011

4 жыл бұрын

Chizumi ??? You completely missed his point

@chichi77tim

4 жыл бұрын

@@leobryant1011 I don't think so. Pure stupidity and cringey redditism isn't a point, no more than a tantrum. No need to nobilitate it with a serious response.

@leobryant1011

4 жыл бұрын

Chizumi well I think your misinterpreting his point. I’m fairly certain he’s referring to modern day feminism. And the modern day feminists have a history of doing terrible things so they don’t have the cleanest track record. I’m pretty sure he’s not against feminism, just today’s 1st world feminism.

Social grace often competes with truth ... And folks may find themselves in a dilemma as to which is their higher calling. The blended situation of presenting herself , both, as she is , and yet still being on a stage at the same time may be awkward. To find out how any of these folks are , is a thing which really needs to be seen in person off screen.

@procrastnwriter

22 күн бұрын

What a great way to explain it.

These videos are incredibly useful. This helps people who never get to practice their social skilss

*gets this in my recommendations* Me: Is this like, a personal attack or something?

@aradhyasaraf_

3 жыл бұрын

@decembrist Yes!!! 😂😂

@mangot589

3 жыл бұрын

😄

@KeilyHD

3 жыл бұрын

I got this video & one almost identical under it😂 I felt kinda attacked but with my yt history...I understand 😭.

@SoulTouchMusic93

3 жыл бұрын

"Karen thinks you'd like this"

@jralph920

3 жыл бұрын

that made me actually lol

Talking to someone like Brie Larson, person who tries to win in every conversaton, every topic, is really exhausting.

@trevorhouff1173

5 жыл бұрын

One of my closest friends is like that and yea, exhausting is a good word to describe it

@MiyagiDo9

5 жыл бұрын

@@trevorhouff1173 till now never noticed that i might be like that..

@wrightguyz

5 жыл бұрын

re: 'win every conversation' - - it's narcissism right? or at least part of the equation. Very obnoxious behavior

@quarantinelife.

5 жыл бұрын

Listening to her gave me PTSD hahahahah

@gemberss

5 жыл бұрын

yeah you're right. it's so annoying. i think the best thing to do is like the dude above me said just let them win, or don't talk to them.

This is EXCELLENT. Wow I love this. Such a powerful analysis and clever. And not over judgy, just good.

Having a conversation after watching these videos feels like a chess game 😂

@bartsimpson8330

Жыл бұрын

It’s not it’s just you overthinking it. 1. Someone comments you negative way then respond positive 2. Stay humble by making a joke about yourself at times. 3. Don’t take things too serious

when you're taking negative intent from a question as simple as "are you left-handed" then you need to reassess how you perceive people's intent.

@OfftoShambala

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, but that can also be a manipulation depending on the context and maybe what seems ambivalent to the observer is an attack upon a person based on previous engagements that the observer may not be privy to... sociopathic manipulators love to do that kind of thing.

@theheavenlyfb4071

2 жыл бұрын

@@OfftoShambala Not sure how you can manipulate someone over something as simple as asking "are you left-handed", I mean the context HERE is a yes or no question. It's not really anything philosophical or deep, it really was just a yes or no response. It's like being asked "would you like some water" and the response given is "Are you going to waterboard me?!". It's extreme, but still a huge leap in logic just like what Brie did here.

@headphonic8

2 жыл бұрын

The point was she was being sarcastic at that part and joking

@OfftoShambala

2 жыл бұрын

@@theheavenlyfb4071 see how well that sort of thing would work now?

@theheavenlyfb4071

2 жыл бұрын

@@OfftoShambala my stance on the matter hasn't changed

i love how Chris was trying to save Brie from going down that path but Brie just won't get the hints, and continued on just to win an argument.

@snoopymochi562

4 жыл бұрын

Ed Potter Don Cheadle was also next to her, trying to remedy the situation.

@ultrabigfella

4 жыл бұрын

I feel like with her below sub-par acting, her sucky emotional range, and the fact that she can't pick up on any context clues at all, she might be somewhat sociopathic.

@lordfabulous6198

4 жыл бұрын

@@ultrabigfella she's a narcissist. She probably wasn't before but there's a lot of signs to it now. Fame can do that.

