When a narcissist can no longer control you, they will instead try to control how others see you.

@johan5504

5 жыл бұрын

YooTooBur what’s the definition of narcissist

@ordinarystuff

5 жыл бұрын

you must of suffered from one! its happening to me right now

@dojarenkompletar7171

5 жыл бұрын

Holy shit that literlly just happened to me like a month ago. She was running around telling people bullshit about what i apparently said...

@poeticnation6251

5 жыл бұрын

YooTooBur So, so, true.

@peachesandcream.2612

5 жыл бұрын

YooTooBur - This happened to be with a narcissist close family member. She was cruel and spiteful to me in every way that she could be without being found out and ruining her image. One thing she would do is to go behind my back and tell lies to friends, partners - and worst of all - my kids! She cost me friends, jobs and relationships, etc. It's not just what narcissists do to your face - it's what they go behind your back and do!!!

anyone else extremely creeped out by elizabeth's eyes ?

@korynnelyles2500

5 жыл бұрын

She looks glossed over

@jarbinks5

4 жыл бұрын

Me

@agnesmajor3792

4 жыл бұрын

Azalia Ashlee I am a horror fan so freaking me out is not that easy. However, this woman scares me. Those eyes 😳...

@onceuponatime800

4 жыл бұрын

I think the NSA sent the Bionic Woman after Elizabeth because she is a fembot, not a real human :)

@lothor1860

4 жыл бұрын

Gleeming eyes that stare through you to make you feel spoken down to

The thing I picked up on in life is that they treat strangers like friends and their closest family like enemies, even on trivial matters.

@batmanwgd

4 күн бұрын

👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼

Narcissists are often so likeable and such a pleasure to be around that its as if they radiate an energy that you can't help but be drawn to. They often surround themselves only with complete strangers or aquantnances because long time friends have all seen past the charisma and lies. And narcissists will not take criticism from anyone, no matter how close of a relationship they have with the person that is criticizing them.

@tungstenanderson5991

Ай бұрын

THIS! Omg.. You just solidified this for me. I know your comment is from 10 months ago, but it's timeless for a narcissist AND for one who is afraid they will show up at their door, who did so before as if all the horrible things they did were bygones because..."they were suffering" and now it was the real deal and it only now because of it. "let's put the past behind us" with their hand out, because everyone else won't.

@MajinLiveTV

Ай бұрын

@tungstenanderson5991 yup. Narcissists will constantly try to bring others into their sphere. They completely lack the ability to feel good about themselves, so they need external validation to prove their own self worth. They will be desperate in their attempts at that. With people that have left their sphere they will say things like "You never care about me" or "I always put you first but you never appreciate it" in order to bring them back. They are master manipulators and they will make you feel responsible for their emotions even when you have done nothing wrong. The best way to deal with them is to set boundaries and stand up for yourself. Don't be fooled by them.

@jeffkingston67

Ай бұрын

Unless the people they keep close are agreeable, have poor self esteem, and try hard to please people.

@mattheusser1390

Ай бұрын

In the DSM this is often described as "superficial charm." It doesn't work on people with even a little autism, because they dig for details and will ignore the social consequences of looking weird asking awkward questions.

@brukernavn3409

10 күн бұрын

@@mattheusser1390 There's no such thing as "a little autism" btw.

“A narcissist is the hero and victim of every story they tell” - Brian Callen.

@AxxLAfriku

3 жыл бұрын

Don't let this distract you from the fact that I get bullied because my classmates think my videos are the worst. Please don't agree, dear cris

@georgeforeman8040

3 жыл бұрын

I just thought i was cracked at telling stories

@Mentally_Will

3 жыл бұрын

Can I get a quote source for this?

@liholma6118

3 жыл бұрын

@@AxxLAfriku I did not expect to see you here. Hello!

@justbecause9645

3 жыл бұрын

Trump

I used to be a narcissist, but now I’m perfect.

@carltaylor4942

5 жыл бұрын

Good one! LOL

@zero5496

5 жыл бұрын

That’s the most narcissist thing I ever heard

@Krystalmyth

5 жыл бұрын

Nobody is perfect. Nothing is. So you're pretty much anything but. That's what makes you a narcissist. You could be excellent, but you'd rather be fiction.

@xoreign

5 жыл бұрын

@@Krystalmyth r/whoooooosh

@impIicit

5 жыл бұрын

Krystal Myth dude. over analyzing. they’re making a joke. 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️

My childhood best friend was a narcissist and I was the best man at his wedding to a woman I knew he was cheating on. I decided to completely cut him out of my life when I was 25 and I’m 44 now. I remember the first time I heard someone referred to as “toxic” and I immediately knew what they meant because I had front row seats to toxic for years and years. Just found out through my sister that he fraudulently took out a mortgage in his sister’s name and took her credit score down to the 300’s and she’s so afraid of what he’s capable of she’s super hesitant to escalate the issue. This video checked every box for that dude. He drives a Lamborghini or Ferrari from what my sister told me because he’s so obsessed with how he’s perceived. Keeping that dude as a best friend would have been awful for my life and the past 20 years have been awesome because I made so many rad friends.

@The_Whimsical_Stenographer

18 күн бұрын

You dodged a huge bullet that not so many people are fortunate enough to dodge.

@zoilalulu3798

10 күн бұрын

Why didn't you tell that poor woman that she was being cheated on? You could've saved her years of misery.

@mahoney1360

10 күн бұрын

@@zoilalulu3798 I should have but she was a pretty awful person too.

@rcmpoffdayintah4738

3 сағат бұрын

​@@mahoney1360 wait so you didn't tell her because you thought she deserved it? Damn. She must have been a really awful person.

Advice to anyone dealing with a narc... don't expend any energy trying to understand them or why they say or do the things they do. It isn't logical, it will never make sense. They don't think like a human being. The don't reason like one and they have ZERO and I mean ZERO ability to accept accountability or feel remorse.

@dharma241

4 күн бұрын

Well said. It applies to the one we have in our family.

@nikhook1114

23 сағат бұрын

While I'll agree with some things you said such as, they take zero accountability or have zero remorse. After many years of researching narsisism, I've learned many of the possible reasons they do all that they do. There have been leaps and bounds of knowledge as to why. However, while every narsisit is different, the do a lot of similar things and the "why" is far too difficult for me to explain. May I highly suggest Watching Dr. Sam Vaknin's videos here on KZread. He has more videos than anyone on the topic and I would consider him an expert. He comes across a little strange or excentric but his content is mostly spot on.

One thing I notice about narcissists: when they initially see that you have something they want they can't hide their intense jealousy.

@daniellee1722

5 жыл бұрын

@@viracocha Yes we do, but we're rational enough to understand that every dog has its day. Narcissists on the other hand can't wrap their head around this concept.

@daniellee1722

5 жыл бұрын

@Brittany Bennett Okay, I'll concede to it being more from personal experience. I just never saw such envy on someone's face as when I saw the two narcs in my life react to me on a date with my then fiancee.

@daniellee1722

5 жыл бұрын

​@Brittany Bennett I think they're narcissists. A lack of empathy coupled with the inability to be happy for a friend and brother certainly makes it possible.

@garfreeek

5 жыл бұрын

@@viracocha I've experieced it firsthand, it's scary as fuck. They see it and the cogs start turning how they can outdo you, get it themselves, or take it away from you. It's instant scheming.