@adumdumdum

4 жыл бұрын

@@ultrabigfella I know this is totally off topic but how do I apply to your sanctuary?

@ultrabigfella

4 жыл бұрын

@@adumdumdum It's a sanctuary made just for you, No.😂

I appreciate this. I was in a sticky situation at work (that didn’t involve me) where I thought a male coworker was being rude to a female coworker. She had voiced her displeasure at his remarks. I thought he was harassing her. Turned out the real dynamic between them was totally different. Who knew. It’s all about context apparently?

@oldtimer5316

9 ай бұрын

Slow your role, Cap't Save-a-Hoe. Stop simping, nerd. You might just save yourself a beating.

I've done this as far as being completely sarcastic and playing it straight. People give you that look and it can be damaging around people who don't know.

Basically, "Don't be a Brie Larson, be a Chris Pratt".

@jhboob

4 жыл бұрын

Or be a Russell Brand. Lol

@deliarebaudengo5440

4 жыл бұрын

'Be a man'

@Alresu

4 жыл бұрын

Well, "Be Chris Pratt" is the answer for many questions regarding charisma.

@takitogoestoNY

4 жыл бұрын

pretty much. sad but true

@arjunarun9147

4 жыл бұрын

Or be Hemsworth

*Brie Larson watches this video* "Is this like a personal attack or something?"

@jackalope2302

5 жыл бұрын

Depends Larson. What us old folks used to call "constructive criticism" is often interpreted as personal attacks. Its funny how much more charming she used to be.

@marcoglara2012

5 жыл бұрын

Anders Moe Billington “Yes... yes it is Brie. Everyone doesn’t like you.”

@mynamefrank6567

5 жыл бұрын

@@marcoglara2012 That's badly worded, "Nobody likes you" works better, just helping

@PedroARCruz

5 жыл бұрын

Marco lara “Is this like a personal attack or something?”

@LuckySmurf

5 жыл бұрын

@@jackalope2302 Well when some of the constructive criticism consists of just "I hate Brie Larson and here's why..." then yeah, it's easy to see why people might view it as a personal attack. But not this video though.

Reading positive intent in an ambiguous situation - Sarcasm requires a 'tell- You should not call into every opportunity to draw attention to yourself - You should not try to win over each moment or banter - Handling a complement (with humor), playfully with humor. Sincere thanking the other person ❤

@mikemick7543

Жыл бұрын

brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

@mikemick7543

Жыл бұрын

People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

@mikemick7543

Жыл бұрын

People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

@kinderkarr

Жыл бұрын

brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

Reading positive intent into ambiguous situations is a superpower. Also, if someone is trying to cut you on the sly, taking it positively just pisses them off more. WINNING! As for praise. ALWAYS praise others! Believe me folks know your role. But if you constantly spread the praise to subordinates, peers, and superiors, you will be thought of highly by all. Great video! Subscribed thanks.

@gwotaharrve

3 ай бұрын

hollywood actor John Goodman does have one good friend who happens to be a newly minted Oscar winner: Brie Larson. "I love her. She is so charismatic. She would organize - she was like the only girl there, on set... every weekend she would organize stuff to do for people," he said of his Kong: Skull Island costar. "We'd go look at kangaroos and she'd organize a trip to an amusement park after they closed. Just stuff for people to do. Because she's over-sensitive about people getting nervous and angry and on each other's nerves. She's incredible."

Thanks now im gonna overthink every social interaction I have even more

@missbrooke666

4 жыл бұрын

balighy IKR?! I often overthink my overthinking 😳

@richardbottom9843

4 жыл бұрын

just always think that people you interact with like you so you won't go defensive and the assholes will expose themselves soon enough anyways

@zeeshansyed511

4 жыл бұрын

@@richardbottom9843 That's actually a really good tip, dude.

@sita487

4 жыл бұрын

no need for that

@rosegold-beats

4 жыл бұрын

Never think, go with the flow, you'll learn from your faillures

She protecc She attacc But most importantly She thinks it's a personal attacc

@rithikachhetri9638

5 жыл бұрын

😂

@WingsofStarlight

5 жыл бұрын

I appreciate this XD

@rithikachhetri9638

5 жыл бұрын

@The Name Is Evian Heyy ✋can u pls reply dat why she is hated so much as captain marvel? ( she is strongest avenger) 【because I dont know much abt marvel】

@RagingRavioli22

5 жыл бұрын

@@rithikachhetri9638 I'm sorry, I kind of had a stroke reading that. Are you asking about why people don't like her as Captain Marvel or how people just dont like her?

@mt-zf6xp

5 жыл бұрын

She protecc She atacc But most importantly She catch lots of flacc

I always assumed Brie had been sarcastic and joking in all these interviews because I have the same sense of humor as hers. I was really surprised when people viewed it maliciously. It's the same way I'm sarcastic to an extent where you're just saying silly over the top things. It was a technique to make an uncomfortable situation more comfortable. But I used to make people feel awkward as well not realizing they weren't picking up on my jokes. I've since realized this and only go to this level of sarcasm with people I'm comfortable and closer with. People are more likely to assume negative intent with sarcasm even if you never mean it that way.

@yunawinx

Жыл бұрын

i mean i’m one of the most sarcastic people and i could hardly tell if she was being serious or not because her tone not body language doesn’t change which is the point of sarcasm😭 otherwise u get someone who seems defensive

@milliesaysokboomer

Жыл бұрын

I think it's the delivery of the sarcastic joke. I have the same problem. I have a personality that comes off as serious or quiet, and this bleeds into my sarcasm as well. it all really depends on what people already think of you.

@aquilifergroup

Жыл бұрын

It’s not a sense of humor. It’s being unpleasant

@incarnate3276

7 ай бұрын

Personally I find sarcasm the funnier, the more serious the delivery is. Making it obvious, makes it to shallow for me.

@ncs9059

7 ай бұрын

Same... I thought that was the point of sarcasm. I also thought the example of "good" sarcasm with the eye squint was much more serious and I thought she was genuinely offended saying "thats my family".

Positive vs Negatice intent when viewing/receiving the universe. In otherwords -- interpretation.

The sad thing is that you can actually see how insecure she feels the whole time... otherwise, there would be no need for all of those weird actions. Hope that she can grow comfortable into her own skin, I'm sure that she can be great if she deactivates her defensive mode!

@bug5460

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I feel like she’s just masking her insecurities in this whole “I’m so confident and amazing” act. I really hope she finds out who she is instead of faking it :,((

@randybobandy678

4 жыл бұрын

Shes just self absorbed

@kledi3817

4 жыл бұрын

@@randybobandy678 she's really not, she said herself that she has a lot of anxiety all the time and is really socially awkward and you can definitely see that

@CriticalHater

4 жыл бұрын

Hey You a public figure will be judged regardless.

@metanoia3438

4 жыл бұрын

Overlord Supreme so public figures aren’t people too?

When Brie brings up doing her own stunts, Hemsworth goes “ehhh okay” as if he senses the inevitable crap storm like a farmer senses rain

@uselesshero.official

4 жыл бұрын

I really felt that it wasn't the situation to bring up that context.

@jemert96

3 жыл бұрын

I think anybody's reaction would be like ' jeeez okay there lady'

@goldenstatewarriors9418

3 жыл бұрын

Uh she doesn't do her own stunts.

@lepotato135

3 жыл бұрын

I would like your comment but you currently have 666 likes. Hail Satan...

@vincentgodinez5144

3 жыл бұрын

5:44

People who think the world is against them and everything you say they interpret it as a personal attack ARE EXHAUSTING

I would like a breakdown of that interview with Russel Brand and how to read positive intent into an ambiguous situation!

@sailor.saturn

10 ай бұрын

Same

I bet there is a group chat with all the MCU heroes and she's not included.

@joannechoi8476

4 жыл бұрын

Eh, the original 6 avengers have a famous group chat; the MAJORITY of the other MCU actors aren't included (this is not particular to Brie Larson).

@omnianima4540

4 жыл бұрын

@@joannechoi8476 Sheesh imagine they let a fan in from time to time

@joannechoi8476

4 жыл бұрын

Omnianima Nah, I think they want to keep that group chat really tight and exclusive (even most of the other MCU actors aren’t invited, from what I know)

@stealthis

3 жыл бұрын

Recycling isn't just for plastic. Recycled comments are worst.