@lolanya00

5 жыл бұрын

@@daniellee1722 That doesn't make them narcissists, that is just them being human. Everyone in this world feel jealousy at some point whether you like it or not.

I'm not a narcissist. I'm too perfect to have a big flaw like that

@Real-cq1wj

2 жыл бұрын

I see what you did there 👍

@aehrmartinez7062

2 жыл бұрын

Hahaha

@snehathapa584

2 жыл бұрын

🤨

@skirmishcustoms2595

2 жыл бұрын

Nah bro you are a narcissist, unlike me, notice how you said you're perfect, where as someone as humble as I, would never say, I noticed that because I am very smart if you can't tell.

@mattier.9095

2 жыл бұрын

🤪😄🤣😂😊😜🤪

It's pretty clear the people that have had a real clinical narcissist in their lives and those who confuse narcissistic actions or tendencies with a true personality disorder. Narcissism is so much more than being obsessed with yourself. I lived with a narcissist for 7 years and he nearly destroyed me emotionally. I have never met anyone like him in my entire life and I am 56 years old, I pray that I never do again. My ex was a very terrible liar and when I would question inconsistencies or things that were obviously impossible to be true he would get very angry and accuse me of interrogating him. I have been free of this monster for 8 years and I am still healing from his reign of terror in my life. I appreciate those who have taken the time and effort to inform and educate people about the monsters that are out there looking for lives to terrorize.

@jacefoster1809

7 ай бұрын

Everyone in the comments has dated a narcissist somehow

@annem2922

7 ай бұрын

Unfortunately they are often very “weak” people. They project strength but in moments that call for courage, they can’t stand up for you or for another person. It’s like they are made up of balloons or like they hate life and humanity. A little poke and they crumble or attack someone. Quite a sad way of life.

@1dingerr

3 ай бұрын

People think selfish is the same as narcissistic, which is why everyone thinks they have dated a "narcissist". Almost everyone puts their needs and wants before those of others, that is not narcissism. Narcissistic people operate in a world of delusion. While we may weigh the affects our actions have on others and ultimately decide to chose the action that benefits ourselves, narcissists do not even consider these things. Everything is a calculated decision to increase admiration from others, personal gain, and ego inflation. They are basically playing a video game where they are the only real character and everyone else in a NPC who only matters if they can serve the purpose I mentioned above.

@53strat55

2 ай бұрын

I dated a narcistic girl who I really liked for 3 months, took me longer to recover then the amount of time I dated her lmao. I can only imagine how difficult that must have been. As I was already aware of it early in the dating phase when I started to question her it made it easier to break it of finally before I was almost trapped. She really did not expect me to leave after the lies.

@mleecthulhu

Ай бұрын

Them GASLIGHTING you is how they "eat"....its sick. ❤

I do like this very direct and concise definition of NPD that I heard from Jordan Peterson: "Narcissism is the inordinate desire for unearned social status." When you see that definition all of the pathology and odd decisions that they make suddenly make a lot of sense.

@katiesimpson8517

4 сағат бұрын

Yes! I do like Jordon Peterson too. Solid fellow.

The only way to defeat a narcissist is completely cut them out of your life. It crushes them. They can't live with the fact that you want nothing to do with them. Make them dead to you

@JakubWojciechowski933

3 жыл бұрын

Narcissists feed on control. Once you're out, they cannot control you anyhow. They cannot even try anymore. And that's the point

@jackkanoff6024

3 жыл бұрын

What if the Jerk in question is the mother of your children.

@soulmass8904

3 жыл бұрын

Jack Kanoff, you're the one who decided to produce children with a narcissist. I cut one off completely and it was almost too late.

@7aluv4me

3 жыл бұрын

NO CONTACT BABY . ..it takes skill but most importantly self love.❤

@7aluv4me

3 жыл бұрын

@King White Knight They don't even really love themselves...

“A narcissist is either the victim or the hero in every story they tell.”

@Josee2030

3 жыл бұрын

Victims because they don't know how to say sorry once you figure them out 😁

@Nastyfinger1444

3 жыл бұрын

Sometimes the Narcissist is both Hero and Victim in their story.

@brianbyrne3003

3 жыл бұрын

They're both!

@thomasrevere1728

2 жыл бұрын

I find that they're both.

@narutospersona426

2 жыл бұрын

I think its “AND the hero”

Being with my ex narc for the past 8 yrs. made me observe this very pattern. I think they wanted to feel very important in a way that is disturbing. Instead of building trust with their intimate partners, they destroy the trust that they built with you (in that case lying when they tried to put you in their pedestal). Once they have a committed partner, they can’t stand being loved authentically by one person. Instead they go on and prey on other women that is susceptible to their love bombing. My ex narc was a compulsive pursuer in a relationship. He would go back and forth to the women he were involved before or try to meet women in complicated situation so that going public isn’t an option while having you as their main supply. In the end they destroy the very person that loved them. They are like toddlers testing your love for them. Showing and telling them you love them isn’t enough, they will cheat on your face to make you feel inadequate even if you are more than they deserve. They want to test your love for them so they keep hurting you and when you have enough of their abuse, you leave. Then they tell you, ‘you never loved me because you abandon me’. Well in fact it’s their actions and narcissistic behavior that made you leave or in other cases they discard you and will give silly reasons of the discard. Mine would use, ‘she’s crazy’, ‘she’s a nega-star’, ‘she insults me’, ‘she cheated on me’ et al. So with this pattern of infidelities and emotional abuse (who knows what else) it’s better to walk away. I did walk away and is now rebuilding my life with our daughter. We are struggling financially because I’m not earning enough to provide for my daughter but now we get to laugh and bring with us sunshine every day. No lies, no abuse and no fake love. We only live once, forgive yourself and move forward but never forget the lesson that narc abuse taught you. That is to respect yourself to walk away from what’s hurting and destroying you. That you deserve a life of solitude, happiness and love. Hugs*** :) Additionally I hired a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!

@hareholly7490

4 ай бұрын

people never trust these comments with emails to private detectives, or scam recovery. they will be scammer. Wow though that was a convincing story there for a minute

@elijahhernandez906

3 ай бұрын

"They want to test your love for then so they keep hurting you." Job comes to mind poor guy :(

@andreww4751

Ай бұрын

too long didn't read

@sarafletch

17 күн бұрын

@@andreww4751Be glad you didn’t waste your time. She dropped an email at the end so clearly this is not a true story and she is more then likely a scammer haha

My exs brother gaslit me into thinking that I was a narcissist. I actually believed it. I always thought I did my best in the relationship but he convinced me I wasn't a good person. After watching this, I'm just now realising that he is the narcissist. He is very fixated on his image and compulsively lies to his wife.

@christophbjorn6007

12 күн бұрын

This is common. I've never known anyone to be obsessed with the topic of narcissism, and to talk of it incessantly (in the context of "other people" of course), except narcissists!

You missed the most important part: she looks like she's trying to peel your damn skin off with her eyes

@jenniferlawrence9473

5 жыл бұрын

The first thing I wondered is, 'OMG, what are her parents like?' Then I found out her father was the Vice President of Enron....