@rc9006

3 жыл бұрын

Lol

Don Cheadle looks so uncomfortable during the Brie and Chris exchanges.

@darkySp

5 жыл бұрын

You need to look trough Jeremy Renner's interview. The poor guy could barely stay alive trough the interview

@RapidObsessor

5 жыл бұрын

he literally tweeted to defend her

@InfireMe

5 жыл бұрын

he called out people who thought he looked uncomfortable and from a direct quote said they were ‘children’ for trying to find fault where there isn’t any

@raynesorrells1245

5 жыл бұрын

Don Cheadle always looks uncomfortable

@jacket6213

5 жыл бұрын

Is that a personal attack or something?

Oh my gosh. Where were you before I developed all my terrible habits?! You are SO RIGHT! I can do better now for the rest of my life after watching your channel! ❤

@davisantos5672

6 ай бұрын

Just reminding you to check on it again(like myself)

I think a problem with her sarcasm also is that she doesn't answer the question at all and when she does, the sarcasm she put before just kind of overrules the answer she gives yet with Aubrey we see that she offered a genuine answer before acting sarcastic. I had a problem with my deskmate in high school who would constantly make fun of my art cause I did art but I wasn't really good, at least not as good as the other art students in my class and I had made it very clear that I wasn't confident with my abilities not to mention my art teacher was terrible and very discouraging and though I later dropped it as a subject cause the pressure was too much I always was offended when she persisted with her sarcasm and though sometimes she praised me, she tended to overdo her sarcasm to a point where sometimes I couldn’t tell if she was joking or not because I already was insecure about my drawings. Maybe it would have been different if I actually was really good and confident in myself but in the end she ended up hurting me a lot without intending to but again I say too much sarcasm can make you just seem rude

The incredibly stark contrast between her old interviews and her more recent ones is astonishing. Like watching two different people.

@AutumnSoldier413

5 жыл бұрын

Possibly something psychologically bad happened to her. She seems defensive, rather than rude. People accuse her of not being able to read situations, whilst it is them who cannot read her

@aglayamajorem9546

5 жыл бұрын

@@AutumnSoldier413 Her PR didn't do a good job on that then.

@protokhaniapetos3158

5 жыл бұрын

rotaryfreak3 fame can do that

@anishinaabae

5 жыл бұрын

it's almost as if people change as they age.

@sicemic

5 жыл бұрын

I'm not sure if the format of the interview had anything to do with it. Talk shows are usually scripted or at least the guests know beforehand what to talk about, whereas film interviews are, to my knowledge, unscripted. But yeah, she is definitely different.

How to make yourself more likable: sit down, be humble

@purefatdude2

5 жыл бұрын

True, except there are a lot of people that like arrogant assholes.

@amaracea

5 жыл бұрын

nobody will like you then. They can’t like you if they don’t know you exist. Be humble. But don’t sit down.

@edin410

5 жыл бұрын

Being humble might be a showing a fake personality

@campkira

5 жыл бұрын

Everybody at work.... Cannot be humble or no bonus...

@amaracea

5 жыл бұрын

Edin To be humble does not mean to have a fake personality or to put yourself down. It simply means to listen to others when they speak. Michael Jordan was one of the most humble people on Earth but you’d never know it from his TV personality. But off the screen and off the court he’d listen to everyone who gave him advice, and it was listening to people that gave him his edge.

Be kind and love people genuinely and you will be liked.

When you are comfortable with yourself, it comes across in all sorts of situations, even uncomfortable ones. When you're not, that's every bit as obvious.

The Chris Hemsworth/Brie Larson interview made me physically uncomfortable

@winturs2201

5 жыл бұрын

Haley Waldow Don Cheadle in the interview kind of represented all of the viewers imo

@bubblegumplastic

5 жыл бұрын

Everyone is so quick to blame Brie for it :( Maybe she feels pushed into a corner during promotions/on set and we're seeing the result of that. I've read countless unkind things about her role in the universe and her performance, rooted in her being "overly" strong as a character. A level of scrutiny that doesn't seem to befall Chris, his character is allowed to be strong and praised for being strong. I wouldn't be at my best either if I were her.

@BuumanJS

5 жыл бұрын

So it wasnt just me LOL

@moonmothh

5 жыл бұрын

@@bubblegumplastic the problem is that there is a lack of understanding between them in that interview. it was one of those things where some playful poking quickly became a real competitive argument because while both of them were joking around in the beginning, neither of them picked up on the others' jokes. they both ended up feeling insulted and became defensive.

@samsamsammy2013

5 жыл бұрын

bubblegumplastic Chris’s character is “allowed” to be strong and “praised” because of good character development. His strength is earned through 3 separate films compared to Captain Marvel’s mediocre single. She deserves every bit of scrutiny that is thrown her way.

The way Chris Hemsworth moves his head around in disagreement was honestly the funniest thing I’ll see all week

@lukasakantu2642

5 жыл бұрын

That is an bold statment. Its only monday

@irondolphin1559

5 жыл бұрын

i know right. That was so funny. He honestly is my favorite lmao

@HiveDes

5 жыл бұрын

He’s naturally funny as hell.

@tjw937

5 жыл бұрын

Always timestamp!

@JohnWuWei

5 жыл бұрын

@@tjw937 @7:35

The Hemsworth brothers are all so beautifully humble

Man, I hate watching that Brie Larson, Don Cheadle, & Chris Hemsworth interview. It’s so uncomfortable, my god 😂

i feel like she was bullied or something when she was younger as she’s clearly extremely defensive. maybe it triggers something in her where she thinks everyone is being horrible-just a thought.

@drtaha4946

4 жыл бұрын

Or she could be an introvert, a lot of introverts have this problem

@esssymee7227

4 жыл бұрын

Yea, so why hate her

@msk-qp6fn

4 жыл бұрын

I do so too and as someone who did go through bullying and have seen what bullying does to people, I know this type of behavior is not so uncommon among those who were bullied

@addibro4284

4 жыл бұрын

yeah, you'd just wish she could be a little more like she was in the Craig Ferguson interviews, where she seemed much more charismatic and likeable

@moodsofkiwi9285

4 жыл бұрын

Yea I struggle with being defensive too. I think it’s bc my mom used to be verbally abusive and I used to be bullied in high school. I always wonder why I feel the need to stand up for myself at every sharp joke. I’ve been working on being humble and laughing at myself but it’s so hard bc it makes me feel like I’m just getting bullied by everyone around me and I’m just rolling over

Thor is trying to save her but she is just digging her own grave

@starchild2121

5 жыл бұрын

He's like, "take my hand, I'll save you from those who make personal attacks on you." She's like: "I'm stronger than you. And we've been fighting all day anyway!"

@chrisreaves6399

5 жыл бұрын

Actually she is just trying to clear up the common misconception that she isn't the greatest actor to ever step foot on this planet and Chris Hemsworth is trying to leach off of her greatness. Thank you veeeerrrry much

@casszhang554

5 жыл бұрын

@@chrisreaves6399 perfectly done.

@nagendrajoshi4

5 жыл бұрын

1 k like

@thecasualreviewer2148

5 жыл бұрын

I like how Marvel 'put her in her place' in Endgame.

Her home/web interview with Hot Ones was waaaayyyy waaayyyy more charasmatic and likeable. Either she, or her manager, realized and did something about it. That or I guess she just got lucky.

This is when someone asks you a question and instead of answering, you pause and you try to figure out their angle for asking and then answer the question with an assuming, premised accusatory question. Usually that response as a question indicates something that you are well aware to be true about yourself or an act that you actually did against that person, but you state it as if you're implying that person is accusing you of what you bring up.

Honestly, as a blind person, I cannot over emphasize the importance of the tone of a person's voice. With the first point, the third clip is the only one I was able to tell was sarcastic because with the other two, the delivery was so flat.

@impossible9690

4 жыл бұрын

That is really good input

@estheay3611

4 жыл бұрын

Sabrina Zarogoza wow.. this is the first time I’ve ever encountered a blind person in the KZread comment section!

@precioussketches1008

4 жыл бұрын

If you don't mind me asking, how did you type this as a blind person?