@bigcheese6159

5 жыл бұрын

@@jenniferlawrence9473 For every failed or crazed kid, just look at the parents

@cashflodigitalsportsnetwork

5 жыл бұрын

superharry1 I don’t know who this lady is before this video but she scares the shit out of me

@chereseplatt686

5 жыл бұрын

You are correct. I grew up in a church that was considered a cult. Very hard to break free from. One thing that I have learned is that the eye's don't lie. However.... really good con artists know this, so if they can't lie to you with their eye's, witch is damn near impossible, they will "stiffen " them up, or fix them on one point, so that they don't accidentally give them selves away with little micro expressions.

@ShanteRoxxane

4 жыл бұрын

cherese platt Wow. That's nuts. 🥜

She actually seems inhuman. Her eyes make me freak the hell out.

@kenrehill8775

4 жыл бұрын

Alex Kammeraad only now that You’ve read the truth. Prior to that you, like everyone, would have fallen for it.

@deicio724

4 жыл бұрын

@@kenrehill8775 Not everyone else she would of got away with it. Some people can tell and read people better then others it's just the way it is. It's the same why some people still fall for the simplest scams and others never fall for them.

@samuelagtorn3500

3 жыл бұрын

It’s called the crazy eyes. If a woman has the crazy eyes, SHE IS CRAZY. There is no exception.

@CarloisBuriedAlive

3 жыл бұрын

“Sanpaku eyes”

@user-wf2tv4jl6h

3 жыл бұрын

Alex Kammeraad isn't it because of her makeup and the shape of eyelids?

The effortless lying thing is an interesting one. I rank fairly highly on the psychopathic scale and when I need to lie, I don't just say untruths, I 100% firmly believe what I am saying. It's like my mind can delude itself into whatever version of reality is required to tell a certain story.

@ShadowsMasquerade

5 ай бұрын

Gross.

@Hexnilium

4 ай бұрын

This is interesting. Could you elaborate a bit more, maybe with a specific example? I understand that many people high on either sociopathy or psychopathy scales are not bad people, and it's highly intriguing from a cognitive science standpoint trying to understand why some people are this way and others are not. Do you feel like it would be more predestined for someone higher on these scales to use their abilities for personal gain? Or maybe the personal gain is just an downstream effect from the tendencies and behaviors resulting from the different cognition?

@Shalanaya

3 ай бұрын

@@Hexnilium It is actually a superpower, the medical establishment is well known for pathologizing people instead of understanding the social conditions that lead to this and harnessing it for the purpose of finding the beneficial gift in it. People lying are not narcissists by design, it is often a survival mechanism and their consciousness is very multi-dimensional. I am not high on psychopathy myself, but also can believe in a lie and delude myself enough to live in that lie, because that is how we train our consciosuness for manifestation, we start to believe what does not exist in order to manifest it, so we lie. None of it has anything to do with narcissism. There is many reasons people like this. But true narcissism stems from the disconnection from practical reality bascially, and if the medical establishment was not interested in pathologizing anything that does not fit the norm, they would harness it the same way as the indigenous shamanic healers in indigenous tribes where narcissism was used as a gift for its imagination to tell stories. Again, the reason it causes harm because it is misguided and not trained and used for its benefits, it is forced into survival mode instead. Again and again we are finding that it is the capitalist system we live in as a whole that is the issue.

@StoufSto

25 күн бұрын

@@Hexnilium Some liars lie to themselves first, then once they are convinced they can lie without seeming dishonest. They then come to forget the truth because they reinforce the lie over and over.

@lucapaguro2285

9 күн бұрын

Omg i can do that too... but i don't believe i am a psychopath. most people hate me lmao

For narcissists and sociopaths, not being caught lying is the same as having told the truth.

@keithmarlowe5569

4 ай бұрын

VERY interesting way to put it. Does that insight come from experience, research, or both? In your opinion: Say a narcissist is put on trial for a crime and is guilty. In the narcissist's mind, would being acquitted by a jury be the same as being actually not guilty? I'm dealing with a coworker that I firmly believe is a narcissist. He was on trial for something pretty heinous, but was ultimately found not guilty. Some research reveals that everyone,100% without question, that commits that crime is a narcissist. I'm deliberating courses of action and have to be sure.

@MM-bs3wb

20 сағат бұрын

My father lies but does it in such a way that he convinces himself he has the right to. It’s as though if he can find a way to make a lie sound plausible, he’s earned the right to that version and will defend that lie with his full chest. Donald Trump does the same thing. It’s sad really.

Her forced "deep" voice was really annoying to me.

@WhimsyWendy

5 жыл бұрын

Me, too. It's very unattractive and ugly. I know lots of women with naturally deep voices that sound fine. But her deep voice is bizarre.

@drknyt6131

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah very strange.

@connorrussell5025

5 жыл бұрын

It was creepy to me. Like legitimately freaked me out.

@il2xbox

5 жыл бұрын

It sounded almost like how it sounds when you lower the pitch of someone's voice in Audacity or something. Very weird.

@rosshealea

5 жыл бұрын

It reminded me of the chick from house bunny that said "I gotta go drop off some timber" lmao

"An honest person always looks you straight into your eyes", my dad told me. My experience is that honest people very rarely look you straight into your eyes over time. But crooks/narcissists do!

@theNickRYG

5 жыл бұрын

So true! I get super uncomfortable when people hold eye contact and just wont look away during conversation. It's creepy. It feels like they're trying to sell me on something

@Sable1837

5 жыл бұрын

You're right! The biggest liars I know won't even bat an eyelash while spewing their vicious lies.

@brutusjudas5842

5 жыл бұрын

It’s not true though. I rarely look people in the eye (at one point I tried to make it a habit but gave up) but I’m honest to a fault. I even feel uncomfortable using white lies. It sucks that people think like you, but most do. Honest attempts to help people are met with suspicion, so now I keep to myself and don’t bother.

@allofthiswasanexperimentlo9641

5 жыл бұрын

Why do you get uncomfortable when someone looks into your eyes? Thats what your suppused to do while talking. And how is that something crooks/narcists do?

@nihlhinz488

5 жыл бұрын

My old man taught me eye contact in first meetings it shows a baseline for truth and respect. After you don't make eye contact much but when you think someone is lieing to you look them in the eye and ask them. Look for eyes twitching and body language.

It’s so funny when you’re used to this and see it very quickly. Not every narcissist is “good” at it

@TheMazinoz

20 сағат бұрын

Yeah, sometimes you've just got to get away and shake your head and laugh.

I’ve known narcs all my life (2000-2012). Now I gotta act like one to keep them off!

Her eyes are from the same robot company that made Zuckenberg's eyes

@evilgoodness1

3 жыл бұрын

its from who framed roger rabbit. remember the acme company that made Christopher Lloyds eyes? same company man

@louisupton3740

3 жыл бұрын

Jesus christ died for your sins

@BenHayat

3 жыл бұрын

Their eyes is like a window to vacuum.

@greentea7132

3 жыл бұрын

"There is no war in Ba Sing Se" vibes.

@royroos8036

3 жыл бұрын

The first thing I thought when I saw her was: is she related to Zuckerberg? Its uncanny how much the eyes look like his...

Holmes sounds like me when I was a 15 year old boy trying to buy alcohol.

@silverpooloflight

3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@prabhuart1625

3 жыл бұрын

@🤣🤣🤣

@MayaTheColdplayer

3 жыл бұрын

What an absolutely original comment.