@estheay3611

4 жыл бұрын

Precious Sketches maybe he or she is using one of those “text-to-speech” accommodations on their phone, where a synthetic voice reads out different pieces of text on their screen and converts it into an auditory message that they can understand. You can’t exactly convert a KZread comment to Braille lol

@estheyliborges3596

4 жыл бұрын

How’d you watch this

I never understood why people didn’t like her until seeing how she behaved in these interviews. It’s really uncomfortable to watch.

@lambgaming1347

3 жыл бұрын

Definitely

@brynbrew

3 жыл бұрын

Meh, these types of interactions happen regularly in real life.everyones battling their own inner insecurities. It's really not that bad. Just seems bad cause it's on big shows where everything has to be perfect cause showbiz.

@melonytoni9016

3 жыл бұрын

@@brynbrew The fact that she cant even keep it together as a professional in a few minutes of spotlight, makes me think she is much worse in normal life.

@brynbrew

3 жыл бұрын

@@melonytoni9016 Everyone has flaws. Get over it.

@hambeshdahfer9531

3 жыл бұрын

@@brynbrew Yes we all have flaws. being entitled and dismissive to negative traits makes you toxic.

If you look for bad intentions you will find things that make it appear as if there are bad intentions everywhere, it will poison every interaction and situation in life. Assume good intention, protect incase it is actually bad

Her hostile/negative internal dialog comes thru in the movie(s) also. Its interesting.

Google: Would Brie Larson workout? Brie : *So you have chosen death*

@lizipearlvlogs

4 жыл бұрын

😂 It is a weird way to word the question, but obviously not meant to be offensive. I really hope she was joking because I loved her in Scott Pilgrim vs The World.

@r.a.k4390

3 жыл бұрын

@@lizipearlvlogs I'm pretty sure she was

Distinguishing sarcasm and seriousness as a brit You just gotta add “mate” in the sentence

@gregthefishburger8270

5 жыл бұрын

Worse advice ever 😂

@nxctra

5 жыл бұрын

if you talk to a Brit and they use really strong slang they are mostly joking

@Kh4ny12

5 жыл бұрын

Greg The Fishburger hypothetically speaking that is

@Cruciatum

5 жыл бұрын

I'm a brit with international colleagues, they just say they assume everything being said has a double meaning.

@OneWanAndHisDog

5 жыл бұрын

Plenty of times I use mate when I'm being serious to someone

I just discoverd your channel! Great work, man :)

I also think that she is extremely insecure. Additionally, it is really challenging to join a set where there is already a close friend group, and you are trying to fit in, joke with them. However, when you attempt to be funny, you may occasionally miss the mark and come across as rude or even mean.

Don Cheadle’s face during the interview is hilarious. He just looks like he’s had enough of it all.

@justchilling704

5 жыл бұрын

He did! I was laughing when he said “I told you not to touch it”.

@Targisvear

5 жыл бұрын

Well, maybe he read comics and is scared thinking he will have to play love interest to Captain Marvel in upcoming movies, and that might be awkward if they didn't get along, lol.

@stevethea5250

5 жыл бұрын

YES PLEASE BREAK DOWN RUSSEL BRAND

@LuckySmurf

5 жыл бұрын

He always looks like that.

@proudbeaner696

5 жыл бұрын

Or maybe ... hear me out ... he was going along with the meme and pretending to hate her . So that way bored shit talkers and trolls watch the video .

I think she’s a bit insecure which makes her defensive

@thebrightestsun4685

4 жыл бұрын

@@asimhussain8716 yeah, I mean I couldn't believe she is the same person

@l_will_be_great1326

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a very insecure person as I have ADHD and bad self-image, but I don't act like her, I instead always use humour and sarcasm to defuse any situation, it works all the time. Until people want me to be serious, at that point I just lock off and stay silent.

@stopbeinginsecure4786

4 жыл бұрын

Will H idk because I do this and people take it as an opportunity to make fun of me and AGREE with me. This always made my insecurity 1000x worse because it was like everyone was confirming what I was already thinking

@l_will_be_great1326

4 жыл бұрын

@@stopbeinginsecure4786 I know how you feel, thankfully I kept my circle of friends close and low overall maintenance, nothing to prove. Have 5-6 friends I've known since grade 7, it is hard sometimes for people like us but we'll get through it eventually..... hopefully.