@micamichellehughes618

3 жыл бұрын

Bahahahaha 🤣🤣🤣

@natashamann5455

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

A narc displays many of the facets of a bully. I observed many bullys at school (in the 1970's) my response was if they tried to bully me I would wipe the floor with them. Point being let them know you are aware and show no fear.

There was this girl at school who was lying a lot, and badly, but she would never admit it, no matter how obviously she was caught. She would always come up with another, more ridiculous explanation

That moment when you realize that your partner have all of these ....

@robertjazz3613

4 жыл бұрын

RUN

@deepthinker8063

4 жыл бұрын

@@robertjazz3613 yeah 🤣

@-rebel8958

4 жыл бұрын

Bro i-

@reynhacoezy5510

4 жыл бұрын

Get the duck out of this shi-

@dianeaishamonday9125

3 жыл бұрын

Get. Out.

Just looking at her eyes it makes me feel uncomfortable. It's like my instincts are telling to RUN!

@stefanysanchez2

3 жыл бұрын

Omg sameee. I was scared just looking at her eyes.

@MeatyJesus

3 жыл бұрын

My instincts are telling me to fight.

@danielmallory4687

3 жыл бұрын

That is actually a response to psychopath or sociopath

@petersummerhays7569

3 жыл бұрын

He froze on her eyes for like 2 seconds and I jumped because she is so terrifying and disgusting.

@mikehewitt2146

3 жыл бұрын

Yup

I had a problem with a narcissist who had turned my workplace into a fearful place where work colleagues whispered to each other to avoid being overheard by him. He had sued his public service workplace for things like fake injury and defamation for so long that he had effectively been paid for 18 months of no work. A work lawyer told me his legal actions had cost the department over $2M - and he was still on the payroll. After I figured out he was a vexatious litigant with a dark triad personality - obsessive, paranoid, narcissist - he tried to contact me - I simply ignored him completely and avoided any further contact.

One way of telling is when the person wraps his arms around himself and hollers; "I love you!"

I feel like social media is making narcissism worse and epidemic. Everybody is consumed with projecting an image of a perfect life that’s dissociated from reality instead of focusing on developing themselves.

@B4trevor

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe, I'd like to think that they were always that way and social media highlights their personality's and isn't making people worse. Everything is so new in the grand scheme of things we might just notice it more because there is more to see.

@roxanne4820

5 жыл бұрын

yeah, narcissistic traits have risen at a rapid rate since the 80's and are continuing to accelerate, in particular on college campuses ( *hmm i wonder why* ). I think social media has a lot to do with it.

@mwloos1

5 жыл бұрын

Dating apps too.. never know what you’re going to get

@qtaro-7097

5 жыл бұрын

thats why i removed social media in my life. about 50% happier now

@Sk0lzky

5 жыл бұрын

It is, same as increased availability of 'elite' goods for all people and the always increasing wealth of all members of society, pretty much every psychologist talks about it and papers about social media and narcissism are a staple every single year on master's degree courses, to the point where I'm wondering why anti-plagiarism software doesn't just mark half of them

Her cold, dead eyes are a huge giveaway. Be careful out there everyone.

@MeiYingLim

5 жыл бұрын

Psychopath eyes

@globaldigitaldirectsubsidi4493

5 жыл бұрын

Be careful to judge too fast.

@Huonous

5 жыл бұрын

I've never got the eye thing. Usually something like that is said about someone AFTER it's found out that there's something wrong with the person. I wouldn't guess anything only based on her eyes.

@d3adgirl571

5 жыл бұрын

Cold, dead, black eyes. RUN 🙅

@d3adgirl571

5 жыл бұрын

@@globaldigitaldirectsubsidi4493 um, there is no mistaking this cold evil stare from this particular parasite, be careful to trust in that as well.

So I had a bad period in my life where I was a compulsive liar. The reason I became that way was due to how my upbringing trained me to be. See I grew up in an abusive household so to keep peace in the house me and my siblings became good liars. Because we learned at a young age a white lie was better than the reaction the truth would give. At first it was only in the house then it moved to lying in school. Then it was a regular thing. Luckily I spent a few years breaking it and so did my siblings but when I come near my parents it’s like something just activates inside my brain or a switch was just flipped as a defensive measure. But I just have to force my self to tell the truth around them. It’s still a challenge to deal with even to today.

@MonoKrohm_2020

5 ай бұрын

I’ve never related to a comment more

Wow. You explain narcissism correctly, then advertise charisma university to teach people the same skills. Bravo.

I used to be a narcissist. Now I'm a self-aware narcissist, thank you

@aceraphael

3 жыл бұрын

Don't self diagnose...its just a label for you. A personality is when a single trait deeply interferes your life and others close to you. Everybody has a part which is narcissistic.

@user-uq9dc8cr3c

3 жыл бұрын

@@aceraphael And this is called a joke

@aceraphael

3 жыл бұрын

@@user-uq9dc8cr3c Ah...you may have noticed I didn't get the joke like many others who took your comment literally. The reply is not just for you...

@lastillrules365

3 жыл бұрын

@@aceraphael you’re the only one who didn’t get it. You’re the only comment

@aceraphael

3 жыл бұрын

@@lastillrules365 The likes in my reply disagree... pfff :-|

"You lie so much you believe yourself" - Metallica

@Zorichai

3 жыл бұрын

Holier than thoooouuuu!!!!!!

@tylerbrah4676

3 жыл бұрын

Dickbutt

@DMONEY7720

3 жыл бұрын

It's not a lie if you believe it.~George Costanza

@hermanman8235

3 жыл бұрын

Lie too much and too long that people very soon realize what is really going on.thats the KARMA for me

@kj2532

3 жыл бұрын

@@DMONEY7720 lmao

The eyes are everything. They look soulless in these people.

Hysterical that a video describing con men teaches a course on using those same skills to con others. Priceless…

They never listen whenever you tell them a story. They always find ways to make the conversation about them and them alone.

@yummykitchendirect4528

3 жыл бұрын

I have a friend like that,but I noticed very late.

@Bogalog

3 жыл бұрын

Plot twist,the dude just talks about his dead cat the whole time so you always try to change subject xd.

@asaprabbit8305

3 жыл бұрын

Found this out to late myself, now I'm stuck in the situation with no way out really

@AncientJetties

3 жыл бұрын

Exactly -- while you're talking, they're only thinking about what they are going to say NEXT. When it becomes apparent I call them out on it directly, giving them a quick second with a "mirror moment" -- F 'em if they don't respond to getting called out proper.

@Red-bw5kl

3 жыл бұрын

A good narc always listens

*Literally no one:* *Elizabeth:* 👁👁 👄 I sound like a man, believe my lies!

@JacobBen94

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao why is that so simple yet uncanny resemblance

@ShanteRoxxane

4 жыл бұрын

Omg I literally started chocking on my noodles. Lmfaoooo 🤣🤣

@ShanteRoxxane

4 жыл бұрын

Ltpwnface Now my chest hurts from laughing and I'm wiping away tears. I really can't with this comment. 💀

@Ltpwnface

4 жыл бұрын

ShanteRoxxane You good? Lmao

@ShanteRoxxane

4 жыл бұрын

Ltpwnface Yeah, I recovered. lol

They also love to tell seemingly harmless stories where they were the hero and did a noble and amazing thing so you trust them and praise them

I knew a guy that was a pathological liar, and an alcoholic. One thing he like to do was to go to AA events or meeting and brag about his sobriety for X amount of time, even though he had drank that day and far from being sober. There’s tons of other examples too. He’d tell people he was a veteran, a pilot, CIA agent with top secret clearance, a millionaire, or whatever lie he came up with that day.

She looks like Mark Zuckerberg wearing makeup and a big wig.

@hutch_hunta

4 жыл бұрын

dude she spooked the hell out of me when i first saw her face

@theothertoday

4 жыл бұрын

They were created in the same droid factory.

@aslaughter4215

4 жыл бұрын

Same old nervous eyes

@appiahallan

4 жыл бұрын

CIA has entered the chat 💭

@tictac7715

4 жыл бұрын

She is a clone of him with a change of gender.

I have never seen such big lifeless eyes. My God. Creepy af

@Vaille32

5 жыл бұрын

Everything about that chick feels off.

@haobinlu

5 жыл бұрын

Thats an adderall face

@eyeheartsushi2212

5 жыл бұрын

It’s incredible how fake she looks now, but I wonder how I would’ve perceived her if I had seen those interviews before she got caught.

@travisthechimp7857

5 жыл бұрын

Uncanny Valley Sim.

@NathanStar-vw3dm

5 жыл бұрын

its probably not human

Just wasted 10 minutes to hear a guy make the bold claim that pathological liars are good at lying. Such insight.

The eyes are always a great indicator though. That dead gaze is an idicator to me. Not always for narciscism but for mental health issues in general. A lot of "thousand yard stares" are associated with things like severe trauma as well.

She used to speak with a deep voice so that people would perceive her as being tough. Crazy.

@plica06

5 жыл бұрын

That was her trying to be Maggie Thatcher... UK Prime Minister from the 80s.

@aloomix8788

5 жыл бұрын

And maybe take her more serious

@1987fallenstar

5 жыл бұрын

Because female voices or high pitched voices are not taken as seriously.

@alexfernandez6621

5 жыл бұрын

Uh...common sense??

@dreamcore

5 жыл бұрын

@@1987fallenstar Depends on context. When trying to operate outside of female roles, they will attempt to sound masculine. A cargo-cult effort. In a natural context, I don't take women with low voices seriously, especially the vocal fry.

Her eyes are facing in a way that she’s always looking at you, it’s legitimately creepy.

@USA2Brazil

4 жыл бұрын

Agreed, like one of those damn paintings.

@Omar-ck7oq

4 жыл бұрын

@@iniubongnkanga9390 shut up bot don't listen to her this is advertisement

@jpp2377

4 жыл бұрын

Right - I just look at her body language and think this person is way off so when they talk about these old men being captivated by her big blue eyes I just don't get it - she presents herself totally as a major transsexual, not that I am anti LGBTQ but that she is in no way sexually feminine or seductive. Instead your instinct should be to do a Crocodile Dundee move and check to see if a package is down there

@jasonRhawt

4 жыл бұрын

Hawk eyes?

@joshuafalade4754

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly, i believe in the popular saying that “don’t trust too much because that too much might hurt you so much”. A Narcissist partner is not to be trusted. My greatest dissappointment was discovering my wife cheating on me through the help of Cyberhackingsage who helped cloned her cell phone. All i did was share my wife’s number with Cyberhackingsage and i got access to her Facebook, WhatsApp and text messages both deleted and incoming ones with a link on my phone. Contact him, he’s a genius. ( cyberhackingsage@gmail ) thank me later.

If you KNOW you're dealing with a narcissist, pay close attention to what they say, how they say things, and what you say as close to verbatim as possible. They are very good at gaslighting you to make you believe that you're misremembering things, and if you start to question yourself, it's tough to regain that control. At least in my experience, calling this person a liar was apparently the worst insult imaginable, all because I questioned a detail in her story that was brand new.

I am what you might call a pathological liar or a semi-narcissist, and the video is spot on about the ease with which I can make up and tell lies. It's a second nature, it's so easy, since I can easily half-believe my own lies... It's terrifying and all the more hard to get rid of. I want to be better, but I catch myself lying just because, I always need to apologize and correct myself a few moments later in the conversation, because I'm just so used to it. It's horrible. Not to mention that I don't really believe other people with their words and actions, because all the world is a game of self-interest for me, so I can't really trust others. It's very tough to get out of.

@petelee2477

5 ай бұрын

I aspire to be like you. My honestly has always gotten me in so much trouble. I've learned the hard way that if it's something the other person doesn't want to hear then lie. Lie in any situation that benefits you. I wish I learned to lie sooner and quite frankly it's a crime that the skill wasn't taught in school.

@TheScumAlsoRises

4 ай бұрын

How do we know you're telling the truth now about this?

@JustinLazlo

10 күн бұрын

Do you think you being this way has much to do with your upbringing?

@thedisintegrador

10 күн бұрын

@@petelee2477 go on, but you’ll reap what you sow :)

@thedisintegrador

10 күн бұрын

@@JustinLazlo The upbringing is responsible for quite a lot, but in this case I wouldn’t say so actually. I think it’s more due to some strange genetics. My mother and grandmother are both like this, but I learned that only when I was an adult.

When you want to be the female Steve Jobs but end up being the female Mark Zuckerberg

@thereyougoagain1280

4 жыл бұрын

And without the useful product to boot

@m3ng252

4 жыл бұрын

The eyes hahahaha

@blackspiderman1887

4 жыл бұрын

@krishna adhikari lolol good one

@DubKc

4 жыл бұрын

@krishna adhikari dad jokes

@anhbayar11

4 жыл бұрын

Why is everyone bashing Mark Zuckerberg?

Dude...that fake baritone was lame as hell. Nope, not forgivable😂

@tweetiepie551

4 жыл бұрын

Why so? I have a natural baritone . In fact Scots women are well known for having a baritone pitched voice. There us nothing more annoying than a high pitched nasal voice - it makes the ears bleed

@farnazgbd3484

4 жыл бұрын

@@tweetiepie551 having a baritone voice is great👍❤, faking one is just...not okay

@SuperAfranks

4 жыл бұрын

That wasn't fake. Probably a man to begin with...

@quasimobius

4 жыл бұрын

Not as lame as my daughter's new boyfriend insisting on talking like Sesame Street's "The Count". Then...factor in my shock when I found out he was hynotizing her and cleaning out her bank account. She had absolutely no memory of him taking the money and when I showed her the bank statement she literally could NOT see the numbers on the paper. It was one of the scariest things I've ever had happen because of a control freak insinuating their self into our home.

@strangescience3414

4 жыл бұрын

😂🤣

I think I work with one. It seems more and more that way. Very charming, and fun, especially at first. Says they can take any criticism and that you should tell them if you have any, but will dodge or throw back any criticism you give them. Will also retaliate in silly ways. They make me feel uncomfortable, and lie. Tries to paint others in a bad light (more recently) and always makes it sound like they're very professional (and concerned about professionalism) and good at what they do despite doing many things wrong or poorly. Lies for fun and laughs when we fall for it, tells me they're stealing things without blinking or showing any remorse. At least we're on to them, and I'm having discussions about them with certain people at my job.

@keithmarlowe5569

4 ай бұрын

Ditto. More or less. Wish we could collaborate

@kellydalstok8900

16 күн бұрын

Textbook

Richard GRannon says the question to ask a narc in order to reveal themselves is "In what way would you improve yourself if you could?" This will cause a meltdown. 6M subscribers, well done, Charlie! Damn!