@Owen-ub3fv

4 жыл бұрын

I don't think she's insecure. 😏

As an introvert and a laid back person I really get her

@wherethequietbeingsgo

11 ай бұрын

Same.

I’ve never followed any of these people so the background with Marvel and how she may be feeling from those movies is interesting. Without that context my initial reaction or assumption would be that she and Chris had a thing going that ended badly where she now feels hurt, insecure or wronged in some way.

The positive intent part instantly reminded me of Jack sparrow when he gets called the worst pirate and comes back with but you've heard of me

@MrSpartanspud

3 жыл бұрын

One of the most memorable moments of the franchise.

@stefania5882

3 жыл бұрын

Oh my God. That's actually a perfect example

@alexablinson7379

3 жыл бұрын

"Burr, you disgust me--" "Ah so you've discussed me." Same vibes honestly

@OnxlyArtemis

3 жыл бұрын

"I've got a jar of dirt,I've got a jar of dirt can't guess what's inside it."

@neco5740

3 жыл бұрын

Legendary but at the end actually not that good since a pirate doesn't want to be famous. That's like wanting to be a famous mugger

Imagine getting offended on your fictional characters behalf

@MichaelJakcsonMusic

3 жыл бұрын

Modern Feminism at it's finest

@amiigogameshd7094

3 жыл бұрын

@@MichaelJakcsonMusic might as well call the police

@thomasbrown7328

3 жыл бұрын

@@amiigogameshd7094 lol right- he offended my fake character

@lollipopsfordays3610

3 жыл бұрын

Isn’t that what this whole woke era is based upon-being offended on someone or something else’s behalf. When we see it played out in immediate context it’s glaringly obvious how obnoxious, unbecoming and unproductive it is.

@oapeleftherotisaftistisepo9540

3 жыл бұрын

@@lollipopsfordays3610 except, your character is still an extention of yourself. So woke culture is much worse.

I once tried to date a girl that was extremely sarcastic all the time, but also in a dry way/like shown here. It was super awkward, especially when I'm more introverted/didn't get she was joking. So it just came across as almost being mean/serious. Needless to say, that only lasted a very short while.

@davidsinch

Жыл бұрын

People come here to learn about Charisma. Instead this video is so hateful, it is just plain hypocritical. Charismatic people don't put down the personalities or awkward moments of other people. That is just being a mean person. The male actors are all lauded for their wonderful personalities, while the flagrant on-air hostility by Marvel actor Don Cheadle toward Brie Larson is ignored. Instead, you target Brie Larson mercilessly, despite the fact that she never does anything horribly wrong. Something is really off here. It is obvious to me that you (and many of your readers) hate women. You need to stop bragging about your massive support garnered by this video and try to fix the harm you have done

@davidsinch

Жыл бұрын

brie larson stunts interview before chris hemsworth...No, it really all came out of ignorance, to be honest. I didn’t realize that you don’t actually do your own, most people don’t do their own stunts in these movies. I thought you did, and I’ve never been a particularly elegant or athletic person. I’m just an introvert with asthma and felt like I needed to be able to do that. I just thought, “I don’t wanna be on set, and they ask me to do things, and I don’t know how to do it.” So I started training as soon as I could, which was right after I wrapped, so it basically started right as I wrapped picture, I locked picture on the film that I directed. I then went into that, which then turned into nine months of training. And nine months of just training-training, and three months of stunt training with the stunt team. We spent two hours every day, five days a week. And it wasn’t until … everyone just went along with it, and was like, “Cool.” It wasn’t until we started shooting, and I started doing all my own wire work stunts, and flips and stuff that people were like, “You know nobody, now we’ll tell you, nobody actually does this. We just didn’t want you to stop. But now that you’ve kind of accomplished this thing, we don’t normally do this.” And I was like, huh?

@Broken-xp1lh

Жыл бұрын

​@@davidsinch also their looks but whatever

@MarklovesAngels

Жыл бұрын

@@davidsinch Didn't you used to be mike random? You're saying the same thing word for word.

Hermesworth makes the “ugh, this person again” sound