I was raised by a narcissist...all of this rings true. Big hugs to anyone affected by narcs. They are truly horrible people.

@Angry-Lynx

3 жыл бұрын

Yup not much worse than having whole family.of narcs let's connect in pain

@evilgoodness1

3 жыл бұрын

my mom is a narcissist. to win an argument she told me i hugged her too hard and making her laugh was a burden. haven't seen her for 10 years now but im sure her self imposed misery keeps her nice and happy.

@rileybx2236

3 жыл бұрын

Same girl

@NCrdwlf

3 жыл бұрын

I feel for you , I come from the same place . Both of my parents are .

@Bogalog

3 жыл бұрын

What do you mean us n- I mean narcs aren't that bad.

A lot of narcissists begin by tearing their victims down, and making them feel like they are wrong or can’t trust their opinions and instincts. They prey on kind people.

@patrickgreene2167

Жыл бұрын

It's like a game. To see how much they can hurt or even destroy you. They derive extreme pleasure from the other person's pain. It is really sick.

@joanmorgan5318

Жыл бұрын

@@patrickgreene2167 I don't know if they derive pleasure from others' suffering or that they just don't care. Fine line between a psychopath, narcissist, sociopath or soulless creatures. I am really cautious about being around people now. I feel for those in the workplace. It's such a treacherous environment. You just want to give them a wide berth. That's difficult in the workplace.

@TheDanno210

Жыл бұрын

I’ve always had a gift for quickly sensing and identifying NPD monsters. Sadly, my dad married one. Sweetest guy on the planet, the dude everyone universally loved, she easily manipulated him into everything she wanted including busting up my family for her own personal gain. Close to four decades later, she still has him wrapped around her finger, in a position of despising me - and pretty much everyone else in my massive extended family - at every turn, just because she very early on learned that I, and we collectively, will not be controlled or affected by her rampant narcissism. So she instead slowly turned him against everyone who actually truly loved the man, by eroding his confidence in them since he was so easily malleable to her. NPDs are monsters, there’s no nice way of describing them. Sound like any other orange monster you know of?

@TheresaLyonhart

Жыл бұрын

@@TheDanno210 Absolutely. I’m so sorry, Dan. I’m going through something similar but with my dead husband’s sick family. I never thought I would be going through what I am. I trusted my husband. I’ll never trust anyone, again.

@Gobble_de_Goop

9 ай бұрын

​@@TheDanno210- Your description actually sounds exactly like Meghan Markle.

Some excellent points made here. About not giving up on lies. But rather doubling down, for instance. Experience.

What’s scary is that when it’s pointed out you say “oh yeah” and it seems a lot more obvious. Whilst I can say I thought a lot of her traits were odd it’s in retrospect I can say it makes sense. As other have pointed out, things like her “stare” jump out at you but enough people believed her to overlook it.

Compulsive liars will practically defend their lie to the death. It’s crazy.

@francisbacon4363

3 жыл бұрын

It's not our fault we just can't give up the lie

@wrestlinghe2638

3 жыл бұрын

@@francisbacon4363 that's a lie isn't it

@francisbacon4363

3 жыл бұрын

@@wrestlinghe2638 nope this is actually true, I have a compulsion to not stop lying even if there's a gun to my head many times my father would beat me if I didn't stop lying and I never stopped lying and I never will, because it's an integral part of society

@wrestlinghe2638

3 жыл бұрын

@@francisbacon4363 Ladies and gentlemen, we got em.

@lh7369

3 жыл бұрын

My sister is like this

billions of dollars and she still didnt take care of that dry hair

@voguexperimental

5 жыл бұрын

lmao bro

@wadewalker118

5 жыл бұрын

Danilo Ferraz 😂😂😂

@toweypat

5 жыл бұрын

Well it's not like she's a biologist or--oh.

@gabia.575

5 жыл бұрын

and couldnt hire a personal makeup artist

@marlonhoyte5285

5 жыл бұрын

No you didn't 😂😅

Such a great video. When I was younger, it took me a while to figure people out. Now, I've got them sussed in 30 min conversation.

I believe my ex was a narcissist. They were obsessed with image, being perceived as perfect, and constantly lied to everyone around them, including me, in order to keep their bloated sense of self secure. They lied to me even from before we started dating. They were also charming, and managed to attract all sorts of people. Once they realized they couldn’t control me, things got ugly and I got genuinely scared, my gut feeling screamed at me to get out of the place we were in and never look back. I’m not being very detailed here but it was truly one of the most awful experiences in my life. I don’t wish upon nobody that they ever cross a narcissist.

Clicking on this video: "Cool, I'm going to learn how to spot a narcissist." After watching: "Am I a narcissist?"

@afiqikkeri7958

5 жыл бұрын

😂😂

@lookingfortruth1930

5 жыл бұрын

Gianna Williams 👍🏿

@freeyourselfmorowa9243

5 жыл бұрын

We all are narcissist to a certain extent...some are just more narcissistic than others (think of narcissism as a spectrum)

@panko6632

5 жыл бұрын

@Ange Lom I don't agree with you, narcissists ask this question to themselves, but they don't find being a narcissist is a wrong thing. (sorry for my broken english, It isn't my first language)

@allme2547

5 жыл бұрын

@Ange Lom That is not a true statement at all. Narcissism is a scale, and just because someone has that facet to them doesn't mean they also don't have things like a conscience or lack self-assessment. It may be less likely that a narcissistic person will own up to shortcomings or weaknesses but they are more than capable of questioning their own behaviors and even coming to the realization and acceptance that they are narcissistic. But there are plenty of other mental and personality disorders that can co-exist alongside narcissism which fall into line more closely with what you're describing

Anyone else feel on edge even when telling the truth? Mainly out of fear of not being believed I think.

@hannahmichaels9992

4 жыл бұрын

yes! I thought I was the only one

@thisisdk7859

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah sometimes

@KarmasAbutch

4 жыл бұрын

Samantha Atori its also that you’ve been gaslit so much if u have a crazy parent and they set u up to not be believable.

@-._.-KRiS-._.-

4 жыл бұрын

It's like that feeling when a police officer is behind your vehicle and you know you're not doing anything wrong but you get nervous that you're doing something wrong anyway.

@Shadow77999

4 жыл бұрын

Yeeeess exactly. And get even more anxious by thinking that nervousness will make me look like im lying

People skills and confidence attracts people because you make them feel sure about you when you are sure about yourself and you show that you’re making an effort which is the secret to it all just making an effort. You’re able to see beyond yourself

I think it's often also about their eyes. Always wide opened and that gaze.

I think ppl underestimate how many ppl are compulsive liars in everyday life...

4 жыл бұрын

Me MyselfandI - The influence of mass media.

@jakerojas5888

4 жыл бұрын

Lawyers , doctors, salesmen ... all have to lie Everyday.

@simoneb3830

4 жыл бұрын

Compulsive liars are people who lie about things with no outcome. They just lie for the sake of lying. They can’t help it

@austininflorida

4 жыл бұрын

@@jakerojas5888 Out of curiosity, what do doctors lie about? Certainly some are corrupt, but for most I don't think there is a strong incentive to be dishonest.

@glorymanheretosleep

4 жыл бұрын

@@austininflorida They lie about the oath they took to treat everyone the same and provide care to all.

You can tell just looking at her eyes, something is off. Borderline crazy.

@jessiehermit9503

5 жыл бұрын

No borderline- Full On.

@fbi855

5 жыл бұрын

True

@Vincisomething

5 жыл бұрын

I knew this one guy who had this weird fake smile one time. It was like they read a book on how to smile and tried it out. You'd think to picture someone smiling with dead eyes, but they were also forcing their eyes to smile. It was so creepy. He'd even do what I call "personality appropriation." He would copy the behaviors, vernacular, and even colloquialisms of people near them. Even if you knew him for a short time, you had a feeling they were copying you and not in a flattering way. If he wasn't copying someone directly, there was alway something he was copying. His default mode was copying what I'd describe as an 18th century vampire. He'd use big words and sentences that you knew weren't natural to him plus there was a lot of word salad (his sentences made 0 sense, but he'd try to act like he was just too smart for you). And if you brought up something he clearly didn't get, he'd try to act like he did. And not in a "I'm just going to agree so we move on", but in a "look how smart I am -but really not- " way.

@mt-zf6xp

5 жыл бұрын

@@Vincisomething have we met?

@foxiefair123

4 жыл бұрын

No, not crazy at all, just a psychopath. She knows what she’s doing...

i'm more off put by someone who is so comfortable saying anything with such silk smooth words.

Watching the video so I can learn to mask the trait and become even more deceiving, thanks youtube ❤

The best way to deal with a narcissist, sociopath or psychopath is to stop communicating with them.

@Radagast-

3 жыл бұрын

Trouble is, you've got to identify them first.

@hotdog7988

3 жыл бұрын

@@Radagast- First thing you do is see if she has a wedding ring on

@rosiem2585

3 жыл бұрын

This makes them worse

@user-sv3kf4qz3w

3 жыл бұрын

Run away never look back

@user-sv3kf4qz3w

3 жыл бұрын

@@Radagast- the three act the same with minor differences

Having spent a couple of years living with a real manipulator, and having worked with a narcissist for even longer, I suspect that one of the reasons their lies can be so convincing is that they BELIEVE those lies themselves - so in their minds, they're actually telling you the truth.

@jkm8741

Жыл бұрын

Thats an interesting theory. I have worked for two narcissists. One male and one female. My female boss was adamant she was right all the time, even when she was obviously wrong. She would keep going until you were worn down and just agree with her, for a quiet life. My male boss is just as bad. He is a bully and enjoys picking on people. I have worked out his strategy, especially when new staff join. He is charismatic and charming to them. Praising them and laughing and joking. At the same time he is being awful to the rest of the staff. Bigging up the newcomer. The newcomer thinks he is great and the rest of the staff are just moaning. So he causes a divide between the staff. This goes on for a few weeks, then he strikes. He belittles and humiliates the new employee. Undermines their confidence that he has spent weeks building up. I call it separating the prey from the herd before he strikes They then see his true colours. Then they are welcomed into the protection of herd and he is left the bitter and despised person that he is. He disgusts me. Sorry for rambling 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@rheamickens80

Жыл бұрын

I think that is true a lot of the time when dealing with a narcissist. I think just like everything else, there are levels to narcissism, as well as any other condition. Extreme cases of narcissism the narcissist is very similar to someone who is completely delusional , they have told the same stories down to the finest details so habitually that they actually do believe that it's the truth. They might even have conjured actual memories of these events. A lot of people don't realize what manifests narcissism in the first place. It's a very deep-seated insecurity and self loathing that essentially led to creating an alternate version of themselves.

@livableincome

Жыл бұрын

My ex was like that. Lived in an alternate universe and believed it. But unlike a delusional person, he created his realities so he could always be right, be the focus of everything, be sympathized with. Leaving him was indeed the best thing I ever did.

@livableincome

Жыл бұрын

@@jkm8741 That is a good description. Not rambling.

@jonathonwearn1098

Жыл бұрын

George Costanza taught us that it's not a lie, if you believe it. Lol.

Working with a narcissist is a stinkin nightmare! I’m glad that chapter is over!

I’ve learned enough about this topic from your video to sense the BS in the ad at the end

Narcissists are narcissistic 100% of the time. They dont take breaks. If it seems like they're changing its because they're just trying a new strategy. They won't stop though. EVER!

@GhinZun

4 жыл бұрын

You are so right, and that's skearing when the narcissist or psichopat is someone you need to deal with for a long period of your life, as a family member, the father of mother of your child.... 😔

@HBK360MUSIC

4 жыл бұрын

Seems pretty narcissistic to claim to know how a person conducts themselves 100% of the time

@bonerpants7203

4 жыл бұрын

People are capable of change. Not everyone, not even the majority, of people are willing to change. But people are capable of change.

@GhinZun

4 жыл бұрын

@@bonerpants7203 I believe that people who want to change are capable of changing, for sure. But, in my experience with narcissists and psichopaths is that they don't want to change anything, they see their actions (even when they are clearly hurting others) as perfectly fine. They like the game they play, lying, making triangulations... they have fun with it and do not see it as a bad thing, they know they are hurting people, but as they don't have empathic capacities, they don't care. Hurting is not a moral problem for them.

@pasqualetartaglia9639

4 жыл бұрын

True

"you're probably going to encounter some of them [narcissists] in your life" *rolls eyes and sighs* ...yeah... too late

@bobo7514

5 жыл бұрын

Youre cringey

@bobo7514

5 жыл бұрын

Youre even more cringey

@jimmyog

5 жыл бұрын

Yessenya Davis you rated ur own comment up, no comment needed

@bobo7514

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao that wasn't even me, watch ima like my own comment and its gonna go up to 2

@jimmyog

5 жыл бұрын

Yessenya Davis people agree with my comment bc they have life experiences. It’s not cringe u ignorant toddler

I’ve always had a gift for quickly sensing and identifying NPD monsters. Sadly, my dad married one. Sweetest guy on the planet, the dude everyone universally loved, she easily manipulated him into everything she wanted including busting up my family for her own personal gain. Close to four decades later, she still has him wrapped around her finger, in a position of despising me - and pretty much everyone else in my massive extended family - at every turn, just because she very early on learned that I, and we collectively, will not be controlled or affected by her rampant narcissism. So she instead slowly turned him against everyone who actually truly loved the man, by eroding his confidence in them since he was so easily malleable to her. NPDs are monsters, there’s no nice way of describing them. Sound like any other orange monster you know of?

Watching this to hide my narcissism better

Oh my God her slipping in and out of baritone was goddamn terrifying.

@oof5020

3 жыл бұрын

Plus the eyes. Like a faulty android from the future. edit: just realized how conspiracy like that sounds. I mean it, as in a Sci fi movie.

@alsnow1049

3 жыл бұрын

More like a scareatone am I right

@angelaharwood416

3 жыл бұрын

@@alsnow1049 😂😂

@alsnow1049

3 жыл бұрын

@@angelaharwood416 low hanging fruit 😁

@angelaharwood416

3 жыл бұрын

@@alsnow1049 I love a good pun lol

There is *nothing* more tiring than being in the presence of a narcissist.

@MichelleOsorio

3 жыл бұрын

Truth

@reinapatricia6717

Жыл бұрын

They drain all your energy!

Recovering from being groomed by a narcissistic boss. They subtly manipulated my normal desire to succeed and perform at my role to pressure me into making questionable choices. Others on the team picked up quicker but eventually I was able to open my eyes. And then the facade dropped and it was shocking how much the pathological lying ramped up. In a way, I’m grateful this happened so I’m never as trusting and alert to warning signs. Glad to see the execs slowly come to the same conclusion, so that person eventually had to “resign”. Phew!

So you tell people not to worry about their image but try to shove a course in their face about how to look after their image. 🤦‍♀️

I have known two narcissists. I can now spot them a mile away. One thing I have noticed, is they can also be the most charming and charismatic people going. You really need to be on full alert around them and never switch off. Its like being in the jungle and sleeping with one eye open. I have to admit I do find them quite fascinating the way they think and manipulate people. Also never think you can change them. You won't, just get them out of your life..and quick.

@jahfaricoumarbatch3947

Жыл бұрын

its unfortunate because this is most definitely my mother. at least im in college now

@philippaferguson1327

Жыл бұрын

I am proud to say that I survived nearly half my life by defending myself from a violent narcissistic sociopathic creature. I feel I deserve a medal.

@jkm8741

Жыл бұрын

@@philippaferguson1327 You do Philippa. The two that I know, were both my bosses. My nerves were shred. I cant even imagine living with them. Keep making a better life for yourself. The courage it must have taken to leave, shows you are one strong lady. Take care hon xx

@jkm8741

Жыл бұрын

@@jahfaricoumarbatch3947 Take the opportunity to make the best life you can. THEY are the issue and never let them believe it you. Keep going and never look back. Wishing you all the best x

@jahfaricoumarbatch3947

Жыл бұрын

@@jkm8741 🙏🏾

She would do great working as a politician

@deadgrape5704

3 жыл бұрын

This whole video I was thinking that he was just describing trump lol

@shirleyperry3170

3 жыл бұрын

@@deadgrape5704 , 100%!

@deadgrape5704

3 жыл бұрын

@Bjj Fan ok

@tat3179

3 жыл бұрын

@Bjj Fan Nothing funnier than a butthurt Trumptard who can't accept that Trump lost. Bigly.

@LA2047

3 жыл бұрын

All she has to do is coddle white nationalists and hate immigrants and she could become president.

After seeing the end of this video, I recalled that guy: "I'm a dude playing a dude disguised as another dude".

I found out that my ex-boss was a liar, and just watched her closely when she’s lying. It was effortless to her. Amazing…

She has crazy eyes, like Mark Z, and Jeff B. Same droney stare... wtf why

@Elven.

3 жыл бұрын

It's called the reptilian look, because their eyes reflect nothing. Narcissists have that chilling look and can also mask it

@WalterEKurtz-kp2jf

3 жыл бұрын

Lizard people

@topgrain

3 жыл бұрын

Trump's demonic eyes also come to mind.

@Elven.

3 жыл бұрын

@@topgrain if you lived with a narcissist then you see Trump, you immediately see he's one himself. They all share a kind of same essence, it's a shame half of the US is being gaslighted

@jmlkhan5153

3 жыл бұрын

Spartan Elf it honestly feels like the half that keeps randomly bringing up one person for every topic is maybe gaslighting themselves

I have suffered narcissistic abuse since I was young and didnt realize what it was till I was older. Recovering from that sort of trauma and abuse is very difficult.

@martelly55

4 жыл бұрын

Very true, time and separation is powerful. I went through that abuse with my mother.

@derherrdirektor9686

4 жыл бұрын

It's an disorder. They are ill. Abuse implies that they know what they are doing. As far as I reckon that's the line that separates narcissism from sociopathy.

@mikahong

4 жыл бұрын

@@derherrdirektor9686 illness doesnt excuse abuse plus one can have an illness and still be an abuser. So theres that, narcissistic abuse is one of the most traumatizing things that can happen.

@joes2041

4 жыл бұрын

In the same boat, try having your dad, and all your three siblings being narcissistic. We’re all not in contact anymore and I’m just thriving so much!

@ms.x1669

4 жыл бұрын

Same. My parent is a narcissist. It's hell.

I had a friend who is a pthaological liar, and after I started calling him out on his bs, and confronting him with it, he would try, and I would tell him then I'll go home, he would admit. Eventually I'd told him I don't want to hang out with him anymore cause I can't believe a dang word he says anymore. He simply agreed and said he understands. I was still young back then, and now when I think of it, it's kind of sad actually.

You break the system when you finally have come to a specific time in your life when you realise that all this time everyone thinks that everyone else is a narcissist exect from them.

She looks like a female Mark Zuckerberg

@bigshaq712

4 жыл бұрын

Ye and she lies like him too

@Derperfier

4 жыл бұрын

She wants to be*

@farhansiddiq7826

4 жыл бұрын

Female lizard

@LordMalice6d9

4 жыл бұрын

The same lifeless, artificial, blank stare expression too.

@dark3rthanshadows

4 жыл бұрын

those death eyes scare the fuck out me

1) Having the world view them in a way that strokes their ego 2) Lie about ridiculous things 3) Sees video description 4) There is already a list with timestamps 5) I wasted my time

@miranda.cooper

5 жыл бұрын

Hey it was a good laugh reading from 3 on

@notme1797

5 жыл бұрын

@@xkultra did big pump?

@LadyVoldemort

5 жыл бұрын

You didn't waste your time. You gave me a good laugh. Thanks!

@TaskerFilms

5 жыл бұрын

Wow this is truly a great comment

@davemarx7856

5 жыл бұрын

😊 you're funny

Damn, I must be pretty lucky to have grown up with a father who is a narcissist and a mother who is a pathological liar. I should go out and buy my first lottery ticket!

always good to know when the next person is a narc

Narcissism is something everyone should learn so that they can avoid these people. Most importantly, avoid becoming one.

@ronniacherry

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly, especially the last part.

@adampaula1863

5 жыл бұрын

But how would one know himself.. is not a narcissism.

@amazings500

4 жыл бұрын

don't worry it's pretty hard to become a narcissist you're all good

@randy7720

4 жыл бұрын

U mom gae Am I a narcissistic now?

@MrCmon113

4 жыл бұрын

You can't become a narcissist unless you receive some severe and specific brain damage.

Ego is the most important entity in a narcissists life. Walking away and being ghosted is the most devastating thing a narcissist can experience. They never get over it. Do not suffer a narcissist. Move on with your life. Life is to be enjoyed, not suffered unnecessarily.

@peaceglory5973

Жыл бұрын

They get over it as soon as they find their next victim to leach off of.

@jt2473

Жыл бұрын

Well Said!!!!!

@burnerjack01

Жыл бұрын

@@jt2473 2 days ago, a friend of mine explained what a narcissist is: "A narcissist is someone who demands you give up everything to be their nothing." Blew me away.

@amphibiouscs7259

Жыл бұрын

So a person is not suppose to have an ego?

@peaceglory5973

Жыл бұрын

@@amphibiouscs7259 The ego with narcs is way over inflated. It isn't a healthy sense of ego. Complete lack of empathy for others, it is all about them.

Eyes rarely blinks!

I was talking to this man once and his eyes turned black and immediately got creeped out and than his eyes went back to normal. It was like he went into a dark place than came out of it. I never saw that in my life and I was like … stay away from this man. It still freaks me out.